end_time,start_time,words,speaker,session_id 00:00:43.82,00:00:40.60,"[laughs] It's the blue, I think. I think.",P05,S02 00:01:12.97,00:01:10.11,Okay. [laughs],P05,S02 00:01:16.34,00:01:13.50,Let's do lunch. [laughs],P08,S02 00:01:15.88,00:01:14.00,Let's do lunch!,P06,S02 00:01:19.08,00:01:14.37,"[laughs] Okay, so here's the pie.",P05,S02 00:01:23.32,00:01:19.43,"Can I help with anything? Wow, that looks good.",P08,S02 00:01:22.50,00:01:20.48,Um yeah. [noise],P05,S02 00:01:23.80,00:01:23.24,Since we,P05,S02 00:01:34.35,00:01:23.80,"Hales, did you put the is the oven heating, or did you put it off cuz it was too hot? Okay.",P06,S02 00:01:34.57,00:01:28.25,No I left it on. It's preheated. So all we gotta do is brush it with egg white and then put it in.,P05,S02 00:01:36.02,00:01:35.06,Awesome.,P08,S02 00:01:43.14,00:01:35.51,"Okay. Um. I think I use only the yolk, right? The recipe is on my computer. [laughs] Is that how you do egg wash?",P05,S02 00:01:56.85,00:01:41.00,"Yeah, let's stick to the, take it with you. Yeah, you have to whisk it though , right? Great, thank you for experimenting with the food, also. [laughs] It'll be delici- ",P06,S02 00:01:48.36,00:01:44.82,"Usually it's the yolk, yeah. Mhm.",P08,S02 00:01:47.23,00:01:45.86,[laughs] Yeah right. Okay.,P05,S02 00:01:50.17,00:01:48.20,"Uh, like fork? Does that work?",P05,S02 00:01:56.45,00:01:52.62,[laughs] You're welcome. It will be great.,P05,S02 00:01:56.02,00:01:52.84,[laughs] It'll be delicious.,P08,S02 00:02:05.46,00:01:58.34,"And if not, Cheetos for everyone. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:02:05.04,00:01:59.77,[laughs] Yeah [laughs],P05,S02 00:02:06.57,00:01:59.94,"[laughs] That's why, that's why I put the Cheetos out that way. [noise]",P06,S02 00:02:14.56,00:02:05.92,"Preheat oven to three hundred and seventy five degrees. Whisk cream and egg yolk in a small bowl. So one large egg yolk, one tablespoon of heavy cream. They told me whipping cream is the same, right?",P05,S02 00:02:21.12,00:02:14.62,"Yeah, it's the same. I don't, I actually haven't seen heavy cream in Canada. I only see whipping cream.",P08,S02 00:02:15.71,00:02:15.34,K,P05,S02 00:02:20.09,00:02:19.67,Really?,P05,S02 00:02:22.80,00:02:21.04,I hope you got heavy cream the other day.,P05,S02 00:02:31.75,00:02:21.31,"That is it. No boo, I got whipping cream. Yeah, yeah, I got whipping cream. It's the same thing. it's the same thing.",P06,S02 00:02:30.24,00:02:22.88,"You did? Right? Like, they don't call it heavy cream, right? It's the same thing, yeah.",P08,S02 00:02:38.26,00:02:24.45,"No, I s, really? Oh. I had to ask random people in the grocery store. [laughs] Okay, so how do you do which just the yolk? Last time I did it [inaudible 0:02:34.24] over the sink and then I carried it. Yeah? [inaudible 0:02:37.04] me.",P05,S02 00:02:41.70,00:02:34.18,Uh that's right. Yeah. Yeah. I'll just bring the bowl over to you if you want. Do you want me to do it? Okay. [laughs],P08,S02 00:02:46.55,00:02:39.91,"[laughs] And then one tablespoon. We have to eye, because we don't have um",P05,S02 00:02:41.85,00:02:40.91,[noise],P06,S02 00:02:55.15,00:02:47.45,Tablespoon measuring things. You good? You want a drink? Okay. Iced tea?,P05,S02 00:03:04.08,00:02:47.62,"[inaudible 0:02:47.62] Yeah, um. Yeah, please. Chris, do you want anything to drink? Iced tea, coke. Or what else do we have? Iced tea, Pepsi, is that all we have boo? [noise]",P06,S02 00:03:10.13,00:02:57.91,"Pepsi. we have a V eight [laughs] and we have iced tea. We can make a lemon, do we have a lemonade still? And we have water.",P05,S02 00:03:12.57,00:03:07.74,"Yeah, we've got everything. Iced tea boo, for me too.",P06,S02 00:03:17.46,00:03:08.62,"Oh, that's not a disposal. Uh. iced. is it sugared iced tea, or just",P08,S02 00:03:10.35,00:03:09.14,I'll just have an iced tea.,P07,S02 00:03:20.26,00:03:10.75,Okay. [laughs] Okay. Two iced teas. Dolly? [noise] I think so. Abhi?,P05,S02 00:03:22.34,00:03:21.33,[inaudible 0:03:21.31],P06,S02 00:03:28.14,00:03:22.00,"It's, uh, from one of the frozen cans so that makes me think yes. Okay.",P05,S02 00:03:39.38,00:03:26.30,"Uh, I'll have water. Um, do you want me to just put this in the garbage? [laughs]",P08,S02 00:03:49.97,00:03:32.97,"Um. here, compost. [laughs] We've never composted until Vancouver. [laughs] Got it, perfect. Then we have to do a tablespoon of um. I shouldn't bend over in front of the cameras.",P05,S02 00:03:42.62,00:03:39.38,Okay. Yep.,P08,S02 00:03:46.92,00:03:45.96,Thank you.,P07,S02 00:03:50.60,00:03:49.17,We can't see [inaudible 0:03:49.93],P06,S02 00:03:51.26,00:03:49.20,I always just eye it.,P08,S02 00:03:58.02,00:03:50.44, [laughs] Yeah. Table spoon. I'll get you a fork. [laughs],P05,S02 00:04:05.75,00:03:58.45,[laughs] Looks like a good tablespoon. [laughs] Let's put a dot in it. [laughs],P05,S02 00:04:38.42,00:04:20.44,"That he hasn't got a lawyer, not a lawyer, a doctor, who's a brilliant doctor, like, everyone's recommended for like the field that he's in, but he's like a child when it comes to like his organization of life, so like to get in touch with him is nearly impossible, but",P06,S02 00:04:37.82,00:04:25.76,Really? Well that makes sense. I thought you meant to whisk it at first. Okay. [inaudible 0:04:31.33] paper towel. I had to do something the other day with oil.,P05,S02 00:04:46.60,00:04:34.04,"Okay. Yeah. Well she's got a system, like, she's got a, well, so like, it's weird when you talk to her, because you go on her website, you fill out like a form, it feels very impersonal.",P07,S02 00:04:58.08,00:04:42.34,"I always forget to buy, um, like, the cooking spray at the grocery store, and I often use paper towel with like olive oil or butter and just wipe it all inside. So I assume egg wash is the same. Oh, sorry.",P08,S02 00:04:46.00,00:04:44.80,Okay.,P06,S02 00:04:59.96,00:04:46.64,"The form goes to her admin, and then it eventually it makes its way to her. As far as I know, it's just her and her admin, but she, she's always like ranked first in Google for border lawyers. I think she actually owns a website myborderlawyer.com.",P07,S02 00:04:48.46,00:04:47.71,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:05:01.88,00:04:53.26,Oh. That makes sense. Yeah. All right. Figuring things out. [laughs],P05,S02 00:04:58.11,00:04:57.13,Okay,P06,S02 00:05:07.88,00:04:59.96,"So she, so she seems kind of spammy, right, and it's, but uh, she is really good. it's, it's, it's",P07,S02 00:05:06.64,00:05:01.11,"I might have seen that, actually. Okay. Okay.",P06,S02 00:05:12.64,00:05:04.32,"I dropped egg in my toes. [laughs] It will be okay. I'm a messy, messy cook. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:05:08.20,00:05:05.08,Oh thanks. [laughs] [inaudible 0:05:07.22],P05,S02 00:05:16.97,00:05:06.65,"No, I'm just in that, I mean for me, just cuz I am, like, myself very, very OCD and very, like, particular. I don't like when people don't respond to you.",P06,S02 00:05:09.60,00:05:08.20,[laughs],P05,S02 00:05:12.17,00:05:10.20,[inaudible 0:05:10.20],P05,S02 00:05:17.00,00:05:12.42,Mhm. [noise] Mhm. [noise],P07,S02 00:05:27.20,00:05:16.36,"Abhi, you might have. No, [inaudible 0:05:18.11] I was going to say ""Abhi, you have to do something in the kitchen probably for a little bit"". This is a lot. Really?",P05,S02 00:05:33.64,00:05:16.97,"Like, you know, you know what I mean, like irregardless of what someone. No. Okay. I mean regardless, regardless whether it's, it's something unimportant to me or important to me, like even Hales and I were looking at apartments, right? Oh yeah.",P06,S02 00:05:23.88,00:05:17.04,"No, I'm the same way. I, I don't don't tolerate it. Do you have, did I give you her phone number? You can call her. Okay.",P07,S02 00:05:40.06,00:05:25.06,"Yeah, you probably won't use it all. Yeah, I would just, like, wipe it like, yeah, like that. Yes, exactly, exactly like that. Like paint. [laughs] Yeah.",P08,S02 00:05:39.57,00:05:30.22,"[laughs] My cooking skills. So Abhi's like ""Are you sure you don't want me to cook?"" I'm like ""Abhi, I can cook, I just follow a recipe"". [laughs]",P05,S02 00:05:34.85,00:05:33.64,"I said Hales and i were looking, were looking at apartments and went to look at six of them, and",P06,S02 00:05:36.28,00:05:33.70,All right. We need to take it down.,P07,S02 00:05:39.40,00:05:38.62,Right.,P07,S02 00:05:57.97,00:05:39.95,"I didn't owe any of them a response, but I still will respond to every single one of them, and say ""Hey, we found something else, not interested any more"" Whether it makes a difference to them or not, that's just the person I am, and if I get, if I get a message or an email, like I'm so particular, I will respond and make sure, you know, like",P06,S02 00:05:48.04,00:05:40.80,"It's kind of like painting it so that it turns out golden. Makes it flakier, too.",P08,S02 00:05:45.24,00:05:43.97,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:05:45.72,00:05:44.98,Right.,P07,S02 00:05:51.14,00:05:49.40,[noise],P07,S02 00:06:07.82,00:05:51.81,"Hopefully it'll be pretty. Cherry something. bocconcini, which I didn't know was a type of. Okay, I think that's all, let me throw it in. So it's fine to not use the extra sauce? Oh okay.",P05,S02 00:05:55.96,00:05:54.40,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:06:07.70,00:05:54.93,"What is it called? Oh yeah. What is it? Bocconcini. [inaudible 0:06:50204] looks good. yeah, you don't have to use the rest of it.",P08,S02 00:06:10.80,00:05:58.17,"We're in discussion about our tiny house, right, you know, but we're delaying it right now so we sent her a message but when we got here, now, last week, I was like, ""Hales, we haven't updated her in a month, let's update her, saying that""",P06,S02 00:06:00.65,00:05:59.87,Right.,P07,S02 00:06:18.48,00:06:07.82,"Um, Abhi, you're saying just put it on the thing? It said use a rimmed baking sheet but we don't have one. Just put it on? No, foil's not gonna make a difference.",P05,S02 00:06:15.62,00:06:10.97,"What's that? Yeah, i don't think you need to, just put it on foil if you want [inaudible 0:06:15.17].",P06,S02 00:06:34.98,00:06:16.37,"So, you know, just things like that, sorry man, I I I went to, uh, I've been Where's my phone [inaudible 0:06:22.66] It's in my pocket, it's in a pocket. [inaudible 0:06:26.00] Can you just, just read it out to me [noise]? Or right or maybe better I just take it, given, but um.",P06,S02 00:06:35.34,00:06:23.40,"Should be on the table in front of you. [laughs] Okay. Uh, eight forty five. Well I figure if we have to spend this time in the kitchen anyways we'll put together something else.",P05,S02 00:06:29.42,00:06:25.60,[noise] Excellent.,P08,S02 00:06:33.25,00:06:30.45,[laughs],P07,S02 00:06:47.80,00:06:35.33,"Yeah, so that kind of, I mean, uh, her doctor's had four or five days, you leave four or five messages with his, with his assistant and then",P06,S02 00:06:39.27,00:06:38.29,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:06:46.78,00:06:39.02,"You're right. If you want, I can cut up the desserts and put 'em in the fridge. Okay. Oh great.",P08,S02 00:06:54.64,00:06:42.62,"That works. We've got fruit, too, that we can have as a side, and we've got um lettuce and nuts to throw together a salad, just a side. Yes.",P05,S02 00:07:04.56,00:06:49.40,"Which I think is ridiculous when it's a doctor, you know what I mean? It's like, it's like how do you get in touch with this person. Luckily he's like, you know, in a field of medicine where it's usually not an emergency, it's not like, you're not gonna live or die, or you know what I mean, it's not life or death usually.",P06,S02 00:06:53.61,00:06:51.69,"I know. Yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 00:07:05.66,00:06:52.26,"Are there plates in here? Okay cool, I'm just gonna use two. Whoops. It's good.",P08,S02 00:07:01.45,00:06:58.51,Turning my phone off. Okay.,P05,S02 00:07:03.91,00:07:02.59,"Right, yeah.",P07,S02 00:07:17.98,00:07:04.56,"But i still think it's [inaudible 0:07:06.56]. Sorry? Uh [laughs] no, no [laughs] um, yes, yes, I love that, I love I love that episode.",P06,S02 00:07:18.74,00:07:05.91,"Okay, this is the chopper. Somewhere. [laughs] Hmm, fancy knife or little one? Excellent.",P05,S02 00:07:21.73,00:07:07.24,"Is he a dermatologist? Is he a dermatologist? [laughs] Have you seen that Seinfeld episode? He's like, ""Hey, pimple pincher!"" [laughs]",P07,S02 00:07:18.04,00:07:09.34,"And could I have a knife? [laughs] Oh, whatever. Thanks.",P08,S02 00:07:22.68,00:07:20.58,Eight four seventeen.,P06,S02 00:07:31.80,00:07:22.17,"Um I'm gonna put the pies in, I'm gonna do the light side salad and fruit and just chop stuff up, so you might just wanna come in and out.",P05,S02 00:07:38.36,00:07:32.08,"Oh no. Although we're gonna come, we're gonna come there. Yeah, let's sit at the table.",P06,S02 00:07:44.07,00:07:32.23,"We're not obeying, we're not obeying the rules. We're supposed to be in the kitchen, but we're not doing it. Should we sit at the table? Okay, I'll sit at the table. Okay. [noise] All right.",P07,S02 00:07:44.11,00:07:34.53,"I know. [laughs] Yeah. Then you're near to the kitchen, and if it gets hot we can put the fan on you know, cuz I know the oven is",P05,S02 00:07:54.50,00:07:40.08,"Um. No, it's fine. Um. I got it. And, uh, no, so I didn't get a, I didn't get a response which kind of, but then [inaudible 0:07:52.00] we spoke to my aunt.",P06,S02 00:07:47.01,00:07:46.35,"Sweet, thanks.",P07,S02 00:08:04.35,00:07:54.51,"Um. We spoke to my aunt, a few days ago, I mean Haley spoke to her, and she used to do immigration law.",P06,S02 00:08:00.81,00:08:00.05,[noise],P07,S02 00:08:04.83,00:08:04.19,Oh yeah.,P07,S02 00:08:17.50,00:08:04.86,"Um. But now she does translation services, and refugee services together in in a firm in Toronto, so. Yeah.",P06,S02 00:08:11.11,00:08:09.37,Okay. [noise],P05,S02 00:08:27.05,00:08:10.21,"[noise] Yeah. The thing that, the thing I like about Teri is um, you know, it's not like she like goes to court or anything, there's no court, you know what I mean, there's just applications, and the applications are designed for you the applicant to fill them out yourself, right?",P07,S02 00:08:28.02,00:08:13.16,"I don't know, I just cut these up, so. I cut them up, but I don't want them to look like two loaves, so I'm just gonna mess them up. Yeah, of course. Can eat them or not.",P08,S02 00:08:34.85,00:08:15.77,"What? Oh. Thanks for getting those. Mmm. Would you guys prefer like a ma, pre-made dressing, or do you want just like an oil and vinegar?",P05,S02 00:08:23.54,00:08:22.72,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:08:43.41,00:08:27.06,"Where she comes in, and she's really good at teaching you how to word things, and like, she's good at drafting, like, an accompanying letter, and she knows, she, she sort of knows how to write so that you read between the lines, like, a lot of the times there's uh, you know, there'll be like",P07,S02 00:08:46.80,00:08:35.00,"Oil and vinegar is fine. Perfect. I'm gonna taste one of these. Oh man, that, that is good. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:08:55.65,00:08:36.22,"And we have a lemon, too. We can add that. You good? [laughs] [inaudible 0:08:45.85] This is our make-shift garbage. It's just a bag. [laughs] What's going on? [inaudible 0:08:54.26]",P05,S02 00:08:37.92,00:08:36.42,What they're looking for.,P06,S02 00:08:59.49,00:08:43.46,"It'll ask you, it'll ask you a vaguely worded question, and it looks like the kind of question where it wants a simple answer but there isn't a simple answer, and so she's like, ""No, that's a trap, don't fill that out. Write See addendum"", and then she'll like draft an addendum, you know, [inaudible 0:08:58.28]",P07,S02 00:08:48.80,00:08:47.94,[noise],P06,S02 00:08:50.24,00:08:48.40,That is what's up. [laughs],P08,S02 00:08:51.84,00:08:51.28,[noise],P06,S02 00:08:59.93,00:08:57.36,"[noise] That what, that's what my",P06,S02 00:09:09.71,00:08:57.60,"Abhi? Where'd you put the big silver bowl? Or would I put it somewhere? Oh, just kidding. Thanks.",P05,S02 00:09:07.77,00:09:01.56,Big silver bowl? Isn't it right behind you in the,P06,S02 00:09:19.42,00:09:10.58,"[inaudible 0:09:10.58] I mean, anyways, I just wanted to have, I don't want to go through the whole procedure right now, right now it's just.",P06,S02 00:09:12.00,00:09:11.02,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:09:19.19,00:09:18.05,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:09:22.14,00:09:21.05,[noise],P07,S02 00:09:33.42,00:09:21.20,"[noise] [inaudible 0:09:22.60] get back to my aunt, put us in touch with someone who's an expert on the Canadian process cuz we're gonna do our, her permanent residence, basically.",P06,S02 00:09:26.25,00:09:25.35,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:09:33.29,00:09:29.41,Right. Yeah.,P07,S02 00:09:41.72,00:09:33.42,"So, we're having a chat with her I believe tomorrow or the day after, I don't know, it's in the calendar. Yeah.",P06,S02 00:09:37.52,00:09:36.30,[inaudible 0:09:36.30],P08,S02 00:09:38.82,00:09:37.62,Thank you.,P05,S02 00:09:48.14,00:09:37.77,"I have a feeling the U.S. CIS is pretty backed up, cuz, uh, I've been trying to, um, switch my green card from a full time green card to a commuter green card",P07,S02 00:09:47.55,00:09:45.08,"Do you want me to wrap it in Saran wrap, or just put it in the fridge?",P08,S02 00:09:59.55,00:09:48.16,"Which is something that should take like no more than two months to proce, it's like a very, very simple, simple category switch, and it's been in process for a year and a half. It should take sixty days.",P07,S02 00:10:00.02,00:09:49.42,"Abhi would wrap it, but I'm kind of a hippie chef. [laughs] He's not ruling the kitchen today. [laughs]",P05,S02 00:09:54.35,00:09:50.57,"I'm, [laughs] I'm like you. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:09:59.68,00:09:57.86,[laughs],P08,S02 00:10:07.39,00:10:00.23,"Like, e- , I actually just got another email this morning, saying, ""Okay, status update, there's no s- , there's no further action on your account, it's still under review"".",P07,S02 00:10:10.58,00:10:07.00,"Does it affect you, though? Because your other one's still active, right?",P06,S02 00:10:08.67,00:10:08.29,No.,P07,S02 00:10:14.45,00:10:10.11,"Yeah, my other one's permanent. I'm actually trying to downgrade my status. Like, I'm",P07,S02 00:10:15.46,00:10:10.94,Perfect. Okay. Is there anything else that needs chopping?,P08,S02 00:10:13.46,00:10:12.82,The room.,P05,S02 00:10:25.66,00:10:13.28,"Mkay. So but it's not, it's not like something that's gonna expire in three months before your trying renewal process. No, for, but I mean for us, we just, I mean for the States it's just a simple question, it's, it's her sister's wedding is on September thirtieth.",P06,S02 00:10:20.46,00:10:14.95,"The fruit. You can take the fruit out, there's strawberry, blueberry on the left, middle shelf.",P05,S02 00:10:18.59,00:10:16.59,"No, no. No.",P07,S02 00:10:22.45,00:10:18.75,[noise] Mhm.,P07,S02 00:10:21.84,00:10:19.14,"Uh, oh yeah, here.",P08,S02 00:10:26.32,00:10:21.16,There. Um. If we want we can have pear. [inaudible 0:10:25.50],P05,S02 00:10:25.73,00:10:25.13,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:10:41.97,00:10:25.70,"So it's, ""Can I go or can I not go?"" That's the question, so it's not a long drawn out, uh, complicated thing, it's simple. Can I go, can I not go, if I do have a return ticket and do say that it's, uh, you know, does it affect anything.",P06,S02 00:10:28.06,00:10:26.74,Um.,P05,S02 00:10:29.26,00:10:27.16,"Are you just gonna make it into, like, a little salad?",P08,S02 00:10:29.03,00:10:27.85,Right. Yeah.,P07,S02 00:10:33.12,00:10:28.66,Yeah. We can just do berry. Just strawberries and blueberry.,P05,S02 00:10:33.26,00:10:32.04,What about some grapes?,P08,S02 00:10:39.18,00:10:33.40,"Yeah, oh yeah, that's right. I forgot I got the grapes. [laughs] It's like, ""I know I got something else.""",P05,S02 00:10:36.63,00:10:34.49,[noise] Mhm. Mhm.,P07,S02 00:10:36.96,00:10:36.28,[laughs],P08,S02 00:10:41.35,00:10:40.61,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:10:50.41,00:10:42.67,"So that's the only conversation basically I wanna get across, I don't wanna do any other process for the States right now. The process I will do right now is for her here.",P06,S02 00:10:47.94,00:10:45.08,Do you like your grapes chopped or whole?,P08,S02 00:10:49.88,00:10:47.84,I like 'em halved.,P05,S02 00:10:48.73,00:10:48.11,Right.,P07,S02 00:10:50.72,00:10:49.58,Halved. Okay.,P08,S02 00:10:51.05,00:10:50.41,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:10:52.32,00:10:51.02,But whatever,P05,S02 00:11:01.19,00:10:51.21,"And to get her, see here it, if she wants to practice as a PT, uh she's gotta take the [inaudible 0:11:59.30] again, which I think is",P06,S02 00:10:53.82,00:10:52.38,Do you have a cutting board?,P08,S02 00:10:54.48,00:10:53.26,"Yes, right here.",P05,S02 00:10:55.18,00:10:54.76,Great.,P08,S02 00:10:56.78,00:10:55.50,Do I have the room?,P05,S02 00:10:56.93,00:10:56.05,[noise],P07,S02 00:11:07.61,00:10:57.87,"Right. Right. Is that hard though? I mean, is that, like, it sounds, it sounds onerous, but if she's been, if she's, if she's done years of study. Yeah.",P07,S02 00:11:04.62,00:11:01.98,What kind of bowl would you want this in?,P08,S02 00:11:03.83,00:11:02.89,Well [noise],P06,S02 00:11:09.10,00:11:03.88,"[noise] Just use one of these, this cabinet. It's just a white one.",P05,S02 00:11:23.49,00:11:05.30,"Yeah it is, it is, it is hard, because of the fact that the last time she wrote the American version of the exam she studied three months for it, so I mean it's like, it's like, uh, I mean, uh, uh, writing a GMAT or writing, you know anything like that, when you're in the zone, and you, you know",P06,S02 00:11:09.42,00:11:08.90,This one?,P08,S02 00:11:13.46,00:11:09.20,"Yeah, the white ones are pretty deep, so I feel like that would work. Sorry, babe.",P05,S02 00:11:13.90,00:11:11.42,"Oh, I see. Yeah. Sorry.",P08,S02 00:11:29.87,00:11:14.43,Mhm. [noise],P07,S02 00:11:17.36,00:11:16.14,Perfect.,P08,S02 00:11:35.39,00:11:23.71,"Even it, it depends on how fast you learn, and practice two weeks or practice three weeks, or at least in the zone, so that has to happen, one, and the second is she specialized in home health, so she's been doing home health for the last three years.",P06,S02 00:11:35.57,00:11:34.93,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:11:53.95,00:11:35.55,"And this exam does child, home, tha- , so it does all the, uh, oh, athletes, all the aspects which she's not even practiced with, practiced with in the last three years, so things that she'd have to go and refresh basically the entire entity of, of, of, o, of her education.",P06,S02 00:11:41.13,00:11:40.23,Mm.,P07,S02 00:11:41.38,00:11:40.26,Athletes.,P05,S02 00:11:47.52,00:11:43.86,"Spinal cord injury, like, stroke.",P05,S02 00:11:54.35,00:11:53.65,Mm.,P07,S02 00:12:01.99,00:11:54.27,"Uh, so it would be re-studying, basically, so it comes to the question of worth it or not worth it, um.",P06,S02 00:11:57.15,00:11:56.21,Mm.,P07,S02 00:11:57.48,00:11:56.64,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:12:00.61,00:11:59.89,Mm.,P07,S02 00:12:16.14,00:12:01.40,"And my friend just took it and failed the first, uh, two times, took it a third time and finally passed. Um, he's a PT from America, and he, uh, somebody just told me yesterday that the third time if you don't pass you don't get to take it again.",P05,S02 00:12:11.05,00:12:10.43,[noise],P07,S02 00:12:11.10,00:12:10.42,Wow.,P08,S02 00:12:21.77,00:12:16.09,"Mm. You're like, ""You are not a good PT."" [laughs] ""You are not allowed to""",P07,S02 00:12:23.26,00:12:16.14,"Like, it's just one, three and done. Yeah. You fail as a PT.",P05,S02 00:12:17.04,00:12:16.28,"Oh, you're kidding.",P08,S02 00:12:21.99,00:12:19.15,[laughs] You should never have passed.,P06,S02 00:12:31.41,00:12:23.09,"You should never have passed in the first place, but [noise] that being said, that being said, the positive part about it",P06,S02 00:12:25.57,00:12:24.83,Mm.,P07,S02 00:12:29.32,00:12:26.72,"So that makes me a little nervous, too.",P05,S02 00:12:40.49,00:12:32.03,"About this, this border, and this, this side versus that side is here it's simpler to things like a PR. Once she gets a PR she can do whatever she wants.",P06,S02 00:12:40.65,00:12:39.03,[noise] Right.,P07,S02 00:12:52.45,00:12:41.13,"Right, well, on the other side the only way that you can get in apart from your situation where you're married or you have a business X Y Z, or [inaudible 0:12:49.80] yeah, or through marriage, yeah",P06,S02 00:12:47.58,00:12:44.00,"This is really fun. I like cooking and stuff, so",P08,S02 00:12:46.56,00:12:45.52,[laughs],P05,S02 00:12:50.66,00:12:47.16,[laughs] I'm being recorded. [laughs],P05,S02 00:12:59.42,00:12:48.64,"[laughs] Well. [laughs] That part's a little interesting. But you know what, it's like, what if you were to be cast on a reality TV show one day? [laughs]",P08,S02 00:12:57.25,00:12:49.27,"No, I just, I got in through marriage. I just ha- I have a PR through marriage. Yeah. It's so much easier than trying to get a, a work, you know, a work thing.",P07,S02 00:12:53.88,00:12:51.20,[laughs] Not the same.,P05,S02 00:12:53.99,00:12:53.19,"Through marriage, yeah",P06,S02 00:12:59.30,00:12:57.02,That's true. That's true.,P05,S02 00:13:11.07,00:12:57.29,"So [noise] apart from that, if you, if you wanna do it di- conventionally it's so difficult and it's so restrictive, and it's so restrictive, to here it's simple, here it [noise] I, I didn't even know this, she can come in as common-law.",P06,S02 00:13:00.91,00:12:58.59,[noise],P07,S02 00:13:02.50,00:13:00.14,So funny. I don't think I would ever do that.,P08,S02 00:13:01.34,00:13:00.42,Whose is that?,P05,S02 00:13:04.85,00:13:02.61,[noise],P07,S02 00:13:07.76,00:13:03.13,I was watching The Bachelorette [inaudible 0:13:04.70] last night and I was thinking the same thing. [laughs],P05,S02 00:13:10.58,00:13:05.48,"Yes. [noise] We watched it last night, too. It was, uh",P08,S02 00:13:11.88,00:13:09.32,What if I- oh and you could have watched it live. [laughs],P05,S02 00:13:14.51,00:13:09.93,"[noise] Oh really? Right. Yeah, that's right, you don't have to be married. You just have to live together.",P07,S02 00:13:16.26,00:13:11.96,"Yeah, we did- I don't remember why we didn't. I probably went to bed or something.",P08,S02 00:13:17.71,00:13:13.13,"[inaudible 0:13:11.06] yeah, you have to have lived together for twelve months, so",P06,S02 00:13:23.37,00:13:15.53,"[noise] That's actually how Dolly got it. We hadn't, we, I mean we were engaged by that time, but",P07,S02 00:13:17.68,00:13:15.62,[laughs] Abhi,P05,S02 00:13:20.77,00:13:19.03,"She had mentioned, but Haley had to leave him.",P06,S02 00:13:28.30,00:13:23.17,"I was gonna ask how you make your dressing, with just olive oil, vinegar, lemon juice, salt, pepper?",P05,S02 00:13:31.79,00:13:25.85,[noise] Are you slicing grapes? Is that a thing that people do?,P07,S02 00:13:30.26,00:13:29.34,Yes.,P08,S02 00:13:30.18,00:13:29.48,[laughs],P05,S02 00:13:33.68,00:13:31.66,For s- salad. Fruit salad.,P08,S02 00:13:33.76,00:13:32.04,[laughs] [inaudible 0:13:33.00],P05,S02 00:13:38.63,00:13:33.63,Hmm. I was not aware of this. Grapes needed to be sliced.,P07,S02 00:13:39.82,00:13:34.82,Then they fit in your mouth. Then you can't choke on them. [laughs],P05,S02 00:13:40.80,00:13:35.44,And s- And you can s- stab 'em with a fork easily.,P08,S02 00:13:42.33,00:13:38.81,"Would you like me to make the dressing, jan? I will.",P06,S02 00:13:41.05,00:13:40.41,Mm.,P07,S02 00:13:41.58,00:13:41.02,Maybe.,P05,S02 00:13:43.28,00:13:42.22,It's a thing.,P08,S02 00:13:44.12,00:13:42.30,"I have the oil, vinegar out.",P05,S02 00:13:50.65,00:13:43.17,"Can you, do you slice beans? [noise] Usually.",P07,S02 00:13:54.21,00:13:44.07,What salad is it? [noise] On the what? On the pie. It's in the oven already? Okay.,P06,S02 00:13:48.82,00:13:45.84,"Uh, no, I don't slice beans, usually.",P08,S02 00:13:54.16,00:13:46.16,Oh I just realized I forgot salt and pepper on the pie. That's okay. We'll salt and pepper it ourselves. Yeah.,P05,S02 00:13:52.04,00:13:51.26,But,P08,S02 00:13:52.09,00:13:51.33,[noise],P07,S02 00:13:54.26,00:13:53.28,Never say never.,P08,S02 00:13:55.25,00:13:54.27,It's in the oven already?,P06,S02 00:13:56.42,00:13:55.06,It's in the oven. Yeah.,P05,S02 00:13:59.51,00:13:56.43,"We should have an unusual dinner, featuring sliced beans.",P07,S02 00:13:58.40,00:13:57.66,Um.,P05,S02 00:14:02.48,00:13:59.27,You want mustard in it? Do you want Dijon?,P05,S02 00:14:05.43,00:14:00.81,"No, no, I'll make it a- I'll make it, jan. Just leave it there, I'll make it.",P06,S02 00:14:08.28,00:14:03.42,"Okay. Make it h- make it healthy. The, okay, you want the oil, vinegar, you want the lemon or no?",P05,S02 00:14:06.27,00:14:04.89,[noise],P07,S02 00:14:12.77,00:14:06.57,"Uh, no, I'll do it, just, where is, what, but what's in the s- what's in the salad?",P06,S02 00:14:10.10,00:14:09.42,Okay.,P05,S02 00:14:11.66,00:14:10.72,But what I need,P05,S02 00:14:16.96,00:14:12.74,"Nothing. Just lettuce and we have cashews or peanuts. They're both fatty, but.",P05,S02 00:14:20.97,00:14:16.79,"So just lettuce? You're just doing a lettuce salad, there's no cheese, there's nothing. No.",P06,S02 00:14:21.70,00:14:18.28,"Yeah. Cuz we're gonna have fruit on the side. No, cuz we'll have cheese in that.",P05,S02 00:14:25.66,00:14:22.72,"I know, kind of a boring salad, but [laughs]",P05,S02 00:14:30.73,00:14:24.41,Okay. [noise],P06,S02 00:14:26.78,00:14:25.38,It'll be delicious.,P08,S02 00:14:31.92,00:14:26.14,[laughs] Thanks. [laughs] Oh there's the Pepsi. I was wondering where you put it. Do you want something to drink?,P05,S02 00:14:31.99,00:14:30.93,"Hey, Dolly.",P07,S02 00:14:33.98,00:14:32.18,"Uh, yeah, I think just water.",P08,S02 00:14:35.10,00:14:33.54,Oh yeah. You told me that.,P05,S02 00:14:41.07,00:14:35.05,"Hey, 'ly? What's the name of the, um, what's the name of the park where your sister lives?",P07,S02 00:14:40.69,00:14:35.23,[noise],P06,S02 00:14:36.20,00:14:35.74,Yeah,P08,S02 00:14:42.88,00:14:41.86,Um,P08,S02 00:14:44.59,00:14:43.17,Do you know the name of it?,P07,S02 00:14:45.88,00:14:45.08,No.,P08,S02 00:14:47.33,00:14:46.03,Do you know what road it's on?,P07,S02 00:14:54.70,00:14:47.40,"[noise] Um. It's like a county road, I thought. Oh, maybe not. Um, no, I don't.",P08,S02 00:14:51.77,00:14:50.69,"Oh, okay.",P07,S02 00:15:00.41,00:14:55.33,Cuz there's a park in College Station that's on the market. It's on Pate Road.,P07,S02 00:14:59.50,00:14:58.06,What road is it on?,P08,S02 00:15:03.92,00:15:00.26,"No, that's not it. And she lives, technically, in Bryan.",P08,S02 00:15:02.17,00:15:01.09,Sixty three sites.,P07,S02 00:15:04.95,00:15:03.99,"Oh, okay.",P07,S02 00:15:07.95,00:15:04.77,It's in Texas? Is that in Texas?,P06,S02 00:15:07.08,00:15:06.58,Huh?,P08,S02 00:15:11.16,00:15:07.76,Yeah. It's right next to College Station. It's just a little bit more country.,P08,S02 00:15:20.63,00:15:08.97,"[noise] [laughs] I was like, I was like, ""More country."" [laughs]",P06,S02 00:15:13.66,00:15:12.34,Country.,P05,S02 00:15:22.39,00:15:13.25,"If you can even get more country than College Station. It's like, ""You know, I like that station, but it's really not country enough for my taste."" [laughs]",P07,S02 00:15:16.66,00:15:15.30,[laughs],P08,S02 00:15:18.02,00:15:16.58,Do you want lemon in your water?,P05,S02 00:15:18.84,00:15:18.06,Sure.,P08,S02 00:15:24.55,00:15:21.39,"[laughs] That's like, uh",P06,S02 00:15:36.59,00:15:23.03,"[laughs] I w- , only, you know, a cer- a low percentage of people are straight up cross-eyed in, uh, in Palm Station, and I really am m- am more interested in a population where sixty percent of people are cross-eyed from, you know, w- ",P07,S02 00:15:30.97,00:15:29.09,[laughs],P06,S02 00:15:30.70,00:15:29.84,[laughs],P08,S02 00:15:36.40,00:15:31.90,Straight up cross-eyed. [laughs],P05,S02 00:15:38.30,00:15:33.28,[laughs],P08,S02 00:15:42.35,00:15:35.63,"Like when, whe- , whe- when, when the when the place is the first name of a man, it's named Bryan, Texas.",P06,S02 00:15:42.37,00:15:40.47,Yep. Yep. Yep. Yeah.,P07,S02 00:15:43.46,00:15:42.32,[noise],P05,S02 00:15:50.11,00:15:43.01,[noise] Wylie. B R Y. [noise],P06,S02 00:15:45.57,00:15:43.27,"Wylie. Wylie, Texas.",P07,S02 00:15:47.08,00:15:44.06,"B, B R Y A N",P08,S02 00:15:50.09,00:15:46.89,[noise] [laughs] Mhm.,P07,S02 00:15:49.74,00:15:47.66,In case there is any confusion.,P08,S02 00:16:00.78,00:15:52.66,Bryan Texas. The one Bryan I know that starts with a Y is living in Texas. Can you chop that white [inaudible 0:15:58.80] Slice.,P05,S02 00:15:53.81,00:15:53.17,[laughs],P07,S02 00:16:11.57,00:15:53.59,"Oh yeah, so, um, so we, we contacted, um, uh, our friend and the person who has the the community, the ti- tiny house community, and, uh, she's had some family, uh, that have had some issues, which is dissolving it",P06,S02 00:15:58.42,00:15:57.70,[laughs],P08,S02 00:16:03.68,00:15:58.92,"Oh yeah. Right into jus- , into just, uh, quarters, or whatever? Yeah.",P08,S02 00:16:03.86,00:16:02.02,Wedges or yeah.,P05,S02 00:16:05.63,00:16:04.75,"Right, right.",P07,S02 00:16:10.62,00:16:06.50,I think we only need two right now. [inaudible 0:16:08.20] or thirds or whatever they are.,P05,S02 00:16:12.76,00:16:11.88,"Thank you, ma'am.",P05,S02 00:16:17.57,00:16:12.45,What? She's dissolving the tiny house community? So where are you gonna put your tiny house?,P07,S02 00:16:13.16,00:16:12.50,Is that good?,P08,S02 00:16:14.33,00:16:13.01,[noise],P06,S02 00:16:15.02,00:16:14.10,Right here.,P05,S02 00:16:17.44,00:16:16.20,This one.,P05,S02 00:16:23.99,00:16:17.73,"[noise] Well a, the positive thing that, the positive thing is we didn't start building.",P06,S02 00:16:20.83,00:16:18.61,"She's selling, is she se- , she's selling it?",P07,S02 00:16:28.67,00:16:22.89,"Oh. So, you're , the thing is delayed, but it's kind of okay now. Oh. Hmm.",P07,S02 00:16:31.05,00:16:26.07,"Yeah, so so for us we were [inaudible 0:16:27.40] hey, we're gonna start building end of the year.",P06,S02 00:16:31.59,00:16:29.59,She's selling? Does she want to sell it to me?,P07,S02 00:16:38.17,00:16:31.93,"Oh he can put you in touch, we're going to, we have a Skype with her tomorrow. So that's tomorrow, jan. Tomorrow's Saturday.",P06,S02 00:16:35.12,00:16:32.74,"Oh, we're talking to her Saturday morning.",P05,S02 00:16:35.97,00:16:34.83,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:16:37.10,00:16:35.88,No. Tomorrow's Friday.,P05,S02 00:16:46.58,00:16:37.86,Nope. Tomorrow's Friday. [laughs] Good job. [laughs],P05,S02 00:16:50.83,00:16:38.05,Tomorrow's Friday. Get a job. [laughs],P07,S02 00:16:42.09,00:16:39.19,"Well that's, uh [laughs]",P06,S02 00:16:47.70,00:16:39.90,"[laughs] Abhi, get a job.",P08,S02 00:16:48.71,00:16:45.03,"Yeah, I think, I think I might, I might need one.",P06,S02 00:16:48.86,00:16:47.64,That's for you.,P05,S02 00:16:50.32,00:16:48.96,"Oh, thank you.",P08,S02 00:16:57.73,00:16:49.31,"Like, uh, yeah, so, sorry. Uh, but after tomorrow morning we have to Skype with her, so I mean, we and Haze were like, me and Haze were like",P06,S02 00:16:50.76,00:16:49.60,So I have over here,P05,S02 00:16:53.60,00:16:52.02,[laughs],P08,S02 00:16:54.18,00:16:52.12,[laughs],P05,S02 00:16:55.61,00:16:53.49,Yeah. Mm.,P07,S02 00:16:59.72,00:16:55.56,"Because she said she's dissolving it, and we're like, why doesn't she just sell it, like",P05,S02 00:17:05.99,00:16:58.31,"Why, why, well, I don't know if anyone wants to take on the responsibility of buying it, maybe she thinks that that's too long on a, it's, it's [inaudible 0:17:05.20]",P06,S02 00:16:59.99,00:16:58.99,How many d- ,P07,S02 00:17:03.82,00:17:02.82,I think,P05,S02 00:17:07.79,00:17:03.03,"[noise] Mm. But it's not occupied, right? It's just developing?",P07,S02 00:17:12.87,00:17:06.69,"[noise] It is occupied, because, so there's, yeah, like an RV park.",P06,S02 00:17:12.06,00:17:08.50,"Well, they're renting the land like an RV park. Yeah.",P05,S02 00:17:14.83,00:17:11.99,But they have permanent renters in every space?,P07,S02 00:17:32.97,00:17:14.21,"So, so right now the space is divided into, this is my, my gift to you, so the space is divided into a forty sixty or, or a thirty five sixty five, thirty five is the front, the front portion of it, and the front portion of it, it's twenty four lots.",P06,S02 00:17:21.12,00:17:16.12,Huh. I didn't even think about that. [laughs] That's something he might be interested in.,P05,S02 00:17:36.36,00:17:20.90,"Yeah. He's, uh, he's looking at another one in Oregon right now, um, and, the, oh, I think what you were asking when you were coming up the stairs was whether or not, like, the deal is gonna go through, and it is.",P08,S02 00:17:26.08,00:17:25.28,Oh cool.,P05,S02 00:17:26.27,00:17:25.47,[inaudible 0:17:25.46],P07,S02 00:17:47.55,00:17:32.97,"Uh, all for Airbnbs, so all tiny houses to Airbnbs. The back portion, which was being built, which had only two or three residents, was forty lots of what they wanted to be long term sustainable living people.",P06,S02 00:17:37.41,00:17:34.19,"[noise] Oh, okay. Yeah.",P07,S02 00:17:35.24,00:17:34.30,Yeah yeah.,P05,S02 00:17:42.16,00:17:36.10,"Okay, cuz last you said, you said the first amount was covered but then another amount came down.",P05,S02 00:17:55.54,00:17:42.00,"That's right, and, uh, what ended up happening was, it's m- that's right, so all of the information that he was able to give them was [inaudible 0:17:52.00] so he will be able [inaudible 0:17:54.90]",P08,S02 00:17:43.05,00:17:42.53,Okay.,P07,S02 00:17:44.30,00:17:43.04,And that's February two,P05,S02 00:17:46.50,00:17:45.46,"Oh, cuz he fought it.",P05,S02 00:17:49.10,00:17:47.10,Okay. A rebuttal or w- ,P05,S02 00:17:48.99,00:17:47.67,Hmm. Mkay.,P07,S02 00:17:55.73,00:17:48.83,"So that was where she was doing the chicken coop and everything sustainable was being built in the back, and twenty four lots in the front were full.",P06,S02 00:17:53.61,00:17:51.39,"I see. Yeah, okay.",P07,S02 00:17:54.30,00:17:52.68,Okay. Good.,P05,S02 00:17:56.60,00:17:54.94,So they covered more in the loan.,P05,S02 00:17:56.97,00:17:55.75,I see. Okay.,P07,S02 00:18:12.79,00:17:56.79,"The forty in the back had only the person who was cleaning the front twenty four lots and someone else, there were two, three, two or three, uh, and then they were building on to it. And, uh, yeah, so it comes with these residents for sure, cuz that we've seen physically, we've stayed there.",P06,S02 00:18:04.94,00:17:56.82,"That's right. Yep. So, we should be good there, which means we can build our house, and love life.",P08,S02 00:17:58.24,00:17:57.72,Okay.,P05,S02 00:18:03.71,00:18:02.23,[noise],P07,S02 00:18:03.88,00:18:03.14,That's awesome.,P05,S02 00:18:06.52,00:18:04.22,That's awesome. So good news as of,P05,S02 00:18:07.59,00:18:04.23,"Right, yeah. Got it, yeah.",P07,S02 00:18:11.54,00:18:06.62,"Yes. Very, very good news as of, kinda yesterday. Really, really recent.",P08,S02 00:18:10.22,00:18:08.14,"That's awesome. Oh, awesome.",P05,S02 00:18:20.10,00:18:11.04,"Better than you guys coming over here in bad moods like [laughs] everything's failed or something. I feel badly, I'm like just making you [laughs] cook.",P05,S02 00:18:13.27,00:18:12.45,"Right, right.",P07,S02 00:18:30.29,00:18:13.05,"Um, but I don't know why, and, so, we just wrote a, a polite ""Uh, the earliest we can start building is January"" [noise] because till December we were just [noise]",P06,S02 00:18:25.64,00:18:18.98,"No, that's okay. I'm just, I just layered it in, if that's okay, instead of just mixing it. A little parfait.",P08,S02 00:18:26.76,00:18:20.13,That looks beautiful. That's beautiful. Perfect. Whatever you do is perfect. [laughs],P05,S02 00:18:21.23,00:18:20.55,[noise],P07,S02 00:18:24.75,00:18:24.15,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:18:36.08,00:18:27.32,"I wanna- we have cottage cheese, too, and Abhi's like, ""Let's do a dessert of cottage cheese, honey, and fruit"", and I was like, ""I do love that"", I'm like, ""But some people are particular about cottage cheese."" [laughs] Because some people",P05,S02 00:18:47.45,00:18:30.29,"I don't know if they told you, so we got another apartment that we're moving to September first. It's in the building, but much nicer, and, um, we've just signed, or committed, September first till December twenty second, so",P06,S02 00:18:34.51,00:18:32.85,"Yeah, yeah. Yeah, that's right.",P07,S02 00:18:37.74,00:18:34.82,We'll eat anything. That does sound delicious.,P08,S02 00:18:36.91,00:18:36.39,Yep.,P07,S02 00:18:43.96,00:18:36.54,"That's true. Well, and I was like, ""We could have that as a side"" and he's like, ""No, we need a dessert"", so it's perfect you guys brought a dessert.",P05,S02 00:18:42.52,00:18:41.94,Oh,P08,S02 00:18:47.48,00:18:43.24,You ate the bad one. [laughs] That's what I get for eating the food.,P08,S02 00:18:49.02,00:18:44.26,Oh. [noise] [laughs] Oh that's funny. [inaudible 0:18:48.00],P05,S02 00:19:03.57,00:18:48.23,"Depending on what happens between now and then, we'll decide whether we're gonna make this place more permanent and look for a twelve month lease, or we're gonna go back to the States, one of the two. But anyways, twenty second we're going to Chicago, cuz that's the first day, twenty second is exactly six months.",P06,S02 00:18:51.02,00:18:49.58,"Okay, then we want a little grape?",P08,S02 00:18:52.64,00:18:51.50,Uh yeah.,P05,S02 00:18:53.62,00:18:52.08,"I think that should be good, right?",P08,S02 00:19:02.76,00:18:55.52,"I dunno. We got someone who's particular on his half grapes, so. [laughs] Should we throw in a few whole grapes for him? No.",P05,S02 00:18:58.25,00:18:57.43,"Right, right.",P07,S02 00:19:00.84,00:18:58.84,[laughs],P08,S02 00:19:13.16,00:19:02.06,"We'll just put some on the side of his plate. He can have some whole ones. Sometimes he says stuff, and I'm like, ""I didn't know that. Like, why are you being so particular about that?"" Yeah.",P08,S02 00:19:06.77,00:19:03.45,"Oh, really? [laughs] [noise]",P07,S02 00:19:06.20,00:19:03.66,Yeah right. We'll give him some more grapes.,P05,S02 00:19:18.35,00:19:03.97,"Yeah. Um, so, well [inaudible 0:19:06.40] and we go to, we go to, we go to Chicago, uh, we're there for two days and then twenty fifth we fly to Cambodia, so we're going to the Mekong river cruise.",P06,S02 00:19:08.49,00:19:07.81,Gotcha.,P07,S02 00:19:14.50,00:19:08.84,"[laughs] Like, I didn't know you were weird about that. [laughs] That's funny.",P05,S02 00:19:30.66,00:19:14.06,"One time we went to this, like, French place, and, uh, we got, I don't know, we both got, like, those, what are they called? Like, I forget the, what the brand is, it doesn't matter, but the, like the cane sugar sodas.",P08,S02 00:19:16.88,00:19:16.24,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:19:19.09,00:19:18.53,Cool.,P07,S02 00:19:35.73,00:19:19.69,"Haley and me, her sister, her sister's husband, brother, brother's wife, mom, dad, yeah. So we're doing the the Me- yeah. [laughs] Yeah they should [laughs] you're right, they should record that one.",P06,S02 00:19:26.57,00:19:26.13,Wow.,P07,S02 00:19:39.43,00:19:28.69,It's like a petri dish of social experiment. [laughs] You guys are recording it.? [laughs] [inaudible 0:19:34.80] How long is it again? Twelve days? Ten? Wow.,P07,S02 00:19:31.38,00:19:30.76,Okay.,P05,S02 00:19:42.10,00:19:31.40,"And, uh, and we got, like, eggs benny, and something else, and, and we, we rang it up and it was, like, thirty four bucks, and I was like, ""Okay.""",P08,S02 00:19:36.26,00:19:35.62,uh-huh.,P05,S02 00:19:45.19,00:19:37.85,"Ten, twelve days, yeah. Hey, so how long are we going to, oh, sorry, how, how long are we going to Cambodia for, ten days?",P06,S02 00:19:48.18,00:19:45.16,I think two weeks. Ten days or two weeks.,P05,S02 00:19:54.43,00:19:46.93,"[laughs] [inaudible 0:19:47.44] two weeks. No, it's awesome, no, he said that they, they should record that for the experiment.",P06,S02 00:19:49.11,00:19:48.51,Wow.,P07,S02 00:19:50.08,00:19:49.30,What's wrong with that?,P05,S02 00:19:59.78,00:19:52.96,Oh. [laughs] That's true. Not like our couple one.,P05,S02 00:19:59.67,00:19:53.33,"With all the, with all the parents and in-laws it, it'd be hilarious experiment. [laughs]",P07,S02 00:19:56.60,00:19:55.80,[laughs],P08,S02 00:19:59.12,00:19:57.78,[laughs],P08,S02 00:19:58.45,00:19:57.83,[noise],P06,S02 00:20:08.21,00:19:59.83,"[noise] Uh, and my, um, my, um, [noise] yeah, so we're doing that.",P06,S02 00:20:01.90,00:20:00.40,I wonder if they're supposed to puck.,P05,S02 00:20:01.13,00:20:00.57,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:20:12.68,00:20:03.62,"Um, and he freaked out, he was like, ""Thirty five dollars?"" I was like, ""It's, like, fifteen dollars person with tax, that's pretty average.""",P08,S02 00:20:05.06,00:20:04.48,[noise],P05,S02 00:20:23.65,00:20:08.21,"And, so post that would be the earliest that we could start the build, because we wanted to, we put it as part of the contract of the build, that, um, that there was uh ten days",P06,S02 00:20:08.96,00:20:08.28,[laughs],P05,S02 00:20:14.76,00:20:12.74,So you had two drinks and two Eggs Benedict?,P05,S02 00:20:14.91,00:20:13.93,Right.,P07,S02 00:20:15.34,00:20:14.78,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:20:15.96,00:20:15.08,Okay.,P05,S02 00:20:31.62,00:20:15.98,"[laughs] He was like, ""I didn't realize we were going to fancy brunch."" I was like, ""This is a Denny's."" [laughs] No, but, like, I mean, it was, like, a nice place, but, like, you could, like, Denny's in Vancouver is about that much, like, with coffee and everything, so",P08,S02 00:20:18.02,00:20:16.76,So it should,P05,S02 00:20:23.76,00:20:19.52,[laughs] It was Denny's?,P05,S02 00:20:43.63,00:20:23.74,"One week to ten days where she would involve us in the build. So, the only cost to her about involving us in the build would be you gotta put us up for ten days, because we're gonna stay on your community, and, uh, give me two separate phases of two five day periods, so one you'll say, ""This is an important part of the build process, and this is another important part of the build process"", because I said, ""I wanna learn""",P06,S02 00:20:26.24,00:20:24.10,"Oh, okay, [inaudible 0:20:25.10]",P05,S02 00:20:29.68,00:20:29.04,Right.,P05,S02 00:20:39.28,00:20:31.18,"That's really funny. We went to, I already told you, our friends' birthday thing the other day, like a brunch with their parents with them, and afterwards Abhi looked and said, ""So cheap""",P05,S02 00:20:37.26,00:20:35.96,"Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 00:20:43.38,00:20:39.28,It was like twenty three dollars or something for both to us to like eat and drink,P05,S02 00:20:40.40,00:20:39.30,[laughs],P08,S02 00:20:43.98,00:20:41.68,Woah. Where was it?,P08,S02 00:20:43.11,00:20:42.39,Mm.,P07,S02 00:20:48.04,00:20:43.84,"It was, Abhi, what was the place we went to for Devon's birthday brunch?",P05,S02 00:20:45.71,00:20:44.13,"Most importantly, I wanna learn.",P06,S02 00:20:46.43,00:20:45.85,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:20:51.61,00:20:48.35,"Jam? No, jam was the original one. Yolk.",P06,S02 00:20:52.00,00:20:50.00,"No, Jam Cafe was the, Yolk.",P05,S02 00:20:54.98,00:20:52.02,"Oh. I've heard of this place, but I've never been there.",P08,S02 00:20:57.16,00:20:52.94,"Uh, had a really long line, and, oh, it is amazing.",P05,S02 00:21:03.15,00:20:53.47,"Jam. It's on Hastings. But, then, like. far East on Hastings, so not Hastings. Which is far East, it's not, like, right here.",P06,S02 00:20:56.70,00:20:55.78,"Yeah, o- ",P08,S02 00:21:04.30,00:20:58.22,"Not far. Near the No Frills, right next to the Gordon's No F- , yeah yeah, right, that's true.",P05,S02 00:21:03.80,00:21:03.30,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:21:09.75,00:21:03.90,"And, um, like, so two five-day periods, I put that in the contract, saying that we wanna be involved, so",P06,S02 00:21:05.56,00:21:04.74,[noise],P07,S02 00:21:11.34,00:21:06.26,"Are you, do you want cashews or peanuts or neither in the salad?",P05,S02 00:21:08.22,00:21:07.60,Right.,P07,S02 00:21:12.38,00:21:09.70,"But what have, have you paid them anything? No, s- ",P07,S02 00:21:25.83,00:21:10.97,"No. No, we paid two hundred dollars for the drawings, that's it. But, but, literally, literally, we're talking about if this didn't happen, if we didn't have to come here, would have been well into the build process.",P06,S02 00:21:13.28,00:21:11.62,I'd do cashews.,P08,S02 00:21:13.28,00:21:12.62,Okay.,P05,S02 00:21:16.52,00:21:15.84,Oh.,P07,S02 00:21:23.72,00:21:23.10,Right.,P07,S02 00:21:26.34,00:21:25.60,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:21:39.53,00:21:26.11,"Like we w- I just told Haley, this is a huge, hu- , like she a- she was like sad when she heard that, I said, ""That's the happiest news I've heard."" because, that, m- , that X Y Z is, is is dissolving.",P06,S02 00:21:27.66,00:21:26.68,[noise],P08,S02 00:21:34.84,00:21:33.98,What news?,P05,S02 00:21:38.86,00:21:36.82,"Oh, the tiny house.",P05,S02 00:21:40.06,00:21:39.48,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:21:52.55,00:21:39.91,"Uh, because, be- I mean, would have been, we'd we had, we promised two payments, fifty percent up front, fifty percent after thirty days, we'd be on second payment.",P06,S02 00:21:43.38,00:21:41.16,Cuz now you're not on the hook anymore? Tha- ,P07,S02 00:21:48.34,00:21:47.58,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:21:58.76,00:21:49.40,"Yeah, we were right before signing it. I don't know if you heard that, yeah, I think you heard that they're dissolving the tiny house comp- , yeah, we just found out a couple of days ago.",P05,S02 00:21:55.38,00:21:49.80,"So wait. So, so, so. So is the community actually building, getting the homes built?",P07,S02 00:21:56.54,00:21:53.92,Mhm. Yeah.,P08,S02 00:21:56.15,00:21:55.55,Sorry?,P06,S02 00:22:00.50,00:21:55.74,"Like, uh, like, wh- what is the relationship between the home builder and, and this community?",P07,S02 00:22:02.16,00:21:58.52,"Which is good for you guys, cuz you weren't expecting this, right?",P08,S02 00:22:06.79,00:21:59.05,"She's her, it's her builder. Her builder building and our, we were ordering it from a fabricator who she owned.",P06,S02 00:22:09.52,00:22:01.12,"Wow. She was going to be there for like years. Like, we thought this would be an investment, and over the next five years we'd make the money back, so yeah, that's, anyway.",P05,S02 00:22:05.80,00:22:01.26,"Oh. I thought you were, like, ordering this thing from a [inaudible 0:22:05.33]. Yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 00:22:04.42,00:22:03.40,Woah.,P08,S02 00:22:06.66,00:22:05.74,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:22:14.52,00:22:07.06,"Oh, okay, I understand now. Okay, that makes sense. See, I thought there was, like, a lot rig component, and then there was, like, you interfacing with her.",P07,S02 00:22:08.46,00:22:07.80,Wow.,P08,S02 00:22:10.39,00:22:09.49,The bevelling.,P06,S02 00:22:24.69,00:22:14.04,"We, we, just coincidentally, they both went, uh, hand in hand, okay, so it was just a coincidence. We could have done it separately. Mind you, we could always, so",P06,S02 00:22:20.16,00:22:18.18,"I understand. Okay, now I understand.",P07,S02 00:22:22.02,00:22:21.32,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:22:33.26,00:22:24.62,"That's brilliant for her, actually, that's a great business model, cuz then she's essentially like a real estate developer, but, but, but that she gets, she gets the lot rent forever.",P07,S02 00:22:42.87,00:22:28.62,"She's a real estate developer. And she's, she's got a shop on board. She's got a shop on board. So she's got a, like a big space that she's canopied, where she builds, like, or there's, you can come in and see other people, what they're building.",P06,S02 00:22:29.80,00:22:28.88,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:22:33.10,00:22:31.50,I'm trying to stay busy in here.,P05,S02 00:22:34.42,00:22:33.46,Wow.,P08,S02 00:22:35.54,00:22:34.32,"Oh, okay.",P07,S02 00:22:44.36,00:22:35.78,"I dunno why, but this the best water I've ever tasted. [laughs] Mmm. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:22:37.26,00:22:36.15,Mm.,P07,S02 00:22:54.26,00:22:37.42,"[inaudible 0:22:37.04] [laughs] I don't know why I- [laughs] but I'm glad. Abhi thinks this is really ingen- ingenuity- that the word? He puts these in here with ice already in 'em, so he's like, ""All you have to do is grab it and pour your drink"" and I'm like, ""Okay.""",P05,S02 00:22:41.48,00:22:38.02,"Yeah. Yeah, that's s- so good, it's like",P07,S02 00:23:01.76,00:22:42.66,"The, the biggest, the, the, the biggest, like, trick involved in that is the fact that she's building homes but they're not, they're not taxed as homes, like, they're taxed as chattel, and then because of that they're not attached to the land, and because of that she still owns the land and retains ownership of it, and then can just charge lot rent forever, and lot rent in Austin is very expensive",P07,S02 00:22:55.54,00:22:52.94,Oh. That's actually pretty smart.,P08,S02 00:23:06.06,00:22:55.28,"And like, like, minuses the step of taking the ice out and all that, but he, he loves it, yeah. [laughs] And I do think it makes it colder when the glass is filled. That might be it.",P05,S02 00:23:05.54,00:23:01.20,"Mm. Maybe that's why, because the glass is cold. Yeah.",P08,S02 00:23:04.38,00:23:01.76,"You know, as you know. You know.",P07,S02 00:23:09.21,00:23:04.11,"I told you what they were asking for, right? It was four hundred dollars. So it was three fif- yeah.",P06,S02 00:23:07.68,00:23:06.92,It's what it is.,P08,S02 00:23:12.98,00:23:07.54,"Per month? That's, that's pretty cheap for Austin. Like, uh, I've seen, I've seen trip- ",P07,S02 00:23:16.41,00:23:08.24,"[noise] It's also kind of warm in here, so thirsty. [laughs] Mhm.",P05,S02 00:23:19.46,00:23:10.86,"Hey, Abhi? I agree with your putting the glass in the freezer idea. Because I drank this, and I said, ""This is the best water I've ever had in my life.""",P08,S02 00:23:13.13,00:23:12.37,Yeah?,P06,S02 00:23:24.38,00:23:18.49,"[laughs] And I was like, ""Abhi's got this great idea."" Yeah. [laughs]",P05,S02 00:23:39.21,00:23:19.26,"[inaudible 0:23:19.25]. I, I, I, I, I, I freeze all the glasses. Since I stopped drinking booze, [laughs] I have, uh, cold frosty glasses for juice, and I, even for coke, I put everything in it, and I make sure that they're rot- , [inaudible 0:23:33.80] and make sure they're rotated and they're in and they're cold, and so the cold ones at the back get front time.",P06,S02 00:23:28.36,00:23:20.80,[laughs] Good. [laughs],P08,S02 00:23:28.48,00:23:25.26,[laughs],P05,S02 00:23:32.18,00:23:31.34,Mm,P05,S02 00:23:32.98,00:23:31.56,[laughs],P08,S02 00:23:40.52,00:23:35.36,[laughs],P05,S02 00:23:47.85,00:23:39.21,"And the news ones have to go in the back. And she doesn't do that, she puts them in the front, so then I do that, I replace them in the back. [laughs]",P06,S02 00:23:42.00,00:23:40.80,"Oh, perfect.",P08,S02 00:23:44.70,00:23:41.16,"Well, I haven't been doing that. I didn't know that that was the rule.",P05,S02 00:23:46.12,00:23:44.86,You're the rotator.,P08,S02 00:23:47.96,00:23:46.26,[laughs],P07,S02 00:23:51.44,00:23:46.42,"[laughs] He is the rotator. Abhi, all that's left is the salad for you to do.",P05,S02 00:23:47.82,00:23:47.02,Excellent.,P08,S02 00:23:49.12,00:23:48.44,[laughs],P08,S02 00:23:54.75,00:23:49.13,"Yeah, jan. I'll, I'll, I'll get up when you guys sit down. Can, can we",P06,S02 00:23:56.46,00:23:52.36,"Um, I think we're supposed to have some, bit when you're",P05,S02 00:23:53.92,00:23:52.98,[noise],P07,S02 00:24:00.14,00:23:58.10,[laughs],P05,S02 00:24:00.21,00:23:59.57,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:24:05.84,00:24:00.38,"I've seen, I've seen lot rent for, for mobile home parks in, in the five hundred dollar range in Austin. Like, not even in Austin.",P07,S02 00:24:02.40,00:24:01.72,Um,P05,S02 00:24:04.36,00:24:03.72,[noise],P05,S02 00:24:06.90,00:24:03.94,Mmm. These [inaudible 0:24:05.70],P08,S02 00:24:08.65,00:24:05.65,"Five hundred dollar range? That's ridiculous, though.",P06,S02 00:24:09.54,00:24:06.38,"Mhm. That's interesting. They're not straight, are they?",P05,S02 00:24:14.32,00:24:06.88,"Yeah, like, not even, um, what? That's really high. That's, like, double the national average, yeah.",P07,S02 00:24:09.22,00:24:08.42,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:24:12.51,00:24:10.05,"That's, that's really high, yeah.",P06,S02 00:24:12.90,00:24:11.06,This is the interesting kind of [inaudible 0:24:12.30],P05,S02 00:24:20.17,00:24:14.29,"Cuz I would think, I'd think, I would think, my guess would have been two hundred dollars. Two hundred. Two hundred, two twenty five.",P06,S02 00:24:19.50,00:24:14.50,Oh. [laughs] Just recreational activities.,P08,S02 00:24:15.36,00:24:14.82,[laughs],P05,S02 00:24:22.36,00:24:16.98,Ah. Uh. [inaudible 0:24:20.40],P05,S02 00:24:27.36,00:24:17.54,"Three hundred? Two hundred, no way. Nah, that, that'd be real cheap. Um. [noise] For, for, for like, ru- ru- like, nowheresville rural America",P07,S02 00:24:21.94,00:24:21.06,Oh.,P08,S02 00:24:24.95,00:24:21.87,"The rural America, rural America",P06,S02 00:24:25.06,00:24:23.34,"Yeah, like a random barn.",P08,S02 00:24:28.58,00:24:24.80,"Yeah. Maybe it's like his, a childhood thing, i- ",P05,S02 00:24:27.72,00:24:26.72,It looks,P08,S02 00:24:27.41,00:24:26.97,Yes.,P06,S02 00:24:45.22,00:24:27.90,"Maybe would be in the low two hundreds, like, r- , I'm talking, like, B F E Arkansas, you know, like, not, not even near a big city. Um, you know, if you're close to a big city, you're probably in the high three hundreds range, um, or e- even a moderate sized town that has an employment base, probably moderate to high three hundreds",P07,S02 00:24:32.48,00:24:28.40,"It looks, kind of, oh well, I guess that could be, like, Abbotsford.",P08,S02 00:24:30.21,00:24:29.49,Okay.,P06,S02 00:24:33.78,00:24:33.00,Okay.,P05,S02 00:24:34.17,00:24:33.33,Mm.,P06,S02 00:24:37.78,00:24:33.92,"Something, but it looks a little Southern, like this tree",P08,S02 00:24:35.99,00:24:35.15,Okay.,P06,S02 00:24:36.78,00:24:36.00,"Yeah, it does.",P05,S02 00:24:42.32,00:24:37.88,Mhm. Definitely countryside. [laughs],P05,S02 00:24:45.74,00:24:42.52,"Or it could be, like, Delta, Delta's really",P08,S02 00:24:45.91,00:24:45.27,Mkay.,P06,S02 00:24:52.26,00:24:45.64,"Um, my, my park in Oklahoma, ha- , we charged three ten for a, for a waterfront site, but that's waterfront, that's kinda different.",P07,S02 00:24:49.38,00:24:45.98,"Oh we've heard of Delta. It's near White Rock? Or it's near the border, right?",P05,S02 00:24:51.94,00:24:47.30,"Yeah. Yeah. Near the border, and it's, like, all farms and stuff.",P08,S02 00:24:59.42,00:24:51.18,"Hmm. I've heard White Rock's really pretty, too. So might also go to White Rock. What was the place you mentioned? You said you guys might take a three hour drive",P05,S02 00:24:57.79,00:24:51.51,"Okay. And then, the- but utility is on top of that, right? So the you don't, utility's included? So wh- ",P06,S02 00:24:54.64,00:24:53.94,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:25:00.48,00:24:54.46,"Utilities included. That's because, that's because we were on a well, so, so water doesn't cost us anything, so we just include it.",P07,S02 00:24:59.07,00:24:58.35,Okay.,P06,S02 00:25:01.64,00:24:59.38,"[noise] Oh, uh, Pemberton.",P08,S02 00:25:01.45,00:25:00.21,What about electricity?,P06,S02 00:25:00.88,00:25:00.44,[inaudible 0:25:00.40],P05,S02 00:25:04.78,00:25:01.20,"Um, no, they s- pay separate for that. Yep. You know.",P07,S02 00:25:02.90,00:25:01.74,Pimmerton. Okay.,P05,S02 00:25:16.18,00:25:02.48,"Yeah, Pemberton. It's, uh, interior. There's a kitty! [noise] Hi, kitty, kitty, kitty, kitty, kitty. Hi. Hi, kitty, kitty, kitty. Oh.",P08,S02 00:25:18.11,00:25:03.21,"They pay separate for that. Okay. So, I mean, here, it was, we were paying three fif- it was coming out to four hundred, so we paid three, uh, three thirty or three fifty plus water and electricity which added another fifty and then wi-fi was another fifty, so four to four fifty.",P06,S02 00:25:06.86,00:25:06.10,"Hi, Mama.",P05,S02 00:25:10.60,00:25:07.72,"You're out. Hi, baby girl.",P05,S02 00:25:13.56,00:25:12.84,[laughs],P05,S02 00:25:13.94,00:25:13.18,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:25:18.04,00:25:14.68,"[laughs] Aw, she wants to be [inaudible 0:25:17.00] to the others.",P05,S02 00:25:21.88,00:25:16.80,[inaudible 0:25:16.80] Oh. What's her name?,P08,S02 00:25:35.80,00:25:17.26,"Yeah. So, so she's probably, she's kind of saying, ""Well, so I've got this smaller piece of property, I'm gonna slice and dice it up into, uh, tiny, tiny lots which car- can accommodate tiny homes, which are much smaller than, like, a normal mobile home lot, and I, I'm gonna charge essentially the same as what a normal mobile home park would charge for lot rent, except that the lots are much smaller.""",P07,S02 00:25:22.76,00:25:19.04,[inaudible 0:25:19.00] She's normally j- Mamacita.,P05,S02 00:25:24.92,00:25:22.54,[laughs],P08,S02 00:25:25.94,00:25:24.36,But she's normally very shy.,P05,S02 00:25:26.45,00:25:25.69,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:25:28.40,00:25:26.90,Mamacita,P08,S02 00:25:35.30,00:25:29.24,She's prolly going to go chew on her cat condo or whatever. [noise],P05,S02 00:25:50.43,00:25:35.53,"Yeah. But what was great was because when we, I don't know, I mean, we cultivated a relationship with her and we spent multiple, so we've actually stayed in about four or five of her, of of her tiny homes",P06,S02 00:25:43.48,00:25:35.64,"There she is. Mamacita. [noise] Hi. Oh, hi. Oh, hi.",P08,S02 00:25:37.42,00:25:36.18,And because it's awesome,P07,S02 00:25:37.60,00:25:36.76,[noise],P05,S02 00:25:41.02,00:25:40.40,[noise],P07,S02 00:25:44.38,00:25:41.42,[laughs] Super sweet.,P05,S02 00:25:45.88,00:25:44.76,Oh.,P08,S02 00:25:49.02,00:25:46.08,[laughs] She loves being rubbed.,P05,S02 00:25:48.12,00:25:47.10,She's sweet. [noise],P08,S02 00:25:49.56,00:25:49.02,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:25:50.50,00:25:49.62,[laughs],P08,S02 00:26:02.10,00:25:50.04,"She gets her butt scratches every night in bed. When she comes in she gets into like downward dog, and I scratch her butt back and forth and she gets so excite- she chews cords when she gets excited, so she'll start like chewing on my cord.",P05,S02 00:26:04.43,00:25:50.43,"So every time we flew out during a period, we made, at least tried our best to get a flight out of Austin, so we'd go and stay the night before, we'd stay in the community, uh, we wanted to try out different ones to see what we liked and what didn't like. [noise]",P06,S02 00:25:57.60,00:25:52.70,She does? [laughs],P08,S02 00:25:56.64,00:25:56.04,[noise],P07,S02 00:26:00.40,00:25:59.64,"Oh, th- ",P08,S02 00:26:02.56,00:26:02.06,Mm.,P07,S02 00:26:04.18,00:26:02.76,That's so funny.,P08,S02 00:26:11.16,00:26:03.94,"You can see she's got a little black booty. [laughs] [noise] Hi, baby girl. Come here. Hi, baby.",P05,S02 00:26:08.12,00:26:05.40,[laughs],P08,S02 00:26:06.72,00:26:06.18,Mm.,P07,S02 00:26:15.44,00:26:12.30,"Okay. I know, there're people, I know.",P05,S02 00:26:13.56,00:26:13.02,Okay.,P07,S02 00:26:35.60,00:26:34.98,Mm.,P07,S02 00:26:46.89,00:26:35.53,"We had a nice piece of, apart from the ten by, ten by thirty, a nice piece of built up deck which we were going to have foldable if we wanted to transport it. Uh",P06,S02 00:26:42.12,00:26:36.86,"[laughs] I was like, ""I know."" [laughs]",P05,S02 00:26:53.64,00:26:36.98,"[laughs] And, uh [laughs] uh, her, her legs, she'll be standing up, and I'll go, ""Okay, bum rubs!"" And I'll rub, like, her bum, and her legs will go, [laughs] straight up. [laughs] Let's do it!",P08,S02 00:26:40.74,00:26:40.20,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:26:48.12,00:26:44.40,"Got it, yeah. Right. The lot is ten by thirty?",P07,S02 00:26:59.04,00:26:46.46,"[noise] [laughs] Like, ""Oh my god, it feels good!"" Like, our old dog used to this, the left leg shaking. [laughs] He used to love that.",P05,S02 00:26:59.17,00:26:48.11,"Um, no, the tiny house was ten by thirty, it's it exactly ten by thirty two, so it's twenty four base, and eight foot was lofted, so eight foot was a goose neck.",P06,S02 00:26:51.92,00:26:49.10,"The, the home itself is ten by thirty, yeah, that's what I thought, okay, yeah.",P07,S02 00:26:54.02,00:26:53.30,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:26:58.94,00:26:53.76,[laughs] [noise],P08,S02 00:26:55.90,00:26:55.42,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:26:57.90,00:26:57.14,Mm.,P07,S02 00:27:07.98,00:26:59.34,"Okay, I'm gonna put this somewhere. I don't need this, at least I don't think. It's okay. Your hand sticky?",P05,S02 00:27:00.96,00:26:59.36,Okay. Hmm.,P07,S02 00:27:03.29,00:27:00.73,"So that was where the bedroom was, was a goose neck eight foot.",P06,S02 00:27:03.68,00:27:02.12,I see. Oh.,P07,S02 00:27:05.75,00:27:04.93,Sorry.,P06,S02 00:27:12.38,00:27:08.48,Something smells good. I'm gonna guess it's food that smells good.,P07,S02 00:27:11.12,00:27:10.14,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:27:15.42,00:27:12.30,"[laughs] Martha Stewart. Yeah, bub?",P05,S02 00:27:16.85,00:27:12.57,"Boo, you wanna fill the chips, Haze, do you wanna fill the chips up?",P06,S02 00:27:19.00,00:27:13.32,She made a bocconcini and zucchini pie.,P08,S02 00:27:18.04,00:27:14.06,Mhm. Mmm. Wow.,P07,S02 00:27:22.04,00:27:16.90,"Sure. Well, we can start with the salad and fruit, or we can wait. [inaudible 0:27:21.00]",P05,S02 00:27:21.34,00:27:20.24,It looks really good.,P08,S02 00:27:30.28,00:27:23.14,"Forty five minut- okay. I don't need that any more. We could put out forks and knives, napkins.",P05,S02 00:27:33.14,00:27:23.56,[noise],P08,S02 00:27:29.47,00:27:28.65,So,P06,S02 00:27:46.20,00:27:32.43,"We s- we steal napkins from wherever we go, so. [laughs] Not like, from people's houses. [laughs] I'll give you a napkin, Christopher. Do you prefer Chris or Christopher?",P05,S02 00:27:37.26,00:27:34.66,[laughs],P08,S02 00:27:43.70,00:27:39.46,"[laughs] You have, like, a bunch of cloth napkins everywhere.",P08,S02 00:27:45.02,00:27:44.20,Okay.,P07,S02 00:27:47.84,00:27:46.14,"Uh, either's fine. Chris is fine.",P07,S02 00:27:51.52,00:27:47.32,Okay. Or C. as Dolly sometimes puts it. [laughs],P05,S02 00:27:54.66,00:27:50.16,"That's w- [laughs] That's what I l- It's so longer to type Christopher than, what was it, like, C.",P08,S02 00:28:07.00,00:27:52.90,"It is so long. [laughs] You know, I did the shorthand on my, um, iPhone so that you can type e- , I type E M L and my whole email types out. Have you done that before? Yeah. I might have to get a mismatched plate.",P05,S02 00:28:04.72,00:28:03.14,"Oh, that's nice.",P08,S02 00:28:14.05,00:28:06.85,"What happened to the to the calendar, boo? No, but why is there a circle over here?",P06,S02 00:28:12.00,00:28:10.52,"I changed it to August, cuz we",P05,S02 00:28:14.82,00:28:13.96,"I don't know, bub.",P05,S02 00:28:18.49,00:28:15.27,"Oh summer bank holiday, I thought it like, was a cup.",P06,S02 00:28:20.30,00:28:18.12,It does look like a cup of coffee [inaudible 0:28:19.40],P05,S02 00:28:21.13,00:28:20.29,[inaudible 0:28:20.28],P06,S02 00:28:24.78,00:28:21.56,[noise] You wanna be the odd man out [inaudible 0:28:23.20],P05,S02 00:28:25.07,00:28:22.25,S- so basic- so b- ,P06,S02 00:28:26.60,00:28:26.08,"What, bub?",P05,S02 00:28:30.79,00:28:27.75,"Hi, the odd man out.",P06,S02 00:28:32.38,00:28:29.18,"[laughs] Do you want more chips, Christopher?",P05,S02 00:28:33.26,00:28:32.34,"Yes, please.",P07,S02 00:28:40.50,00:28:33.02,"K. Which did you have, barbecue? Barbecue. Ketchup I like, Abhi doesn't like those.",P05,S02 00:28:35.30,00:28:33.76,[laughs],P08,S02 00:28:37.46,00:28:36.94,Sure.,P07,S02 00:28:41.94,00:28:40.52,"Well, I like the ketchup ones, too.",P08,S02 00:28:48.80,00:28:42.18,"And these are so cheap. Dollar twenty five for the whole bag. I know, that's normally like an small bag of chips.",P05,S02 00:28:44.76,00:28:43.98,"Oh, really?",P08,S02 00:28:46.36,00:28:45.62,What?,P08,S02 00:28:50.63,00:28:49.01,[noise],P06,S02 00:28:51.58,00:28:49.32,Yeah. Where do you get those?,P08,S02 00:28:59.70,00:28:50.40,"Probably means they're gonna give us cancer. [laughs] These are from the dollar store. [laughs] Abhi's like, first few days here, he went there and he's like, ""These chips are awesome.""",P05,S02 00:28:53.02,00:28:52.40,[noise],P08,S02 00:28:55.28,00:28:53.58,[laughs] Nice.,P08,S02 00:29:00.15,00:28:59.33,Mhm.,P06,S02 00:29:13.62,00:28:59.84,"And now when we go to like Walmart or No Frills or wherever and I see a big bag of chips I'm like, ""Three fifty, screw that, I'm going back to the dollar store to get our dollar twenty five bag of good chips."" [laughs] What do you need?",P05,S02 00:29:07.50,00:29:05.04,[laughs],P08,S02 00:29:07.11,00:29:05.87,[noise],P06,S02 00:29:11.68,00:29:08.82,[laughs],P08,S02 00:29:16.10,00:29:15.56,[noise],P05,S02 00:29:20.15,00:29:16.49,I'm trying to figure out what I wanna make um on the dressing. Um,P06,S02 00:29:21.86,00:29:19.64,Okay. Just make it light and fresh.,P05,S02 00:29:28.11,00:29:22.03,"You want light and fresh? Mkay. No cheese in the salad? Dolly, you don't want cheese in the salad?",P06,S02 00:29:24.04,00:29:22.80,"Yes, please.",P05,S02 00:29:26.12,00:29:25.68,No.,P05,S02 00:29:32.16,00:29:28.20,I don't care. [noise],P08,S02 00:29:30.36,00:29:29.00,We have some if you want it.,P05,S02 00:29:33.41,00:29:30.25,"Okay. Okay, leave me alone now. I love you.",P06,S02 00:29:36.86,00:29:31.90,"[laughs] We have the fat from the cashews. Um, I don't need this, right?",P05,S02 00:29:35.51,00:29:34.31,Okay. Bye.,P06,S02 00:29:36.28,00:29:34.90,[laughs],P08,S02 00:29:46.47,00:29:41.33,"[inaudible 0:29:41.32] baby. Do you want a sweet salad, or do you want a",P06,S02 00:29:50.08,00:29:46.12,"Mm, we're gonna have the fruit on the side, so I don't think it needs to be sweet.",P05,S02 00:29:53.81,00:29:50.11,"You're gonna have fruit on the side of the meal, or is it s- is the fruit dessert?",P06,S02 00:29:52.38,00:29:51.92,Yep.,P05,S02 00:29:55.94,00:29:53.48,"Nope. We, they picked up dessert from Finches for us.",P05,S02 00:30:10.84,00:29:54.10,"[noise] I'm walking to the kitchen to, uh, f- fulfill, my contractual duties to be in the kitchen, that;s, really started this, okay, that's it, that's all you get.",P07,S02 00:29:59.49,00:29:56.13,"Okay, so you're not doing fruit and cottage cheese as a dessert, so",P06,S02 00:30:00.22,00:29:58.10,"Mm- mm, we're going to just have the fruit as the side.",P05,S02 00:30:03.69,00:30:00.67,You're gonna have a fruit side. That's very inter- ,P06,S02 00:30:02.66,00:30:02.02,Yes.,P05,S02 00:30:08.39,00:30:05.91,[laughs],P06,S02 00:30:13.08,00:30:06.12,[laughs] You can help Abhi. [laughs],P05,S02 00:30:08.82,00:30:07.30,[laughs],P08,S02 00:30:12.84,00:30:10.64,[laughs],P08,S02 00:30:12.50,00:30:11.40,[laughs],P07,S02 00:30:16.72,00:30:12.84,[noise],P08,S02 00:30:13.93,00:30:13.11,Um,P06,S02 00:30:19.91,00:30:15.77,"Okay, then I'm going to make, yeah. I'm just confused as to what to do.",P06,S02 00:30:24.32,00:30:18.94,"Man. Very stinky, um, what do you call this, cutting board.",P05,S02 00:30:33.38,00:30:27.84,"Any, um, big blow-ups or anything going on with your email? Uh, no, I've never seen it.",P08,S02 00:30:30.89,00:30:29.33,You guys watch Game of Thrones?,P06,S02 00:30:33.70,00:30:31.38,Hmm. Hmm?,P07,S02 00:30:33.58,00:30:33.00,[noise],P05,S02 00:30:37.35,00:30:33.57,You've never seen it? Y- do you watch Game of Thrones? Or no?,P06,S02 00:30:35.66,00:30:34.38,N- [laughs] no.,P08,S02 00:30:36.08,00:30:35.34,"I haven't, either.",P05,S02 00:30:38.12,00:30:37.26,"What is that, a show?",P07,S02 00:30:48.42,00:30:38.02,"[laughs] He's mean, because he just said no, he's never seen it. [laughs] I, Abhi had this look in his eye. Like, he might punch you. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:30:39.86,00:30:38.68,I'm just joking.,P07,S02 00:30:45.14,00:30:39.50,[laughs] [inaudible 0:30:43.60],P05,S02 00:30:42.39,00:30:41.47,[laughs],P06,S02 00:30:43.32,00:30:42.38,I s- I saw it once.,P07,S02 00:30:46.72,00:30:45.18,[laughs],P07,S02 00:30:48.40,00:30:46.64,[laughs],P05,S02 00:31:00.03,00:30:46.79,"No, no, no. I I understand we're having a conversation about Snapchat not being news, but [laughs] that was like, that, that, I mean, where were you living? [laughs]",P06,S02 00:30:58.78,00:30:50.36,[laughs],P07,S02 00:30:53.12,00:30:50.98,[laughs],P08,S02 00:30:53.94,00:30:51.42,[laughs] Being news.,P05,S02 00:31:02.60,00:30:56.32,[laughs],P08,S02 00:31:01.28,00:30:56.62,[laughs] [inaudible 0:30:59.00] [noise],P05,S02 00:31:00.54,00:30:59.72,[laughs],P07,S02 00:31:13.05,00:31:03.07,"So great you guys can watch it with Haley. Haley's like, no, no, she's like, ""Can I start at season seven? Can you, like, catch me up on seve- "" I can't catch you up on six years.",P06,S02 00:31:07.58,00:31:05.46,I gotta start from the beginning.,P05,S02 00:31:09.62,00:31:08.50,[laughs],P08,S02 00:31:14.30,00:31:11.28,[laughs],P08,S02 00:31:13.74,00:31:12.58,[noise],P05,S02 00:31:14.32,00:31:12.60,"What's the story, what's the story here?",P07,S02 00:31:17.49,00:31:15.01,"Oh. So, um",P06,S02 00:31:25.58,00:31:15.86,"[laughs] What, you mean you don't have a jar of papers? [laughs] Story, where?",P05,S02 00:31:26.91,00:31:18.85,"[inaudible 0:31:18.84] [laughs] Um, I don't know how to tell this story.",P06,S02 00:31:23.38,00:31:19.98,[laughs],P08,S02 00:31:21.32,00:31:20.14,[laughs],P07,S02 00:31:37.43,00:31:26.91,"So this is everything, yeah, th- th- [laughs] this is just ev- this is every receipt that we have. Since we came to Can- since we",P06,S02 00:31:32.90,00:31:26.98,"What, it's just how we keep our accounting. It's our accounting department. [laughs] It's all our receipts. Funny.",P05,S02 00:31:33.12,00:31:30.04,[laughs] Funny.,P08,S02 00:31:38.48,00:31:34.60,"And when, and Abhi inputs into an Excel sheet, and then we put it in here.",P05,S02 00:31:35.86,00:31:34.96,"So, what, you",P07,S02 00:31:43.62,00:31:37.36,"Like, you, like, for food and groceries. When you get coffee, do you get a receipt and put it in there? You k- why?",P07,S02 00:31:49.71,00:31:39.43,"Everything. Any b- , any, any s- yeah. Um, I, I throw it out every month. But I do account if I spend ten cents, I'll put it in the book.",P06,S02 00:31:40.56,00:31:39.86,Everything.,P05,S02 00:31:43.54,00:31:42.38,Yeah. Mhm.,P05,S02 00:31:44.78,00:31:43.42,[noise],P08,S02 00:31:46.56,00:31:46.18,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:31:48.90,00:31:48.52,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:31:53.74,00:31:49.66,"He's very used to keeping books and, I know, I know.",P05,S02 00:31:53.50,00:31:49.78,"Wow. Woah, that's very, like, organized.",P08,S02 00:32:00.39,00:31:50.55,"Yeah. I always do the books. Like, I know exactly the balance to the dollar in every single account, there balance owed on every single credit card",P06,S02 00:31:52.92,00:31:52.32,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:32:00.64,00:31:57.02,"I mean it's, uh, it's very healthy, but wow.",P08,S02 00:32:08.54,00:31:59.12,"But you can get, you can, you can get free, free Quickbooks, but you can get free Quickbooks and upload straight from your bank statement, and not have to do this any more. Hmm.",P07,S02 00:32:02.91,00:32:01.31,"I know, but I, my mind works that way",P06,S02 00:32:10.37,00:32:04.83,"I I agree but I just didn't even have it, I've been doing that before Quickbooks, and I've been doing it",P06,S02 00:32:15.17,00:32:08.46,"And what about when you use cash? What about when you use cash? And we have like four different cards, so.",P05,S02 00:32:10.32,00:32:09.74,Hmm?,P07,S02 00:32:11.46,00:32:10.36,It's what you do.,P08,S02 00:32:12.70,00:32:11.50,"Then that's true, yeah, yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 00:32:28.21,00:32:12.60,"Now you know, some people, some, [inaudible 0:32:14.40], it's like my, my, my, my grandfather's still writing letters. It's just something, [laughs] some things that you just, you s- and you, no, no, no, I, I, I, I'll, I'll keep, no, I mean this is, this is kind of useless",P06,S02 00:32:15.16,00:32:14.62,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:32:16.90,00:32:16.44,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:32:22.46,00:32:21.00,[noise] Mm.,P07,S02 00:32:28.08,00:32:21.42,"You're the receipt guy, and that's [laughs]",P08,S02 00:32:27.12,00:32:22.53,"Mhm. I never used to keep receipts ever, and now I'm like, ""Yeah, I'll do it.""",P05,S02 00:32:27.12,00:32:26.32,[noise],P07,S02 00:32:44.01,00:32:28.21,"This is kind of useless, because, we can throw those out, I just do it for the sake of doing it, uh, but I'm just saying that I do my books every night, so every night, uh, yeah, before I go to bed, every dollar spent I know, what, what, what's done, what needs to be done, if anything needs to be moved, if",P06,S02 00:32:33.14,00:32:28.96,"Yeah, we can throw those out.",P05,S02 00:32:33.88,00:32:30.84,[laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 00:32:33.24,00:32:32.72,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:32:39.58,00:32:35.67,"Yeah. He knows like every dollar spent, [inaudible 0:32:39.00]",P05,S02 00:32:36.34,00:32:35.84,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:32:37.32,00:32:36.66,Wow.,P08,S02 00:32:42.48,00:32:42.00,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:32:43.22,00:32:42.64,Wow.,P08,S02 00:32:44.64,00:32:43.40,"Why do you know all that, Abhi?",P05,S02 00:32:46.34,00:32:44.98,I do that for my business.,P07,S02 00:32:57.81,00:32:45.34,"I, I d- yeah, but since my life and my business right now because I'm poor [laughs], as you can see by my great apartment [laughs] um",P06,S02 00:32:46.44,00:32:45.36,[laughs],P08,S02 00:32:52.28,00:32:48.88,Yeah. Mm. [laughs],P07,S02 00:32:53.50,00:32:49.38,[laughs],P08,S02 00:32:52.90,00:32:52.14,[noise],P05,S02 00:32:56.92,00:32:55.14,[laughs],P08,S02 00:32:56.60,00:32:55.32,[laughs],P07,S02 00:33:08.11,00:32:57.81,"But, uh, but yes, so now my life has taken on my, well no, but, the f- , the funny thing is, when I, when I, before, so I had people to do my books for me, uh, I understand.",P06,S02 00:33:04.10,00:33:03.34,That's his,P05,S02 00:33:06.74,00:33:06.18,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:33:22.22,00:33:08.04,"No, I do the same for the, the billing of our home. Every, every expense, I put, and I, like, I have a, I have, I've created a whole bunch of, like, chart of accounts, because I use an accounting system for it, and I, so I've got, like, I categorize every expense. I decide whether it's capital or whether it's opex.",P07,S02 00:33:09.60,00:33:08.04,"Wow, I mean that's",P08,S02 00:33:11.22,00:33:10.30,Mm.,P05,S02 00:33:20.30,00:33:17.16,Hm. Mhm.,P05,S02 00:33:20.57,00:33:19.77,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:33:22.30,00:33:21.64,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:33:22.57,00:33:21.89,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:33:37.94,00:33:22.22,"And, like, so, mortgage is opex, but, like, like operating expense, so I, I treat my, I treat our home as if it's a, as if it's an operating business. So when, when I get, like, a bill from the architect, that's, I sort of consider that capital, because I'm, like, improving the value of the land.",P07,S02 00:33:25.00,00:33:24.10,What's Opex?,P05,S02 00:33:26.31,00:33:25.19,Operating expense.,P06,S02 00:33:27.98,00:33:26.24,"Opex, I get it.",P05,S02 00:33:30.88,00:33:30.22,I see.,P05,S02 00:33:33.10,00:33:32.76,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:33:38.68,00:33:37.36,Yeah. Mhm.,P05,S02 00:33:52.24,00:33:37.94,"By paying the architect to design the home, which is eventually gonna improve the value, so, so I, like, put the architecture, uh, invoice and call that, like, capital, you know, like, ca- I guess, capital contributions from myself.",P07,S02 00:33:40.84,00:33:40.12,Sure.,P05,S02 00:33:49.72,00:33:40.98,[noise],P08,S02 00:33:43.48,00:33:42.88,Sure.,P05,S02 00:33:54.93,00:33:50.81,"Oh good, so you are as anal as I am. [noise]",P06,S02 00:33:54.48,00:33:52.68,[laughs],P05,S02 00:34:01.78,00:33:52.73,"Yeah. Whereas if I get, like, a mortgage statement or a gas bill or an electricity bill, I consider well, that's not really adding value to the property, that's not a capital expense, that's just an operating expense, so I put that in as well.",P07,S02 00:33:54.01,00:33:52.79,Oh yeah.,P08,S02 00:34:01.31,00:34:00.39,Operating expense.,P06,S02 00:34:20.36,00:34:01.66,"The nice thing is with my product development stuff, like I, I used to just like, ""Yeah I'll pay there, I'll pay there, I'll pay there"" and somebody told me a couple years ago like, ""You know, you can get reimbursed for all that"" or like especially if you're a startup you can get tax write offs and everything"", so I had to go back and find all the papers and now he's organized a whole Excel sheet for me. W- ",P05,S02 00:34:09.21,00:34:02.73,[noise],P08,S02 00:34:13.72,00:34:13.24,Mm.,P07,S02 00:34:14.31,00:34:13.45,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:34:32.53,00:34:18.37,"And she's like, ""Yeah, yeah, yeah, I s- "", she's like, she's like, ""Yeah, you know, I'll, I put a little bit of money into it"". So then I the- so then I got there and I started putting it. I was like, ""You spent twenty four thousand dollars, Haley, what"". [laughs] I was like, she had no idea, I was like, with the ballpark, she was like",P06,S02 00:34:19.34,00:34:18.42,Mm.,P07,S02 00:34:19.63,00:34:18.73,Wow.,P08,S02 00:34:29.99,00:34:28.11,[laughs],P08,S02 00:34:32.20,00:34:29.90,Over like three and a half years.,P05,S02 00:34:32.61,00:34:31.75,[laughs],P08,S02 00:34:45.79,00:34:32.53,"She was like, ""Yeah, maybe like, ten, twelve grand, thereabouts."" I was like, ""That's twenty four grand there, [inaudible 0:34:37.73]. [laughs] So, so the the, the, the the brilliant thing about my, my, my beautiful girlfriend, which is incredible",P06,S02 00:34:39.67,00:34:36.79,[laughs],P08,S02 00:34:38.28,00:34:37.64,[noise],P07,S02 00:34:43.56,00:34:37.74,"I mean I forgot about the patent, the patent is the big thing, but yes. So",P05,S02 00:34:45.72,00:34:44.84,[laughs],P05,S02 00:35:04.75,00:34:45.92,"Which is incredible, and which, which I, like, she is the biggest wat- , like, she, she, she'll go, ""That's a dollar less"" or ""That's two"" Like, she'll watch the money incredibly, you know what I mean? Yeah, no [laughs] Like, she will find a deal, she'll find a Groupon, she'll find, like, I never used a coupon before America in my life, okay?",P06,S02 00:34:58.91,00:34:54.67,[laughs] That's how you know about the chips. [laughs],P08,S02 00:35:05.03,00:35:02.91,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:18.91,00:35:04.75,"She'll find a deal, she'll find incredibly, right, she'll find a way to [inaudible 0:35:08.80] but her mathematics is not so good, so she'll go and save two dollars here and then she'll go and have a three hundred dollar dinner, so, so sometimes they're not in parity.",P06,S02 00:35:09.13,00:35:07.47,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:10.76,00:35:08.40,But [laughs],P05,S02 00:35:14.39,00:35:13.01,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:16.40,00:35:15.78,[laughs],P05,S02 00:35:19.89,00:35:15.89,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:21.62,00:35:18.50,But I still saved [laughs],P05,S02 00:35:36.79,00:35:18.91,"Right, she still like, [laughs] but I love the fact that she still looks for that two, three dollars [laughs] so that's amazing. So sometimes we have the argument, where we're arguing about something at the grocery store, and she's like, ""Go that way"" and I'm like, ""No"" and I'm like, ""How much did you spend on your nails today for God's sake"" you know, no, no but I'm just saying that",P06,S02 00:35:25.73,00:35:23.69,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:25.38,00:35:23.94,[laughs],P05,S02 00:35:44.84,00:35:34.74,"Yeah. I'm like, ""You have to save a dollar here"" and he's like, ""You just got your nails done"" [inaudible 0:25:38.80] How is that comparable? Like, it's still saving an extra dollar in my pocket.",P05,S02 00:35:43.57,00:35:38.89,"[laughs] I'm like, you know what I mean, like",P06,S02 00:35:42.29,00:35:40.77,[laughs],P08,S02 00:35:42.05,00:35:41.03,[noise],P07,S02 00:35:43.53,00:35:42.97,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:35:57.65,00:35:43.43,"But, and, this, this'll last for over a month, almost, so that's like, you know what I mean? Like, [laughs] the daily expense is less. [laughs] Yeah.",P08,S02 00:35:47.38,00:35:46.54,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:35:51.83,00:35:47.19,"No, no, that's not my, that's not, that's not my point, that's not my point, I'm just saying that, I'm just saying that",P06,S02 00:35:49.68,00:35:49.08,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:35:53.90,00:35:50.64,"I try to find Groupons for nails, you know.",P05,S02 00:35:59.11,00:35:52.83,"W- [laughs] hey, I'm just saying that she does it because she loves doing it, but it's amazing, you know what I mean",P06,S02 00:36:06.06,00:35:56.76,"Yeah. And I grew up in a family where like w- you know we didn't mind going out to dinner and using coupon after, where like Abhi in Dubai that would be like the most shameful thing ever, like",P05,S02 00:35:57.67,00:35:57.07,Mm.,P07,S02 00:36:12.21,00:36:05.63,"To use a coupon? But the restaurant wants, like, wants you to use the coupon so that you come. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:36:07.40,00:36:06.78,Oh yeah.,P05,S02 00:36:07.71,00:36:06.79,[noise],P06,S02 00:36:13.58,00:36:09.84,"Right, right. No. With, with them it's pride.",P05,S02 00:36:10.51,00:36:09.89,[noise],P06,S02 00:36:18.27,00:36:11.33,"Yeah, but even if like in y- where, where, where I grew up, like even if you had the coupon you wouldn't use it. Yeah, yeah, I mean it's, but",P06,S02 00:36:13.67,00:36:12.79,[noise],P07,S02 00:36:16.24,00:36:15.72,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:36:17.25,00:36:15.83,"Oh, really? Wow.",P08,S02 00:36:34.73,00:36:18.27,"Which way, pull that. Uh, but, uh, but now, when we're in Texas [laughs] I started getting the ATB coupon. And I became coupon man, remember the last time, I was like, unemployed, ""Haley, teach me how to save money."" [laughs]",P06,S02 00:36:21.04,00:36:19.72,[inaudible 0:36:19.72],P05,S02 00:36:27.95,00:36:25.81,Oh. [laughs],P08,S02 00:36:28.04,00:36:27.24,Oh,P05,S02 00:36:40.87,00:36:30.75,"Teach me how to save money. They, um, I, one of my first jobs in high school was uh, cashier at Albertson's , like, grocery store change, chain",P08,S02 00:36:34.96,00:36:31.68,[laughs] That's why you make money. [laughs],P05,S02 00:36:36.45,00:36:35.63,[noise],P06,S02 00:36:40.12,00:36:39.56,Okay.,P05,S02 00:36:48.53,00:36:40.87,"And, uh, they would have triple coupo- trip- double, triple coupon days, every, like, once a month on Sundays or something.",P08,S02 00:36:52.76,00:36:45.46,"Wow. So whatever your coupon was, it was times two or times three? Wow.",P05,S02 00:36:55.09,00:36:50.93,"Yes. And there were, like, what I would call, like, just",P08,S02 00:36:55.90,00:36:54.48,To crazy couponers,P05,S02 00:37:02.53,00:36:55.87,"Crazy couponers came in, and one lady bought, it was, like, six hundred dollars worth of groceries, and she paid fifty three cents.",P08,S02 00:36:58.04,00:36:57.08,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:37:07.90,00:37:02.48,"She should have been on that show. What's it called, Crazy Couponing or something? Extreme Couponing. That's, yeah.",P05,S02 00:37:04.43,00:37:03.51,Yes.,P08,S02 00:37:11.67,00:37:05.55,"Yeah. [laughs] Extreme Couponing. And they were just, they were so good at it, they had little books, and I just couldn't believe it.",P08,S02 00:37:06.41,00:37:05.69,Mm.,P07,S02 00:37:08.45,00:37:07.35,[noise],P07,S02 00:37:20.58,00:37:10.16,"Mhm. But you don't necessarily get food you want, I think, when they do that. Like, it's kind of like feeding for a family of ten. Yeah, that's true. Soups, and yeah, exactly.",P05,S02 00:37:14.07,00:37:13.15,[laughs],P07,S02 00:37:19.31,00:37:13.43,"Yeah, I mean, it's, like, a lot of Velveeta. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:37:22.99,00:37:16.11,"It's like, you can buy a ten, ten, pack of pasta, like, ""Hey kids, we're having spaghetti again.""",P07,S02 00:37:29.65,00:37:20.69,"She's like, ""Oh,"" yeah, she's like, ""The Fruit roll-ups are on sale, limit twelve, I'll get all twelve."" I'm like, 'You don't need twelve boxes of Fruit roll-ups, Ma'am.""",P08,S02 00:37:23.18,00:37:21.00,"It's like, ""Oh, you s- "" Oh",P05,S02 00:37:26.72,00:37:25.28,[laughs],P05,S02 00:37:27.41,00:37:26.31,[laughs],P07,S02 00:37:43.48,00:37:28.56,"I saw someone at the grocery store yesterday taking the husks of corn and they had about fifty husks of corn in their bask- in their cart, and I was like, ""I wonder, like, what they're doing"", like, yeah, that's a nice, it was nice.",P05,S02 00:37:29.69,00:37:28.63,Add more.,P07,S02 00:37:39.71,00:37:37.07,"Yeah, but they're also in the grocery store on Hastings",P06,S02 00:37:41.11,00:37:40.75,Mm.,P07,S02 00:37:44.01,00:37:41.23,"But it was a nice grocery store, that's what's a- yeah.",P06,S02 00:37:49.15,00:37:43.51,"I guess, if they're on sale, you can freeze corn, too. Maybe, like, shuck it, boil it, freeze it.",P08,S02 00:37:51.04,00:37:45.88,Oh. That's true. I don't think they were e- even on sale.,P05,S02 00:38:00.83,00:37:51.47,"Oh. Yeah, cuz, I mean, actually, frozen corn is really cheap already, anyway. It's like ninety seven cents, I think. Like, don't cut it off the cob.",P08,S02 00:37:53.59,00:37:53.15,Hmm.,P07,S02 00:38:08.26,00:37:56.60,"Hmm. Yeah, that's true. Well, I started to think like, I wonder if they're, like, going to stack up some like, shelter or something like that. I just opened that. [laughs]",P05,S02 00:38:06.07,00:38:04.79,"Oh, I see what you mean.",P08,S02 00:38:07.23,00:38:06.43,Oh okay.,P06,S02 00:38:07.25,00:38:06.67,[noise],P07,S02 00:38:08.27,00:38:07.35,[laughs],P08,S02 00:38:11.62,00:38:08.78,Forks. Do you guys like big forks or little forks? [noise],P05,S02 00:38:12.59,00:38:09.49,"[laughs] I'm a, I'm a big fork.",P08,S02 00:38:16.62,00:38:12.36,Okay. Okay. And Abhi's a big fork. I'm the only little fork?,P05,S02 00:38:15.13,00:38:12.57,"I'm a big fork kinda, kinda guy.",P07,S02 00:38:20.95,00:38:16.39,[laughs],P08,S02 00:38:18.51,00:38:17.79,Aw.,P07,S02 00:38:23.02,00:38:18.62,"My mom stops, uh, you, you're okay with the white plate?",P05,S02 00:38:20.43,00:38:18.77,[laughs],P07,S02 00:38:32.89,00:38:21.83,"Tha- tha- that was actually the, the, my, um, my, my, Hot or N- my Hot or Not profile, um, uh, catch phrase. The, uh, uh, ""I'm, I'm, I'm a big fork."" [laughs]",P07,S02 00:38:26.35,00:38:24.37,"He's a very big fork, for sure.",P08,S02 00:38:29.65,00:38:27.33,Hot or Not profile,P06,S02 00:38:34.96,00:38:31.74,Oh. [laughs] That's cute. [laughs],P05,S02 00:38:32.87,00:38:31.85,You're a big,P06,S02 00:38:39.09,00:38:33.75,"Hmm. No. That's, that's, that's not a thing. I didn't do that. [laughs]",P07,S02 00:38:38.57,00:38:35.02,Haze. You gotta keep your phone [inaudible 0:38:37.10] okay?,P06,S02 00:38:38.99,00:38:36.17,[laughs],P08,S02 00:38:46.22,00:38:37.30,"Okay. All right. Um, knives just in case. Thirteen minutes for that. We can put the salad on and the fruit.",P05,S02 00:38:43.65,00:38:40.33,You're a big forking mess. [laughs] Just kidding.,P08,S02 00:38:43.11,00:38:40.73,How long bef- how long before lunch is ready?,P06,S02 00:38:42.35,00:38:41.69,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:38:49.53,00:38:44.75,If you like big forks [laughs] look no further. [laughs],P07,S02 00:38:58.21,00:38:46.09,"[laughs] So, so we actually met online, and, uh. We actually did meet on Hot or Not, in, like, two thousand seven. Yes, in two thousand and seven.",P08,S02 00:38:49.44,00:38:47.68,[laughs],P05,S02 00:38:50.25,00:38:48.91,That's actually kinda good.,P06,S02 00:38:53.59,00:38:49.97,[laughs] On Hot or Not.,P07,S02 00:38:53.84,00:38:52.06,Oh. Which site?,P05,S02 00:38:56.45,00:38:53.43,"Who met, you guys met on Hot or Not?",P06,S02 00:38:58.69,00:38:54.97,"Yeah, we did. Fuckin' right we did. Yeah.",P07,S02 00:38:55.96,00:38:55.22,Really?,P05,S02 00:39:00.60,00:38:57.74,I haven't heard of Hot or Not in so long.,P05,S02 00:38:59.87,00:38:58.99,What?!,P06,S02 00:39:00.25,00:38:59.39,It was like the,P07,S02 00:39:01.79,00:38:59.43,"[laughs] Yeah, I swear to god.",P08,S02 00:39:03.95,00:39:02.41,It's the precursor to Tinder.,P07,S02 00:39:04.65,00:39:02.99,"In two thousand and seven, we met.",P08,S02 00:39:05.64,00:39:03.98,That was when there was less,P05,S02 00:39:10.43,00:39:04.81,"On Hot or Not. I thought Hot or Not was a mock site, because we used to make fun of Hot or Not when we were a kid.",P06,S02 00:39:06.45,00:39:05.95,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:39:07.21,00:39:05.93,Yes.,P08,S02 00:39:08.76,00:39:08.22,No.,P05,S02 00:39:12.07,00:39:08.65,"No, it was. [noise] It was. [noise] It started off as that.",P07,S02 00:39:22.03,00:39:09.75,"No, no, no, you could, it, so, it started out as just a rating site, like, people would upload their photos. Yeah. So, then, then, like, yes, so then in two thousand seven, they were like meet this this person.",P08,S02 00:39:12.80,00:39:11.04,I didn't know you could date in it.,P05,S02 00:39:12.49,00:39:11.79,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:39:14.24,00:39:13.76,Yeah,P05,S02 00:39:20.83,00:39:13.95,"Yeah, that's, that's, that's the Hot or Not I remember. And you'd just go, ""Not. Not. Not."" [laughs]",P06,S02 00:39:16.61,00:39:16.03,[laughs],P07,S02 00:39:19.55,00:39:17.27,That is not the Hot or Not we had.,P07,S02 00:39:19.42,00:39:18.42,[laughs],P05,S02 00:39:26.41,00:39:22.03,"And you could click, and then the, the man paid.",P08,S02 00:39:22.85,00:39:22.25,Huh.,P06,S02 00:39:24.20,00:39:23.00,Oh,P05,S02 00:39:40.07,00:39:25.07,"And it was ye or no. It was just, it was before mobile phones came out, like, it was before the iPhone. And so instead there was just two buttons, yes no. So, you'd, so it was, I'm sure it's just, like, yeah, I'm sure it's just like what Tinder's like, where you're just going, like, ""No, no, no, hmm, yes, no, no."" Right?",P07,S02 00:39:29.49,00:39:28.01,"Yes, it was like early Tinder.",P08,S02 00:39:40.82,00:39:32.68,"You're right, I had a Crazer in th- that year [laughs]. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So where was your first date?",P05,S02 00:39:35.83,00:39:34.25,[laughs],P08,S02 00:39:43.35,00:39:40.77,"Uh, Central Park. Yeah.",P08,S02 00:39:41.99,00:39:41.15,Central Park.,P07,S02 00:39:44.52,00:39:42.44,"Oh that's cute. Afternoon, evening?",P05,S02 00:39:46.05,00:39:44.69,Morning. Mhm.,P07,S02 00:39:46.97,00:39:44.81,"Morning. We did, like, coffee.",P08,S02 00:40:02.30,00:39:59.58,"No, I have to be in here, that's my [laughs]",P05,S02 00:40:01.85,00:39:59.73,[laughs],P08,S02 00:40:12.53,00:40:03.43,"re-reading the story back to me, I met, I met her on Hot or Not and I invited her to Central Park at night. [laughs] That's really sketchy. [laughs]",P07,S02 00:40:05.23,00:40:03.53,Where's my big [inaudible 0:40:04.20],P06,S02 00:40:06.03,00:40:04.89,[noise],P08,S02 00:40:11.23,00:40:08.49,[laughs],P08,S02 00:40:11.09,00:40:08.95,[laughs] Yeah.,P06,S02 00:40:14.14,00:40:10.62,"And his thing was, ""Do you like big forking?"" [laughs] or",P05,S02 00:40:29.07,00:40:12.83,"Well, what I was going to say was, y- you, in, i- , back in two thousand and seven you would chat on AIM before you, like, met someone, and so his, his screen name was G I A N C Junkie, and I read it, originally, as giant junk.",P08,S02 00:40:14.03,00:40:12.91,"[laughs] Yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 00:40:18.76,00:40:18.30,Yep,P05,S02 00:40:20.48,00:40:19.96,Yeah,P05,S02 00:40:21.81,00:40:21.15,[noise],P07,S02 00:40:23.32,00:40:21.84,What was his screen name?,P05,S02 00:40:30.41,00:40:29.47,Which is not what it was.,P07,S02 00:40:31.35,00:40:29.49,And I was like [laughs],P08,S02 00:40:31.15,00:40:30.23,[noise],P06,S02 00:40:32.38,00:40:30.48,What is G I A N C?,P05,S02 00:40:34.17,00:40:31.81,"Okay, this is r- super nerdy.",P07,S02 00:40:37.97,00:40:32.85,[laughs],P08,S02 00:40:35.24,00:40:34.20,Oh gosh,P05,S02 00:40:44.51,00:40:35.53,GIA- GIAC is a software company that makes aftermarket engine software for Audis.,P07,S02 00:40:38.42,00:40:35.70,I expect no- no less. [laughs],P05,S02 00:40:40.84,00:40:40.02,Okay.,P05,S02 00:40:45.88,00:40:45.18,Okay.,P05,S02 00:40:56.45,00:40:45.57,"And so, if you're an Audi owner, and an Audi enthusiast, you can, [inaudible 0:40:50.60] you can, uh, you can swap out, you can, you can re-flash",P07,S02 00:40:52.17,00:40:46.21,[laughs],P08,S02 00:40:53.98,00:40:47.46,Yeah. uh-huh. Which you are. Okay. You are Mercedes.,P05,S02 00:40:51.81,00:40:50.27,I was both.,P06,S02 00:40:56.41,00:40:53.99,"Yeah, our last. My first car was an Audi.",P06,S02 00:40:57.84,00:40:56.42,Okay [noise],P05,S02 00:41:02.73,00:40:56.97,"You can re-flash your engine control module in your engine control unit with their software, and it makes your car faster.",P07,S02 00:41:02.79,00:41:00.49,"Can you, can you put this back in [inaudible 0:41:02.00]",P06,S02 00:41:04.88,00:41:03.52,"Okay, so you",P05,S02 00:41:08.01,00:41:04.09,"And, and at the time, and the other piece of context was that",P07,S02 00:41:07.93,00:41:05.73,"Put it in properly, please, it keeps falling out.",P06,S02 00:41:08.40,00:41:07.10,It's in properly.,P05,S02 00:41:22.49,00:41:08.79,"Among Audi enthusiasts, there were, at that time, like a, like a West Coast, East Coast rap battle going on between the different companies that make this aftermarket software, so [laughs]",P07,S02 00:41:10.76,00:41:10.44,[noise],P05,S02 00:41:26.10,00:41:18.50,Oh my gosh. Is there like a TV show like rap battles where like so- software battles.,P05,S02 00:41:22.57,00:41:20.25,[laughs],P08,S02 00:41:35.03,00:41:23.06,"So there's, like, so there's, like, a group of people that, that think that, like, APR makes the best one, and another group of people think GIAC makes the best one, and another one of them thinks that NeuSpeed makes the b- and there's like, three or four different, like, companies, and so if y- ",P07,S02 00:41:30.40,00:41:29.54,Mhm,P05,S02 00:41:37.30,00:41:33.18,Mkay. All Audi software,P05,S02 00:41:40.47,00:41:35.57,"Yeah. Uh, and Volkswagen, but mostly, the, the real enthusiasts were, like, the Audi enthusiasts.",P07,S02 00:41:38.30,00:41:37.82,Okay.,P05,S02 00:41:38.89,00:41:38.33,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:41:40.76,00:41:40.18,Okay.,P05,S02 00:41:41.39,00:41:40.77,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:41:49.63,00:41:41.27,"Um, and so, so I was in the GIAC camp, and that, uh, somehow, some part of me decided that would be a good name for my AIM screen name.",P07,S02 00:41:45.06,00:41:44.58,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:41:53.51,00:41:48.63,"I don't even remember the beginning of this story. Woah, like, GIAC, okay, good.",P06,S02 00:41:50.42,00:41:49.40,"Oh, funny.",P05,S02 00:41:50.91,00:41:50.35,Mm.,P07,S02 00:41:53.43,00:41:52.93,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:41:55.38,00:41:53.60,"Giant, right",P05,S02 00:42:06.96,00:42:04.90,"Hmm, yeah, n- ",P05,S02 00:42:08.63,00:42:07.55,[noise],P07,S02 00:42:15.84,00:42:09.68,[noise] That's better! He's still asking to meet me in Central Park.,P05,S02 00:42:12.31,00:42:10.73,[laughs],P07,S02 00:42:24.41,00:42:13.61,"This is either, this is either, this is either a porn thing or a drugs thing, and I, I draw the line at, I draw the line at porn, so. [laughs]",P07,S02 00:42:19.07,00:42:17.19,[laughs],P08,S02 00:42:18.52,00:42:17.26,Mhm,P05,S02 00:42:19.49,00:42:17.29,[laughs] I like both.,P06,S02 00:42:19.52,00:42:19.18,No,P05,S02 00:42:21.59,00:42:20.93,[noise],P06,S02 00:42:22.12,00:42:20.96,[laughs],P05,S02 00:42:23.03,00:42:20.95,[laughs],P08,S02 00:42:31.52,00:42:23.48,"Uh, are you almost done with those? Okay. Um, I can s- can't sit down, I'm waiting on the pie. Actually, it might be done.",P05,S02 00:42:25.03,00:42:24.11,[laughs],P08,S02 00:42:26.69,00:42:24.43,"Yeah, [inaudible 0:42:25.04] can you go sit down?",P06,S02 00:42:28.99,00:42:24.65,[noise],P07,S02 00:42:30.09,00:42:25.03,[noise],P08,S02 00:42:32.29,00:42:29.47,"It said to nine minute, it's nine minutes.",P06,S02 00:42:49.53,00:42:30.01,[noise],P07,S02 00:42:35.64,00:42:32.06,It says when it starts bubbling and is golden. It's getting golden.,P05,S02 00:42:39.07,00:42:34.39,"Mmm. That looks good. Yeah, probably another, like, five minutes.",P08,S02 00:42:41.84,00:42:37.12,"Well, I've no idea how it tastes, so. Where's the light in here?",P05,S02 00:42:44.11,00:42:40.25,"Leave it in the, leave it in the stipulated time if you don't know.",P06,S02 00:42:47.98,00:42:43.02,"Do we have a light? There. No, the l- ooh.",P05,S02 00:42:46.57,00:42:45.11,Want a lighter? No.,P06,S02 00:42:49.43,00:42:48.25,That looks good.,P08,S02 00:42:52.60,00:42:48.60,I snapped this morning as I was making it. I saw one of your snaps the other day with Macy.,P05,S02 00:43:02.10,00:42:53.04,"Think, yes, that's good. Oh look, he finished the whole story. Oh, you mean the first date. Mkay, Central Park, he wants to hear.",P05,S02 00:43:01.55,00:42:53.41,"Oh yeah, yeah, f- finish the story. So Hot or Not, you went to Central- No, no, not the whole, so Central Park, the the Merce story",P06,S02 00:42:58.21,00:42:57.29,That's the story.,P07,S02 00:43:00.03,00:42:59.01,What?,P08,S02 00:43:03.73,00:43:00.19,[noise] We went for a walk.,P07,S02 00:43:08.93,00:43:02.19,"Oh, well, so we, yeah, we met at, um, Le Pain Quotidien. Like a, yeah, yep.",P08,S02 00:43:03.64,00:43:03.12,[noise],P05,S02 00:43:05.97,00:43:04.41,[noise],P07,S02 00:43:13.59,00:43:06.81,"Oh la, le Le Pain Quotidien, yeah yeah, la la [noise] [laughs]",P06,S02 00:43:18.23,00:43:09.41,"And it's a coffee shop. [laughs] And, uh, we grabbed a coffee.",P08,S02 00:43:13.23,00:43:09.81,"Uh, sorry, this is an English con- the daily bread. Just remember that.",P07,S02 00:43:14.94,00:43:11.98,[laughs],P05,S02 00:43:17.37,00:43:15.07,[noise],P07,S02 00:43:19.41,00:43:17.93,It's my mother's favorite place.,P06,S02 00:43:19.07,00:43:18.47,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:43:25.93,00:43:19.35,"And then we went to Central park and walked around, and then that was it. It was, like very, like, very simple date.",P08,S02 00:43:20.22,00:43:19.64,Is it?,P05,S02 00:43:24.83,00:43:22.71,That was it. That was it.,P07,S02 00:43:27.28,00:43:25.60,"And who, no kiss?",P05,S02 00:43:26.43,00:43:25.95,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:43:28.23,00:43:27.61,No kiss.,P07,S02 00:43:30.25,00:43:28.21,"No, he didn't kiss me till the fourth date.",P08,S02 00:43:30.98,00:43:30.04,Fourth?,P05,S02 00:43:42.49,00:43:31.05,"That's why I was, like, ""I guess we're just friends."" [laughs] I know what you've got in there. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:43:42.11,00:43:32.53,[inaudible 0:43:32.50] [laughs] There's aftermarket software. [laughs],P07,S02 00:43:50.88,00:43:32.60,"[laughs] Friends with giant junk! [laughs] No friend zone! [laughs] She's like, ""I'm an APR fan"" or whatever it is. Is it APR? I got it? Nice. I was just thinking April. [noise]",P05,S02 00:43:38.59,00:43:35.09,[laughs],P06,S02 00:43:45.55,00:43:43.53,I know which [inaudible 043:44:10]. What?,P08,S02 00:43:48.11,00:43:44.59,"Yeah. Yes, yes, you got it right. Yep, yep.",P07,S02 00:43:53.15,00:43:45.89,[laughs],P08,S02 00:43:52.61,00:43:50.73,[noise] [laughs],P07,S02 00:43:55.44,00:43:53.22,So then who texted who after the first date?,P05,S02 00:43:55.99,00:43:55.27,Ah.,P07,S02 00:44:00.51,00:43:55.23,"Well, so, well, it didn't go well. Neither of us, like, really liked each other. Um.",P08,S02 00:44:01.20,00:43:58.12,It didn't go well? Oh. You want more water?,P05,S02 00:44:12.01,00:44:01.11,"We, yeah, um, we just thought, I dunno, we just, uh, we, I dunno, we just didn't get it, I don't think. Uh, neither of us were really ourselves on the first date, because no one is, but",P08,S02 00:44:09.81,00:44:04.99,[noise],P07,S02 00:44:07.90,00:44:07.30,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:44:16.07,00:44:11.17,[noise],P07,S02 00:44:12.16,00:44:11.44,Right.,P05,S02 00:44:12.65,00:44:11.93,True.,P06,S02 00:44:21.93,00:44:12.61,"Um, and so we were, like, ""No."" But the versions of ourselves that we thought would be cool, neither of us thought was very cool, I think. [laughs] Um, but",P08,S02 00:44:21.20,00:44:18.66,[laughs] That's funny. [laughs],P05,S02 00:44:24.47,00:44:21.21,"Plus I, plus I, I, we, we did get in the car at one point",P07,S02 00:44:37.31,00:44:24.41,"No, this was second date. Yep. So, so then, um, w- oh, thank you. One evening, we were driving, uh, well, I was walking to a party, and he was walking on the same route, like few weeks, couple weeks",P08,S02 00:44:27.53,00:44:25.17,That was second date? Hmm. Okay.,P07,S02 00:44:30.38,00:44:29.46,You're welcome.,P05,S02 00:44:31.95,00:44:29.49,[noise],P07,S02 00:44:37.31,00:44:34.31,[noise] Mhm.,P07,S02 00:44:35.52,00:44:34.48,How much later?,P05,S02 00:44:37.42,00:44:36.74,Okay.,P05,S02 00:44:46.91,00:44:37.31,"Um, on seventy second street and, in New York, and so I was walking up to, like, an ATM with a friend, and he was, I guess, on another date that I d- ",P08,S02 00:44:39.34,00:44:38.76,Even,P05,S02 00:44:40.05,00:44:39.33,[noise],P07,S02 00:44:44.52,00:44:43.98,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:44:54.41,00:44:46.21,"Uh, you guess. I was on another date with another random floozy that I never t- No. I met this one on Match.",P07,S02 00:44:48.79,00:44:47.23,I didn't even realize that.,P08,S02 00:44:52.51,00:44:49.97,"I didn't, I didn't even realize it.",P08,S02 00:44:52.50,00:44:50.24,[laughs] On Hot or Not?,P05,S02 00:44:51.29,00:44:50.57,[noise],P06,S02 00:44:55.32,00:44:54.52,Oh okay.,P05,S02 00:45:03.67,00:44:54.81,"Oh well. It didn't work out. But any- [laughs] So, um, but I didn't realize that he was on a date, I thought it was, anyway, it doesn't matter.",P08,S02 00:44:59.60,00:44:56.18,[laughs] You sure? [laughs],P05,S02 00:44:57.93,00:44:56.71,[laughs],P06,S02 00:45:02.20,00:45:01.40,[inaudible 0:45:01.40],P05,S02 00:45:06.90,00:45:03.62,[noise] Yeah?,P05,S02 00:45:13.89,00:45:03.67,"So, [noise] but I thought he was really cute. We both looked at each other, like, ""Don't say anything."" Like, yeah, and we were like, ""Oh, shit.""",P08,S02 00:45:08.09,00:45:07.01,Course she did.,P07,S02 00:45:18.60,00:45:10.00,"Oh cuz you had met a few weeks before, yeah. In New York you run into someone? Like, oh, okay",P05,S02 00:45:13.51,00:45:11.49,"We knew each other, and we recognized each other.",P07,S02 00:45:17.41,00:45:15.57,We lived two blocks away from each other.,P07,S02 00:45:24.39,00:45:16.81,"We did live two blocks away from each other, yeah, so it would be normal to, like, kind of see, see each other, but, but I hadn't in a couple of weeks, and, um",P08,S02 00:45:21.16,00:45:20.62,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:45:25.72,00:45:24.34,Don't put too much dressing on.,P05,S02 00:45:33.15,00:45:25.65,"So we ran into each other, we both looked like, ""Oh my god, don't say anything."" I told my friend, ""I think, I dated that guy, oh my god, that was awkward.""",P08,S02 00:45:46.37,00:45:33.15,"And then, um, I was like, ""You know what? I don't think he ever, he never called me."" so I just emailed him and was like, ""Hey, I think I saw you tonight, haha."" [laughs] And he was like, ""Yeah, I saw you, too. We should hang out again."" And then we did and it was great.",P08,S02 00:45:42.62,00:45:40.66,[noise] [inaudible 0:45:41.50] [laughs],P05,S02 00:45:44.07,00:45:42.01,[inaudible 0:45:42.00],P06,S02 00:45:45.12,00:45:44.58,Oh,P05,S02 00:45:54.72,00:45:46.69,"So it was, neither of you were like, ""Oh I don't want to see them again because the first one didn't go well""? Interesting. You just kind of said, ""Whatever.""",P05,S02 00:45:48.79,00:45:47.71,That was date four?,P06,S02 00:45:49.75,00:45:48.61,It was date two.,P08,S02 00:45:52.19,00:45:51.63,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:46:01.53,00:45:52.69,"Yeah. We just didn't, neither one of us called, and it was fine. This one showed up, this one showed up, like, fifteen minutes late for the date.",P07,S02 00:45:53.87,00:45:52.99,"Yeah, and s- ",P08,S02 00:45:59.36,00:45:56.48,Yeah. Funny how things worked out.,P05,S02 00:45:58.11,00:45:56.85,[noise],P08,S02 00:46:02.76,00:46:01.66,This one? Date two?,P05,S02 00:46:13.79,00:46:02.19,"Mhm. No, it was date one. That was the, that was the first indicator this wasn't going to be a good first date. Show up late, in s- , in s- , in sweats. I'm like ""Fuck [inaudible 0:46:13.10]""",P07,S02 00:46:11.37,00:46:02.95,"Date one. [laughs] I was tired. I did, like, didn't dress up, I just, [laughs] he didn't buy me coffee.",P08,S02 00:46:08.54,00:46:07.80,uh-oh,P05,S02 00:46:17.39,00:46:11.89,I was not in swea- I wasn't in sweats. He didn't buy me a coffee.,P08,S02 00:46:15.92,00:46:12.26,That's a worst impression. [laughs] Coffee?,P05,S02 00:46:15.77,00:46:14.71,You were,P07,S02 00:46:21.76,00:46:17.24,It's not like it was a bottle of wine. C- [laughs],P05,S02 00:46:25.93,00:46:19.63,"No, I was, I was pissed, though. I was, I was pissed that she was so late, so, I'd already, I was waiting and waiting and",P07,S02 00:46:21.29,00:46:19.69,[laughs] Thank you.,P08,S02 00:46:26.80,00:46:22.58,[noise] Okay. Okay.,P05,S02 00:46:28.43,00:46:23.05,"I did text him saying, ""I'm on my way."" And before I was late, I texted him.",P08,S02 00:46:27.13,00:46:26.43,I'm like,P07,S02 00:46:31.22,00:46:28.30,Okay. That's fine.,P05,S02 00:46:29.39,00:46:28.85,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:46:37.73,00:46:29.75,He was a little bit more high strung than you were. I dropped a fork at a restaurant and he was also upset with me. [laughs],P08,S02 00:46:36.81,00:46:35.21,I wasn't [laughs],P07,S02 00:46:44.30,00:46:35.86,"For dropping it or for using it after? [laughs] It's like Abhi would yell at me if I was like, ""It's fine."" [laughs]",P05,S02 00:46:53.93,00:46:38.17,"Nope. [laughs] No. No, no, no, no. I just dropped, well, I dropped two forks in a row. So, like I had my fork and I dropped it, and I was like, ""Oh no."" And then I dropped another one, and he was like, ""Are you kidding me?""",P08,S02 00:46:56.16,00:46:50.44,[laughs] Slippery little suckers. [laughs],P05,S02 00:46:59.93,00:46:54.45,"Yeah. Yeah. I was like, ""Well,"" yes, you did. You said, ""Are you kidding me?""",P08,S02 00:47:01.13,00:46:56.47,"I didn't say, ""Are you kidding me?"" I did? That's really asshole thing to say.",P07,S02 00:47:03.04,00:47:00.82,"Is this like third date, or like further in?",P05,S02 00:47:06.75,00:47:03.71,Maybe. F- fou- fifth. Fifth or sixth date.,P08,S02 00:47:06.85,00:47:04.83,"Nah, that was, that was actually, prolly.",P07,S02 00:47:07.64,00:47:06.92,Okay.,P05,S02 00:47:20.63,00:47:07.13,"Yeah, and I was like, I was like, ""No, I'm not."" [laughs] No, he's not. He's just a little more, a- New York kind of makes you concerned about people around you.",P08,S02 00:47:12.03,00:47:09.19,"I'm, I'm hard, I'm hard to get along with.",P07,S02 00:47:15.22,00:47:13.26,[laughs],P05,S02 00:47:18.16,00:47:17.46,Onion,P05,S02 00:47:20.70,00:47:19.98,Okay.,P05,S02 00:47:30.31,00:47:20.63,"Because it's all about success, or whatever. Uh, success, did I say success? Success? I thought I said something else. Oh well, whatever I said.",P08,S02 00:47:23.43,00:47:22.19,Very close quarters.,P07,S02 00:47:24.28,00:47:23.68,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:47:28.63,00:47:24.93,So if you're always dropping things off your table [laughs],P07,S02 00:47:30.34,00:47:25.74,"Success? [laughs] S- [laughs] You're good, you're good.",P05,S02 00:47:32.65,00:47:30.31,"Um, yeah, it's all about success, and",P08,S02 00:47:36.05,00:47:31.87,It was all about sex. Not what I heard.,P06,S02 00:47:49.63,00:47:33.27,"[laughs] That's what I thought I said. [laughs] And, uh, he, so, we're both affected by that, but I also wasn't intimidated, not yet, I just said, ""No, I'm not kidding. I will need another fork, now.""",P08,S02 00:47:35.58,00:47:34.84,[noise],P05,S02 00:47:38.88,00:47:37.98,[noise],P05,S02 00:47:42.06,00:47:41.56,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:47:49.70,00:47:49.16,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:48:00.45,00:47:50.63,"""Fork number three, please. Excuse me, can you please bring my date fork number three? Can we bring a fourth one this"" [laughs]",P07,S02 00:47:56.35,00:47:51.13,[laughs] That's probably what he did. [laughs],P08,S02 00:48:07.54,00:47:51.34,"[laughs] Just in case. [laughs] Maybe that's why the nice restaurants always have like five forks lined up for you. You know, you got the dessert one, you got the salad, you got the entree.",P05,S02 00:48:00.81,00:47:56.67,That's probably what he did. [laughs],P08,S02 00:48:14.99,00:48:03.23,"[noise] [laughs] For people like me, it makes total sense. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:48:09.23,00:48:07.91,[noise],P07,S02 00:48:11.58,00:48:08.50,"Yeah, they're like, ""Hey, then you could drop it whenever.""",P05,S02 00:48:19.38,00:48:12.52,"Oh I see bubblin'. Abhi, I think that, uh. Yes, but can I take the salad",P05,S02 00:48:14.47,00:48:13.45,[noise],P07,S02 00:48:27.33,00:48:15.63,"Can you go s- can you go sit down? Can I take it out for you, please? You cooked, so can I can take it out? Okay, love you. Can you go sit, I'll serve you salad in thirty seconds. Go sit down. go sit down.",P06,S02 00:48:17.77,00:48:15.67,[laughs],P08,S02 00:48:20.45,00:48:19.99,[noise],P07,S02 00:48:29.16,00:48:20.36,"Yes. Yes, you can do that. [noise] Okay. Can, I'm going to put this out. Oh, it's a stool. I'll sit on that one.",P05,S02 00:48:26.79,00:48:21.49,[noise] Do we need another chair?,P08,S02 00:48:27.93,00:48:27.51,[noise],P07,S02 00:48:29.75,00:48:28.75,"Oh, it's a stool?",P08,S02 00:48:30.91,00:48:28.81,"It's a broken chair, basically.",P06,S02 00:48:32.09,00:48:29.85,"Right, I think we're one hour in. Are we supposed to move?",P07,S02 00:48:44.06,00:48:32.34,"[laughs] Yes. Here now. This is the next phase. [laughs] Check. [laughs] Yeah, that works.",P05,S02 00:48:33.71,00:48:32.43,[laughs],P06,S02 00:48:40.79,00:48:33.63,"We're going to the table to eat, now. [laughs] Here, I'll sit.",P08,S02 00:48:40.03,00:48:35.51,"So this is ph- this is phase two, okay. All right. Phase two. Check!",P07,S02 00:48:40.87,00:48:39.77,[laughs],P06,S02 00:48:42.01,00:48:41.31,I'll sit here.,P08,S02 00:48:43.69,00:48:42.73,[inaudible 0:48:42.70],P07,S02 00:48:51.28,00:48:44.96,"We've got this. Abhi, there's f- the fruit I'll get out, How am I, do we have serving spoons?",P05,S02 00:48:48.67,00:48:47.95,[noise],P07,S02 00:49:02.78,00:48:53.88,"Do you guys need anything, more iced tea, water? [inaudible 0:48:57.30] An odd spoon for someone who eats salad with a spoon or something? [noise]",P05,S02 00:48:58.57,00:48:55.43,[noise] I'm okay with [inaudible 0:48:56.75]. [noise],P08,S02 00:48:57.89,00:48:56.59,Whatever. I think we're good.,P07,S02 00:49:00.85,00:48:58.63,I'm sweaty. Oof.,P07,S02 00:49:00.65,00:48:59.73,Can I have a p- ,P06,S02 00:49:04.39,00:49:03.25,I think I might loosen this.,P07,S02 00:49:19.14,00:49:04.06,"Okay, we got fruit salad a la Dolly. Beautiful. Just gonna do this. It looks beautiful though. With grace. Too much, okay. Looks beautiful, though.",P05,S02 00:49:09.19,00:49:08.55,Ah.,P08,S02 00:49:13.03,00:49:09.55,"Alrighty guys, I just whipped this up, so",P06,S02 00:49:13.73,00:49:10.23,"Wow. Those are some sliced-ass, uh, grapes.",P07,S02 00:49:17.89,00:49:13.53,[laughs] You li- You like it? We saved some back in case you wanted some whole ones with yours.,P08,S02 00:49:15.21,00:49:14.55,Yeah.,P07,S02 00:49:24.41,00:49:17.37,"[laughs] [noise] You didn't really, did you? [noise] Congratulations. [laughs] Right on. It's okay.",P07,S02 00:49:26.55,00:49:18.07,[noise] Yeah. [laughs] [noise],P08,S02 00:49:22.27,00:49:21.01,Love you [noise],P06,S02 00:49:26.34,00:49:22.54,"Uh, what am I missing? Uh, can i take it out now, bub?",P05,S02 00:49:31.83,00:49:26.55,[noise],P08,S02 00:49:29.19,00:49:26.73,You can take this out there and serve this,P06,S02 00:49:39.18,00:49:28.84,"Okay. Uh, we need a serving spoon for the fruit. Does this work as a s- this is a mixing spoon, but it works. Uh, all right, are you guys done with these, or do want 'em on a plate?",P05,S02 00:49:36.93,00:49:29.87,[noise] These things keep falling out of my ears. [noise] They don't stay in at all.,P07,S02 00:49:32.89,00:49:32.19,Okay.,P06,S02 00:49:37.93,00:49:33.79,[noise] [inaudible 0:49:34.90] [noise],P08,S02 00:49:35.23,00:49:34.35,Now you can,P06,S02 00:49:40.09,00:49:38.99,That's okay.,P07,S02 00:49:47.18,00:49:39.30,"Okay. With Abhi's salad, homemade dressing. It'll be good, though.",P05,S02 00:49:42.51,00:49:39.43,"Nah, you can just take 'em. [noise]",P08,S02 00:49:44.41,00:49:43.29,That looks so good.,P08,S02 00:49:46.77,00:49:43.45,"Sorry, I just whipped that up, I dunno, no plans.",P06,S02 00:49:48.31,00:49:46.95,"Oh my god, it looks awesome.",P08,S02 00:49:48.87,00:49:48.23,[noise],P07,S02 00:49:53.62,00:49:49.88,"Um, mkay, can you take this out? I think it's done.",P05,S02 00:49:54.81,00:49:52.91,Yeah. I will. Just put the oven off.,P06,S02 00:49:55.56,00:49:55.04,Okay.,P05,S02 00:49:58.25,00:49:55.49,Don't those Cheetos taste like baseball nachos?,P08,S02 00:50:00.59,00:49:59.79,Baseball nachos?,P07,S02 00:50:08.21,00:50:00.85,"Yeah, like, with the, like, tortilla chips, and then the fake cheese, and the pulled onions on top. That's what they taste like to me.",P08,S02 00:50:05.84,00:50:02.76,"Abhi, turn it off. I think he's getting the timer to stop.",P05,S02 00:50:08.05,00:50:06.87,"Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 00:50:16.14,00:50:07.50,"I want th- cuz this will be too hot to eat right away. Okay. Okay. Love you. Drinks, you got a drink, Abhi?",P05,S02 00:50:13.32,00:50:09.21,"Babe, just open the oven and sit down, jan, I'll take it out in a second.",P06,S02 00:50:11.59,00:50:09.81,"Or movie nachos, probably what you know.",P08,S02 00:50:19.74,00:50:16.12,"Yeah. I want a Pepsi or Coke, so you can have my iced tea.",P06,S02 00:50:24.34,00:50:16.14,"Need more? Okay. Okay. I'll get you a cup, see? You want a new glass? All right.",P05,S02 00:50:23.76,00:50:22.80,"Yes, please.",P06,S02 00:50:28.63,00:50:25.99,"Oh, that looks so beautiful.",P08,S02 00:50:28.20,00:50:26.46,It's the last glass with ice.,P05,S02 00:50:33.28,00:50:32.02,[noise],P05,S02 00:50:36.84,00:50:35.74,[noise],P06,S02 00:50:43.32,00:50:38.20,"Your iced tea is basically gone anyways, bub. Your iced tea is basically gone anyway.",P05,S02 00:50:41.30,00:50:40.50,"What, jan?",P06,S02 00:50:55.58,00:50:45.26,"So yeah, so you guys interested in doing RV week with us? [laughs] In February. In February. No, that's, that's jet week.",P06,S02 00:50:50.97,00:50:48.15,[laughs] When is it?,P08,S02 00:50:53.62,00:50:48.22,[laughs] No. [laughs] Copter week. [laughs],P05,S02 00:50:50.58,00:50:49.56,[laughs],P07,S02 00:50:58.15,00:50:54.55,"Februar- That would be fun, I think. Do you guys both ski?",P08,S02 00:50:55.42,00:50:54.64,Mm.,P05,S02 00:50:59.16,00:50:57.20,"I'm definitely down for, definitely down for jet week.",P07,S02 00:50:58.98,00:50:57.18,We'll clean after this.,P05,S02 00:51:04.26,00:50:59.80,"Yeah, I already called Larry. Huh? Okay, yeah.",P06,S02 00:51:03.34,00:51:02.32,We'll clean after.,P05,S02 00:51:05.28,00:51:03.86,[noise],P07,S02 00:51:05.98,00:51:04.36,I don't want it to take too long.,P05,S02 00:51:07.16,00:51:05.40,Yeah. I'm coming.,P06,S02 00:51:07.62,00:51:07.18,Okay.,P05,S02 00:51:10.46,00:51:08.92,All right.,P05,S02 00:51:19.66,00:51:11.88,"There's my phone. [noise] And maybe it'll cool down in here, too. I have yet to sit on this chair.",P05,S02 00:51:29.02,00:51:20.36,"[inaudible 0:51:19.66] Yeah, it's okay, bub. [laughs] I know, it's a stool. [laughs] [noise] I don't know.",P05,S02 00:51:23.04,00:51:20.66,"Jan, you can take the royal chair, I'll take that chair.",P06,S02 00:51:27.42,00:51:23.60,"Oh, the chair doesn't have a back on it. Who took the back off the chair?",P07,S02 00:51:28.15,00:51:26.13,[laughs] [noise],P08,S02 00:51:28.46,00:51:27.90,[noise],P06,S02 00:51:28.94,00:51:28.28,[noise],P07,S02 00:51:34.24,00:51:29.38,"You can use a, I think the guy who lived once was a bit of a",P06,S02 00:51:31.12,00:51:29.56,Good question.,P05,S02 00:51:32.82,00:51:32.40,[noise],P07,S02 00:51:36.16,00:51:32.88,"[noise] Bub, use the hot pad. Okay.",P05,S02 00:51:36.42,00:51:35.54,"It's okay, Jan",P06,S02 00:51:42.68,00:51:35.98,"Maybe he put it there, so that you can use both the uh, o- the office manager and the table at the same time. Mhm.",P07,S02 00:51:46.66,00:51:39.26,"Hmm. Because it probably tucks under there, hmm. So maybe one, that's okay.",P05,S02 00:51:45.56,00:51:44.28,"You wanna Snap it, jan?",P06,S02 00:51:47.34,00:51:46.66,Very clever.,P07,S02 00:51:55.12,00:51:48.50,"We need a serving s- oh I forgot to get, sorry, I just saw stand, that's the only reason I, yeah.",P05,S02 00:51:57.08,00:51:50.38,"Okay, you wanna start with salad while this cools? You wanna start with salad while this cools? And then I'll cut it open for us.",P06,S02 00:51:55.74,00:51:55.28,Hmm?,P07,S02 00:51:58.02,00:51:56.96,Looks beautiful.,P05,S02 00:51:59.54,00:51:58.42,It does look beautiful.,P06,S02 00:52:04.32,00:51:59.44,"Uh, spoon for the fruit, sorry, I keep forgetting. Do we have a big f- spoon or something?",P05,S02 00:52:02.84,00:52:02.18,Oh.,P06,S02 00:52:06.60,00:52:04.20,"Hmm. Yeah, I think we do. semi-big.",P06,S02 00:52:12.52,00:52:06.86,"Well, thanks for coming over, guys. [laughs] Course.",P05,S02 00:52:11.21,00:52:08.81,"Yeah, thanks for havin' us. This looks good.",P08,S02 00:52:10.22,00:52:09.24,Thanks for having us.,P07,S02 00:52:13.15,00:52:12.03,And we love to eat.,P08,S02 00:52:16.84,00:52:13.40,Yeah. I love food. [laughs],P07,S02 00:52:20.70,00:52:14.60,[laughs] What about the rest of it [laughs],P05,S02 00:52:16.49,00:52:14.67,Like [laughs],P08,S02 00:52:30.06,00:52:16.96,"Hot or Not? [laughs] I remember in, way before Hot or Not star- started in, like, in the early two thousands, I remember there was one guy called, named Dan",P06,S02 00:52:21.59,00:52:18.31,[laughs],P08,S02 00:52:21.88,00:52:18.60,Yeah. [laughs] [inaudible 0:52:50.90] of all time.,P07,S02 00:52:50.04,00:52:30.06,"I dunno, Dan S, uh [laughs], and he used to sit in our university computer lab, and just check Hot or Not for, like, eighteen hours a day, yes, no, yes, no, cuz I was on the side and he'd be doing like project work on the side and he'd have, like, one window open, and he'd be doing y- he'd be",P06,S02 00:52:34.13,00:52:31.97,[laughs],P08,S02 00:52:33.54,00:52:32.06,Hmm. [laughs],P07,S02 00:52:40.63,00:52:39.45,[laughs],P08,S02 00:52:44.74,00:52:40.02,W- what was he doing under the desk? [laughs],P05,S02 00:52:42.75,00:52:41.57,[inaudible 0:52:41.58],P08,S02 00:52:45.99,00:52:42.75,"[laughs] Oh, really? Oh.",P08,S02 00:52:48.31,00:52:47.25,Oh my god.,P08,S02 00:52:53.15,00:52:48.67,[laughs] That is hilarious.,P08,S02 00:52:52.54,00:52:50.04,So I thought it was a mock site.,P06,S02 00:52:52.46,00:52:50.44,"Well, that's [inaudible 0:52:51.30]",P05,S02 00:53:05.12,00:52:53.64,"Well, it, it, somebody told me about it at work, and they're like, ""If you're bored you should do this."" and, it was like, a, you know, yeah, it was exactly like you described, you're bored at work, and you just want a distraction so you do that.",P07,S02 00:52:58.74,00:52:58.02,Huh.,P05,S02 00:53:01.96,00:53:01.32,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:53:03.88,00:53:03.04,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:53:06.47,00:53:03.03,Mhm. Mhm. Bu- ,P08,S02 00:53:05.84,00:53:05.00,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:53:16.60,00:53:05.86,"But then, you know, they, they did, they did, uh, narrow it down by city, so you could, like, filter it by city. So if you live in New York, you would only see, you would only see people that were from New York City.",P07,S02 00:53:14.94,00:53:12.58,"Okay, this is our way advanced version.",P06,S02 00:53:23.78,00:53:17.02,"And then, I guess the, the genius thought, ""Well, why don't we just allow people to meet other people, and maybe we can make some revenue from this"" and they did.",P07,S02 00:53:21.22,00:53:18.96,We could start. Yeah.,P05,S02 00:53:25.86,00:53:23.34,Hmm. It's kinda like Facebook.,P05,S02 00:53:38.72,00:53:24.44,"But the reason I, the reason I went on it was cuz I had tried, uh, online dating, and, um, you know, in New York online dating is great, cuz you, there's a lot of people there, so you tend to line up a lot of dates pretty fast.",P07,S02 00:53:26.91,00:53:26.07,Yeah.,P08,S02 00:53:30.70,00:53:29.88,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:53:40.55,00:53:37.85,"And you're busy, so, like, it's hard to",P08,S02 00:53:49.94,00:53:38.72,"Yeah, so, so I went on, I went on Match, and I would, and I would, like, literally line upm like, three or four dates a week with different people on match.com but the trouble with match.com",P07,S02 00:53:40.98,00:53:40.08,That makes sense.,P05,S02 00:53:48.06,00:53:46.40,Wow. Wow.,P05,S02 00:53:58.00,00:53:49.94,"Is that everybody writes a fucking novel about themselves, and nobody is self-aware enough to rea- to, for the novel to be of any use, right, so",P07,S02 00:53:54.82,00:53:52.82,[laughs] It takes forever to,P05,S02 00:54:15.80,00:53:58.00,"Everybody on match.com, you know, thinks that that they know themselves, e- e- every single person on match.com is like, ""I love, I love red wine."" Well, not everybody in life loves red wine, but everybody on Match loves red wine because they love the s- the, you really like, they really like the s- , right, they love the self image of somebody who loves red wine, seems sophisticated.",P07,S02 00:54:06.51,00:54:05.65,[noise],P08,S02 00:54:06.38,00:54:05.68,[laughs],P05,S02 00:54:08.62,00:54:07.96,Sure.,P05,S02 00:54:12.73,00:54:09.55,[laughs] Especially in New York.,P08,S02 00:54:12.58,00:54:10.70,They wanna seem like they're that person.,P05,S02 00:54:15.38,00:54:14.70,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:54:27.44,00:54:15.80,"So everybody's like, ""I love red wine."" and then, you know, cuz it, there's, like, a form you fill out, right, it's like, ""Do you love X, do you love Y?"" and so, so everybody r- , everybody says, ""Yes, I love this"" to the things that sound good.",P07,S02 00:54:17.04,00:54:16.32,[noise],P06,S02 00:54:20.22,00:54:19.66,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:54:26.26,00:54:25.37,It's good salad.,P05,S02 00:54:27.54,00:54:26.92,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:54:42.12,00:54:27.70,"Like, so half, so, like, half the people on match.com are like, ""I love skinny dipping."" I was like, you've never been, you've never been skinny dipping, you know. Like, yeah, I like the idea of skinny dipping but I've never gone skinny dipping, except in college I guess, I did once, but, like [noise]",P07,S02 00:54:28.99,00:54:27.93,This is really good.,P08,S02 00:54:39.22,00:54:31.48,"[laughs] Yeah, you just wanna be that person. Mhm. Mhm.",P05,S02 00:54:41.90,00:54:41.40,[noise],P06,S02 00:54:48.20,00:54:42.12,"But, like, n- so people end up writing, m- making up these fabrications about themselves that have nothing to do with their personalities.",P07,S02 00:54:48.14,00:54:47.36,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:54:53.61,00:54:47.47,"Well, and who loves that? Like, I'm, I've been skinny dipping, I don't love it. It's not, like, a hobby. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:54:50.20,00:54:48.66,"Right, and, yeah.",P07,S02 00:54:53.38,00:54:50.87,"Yeah, it's like, sounds, but if you're in the frame of m- ",P07,S02 00:54:58.76,00:54:51.20,"Right. It seems like if you came up with your own write up, instead of seeing stuff and then writing it., oh.",P05,S02 00:55:05.92,00:54:56.44,"No, but they, they do that, too. But, I mean, the thing is, I think if you're in the frame of mind where you're sitting on your laptop late at night, thinking, ""Okay, I gotta write a profile here"" and you write four paragraphs about yourself",P07,S02 00:55:06.00,00:55:05.38,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:55:11.32,00:55:06.44,It ne- it almost never ends up being a real true reflection of who you are as a person.,P07,S02 00:55:18.24,00:55:09.50,"But it's al- it's also like that whole, are you gonna put these in the fridge, jan? No? Oh. Okay. Um.",P06,S02 00:55:15.76,00:55:14.38,Cuz remember I couldn't get in.,P05,S02 00:55:19.54,00:55:17.18,I'm sorry. Is it too hot?,P05,S02 00:55:31.60,00:55:19.31,"It's okay. Um. It's also, like, yeah, it'll, hmm, in five minutes, [inaudible 0:55:26.57] minutes. Um. It's also like people's opportunity",P06,S02 00:55:24.54,00:55:22.20,"No, the pie, sorry. [laughs]",P05,S02 00:55:27.66,00:55:27.14,Okay.,P05,S02 00:55:29.68,00:55:28.82,Mmm.,P05,S02 00:55:31.63,00:55:29.13,Mmm. This is awesome. [laughs],P08,S02 00:55:31.40,00:55:30.56,[noise],P05,S02 00:55:43.20,00:55:32.02,"Um. Like, you know, starting in a new city, or starting university, it's people's opportunity for a fresh start, and you know they start, they start going through this, through this, ""Hey, what would I wanna be perceived as?"" kind of world, thing",P06,S02 00:55:39.97,00:55:35.41,[noise],P08,S02 00:55:38.56,00:55:37.38,Mhm. Right.,P07,S02 00:55:47.92,00:55:41.70,"Right, exactly. It's like your, your ideal best self that you wanna be pursuing. So [noise]",P07,S02 00:55:47.18,00:55:46.42,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:55:46.93,00:55:46.43,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:55:51.70,00:55:46.89,"That you, that you believe you can sell. You know what I mean? So there's gotta be some",P06,S02 00:56:00.86,00:55:48.77,"Right. Right, right, right. Yeah. ""I'm quirky, I, I say offb- offball, oddball, off beat things"" and, okay, maybe you did that once last week. It's not like, it's not how it's supposed to be, so",P07,S02 00:55:50.85,00:55:48.81,Mhm. Mhm.,P08,S02 00:55:52.32,00:55:48.92,Mhm. More who you wanna be.,P05,S02 00:55:55.98,00:55:55.20,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:55:59.62,00:55:58.32,Yeah. Yeah.,P06,S02 00:56:00.42,00:55:58.32,Right. That's not who you are.,P05,S02 00:55:59.63,00:55:58.35,[laughs],P08,S02 00:56:15.68,00:56:01.14,"But the thing is, on Match if you have a date lined up, you can't not read the whole profile, right? You have to show up, like, having done your research. You have to show up with the, with the back, with the official back story memorized, right? So, so I found that it's, it was very time consuming. You go on four or five dates a week",P07,S02 00:56:06.10,00:56:05.38,Right.,P05,S02 00:56:13.52,00:56:08.04,Right. [noise] Job interview. [laughs],P05,S02 00:56:32.36,00:56:15.93,"With different people, you've gotta memorize all these stupid f- fictitious backstories, it's retarded, so, anyway, so that's why I did Hot or Not, because all you get is, like, one line and a photo, so you can't really lie very much. You say one thing that's witty and you have a photo, and like, that's sort of true information, so.",P07,S02 00:56:19.45,00:56:18.71,[laughs],P08,S02 00:56:21.26,00:56:20.66,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:56:24.01,00:56:22.25,[laughs],P08,S02 00:56:26.08,00:56:25.46,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:56:28.96,00:56:27.94,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:56:42.65,00:56:31.99,"Christopher's made your salad into a spring mix. [laughs] He's made your salad into a spring mix. This is really, what did you put in the dressing?",P08,S02 00:56:32.72,00:56:32.28,Yeah.,P05,S02 00:56:34.92,00:56:33.96,Huh?,P06,S02 00:56:41.18,00:56:33.96,"I know, I love it. [laughs] [inaudible 0:56:39.50] Perfect.",P05,S02 00:56:37.76,00:56:37.02,[laughs],P06,S02 00:56:40.08,00:56:39.30,You can.,P06,S02 00:56:44.20,00:56:42.58,"I know, he makes really good homemade dressings.",P05,S02 00:56:52.94,00:56:44.34,"Um. That's just whatever she put out, so just olive oil, balsamic vinaigrette, um, honey, and garlic.",P06,S02 00:56:50.56,00:56:50.20,[noise],P07,S02 00:56:54.77,00:56:52.63,Mmm. It was really good.,P08,S02 00:56:55.42,00:56:53.64,Good to see your [inaudible 0:56:54.40],P05,S02 00:56:58.78,00:56:56.52,"Um, Dolly, [inaudible 0:56:57.73]",P05,S02 00:57:04.70,00:56:56.74,"You're actually supposed to have, you're supposed to have that dressing, Dolly, you're supposed to have that",P06,S02 00:56:58.43,00:56:57.83,Hmm?,P08,S02 00:57:01.48,00:57:01.10,Hmm?,P07,S02 00:57:02.74,00:57:01.86,uh-huh.,P05,S02 00:57:07.06,00:57:03.82,[noise],P07,S02 00:57:06.13,00:57:04.13,"I just need to check the, we're good.",P08,S02 00:57:06.28,00:57:05.84,Thanks.,P05,S02 00:57:23.82,00:57:06.54,"You're supposed to have that, this dressing not with feta, withe uh because feta's sour, you're supposed to have it with goat. So you're supposed to put goat cheese in there, and you don't put pean- , you don't put the cashews, or, you put the walnuts in there, so I just, but that's w- , that's all we had. I didn't know that I was making dressing. Thank you.",P06,S02 00:57:13.93,00:57:13.07,"Oh, yum.",P08,S02 00:57:16.56,00:57:16.16,Mmm.,P07,S02 00:57:18.77,00:57:18.11,Hmm.,P08,S02 00:57:25.48,00:57:21.86,"Well, it's delicious. And in spring mix form, it is also delicious.",P07,S02 00:57:24.94,00:57:22.34,[laughs] Yeah.,P05,S02 00:57:29.02,00:57:25.08,"[noise] It's sweet, so you can't add the fruit, yeah.",P06,S02 00:57:27.95,00:57:25.41,[laughs],P08,S02 00:57:35.36,00:57:26.98,"[laughs] Yeah. he normally makes a really good goat cheese, oops, I didn't touch it, did I? [noise]",P05,S02 00:57:28.64,00:57:27.90,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:57:28.49,00:57:27.95,Mhm.,P08,S02 00:57:34.16,00:57:31.76,Hope you don't mind. [noise] It's okay.,P07,S02 00:57:36.31,00:57:35.79,Mmm.,P08,S02 00:57:37.04,00:57:36.16,I've not had any calls.,P07,S02 00:57:38.35,00:57:37.65,That's a [inaudible 0:57:38.00],P08,S02 00:57:40.84,00:57:38.60,"But yeah, so we indirectly",P06,S02 00:57:42.16,00:57:38.72,I called your people and told them all you'd be busy.,P05,S02 00:57:45.10,00:57:42.02,"No, I just put it on silent. Oh, you did? Okay.",P07,S02 00:57:47.35,00:57:42.61,[laughs],P08,S02 00:57:43.24,00:57:42.76,[noise],P06,S02 00:57:45.14,00:57:43.36,"No, I called them. Yeah.",P05,S02 00:57:50.12,00:57:45.42,"So, basically, cause we indirectly saved a lot of money",P06,S02 00:57:48.48,00:57:47.36,Don't go.,P05,S02 00:57:52.82,00:57:51.56,You indirectly saved a lot of money?,P07,S02 00:57:52.37,00:57:51.65,What? [laughs],P08,S02 00:57:57.26,00:57:52.78,"Yeah, by that not going through, and that, us not being in that, us not being in that process",P06,S02 00:58:07.62,00:57:54.76,"Oh. [noise] He just went through about half an hour ago, tiny house talk. [laughs] We're all like, ""How, with the salad?"" Yeah. [laughs]",P05,S02 00:57:56.62,00:57:55.14,"Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. [noise]",P07,S02 00:58:00.72,00:57:58.12,"No, I know, I didn't I didn't close that story.",P06,S02 00:58:01.38,00:58:00.28,[noise],P07,S02 00:58:08.53,00:58:00.41,"[laughs] I was like, ""What?"" [laughs] Yeah, that's what I was like. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:58:08.02,00:58:01.36,[noise] I didn't. By stopping at the dollar store. [laughs],P06,S02 00:58:08.42,00:58:07.96,[noise],P07,S02 00:58:09.62,00:58:07.96,"It's nice, cuz it's close.",P05,S02 00:58:14.87,00:58:09.25,"It tastes like Whole Foods balsamic, I would have never known. [laughs]",P08,S02 00:58:11.46,00:58:10.36,[laughs],P06,S02 00:58:13.94,00:58:11.98,[laughs],P05,S02 00:58:21.90,00:58:12.72,"It's great, when you go to the grocery store, you pay X for ground beef, but if you get ground meat, it's way less money. It's the same thing, right? [laughs]",P07,S02 00:58:16.56,00:58:15.78,[laughs],P06,S02 00:58:19.85,00:58:17.11,[laughs],P08,S02 00:58:21.98,00:58:17.74,[laughs] It's dog. [laughs],P05,S02 00:58:23.53,00:58:21.53,He made funny. [laughs],P08,S02 00:58:34.96,00:58:22.46,"It's like, when I was Googling, like, best places to go around me, it was like, ""Yeah, go and eat at Save on Meats."" I'm like, ""I will never in my life eat at a place called 'Save on Meats'."" [laughs]",P06,S02 00:58:38.66,00:58:29.88,[noise] [laughs] That's funny. There's a place called that? Hmm.,P05,S02 00:58:35.33,00:58:33.59,[laughs],P08,S02 00:58:46.68,00:58:35.78,"Just the place, on hastings, it's called Save on Meats. I was like, I don't care what they're giving me, if they're giving me Filet Mignon for, for, for three dollars, I am not eating at a place that says Save on",P06,S02 00:58:43.36,00:58:42.06,"Yeah, but that, that c- ",P07,S02 00:58:46.44,00:58:45.36,Mhm.,P05,S02 00:58:53.74,00:58:45.72,"Well, that could be the brand of Save On, right, cuz that is a grocery store brand, Save on Foods, yeah, yeah, but, I don't, [noise] I don't s- ",P07,S02 00:58:50.22,00:58:48.68,The grapes are really sour.,P05,S02 00:58:53.95,00:58:49.95,[laughs] Grape sours [laughs],P08,S02 00:58:54.50,00:58:50.28,[inaudible 0:58:50.26] didn't go well together.,P06,S02 00:58:58.58,00:58:51.54,"[laughs] I was like, ""Something's in my throat"", and I was like ""Is it the blueberry? No. Strawberry? No. These are the grapes.""",P05,S02 00:59:01.89,00:58:57.77,[laughs] [noise],P08,S02 00:58:59.24,00:58:58.64,[noise],P07,S02 00:59:00.08,00:58:59.42,Hmm.,P05,S02 00:59:04.20,00:58:59.67,"Oh yeah, so Ha- Haley didn't tell you some, I'm sorry, bubba.",P06,S02 00:59:05.16,00:59:01.86,But I gave you a knife. [laughs],P05,S02 00:59:10.84,00:59:04.28,"I can really taste the, I can really taste the inside of the grapes because they were sliced so evenly. Yeah. Mhm.",P07,S02 00:59:05.57,00:59:04.33,[laughs],P08,S02 00:59:12.76,00:59:07.88,"[laughs] It's good, right? That soft, fleshy taste.",P05,S02 00:59:09.43,00:59:08.07,"Yeah, you liked it, right?",P08,S02 00:59:12.82,00:59:12.16,Mhm.,P07,S02 00:59:19.01,00:59:12.21,"Mhm. [laughs] That sounds like a, uh, Cards Against Humanity card.",P08,S02 00:59:22.36,00:59:14.02,[laughs] [noise] [noise] It kinda does. Soft fleshy grapes.,P05,S02 00:59:19.58,00:59:18.96,[noise],P07,S02 00:59:24.27,00:59:19.47,"[laughs] Taste. Yeah. Or the soft, fleshy taste.",P08,S02 00:59:21.90,00:59:21.22,Mm.,P07,S02 00:59:28.10,00:59:24.28,Oh I don't have my Cards Against Humanity. [inaudible 9:59:27.30],P05,S02 00:59:30.14,00:59:26.12,"So, um, yeah, we didn't bring it, did we?",P06,S02 00:59:28.83,00:59:26.17,[laughs],P08,S02 00:59:34.84,00:59:30.02,Mm- mm. It was too heavy. [laughs] Can I go get the pie?,P05,S02 00:59:33.57,00:59:32.73,[noise],P08,S02 00:59:39.34,00:59:34.08,"I think, I'll serve, [noise] I'll serve plate by plate rather over there, then I'll come here and bring it here.",P06,S02 00:59:47.26,00:59:39.18,"Why are you handing me your napkin? [laughs] Oh that kind of plate by plate, I get it.",P05,S02 00:59:40.90,00:59:40.18,Sorry.,P06,S02 00:59:45.25,00:59:40.71,[laughs] Thank you.,P08,S02 00:59:46.96,00:59:46.40,Yeah.,P06,S02 00:59:57.12,00:59:48.50,"Do you want small portion, big? They're, it's cut into sevenths, so I guess it's just sliced. We have spatulas, bub.",P05,S02 00:59:53.53,00:59:52.27,"Yeah, that's fine.",P08,S02 00:59:53.64,00:59:53.10,[noise],P07,S02 00:59:57.78,00:59:56.96,"Why, jan?",P06,S02 00:59:58.68,00:59:57.70,Mm.,P05,S02 01:00:00.80,00:59:58.76,We don't really. There's nothing here in this house.,P06,S02 01:00:09.74,01:00:00.92,"It's just, it was just washed. I think it's in the drying rack. Hmm. I know where something is in the kitchen. [laughs]",P05,S02 01:00:02.96,01:00:01.66,[noise],P07,S02 01:00:04.96,01:00:04.00,Ah.,P06,S02 01:00:09.55,01:00:07.55,[laughs],P08,S02 01:00:18.70,01:00:10.18,"[noise] [noise] Yeah, bub, the salad was good. Did you add honey? Mmm.",P05,S02 01:00:17.32,01:00:16.70,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:00:23.29,01:00:19.51,"That looks awesome. You know what, Martha Stewart is the bomb.",P08,S02 01:00:34.48,01:00:23.12,"She is. I know, the only thing I didn't do was it said to put on, um, oh, can you bring the salt and pepper too, bub? Said to put on, uh, tomatoes on the rhymes, ry- on the vine, still.",P05,S02 01:00:33.89,01:00:32.55,Rine?,P08,S02 01:00:41.30,01:00:34.79,"Cherry tomatoes still on the vine on top as a garnish, and I couldn't find any so I'm like ""Whatever, it won't be garnished."" [laughs]",P05,S02 01:00:37.89,01:00:37.25,Oh.,P08,S02 01:00:45.17,01:00:40.47,"That's so fancy. Ooh, yum. [noise] You know what this is? Fancy pizza.",P08,S02 01:00:43.28,01:00:41.88,Mmm.,P05,S02 01:00:53.60,01:00:44.22,"What? [laughs] With tomato. And healthy in a way. Well, so salt and pepper was the only thing I didn't do also, cuz you guys can do it.",P05,S02 01:00:48.77,01:00:46.19,[laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 01:00:50.12,01:00:46.34,"Yeah. It's like a wrapped, it's like a wrapped up pizza.",P06,S02 01:00:48.98,01:00:47.72,Fancy pizza.,P07,S02 01:00:50.10,01:00:49.74,Uh,P07,S02 01:00:54.11,01:00:50.31,"Yes. Ooh, like a, pizu- p- uh",P08,S02 01:00:57.70,01:00:53.70,P'zone. Google's had a hard time with that one.,P07,S02 01:01:03.10,01:00:54.07,"This is, calzone? Calzone, right? It's like pizzazz. Yeah, I guess it is kind of caz- calzone. An open calzone.",P05,S02 01:00:55.88,01:00:54.66,Calzone.,P06,S02 01:01:00.47,01:00:54.69,P'zone. Calzone. It's like a calzone.,P08,S02 01:01:00.02,01:00:58.28,[laughs],P07,S02 01:01:03.43,01:01:01.95,Mmm. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:01:10.04,01:01:03.36,"They're gonna learn, they're g- , Google's gonna learn all kinds of trademarked expressions, like P'zone, and, that's like a Pizza Hut thing, isn't it?",P07,S02 01:01:05.47,01:01:04.25,That smells good.,P08,S02 01:01:19.65,01:01:10.47,"P'zone. Yeah. It is, and, uh, it is P'zone, because I worked at Pizza Hut when I was sixteen. Fifteen, when I was fifteen. I worked at Pizza Hut when they had P'zone.",P08,S02 01:01:13.24,01:01:11.58,"Or like, didn't somebody",P07,S02 01:01:12.56,01:01:11.58,What's this?,P05,S02 01:01:16.76,01:01:15.00,Yes! That's right.,P07,S02 01:01:21.52,01:01:17.86,Yeah. Ooh. Hold the knife. Ye- yep.,P05,S02 01:01:19.42,01:01:18.12,[noise] Thank you.,P07,S02 01:01:20.16,01:01:19.54,Jan,P06,S02 01:01:23.28,01:01:21.70,Keep it for [inaudible 1:01:22.30] please.,P06,S02 01:01:27.82,01:01:24.62,[laughs],P05,S02 01:01:30.52,01:01:25.17,"He doesn't wanna g- oh, [laughs] he doesn't wanna go through that again, what he just did. Balancing the fork and knife.",P07,S02 01:01:39.57,01:01:29.37,"Sorry. I meant to say that I worked at a, an American pizza conglomerate chain. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:01:39.50,01:01:33.24,[laughs] [noise],P07,S02 01:01:40.46,01:01:33.52,"I know, I'm going, ""Uh."" [laughs] That's funny. Yeah.",P05,S02 01:01:44.93,01:01:40.29,A national pizza chain where they sold their own brand of calzones.,P08,S02 01:01:46.68,01:01:44.54,"They're going through a rebranding right now, aren't they?",P05,S02 01:01:54.20,01:01:47.04,"No, they did a few years ago, but it didn't work. It was one of the biggest failed rebrandings in the history of rebranding. Yeah.",P06,S02 01:01:47.77,01:01:47.05,"Oh, are they?",P08,S02 01:01:49.96,01:01:49.44,Hmm.,P07,S02 01:01:51.17,01:01:50.53,I think,P08,S02 01:01:53.60,01:01:52.44,"What, Pizza Hut?",P07,S02 01:01:57.27,01:01:53.97,You're not allowed to say that. [laughs],P08,S02 01:01:59.04,01:01:55.20,"Sorry. Na- a national pizza, a national chain of franchised pizza shops?",P07,S02 01:01:55.72,01:01:55.22,Oh.,P06,S02 01:01:56.48,01:01:55.28,[laughs],P05,S02 01:02:00.96,01:01:58.04,[inaudible 1:01:58.04] Mmm.,P05,S02 01:02:08.37,01:01:58.51,"Yes. They also bought a national, not very authentic, but authentic, Mexican restaurant. [laughs] Yeah, they did. They, they merged.",P08,S02 01:01:59.68,01:01:58.90,[laughs],P06,S02 01:02:04.48,01:02:03.92,[noise],P06,S02 01:02:17.42,01:02:04.36,"Oh, they did. Oh. I thought, um, I thought the, the, company ubiquitous, with, uh, California burgers measured in quarters and pounds bought the, uh, national chain of quasi Mexican, fake Mexican food.",P07,S02 01:02:08.92,01:02:08.18,[noise],P05,S02 01:02:12.11,01:02:11.37,[noise],P08,S02 01:02:13.16,01:02:11.90,[laughs],P06,S02 01:02:21.47,01:02:14.15,[laughs],P08,S02 01:02:29.08,01:02:16.02,"[noise] [laughs] I know, I'm kind of like, ""W- I don't even know what he's talking about anymore."" [laughs] [inaudible 1:02:25.00] [noise]",P05,S02 01:02:18.56,01:02:17.92,[noise],P06,S02 01:02:21.30,01:02:19.78,You're confusing me now.,P06,S02 01:02:24.04,01:02:23.20,[noise],P07,S02 01:02:24.67,01:02:23.21,[laughs],P08,S02 01:02:26.58,01:02:24.86,Sounds fancy.,P06,S02 01:02:29.05,01:02:26.15,[laughs],P08,S02 01:02:40.30,01:02:27.38,"I'm sure you're familiar with this restaurant. It is, it is known to, uh, feature a clown as it's mascot, and, uh, it measures meat in the quarters of pounds, and then [laughs]",P07,S02 01:02:33.70,01:02:31.94,Oh. uh-huh.,P05,S02 01:02:43.15,01:02:36.91,"It, uh, their most famous, uh, meal is actually a very large, uh, Malcolm.",P08,S02 01:02:40.62,01:02:39.10,[laughs],P05,S02 01:02:51.44,01:02:44.06,"[laughs] A large Malcolm, yeah. [laughs] Have you ever had a large Malcolm?",P07,S02 01:02:47.10,01:02:44.42,Large Malcolm,P05,S02 01:02:49.43,01:02:44.63,"[laughs] Yeah, large Malcolm.",P08,S02 01:02:48.68,01:02:47.58,[noise],P06,S02 01:02:50.30,01:02:49.34,I don't get it.,P05,S02 01:02:52.72,01:02:51.34,"No, she's vegetarian.",P06,S02 01:03:03.18,01:02:51.74,"Oh, I get it. That's funny. Is it Malcolm? Yeah, I guess, yeah, that is close. [laughs] That's true.",P05,S02 01:02:55.60,01:02:52.62,Oh yeah. Yeah. [laughs],P07,S02 01:02:56.97,01:02:53.13,[laughs] I dunno.,P08,S02 01:02:58.20,01:02:56.98,[laughs],P07,S02 01:03:03.51,01:02:59.91,[laughs] It was the only name I could think of that was [inaudible 1:03:02.72].,P08,S02 01:03:01.08,01:03:00.28,[laughs],P07,S02 01:03:04.46,01:03:03.42,"Hi, Jaley.",P06,S02 01:03:06.32,01:03:04.56,"Hi, Jaley. Oh.",P05,S02 01:03:08.58,01:03:07.86,[noise],P07,S02 01:03:09.68,01:03:08.64,What happened?,P06,S02 01:03:17.14,01:03:09.46,"Nothing, I was gonna say something. [noise] Okay. [laughs] You can lie to me. [laughs]",P05,S02 01:03:12.60,01:03:11.88,Hmm.,P06,S02 01:03:14.39,01:03:13.25,Bon appetit.,P08,S02 01:03:14.92,01:03:13.78,Bon appetito.,P06,S02 01:03:19.40,01:03:17.20,I don't really need honest truth.,P06,S02 01:03:17.92,01:03:17.22,[noise],P07,S02 01:03:17.89,01:03:17.29,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:03:24.58,01:03:19.18,"[laughs] I haven't tasted any part of this, yet. Mmm.",P05,S02 01:03:26.84,01:03:25.66,Tastes healthy.,P05,S02 01:03:31.10,01:03:28.34,That's not a good thing to say. [laughs],P06,S02 01:03:38.00,01:03:29.37,"Well. No, you know how something may be, you could always make something better if you make it unhealthy. Yeah? Okay, good.",P05,S02 01:03:37.95,01:03:35.21,"No, it tastes really good. Mhm.",P08,S02 01:03:40.06,01:03:38.44,"That's really good, bubba.",P06,S02 01:03:40.49,01:03:39.09,And it's really pretty.,P08,S02 01:03:42.62,01:03:40.44,"Yeah, it is very pretty, very colorful.",P05,S02 01:03:45.20,01:03:43.34,"That's what's important, it's pretty.",P06,S02 01:03:59.08,01:03:44.28,"[laughs] That's all that's important. The crust is actually good. I've never made homemade crust before, pie crust or- I tried to use the blender instead of food processor and that didn't work, so I started stirring by hand. [laughs] Mmm.",P05,S02 01:03:48.51,01:03:46.11,[laughs] Mhm.,P08,S02 01:03:51.80,01:03:50.82,"It is very good, bubba.",P06,S02 01:03:57.03,01:03:55.19,[laughs],P08,S02 01:03:57.04,01:03:55.82,[noise],P07,S02 01:03:58.02,01:03:57.18,Um.,P06,S02 01:04:00.37,01:03:59.45,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:04:10.82,01:03:59.72,"So, yeah, my aunt, uh, put us through to this lady to help with Haze's PR, I was having a long chat with her, and she said, ""Yeah, you know what, you guys should get more involved with volunteering.""",P06,S02 01:04:01.20,01:04:00.10,Needs some salt.,P05,S02 01:04:13.36,01:04:11.10,"Oh, are you telling the Craigslist st- [noise]",P05,S02 01:04:14.10,01:04:12.54,"Hmm, so Haley, you know",P06,S02 01:04:18.78,01:04:13.00,"[noise] Why, the, the PR, the PR company suggests this to [inaudible 1:04:17.13] oh.",P07,S02 01:04:31.74,01:04:16.14,"No, no, no, no. No, no, no. My aunt, my aunt just said that apart from that, that's one thing, con- this lady will, this lady will contact you on PR, and separately, keep busy, get involved, volunteer. Cuz she's a very pro-volunteer X Y Z.",P06,S02 01:04:22.58,01:04:20.58,Oh. Okay. It's not like it's,P07,S02 01:04:25.02,01:04:24.20,I see. It's,P07,S02 01:04:28.32,01:04:26.44,"Get involved, volunteer.",P05,S02 01:04:28.56,01:04:27.98,Mm.,P07,S02 01:04:29.54,01:04:28.92,[noise],P07,S02 01:04:32.30,01:04:31.54,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:04:45.46,01:04:32.78,"And she also knows we have the time on our hands, right, so, when we don't know what day of the week it is, at least we should go and volunteer. Um [laughs]. We'll help. ""Get a job, man."" So, um",P06,S02 01:04:35.58,01:04:34.74,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:04:51.36,01:04:38.06,[laughs],P05,S02 01:04:48.68,01:04:39.16,"[laughs] I'm sorry, that was mean.",P07,S02 01:04:40.61,01:04:39.89,[laughs],P08,S02 01:04:51.19,01:04:42.01,[laughs],P08,S02 01:04:47.72,01:04:45.46,"[noise] So, um [noise]",P06,S02 01:04:55.44,01:04:48.44,"[laughs] So, um, yeah, Haze went, you know, and then Haze looked another thing, that another issue",P06,S02 01:04:55.20,01:04:54.26,[noise],P07,S02 01:04:56.80,01:04:55.42,[laughs],P05,S02 01:05:11.24,01:04:55.98,"Her thing is, she has, uh, what's called, um, like, the, uh, some sort of tunnel vision sometimes, I don't know what the right word is, but, like, if she'll get into, she'll get into Instagram, and then she'll be on Instagram for eleven hours, all right, she'll",P06,S02 01:05:00.98,01:04:58.94,[noise],P05,S02 01:05:07.28,01:05:04.88,[laughs] Cherry picking,P05,S02 01:05:06.02,01:05:05.00,[laughs],P07,S02 01:05:08.51,01:05:06.87,She's very focused.,P08,S02 01:05:11.36,01:05:10.36,"Everybody does that, though.",P07,S02 01:05:11.37,01:05:10.33,"Yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 01:05:13.92,01:05:11.12,"I, that's why I don't allow myself to go on anymore, it's just so",P05,S02 01:05:12.08,01:05:11.24,"Nah, man.",P06,S02 01:05:13.66,01:05:12.96,Hmm.,P07,S02 01:05:20.72,01:05:13.16,"Yeah, yeah, like, like, she'll get in, she'll get locked into this, like, coma, which is like a mixed, like, you know what I mean, [inaudible 1:0519:00]",P06,S02 01:05:14.87,01:05:14.03,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:05:17.18,01:05:16.34,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:05:17.29,01:05:16.69,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:05:22.27,01:05:18.33,"That's why our, that's why our data went over last month, cuz I was on Instagram so much.",P08,S02 01:05:19.63,01:05:18.50,Instagram coma.,P07,S02 01:05:22.76,01:05:21.84,That's why you what?,P06,S02 01:05:23.51,01:05:22.33,[noise],P07,S02 01:05:23.18,01:05:22.54,[inaudible 1:05:22.54],P05,S02 01:05:29.39,01:05:22.79,"My data on our phones, went over when I was, I was on that national photo sharing site too much. [noise]",P08,S02 01:05:25.70,01:05:24.14,[inaudible 1:05:24.12] [laughs],P06,S02 01:05:26.94,01:05:24.34,"[laughs] Oh yeah, we'd sit in the car watching the video.",P05,S02 01:05:25.63,01:05:24.53,[laughs],P07,S02 01:05:33.75,01:05:25.95,"Yeah, th- , yeah, I, you went over our plan for like a hundred bucks for that. Yeah. Mm- mm. Mhm.",P07,S02 01:05:29.48,01:05:28.68,[laughs],P05,S02 01:05:30.86,01:05:30.46,[noise],P06,S02 01:05:32.45,01:05:30.43,Mm- mm. Mm- mm.,P08,S02 01:05:34.78,01:05:30.48,[noise] Oh yeah. Around dinner on the first night when you guys found out.,P05,S02 01:05:55.09,01:05:50.55,"Yeah, and we both went over. Actually, your data was more over than mine.",P08,S02 01:05:53.06,01:05:52.20,[laughs],P05,S02 01:05:55.86,01:05:54.88,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:06:01.29,01:05:55.13,"How did we both go over when we share? It's, we went over together.",P07,S02 01:06:04.63,01:06:00.15,"Because we each have five. Well, then why in the heck were you blaming me just a minute ago?",P08,S02 01:06:05.28,01:06:04.48,[laughs],P05,S02 01:06:07.83,01:06:04.55,"Cuz you're, you're the one who is culpable for, uh, Instagram.",P07,S02 01:06:12.12,01:06:06.58,[laughs],P05,S02 01:06:09.43,01:06:08.37,[laughs],P07,S02 01:06:14.65,01:06:08.39,I'm changing my answer about opposition [laughs] on my survey. [laughs],P08,S02 01:06:13.43,01:06:10.21,[laughs],P07,S02 01:06:11.42,01:06:10.54,[noise],P06,S02 01:06:26.50,01:06:13.58,"[noise] I was looking at Abhi's and I said, ""You know, do it on your own"" and I said, [laughs] and he goes, ""You'd disagree with my answer anyways"" or something [laughs]",P05,S02 01:06:21.66,01:06:20.80,[laughs],P06,S02 01:06:25.69,01:06:20.89,[laughs],P08,S02 01:06:34.76,01:06:23.63,"But, um, yeah, so she was looking for all this stuff, and she gets into these, so she got into this ma- she said volunteer, so she got into this volunteering zone, and she went to every volunteering website in Vancouver.",P06,S02 01:06:24.79,01:06:23.81,[laughs],P07,S02 01:06:44.62,01:06:35.22,"And looked up every opportunity, and she sent me one saying, ""Oh there's this old man at this home, you know, doesn't speak anything but Tamil, maybe we should go and visit with him a couple hours a week.""",P06,S02 01:06:45.10,01:06:43.68,And Abhi speaks Tamil.,P05,S02 01:06:45.83,01:06:44.99,Aw.,P08,S02 01:06:52.34,01:06:45.35,"And I was like, ""Yeah, yeah, sure."" Yeah, I speak, Tamil, [inaudible 1:06:47.80], Urdu, Arabic, a little bit of Arabic, English.",P06,S02 01:06:46.77,01:06:45.81,You speak Tamil?,P07,S02 01:06:48.15,01:06:47.31,Huh.,P07,S02 01:06:49.61,01:06:48.79,Mm.,P08,S02 01:06:53.83,01:06:50.35,"Woah, sh- so you, you know six languages? Damn.",P07,S02 01:06:59.24,01:06:51.40,"[inaudible 1:06:51.40] [noise] You don't know them all really well. You can get by in all of them, yeah.",P05,S02 01:07:04.72,01:06:54.80,"And, uh, I can get by in all of them. Yeah. I mean, I'm not fluent in any of them, but I can get by in all of them. Um. Um.",P06,S02 01:06:57.67,01:06:56.69,Mm.,P08,S02 01:07:01.55,01:07:00.13,[noise] Hmm.,P07,S02 01:07:11.52,01:07:06.14,"So I found this thing, a companion for him. Okay, you wanna tell it? Mkay.",P05,S02 01:07:09.61,01:07:06.77,[noise],P08,S02 01:07:12.38,01:07:06.91,"Yeah, so she found, no, you don't, you're not, companion for him, yeah. Not for me.",P06,S02 01:07:25.92,01:07:12.98,"I don't think this story's that good, though. [laughs] I dunno.",P05,S02 01:07:15.60,01:07:14.00,So we wrote an email,P06,S02 01:07:18.47,01:07:14.63,[laughs],P08,S02 01:07:17.71,01:07:15.53,It's great. It's a great story.,P07,S02 01:07:18.56,01:07:17.64,It's a great story.,P06,S02 01:07:32.08,01:07:20.00,"How much time do we have left? [laughs] So, so, um, she found that, was, a, w- we signed up, we gotta go for orie- so basically they wrote us an email back saying that",P06,S02 01:07:23.07,01:07:21.43,[laughs],P07,S02 01:07:23.59,01:07:21.37,[laughs],P08,S02 01:07:41.66,01:07:32.92,"They basically have to m- rate you in a bit of a, so, like, yeah, we gotta go through this check and credit check and then background check and then police report check and then before you can even get enrolled, and I'm like",P06,S02 01:07:46.74,01:07:41.66,"You're really scaring volunteers away with all this crap, you know what I mean? Like, [inaudible 1:07:45.85]",P06,S02 01:07:45.71,01:07:42.87,[laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 01:07:45.00,01:07:43.12,[laughs],P05,S02 01:07:49.89,01:07:45.61,"I guess, I guess they have liability, and they don't wanna get sued, cuz, yeah",P07,S02 01:07:58.38,01:07:48.03,"Yeah, I mean, I, I, I assumed, but it was like, it was an overwhelming email, and then you know, he was like, ""Oh wait wait, we have to go next Tuesday for orientation. Orientation is three and a half hours of orientation before you decide whether you want to sign up.""",P06,S02 01:07:51.79,01:07:51.01,Mm.,P07,S02 01:07:58.51,01:07:56.25,Woah. Before you can talk to the,P08,S02 01:08:09.80,01:07:58.38,"Before you decide whether, what you wanted, whether they'll let you volunteer, basically. [laughs] I was like, ""This is a different type of, uh different definition of the word 'volunteering'."" [laughs] Uh, uh [laughs] I wanna help.",P06,S02 01:08:03.97,01:08:01.06,"Cuz it's a bunch of uh different volunteer things, so.",P05,S02 01:08:09.43,01:08:05.99,"You're like, ""Look, this dude needs help. I'm willing to help.""",P08,S02 01:08:12.56,01:08:09.64,Mhm. [laughs],P05,S02 01:08:25.16,01:08:10.00,"They're like, ""He doesn't speak any other language."" But, okay, so that was one of the things, and then she went into a tunnel zone, and she found this one ar- one article which read, ""Hey, wanting to build tiny house, uh, tiny house-esque community for the homeless and ladies on the street""",P06,S02 01:08:14.97,01:08:12.51,[laughs],P08,S02 01:08:23.13,01:08:22.11,"Oh, perfect.",P08,S02 01:08:27.75,01:08:24.95,Perfect. Cuz you guys know that. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:08:32.30,01:08:25.51,"And their kids. Mhm. Ladies and children. Yeah, build tiny houses.",P05,S02 01:08:32.06,01:08:25.58,"Uh, you know what I mean? And their kids. Get in- , get involved, ladies and children, get involved, so, uh",P06,S02 01:08:31.65,01:08:28.71,"Like, like a battered wives sort of thing? Yeah.",P08,S02 01:08:36.31,01:08:30.61,"You do need, you do need kind of rural land for that to work, right, I mean, u- usually you kind of",P07,S02 01:08:49.78,01:08:34.22,"Yeah. Uh, yeah, so, so I wouldn't say, like, ""we"", don't put ""we"" wrote, uh, Haley wrote him, and he w- so this is this, yeah, I thought didn't read the rest of the Craigslist post, so I didn't know he was a nutbag, and he called her back, and she gave him her number",P06,S02 01:08:36.32,01:08:35.52,We didn't think,P05,S02 01:08:41.94,01:08:38.46,[laughs] You said it was a good idea.,P05,S02 01:08:58.60,01:08:50.08,"And he's like, ""Oh, yes, I'm waiting, uh, they're not letting me build it, so do you want to come with me and ask for land and permission to build it?"" [laughs]",P06,S02 01:09:01.40,01:08:58.56,First few minutes of the call,P05,S02 01:09:13.24,01:08:58.62,"And he, he, first few minutes I was like, from the first thirty seconds of the conversation I'm like, ""Haley, this guy is not okay."" You know what I mean, and he's like, ""Yeah, yeah, I went, I'm just going to ask UBC for the land and I'm going to build, and I'm going to ask them to pay me, because they should pay me."" I'm like, Haley, this guy's nuts.",P06,S02 01:08:59.85,01:08:59.05,[noise],P07,S02 01:09:05.75,01:09:03.89,"No, this, that's weird.",P08,S02 01:09:16.84,01:09:13.24,"""Just hang up the phone"" and she's already given him her number on Craigslist.",P06,S02 01:09:15.58,01:09:13.38,"Yeah, I'm like, ""This is not volunteer.""",P05,S02 01:09:25.09,01:09:16.77,"Like, ""Yeah, we're gonna to build at Jericho beach."" [laughs] Jericho Beach community, and UBC is gonna be fine with it.",P08,S02 01:09:26.54,01:09:17.23,"And I like, [laughs] Jericho Beach. Sounds like Haley. No more, I was like, ""No more tunnel vision.""",P06,S02 01:09:22.24,01:09:19.88,Do you want more? Okay.,P05,S02 01:09:21.55,01:09:20.77,[inaudible 1:09:20.72],P07,S02 01:09:28.79,01:09:24.09,"UBC should give us the most expensive zip code land in Canada, yeah.",P07,S02 01:09:31.46,01:09:27.04,"Yeah. [laughs] I was like, ""No more tunnel vision. Stop writing random""",P06,S02 01:09:28.57,01:09:27.83,Right.,P08,S02 01:09:34.35,01:09:29.41,Y- y- you should pay me to do this.,P08,S02 01:09:31.22,01:09:30.34,But then you said,P05,S02 01:09:32.53,01:09:31.59,[noise] Right.,P07,S02 01:09:33.74,01:09:33.02,Mm.,P06,S02 01:09:41.08,01:09:33.02,"Yeah, he's Like, ""Because I'll be committing a lot of my time, I'm not gonna do it for free."" I'm like, ""You came up"", right, that's what it sounded like.",P05,S02 01:09:41.63,01:09:34.27,"Well, he's a, he's a project consultant, of course, yeah. It sounds like you're trying to get a job, actually. It sounds like you getting a job.",P07,S02 01:09:39.61,01:09:38.55,[laughs],P08,S02 01:09:56.88,01:09:39.55,"Yeah, and then, and he's telling Haley, ""You know a lot of people contacted me,"", because really, if you read the post it reads well, ""and then they all just seem to be flaking."" and I'm like, ""Because you're a nutbag, and you haven't started anything!"" You know what I mean? If he actually had a established project, we're willing to come out and give you eight hours or ten hours a week, and come out and build.",P06,S02 01:09:41.15,01:09:40.39,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:09:44.92,01:09:44.44,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:09:51.00,01:09:47.80,"Mhm. I was like, ""It's because you're not established.""",P05,S02 01:09:51.01,01:09:50.39,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:10:10.74,01:09:56.56,"Oh. Like, because other people don't wanna lead it. Mama. Hey, baby girl. Hi, baby girl. She's so sweet. [noise] Oh I'm sorry, sweetie, your food's in the yoga room.",P05,S02 01:09:57.71,01:09:57.23,Right.,P08,S02 01:10:02.38,01:09:57.46,"Yep. Hi, Mama. Hi.",P06,S02 01:10:08.69,01:09:59.75,"Mamacita. Hi. Hello, you're a sweetie. Aw. Meow.",P08,S02 01:10:05.42,01:10:04.48,So,P06,S02 01:10:06.93,01:10:05.95,Meow.,P07,S02 01:10:25.59,01:10:09.16,"[noise] My sister had a cat named Sheba that looked just like this cat, except that this cat is nicer than Sheba, because I would, like, lay on the floor and watch TV, and my sister's cat would jump on my back and poop.",P08,S02 01:10:13.82,01:10:12.94,Ooh.,P05,S02 01:10:18.88,01:10:16.66,[laughs] Sheba sounds evil,P05,S02 01:10:25.96,01:10:25.20,And poop,P05,S02 01:10:32.49,01:10:25.59,"[laughs] On my back. And I was like, ""This cat is gonna die.""",P08,S02 01:10:29.62,01:10:27.68,Your back? Ew.,P06,S02 01:10:29.62,01:10:28.70,Oh,P05,S02 01:10:35.32,01:10:32.08,You said your old cat used to poop in pillows.,P05,S02 01:10:48.18,01:10:33.64,"It was not, it was, it was not my, no, no. So, when I was right out of, like, when I was in my, like, second, like, my last year of university, I lived in a, lived in a house, uh, so this was not at uni but it was, like, in Toronto",P06,S02 01:10:39.43,01:10:36.01,[laughs] That's so mean!,P08,S02 01:10:39.46,01:10:38.62,[noise],P05,S02 01:10:47.26,01:10:45.96,[noise],P05,S02 01:10:57.13,01:10:46.87,[noise],P08,S02 01:10:57.92,01:10:48.18,"I lived in a house, and it was one, two, three, four of us, and, I told you s- , I told you the story. So one of- No. So basically they b- ",P06,S02 01:10:56.74,01:10:51.46,"I feel like you told them this story. No? No, I feel like you told them. Okay.",P05,S02 01:10:59.07,01:10:57.09,"I don't remember stuff, anyway, so tell again.",P07,S02 01:11:01.66,01:10:58.44,Okay. [laughs] What's your name? [laughs],P05,S02 01:11:01.17,01:10:59.07,[laughs],P08,S02 01:11:06.06,01:11:00.54,"And, and basically there was like the scariest fucking cat in this house, like, it was possessed",P06,S02 01:11:07.03,01:11:06.27,Wow.,P08,S02 01:11:13.98,01:11:06.32,"And, like, every time you didn't give it attention it would go and take a shit in your bed, or, you know [laughs]. So, like, th- those were the days I used to come home drunk and high a lot.",P06,S02 01:11:10.71,01:11:10.09,[noise],P08,S02 01:11:14.57,01:11:13.29,[laughs],P07,S02 01:11:31.96,01:11:13.98,"So, a lot of the time, you were too tired, you'd get in bed and you're sleeping in shit, and you only realize it in the morning. It's disgusting. So that's what got me into, like, a knee-deep OCD, you know, to wake up in the middle of the night, like, hungover and then have shit in my hand or on my back [laughs], and it would purposely just shit in my bed. [laughs]",P06,S02 01:11:21.47,01:11:13.95,"[laughs] [noise] Oh, no. No.",P08,S02 01:11:20.76,01:11:17.58,[laughs],P05,S02 01:11:21.33,01:11:20.15,Oh my god.,P07,S02 01:11:31.55,01:11:26.81,"Oh, god. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:11:28.38,01:11:27.10,[laughs],P05,S02 01:11:39.70,01:11:30.72,"[laughs] You must have been mean to this cat. Yeah. He's like, ""So I heard you're super clean, so."" Were you like that then, really clean?",P05,S02 01:11:35.39,01:11:31.89,"He's like, ""That's will be OCD."" [laughs]",P07,S02 01:11:34.24,01:11:33.32,"Yeah, yeah, yeah.",P06,S02 01:11:43.50,01:11:36.02,"Yes, it, yeah, a freak. Uh, yeah. Yeah. I was, I really used to freak about things like that. Like, cleanliness for sure, I wasn't",P06,S02 01:11:37.05,01:11:36.25,[laughs],P07,S02 01:11:47.04,01:11:42.16,"Well, I think everyone would freak about laying in bed with poo, I don't, don't think that's abnormal.",P05,S02 01:11:45.98,01:11:45.02,"No, but I mean I'm",P06,S02 01:11:47.67,01:11:45.49,[laughs],P08,S02 01:11:50.95,01:11:45.79,"So, so you would say that he's a freak in the sheets? [laughs]",P07,S02 01:11:50.92,01:11:48.60,[laughs] Ah! [noise],P05,S02 01:11:53.09,01:11:49.16,"[laughs] No, and then I'll tell you the story of my Mom",P06,S02 01:11:51.45,01:11:49.25,[laughs],P08,S02 01:11:56.39,01:11:51.55,But a lady in the street. [laughs],P07,S02 01:11:55.03,01:11:53.03,[laughs],P08,S02 01:11:54.50,01:11:53.26,Lady in the street [laughs],P06,S02 01:12:05.30,01:11:54.98,"Freak in the bed. Hi, fingers. [laughs] Ah yes, it- Uh, I'm full.",P05,S02 01:12:03.70,01:11:56.14,"No, I said my Mom. Hi. [inaudible 1:11:58.90] Uh, I had a, an- anyone for seconds?",P06,S02 01:12:03.85,01:11:57.73,[laughs],P08,S02 01:11:59.51,01:11:57.81,[laughs],P07,S02 01:12:04.51,01:12:03.91,[noise],P07,S02 01:12:06.52,01:12:05.68,Would you like something?,P06,S02 01:12:06.99,01:12:06.05,I'm pretty full.,P07,S02 01:12:07.67,01:12:07.05,You're full?,P08,S02 01:12:15.66,01:12:07.36,"We'll have dessert too, anyways. So let's clear this and we- oh. [laughs] Okay. We have dessert, too.",P05,S02 01:12:09.53,01:12:08.63,All right.,P07,S02 01:12:12.02,01:12:09.78,"You're pretty full? Well, I'm going to have seconds. [noise]",P06,S02 01:12:14.16,01:12:12.86,I'm hungry. [noise],P06,S02 01:12:19.30,01:12:15.54,"We have dessert, too? So maybe you don't want me to eat seconds? I'm getting fat.",P06,S02 01:12:23.40,01:12:16.28,"Yeah. No, whatever you want. [laughs] You can eat whatever you want, bub.",P05,S02 01:12:28.22,01:12:25.50,[noise] Love you.,P05,S02 01:12:29.68,01:12:26.24,"I love you. [inaudible 1:12:27.30] So, um",P06,S02 01:12:28.17,01:12:26.95,[laughs],P08,S02 01:12:35.66,01:12:29.67,"Not a fan of round things? Making a little round corner. [laughs] Tomatoes, blueberry, oh, half grape.",P05,S02 01:12:33.06,01:12:32.58,[noise],P06,S02 01:12:33.93,01:12:33.07,[laughs],P08,S02 01:12:40.00,01:12:35.48,"I thought it was a grape for a second. I don't know what it is, tomato. But, um",P06,S02 01:12:42.28,01:12:39.20,[laughs],P05,S02 01:12:45.57,01:12:40.59,[laughs] In o- You thought the orange tomato was a grape?,P08,S02 01:12:42.94,01:12:42.44,So,P06,S02 01:12:54.10,01:12:45.00,"Okay. That'd would have been a really big grape. Yeah, and it's orange. [laughs] That too. I cut one and it, like, splurt.",P05,S02 01:12:52.03,01:12:47.29,"Also, it's orange. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:12:53.43,01:12:52.95,[noise],P07,S02 01:12:55.57,01:12:54.91,Mm.,P08,S02 01:12:59.62,01:12:55.88,"I was telling you how cherry tomatoes were my last, like, feat for the tomato family.",P05,S02 01:13:00.61,01:12:58.23,That's right. And now you like them.,P08,S02 01:13:11.68,01:13:02.12,"I ca- I don't think I could eat one straight cold, like, and enjoy it. Cooked they're good, yeah. Might be on pizza, tomatoes on top.",P05,S02 01:13:08.63,01:13:04.21,"Yeah. Yeah. But cooked, they're good. Mhm.",P08,S02 01:13:15.55,01:13:09.41,"Yeah. Mhm, mhm. That was really good. I might make that. Yeah. Mhm.",P08,S02 01:13:20.64,01:13:13.20,"Yeah? It wasn't too hard, actually. The crust was the annoying part, but that's because I don't have a food processor.",P05,S02 01:13:23.49,01:13:20.81,"Oh, cuz you made the dough? Mm.",P08,S02 01:13:24.68,01:13:22.12,Yeah. Last night I made that.,P05,S02 01:13:25.91,01:13:25.01,Wow.,P08,S02 01:13:26.68,01:13:25.80,"And, um",P06,S02 01:13:35.08,01:13:26.84,"And I didn't even think we had a rolling pin, so I was thinking like, ""Can we just use like a, a wine bottle, [inaudible 1:12:32.00], but he was like, ""No, no, we have a rolling pin"".",P05,S02 01:13:35.01,01:13:32.05,[laughs],P08,S02 01:13:36.98,01:13:32.38,"[noise] The wine bottle, the wine bottles are [inaudible 1:13:36.00] from uh Blue Apron, actually.",P06,S02 01:13:37.61,01:13:36.77,"Oh, really?",P08,S02 01:13:39.98,01:13:38.22,[inaudible 1:13:38.20] that we don't have Blue Apron here.,P06,S02 01:13:39.26,01:13:38.24,"I was like ""N- """,P05,S02 01:13:46.81,01:13:39.97,"N- there's something similar to it. Yeah, uh, one of my friends was just talking about it. I'll get the name for you. Like",P08,S02 01:13:42.04,01:13:41.40,Is there?,P06,S02 01:13:50.42,01:13:45.94,"Okay. Because we, we did it, uh, was there one a week? So basically, like",P06,S02 01:13:47.15,01:13:46.49,[noise],P07,S02 01:13:50.69,01:13:48.27,[inaudible 1:13:48.22] wants to start a food delivery start up.,P07,S02 01:13:51.23,01:13:50.51,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:13:56.90,01:13:51.44,"You wanna start one? I think it's, that's like, yeah, I think it's, it's so saturated.",P06,S02 01:13:55.48,01:13:52.10,"No, everybody and their brothers. Yeah. [noise]",P05,S02 01:13:55.65,01:13:52.15,"No. I do not. No, there's enough, there's enough of them. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:13:59.44,01:13:56.36,And you get to a point where you can't grow anymore is what I was told.,P05,S02 01:14:02.71,01:13:58.29,"And, uh, I'd- like, like, didn't, didn't one big one just, uh, go tits up?",P07,S02 01:14:00.49,01:13:59.35,Right. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:14:13.48,01:14:02.04,"Plated? Or no. Mr. Wonderful from Shark Tank, he [inaudible 1:14:07.80] Plated, Blue Apron. They started coming out with Hello Fresh, I think was one of",P05,S02 01:14:04.01,01:14:03.45,Plated?,P07,S02 01:14:04.75,01:14:03.41,Oh.,P08,S02 01:14:08.82,01:14:03.46,"No, and I think Plate it's quite, Plate it's, Quate is one of the, Plate, Plate is one of the successful ones, boo.",P06,S02 01:14:05.13,01:14:04.61,[inaudible 1:14:04.56],P07,S02 01:14:11.36,01:14:10.54,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:14:13.66,01:14:12.58,Hello Fresh.,P06,S02 01:14:17.33,01:14:12.67,"Oh yeah. There's another box one, something box, isn't there?",P07,S02 01:14:14.77,01:14:12.67,"That's what, I think that one's in Canada.",P08,S02 01:14:15.06,01:14:14.56,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:14:20.02,01:14:17.20,Mhm. Just Boxed.,P05,S02 01:14:18.34,01:14:17.36,"Boxed, I think.",P06,S02 01:14:24.23,01:14:18.53,"Boxed? No. I thought it was something box, like, not BridgeBox, but, like, food box, or",P07,S02 01:14:22.04,01:14:21.24,That's a bar.,P05,S02 01:14:28.12,01:14:23.70,"[inaudible 1:14:23.70] the dog ones, for your dog.",P05,S02 01:14:24.96,01:14:24.00,It's possible.,P06,S02 01:14:25.99,01:14:24.77,Chef Box?,P08,S02 01:14:29.91,01:14:26.77,"Oh, that's right, there's dogs. No, in the states I used",P08,S02 01:14:30.05,01:14:28.11,There's dog ones? What do you mean?,P07,S02 01:14:31.12,01:14:29.40,I don't think the dog one was successful.,P06,S02 01:14:35.00,01:14:30.00,"And you get dog treats, and like a toy, and then. Yeah.",P05,S02 01:14:36.41,01:14:32.93,"Oh, like BridgeBox for dogs? Wow, that's something you would do once.",P07,S02 01:14:35.51,01:14:34.83,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:14:48.63,01:14:36.39,"There's also one that, um, what's that fashionista's name, Zoe, Za- Zaldan- yeah, she has one. She has a box that gets sent out.",P08,S02 01:14:54.16,01:14:36.86,"They've got people. Like there's Cap Line. Um. I know who you mean. Mm. Zoe, I literally called her as one of my companies because she's a jewelry, right?",P05,S02 01:14:48.21,01:14:47.53,[noise],P07,S02 01:14:51.21,01:14:49.09,"Zaldan- I, I feel so",P08,S02 01:14:56.41,01:14:53.59,Yeah. She has one of those monthly boxes.,P08,S02 01:14:56.64,01:14:55.56,[noise],P06,S02 01:14:58.82,01:14:56.28,"Yeah, I can't remember the name, so.",P05,S02 01:15:04.53,01:14:58.83,"In C- Cambridge I used Stitch Fix all the time, and it was great. Stitch Fix.",P08,S02 01:15:00.28,01:14:59.14,And it's one of the,P06,S02 01:15:01.62,01:15:01.10,With,P06,S02 01:15:03.44,01:15:02.36,"What, tricks?",P06,S02 01:15:05.58,01:15:02.42,[noise] Stitch Fix. Priscilla used to use it.,P05,S02 01:15:05.02,01:15:04.50,Hmm.,P06,S02 01:15:10.53,01:15:05.25,"Yeah, they were, they, they were right on the money. Everything they sent her looked fantastic.",P07,S02 01:15:09.39,01:15:06.63,"I really loved them. Yeah. For me, they were good.",P08,S02 01:15:12.98,01:15:10.44,"So, did you cook, or was that they sent you the food?",P06,S02 01:15:10.99,01:15:10.49,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:15:11.26,01:15:10.62,Yeah,P05,S02 01:15:20.07,01:15:12.17,"No, clothes, clothes. You get a stylist, you send them your measurements, or whatever, photos of you, yeah.",P07,S02 01:15:13.41,01:15:12.73,Clothes.,P08,S02 01:15:14.34,01:15:13.44,Clothes.,P05,S02 01:15:16.44,01:15:13.88,"Oh, I thought you were talking about boxed foods, still.",P06,S02 01:15:16.97,01:15:16.15,No.,P08,S02 01:15:19.65,01:15:18.27,And your style.,P08,S02 01:15:21.80,01:15:19.28,"And s- and your style, and they'll send you, like",P06,S02 01:15:37.03,01:15:21.19,"And, like, you create a Pinterest board, and they'll have a fashion person look at everything, and then they send you monthly things, and then you keep what you want and pay for it, or you send it just back. If you don't keep anything then they charge you, like, five bucks or something, or eight dollars.",P08,S02 01:15:22.00,01:15:21.30,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:15:28.50,01:15:27.08,[inaudible 1:15:27.08],P05,S02 01:15:28.64,01:15:27.68,That's so cool.,P06,S02 01:15:33.36,01:15:32.74,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:15:48.50,01:15:36.46,"I saw that, I mean, I saw the guys on Shark Tank that wanted to do something similar to that, and there was once, there was anoth- there was another set of guys, uh, which I think was a fail, they didn't get picked up",P06,S02 01:15:41.20,01:15:40.38,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:16:04.84,01:15:48.58,"The [inaudible 1:15:48.70] was interesting. It was like travel with no luggage, so, tell us the destination you're traveling to and we'll send you a box to where you're going with, like, a t-shirt and yeah, yeah, yeah, single use items. No, you can decide, they're reusable, you can either keep them or return them.",P06,S02 01:15:52.14,01:15:51.46,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:15:57.29,01:15:56.09,"Oh, you're kidding!",P08,S02 01:16:14.98,01:15:57.58,"All the clothes you'll need. No. No, I think you can resuse them, can't you? Yeah. Yeah. So it was re-wearing stuff. Like, a different person's. Yeah. That was the part. Mhm.",P05,S02 01:16:01.97,01:15:57.75,"Of, like, single use items? [inaudible 1:16:00.10]",P07,S02 01:15:59.47,01:15:58.41,Everything you,P08,S02 01:16:07.11,01:16:05.15,"After you, you wear them?",P07,S02 01:16:14.98,01:16:05.74,"Y- yeah, and, after you've worn them, so it was like, re-wear, yeah, and then, you know, that was like the hitch w- that was the hitch that they didn't like so much.",P06,S02 01:16:10.15,01:16:07.99,"So, so, so you're, ooh.",P07,S02 01:16:10.41,01:16:08.55,Woah.,P08,S02 01:16:13.25,01:16:12.47,W- w- ,P07,S02 01:16:15.77,01:16:13.89,"Like, what if it's a bathing suit?",P08,S02 01:16:21.74,01:16:16.22,"Uh, there's probably something about that. But like suits or button ups.",P05,S02 01:16:29.28,01:16:16.30,"Yeah, uh, but uh, there's probably something with, like, underwear, but, like, shirt and suit and things like that, so you don't have to carry your luggage, you go there, and you're like, ""Oh, I want a black suit. this is the size, this is"" and everything will be ready for you at the hotel room, so you don't have to travel with anything.",P06,S02 01:16:19.09,01:16:17.61,Okay. [laughs],P08,S02 01:16:26.63,01:16:25.95,Wow.,P07,S02 01:16:27.44,01:16:26.86,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:16:28.69,01:16:27.81,Wow.,P08,S02 01:16:38.94,01:16:29.28,"But in today's world, where traveling is like so much, or the world's so much smaller and it's so easy to get from A to B, and also you know, you can carry a lot more I think, even [noise]",P06,S02 01:16:35.73,01:16:34.87,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:16:44.54,01:16:39.60,"And lots of places check baggages for you, also, so you know, you're not really saving money on that.",P06,S02 01:16:40.56,01:16:40.08,[noise],P05,S02 01:16:43.19,01:16:41.99,"Right, yeah.",P08,S02 01:16:43.85,01:16:42.81,[noise],P07,S02 01:17:00.71,01:16:45.15,"They say that entrepreneurship has stopped solving real problems in the world, like, and that's, like, an example. Th- the- they're like, not, like, you have, like, a bright young entrepreneur who wants to start a company, and that is the idea he comes up with?",P07,S02 01:16:50.53,01:16:48.51,[laughs],P08,S02 01:16:50.56,01:16:49.04,"Yeah, it's a big, it's a big th- ",P06,S02 01:16:52.04,01:16:50.18,And it's making up new problems.,P05,S02 01:16:53.72,01:16:51.90,"It's not, it's creating the problem and then the solution.",P06,S02 01:16:54.77,01:16:53.73,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:16:57.52,01:16:56.92,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:17:04.63,01:17:01.11,"Like, that, like, not, not anything that's re- really gonna make your world better, you know?",P07,S02 01:17:02.26,01:17:01.68,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:17:06.30,01:17:04.50,"B- but, sorry.",P06,S02 01:17:19.74,01:17:04.52,"You know, I, I was been reading up a lot with like consumer products and like find the problem and then create a product that solves it, obviously, but I think that, um, it was on some website where you could submit your product ideas and see how people liked them, oh, well, it was also talking about crowd funding",P05,S02 01:17:30.66,01:17:19.74,"And, um, it said that people really get excited about new things that they'd never heard of or never even thought was a problem, so I feel like stuff like that, people think, ""Oh, that's brand new, what a cool idea"".",P05,S02 01:17:26.65,01:17:25.99,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:17:27.87,01:17:27.35,Right.,P07,S02 01:17:41.49,01:17:28.63,[noise] Mhm. [noise] Mhm. [noise],P08,S02 01:17:34.97,01:17:28.95,"But it always ends up tapering off after a while, once people realize that it's still not that much of a problem. Mm.",P07,S02 01:17:35.98,01:17:33.16,Exactly. They realize they don't need it in the end.,P05,S02 01:17:40.86,01:17:34.74,"That's a brilliant, I mean, what you said, there's, like, so true, so brilliant, it's like",P06,S02 01:17:58.60,01:17:41.32,"It's come to a point of saturation, to the fact that if you're not a tech company or you're, you're not a tech start-up, or if you're not in the tech world, in the conventional world, they are just creating the problem and solving it, you know what I mean, they were, they were looking to, that, that other guy who made a pitch was, was that",P06,S02 01:18:16.88,01:17:58.60,"You were talking about the, was the dog health food, so it was like a, it was basically healthy vege- , so, like food, like, not like a Blue Apron, but, like, meals, delivered. You don't have to make, they're made, they're ready and they come in a nice box, and there's no preservatives, no additive, yeah.",P06,S02 01:18:02.14,01:18:01.04,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:18:02.13,01:18:01.13,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:18:04.50,01:18:03.16,It's like healthy,P05,S02 01:18:12.47,01:18:08.87,"That you make for your dog. Oh, okay, yeah.",P08,S02 01:18:12.14,01:18:11.46,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:18:12.35,01:18:11.67,Mm.,P07,S02 01:18:18.94,01:18:13.10,"Bit it's m- they tested it, like humans doing it, and like, it's normal, regular food, s- ",P05,S02 01:18:17.19,01:18:14.31,But it's like refrigeration. Oh.,P08,S02 01:18:20.67,01:18:15.45,"So, instead of just giving your dog dog food, you're giving them, meh.",P07,S02 01:18:21.76,01:18:18.12,"Yeah, yeah. Instead of giving your dog, and it was, like, only six dollars a day, something like that.",P06,S02 01:18:20.49,01:18:18.47,"Oh, okay. Meh.",P08,S02 01:18:30.61,01:18:20.99,"Whe- when we, when we get up in the morning, we, uh, feed our dog, and we feed it, our dog dog food, cuz, cuz that's what you do, because it takes two seconds, and it's in, like",P07,S02 01:18:24.00,01:18:22.98,Mhm.,P06,S02 01:18:28.66,01:18:26.04,[laughs] That's what you do with a dog.,P06,S02 01:18:29.84,01:18:29.24,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:18:37.35,01:18:30.61,There's already enough friction involved in getting the dog food from the canister to the dish.,P07,S02 01:18:32.34,01:18:31.68,[noise],P06,S02 01:18:36.22,01:18:35.70,Mm.,P06,S02 01:18:37.64,01:18:36.92,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:18:40.58,01:18:37.52,"We don't have a cat, and yet, I feed, now I have to feed this cat.",P06,S02 01:18:40.75,01:18:40.03,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:18:43.33,01:18:42.29,You're gonna go [inaudible 1:18:42.73],P07,S02 01:18:45.00,01:18:42.58,It's already been three days and I've forgotten to feed the dog,P06,S02 01:18:55.33,01:18:44.10,"Yeah. You're gonna go, you're go to the, you, you're gonna walk into another room, you're going to walk into the kitchen, to, like, another room, to get the box that came in the mail, and open it up, and take the things out of the plastic, no way.",P07,S02 01:18:49.69,01:18:44.23,[laughs],P08,S02 01:18:46.98,01:18:44.40,[laughs] The wet food.,P05,S02 01:18:49.68,01:18:46.96,[laughs] [noise],P06,S02 01:18:52.36,01:18:51.28,Right.,P05,S02 01:18:52.84,01:18:52.24,Mm.,P06,S02 01:18:55.50,01:18:53.28,One more step that people don't need.,P05,S02 01:18:55.28,01:18:54.64,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:19:02.94,01:18:55.76,"And then you're talking about opening dog food and and feeding the dog. When I grew up as a kid, we used to feed the dog in the house our food.",P06,S02 01:19:00.45,01:18:59.67,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:19:03.87,01:19:01.67,Yeah. Arf. Wha- ,P07,S02 01:19:08.80,01:19:02.94,"So, dog, would eat, like, if we had, we had rice and meat, like, leftover rice and meat would be what the dog ate, like at least",P06,S02 01:19:05.01,01:19:03.27,"Oh, I see, like, leftovers.",P08,S02 01:19:08.56,01:19:07.72,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:19:09.03,01:19:07.97,"Hmm. Oh, I see.",P08,S02 01:19:18.40,01:19:09.65,"You know, it's, then it was normal. Like people go, ""Oh no, there's salt in that."" or ""There's oil in that."" I'm like, it's a dog, for God's sake, they eat out of a garbage if they're, they're you know, now they're like, ""Oh this will kill them, that will kill them.""",P06,S02 01:19:11.24,01:19:09.99,Some people still do that.,P05,S02 01:19:11.79,01:19:11.07,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:19:14.91,01:19:13.19,[inaudible 1:19:13.20],P08,S02 01:19:17.06,01:19:15.50,[laughs],P05,S02 01:19:17.09,01:19:15.65,"And you know what, he's still",P08,S02 01:19:22.24,01:19:18.40,"And I was like, our dog lived till he was, lived till she was twenty three.",P06,S02 01:19:22.04,01:19:20.34,"Yeah, twenty th- ",P05,S02 01:19:28.85,01:19:22.09,Oh my god. Prolly cuz her diet was no nutritious. [laughs],P08,S02 01:19:23.23,01:19:22.27,Oh.,P07,S02 01:19:25.60,01:19:22.90,Yeah. Longest I've ever seen a dog live.,P05,S02 01:19:34.64,01:19:24.06,"Twenty three. Yeah, probably. The best thing is, not the best thing, but in two thousand fourteen, so she died in in twenty fifteen, in twenty fourteen, she died",P06,S02 01:19:43.42,01:19:34.64,"And took her to, give up, give her body up at the vet, so they have a section where you go and you give them, and they'll do all the services, they do like a doggie, and she woke up on the bed.",P06,S02 01:19:44.39,01:19:43.41,What?,P07,S02 01:19:45.69,01:19:43.35,"No. No, she didn't!",P08,S02 01:19:55.66,01:19:43.94,"Yeah. She woke up on the, yeah, she woke up on the, so we thought that she was dead, my [laughs] cuz [inaudible 1:19:48.90] [laughs] and then she came back and lived for another year.",P06,S02 01:19:57.11,01:19:48.65,"He was like, they were like, ""Shit. I'm halfway through stuffing this dog, I mean, why did I, crap. I better, better put her, better put your real leg back on.""",P07,S02 01:19:53.11,01:19:48.71,[laughs],P08,S02 01:19:54.16,01:19:51.82,"Yeah, yeah, right?",P05,S02 01:20:06.35,01:19:56.07,She lived another year! What? [laughs] Oh m- I can't believe that.,P08,S02 01:20:00.62,01:19:57.46,"She lived for another year. Yeah, her name was Armani, yeah.",P06,S02 01:20:04.97,01:19:58.87,Woah. [noise] It was what? Armani. Wow. Damn.,P07,S02 01:20:02.18,01:20:01.16,Armani.,P06,S02 01:20:04.82,01:20:04.04,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:20:15.46,01:20:04.88,"And I mean, yeah, so, I mean, she lived twenty three years, nineteen ninety three, no it's like nineteen ninety two. Dubai. Yeah.",P06,S02 01:20:10.21,01:20:08.79,Wow.,P08,S02 01:20:11.60,01:20:10.48,Almost twenty two.,P05,S02 01:20:13.46,01:20:11.10,"Wait, where. where, where was this?",P07,S02 01:20:12.79,01:20:11.29,Maybe [noise],P08,S02 01:20:15.34,01:20:14.44,This was Dubai.,P07,S02 01:20:17.23,01:20:15.55,Twenty three years and,P08,S02 01:20:25.16,01:20:15.96,"And you're telling me that, that people in Dubai would name their dog Armani? How very surprising. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:20:25.17,01:20:20.83,[laughs],P08,S02 01:20:25.06,01:20:21.40,[laughs] I know. [laughs],P05,S02 01:20:31.76,01:20:22.96,"Ironically, my sister named her Armani in ninety two, which was like, bef- [laughs]",P06,S02 01:20:27.18,01:20:26.68,Oh.,P07,S02 01:20:27.61,01:20:27.19,[noise],P08,S02 01:20:32.86,01:20:28.22,"Okay. Does she, do you have a cat named Gucci, or [laughs]",P07,S02 01:20:40.79,01:20:30.63,[laughs] That's so funny. Wow.,P08,S02 01:20:36.30,01:20:31.70,Basically. [laughs] 's all right.,P05,S02 01:20:38.70,01:20:32.88,"You saw her. [laughs] Close. But, uh",P06,S02 01:20:35.68,01:20:33.88,All right. Okay.,P07,S02 01:20:47.86,01:20:37.68,[laughs] This is our cat Louis [laughs] Vuitton. [laughs],P07,S02 01:20:43.32,01:20:39.44,Yeah. I guess my sister's very,P06,S02 01:20:47.26,01:20:43.68,[laughs],P06,S02 01:20:49.08,01:20:44.14,Yeah. [laughs],P05,S02 01:20:59.19,01:20:45.07,"[laughs] That's funny. Wow. So, she lived, like, twenty three years minus a couple hours. [laughs] You guys are insane. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:20:50.26,01:20:49.24,[noise],P07,S02 01:20:54.10,01:20:52.40,"Yeah, yeah.",P05,S02 01:20:53.86,01:20:53.28,Oh.,P07,S02 01:21:03.76,01:20:53.76,"What's in the p- , but you know, but, and I'm told she was twenty, when she was twenty plus, she was chasin', chasin' cars, she, she loved to chase cars so we used to keep",P06,S02 01:20:58.14,01:20:56.00,Almost made it to a full twenty,P05,S02 01:21:07.06,01:21:02.70,[laughs] And she lasted till twenty three somehow.,P05,S02 01:21:07.67,01:21:02.99,[laughs],P08,S02 01:21:13.36,01:21:05.12,"Ironic. And she, and the beautiful thing is she lived her whole life in the same house, so uh we moved house, but my uncle took over the house from us",P06,S02 01:21:10.07,01:21:09.37,uh-huh.,P08,S02 01:21:13.66,01:21:13.00,Mhm,P05,S02 01:21:31.38,01:21:13.36,"So when my uncle took over the house from us, he took over the dog from us, so she lived in, she lived in that house. And so, it was, like, a thing where, like, right in the street in front of you the, the cars would drive by, and, like, she would just chase the car around the corner, like it was a thing, and it was not like a main street, it was, like a side, like an inner, inner street, and she'd chase it",P06,S02 01:21:17.01,01:21:16.27,"Oh, okay.",P08,S02 01:21:23.65,01:21:22.91,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:21:30.23,01:21:28.31,Yeah. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:21:39.12,01:21:31.48,"Until she was twenty something she was chasing bloody cars. It was incredible. She, I dunno, like a desert mix, like, w- , like a mutt.",P06,S02 01:21:36.05,01:21:34.07,Wow. What kind of dog was she?,P08,S02 01:21:40.59,01:21:37.53,Like a mutt. Yeah. Wow.,P08,S02 01:21:41.18,01:21:40.60,[noise],P07,S02 01:21:42.63,01:21:40.91,Those are the healthiest dogs.,P08,S02 01:21:42.82,01:21:40.96,Saluki and something else and,P06,S02 01:21:46.44,01:21:42.34,"Are they? Cuz they are such a mix, and not pure?",P05,S02 01:21:48.17,01:21:44.43,"Cuz, yeah, cuz they're mixed. Yeah. I'll help clear.",P08,S02 01:21:52.96,01:21:47.16,"Cuz their great granddaddy lived in the desert and ate weeds. Oh, thanks.",P07,S02 01:21:50.26,01:21:49.08,[laughs],P05,S02 01:21:51.79,01:21:50.73,Thanks.,P08,S02 01:21:52.72,01:21:51.58,"I got it, I got it, yeah.",P06,S02 01:21:59.18,01:21:53.82,"That's, I don't remember when we started eating, do you?",P05,S02 01:22:00.92,01:21:58.44,[noise] Take it.,P06,S02 01:22:05.10,01:21:59.38,"Um, yeah, it was about quarter to, I think.",P07,S02 01:22:05.03,01:22:03.23,I'm gonna steal another strawberry.,P08,S02 01:22:07.64,01:22:03.84,"Can you guys, uh, move to the living room, please, while I, uh, wash dishes?",P06,S02 01:22:11.46,01:22:04.26,Okay. Yeah. Will you bring us dessert in the living room? Thank you. [laughs],P05,S02 01:22:08.14,01:22:07.42,Yes.,P07,S02 01:22:09.76,01:22:08.40,"Yes, I will. Please.",P06,S02 01:22:10.16,01:22:09.24,Nice.,P07,S02 01:22:24.04,01:22:12.78,"[laughs] Good news? Or is she excited about dessert? [laughs] Yeah, right? Mmm. Leftover? [laughs]",P05,S02 01:22:14.53,01:22:13.53,[laughs],P08,S02 01:22:18.43,01:22:16.79,"All of the above, I think.",P08,S02 01:22:21.90,01:22:20.50,"Dolly, what do you think this says?",P07,S02 01:22:30.38,01:22:24.08,"It's lowercase hello, all caps, thank you, question mark, I can how put residents in prospects. Janet.",P07,S02 01:22:34.68,01:22:29.74,[laughs] That person. [laughs],P05,S02 01:22:46.35,01:22:30.67,"[laughs] Hello, thank you, you, I can how put resident in pr- Thank you, I can now put reside- residents in pr- , oh, in rent manager.",P08,S02 01:22:37.78,01:22:35.74,"Can you take my Coke, there Jan? [inaudible 1:22:37.28]",P06,S02 01:22:47.86,01:22:36.88,"Yeah bub, I'm just gonna to recycle this. Have you got something on your finger? [inaudible 1:22:42.60] Wash it out, please, wash it out first, please, that's what I wanna do.",P05,S02 01:22:41.46,01:22:38.82,"I think she means I can now put residents in prospects, but",P07,S02 01:22:43.12,01:22:42.66,Oh.,P06,S02 01:22:45.60,01:22:45.08,Hmm?,P06,S02 01:22:50.74,01:22:46.28,"Yeah, I, I know that's what she means, but she wasn't having a problem, she w- ",P07,S02 01:22:52.58,01:22:48.66,Thank you. [inaudible 1:22:50.30] you can have my napkin to clean.,P05,S02 01:22:51.81,01:22:49.51,That's probably the ad- the permissions thing.,P08,S02 01:22:59.22,01:22:51.92,"There wasn't, there was no permissions thing. I logged in and she had the permission all along, she just didn't know how to, how to do a screen.",P07,S02 01:22:56.81,01:22:56.01,Oh.,P08,S02 01:22:58.44,01:22:56.34,"Dolly, do you want more water, or no?",P05,S02 01:22:59.81,01:22:59.25,Huh.,P08,S02 01:23:00.60,01:23:00.18,[noise],P05,S02 01:23:04.58,01:23:02.56,Do you want more water? Okay.,P05,S02 01:23:05.95,01:23:03.45,"Uh, sure. Thanks.",P08,S02 01:23:08.96,01:23:04.88,"Maybe Carol called her and, like, explained to her how to do it. [noise]",P07,S02 01:23:07.18,01:23:05.37,Cuz it is warm.,P05,S02 01:23:09.77,01:23:09.07,Hmm.,P08,S02 01:23:15.26,01:23:10.26,Come join us soon? Come join us soon? Thank you.,P05,S02 01:23:14.36,01:23:12.28,Hmm? Yeah. Yeah.,P06,S02 01:23:25.79,01:23:14.85,"[laughs] Look at this. Rachel said, ""I took this photo of them at Salt Spring"", she said, ""One of my favorites. Dolly seems to capture some of our best gross couple pictures.""",P08,S02 01:23:16.14,01:23:15.40,[noise],P07,S02 01:23:18.30,01:23:17.14,I might need more ice.,P05,S02 01:23:21.04,01:23:20.36,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:23:30.23,01:23:25.79,"So I said, ""Seeing gross stuff and photographing it is my favorite."" [laughs]",P08,S02 01:23:30.18,01:23:28.78,[laughs],P07,S02 01:23:37.95,01:23:36.41,Can we help with anything in there?,P08,S02 01:23:48.34,01:23:37.50,"No. You, you do your job. You sit, you relax. You're [inaudible 1:23:44.20]",P05,S02 01:23:39.18,01:23:37.68,"No, please.",P06,S02 01:23:43.73,01:23:38.99,[laughs] Okay. [laughs],P08,S02 01:23:46.33,01:23:45.67,Thank you.,P08,S02 01:23:49.47,01:23:48.65,[noise],P08,S02 01:23:52.22,01:23:48.94,"Christopher, do you want anything to drink? You're good?",P05,S02 01:23:51.04,01:23:50.28,"No, thank you.",P07,S02 01:23:52.83,01:23:51.27,Anita's moving to Paris.,P08,S02 01:23:53.84,01:23:53.04,What?,P07,S02 01:23:55.96,01:23:54.68,"What's for dessert, jan?",P06,S02 01:24:02.38,01:23:55.96,"Um, can I bring it out? What have they brought, Finch's. What were they, cookie and banana bread?",P05,S02 01:23:57.12,01:23:56.28,Ow.,P07,S02 01:23:57.11,01:23:56.23,Wow.,P08,S02 01:23:58.34,01:23:57.18,"Yeah, you're done.",P06,S02 01:24:01.66,01:23:59.12,"What, um, what, what platform is that on?",P07,S02 01:24:03.32,01:24:01.22,"Can you put it on, put it on a plate?",P06,S02 01:24:03.05,01:24:02.07,Facebook.,P08,S02 01:24:03.54,01:24:02.76,Facebook?,P07,S02 01:24:06.14,01:24:03.14,"Yep, she already prepped it for us. Beautiful.",P05,S02 01:24:05.72,01:24:04.58,I'll help her.,P06,S02 01:24:12.86,01:24:09.14,"Hmm. Do you guys want little plates, or do you just want napkins or something?",P05,S02 01:24:16.29,01:24:12.29,[noise] Just cas'.,P08,S02 01:24:16.80,01:24:13.44,It'll be cas. Yeah.,P05,S02 01:24:24.06,01:24:17.92,"H- how do you say, ""Are you bringing your bratty child with you?"" in French? [laughs]",P07,S02 01:24:18.84,01:24:18.32,Ne- ,P05,S02 01:24:24.01,01:24:20.83,"No, don't, don't say that.",P08,S02 01:24:23.86,01:24:23.08,[noise],P05,S02 01:24:34.02,01:24:33.20,"Thank you, bub.",P05,S02 01:24:41.24,01:24:37.92,"Can you just, uh, use a wipe for the dining table?",P06,S02 01:24:42.76,01:24:40.76,Mhm. Lemme do it.,P05,S02 01:24:44.68,01:24:43.54,[inaudible 1:24:43.52],P06,S02 01:24:46.52,01:24:44.54,Open the middle? Middle?,P05,S02 01:24:46.90,01:24:45.46,What? Yeah.,P06,S02 01:24:57.31,01:24:54.33,"Look, we should go here. Glacier National Park.",P08,S02 01:25:02.94,01:24:58.16,"What? Where is that? Woah. Where is it? How, like, where is it?",P07,S02 01:25:00.01,01:24:58.89,That's in B.C.,P08,S02 01:25:03.85,01:25:02.63,"I dunno, let's look.",P08,S02 01:25:10.01,01:25:05.85,"I was telling Haley they should come with us to Pemberton, to Joffrey Lake.",P08,S02 01:25:08.74,01:25:08.16,Mm.,P07,S02 01:25:13.72,01:25:13.38,Hmm?,P07,S02 01:25:15.89,01:25:13.81,I was telling Haley they should come with us to Pemberton.,P08,S02 01:25:17.04,01:25:16.44,Wow.,P07,S02 01:25:18.67,01:25:17.27,Around Joffrey Lake.,P08,S02 01:25:21.65,01:25:19.95,Mountains.,P08,S02 01:25:24.50,01:25:21.96,You guys ever been to the ice hotel in Quebec City?,P05,S02 01:25:30.41,01:25:24.79,No. Is it cool? I've never been to Quebec City. Mm- mm.,P08,S02 01:25:26.84,01:25:25.86,So cool.,P05,S02 01:25:29.70,01:25:28.96,No?,P05,S02 01:25:38.88,01:25:31.64,"That was like the place to go when we were freshmen in college and wanted to drink for spring break, so we went to Quebec [laughs].",P05,S02 01:25:38.97,01:25:37.47,[laughs],P08,S02 01:25:43.06,01:25:40.16,"What's the drinking age in Quebec, sixteen or eighteen?",P06,S02 01:25:42.57,01:25:40.59,National Park of Canada.,P08,S02 01:25:43.52,01:25:42.40,Thought it was eighteen.,P05,S02 01:25:45.95,01:25:44.59,It's a six-hour drive.,P08,S02 01:25:47.74,01:25:46.74,Six hours from here.,P05,S02 01:25:52.97,01:25:47.65,"Uh, the Glacier National Park is. That would actually be an amazing trip.",P08,S02 01:25:54.56,01:25:49.04,"Oh. You broke the bottoms, really. No, silly. Okay.",P05,S02 01:25:54.90,01:25:52.78,"I'll do the [inaudible 1:25:53.60], you leave that.",P06,S02 01:25:59.43,01:25:53.67,"Sammy, we should do that this Summer. Hundred percent we should do that this summer, Sammy.",P08,S02 01:26:02.64,01:25:54.62,"[inaudible 1:25:54.62] use a napkin for these. Yep, I wiped it.",P05,S02 01:26:02.02,01:25:56.04,"Or you just, uh, yeah, you wipe this, yeah, okay, good.",P06,S02 01:26:01.42,01:26:00.80,Hmm?,P07,S02 01:26:03.71,01:26:01.29,We should do this. It's only a six-hour drive.,P08,S02 01:26:10.03,01:26:08.73,It's in Shuswap.,P08,S02 01:26:12.08,01:26:11.18,Okay.,P05,S02 01:26:12.73,01:26:11.77,Do you know where that is?,P08,S02 01:26:13.48,01:26:12.60,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:26:22.30,01:26:17.44,"Are you guys going anywhere this summer? Or is summer over? Or, no, it's not over.",P06,S02 01:26:34.03,01:26:21.39,"Um, nowhere big. Next weekend we're going to San Diego, and then we're going to Austin a couple weeks d- later. We're going on the boat this weekend.",P08,S02 01:26:29.76,01:26:28.80,Oh.,P05,S02 01:26:38.48,01:26:34.74,"You're going, San Diego when? Oh, nice.",P06,S02 01:26:37.55,01:26:34.91,Um. Next weekend.,P08,S02 01:26:36.04,01:26:35.04,On what boat?,P05,S02 01:26:48.07,01:26:38.81,"And then we're going on the boat to Comox this weekend, and then to Austin a couple, uh, in three weeks.",P08,S02 01:26:55.16,01:26:47.88,"Oh cool, if y- I can set up, I can set up a, Chris, I can set up a meeting for you and Marnie, if you're going to Austin, she's in Austin.",P06,S02 01:26:52.08,01:26:51.46,Hmm?,P07,S02 01:27:13.26,01:26:54.88,"Marnie, the landowner? I think if the thing i- , if the place isn't, yeah, if, if the place isn't, I, I, it would only, it would only interest me if A the place is basically, like, full and there's lot rent being earned on every single site, and B, the deal size is more than four million dollars",P07,S02 01:26:56.92,01:26:56.32,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:27:01.76,01:26:58.06,"Let me speak to her. We're gonna speak to her on Saturday, if she's, if she's interested.",P06,S02 01:27:09.84,01:27:09.00,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:27:14.32,01:27:13.52,The what?,P06,S02 01:27:17.00,01:27:14.04,"The deal size is more than, like, four or five million dollars.",P07,S02 01:27:18.88,01:27:17.54,More than four or five mil.,P05,S02 01:27:21.04,01:27:19.64,Four hundred and five million?,P06,S02 01:27:21.50,01:27:20.92,No,P07,S02 01:27:23.14,01:27:20.98,More than four to five million dollars.,P05,S02 01:27:23.08,01:27:22.22,Okay.,P06,S02 01:27:25.34,01:27:24.26,I don't know what it would be.,P05,S02 01:27:29.80,01:27:26.70,"I'm pretty sure it'll be more to, more than four to five million dollars.",P06,S02 01:27:31.17,01:27:28.59,Glacier National Park is just past Revelstoke.,P08,S02 01:27:31.82,01:27:31.04,Okay.,P07,S02 01:27:32.28,01:27:31.08,Or in that ballpark.,P06,S02 01:27:34.94,01:27:33.34,"Where's Glacier, Abhi?",P05,S02 01:27:37.09,01:27:35.39,"So, I saw this photo",P08,S02 01:27:40.52,01:27:39.52,Oh cool.,P05,S02 01:27:49.67,01:27:40.57,"And, it, so, um, I looked up where Glacier National Park in Canada is, and it's, um, like a six-hour drive east. Yeah.",P08,S02 01:27:42.52,01:27:41.66,[noise],P05,S02 01:27:52.04,01:27:48.02,That's one's in Canada? Oh. Cuz there's a Glacier national park in,P05,S02 01:27:50.99,01:27:50.27,[noise],P08,S02 01:27:59.11,01:27:52.03,"Montana, I think. Yeah. But the, this looks awesome. So I was saying that we should go there.",P08,S02 01:27:54.22,01:27:53.28,Oh.,P05,S02 01:27:57.12,01:27:56.32,That does.,P05,S02 01:28:03.46,01:27:59.34,"Have you guys ever been to Jackson Hole, Wyoming, the Grand Tetons?",P05,S02 01:28:05.31,01:28:04.11,Have we been there?,P08,S02 01:28:06.84,01:28:05.30,Jackson Hole? No.,P07,S02 01:28:06.44,01:28:05.88,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:28:07.35,01:28:06.67,No.,P08,S02 01:28:22.24,01:28:07.30,"Um, I've been trying to convince my friends to go from Texas, cuz we've got a condo there and I love it out there. And it's like cute little cowboy town, but also like mountains and outdoor activities and white water rafting and horseback riding and all that. Jackson Hole.",P05,S02 01:28:13.13,01:28:12.37,"Oh, cool.",P08,S02 01:28:17.07,01:28:16.15,"Oh, neat.",P08,S02 01:28:21.21,01:28:18.95,"All that, awesome.",P08,S02 01:28:20.00,01:28:19.06,"Where, Jan?",P06,S02 01:28:23.98,01:28:21.10,Where? Oh yeah. You guys have [inaudible 1:28:23.00],P06,S02 01:28:28.54,01:28:22.38,"Um, but now we're closer to it. Well, maybe equidistant from, from Texas.",P05,S02 01:28:25.57,01:28:24.65,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:28:35.67,01:28:29.43,"You're probably closer, because we're, because it's, um, how far is it from, yeah.",P08,S02 01:28:32.50,01:28:31.24,Cuz we're more west.,P05,S02 01:28:40.34,01:28:34.38,"Texas? You normally have to fly to Denver, and then a small flight from Denver to Jackson Hole.",P05,S02 01:28:50.48,01:28:41.46,"I'd say it's two and half hour flight, to three. No, maybe three to, well, I guess with the extra flight it's longer.",P05,S02 01:28:48.65,01:28:47.41,Oh.,P08,S02 01:28:51.87,01:28:50.71,It's in Wyoming?,P08,S02 01:28:52.30,01:28:51.78,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:28:59.93,01:28:53.97,"It looks like it is, well, that's a weird location.",P08,S02 01:29:13.83,01:29:01.75,"Okay, yeah, it's pretty far o- oh, cuz it's further south. It probably is e- , yeah, it's like a fifteen-hour drive from here. So, probably is, um, let's see here in",P08,S02 01:29:09.28,01:29:08.68,Oh.,P05,S02 01:29:15.72,01:29:12.40,"Yeah, cuz it's not the North West, but it's",P05,S02 01:29:23.92,01:29:17.14,"Yeah. Okay, it's a little closer to us, I'd say, than Texas. Right. Almost smack dab in the middle.",P05,S02 01:29:26.39,01:29:20.55,"Yeah, but not by much. You're right, it's, yeah, it's like five, five or six hours closer.",P08,S02 01:29:26.66,01:29:25.74,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:29:36.02,01:29:28.36,"I didn't realize how big some of these states were. Like, Washington, Oregon, Idaho, Montana.",P05,S02 01:29:29.25,01:29:28.57,It's also,P08,S02 01:29:33.91,01:29:33.31,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:29:46.49,01:29:35.95,"Montana, um, so we've driven from Vancouver all the way across to, uh, basically Detroit, because that's where you go up into Ontario",P08,S02 01:29:44.60,01:29:44.02,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:29:46.70,01:29:46.06,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:29:51.83,01:29:47.15,And Montana felt like it took a week to get through. It's so big.,P08,S02 01:29:55.84,01:29:51.78,"That's like Texas, but I'm looking at it and Montana looks wider than Texas.",P05,S02 01:29:57.35,01:29:55.99,[laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 01:30:01.34,01:29:57.04,"I think it, it might be the same width.",P05,S02 01:30:00.85,01:29:59.85,Width?,P08,S02 01:30:05.21,01:30:01.59,It's so big. And there's nothing in it.,P08,S02 01:30:04.14,01:30:02.52,"Yeah, it goes so huge.",P05,S02 01:30:04.54,01:30:03.58,[noise],P07,S02 01:30:05.94,01:30:05.14,No?,P05,S02 01:30:14.27,01:30:05.85,"No, I mean, it's a beautiful state, but, like, to drive through it, there's, like, I don't know, I felt claustrophobic, almost. Like, just, there's nothing.",P08,S02 01:30:14.78,01:30:12.42,Mhm. Mhm.,P05,S02 01:30:21.56,01:30:14.00,"What was the state that we drove through that I was, like, mad at the state for being so big? It was so unnecessary. I think it was Pennsylvania.",P07,S02 01:30:19.37,01:30:18.59,Montana.,P08,S02 01:30:19.84,01:30:18.66,[laughs],P05,S02 01:30:24.37,01:30:21.39,Oh Pe- [laughs] Pennsylvania's big?,P08,S02 01:30:25.64,01:30:22.08,"Oh. Pennsylvania's pretty big, yeah.",P05,S02 01:30:28.74,01:30:22.14,"I think it, I think, like, you drive, like, all day to go from East to West, cuz, it's, it's not that big but it's really wide. It's boring as hell.",P07,S02 01:30:35.66,01:30:26.34,"And it's boring. Yeah, and the drive, I think, di- goes diagonal, so it takes like the longest route. [noise] Yeah, it is.",P05,S02 01:30:28.73,01:30:26.93,"Oh, it's wide, yeah.",P08,S02 01:30:40.14,01:30:30.29,"And it's full of Pennsylvanians, it's just such a, it's so unnecessary. It's just an unnecessary state. Like, you just wanna go from Philadelphia to whatever the next state is, which I think is Indiana.",P07,S02 01:30:33.32,01:30:31.47,Oh [laughs],P08,S02 01:30:36.67,01:30:35.37,[laughs],P08,S02 01:30:38.88,01:30:38.32,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:30:43.73,01:30:40.13,"Haze, where did y- w- this is extra? Jan? This is extra?",P06,S02 01:30:55.38,01:30:41.06,"In that way, is it? Or Ohio? Yep, if you just wipe it down, because I put it on top of it in the fridge, just to cover it. Is it Ohio? Yeah. Cuz what's this one? It looks like banana bread.",P05,S02 01:30:45.21,01:30:43.63,Ohio would be,P08,S02 01:30:47.69,01:30:46.51,It would be Ohio.,P08,S02 01:30:48.58,01:30:47.48,[inaudible 1:30:47.42] Ohio?,P07,S02 01:30:50.47,01:30:49.21,Or West Virginia.,P08,S02 01:30:50.54,01:30:49.94,[noise],P07,S02 01:30:59.80,01:30:55.74,That's banana bread. That's chocolate chip oatmeal raisin cookies.,P07,S02 01:30:58.09,01:30:55.75,"That's banana bread, and that's cookies.",P08,S02 01:31:00.32,01:30:57.22,"And that's, mmm, I'll try both.",P05,S02 01:31:04.54,01:31:02.18,I got napkins if you guys want.,P05,S02 01:31:04.05,01:31:03.11,Oh thanks.,P08,S02 01:31:20.92,01:31:05.50,"We made sure that there were chocolate chips in the otherwise oatmeal raisin cookies, because oatmeal raisin cookies by themselves are unacceptable. [laughs] Cuz you think that it has chocolate chips in it, but then you end up with the disappointment of the century, which is raisins.",P07,S02 01:31:10.80,01:31:09.34,Ah.,P05,S02 01:31:16.58,01:31:13.76,[laughs] No.,P05,S02 01:31:15.01,01:31:13.99,[laughs],P08,S02 01:31:20.74,01:31:18.54,Mmm. It's good.,P05,S02 01:31:22.57,01:31:21.55,I agree.,P06,S02 01:31:24.12,01:31:21.64,"Raisins, raisins play disappointment, you know?",P07,S02 01:31:22.30,01:31:21.74,True.,P05,S02 01:31:32.14,01:31:24.08,"He doesn't like them. I don't like peanut butter cookies, I've realized. I just, I need, I need something moist.",P05,S02 01:31:26.61,01:31:25.23,[laughs],P08,S02 01:31:27.44,01:31:26.86,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:31:28.13,01:31:27.51,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:31:28.70,01:31:28.10,Mmm.,P07,S02 01:31:36.27,01:31:29.07,"No, good, boo, good peanut butter cookies are good. You, we got some bad ones. Yeah. I've had really good peanut butter cookie.",P06,S02 01:31:33.44,01:31:32.84,Mmm.,P07,S02 01:31:33.55,01:31:32.85,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:31:34.02,01:31:33.08,You think so?,P05,S02 01:31:36.52,01:31:35.68,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:31:38.69,01:31:37.33,[laughs],P08,S02 01:31:43.41,01:31:37.77,"And I agree, peanut butter cookies that are just peanut butter cookies are also a little boring, like white chocolate peanut butter, or",P06,S02 01:31:38.64,01:31:37.78,I don't,P05,S02 01:31:41.70,01:31:41.08,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:31:45.57,01:31:43.11,"Ooh, they're good with if you put the Hershey Kisses on top.",P08,S02 01:31:44.36,01:31:43.80,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:31:48.80,01:31:45.40,"Mmm, that's true. Let that melt into the little",P05,S02 01:31:47.27,01:31:46.67,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:31:49.31,01:31:48.19,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:31:55.50,01:31:50.04,"Abhi loves white macadamia nut cookies. The cookies are great, these ones.",P05,S02 01:31:54.37,01:31:51.81,That's my favorite. White chocolate macadamia.,P06,S02 01:31:53.21,01:31:51.81,"Oh yeah, those are good.",P08,S02 01:32:00.24,01:31:57.58,"Mmm. Thank you, guys, for dessert.",P05,S02 01:32:03.49,01:31:58.55,"Like Mrs. Fields, or even like the Subway cookies. [laughs]",P06,S02 01:31:59.76,01:31:59.20,This is,P07,S02 01:32:04.41,01:32:03.69,[inaudible 1:32:03.70],P08,S02 01:32:09.18,01:32:03.76,Subway cookies actually are good. [laughs] Yeah. Mhm.,P05,S02 01:32:06.15,01:32:04.45,"Yeah, the ones you get at Subway.",P06,S02 01:32:06.41,01:32:05.57,They are good.,P08,S02 01:32:09.00,01:32:06.16,"Yeah, really good. Oh, yeah.",P07,S02 01:32:09.51,01:32:07.43,"What, Subway cookies? Yeah, I love'em.",P06,S02 01:32:09.19,01:32:08.31,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:32:13.57,01:32:10.83,"These are, that lady downstairs knows what she's doing.",P08,S02 01:32:14.10,01:32:13.02,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:32:13.88,01:32:13.28,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:32:16.18,01:32:15.46,Mmm.,P05,S02 01:32:16.27,01:32:15.71,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:32:22.96,01:32:19.06,"And it looks, like, layered when you look at it. Looks like three cookies they put on top of each other.",P05,S02 01:32:23.42,01:32:22.36,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:32:23.45,01:32:22.53,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:32:26.52,01:32:24.80,I used to love the cookie crates.,P05,S02 01:32:28.83,01:32:25.09,"So, so you guys are going to the the States, Austin? When is that, next month?",P06,S02 01:32:33.09,01:32:29.29,"Mm. Twenty, that's right, the twenty fifth.",P08,S02 01:32:31.78,01:32:30.32,Dolly's thirtieth birthday.,P05,S02 01:32:40.89,01:32:32.06,"Oh nice. The longest, this is the longest I've gone not going anywhere, and I'm gonna be, it's gonna be the longest I go without going anywhere, six months. Yeah",P06,S02 01:32:54.68,01:32:38.32,Cuz you can't go anywhere. [laughs] Abhi. [laughs],P05,S02 01:32:39.54,01:32:38.88,Hmm.,P07,S02 01:32:41.83,01:32:41.49,Phone.,P08,S02 01:32:42.62,01:32:41.98,[noise],P07,S02 01:32:48.91,01:32:42.71,"Oh, sorry. So sorry. I just, I just use, I'm just used to pulling the table closer to me.",P06,S02 01:32:53.93,01:32:45.11,[laughs],P08,S02 01:32:52.63,01:32:50.67,Luckily no one caught that.,P06,S02 01:32:57.44,01:32:52.04,[laughs] It's good thing there's not there's not like eighteen families living [laughs],P07,S02 01:33:00.31,01:32:55.03,"[laughs] Um, yeah.",P06,S02 01:32:57.31,01:32:55.75,[laughs],P08,S02 01:32:59.22,01:32:55.88,[laughs],P05,S02 01:33:01.24,01:32:58.28,[noise] Those are great. Is that a doorbell?,P07,S02 01:33:01.33,01:33:00.31,[inaudible 1:33:00.28],P06,S02 01:33:03.76,01:33:02.20,"Oh no, that's the fan, never mind.",P07,S02 01:33:03.41,01:33:02.21,"Nah, it's just the fan.",P06,S02 01:33:06.08,01:33:03.74,"Oh. I was like, ""Did someone buzz?""",P05,S02 01:33:06.95,01:33:04.89,"Um. Oh, oh, those are good.",P06,S02 01:33:07.87,01:33:07.07,"Those are good, right?",P08,S02 01:33:08.96,01:33:07.32,"Yeah, right? Oh.",P07,S02 01:33:13.98,01:33:08.24,That's really good. Mhm. Mhm. That's really,P05,S02 01:33:09.09,01:33:08.31,[inaudible 1:33:08.28],P06,S02 01:33:10.37,01:33:08.43,"There are some raisins in 'em, just be careful.",P08,S02 01:33:13.27,01:33:10.01,"Wow. But yeah, those are",P06,S02 01:33:16.03,01:33:13.23,[noise],P08,S02 01:33:16.70,01:33:15.98,Mmm.,P05,S02 01:33:16.99,01:33:16.03,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:33:20.36,01:33:18.30,We can play a game. [noise],P05,S02 01:33:21.95,01:33:20.81,Um.,P06,S02 01:33:23.47,01:33:22.81,She good?,P06,S02 01:33:24.37,01:33:23.49,Mmm.,P08,S02 01:33:26.26,01:33:25.04,Which,P05,S02 01:33:27.85,01:33:26.03,"Her thirtieth birthday, wow.",P06,S02 01:33:28.04,01:33:26.32,Think we got about forty minutes left.,P07,S02 01:33:28.72,01:33:28.22,Okay.,P05,S02 01:33:32.79,01:33:28.39,Yeah. The big three O. Mhm.,P08,S02 01:33:31.97,01:33:29.99,The big three O.,P06,S02 01:33:35.13,01:33:34.41,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:33:36.07,01:33:35.19,You gonna be home?,P06,S02 01:33:44.45,01:33:36.77,"Mm. Well, going to Austin, and then my parents are gonna drive up, and having some friends over, and",P08,S02 01:33:42.19,01:33:41.39,Mkay.,P06,S02 01:33:46.00,01:33:45.14,[inaudible 1:33:45.14],P05,S02 01:33:48.39,01:33:46.75,"Yeah, gonna have a good, chill birthday.",P08,S02 01:33:51.36,01:33:48.40,Mhm. Where'd you do your bachelorette party?,P05,S02 01:33:52.39,01:33:51.79,New York.,P08,S02 01:33:54.04,01:33:52.28,"Mm, m- ",P05,S02 01:34:01.45,01:33:53.43,"Cuz both of my, um, I had two bridesmaids and they both lived in New York, and his groomsmen lived in New York, basically.",P08,S02 01:34:04.14,01:34:02.20,"Yeah, they gave me [noise]",P07,S02 01:34:04.07,01:34:02.31,So they just m- we just,P08,S02 01:34:06.78,01:34:02.80,Did you do a double bachelor bachelor party?,P05,S02 01:34:08.07,01:34:04.81,"We did, we just did them on the same night, but separately.",P08,S02 01:34:08.46,01:34:07.86,Okay.,P05,S02 01:34:11.15,01:34:08.73,"I think that's the best way. You know, just",P06,S02 01:34:10.72,01:34:09.44,And you didn't run into each other?,P05,S02 01:34:10.43,01:34:09.75,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:34:22.02,01:34:17.68,[laughs] Oh cool. Very cool.,P05,S02 01:34:21.83,01:34:20.37,"Yeah, I wasn't",P08,S02 01:34:24.18,01:34:22.92,[laughs],P05,S02 01:34:30.73,01:34:29.93,[noise],P06,S02 01:34:38.53,01:34:30.61,"[laughs] On the subway, he told me his Bry- like, lied about his name, and stuff, but I was so, like, drunk that it didn't matter.",P08,S02 01:34:34.15,01:34:32.45,"So in, so New York City",P06,S02 01:34:38.94,01:34:38.04,How did you know?,P05,S02 01:34:47.83,01:34:39.53,"Well, because, like, when you watch the video back he was clearly, like, super weirded out. And he looks kinda homeless, like [laughs]",P08,S02 01:34:43.63,01:34:42.21,She recorded it.,P06,S02 01:34:44.54,01:34:43.60,Mm.,P05,S02 01:34:50.96,01:34:47.78,What was the name he gave you? Something Parker. Alan Parker.,P07,S02 01:34:50.15,01:34:48.95,Alan Parker.,P08,S02 01:34:53.58,01:34:50.10,Dr. Ben Dover? [laughs],P05,S02 01:35:00.33,01:34:51.39,"Yeah, he was like, I was like, ""What's your name?"" He, he was like, ""Alan Parker."" I was like, ""Alan Parker, everyone!"" Like, that's how I was talking.",P08,S02 01:34:52.68,01:34:52.08,[laughs],P07,S02 01:34:58.55,01:34:55.29,[noise] [laughs],P06,S02 01:34:58.28,01:34:57.46,[laughs],P07,S02 01:35:00.68,01:34:57.70,[laughs] That's funny.,P05,S02 01:35:00.64,01:35:00.04,[laughs],P07,S02 01:35:02.23,01:35:00.57,"I was, like, uh",P08,S02 01:35:03.51,01:35:01.35,I saw that video. She was drunk.,P07,S02 01:35:04.10,01:35:02.56,[laughs],P05,S02 01:35:04.05,01:35:02.97,[noise],P06,S02 01:35:09.99,01:35:03.09,"I was hugging everyone, and ""Group hug!"" on, like, the streets, and people would do it.",P08,S02 01:35:05.93,01:35:05.39,[noise],P07,S02 01:35:09.27,01:35:08.55,[noise],P07,S02 01:35:11.89,01:35:09.99,[laughs],P08,S02 01:35:17.96,01:35:10.16,"Yeah? I feel like people are so welcoming to bachelorettes and bachelor parties, they're like, ""Yeah, have fun"" even if they're just like",P05,S02 01:35:17.77,01:35:15.11,Totally. [inaudible 1:35:16.30],P08,S02 01:35:23.51,01:35:16.07,"More welcoming than they should be, really. More welcoming than they should be, cuz bachelorette parties are annoying as hell to everyone around.",P07,S02 01:35:18.66,01:35:18.10,What?,P05,S02 01:35:20.75,01:35:20.03,Hmm?,P08,S02 01:35:22.95,01:35:21.93,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:35:25.39,01:35:22.23,"Well, mine was a little one, and I was the annoying one.",P08,S02 01:35:27.54,01:35:25.22,[laughs],P05,S02 01:35:38.07,01:35:25.62,"On Sam's, on Sam's bachelor party, we went, um, to this bar in Whistler, and there was, like, at least four bachelorette parties at that very time, in that same bar. Four bachelorette parties, all at their own little corners.",P07,S02 01:35:26.61,01:35:25.83,[noise],P06,S02 01:35:28.19,01:35:26.43,[laughs],P08,S02 01:35:35.49,01:35:34.69,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:35:42.45,01:35:36.15,[laughs] Woo! [laughs],P08,S02 01:35:38.21,01:35:37.37,[noise],P06,S02 01:35:38.56,01:35:37.42,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:35:41.35,01:35:39.15,Yeah. There was a lot of woo going on that night.,P07,S02 01:35:49.24,01:35:41.40,"Maybe I'll do mine on jet week. [laughs] ""Hey guys, we're just going on a jet.""",P05,S02 01:35:46.81,01:35:43.13,"Hmm. Yeah, that's, that's right. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:35:50.09,01:35:43.15,"Oh yeah, yes. Perfect. [laughs] That's awesome.",P08,S02 01:35:49.23,01:35:48.55,[noise],P07,S02 01:35:55.67,01:35:49.17,"You, you could bring your own if you want. [laughs] There're only, yeah. Only seven seats on ours.",P06,S02 01:35:53.94,01:35:50.82,Yeah. There's only room to sleep ten on mine.,P05,S02 01:35:56.48,01:35:50.94,[laughs] That's hilarious.,P08,S02 01:35:53.33,01:35:51.41,[laughs],P07,S02 01:36:04.23,01:35:56.59,"Yeah, we did, um, [noise] uh, there was this one girl sitting on the stoop with her friend, and she was crying.",P08,S02 01:36:07.76,01:36:04.64,In your group. Mm.,P05,S02 01:36:13.63,01:36:04.73,"And I, no, just, like, we were walking down the street in New York, and I saw this girl crying with her friend, and I made my friend stop",P08,S02 01:36:08.25,01:36:06.93,[noise],P07,S02 01:36:13.69,01:36:11.27,[laughs] They thought it was her friend.,P06,S02 01:36:12.28,01:36:11.58,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:36:14.60,01:36:13.52,"Yeah, that's what I thought.",P05,S02 01:36:20.61,01:36:14.19,"And I was like, ""[noise] Oh my god."" And my, my f- , my friends with me were like, ""No.""",P08,S02 01:36:23.81,01:36:21.05,"[laughs] Like, ""Don't"", and I was like",P08,S02 01:36:27.43,01:36:21.39,"You're like, ""What I need to do is insert myself into this person's life."" [laughs]",P07,S02 01:36:23.33,01:36:21.59,You went and sat next to her?,P06,S02 01:36:31.23,01:36:24.53,"[laughs] And I did. [laughs] Yeah, I was like, ""What happened?""",P08,S02 01:36:26.43,01:36:24.83,[laughs],P06,S02 01:36:29.30,01:36:25.26,"[laughs] ""Can I help?"" [laughs]",P05,S02 01:36:31.84,01:36:31.00,Aw.,P05,S02 01:36:46.71,01:36:31.59,"And she was like, ""Nothing. Like, just leave me alone."" And her, the girl's friend, was like, ""Well, so-and-so was mean to her."" And I said, ""What?"" And I, like, proceeded to give her a, what I thought was a very eloquent pep talk.",P08,S02 01:36:42.77,01:36:41.79,[laughs],P06,S02 01:36:47.00,01:36:46.32,[noise],P05,S02 01:36:55.85,01:36:46.71,About her beauty. [laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 01:36:54.21,01:36:46.77,"[laughs] She's like, ""Who's this crazy blond lady?"" [inaudible 1:36:51.70] [laughs]",P06,S02 01:37:05.14,01:36:49.08,"Her, I know. I know. Don't we think we give the best advice when we're drunk? Like, something just goes into us where we're like, ""You need to call him."" Like, ""You need to talk to him about this stuff."" Like, and we just think we're so s- yes, exactly.",P05,S02 01:37:01.95,01:36:58.57,Y- [laughs] That's right.,P08,S02 01:37:07.25,01:37:02.93,"Y- insightful, like, ""Oh, I'm gonna tell her she's the best girl.""",P08,S02 01:37:07.17,01:37:05.07,"I dunno about you, but I used to be very insightful.",P06,S02 01:37:19.40,01:37:08.40,"I've been around you drunk. You are annoying as hell. [laughs] And you'd be like, ""I'm fine."" Wisdomous. He gets very wisdomous.",P05,S02 01:37:13.67,01:37:09.61,[laughs],P08,S02 01:37:15.65,01:37:13.29,"Very, very, very wisdomous.",P06,S02 01:37:20.39,01:37:15.45,[laughs],P08,S02 01:37:20.35,01:37:16.55,[laughs] Vi- visdomous. [laughs],P07,S02 01:37:22.87,01:37:19.53,Extremely. The vodka was coming out of my ears.,P06,S02 01:37:24.67,01:37:21.43,That's hilariou- [laughs],P08,S02 01:37:26.18,01:37:23.18,[noise] And now you're just,P05,S02 01:37:24.85,01:37:23.89,The wisdom.,P06,S02 01:37:25.29,01:37:24.41,[noise],P07,S02 01:37:39.79,01:37:26.09,"My, my bachelor party sucked. It was, it was a real let-down. It was a, I w- , I, I, I sort of, like, was dropping hints to my groomsman about what I thought would be a great bachelor party, and that consisted of this place in New York City called the Slipper Room",P07,S02 01:37:29.65,01:37:27.59,[laughs],P08,S02 01:37:30.71,01:37:29.67,[inaudible 1:37:29.64],P06,S02 01:37:36.36,01:37:35.72,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:37:40.46,01:37:39.62,Okay.,P05,S02 01:37:51.41,01:37:40.01,"Which, is, uh, it's like a burlesque club, but it's, like, hilarious, it's not meant to be s- really sexy, it's meant to be funny. It's like a funny burlesque club. And so they've got this announcement who calls himself the Blue Bunny",P07,S02 01:37:43.06,01:37:42.50,Okay.,P05,S02 01:37:48.26,01:37:45.04,"Oh. Oh, that's kind of fun.",P05,S02 01:37:48.21,01:37:47.43,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:37:57.17,01:37:51.41,"And it's this, yeah, I guess, I dunno. This guy, the dr- [noise]",P07,S02 01:37:52.73,01:37:51.45,It's like The Box.,P06,S02 01:38:07.37,01:37:53.69,"Yeah. It's a, like The Box in London, it's like a big, b- yeah, old school cabaret, and like, there's all this crazy and fun stuff, it's not necessarily only sexual, it's a, like a whole bunch of fun stuff, and",P06,S02 01:38:00.99,01:37:59.65,"Like, old school cabaret.",P08,S02 01:38:01.27,01:38:00.77,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:38:02.54,01:38:01.20,"Oh, and the",P05,S02 01:38:14.45,01:38:05.42,"No, it's not, it is, like, I mean, y- they, they, the women strip, but in a, like, a hilarious, old timey, old timey way, it's like, and it's like so over the top",P07,S02 01:38:06.37,01:38:05.79,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:38:08.24,01:38:07.30,That sounds fun.,P05,S02 01:38:09.13,01:38:08.39,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:38:11.15,01:38:10.23,[inaudible 1:38:10.20] way,P06,S02 01:38:13.09,01:38:11.67,"Like, with the tassles.",P08,S02 01:38:14.74,01:38:12.20,Oh. Yeah.,P05,S02 01:38:33.77,01:38:14.85,"The announcer is the Blue Bunny, and it's this enormous, like, very tall fat gay man dressed as, dressed in, like, see-through Lycra bunny suit, with, like, big bunny ears, and, like, big clear, clear, see-through, like, high heel shoes, and he like, heckles the audience, he's like, ""What's your name?"" He's like, ""Wow.""",P07,S02 01:38:24.28,01:38:23.64,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:38:24.27,01:38:23.71,[laughs],P08,S02 01:38:26.11,01:38:25.09,[laughs],P08,S02 01:38:30.35,01:38:28.85,[laughs],P08,S02 01:38:33.07,01:38:30.85,[noise],P06,S02 01:38:33.17,01:38:31.91,[laughs],P08,S02 01:38:50.75,01:38:41.47,"And uh, our next, no, I thought it was hilarious. So, we didn't go. My, my, my groomsman thought that would be too seedy, and didn't want to do that, so instead",P07,S02 01:38:43.12,01:38:41.86,But you didn't like it?,P05,S02 01:38:44.19,01:38:43.19,He didn't go.,P06,S02 01:38:44.70,01:38:44.02,Oh.,P05,S02 01:38:45.51,01:38:44.03,But he didn't go.,P08,S02 01:38:48.22,01:38:45.98,Oh. Aw.,P05,S02 01:38:47.43,01:38:46.41,That's where he wanted to go.,P08,S02 01:38:57.91,01:38:49.93,"Keep in mind, I told his, one of his groom men, groomsmen, ""You should take him here, I know that he really like this place and he finds it really hilarious.""",P08,S02 01:38:59.16,01:38:57.54,Mhm. Talking about this place.,P05,S02 01:39:05.81,01:38:57.84,"Yeah. And I also suggested it on, like, at least four occasions that I would love to go to the Slipper Room because I think it would be hilarious. Anyway, that's not ended, what ended up happening.",P07,S02 01:38:59.67,01:38:58.93,Yes.,P08,S02 01:39:03.57,01:39:01.07,[laughs],P08,S02 01:39:03.90,01:39:03.24,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:39:17.19,01:39:05.81,"Um, they took, they took me to, uh, uh, Caroline's on Broadway, comedy club. They used to have a show, they used to film it, it's called Caroline's Comedy Hour. There was like a famou- , it's, like, a famous comedy club on Broadway and Midtown.",P07,S02 01:39:11.08,01:39:10.44,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:14.04,01:39:13.50,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:16.05,01:39:13.57,"Like, Jerry Seinfeld and some of them there.",P08,S02 01:39:17.06,01:39:16.46,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:24.67,01:39:17.42,"And a famous guy was, uh, was headlining that night, um, Paul Mooney, who was on the Chapelle Show, and, uh",P07,S02 01:39:23.88,01:39:23.26,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:28.91,01:39:24.59,"I know who Paul Mooney is, yeah. I've seen, like, videos of him, yeah.",P06,S02 01:39:26.81,01:39:25.57,"Yeah, have you ever seen him?",P07,S02 01:39:45.07,01:39:28.97,"So, he's like, right, so his shtick is, like, one hundred percent, like, black humor, right? And by that I mean, he, he's not as so much a comedian as he is, like, like a v- , like, a v- , a political voice, almost, and his political voice is to say",P07,S02 01:39:30.71,01:39:29.71,See him on YouTube.,P06,S02 01:39:42.38,01:39:41.66,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:57.79,01:39:45.66,"How shitty it is that white people for centuries have been pushing down black people. Yeah, yeah. And, uh, he's very good at it, he's hilarious, but you would only find him funny if you were black, I think.",P07,S02 01:39:51.64,01:39:49.86,"He's black? Oh, okay.",P05,S02 01:39:51.21,01:39:50.57,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:39:54.39,01:39:52.07,"And he's good at, like, what he does, for sure.",P08,S02 01:39:54.22,01:39:53.54,Okay.,P05,S02 01:39:57.60,01:39:56.92,Okay.,P05,S02 01:40:00.25,01:39:57.79,"It's not universally funny, like, he, like, he",P07,S02 01:39:59.44,01:39:59.00,Okay.,P05,S02 01:40:09.75,01:39:59.69,"And also, I don't think all black people will find him funny. It's like a very politically, politically charged kind of humor, and, like, it's not Chappelle. Chappelle is, Chappelle is like",P06,S02 01:40:04.33,01:40:03.09,"Yeah, yeah, and he",P07,S02 01:40:03.97,01:40:03.41,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:40:06.18,01:40:05.48,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:40:06.55,01:40:05.89,"Yep, yep.",P07,S02 01:40:12.21,01:40:07.47,"Right, no, no, no, it's, it's not Chapelle. And you d- Right.",P07,S02 01:40:18.01,01:40:10.01,"He has an agenda, and the agenda is, is, I mean, it's a worthy agenda, but it's not, like, super fun. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:40:11.61,01:40:10.83,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:40:14.77,01:40:14.27,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:40:16.74,01:40:16.22,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:40:28.31,01:40:16.43,"Yeah. Like he, like he, he, he's, he's like a, he's like a very, very eloquent orator whose job it is to, like, humiliate white people as much as he possibly can. Yeah.",P07,S02 01:40:28.24,01:40:25.08,Okay. And they knew it was him when,P05,S02 01:40:29.87,01:40:28.31,"Yeah, I di- , I, I didn't",P07,S02 01:40:33.25,01:40:29.20,"Well, but, but everyone just thought, ""Oh yeah, this guy's on the Chapelle Show, he's probably really funny.""",P08,S02 01:40:35.24,01:40:32.82,Now I see. So they,P05,S02 01:40:35.85,01:40:34.21,"So, yeah.",P08,S02 01:40:43.67,01:40:34.61,"Like, like, I, I, I actually don't disagree with any of his stuff, but it's not really a jokes, he's not telling jokes, you know what I mean? He's like, he's almost like a pep rally.",P07,S02 01:40:41.30,01:40:39.70,Yeah. Yeah.,P05,S02 01:40:45.05,01:40:44.31,Um,P07,S02 01:40:53.09,01:40:45.37,"Also, if all of the jokes are sort of about you, like, he was, like, the only white guy in there. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:40:50.07,01:40:47.33,"Right. I'm, like, the only white guy in the audience.",P07,S02 01:40:51.13,01:40:50.43,And,P07,S02 01:40:52.69,01:40:51.07,Yo!,P06,S02 01:40:53.80,01:40:51.12,Your groomsman? Your groomsman.,P05,S02 01:40:53.31,01:40:52.51,Pardon me?,P07,S02 01:41:05.13,01:40:54.24,"Uh, I guess, I, there was, yeah, the guy who organized it was black, and then Sam's Asian, um, yeah, I might have been, maybe, maybe, uh, I think Jeff Boite came, so he's white.",P07,S02 01:40:56.93,01:40:54.33,"Uh, he was, the guy who organized it was black.",P08,S02 01:41:00.43,01:40:59.51,There was an Asian.,P08,S02 01:41:03.49,01:41:01.63,Like a regular Benetton's ad.,P06,S02 01:41:11.33,01:41:04.45,"Two, yeah, there was two white guys. [laughs] Feel sorry for him. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:41:06.16,01:41:05.38,Okay.,P05,S02 01:41:25.35,01:41:06.65,"So, anyway, like, we were, we were, we were, there were not very many white people in the audience, cuz, like, I th- I think i- if you had looked up Paul Mooney ahead of time, you would sort of see his shtick, and he's really good at it, and he's like, he's like the grandfather of this sort of comedy, like, he invented it, you know, and, like, he's got proteges, um, that were mostly on the Chapelle show, but, uh",P07,S02 01:41:07.82,01:41:06.68,That's awkward.,P05,S02 01:41:14.14,01:41:13.38,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:41:21.10,01:41:18.84,Mhm. Hmm.,P05,S02 01:41:21.09,01:41:19.97,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:41:25.74,01:41:25.04,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:41:41.91,01:41:25.47,"Anyway, so that's, that's him, and I didn't know that going in. [laughs] It, but it, it felt shitty, after watching a two hour comedy show, where's he's like, he's, he's kind of, like, making jokes about how the white man is, is, like, pushing down him and his ancestors, and making, like, slave jokes, you know what I mean? Like",P07,S02 01:41:30.59,01:41:28.25,[noise] And now I know it coming out.,P06,S02 01:41:30.40,01:41:28.68,So then what after that?,P05,S02 01:41:32.39,01:41:31.59,Oh.,P08,S02 01:41:40.61,01:41:39.13,[noise] Like,P06,S02 01:41:51.91,01:41:40.83,"So he, like, came out of it with, like, white guilt. Like, ""Damn it. This is not fun."" And, one of his, one of his groomsmen brought a girl he was seeing, like, a girlfriend, to the bachelor party.",P08,S02 01:41:45.15,01:41:42.95,Yeah. [noise] Yeah,P07,S02 01:41:46.72,01:41:44.06,"Yeah. I would, too.",P05,S02 01:41:44.69,01:41:44.25,[noise],P06,S02 01:41:52.32,01:41:51.82,What?,P05,S02 01:42:02.53,01:41:52.37,"Yeah. Yeah, I w- he was like, he, he wa- , no, no, no, actually, I'm one of, I'm not one of his groomsmen. [laughs] Yeah. I'm giving a, I'm giving a toast. I might bring it up.",P07,S02 01:41:57.21,01:41:52.59,"[laughs] Yeah. [laughs] No, it's his best friend.",P08,S02 01:42:00.53,01:41:53.15,"Did you, you never talk to him again? [laughs] Did did you, did you, did you break up with him?",P06,S02 01:42:01.67,01:41:57.21,He's in the wedding this weekend. [laughs],P08,S02 01:41:57.80,01:41:57.24,Aw.,P05,S02 01:42:00.16,01:41:59.56,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:42:04.29,01:42:02.51,"No, do not bring that up.",P08,S02 01:42:08.51,01:42:02.75,[laughs] No. Yeah. Yeah. San Diego. [laughs],P07,S02 01:42:03.98,01:42:03.22,[noise],P05,S02 01:42:06.13,01:42:03.81,Oh that's the wedding you're going to? Where's the wedding?,P06,S02 01:42:06.20,01:42:05.00,Oh funny.,P05,S02 01:42:06.83,01:42:05.13,Yeah. San Diego.,P08,S02 01:42:09.62,01:42:07.04,"Oh, that's right. Where is it in San Diego?",P05,S02 01:42:11.01,01:42:08.31,"[laughs] Uh, Coronado.",P08,S02 01:42:09.05,01:42:08.53,W- ,P06,S02 01:42:12.69,01:42:09.75,"Corona- Coronado. A little island, yeah.",P07,S02 01:42:16.18,01:42:10.86,Oh yeah. Hmm. That's the military island. I'm going to San Diego in October.,P05,S02 01:42:13.69,01:42:12.33,When are you going to San Diego?,P06,S02 01:42:14.65,01:42:13.99,"Yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 01:42:15.63,01:42:14.79,October.,P06,S02 01:42:28.45,01:42:17.25,"So, uh, yeah, he was, he was like, ""Hey, Chris, um, so I'm, I'm seeing this girl and she's in town. Can I, uh?"" I'm like, ""Nope. It's a bachelor party. Sorry. Putting my foot down,""",P07,S02 01:42:18.31,01:42:17.43,[inaudible 1:42:17.40],P06,S02 01:42:27.44,01:42:26.88,Right.,P05,S02 01:42:37.37,01:42:28.45,"""Okay. Okay, okay, okay, okay."" And then, like, a day, a day before he's like, ""So, you know, she's, like, she's just flying in, like, right before your bachelor party. Like, you think it'd be""",P07,S02 01:42:37.73,01:42:36.55,Is he marrying her?,P06,S02 01:42:50.15,01:42:37.59,"No. It was just like, some girl that he, like, i- it's a, no the, this is, this is a girl that he had been dating for a week or something, like, it's not a long term",P07,S02 01:42:38.33,01:42:37.63,No.,P08,S02 01:42:46.75,01:42:38.15,"Oh, okay. No, no, I mean but coincidentally, that would be really funny. If you were to going to the wedding and you were like, ""That chick was actually at my bachelor party."" [laughs]",P06,S02 01:42:43.51,01:42:39.81,Just a random girl. [laughs],P08,S02 01:42:42.22,01:42:40.90,That would be funny.,P05,S02 01:42:46.99,01:42:44.71,[laughs],P08,S02 01:42:46.76,01:42:45.56,[laughs],P05,S02 01:42:51.72,01:42:48.90,Oh. Right.,P05,S02 01:43:07.09,01:42:50.15,"Serious thing, so, uh, so, day, day before, he's like, ""Hey, so, I, you know, she's kind of flying in, can I, you know"" Like, ""No. No, no, no. Here's what you do. She, you have a hotel, right?"" ""Yes"" ""Well, put her up at the hotel, or tell her to go to Barney's, just go shopping or whatever, kill a few hours, and then you'll see her the next morning.""",P07,S02 01:42:54.51,01:42:52.49,[noise],P06,S02 01:42:57.39,01:42:55.13,[noise],P06,S02 01:43:07.54,01:43:06.84,Right.,P05,S02 01:43:15.39,01:43:07.09,"""We're not gonna get that rowdy that you're not gonna be, that you're gonna be, like, out of commission the next day."" So, he's like, ""All right, fine. All right, fine."" So then, so then, like",P07,S02 01:43:11.20,01:43:10.62,Right.,P05,S02 01:43:14.47,01:43:11.79,I was. [laughs],P08,S02 01:43:15.95,01:43:12.53,[noise] Which is why you were interviewing people on the subway.,P06,S02 01:43:18.67,01:43:15.31,"Yeah, right. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:43:29.69,01:43:16.59,"So then we show up to the steak house, and, and he comes in, he's like, ""Hey Chris, can I talk to you for a second?"" And he pulls me outside, he's like, ""Yeah, so she's, um, she's in the car. She, she's in the car, and I told her not to come in, but she has nowhere to go. Can she come in?""",P07,S02 01:43:20.49,01:43:18.67,[noise],P06,S02 01:43:26.59,01:43:24.77,[noise],P06,S02 01:43:39.23,01:43:29.69,"I'm like, ""You fuck."" So, she came. She came along with us to the dinner and to the comedy show. Yeah. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:43:33.40,01:43:32.12,Interesting.,P05,S02 01:43:33.95,01:43:33.39,[noise],P06,S02 01:43:37.36,01:43:36.52,That sucks.,P05,S02 01:43:40.61,01:43:37.79,"We do bring it up with him every once in a while, though, just for",P08,S02 01:43:40.33,01:43:39.75,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:43:50.27,01:43:40.41,"She probably broke up with him cuz of the comedy show. [laughs] She's like, ""What the fuck is this humor?"" [laughs] Yeah.",P06,S02 01:43:50.19,01:43:41.91,"No, they dated for, they dated for, like, they dated for, like, three weeks, and then, they weren't very serious. They weren't, like, a thing.",P07,S02 01:43:46.83,01:43:42.55,[laughs],P08,S02 01:43:45.34,01:43:44.24,Was she black?,P05,S02 01:43:53.78,01:43:47.74,"And then nothing. Yeah. So then the rest of the night you were out drinking and such, but",P05,S02 01:44:05.91,01:43:53.71,"Yeah, I mean, we, we, it was a r- it was dinner followed by comedy show, and after that I think we might have gone to a bar and had a nightcap and that was it. That was, it was, it was actually a pretty tame bachelor party. It was really, really tame. I don't even think I got drunk.",P07,S02 01:43:56.02,01:43:55.02,Was that fun?,P05,S02 01:44:01.89,01:44:00.99,"It was, like, a",P08,S02 01:44:04.64,01:44:03.84,Okay.,P05,S02 01:44:04.79,01:44:04.13,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:44:08.29,01:44:06.27,"I probably had, like, two drinks the whole night.",P07,S02 01:44:08.68,01:44:07.98,Oh wow.,P05,S02 01:44:27.57,01:44:08.71,"I got heckled by a drag queen, and I touched a very, there was this, like, large, muscular black guy in, like, a, adult shop, and I was like, ""Woah!"" and I, like, grabbed his pecs. [laughs] And he was like, ""Okay."" [laughs]",P08,S02 01:44:12.37,01:44:10.39,[laughs] Yeah. That sounds like fun.,P07,S02 01:44:15.15,01:44:14.43,[noise],P07,S02 01:44:24.68,01:44:23.98,Sorry.,P05,S02 01:44:26.39,01:44:25.57,Mhm.,P06,S02 01:44:28.63,01:44:27.95,Where you goin'?,P06,S02 01:44:30.18,01:44:28.82,Moving something.,P05,S02 01:44:31.37,01:44:30.53,What happened?,P06,S02 01:44:31.23,01:44:30.65,[laughs],P08,S02 01:44:52.01,01:44:33.57,"But, um, yeah, but I like the fact that you it on the same, on the same night, or a same, because we've got, like, Haze has got a friend, we've got invited to their bachelor, bachelorette party, I mean, I'm only friends, not I'm only friends with them, he's a friend of mine as well, but I'm friends with him because Haley's friend's husband",P06,S02 01:44:36.10,01:44:35.44,K.,P05,S02 01:45:06.19,01:44:52.37,"And their getting, like they're both doing their bachelor parties in Mexico, she's in Cabo and he's in Playa Del Carmen? She's doing Playa Del Carmen. What, okay, whatever, both in, both in Mexico but different dates, that's kind of",P06,S02 01:45:00.42,01:44:58.64,"Yeah, he's doing Cabo.",P05,S02 01:45:04.92,01:45:01.74,"Well, something like that. But different dates.",P05,S02 01:45:07.67,01:45:05.41,"Oh. Yeah, that's funny.",P08,S02 01:45:18.39,01:45:06.75,"Like, you know what I mean? Okay, we don't want to be together, but at least if we could fly, n- and go two separate islands on the same weekend, rather than, like, have to fly completely s- because maybe then we wanna do something for two three days after",P06,S02 01:45:11.09,01:45:10.55,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:45:14.07,01:45:13.45,Right.,P07,S02 01:45:14.16,01:45:13.48,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:45:15.03,01:45:14.37,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:45:19.11,01:45:17.55,Right. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:45:20.55,01:45:19.01,"So, I mean, it's still n- ",P06,S02 01:45:22.49,01:45:19.73,"Are they near each other, like, the dates near each other?",P08,S02 01:45:23.47,01:45:22.49,It's like couple of weeks,P06,S02 01:45:23.90,01:45:22.98,Months apart.,P05,S02 01:45:30.05,01:45:23.79,"Oof. Yeah, you can't really kill time for that much time. I mean, you'd have to be",P07,S02 01:45:24.89,01:45:23.77,"Oh, wow.",P08,S02 01:45:25.51,01:45:24.95,Few weeks.,P06,S02 01:45:26.36,01:45:25.80,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:45:35.73,01:45:28.07,"I was gonna say, like, if only it was like three days earlier, then it, then maybe, cuz then you could come three days earlier, and, you know, but if it's two weeks",P08,S02 01:45:34.06,01:45:31.42,Right. That's true.,P05,S02 01:45:39.91,01:45:34.55,"On the other hand, yeah, you could technically sublet your place. Spend a month in Mexico.",P07,S02 01:45:48.95,01:45:40.04,"On the other hand, they could, they could, they could hear this as public, and then maybe change their dates and put them, put them together. [laughs]",P06,S02 01:45:51.21,01:45:43.51,"That's true. Y- y- you trying to fi- , trying to find a way to, like, passively, passive aggressively suggest that they would change their dates, yeah.",P07,S02 01:45:46.20,01:45:43.78,[laughs],P05,S02 01:45:58.72,01:45:44.85,[laughs],P08,S02 01:45:52.72,01:45:50.26,So Google this. [laughs],P05,S02 01:45:57.41,01:45:51.27,Since you guys are uh our very close friends. [laughs] Little bit closer.,P06,S02 01:45:55.40,01:45:53.96,[laughs],P05,S02 01:45:55.81,01:45:54.81,[laughs],P07,S02 01:45:59.98,01:45:58.98,Um,P05,S02 01:46:10.15,01:45:59.03,"Um, but, um, yeah. I kinda like it that being on the same, the same, especially if you're traveling out. If it's at home, and at the bar down the street",P06,S02 01:46:00.23,01:45:59.61,Oh,P08,S02 01:46:07.77,01:46:06.95,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:46:16.73,01:46:10.73,Do you know what I mean? Doesn't really make a difference. But when you're actually going. Is Dan doing his bachelor party this weekend?,P06,S02 01:46:12.29,01:46:11.67,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:46:19.81,01:46:17.95,"I mean, the same weekend as [inaudible 1:46:18.90]",P06,S02 01:46:24.98,01:46:19.52,"As Dana? I think so. I th- Or maybe not. They're going to California, they're going, like, surfing.",P05,S02 01:46:28.77,01:46:22.11,"B- I think his, yeah, but I think his bachelor party is, like, a they wants to do a surfing trip or a surfing party, yeah.",P06,S02 01:46:34.60,01:46:27.68,"Right, he wants to just surf. Um. And I told you I'm planning my sister's.",P05,S02 01:46:31.65,01:46:30.99,[laughs],P06,S02 01:46:33.85,01:46:32.37,[laughs],P08,S02 01:46:36.69,01:46:34.51,But yeah. That sounds really fun.,P08,S02 01:46:41.60,01:46:36.66,"Yeah, and I think she doesn't want it to be like the typical kind of bachelorette party and she's",P05,S02 01:46:46.27,01:46:40.03,"Yeah, of course, that's, yeah, yeah, I think it sounds awesome. Lots of activities and stuff.",P08,S02 01:46:43.17,01:46:40.85,"No, but it sounds chill, though. It's not, it's not crazy.",P06,S02 01:46:43.06,01:46:42.22,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:46:45.38,01:46:44.34,Yeah. M- ,P05,S02 01:46:47.00,01:46:46.18,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:46:56.71,01:46:46.65,"It's nice that it's a weekend, too, like, you have, like a whole thing. We literally did, like, we flew in, we had our bachelor party, no.",P08,S02 01:46:51.04,01:46:48.42,"Yeah, that's true.",P05,S02 01:46:58.37,01:46:54.75,"What, you weren't living in New York at this time? Oh, you went to New York.",P06,S02 01:46:57.84,01:46:56.56,Oh.,P05,S02 01:47:01.87,01:46:57.13,"Just most of our wedding party was, so we were like, ""Well, we'll just go to them, cuz that's easier.""",P08,S02 01:47:00.14,01:46:59.20,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:47:02.54,01:47:01.58,That makes sense.,P05,S02 01:47:02.53,01:47:02.05,That's true.,P06,S02 01:47:14.57,01:47:02.49,"And then, uh, we flew in. The next night we had our parties. And then, we l- oh, you know what, we were living in Toronto so we might have driven.",P08,S02 01:47:24.59,01:47:14.99,"And then the next day, we went over and saw one of his friends that just had us over for breakfast, and then we drove back home. Like, it was, like, a very quick weekend, but.",P08,S02 01:47:23.84,01:47:21.62,Hmm. Wow.,P05,S02 01:47:26.07,01:47:25.11,It was still fun.,P08,S02 01:47:27.38,01:47:26.90,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:47:33.89,01:47:27.33,"But a whole weekend, like, doing activities. Like, uh, keep in mind I was, like, twenty two.",P08,S02 01:47:34.96,01:47:34.04,Oh wow.,P05,S02 01:47:40.37,01:47:34.59,"Twenty two, so would, I would do a very different bachelorette party today. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:47:36.73,01:47:35.65,[noise],P06,S02 01:47:39.59,01:47:37.91,[noise] Yeah.,P07,S02 01:47:49.81,01:47:37.91,"Yeah, it's true. I think, I think that ele- that has a big, big, big bearing on it, and also, also time line. You know, when you're twenty two maybe you can do a five day or a six day, or a week, you know what I mean?",P06,S02 01:47:43.38,01:47:42.44,Mm.,P05,S02 01:47:43.13,01:47:42.63,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:47:45.43,01:47:43.85,"Cuz, like, one glass of wine is",P08,S02 01:47:49.13,01:47:48.35,"Oh, yeah.",P08,S02 01:47:50.59,01:47:50.13,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:48:01.47,01:47:51.13,"But you know when you, like, later on, you know, I think one night's great maybe two nights, but like even longer than that's crazy, like you know, that's too much. A weekend, I think, max, max.",P06,S02 01:47:58.05,01:47:56.25,Yeah. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:48:01.41,01:47:59.11,"Weekend, yeah. For sure.",P08,S02 01:48:00.07,01:47:59.39,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:48:07.27,01:48:01.75,"We used to do a two-night thing in Whistler. That was good, cuz we all drove up in the evening. For, yeah.",P07,S02 01:48:03.21,01:48:01.81,"You know, I, I",P06,S02 01:48:05.37,01:48:04.83,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:48:07.11,01:48:05.63,For his friend that,P08,S02 01:48:11.49,01:48:07.17,"And like destinations that you guys stayed in, you stayed up there, and yeah, yeah.",P06,S02 01:48:08.52,01:48:07.66,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:48:10.25,01:48:09.39,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:48:10.88,01:48:10.24,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:48:24.18,01:48:12.68,"We were talking about your friend who did a five-day one, and gave the option of, ""Hey, you can leave at, like, at any point."" After three days, everyone's like, ""We're so worn out"", and then y- ",P05,S02 01:48:17.77,01:48:16.13,"Yeah, my, my best friend.",P06,S02 01:48:16.97,01:48:16.35,Oh.,P08,S02 01:48:21.33,01:48:20.75,Mhm.,P08,S02 01:48:25.45,01:48:23.17,"No, the, the, the, [inaudible 1:48:24.66]",P06,S02 01:48:23.89,01:48:23.25,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:48:30.31,01:48:24.33,"You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:48:26.38,01:48:25.82,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:48:28.37,01:48:26.65,"Never leave, yeah.",P06,S02 01:48:30.41,01:48:26.61,[laughs],P08,S02 01:48:30.74,01:48:26.74,[laughs] Yes.,P05,S02 01:48:38.99,01:48:30.69,"Um, you don't know what that is, right? What's that? Hotel California? Okay. I was just wondering if you did. Sometimes you don't know.",P06,S02 01:48:33.82,01:48:33.16,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:48:36.14,01:48:34.28,Californ- yeah.,P05,S02 01:48:38.59,01:48:36.13,[laughs],P08,S02 01:48:46.02,01:48:38.80,"Well, hey, I'm young. Date older women, then. [laughs]",P05,S02 01:48:41.23,01:48:40.51,Okay.,P06,S02 01:48:44.07,01:48:41.11,"Come on. It's the fucking Eagles, man.",P07,S02 01:48:47.13,01:48:41.03,[laughs],P08,S02 01:48:56.43,01:48:43.19,"[laughs] Um, but, um, yeah, no, no, it wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't an option. Basically, we went on five days to Playa Del Carmen, and then three days later",P06,S02 01:48:49.04,01:48:47.60,You want me to sing it?,P05,S02 01:49:10.63,01:48:56.92,"Uh, he opted out. He said, ""Let's go home."" So, they were [inaudible 1:49:01.91] to Toronto, and I'd come to Toronto from, from, from, I'd come to Toronto for that, and yeah, so, or three days later we left.",P06,S02 01:48:58.61,01:48:57.95,If you're,P08,S02 01:49:05.33,01:48:59.25,[laughs],P08,S02 01:49:07.61,01:49:06.99,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:49:10.37,01:49:09.45,Wow.,P08,S02 01:49:24.47,01:49:10.63,"And we were done! I mean, it w- w- was so much drinking and activities for three days, that [laughs] that by the end of it, I was like, ""Listen, if you don't get married, someone else will get married on this trip, so let's just get back."" [laughs]",P06,S02 01:49:14.41,01:49:12.09,Yeah. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:49:18.03,01:49:16.61,[laughs],P08,S02 01:49:24.77,01:49:22.67,[laughs],P08,S02 01:49:31.45,01:49:23.97,"And you're, qr- you're quite an extrovert. I would, I would be done after about a day, cuz I, I can't handle that l- level of extroversion.",P07,S02 01:49:27.43,01:49:26.85,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:49:29.11,01:49:28.71,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:49:32.45,01:49:30.73,[inaudible 1:49:30.70],P06,S02 01:49:32.48,01:49:31.12,[laughs],P05,S02 01:49:39.35,01:49:31.45,"I went to business school with people like that, and they tired me the hell out. [laughs] Those people are fucking crazy. How do they do it?",P07,S02 01:49:41.85,01:49:32.95,"[laughs] He's always exhausted. He's like, ""How do they do it? How do they do it?"" I'm like, ""Their energy comes from outside.""",P08,S02 01:49:37.12,01:49:35.74,He's always so funny.,P05,S02 01:49:51.15,01:49:39.35,"We went to Vegas, yeah, we went to Vegas for, like, a long weekend, like, la- last year, and I don't know how these guys w- , like, they would, w- w- we did, like, day club thing, where you get, like, a pool cabana.",P07,S02 01:49:42.56,01:49:39.38,[inaudible 1:49:39.38] right.,P05,S02 01:49:40.05,01:49:39.45,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:49:51.98,01:49:50.84,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:49:58.78,01:49:51.15,"A- a- and you can just drink all day, champagne and stuff. And then, all night you go to the night club or the strip club for nine hours.",P07,S02 01:49:53.11,01:49:52.51,Yep.,P06,S02 01:49:53.54,01:49:52.80,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:49:55.35,01:49:53.69,"Well, these guys are in their thirties.",P08,S02 01:49:59.40,01:49:57.16,Mhm. Mhm.,P05,S02 01:50:08.28,01:49:58.78,"L- like, how do you do that? And it's, there was, there wa- , there was one guy that used to be in the, one guy who used to be in the Navy SEALS, and this guy is the king of partying. I think he's",P07,S02 01:50:02.27,01:50:00.47,"Like, till seven AM.",P08,S02 01:50:04.02,01:50:00.56,Yeah. Yeah. [laughs],P05,S02 01:50:04.93,01:50:02.27,[laughs],P08,S02 01:50:20.56,01:50:08.28,"I think Sha- , I think. I shouldn't say this, that he works for Google, so I can't, I can't talk about him. [laughs] Cuz he works for the client company that's doing this. [laughs] But anyway, but he's, uh, he's got a lot of stamina, I'll say that.",P07,S02 01:50:13.48,01:50:12.50,Oh.,P05,S02 01:50:16.79,01:50:14.97,[laughs],P06,S02 01:50:17.27,01:50:15.57,[laughs],P08,S02 01:50:17.88,01:50:16.88,Oh.,P05,S02 01:50:18.81,01:50:18.19,[laughs],P08,S02 01:50:20.40,01:50:19.64,Oh.,P05,S02 01:50:21.90,01:50:20.74,A lot of stamina.,P07,S02 01:50:26.87,01:50:21.67,"Yeah. I mean, that was, that was, that was, yeah, but that was my life for how many years?",P06,S02 01:50:24.32,01:50:22.88,It's like LOL.,P05,S02 01:50:32.18,01:50:26.98,Yeah. Sometimes I think if you take certain things you also have more energy.,P05,S02 01:50:37.43,01:50:31.23,"Well, well, that's what I, that's why I asked, I was like, ""They've gotta be doing something. And""",P08,S02 01:50:40.68,01:50:35.11,"Right. Adderall, or [inaudible 1:50:37.50] I think.",P05,S02 01:50:46.55,01:50:35.33,"Some people can drink through. Some peop- some people can drink through. [noise] You assume that some, and some just can, some do, and some don't, but I think some people can drink through, like I'm",P06,S02 01:50:39.83,01:50:38.59,"And, uh",P08,S02 01:50:44.81,01:50:43.85,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:50:48.93,01:50:45.71,"I mean, it was insane. Like, they would",P08,S02 01:50:55.93,01:50:47.93,"That was like, I think that was, we used to start, a w- , our, our weekend was Friday Saturday, we used to start Thursday at five and, like, it wouldn't end till Sunday morning.",P06,S02 01:50:59.27,01:50:55.91,"That's what he said. He was like, it just on and on and on.",P08,S02 01:51:02.55,01:50:56.99,"Yeah. This is normal weekend for us. I'm talking about this is, this is normal weekend at home.",P06,S02 01:50:57.92,01:50:57.14,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:51:04.11,01:50:59.61,Oh. [laughs] Wow.,P08,S02 01:51:02.66,01:51:00.88,"Yeah, normal. Right.",P05,S02 01:51:06.97,01:51:03.11,"Talking about night party, day party, after party, all the way",P06,S02 01:51:13.36,01:51:03.66,"Yeah. He would be texting me and I'm like, ""Isn't it five in the morning there?"" he's like, ""Yeah, Blake had an afterparty and brought this DJ home, so the DJ is still going, like, girls are passed out on couches""",P05,S02 01:51:06.73,01:51:05.27,Oh my god.,P08,S02 01:51:10.37,01:51:09.51,Oh my god.,P08,S02 01:51:18.77,01:51:10.21,"Blank, yeah, and then X Y Z, X Y Z was at the club performing, now they're here, they're performing, drinking with us, partying, that was the, they were going to a brunch at ten, yeah",P06,S02 01:51:18.32,01:51:15.40,"Yeah, ""We're going to a brunch at ten"", I mean",P05,S02 01:51:16.57,01:51:15.95,But then,P08,S02 01:51:20.49,01:51:17.21,"But then, how do you have any energy for work the next week?",P08,S02 01:51:22.97,01:51:19.79,"No, no, that's weekend I'm talking about. No, but I'm saying",P06,S02 01:51:29.83,01:51:20.91,"I know, but, like, I use my weekend to, like, sleep. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:51:24.02,01:51:23.54,Right.,P05,S02 01:51:28.84,01:51:25.64,"Well, they would, you would sleep through like a whole Sunday or something.",P05,S02 01:51:30.03,01:51:29.31,[noise],P06,S02 01:51:33.52,01:51:29.64,What are you looking at? It's under there. [noise] Maybe.,P05,S02 01:51:32.73,01:51:31.53,[inaudible 1:51:31.50],P06,S02 01:51:35.45,01:51:34.69,Hence,P06,S02 01:51:43.94,01:51:35.24,[laughs] Most people would use their weekend to sleep.,P05,S02 01:51:44.47,01:51:36.27,"Oh. [laughs] Okay, fair point. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:51:44.75,01:51:43.65,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:51:45.98,01:51:44.84,[laughs],P05,S02 01:51:59.55,01:51:45.27,"[laughs] ""Wait a minute.""",P08,S02 01:51:58.93,01:51:46.25,"Hence if I'm away I'm usually at one of these, [laughs] so when she tells you, I'm out seeing friends, that's where I am. Cuz it's just in case you know that I don't have any. [laughs] Like, ""Wait a minute, he doesn't have any friends.""",P06,S02 01:51:50.52,01:51:48.56,[laughs],P05,S02 01:52:02.12,01:52:00.14,[noise] Mmm.,P05,S02 01:52:05.05,01:52:01.35,"Yeah. So, uh, yeah, so.",P06,S02 01:52:03.81,01:52:02.45,That's funny.,P08,S02 01:52:08.21,01:52:06.81,Don't miss it.,P06,S02 01:52:15.95,01:52:08.23,"That's good. I've heard that, actually, from people that, they just don't, yeah.",P08,S02 01:52:09.84,01:52:08.94,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:52:16.93,01:52:11.13,"Yeah. But, I, yeah, I mean, like, I, I did, I did it for a hundred years, so I've, I've got, like, back up.",P06,S02 01:52:27.53,01:52:17.17,"I, the, what keeps me from, like, drinking a lot is that I can't help but remember the feeling of, like, the room spinning in the morning.",P08,S02 01:52:20.66,01:52:19.68,[noise],P07,S02 01:52:26.45,01:52:25.53,[noise],P06,S02 01:52:28.20,01:52:27.38,Mm.,P05,S02 01:52:33.45,01:52:28.01,"And that, it's death, and it tires me out to even think about it, so I'll stop.",P08,S02 01:52:30.45,01:52:28.21,Death. [laughs],P06,S02 01:52:31.08,01:52:30.26,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:52:33.02,01:52:32.44,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:52:34.73,01:52:34.07,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:52:39.17,01:52:34.03,"Unless I'm having a really good time, in which case, that's like, once a year.",P08,S02 01:52:39.80,01:52:36.04,[laughs] Unless I don't feel like stopping.,P07,S02 01:52:37.20,01:52:36.06,[laughs],P05,S02 01:52:43.71,01:52:37.37,"That's a good s- , that's that's a good, that's a good sign, though. So th- like if you actually do feel that, it's a good thing.",P06,S02 01:52:42.02,01:52:41.10,[noise],P07,S02 01:52:44.49,01:52:43.59,"Okay, yeah.",P08,S02 01:52:52.53,01:52:44.39,"That means you're never gonna be on the other side where you can just do it for a [laughs] where you can do it just constantly, so, it's a good sign.",P06,S02 01:52:49.62,01:52:47.44,You don't enjoy it so much.,P07,S02 01:52:49.55,01:52:48.57,Forever.,P08,S02 01:52:57.77,01:52:51.03,"I also get, I'm a sicky, too, like, I get really sick if I drink too much, so. Yeah. [laughs]",P08,S02 01:52:59.35,01:52:53.75,"Yeah. That's also another good sign. You, you passed. [laughs] You passed.",P06,S02 01:53:03.69,01:52:57.77,"But I don't have that issue with sugar. You know, different problem there.",P08,S02 01:53:03.31,01:53:00.99,[laughs],P06,S02 01:53:04.02,01:53:03.34,Hmm.,P05,S02 01:53:14.66,01:53:04.56,"I, I just can't remember how, like, like in college I never remember being hungover, and I remember, like, you know seven for- yeah, but what is it in our bodies that, like s- ",P05,S02 01:53:05.01,01:53:04.57,But,P08,S02 01:53:11.75,01:53:10.81,You were younger.,P06,S02 01:53:15.45,01:53:14.55,Something changes.,P08,S02 01:53:17.87,01:53:14.79,"Youth. It's youth. I mean, I mean I've, by the",P06,S02 01:53:23.32,01:53:17.28,"[noise] That medical term youth. [laughs] Thank you for teaching me, Dr. Abhi. [laughs]",P05,S02 01:53:28.23,01:53:17.33,"[laughs] But I think something, yeah.",P08,S02 01:53:32.69,01:53:19.33,"No, it's youth. It's just, it's just resili- it's just resilience and strength. I mean, we could go out five days a week when I was in my early twenties. Five days, literally, and wake up, drink till four, and then wake up and be at the office at seven o'clock in the morning.",P06,S02 01:53:32.98,01:53:32.28,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:53:33.69,01:53:32.21,"Yeah, that's what I used to",P08,S02 01:53:41.57,01:53:32.73,"By the end of it, by the end of it, my mid, my mid thirties, if I drank heavy on one night, it took me three days to like, you recover from that one, one debauchery, you know what I mean?",P06,S02 01:53:46.63,01:53:38.39,"Yes, but I think something chemically actually does change in your body, because I remember a teacher telling me something like",P08,S02 01:53:43.98,01:53:43.18,Right.,P05,S02 01:53:48.69,01:53:45.93,Don't drink? [laughs],P06,S02 01:54:03.45,01:53:47.05,"No. No, no, just, they, cuz I, we were talking about the fact that, um, a bunch of us had gone, like, in college, had gone to a club the night before and we had, like, an eight AM class, and, and it was easy to drink and then wake up, like, just what you're saying.",P08,S02 01:53:58.21,01:53:57.59,[noise],P06,S02 01:54:04.04,01:54:03.12,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:54:12.05,01:54:03.45,"And she was like, ""That won't happen after twenty five."" And legitimately, right as soon as I turned twenty five, I was like, ""I can't. I can't do anything!""",P08,S02 01:54:07.46,01:54:06.64,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:54:10.65,01:54:09.83,[laughs],P06,S02 01:54:12.54,01:54:10.48,Mhm. Mhm.,P05,S02 01:54:19.73,01:54:12.33,Yeah. W- wait till next week when you're thirty. [laughs] That's the second milestone.,P06,S02 01:54:14.50,01:54:12.53,"""My life sucks.""",P08,S02 01:54:23.97,01:54:15.09,[laughs] Dammit! [laughs],P08,S02 01:54:23.02,01:54:19.44,This couch is too low. [laughs],P05,S02 01:54:26.99,01:54:21.83,"[noise] Yeah, that's the second milestone, and then, then at thirty five, that'll be the third one.",P06,S02 01:54:23.42,01:54:22.34,[laughs],P07,S02 01:54:27.52,01:54:26.96,[laughs],P07,S02 01:54:29.47,01:54:26.93,[laughs] You feel okay at thirty five?,P08,S02 01:54:30.86,01:54:29.12,Mhm. I feel great.,P07,S02 01:54:32.31,01:54:30.67,[laughs],P08,S02 01:54:34.91,01:54:31.11,"Are you thirty five? Oh, I thought you guys were, like, a year apart.",P06,S02 01:54:32.80,01:54:32.24,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:54:36.47,01:54:34.85,"No. No, yeah.",P08,S02 01:54:36.14,01:54:35.22,Mm.,P07,S02 01:54:38.28,01:54:36.76,Six whole years.,P05,S02 01:54:46.49,01:54:37.25,He's just very youthful looking. [laughs],P08,S02 01:54:47.35,01:54:38.37,"That's what, that's, that's why you're, that's why you're more wisdomous. [laughs] Yeah, you look, you look, t- like, you look wisdomous.",P06,S02 01:54:40.38,01:54:38.46,I just started wearing more comfy shoes.,P07,S02 01:54:44.28,01:54:41.22,[laughs] I am very wisdomous.,P07,S02 01:54:45.42,01:54:41.52,[laughs],P05,S02 01:54:47.04,01:54:46.54,Hmm.,P07,S02 01:54:48.43,01:54:47.27,[laughs],P08,S02 01:54:58.96,01:54:48.20,"Thank you. I got the gray hair going on. Although it's darker this summer, I think. Yeah. I need to get a haircut. Can I get a haircut after this?",P07,S02 01:54:49.03,01:54:48.19,"But, uh",P06,S02 01:54:53.77,01:54:52.23,You've got a lot of it here.,P08,S02 01:54:56.63,01:54:54.49,So you guys have five years between you.,P06,S02 01:54:56.57,01:54:55.83,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:54:57.50,01:54:56.04,Six. oh.,P05,S02 01:54:59.03,01:54:58.01,We doubled it.,P06,S02 01:55:02.11,01:54:59.33,[laughs],P08,S02 01:55:03.42,01:55:01.04,You guys are ten years apart? How old are you?,P07,S02 01:55:05.41,01:55:02.63,"Yeah. I'm thirty seven, she's twenty seven.",P06,S02 01:55:05.34,01:55:04.96,Oh.,P07,S02 01:55:06.83,01:55:05.93,Wow.,P08,S02 01:55:07.10,01:55:06.60,Oh.,P07,S02 01:55:13.89,01:55:06.75,"Same month, like, November, November, eighty nine, November eighty nine, No- cuz I look so young, November eighty nine, November seventy nine.",P06,S02 01:55:10.36,01:55:07.52,It's sad that people don't notice that. [laughs],P05,S02 01:55:08.95,01:55:08.21,"Oh, really?",P08,S02 01:55:13.28,01:55:11.36,[laughs],P05,S02 01:55:13.15,01:55:12.09,[laughs],P08,S02 01:55:23.46,01:55:14.00,"But, I mean, you guys seem, like, the similar level of maturity. [laughs]",P07,S02 01:55:14.93,01:55:13.95,Wow.,P08,S02 01:55:23.37,01:55:16.49,"Yeah. I, I, I, I didn't get the wisdomous part. [laughs] I got the- [noise]",P06,S02 01:55:19.38,01:55:16.52,Yeah. That's why it works.,P05,S02 01:55:22.61,01:55:16.53,[laughs],P08,S02 01:55:26.48,01:55:20.34,"[laughs] You got the youth part. That medical thing youth, you got.",P05,S02 01:55:24.95,01:55:24.25,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:55:26.50,01:55:25.96,[laughs],P07,S02 01:55:29.35,01:55:26.39,"[laughs] That medical thing, youth.",P08,S02 01:55:27.23,01:55:26.47,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:55:28.40,01:55:27.78,[noise],P07,S02 01:55:31.04,01:55:28.60,None of that medical wisdomous.,P05,S02 01:55:32.02,01:55:29.94,"Or the Joe, the Joe Pesci version, yoot.",P07,S02 01:55:33.35,01:55:32.21,Youts.,P06,S02 01:55:33.18,01:55:32.24,Yoot.,P05,S02 01:55:34.47,01:55:32.53,Yoots. [laughs] Yoots.,P08,S02 01:55:33.52,01:55:32.94,Yoot.,P07,S02 01:55:39.58,01:55:35.00,"[laughs] ""I'm sorry, youths, your honor.""",P07,S02 01:55:36.05,01:55:35.35,[noise],P06,S02 01:55:36.45,01:55:35.31,[laughs],P08,S02 01:55:41.35,01:55:39.95,"You guys ever, um",P06,S02 01:55:41.65,01:55:40.15,Is it My Cousin Vinny?,P08,S02 01:55:42.84,01:55:41.16,"Yes, that's from My Cousin Vinny.",P07,S02 01:55:44.97,01:55:42.41,I watched that movie every weekend in eighth grade.,P08,S02 01:55:46.17,01:55:44.97,I love that movie.,P06,S02 01:55:48.41,01:55:45.41,"[laughs] I'm like, ""Let's watch My Cousin Vinny.""",P08,S02 01:55:48.00,01:55:46.72,I don't think I've ever seen it.,P05,S02 01:55:55.04,01:55:47.24,"What's the deal with that, with that thing? Is that a stationary bike? It looks, looks terrible. It looks awful. It looks like a terrible thing to have to ride.",P07,S02 01:55:52.70,01:55:50.24,"Yeah, I brought it out last week because",P05,S02 01:55:54.97,01:55:53.19,[laughs],P08,S02 01:56:00.51,01:55:53.61,"We got, that one's a stationary bike, too. [laughs] You can actually get on the wall, get on the wall and pedal.",P06,S02 01:56:02.38,01:55:54.50,"I did it in that position. No. [laughs] Yeah. Yeah. I'll race ya. You get on that one, I'll get on this one.",P05,S02 01:55:56.62,01:55:56.00,Really?,P07,S02 01:56:02.81,01:55:56.85,[laughs] That's awesome.,P08,S02 01:56:03.34,01:56:02.84,Mhm.,P07,S02 01:56:21.00,01:56:03.16,"[inaudible 1:56:03.16] Mhm. This one I moved the table, and I put the bike here in front of the fan, and I paused the fan, and I was like, ""You know what, if I'm going to sit here and be searching Facebook, or reading an article, why not do it while riding the bike?"", so Abhi was cooking for an hour and I'm just sitting there on a, oh.",P05,S02 01:56:05.87,01:56:03.47,And it's got like a heavy duty chain on the other side of it.,P06,S02 01:56:09.30,01:56:08.20,"Oh yeah, yeah, you're right.",P07,S02 01:56:12.15,01:56:10.71,"Oh, perfect.",P08,S02 01:56:24.03,01:56:19.21,"That's a really good idea. Does it work? Like, does it, g- yeah.",P08,S02 01:56:27.88,01:56:21.92,"Yeah. You can change the resistance. You can get the calories, you can get your heartbeat. Um.",P05,S02 01:56:29.67,01:56:28.09,She went biking to get groceries.,P06,S02 01:56:30.81,01:56:29.71,Wow.,P08,S02 01:56:31.83,01:56:30.15,"Yesterday, to make this meal.",P06,S02 01:56:31.82,01:56:30.72,I know.,P05,S02 01:56:33.61,01:56:31.61,"You tried it, it was less scary than you thought?",P08,S02 01:56:41.84,01:56:34.20,"[noise] Yes. There was a hill, which, like you don't, it wasn't like a big hill, but little hills are still hard.",P05,S02 01:56:37.33,01:56:35.17,[laughs] [noise],P08,S02 01:56:40.49,01:56:39.45,Hills are hard.,P06,S02 01:56:44.95,01:56:40.29,"[noise] Yeah, they are, cuz they're, it's just a gradual incline all the way.",P08,S02 01:56:49.10,01:56:43.74,"Right, and the two bikes we have don't have ge- like you can't change the gears. Or you can, I can't.",P05,S02 01:56:50.95,01:56:46.55,"The one has, the one has gears, but w- I don't, I don't really know how to change gears, but, uh",P06,S02 01:56:48.05,01:56:46.57,Oh.,P08,S02 01:57:05.90,01:56:49.84,"And I don't have a backpack, so that was another thing was like, where am I going to put the groceries once I buy them? So I had, I had a basket in front. So I'd three bags worth of groceries, I put one bag in the thing, one over my shoulder like with a resuable bag, and I stuffed the little things in my purse and zipped it.",P05,S02 01:56:54.73,01:56:54.13,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:56:55.93,01:56:54.91,She has a basket.,P06,S02 01:57:05.95,01:57:04.91,Woah.,P08,S02 01:57:23.68,01:57:05.90,"So I had, like, the weight of my purse on my back, the weight of this pulling me to the right, and then the basket which I'm trying to steer. I tried it on the handlebar, cuz I saw other people doing it, and I'm like, ""Okay"", and my knee hit it every time I came up, and the tire hits it. So I was like, ""How do the other people do it?"" and I saw a guy with a backpack, I'm like, ""Okay, that's what I gotta get.""",P05,S02 01:57:18.53,01:57:14.43,Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:57:29.49,01:57:23.05,"It's also, it's, it's also getting used to it a lot, you know, like, and we went out one day, uh, last week",P06,S02 01:57:23.95,01:57:23.01,[laughs],P08,S02 01:57:26.13,01:57:25.61,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:57:26.96,01:57:26.20,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:57:47.65,01:57:29.49,"And, you know, like, we just made all, like, we had, just had to take three right turns everywhere, cuz we didn't want to turn left at any signal [inaudible 1:57:36.00] right turns. [laughs] So then we stopped at a coffee, we stopped at a coffee shop, we actually did this, which had the best carrot cake.",P06,S02 01:57:43.67,01:57:33.83,[laughs],P08,S02 01:57:38.26,01:57:34.04,[laughs] No. We didn't know how to turn lef- ,P05,S02 01:57:44.46,01:57:39.86,"Mhm. It's like, ""Can we avoid getting lefts"" and like ""Sure""",P05,S02 01:57:49.69,01:57:47.65,"Uh, what was it called?",P06,S02 01:57:50.24,01:57:47.74,[noise] I dunno.,P05,S02 01:58:04.21,01:57:49.99,"Uh, yeah, we st- wu- on, uh, the nice part of Hastings, and we stopped at this coffee shop, and we Googled ""How do you make a left turn on a bike"", and it gave you all the options, ""Get off the bike, and cross the street."" [laughs] That was, like option, so there was, like, four different ways",P06,S02 01:57:58.30,01:57:55.48,"Yeah, and we sat there reading directions.",P05,S02 01:58:01.91,01:57:59.87,"Oh, really? [laughs]",P08,S02 01:58:01.78,01:58:01.26,Mhm.,P05,S02 01:58:10.02,01:58:02.60,"Was it like, did, did it, did it have, ""You idiot"" after it, ""Get off the bike, you idiot, and cross the street, you idiot."" [laughs]",P07,S02 01:58:13.03,01:58:05.43,"[laughs] That's, oh, at the crosswalk, and then you do this.",P08,S02 01:58:08.94,01:58:05.60,[laughs],P05,S02 01:58:11.21,01:58:05.77,"[laughs] ""You idiot. Cross the street."" So, that, that, that would be- ",P06,S02 01:58:20.45,01:58:11.83,"Yeah, crosswalk, and then you don't have to take the left, or that's the official, how you veer off, and how you, this, but I didn't know what to do when there was a bi- when there was a bus.",P06,S02 01:58:12.84,01:58:11.94,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:58:14.62,01:58:14.00,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:58:14.65,01:58:14.01,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:58:18.20,01:58:15.38,Cuz it's scary being between two cars.,P05,S02 01:58:23.78,01:58:17.68,"But you can, you can ride on the street, right? You can go in the regular lane. You just maybe don't want to.",P07,S02 01:58:37.78,01:58:20.34,"Yeah. Yeah. But you're supposed to be on the right side of the lane, so it's a little confusing, cuz if you're, if there's two lanes going straight, or like one going straight, one left turn, and then over here there's maybe one coming towards you, you have to go in this middle lane, which is the left turn, but you have to be on the right side of it",P05,S02 01:58:23.37,01:58:22.07,"Yeah, that's what we do.",P08,S02 01:58:25.64,01:58:25.26,Ah.,P07,S02 01:58:29.88,01:58:29.10,[noise],P07,S02 01:58:34.80,01:58:33.82,Mm.,P07,S02 01:58:38.22,01:58:37.64,Mm.,P07,S02 01:58:42.28,01:58:37.78,"and then you have to do this for turning that way, and this turns right, which I didn't know",P05,S02 01:58:48.03,01:58:41.27,"And you have to go from the right side of that lane, to the right lane, on the right side of the right lane when you come back off, so",P06,S02 01:58:42.23,01:58:41.29,Right.,P08,S02 01:58:44.42,01:58:43.82,Mm.,P07,S02 01:58:52.16,01:58:45.48,"Yeah. That seems like the kind of maneuver you'd do when there's no real traffic. If there's a lot of traffic downtown, I would just go across the crosswalk.",P07,S02 01:58:47.37,01:58:46.27,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:58:49.02,01:58:46.98,Mhm. Not the closest lane.,P05,S02 01:58:49.95,01:58:49.37,Yeah.,P06,S02 01:58:54.05,01:58:52.75,"Yeah, I, I, I've g- ",P06,S02 01:59:00.20,01:58:53.10,"But then you have to do two crosswalks, unless you just take the straight lane to do this crosswalk, and then walk across there, so that was another method.",P05,S02 01:58:54.37,01:58:53.51,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:58:55.26,01:58:54.62,Yeah.,P07,S02 01:58:59.71,01:58:58.27,"Oh, that's a good idea.",P08,S02 01:59:05.01,01:58:58.75,"No, uh, no, no, no, no, bub, it was. You take one, just one crosswalk, and then get on the road on that side and just bike.",P06,S02 01:59:07.72,01:59:03.94,"You could do that, too. So this was how there were all these options of what we could do.",P05,S02 01:59:05.55,01:59:04.95,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:59:08.33,01:59:06.41,There was all these options of what you could do.,P06,S02 01:59:08.32,01:59:06.48,[inaudible 1:59:06.40] Mhm.,P07,S02 01:59:12.59,01:59:07.27,"Oh, we just go where there's the least amount of cars. So, we're like, ""Well, if we can turn left easily, then""",P08,S02 01:59:20.61,01:59:10.89,"It's kinda hard over here, in this area, when you get on your bike, there's, I mean, there's smaller streets, there's cars everywhere, and anywhere that you do wanna go bike is downtown, so you wanna go",P06,S02 01:59:11.76,01:59:11.32,Yeah.,P05,S02 01:59:14.45,01:59:12.79,"Yeah, there's a lot of cars.",P08,S02 01:59:14.14,01:59:13.32,Mm.,P07,S02 01:59:22.99,01:59:19.19,"But there is a lot of bikers, too, so you can follow them.",P08,S02 01:59:25.42,01:59:21.20,Yeah. Cuz we're right on that Avanac or whatever it's called.,P05,S02 01:59:29.45,01:59:22.87,"But, I think, then you'd think that would be a positive thing, but unfortunately, it's kind of, for me, you know, like",P06,S02 01:59:38.57,01:59:30.09,"I'm a l- , I don't like to be in a circle of people where I'm not, like, I feel embarrassed, and, like, you know what I mean? I don't want to be back-footed, like, you know what I mean?",P06,S02 01:59:34.85,01:59:32.07,"Yeah, I see what you mean. Yeah.",P08,S02 01:59:36.53,01:59:35.65,Yeah.,P08,S02 01:59:48.08,01:59:37.22,"The one guy without the Spandex. [laughs] ""Hey, look at that loser who's not wearing Spandex, what a loser."" [laughs]",P07,S02 01:59:41.23,01:59:37.63,Right. [laughs],P08,S02 01:59:46.05,01:59:38.89,"Yeah. Oh, yeah. I don't wanna be the one, the one bald, no, the one bald, brown guy, you know, in no spandex.",P06,S02 01:59:40.78,01:59:39.04,Yeah yeah [laughs],P05,S02 01:59:48.30,01:59:42.40,[laughs],P05,S02 01:59:48.81,01:59:44.15,"[laughs] You're like, ""They know what they're doing, [inaudible 1:59:47.46] doing.""",P08,S02 01:59:52.43,01:59:47.13,"I don't know what I'm doing, and I feel like I a fool, and you know, like, everyone's doing this, and I'm like",P06,S02 01:59:59.81,01:59:49.31,[laughs] I feel ya. Yeah.,P08,S02 01:59:50.28,01:59:49.48,[noise],P07,S02 01:59:55.04,01:59:52.88,"You're like, ""Can I go that way?""",P05,S02 01:59:57.10,01:59:55.56,[laughs],P07,S02 02:00:03.85,01:59:55.95,"Yeah, so, definitely, you know. And, it, b- , and they all seem like they're such pros in this city, like, I don't know, yeah, but it seems like it.",P06,S02 01:59:57.24,01:59:56.44,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:00:04.60,02:00:01.38,They're not. They're not.,P07,S02 02:00:02.69,02:00:01.91,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:00:10.51,02:00:04.47,"Downtown, they feel a bit pro-y, man. They feel like they're biking everyday, that they've, they've got this air of [inaudible 2:00:09.00]",P06,S02 02:00:06.74,02:00:06.08,Mm.,P07,S02 02:00:06.77,02:00:06.05,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:00:16.66,02:00:08.58,"That's meant to intimida- that's meant to intimidate you, though. Just don't f- , don't fall for the intimidation. It's all psychological. [laughs]",P07,S02 02:00:09.94,02:00:08.64,There's all the,P05,S02 02:00:14.01,02:00:09.29,"[inaudible 2:00:09.30] A lot of people have clips, too. They, like, clip in downtown. They have road bikes.",P08,S02 02:00:13.58,02:00:12.84,Hmm.,P05,S02 02:00:16.69,02:00:14.11,"No, it doesn't in- , it doesn't i- , doesn't intimidate me, it just",P06,S02 02:00:16.29,02:00:14.93,[inaudible 2:00:14.94],P08,S02 02:00:16.14,02:00:15.54,[noise],P05,S02 02:00:19.41,02:00:17.37,Just don't enjoy doing it.,P06,S02 02:00:19.99,02:00:19.47,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:00:23.18,02:00:19.64,I get confusing like if traffic's coming. Sometimes,P05,S02 02:00:24.33,02:00:23.13,I get confusing?,P06,S02 02:00:26.36,02:00:24.38,I get confused. [laughs],P05,S02 02:00:31.51,02:00:25.05,[laughs],P08,S02 02:00:30.37,02:00:26.12,And which was your first language you took that off? [laughs],P06,S02 02:00:46.12,02:00:28.37,"[noise] I get confused sometimes when the car's coming because sometimes they treat me like a walker where like they'll stop at the stop sign, then they'll keep going, and I'm like, ""Wait, I have the right of way, like, aren't I supposed to be like a car?"" And so I'll go, but like, obviously it's slower, and so they're like inching forward, and I'm like, ""Hold on!"", like",P05,S02 02:00:38.75,02:00:38.19,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:00:51.75,02:00:45.03,"I'm constantly in trouble with cars. Like, I never do it right, and I just go, ""Sorry, sorry"" and I just keep going. Oh well.",P08,S02 02:00:47.52,02:00:46.92,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:00:50.80,02:00:49.12,Yeah. Mhm.,P05,S02 02:00:49.89,02:00:49.15,Mm.,P06,S02 02:01:02.17,02:00:51.63,"And w- we went, uh, um, also we picked like the worst adventure to do on our first day biking, we went to the Army and Navy store, I don't know if you've ever been to the Army and Navy store, that's on, no, on, like the Hastings one.",P06,S02 02:01:00.49,02:00:57.93,"Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. In Gastown?",P08,S02 02:01:13.40,02:00:59.14,"Why would you, why would you go there? [noise] Yeah. That's, like, where, where all the homeless people sit in front of, right? Or they used to. They used to sit in front of the Army and Navy store. I think they've been gentrified one or two blocks east.",P07,S02 02:01:00.50,02:00:59.40,We'd never heard of it.,P05,S02 02:01:04.69,02:01:02.17,"Yeah, yeah, basically outside, outside",P06,S02 02:01:03.15,02:01:02.15,"Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 02:01:16.05,02:01:05.97,"Yeah, I w- , I wanted, yeah, they're very close. They're very, they're still, they're s- they're s- they're still there. I wanted, I wa- I, no, I wanted the cheap shorts.",P06,S02 02:01:09.77,02:01:06.01,[laughs],P08,S02 02:01:09.14,02:01:06.14,"Hmm, they're pretty close, yeah [laughs]",P05,S02 02:01:14.26,02:01:10.14,"You needed a pair, he wanted a pair of jeans that he could, like",P05,S02 02:01:16.71,02:01:14.37,Eastern Tacofino. [noise],P08,S02 02:01:18.26,02:01:15.96,"Oh, that's right. Those ones.",P05,S02 02:01:17.06,02:01:16.22,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:01:27.29,02:01:16.36,"Yeah, yeah, I wanted a pair of cheap shorts, uh, that I, yeah, I wanted a pair of, of cheap shorts that I didn't want to spend more than, like, ten bucks on, but there was a pair over there that were fifteen bucks",P06,S02 02:01:18.81,02:01:18.29,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:01:23.01,02:01:19.75,"It's like a Goodwill, but it's like a big, yeah.",P08,S02 02:01:21.04,02:01:19.88,[inaudible 2:01:19.80],P07,S02 02:01:22.44,02:01:21.46,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:01:26.31,02:01:25.67,Sure.,P08,S02 02:01:37.11,02:01:27.76,"Uh, so I was like, I was like, ""All right"", yeah, I was like, ""That's expensive, but, uh, we'll have to, we'll have to Gucci it down"", so",P06,S02 02:01:30.24,02:01:27.74,[noise],P05,S02 02:01:29.29,02:01:27.87,[laughs],P08,S02 02:01:32.84,02:01:28.26,"[inaudible 2:01:28.18] That's like Old Navy territory, right there, man. Yeah.",P07,S02 02:01:32.00,02:01:31.40,Oh.,P05,S02 02:01:34.68,02:01:33.42,[noise],P07,S02 02:01:39.95,02:01:34.17,[laughs],P08,S02 02:01:54.32,02:01:38.70,"I think I told them that when you got to Dubai, all your shoes were Gucci. When you got to the U.S. All your shoes were Gucci. Do you have any shoes on now? And how we had to go out and buy you non-gucci shoes. [laughs] Yeah, that was his reaction.",P05,S02 02:01:43.65,02:01:41.69,"Got to Dubai, or got to Can- ",P06,S02 02:01:47.78,02:01:43.44,"Oh yeah, you told me that. You're like [laughs]",P07,S02 02:01:45.13,02:01:44.43,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:01:49.27,02:01:47.35,"No, but they, they all, they",P06,S02 02:01:49.08,02:01:48.20,You're like,P07,S02 02:01:51.81,02:01:49.83,non-gucci shoes.,P08,S02 02:01:54.00,02:01:50.04,"Like, they, they, they even make those, non-gucci shoes? [laughs]",P07,S02 02:02:09.03,02:01:52.77,"I didn't have, I didn't have a pair of shoes or sandals that was less than six hundred dollars. So, but then she bought me, then she bought, then she bought, then she bought me a pair of twelve dollar, twelve dollars, this is twelve dollar shoes, no, no, it's what she bought, we bought it online for twelve bucks, and I wear them everyday, I love 'em.",P06,S02 02:01:58.67,02:01:55.03,[laughs],P08,S02 02:01:56.50,02:01:55.96,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:02:00.34,02:01:55.94,[laughs] But your sister also bought all of those,P05,S02 02:02:04.71,02:01:59.25,"She was, she was like, ""Let me introduce you to Walmart."" [laughs]",P08,S02 02:02:05.66,02:02:03.06,"Yes, I was like, ""Things are cheap""",P05,S02 02:02:07.21,02:02:06.17,"Oh, did you?",P08,S02 02:02:08.08,02:02:07.16,[inaudible 2:02:07.16],P05,S02 02:02:12.27,02:02:08.25,"[laughs] You're like, ""Yes!""",P08,S02 02:02:10.06,02:02:08.62,And he loves them.,P05,S02 02:02:21.49,02:02:10.20,"So, then I bought, I bought that's the gray one, I brought the brother which is the blue one, so I got the gray and blue brothers for twelve and fourteen dollars and I wear them every day, and I'm like, ""How did I ever live without these?""",P06,S02 02:02:12.04,02:02:10.96,[inaudible 2:02:10.96],P05,S02 02:02:22.63,02:02:14.39,[laughs] Oh my god. [laughs],P08,S02 02:02:15.08,02:02:14.48,[noise],P05,S02 02:02:23.24,02:02:21.72,And I think before he g- ,P05,S02 02:02:28.93,02:02:22.27,"And she bought me a pair of seven dollar slippers from Harvey's, uh, flip-flops, f- from Harvey's, uh",P06,S02 02:02:28.34,02:02:25.20,Slippers meaning flip flops [noise],P05,S02 02:02:28.05,02:02:27.51,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:02:31.22,02:02:28.22,"Harvey, yeah. I saw those, you were wearing those last time, yeah.",P07,S02 02:02:30.80,02:02:30.02,Mhm.,P05,S02 02:02:33.41,02:02:30.05,"Yeah, like uh that's the- those are the only three things I wear now, she doesn't let me wear anything else.",P06,S02 02:02:32.64,02:02:32.14,Mm.,P07,S02 02:02:34.51,02:02:33.21,[laughs],P08,S02 02:02:41.48,02:02:33.36,"You should, you should try these. I just got these. They're the best. They're Natives. No, they're Natives. They're made of, like, feel how light they are.",P07,S02 02:02:37.78,02:02:35.40,Those look cool. No socks?,P05,S02 02:02:45.52,02:02:43.62,Wow. Native.,P05,S02 02:02:56.92,02:02:44.10,"They're, uh, they're made of blown foam. You smelling my shoes? Well, they're, they're not very old. But the th- , no, but the thing, like, they b- , they're, they're not meant to really, they're not meant to really provide much support.",P07,S02 02:02:44.85,02:02:44.17,Oh really?,P06,S02 02:02:47.27,02:02:46.07,Are they less than twenty dollars?,P06,S02 02:02:51.78,02:02:46.88,"They don't smell. Well, I'm thinking if you don't wear socks, like, that's true.",P05,S02 02:02:48.89,02:02:48.11,Hmm.,P08,S02 02:02:50.73,02:02:49.63,It depends on the feet.,P06,S02 02:02:53.99,02:02:52.99,"Oh, they're nice.",P06,S02 02:02:59.65,02:02:55.35,"Are they less than, are they [laughs] less than twenty dollars? No, [inaudible 2:02:59.00]",P06,S02 02:03:00.34,02:02:57.64,[laughs],P05,S02 02:02:58.70,02:02:57.96,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:03:01.31,02:02:58.55,"No. But they are, like, forty five.",P08,S02 02:03:02.76,02:03:01.18,"No, they were like a hundred and ten.",P07,S02 02:03:02.37,02:03:01.15,[inaudible 2:03:01.12] really?,P06,S02 02:03:05.03,02:03:02.75,"Those? No, they weren't!",P08,S02 02:03:03.92,02:03:03.46,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:03:06.32,02:03:03.42,[laughs],P05,S02 02:03:10.19,02:03:03.69,"Yeah, they, they look, they look, they look in the, they look in the hundred dollar territory. They look in the hundred dollar territory.",P06,S02 02:03:05.46,02:03:04.58,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:03:11.63,02:03:05.39,"No, they weren't. They weren't a hundred and ten. No. For rubber shoes?",P08,S02 02:03:11.72,02:03:06.38,"Yes. Yeah. They were. They, yeah, a hundred percent were. Yeah.",P07,S02 02:03:21.60,02:03:11.50,"[laughs] She's like, ""I'm back on Instagram, using our data."" [laughs] They are nice.",P05,S02 02:03:21.49,02:03:12.33,"You don't want to do that. [laughs] Clean the bottoms, they're going back. [laughs]",P08,S02 02:03:17.07,02:03:13.65,[laughs] Go return them! [laughs],P06,S02 02:03:35.48,02:03:18.42,"Yeah, but the thing i- the thing about 'em is that they're so breathable, they're so breathable that your feet never end up sticking to them, because they're, they're just not tight enough for that. They're just, they're, like, really loose. They feel like wearing a bag on your feet, but breathable. So, so consequently, they actually end up being pretty good for shorts, cuz your feet don't really sweat.",P07,S02 02:03:22.23,02:03:21.49,[inaudible 2:03:21.46],P06,S02 02:03:26.62,02:03:25.70,Oh.,P05,S02 02:03:28.76,02:03:28.08,Huh.,P05,S02 02:03:30.70,02:03:30.08,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:03:35.61,02:03:32.09,[laughs],P08,S02 02:03:41.52,02:03:33.80,"A bag. A bag's cheaper. [laughs] It was, it wa- ",P05,S02 02:03:44.59,02:03:36.25,"[laughs] Yeah, I mean, well, because most Natives are like forty five, fifty five.",P08,S02 02:03:38.30,02:03:36.46,Yeah. Yeah. That's cute.,P07,S02 02:03:39.41,02:03:37.05,[laughs],P06,S02 02:03:43.54,02:03:40.52,You thought I spent forty five bucks on these? Mm- mm.,P07,S02 02:03:43.62,02:03:42.60,[laughs],P05,S02 02:03:50.28,02:03:44.56,"That was the day that I bought three pairs of shoes, too. [laughs]",P07,S02 02:03:46.32,02:03:44.52,I've never heard of Natives.,P05,S02 02:03:50.48,02:03:47.78,[laughs] She said,P05,S02 02:03:54.97,02:03:48.13,"[laughs] No wonder you don't keep in daily accounts, right. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:03:52.58,02:03:51.06,Remember that day? R- ,P07,S02 02:03:57.87,02:03:51.61,"[inaudible 2:03:51.62] Old Navy, Old Navy sandals, that's, these are ten dollars.",P08,S02 02:03:54.72,02:03:51.68,"[laughs] Like, ""Where are the books?""",P05,S02 02:04:01.93,02:03:55.93,"That's what, that's why I keep the daily accounts. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:03:56.58,02:03:55.94,No.,P05,S02 02:03:58.16,02:03:57.76,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:04:04.75,02:03:58.65,[laughs] Hundred and ten dollars.,P08,S02 02:04:03.46,02:04:00.32,That's why I don't. [laughs],P07,S02 02:04:03.30,02:04:01.86,[laughs],P05,S02 02:04:04.48,02:04:03.88,[noise],P07,S02 02:04:07.65,02:04:04.71,"But the problem is I gotta keep 'em for me, not for her. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:04:05.82,02:04:04.80,There it is.,P05,S02 02:04:10.13,02:04:08.09,I don't spend that kinda money on shoes.,P08,S02 02:04:09.10,02:04:08.20,[inaudible 2:04:08.20],P05,S02 02:04:14.18,02:04:10.40,He's the one with all the six hundred dollar shoes. Shouldn't be looking at me.,P07,S02 02:04:23.37,02:04:12.57,"Not anymore, like, he just told me about his twelve dollar shoes. [laughs] Are they really gaudy?",P08,S02 02:04:15.34,02:04:14.62,[noise],P07,S02 02:04:22.43,02:04:14.89,"[laughs] They're still packed up over there, the side, I don't get to wear them any more, cuz she won't go out with me if I wear them, she's like",P06,S02 02:04:17.86,02:04:17.06,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:04:22.68,02:04:21.26,It's embarassing.,P05,S02 02:04:26.23,02:04:23.59,"There's a couple of them that are gaudy, but, I mean",P06,S02 02:04:38.62,02:04:25.12,"Which ones did you bring to Canada? The white? I love the flower ones, though. Those are pretty. [inaudible 2:04:31.68] have those here? No, you can't go in there. [laughs] Sit back down!",P05,S02 02:04:25.87,02:04:25.41,[inaudible 2:04:25.42],P08,S02 02:04:29.77,02:04:28.31,"Well, like, three pairs.",P06,S02 02:04:35.61,02:04:33.87,"Oh, I can't, oh",P06,S02 02:04:37.77,02:04:36.13,[laughs],P08,S02 02:04:39.59,02:04:38.59,"Yeah, they're pretty gaudy.",P06,S02 02:04:43.60,02:04:39.48,"Uh. Honey, no, some just look European.",P05,S02 02:04:42.15,02:04:39.75,Yeah. [laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 02:04:56.15,02:04:40.17,"Yeah, but that was me, right? And, and, and you think, you think mi- mine, you th- think mine are gaudy, my brother-in-law's like, like gaudy times, no, but [inaudible 2:04:47.88] yeah, my, my, my brother-in-law's like, they're all Lou Vees, like, all his shoes have like spikes on them, like there's nothing, there's nothing less than",P06,S02 02:04:50.13,02:04:46.75,"They, like, jingle when he walks. [laughs]",P08,S02 02:04:48.98,02:04:47.50,Your sister,P05,S02 02:04:55.35,02:04:54.23,[laughs],P08,S02 02:04:58.42,02:04:55.62,Yeah. yeah.,P05,S02 02:05:05.91,02:04:56.15,"Like, a grand in that, in that, in that, in that closet, and like, they actually go to the, the, they have an invi- , by-invitation sale where she'll go and buy'em [inaudible 2:05:04.66].",P06,S02 02:04:59.97,02:04:59.37,[noise],P08,S02 02:05:04.29,02:05:02.79,[noise],P08,S02 02:05:07.83,02:05:05.51,Really? Oh my god.,P08,S02 02:05:12.20,02:05:06.72,"But they also get a discount, don't they? W- ten percent or something? On Prada?",P05,S02 02:05:07.39,02:05:06.75,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:05:08.67,02:05:08.01,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:05:10.25,02:05:09.39,[inaudible 2:05:09.36],P06,S02 02:05:13.15,02:05:10.61,"Yeah, pack it in in twenty, but yeah, but, uh",P06,S02 02:05:14.61,02:05:13.25,Wow.,P08,S02 02:05:17.05,02:05:13.31,"Yeah, my, yeah, that's my sister, because my sister is like, my sister",P06,S02 02:05:21.02,02:05:15.30,"My only name brand bag is a Gucci that she bought me, so this is a sign that she loves Gucci.",P05,S02 02:05:20.03,02:05:17.11,[laughs],P08,S02 02:05:23.31,02:05:19.33,"She's like, ""What are you carrying?"" She's like, ""What are you carrying? Put this on!""",P06,S02 02:05:29.44,02:05:21.84,"Yeah. I was like, ""No name"", and she's like, ""I got you this. I was just shopping and I thought you needed something"" and I was like ""Thanks Viv"", I'm like, ""My first Gucci.""",P05,S02 02:05:24.15,02:05:23.11,[laughs],P08,S02 02:05:33.93,02:05:28.95,"Yeah, but, so that, they, it stems from my sister, so like, she's got, like, a wa- ",P06,S02 02:05:31.39,02:05:29.29,[laughs],P08,S02 02:05:32.90,02:05:32.16,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:05:34.59,02:05:33.13,"She, like, enjoys that.",P08,S02 02:05:36.73,02:05:34.85,She loves it.,P06,S02 02:05:44.76,02:05:34.88,"She has, like, a room for her shoes where they're all presented on white shelves, and all, and then purses all on, stacked on shelves. Mhm.",P05,S02 02:05:41.05,02:05:36.37,[laughs] Wow. Wow.,P08,S02 02:05:38.03,02:05:37.39,She's a r- ,P06,S02 02:05:45.41,02:05:42.03,"That's so extra. She, like, loves, that's so funny.",P08,S02 02:05:59.29,02:05:44.75,"That's a, the, yeah yeah, I mean, like, and she'll go and, like, she'll go, and, and like, I'll be at work, or when I was working, I'll be at work, and she'll be like, you know, middle of the day, she'll be sending me, ""So, which one do you want? This one, this one"" She'll go and buy like, she'll, she'll buy me shoes every second or third day, clothes, like I didn't buy any of those",P06,S02 02:05:47.88,02:05:44.76,"Mhm. Like, it's almost like walking into a store.",P05,S02 02:05:48.59,02:05:46.26,"Your mommy, though, used to be a little bit like that.",P08,S02 02:05:51.67,02:05:50.93,[laughs],P08,S02 02:05:57.57,02:05:55.21,[laughs],P08,S02 02:06:00.01,02:05:59.17,That's awesome.,P08,S02 02:06:08.77,02:05:59.34,"It's like they're all, she, she said, I like, like [inaudible 2:06:01.60] I'll like, come home, and they'll be sitting on my bed, [laughs] that's kind of cool. Like, ""Thank you for the Christmas""",P06,S02 02:06:07.35,02:06:03.81,[laughs] Thank you [laughs],P08,S02 02:06:21.19,02:06:08.45,"That's awesome. My, uh, my sister's nothing like that. [laughs] Think even forgot to buy me a Christmas gift last year. Like, she's just that kind of girl. That's funny. Wow.",P08,S02 02:06:10.47,02:06:09.73,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:06:11.78,02:06:09.88,"Oh, here's a, oh, le- ",P05,S02 02:06:14.55,02:06:12.53,"[laughs] Yeah, I love my sister.",P06,S02 02:06:13.64,02:06:12.52,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:06:17.90,02:06:17.00,[noise],P05,S02 02:06:29.17,02:06:20.23,"Yeah, last year, just, the last year Christmas, uh, Haley's like, ""Oh, you know we make Christmas lists here"", I'm like, ""I've never heard of that"", so she's like ""[inaudible 2:06:27.46] It's all the things that you want.""",P06,S02 02:06:31.77,02:06:29.29,"So, she's like ""Make one"". so I made on and I gave it to her.",P06,S02 02:06:41.73,02:06:31.77,"She sent it to my sister. My sister didn't know what that was, so she sent everything on the list. [laughs] And she sent them, she knew that we were spending Christmas in Chicago, so she sent them to Chicago, we had no clue.",P06,S02 02:06:39.99,02:06:36.07,[noise] [laughs] [noise],P08,S02 02:07:00.23,02:06:41.73,"And then suddenly she's like, ""Oh yeah, she sent every single"" so we went to mother's, like, ""There's a box that comes every single day for Abhi [inaudible 2:06:48.40] What is this? Twenty four boxes. [laughs] Everything. [inaudible 2:06:05.04] like, ""Did you tell my sister just to pick one thing? She's like, ""No, I just sent her the list. I thought she knew what a Chrismas list was.""",P06,S02 02:06:56.25,02:06:48.79,[laughs] Everything! [laughs],P08,S02 02:06:56.22,02:06:51.28,"I'm like, Abhi's sister bought everything from his list.",P05,S02 02:07:07.77,02:07:00.07,"[laughs] ""Oh, I guess he means all this. Done."" [laughs]",P08,S02 02:07:02.73,02:07:00.27,"I'm like, ""She doesn't know what, what it""",P06,S02 02:07:08.11,02:07:03.51,"[noise] So we had to, we had to",P06,S02 02:07:09.77,02:07:09.09,[noise],P06,S02 02:07:12.83,02:07:11.53,Hi. Yeah.,P06,S02 02:07:20.96,02:07:11.76,"Sorry to interrupt with my charades. I was gonna tell a story about um when, your sister's fortieth birthday we went to Portugal last year.",P05,S02 02:07:15.89,02:07:14.63,[laughs],P08,S02 02:07:25.88,02:07:20.96,"Abhi was supposed to come but he couldn't cuz of work, so, um, we had been, my",P05,S02 02:07:32.25,02:07:24.81,"Oh, work. Oh, yeah. [laughs] I I forgot what were you. Yeah.",P06,S02 02:07:36.14,02:07:26.99,"[noise] Oh work. [laughs] I had, um, been in Dubai a few weeks before",P05,S02 02:07:31.21,02:07:27.87,[laughs] Aw. Aw.,P08,S02 02:07:48.62,02:07:36.91,"We had gone to Portugal, my roommate and I had done a big trip around, and, um, we had gone out one night and the purse I had didn't match, and your sister was like, ""Go up in my room, open the closet door and take a purse, whatever you want"" or something",P05,S02 02:07:59.20,02:07:48.62,"and I just found like a nice tan, like velvet kinda one with a black d- handle, and she's like, ""Oh that's my vintage Prada, like, I love that, you, you look great or whatever, that's fun""",P05,S02 02:08:17.48,02:07:59.42,"So then the next day I, we're leaving, and I leave a pile, I go, ""Abhi, this is stuff that has to go back to your sister, like, she lent me this and this"" and he goes, ""Okay"", and then I said, ""The stuff over here is stuff I need you to bring to Portugal, but like I can't take it on the rest of my journey, and he said, ""Okay."" Well, Abhi ended up combining those two piles.",P05,S02 02:08:18.45,02:08:16.43,Oh no.,P08,S02 02:08:34.36,02:08:17.48,"So we're in Portugal and, um, his Mom was in Portugal and brought me a bag saying, ""Oh, Abhi told me this is all your stuff"". I said, ""Oh thank you"" and I'm opening it with my roommate Priscilla, and I'm like, ""Oh my gosh"", she's like, ""What?"" and I'm like, ""They gave me her vintage Prada purse.""",P05,S02 02:08:40.93,02:08:34.07,[noise] [laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 02:08:44.62,02:08:34.36,"Cuz it's in the thing with all the stuff, and she had also given me a pair of shoes which she really did, and they were, she was, had told me, ""They just don't fit me anymore, like, here have them.""",P05,S02 02:08:38.75,02:08:35.21,[laughs],P06,S02 02:08:58.92,02:08:44.62,"So the shoes were in there, the stuff I had left in Dubai was in there, and then this vintage Prada purse, and I'm like, ""That's so sweet of her"" and so I was like, ""I need to thank her"" and so she comes by, and I'm emptying out my suitcase, and she goes, ""What are you doing with my vintage Prada?""",P05,S02 02:08:59.47,02:08:57.71,[laughs],P06,S02 02:09:00.27,02:08:57.81,[laughs] [noise],P08,S02 02:09:12.98,02:08:59.34,"And I was like, ""You gave it to me?"", and she's like, ""No I didn't, I let you borrow it for one day."" And I was like, ""Oh sorry, Viv"", I was like, ""It was in the bag, Abhi gave it to me."", and she's like, ""Are you crazy? You think you can have my vintage Prada?"", I was like, ""Sorry, Viv.""",P05,S02 02:09:04.81,02:09:04.13,[laughs],P06,S02 02:09:05.71,02:09:04.65,[laughs],P08,S02 02:09:07.51,02:09:06.83,[laughs],P06,S02 02:09:14.65,02:09:09.41,I've k- [laughs] I kind of missed that.,P06,S02 02:09:15.63,02:09:09.95,[laughs],P08,S02 02:09:21.28,02:09:13.62,"Yeah, I'm like, ""It's Abhi's fault"", and she's a very scary woman, and she's just like, ""Fuck you, you don't get my vintage Prada"", like [noise]",P05,S02 02:09:17.47,02:09:16.55,[laughs],P08,S02 02:09:19.37,02:09:18.75,[noise],P06,S02 02:09:21.51,02:09:19.73,[laughs],P08,S02 02:09:22.80,02:09:20.87,"My, my sister's tough as nails.",P06,S02 02:09:25.06,02:09:22.80,Yeah. She's a tough cookie.,P05,S02 02:09:26.07,02:09:23.03,[laughs] That's awesome.,P08,S02 02:09:34.26,02:09:27.56,[noise],P05,S02 02:09:32.45,02:09:31.69,How are you doing?,P08,S02 02:09:33.25,02:09:32.55,Pretty good.,P07,S02 02:09:35.25,02:09:33.25,You get any emails that blew up?,P08,S02 02:09:37.33,02:09:35.07,"Yeah, like, my inbox's starting to fill up.",P07,S02 02:09:38.99,02:09:37.19,[laughs] It is.,P08,S02 02:09:38.46,02:09:37.26,[noise],P05,S02 02:09:39.55,02:09:38.27,"Yeah, I got about six.",P07,S02 02:09:45.27,02:09:40.49,"Six emails isn't that many. Oh. Oh, okay.",P08,S02 02:09:45.25,02:09:41.79,Things that n- things that need attention. Yeah.,P07,S02 02:09:46.72,02:09:44.56,What happens if you guys ever go somewhere without wi-fi?,P05,S02 02:09:47.83,02:09:46.97,We can't.,P07,S02 02:09:47.81,02:09:46.99,We don't.,P08,S02 02:09:51.96,02:09:48.24,"They have data. They have data, they don't need wi-fi.",P06,S02 02:09:51.90,02:09:48.50,"[laughs] Your face! ""We don't.""",P05,S02 02:09:52.49,02:09:50.29,[laughs],P08,S02 02:10:11.30,02:09:51.90,"No data or wi- , like, we, at the lake house he was staying for fourth of July my family has, we were up there, and my sister has always invited a friend who's a lawyer, and she said, ""I just, I can't be away from, like it's bad service up there"", and she's like, ""You guys don't have wi-fi?"" and I said ""No, we don't have TVs, wi-fi, service is pretty spotty, there's like one land line if you need an emergency, but""",P05,S02 02:10:12.65,02:10:10.77,That sounds like hell. I would hate that.,P07,S02 02:10:15.24,02:10:11.90,It's beautiful. It's my paradise.,P05,S02 02:10:14.51,02:10:13.37,I would hate that.,P07,S02 02:10:14.65,02:10:13.37,[inaudible 2:10:13.38],P08,S02 02:10:20.00,02:10:14.10,"It's a big, it's a big round of bullshit, because of the fact that her brother-in-law brought a wi-fi box.",P06,S02 02:10:23.44,02:10:20.54,"How were you caught chatting with me, you were connecting to Ben's wi-fi, right?",P06,S02 02:10:28.98,02:10:24.40,"Oh, because he had to for work, so I used his hot spot, yeah.",P05,S02 02:10:32.70,02:10:25.20,"S- so basi- basically he had to, he had to for work, so you will find a hot spot to get the connection that you need.",P06,S02 02:10:29.05,02:10:28.29,Mm.,P08,S02 02:10:36.80,02:10:32.46,"If you need to bring one, yeah. But I was thinking, ""I'm so happy that""",P05,S02 02:10:39.38,02:10:33.36,"If you need to, like, beca- I can't be, stay disconnected from the world for so long, I mean it's like, that's",P06,S02 02:10:35.03,02:10:33.77,"If you need it, yeah.",P08,S02 02:10:45.40,02:10:38.38,"You can't? You, jobless, can't? Like, w- w- why do you need to connect to anything?",P05,S02 02:10:43.51,02:10:41.37,[laughs],P08,S02 02:10:50.32,02:10:42.28,"I still, I mean, I still need to watch YouTube or do something, I mean, like, I can't be without, without the internet.",P06,S02 02:10:56.62,02:10:50.34,We might have to break up. [laughs] That's it. You can't live without internet.,P05,S02 02:10:55.91,02:10:51.67,[laughs],P08,S02 02:10:53.85,02:10:53.25,Oh.,P07,S02 02:10:54.68,02:10:53.44,That's it.,P06,S02 02:10:57.86,02:10:57.14,You know.,P06,S02 02:11:04.47,02:10:57.23,"But I also choo- , I also choose a profession that requires me all the time. I like to feel needed, and, uh, and I l- , I like being attached.",P07,S02 02:10:59.08,02:10:57.72,Let's just go camping.,P05,S02 02:11:02.36,02:11:01.60,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:11:07.60,02:11:03.84,Can you please name a profession today that doesn't require you to be connected?,P06,S02 02:11:05.14,02:11:04.40,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:11:08.46,02:11:07.66,Hair stylist.,P05,S02 02:11:09.93,02:11:08.77,Hair stylist.,P07,S02 02:11:10.97,02:11:09.07,[laughs] [inaudible 2:11:09.84],P08,S02 02:11:12.58,02:11:09.50,Oh yeah. Take your bookings. Take your bookings.,P06,S02 02:11:11.50,02:11:10.56,Manicures.,P05,S02 02:11:17.29,02:11:12.53,"Nah. Th- , i- , this is the stylist, not the booking person. [laughs]",P07,S02 02:11:14.24,02:11:13.40,Well,P05,S02 02:11:18.44,02:11:15.23,"Between, yeah, or between nine to five.",P05,S02 02:11:18.52,02:11:15.54,"[laughs] No, but, I, I said name a business.",P06,S02 02:11:18.21,02:11:16.63,"No, but it isn't really",P08,S02 02:11:21.78,02:11:18.52,"Or a profession, uh, either thing.",P06,S02 02:11:23.57,02:11:18.81,"Um. Um. Maybe, uh, trailer park maintenance man.",P07,S02 02:11:22.76,02:11:20.58,"Only nine to five, not after.",P05,S02 02:11:26.43,02:11:23.03,[laughs],P08,S02 02:11:37.61,02:11:23.79,"[noise] Cuz none of those guys are online. I don't. I contact the park, the park ma- I contact the park manager, and the park manager finds 'em. Drives around, no, drives around the park.",P07,S02 02:11:28.34,02:11:24.38,"How do you con- How, how do you contact them to go do his maintenance jobs?",P06,S02 02:11:31.42,02:11:29.18,"You got a bad name this, man.",P06,S02 02:11:35.68,02:11:34.10,How? With pigeon?,P06,S02 02:11:38.80,02:11:36.06,[laughs] Carrier pigeon.,P05,S02 02:11:39.32,02:11:36.90,[laughs],P06,S02 02:11:39.33,02:11:37.87,[laughs],P08,S02 02:11:40.76,02:11:39.90,The fireworks.,P05,S02 02:11:51.66,02:11:40.80,"You almost need to be connected for anything. But I'm just saying, like, some people are more addicted, some people are more addicted to it, and some people are less addicted to it. I'm not addicted to it, but I'd like to watch a show, or I mean, like",P06,S02 02:11:45.47,02:11:43.39,"Most things, yeah.",P08,S02 02:11:47.63,02:11:46.81,[noise],P07,S02 02:11:50.23,02:11:47.03,"You know I, [noise] you like to have it.",P08,S02 02:11:49.13,02:11:48.77,[noise],P07,S02 02:11:56.67,02:11:50.81,"I'm on the high level of addiction, I'd say. H- h- high end, no, no, no, I mean addicted to my phone.",P07,S02 02:11:53.79,02:11:52.05,"You know, I had it, um",P08,S02 02:11:54.54,02:11:53.08,"Yeah, you guys are Netflix people, right?",P06,S02 02:11:57.89,02:11:54.73,Yeah. [laughs] Oh yeah.,P08,S02 02:11:58.22,02:11:54.82,"[laughs] ""Oh yeah."" [laughs]",P05,S02 02:11:57.72,02:11:56.56,[inaudible 2:11:56.52],P06,S02 02:11:58.37,02:11:57.77,[noise],P07,S02 02:12:00.64,02:11:58.96,Oh. You're good.,P05,S02 02:12:01.80,02:12:00.64,"Um, but",P06,S02 02:12:04.63,02:12:00.95,"We, um, we, we definitely like some video streaming services.",P08,S02 02:12:06.58,02:12:04.30,[laughs],P05,S02 02:12:09.96,02:12:04.78,"Uh, [laughs], of non- , of the non-pornographic type. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:12:10.53,02:12:05.27,For sure. [laughs] Right. Mhm.,P08,S02 02:12:11.38,02:12:08.86,[laughs] Does Netflix have that?,P05,S02 02:12:12.14,02:12:11.00,"What are you guys watching, now?",P06,S02 02:12:15.63,02:12:12.13,"Mm, Mindy Project. Yeah. Mhm.",P08,S02 02:12:14.85,02:12:14.17,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:12:19.42,02:12:14.30,"Mindy? I never got into Mindy's show. I mean, I started watching a little bit of it, but",P06,S02 02:12:18.03,02:12:17.05,"Oh, like",P08,S02 02:12:22.91,02:12:18.83,"Mhm. She's quirky, and I like the humor, it's like",P08,S02 02:12:27.95,02:12:23.93,"[noise] It's based on, like, what they're saying, like, you know what I mean? But",P08,S02 02:12:25.99,02:12:24.53,Kind of self-deprecatory.,P07,S02 02:12:29.02,02:12:26.38,"Yeah. I never got it. I mean, I I watched it b- ",P06,S02 02:12:29.40,02:12:28.18,Do you watch New Girl?,P05,S02 02:12:31.59,02:12:29.99,"I haven't, no, not really.",P08,S02 02:12:33.96,02:12:31.02,"Start it, it's really good. Yeah. I mean",P06,S02 02:12:32.57,02:12:31.89,It's good?,P08,S02 02:12:35.56,02:12:32.12,"Yeah. I like New Girl. Deschanel, yeah.",P05,S02 02:12:40.69,02:12:32.73,"Isn't that with Zooey Deschanel? She's too adorable to be to, to be, like, a funny character, I think. Is she?",P07,S02 02:12:37.61,02:12:35.17,"You know, I saw a picture of her without, with",P08,S02 02:12:48.64,02:12:38.46,"Sh- you know what, surprisingly, like I thought th- I was so skeptical about it, because I'm very conventional in com- I mean, there's a lot of, I'm very difficult to please, comedy-wise.",P06,S02 02:12:40.50,02:12:38.72,"She's funny, though.",P05,S02 02:12:46.76,02:12:44.66,"I know, I'm like, ""We gotta finish'em.""",P05,S02 02:12:49.09,02:12:48.29,Mm.,P07,S02 02:12:50.51,02:12:48.25,[laughs] Mhm.,P08,S02 02:12:49.66,02:12:48.58,[noise],P05,S02 02:12:55.84,02:12:48.64,"Or comically. Um, but yeah, I mean, we've been watching it, we're on season two right now. It is, it is good.",P06,S02 02:12:54.04,02:12:53.08,She's funny.,P05,S02 02:12:55.09,02:12:54.39,Mm.,P07,S02 02:13:03.51,02:12:55.79,"What's your favorite type of comedy? Like, what would be your, what's your favorite? Oh yeah, we like Seinfeld. Mhm.",P08,S02 02:13:16.02,02:12:59.24,"Seinfeld. Uh, Seinfeld, Friends, I mean, Friends, conventional, I love. Arrested Development. Yeah. I love Arrested. Uh, but there was a new show they made which was exactly like Arrested Development, last year, wat- uh we watched, uh, brilliant.",P06,S02 02:13:01.80,02:12:59.82,Friends. [noise],P05,S02 02:13:09.31,02:13:07.07,Arrested Development is the best.,P08,S02 02:13:08.65,02:13:07.99,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:13:11.07,02:13:10.35,[laughs],P08,S02 02:13:18.32,02:13:16.02,"Our favorite show, the Murderboard.",P06,S02 02:13:20.52,02:13:18.14,"Murderboard, um.",P05,S02 02:13:20.32,02:13:19.12,What's the name of the show?,P06,S02 02:13:25.08,02:13:21.16,"Um, I, blanking as well, it is",P05,S02 02:13:28.64,02:13:24.28,"It's brilliant. It's, it is the new age Arrested Development. It's brilliant.",P06,S02 02:13:30.20,02:13:26.52,"Um, something about clues. Trial and Error.",P05,S02 02:13:27.93,02:13:27.09,Really?,P08,S02 02:13:34.19,02:13:27.21,"Really? Because they tried remaking Arrested Development, and i- it wasn't as good. Trial and Error. No. Hmm.",P07,S02 02:13:30.80,02:13:30.02,Trial and Error.,P06,S02 02:13:33.13,02:13:30.73,Trial and Er- I've never even heard of it. No.,P08,S02 02:13:33.64,02:13:31.78,Have you seen it? It's brilliant.,P06,S02 02:13:38.86,02:13:33.08,"It's only had one season, but it is sim- it's similar to The Office humour, though, I would say.",P05,S02 02:13:34.93,02:13:33.65,Mhm. Wow.,P08,S02 02:13:35.92,02:13:34.08,"One season, we're on, like, las- ",P06,S02 02:13:45.00,02:13:37.38,"Yeah, but, Arrested, yeah, yeah, but that's where, I love Office, like, Ricky Gervais, O- Office, I love, I love Ricky.",P06,S02 02:13:42.75,02:13:41.09,"Yeah, The Office, yes.",P08,S02 02:13:43.23,02:13:42.47,Mhm.,P07,S02 02:13:44.59,02:13:44.01,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:13:53.18,02:13:45.26,"I think Ricky's brilliant. Chappelle I can take him in small doses, I can't take Chappelle, uh, uh you know",P06,S02 02:13:53.26,02:13:52.52,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:13:55.37,02:13:52.71,Do you like Louis CK? Louis CK.,P08,S02 02:13:54.42,02:13:53.84,Sorry?,P06,S02 02:14:02.62,02:13:55.36,"Uh, I mean, I don't like his show. I like his stand up better than his show, his show is a little too much for me. Really intense.",P06,S02 02:13:59.75,02:13:58.73,"Oh, really.",P07,S02 02:13:59.51,02:13:58.83,Oh yeah.,P08,S02 02:14:04.61,02:14:00.26,"His show is, like, really, it's intense, but we, I liked it.",P08,S02 02:14:04.28,02:14:03.02,Mhm.,P05,S02 02:14:05.16,02:14:03.06,Yeah. Yeah.,P06,S02 02:14:05.21,02:14:04.71,Mhm.,P07,S02 02:14:09.47,02:14:05.23,"It's very, like, um, yeah, it's intense. It's insightful.",P08,S02 02:14:16.23,02:14:07.96,"We saw him live in Vancouver. We saw him live in Vancouver. Uh, Louis CK. Yeah, it's, it's the best. It's, I think it's, yeah, it's the best. Yeah.",P07,S02 02:14:09.80,02:14:07.96,[inaudible 2:14:07.92] Sorry?,P06,S02 02:14:11.20,02:14:10.54,Oh cool.,P05,S02 02:14:11.20,02:14:10.64,Yeah?,P06,S02 02:14:13.21,02:14:11.49,"His stand-up, too, is really funny to us.",P08,S02 02:14:14.35,02:14:13.59,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:14:14.04,02:14:13.64,Mhm.,P05,S02 02:14:29.08,02:14:14.07,"Yeah, no, I, his, his stand up's brilliant. But I'm just saying his show wasn't very good. I didn't like the, I mean, I watched one where, like, he forgets his keys, and it was, like, really, I dunno, I didn't get it. I mean, the, it's dark, and like, I was like, I didn't find the humor, there was a couple of episodes I didn't really find the humor in.",P06,S02 02:14:16.25,02:14:15.61,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:14:19.15,02:14:18.43,Mhm.,P07,S02 02:14:25.53,02:14:23.13,"It's dark. Like, i- it's a bit dark.",P08,S02 02:14:28.01,02:14:26.85,[laughs],P08,S02 02:14:36.52,02:14:29.08,"And I love his stand up, so I think he's a, I think he's a, but I think that's where his art, you know, lies, is in stand up. Um.",P06,S02 02:14:30.81,02:14:29.19,Yeah. Yeah.,P08,S02 02:14:34.57,02:14:33.79,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:14:40.50,02:14:36.80,"Yeah, that's the kind of, uh, um.",P06,S02 02:14:39.19,02:14:38.03,"Yeah, I, yeah.",P08,S02 02:14:47.64,02:14:40.50,"So more, like, not conventional, not run of the mill. I mean, like, I'll watch Modern Family, but it's not my, it's not my thing.",P06,S02 02:14:43.69,02:14:42.27,"Like, irreverent sort of",P08,S02 02:14:46.47,02:14:45.75,"Yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 02:14:48.40,02:14:47.80,I like Mo- ,P05,S02 02:14:49.94,02:14:48.28,You know. I love Family Guy.,P06,S02 02:14:53.09,02:14:48.69,"I like Modern Family, too. Hmm? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I like all those.",P08,S02 02:14:53.58,02:14:50.52,I love Family Guy. I think Family Guy's brilliant.,P06,S02 02:14:57.90,02:14:53.46,"I think you're just naming every comedy show. I said, I think you're just naming every comedy.",P05,S02 02:14:55.68,02:14:55.22,Sorry?,P06,S02 02:14:59.87,02:14:55.69,[laughs],P08,S02 02:14:58.86,02:14:57.40,"No, no. I left out a lot of them.",P06,S02 02:15:01.50,02:14:58.74,"Which, okay, let's name the non-funny.",P05,S02 02:15:07.97,02:15:01.47,Big Bang Theory. It's not that funny to me. Do you? [laughs],P08,S02 02:15:11.46,02:15:03.40,"Oh I like Big Bang Theory. I didn't use to. My sister's like ""I li- "". She's like, ""I don't like this show, but every""",P05,S02 02:15:15.60,02:15:09.48,"[inaudible 2:15:09.44] you gotta, baby. Sorry. I'm just taking some, maybe we should cut this part out.",P06,S02 02:15:14.90,02:15:13.02,[laughs],P05,S02 02:15:22.74,02:15:16.44,"Oh. Yeah. Well, I don't know what else to [laughs]",P05,S02 02:15:19.82,02:15:17.28,"Or they'll add, they'll add.",P06,S02 02:15:18.67,02:15:17.71,Oh.,P08,S02 02:15:22.62,02:15:21.06,Oh. [laughs],P06,S02 02:15:25.19,02:15:21.83,"[laughs] But I, I h- I hear you. Yep.",P08,S02 02:15:25.40,02:15:24.68,Mm.,P06,S02 02:15:30.69,02:15:25.81,"I think we probably share similar humors, in that all the shows that you mentioned, I like.",P08,S02 02:15:28.24,02:15:27.76,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:15:33.80,02:15:29.78,We went and saw um a movie yesterday. Yesterday?,P06,S02 02:15:33.13,02:15:31.91,[laughs],P08,S02 02:15:43.50,02:15:34.28,"Tuesday. And so now we found out Tuesday is discount night. Mhm. All of them, apparently. Abhi said it's since when he was a kid, he said",P05,S02 02:15:36.56,02:15:35.44,Yesterday?,P06,S02 02:15:39.39,02:15:37.17,"Oh, really? At which theater?",P08,S02 02:15:42.08,02:15:40.04,"Supposedly, yeah, all theatres.",P06,S02 02:15:41.97,02:15:41.27,What?,P08,S02 02:15:51.96,02:15:42.72,"When I was a kid I remember it used to be half price Tuesdays, so I told Haze, that's like, ""Maybe it's still"". It's forty percent off, yeah. A normal movie is seven fifty.",P06,S02 02:15:45.87,02:15:45.23,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:15:56.60,02:15:46.48,Here it's like forty percent off now or something. Mhm. On a Tuesday. And if you have a Scene card membership you get an extra ten percent off that and food and drink. Mm- mm.,P05,S02 02:15:51.11,02:15:48.47,What? Wow.,P08,S02 02:15:56.03,02:15:54.95,You're kidding!,P08,S02 02:15:56.56,02:15:55.86,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:16:05.08,02:15:57.04,"And once you go to nine movies, you get the tenth movie free. [laughs] Uh no, it's just the Scene membership card, the points one.",P05,S02 02:15:58.74,02:15:58.36,[inaudible 2:15:58.32],P06,S02 02:16:10.77,02:15:59.57,"[noise] Is that the Scene credit card? Oh. Okay, good. Cuz, cuz that's a waste of points. You should definitely put it in [inaudible 2:16:07.00] for sure.",P07,S02 02:16:01.69,02:16:00.11,Wow- a,P08,S02 02:16:05.08,02:16:04.08,Membership card.,P06,S02 02:16:08.61,02:16:06.89,[laughs],P08,S02 02:16:12.80,02:16:08.04,"No. Definitely not points, or I mean not credit points with that, just regular.",P05,S02 02:16:09.34,02:16:08.84,No.,P06,S02 02:16:12.90,02:16:11.66,"But I me- yeah, so",P06,S02 02:16:14.33,02:16:11.65,Wow. Jesse.,P08,S02 02:16:21.85,02:16:11.79,"Wh- who has, who has them? Doesn't, like, Jesse? Jesse's got, like, a Scene credit card. [laughs] I was making fun of him for it. I was like, ""Can't you think of any better place to put points?"" Yeah.",P07,S02 02:16:16.63,02:16:15.69,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:16:20.50,02:16:17.66,Does he go to movies a lot? Oh.,P05,S02 02:16:30.17,02:16:19.29,"No. He, he had to pick, he had to pick one, and he was like, ""Well, it was either, like, White Spot,"" I'm sorry, a national Canadian burger chain, ""Or""",P08,S02 02:16:21.66,02:16:20.02,That's a horrible point place.,P06,S02 02:16:23.10,02:16:21.58,Hmm. Oh.,P05,S02 02:16:27.03,02:16:26.25,[noise],P07,S02 02:16:26.68,02:16:26.22,[noise],P06,S02 02:16:28.22,02:16:26.62,What's White S- oh.,P05,S02 02:16:32.82,02:16:29.10,"I saw it! I didn't even know what it was. It's not, but it",P06,S02 02:16:32.57,02:16:31.27,"Yeah. yeah, it's burgers.",P08,S02 02:16:38.97,02:16:32.77,"It's a casual dining restaurant. It's, like, the Canadian Applebee's. Yeah. it's a Vancouver chain. It's like the Vancouver",P07,S02 02:16:47.36,02:16:32.99,"But, but it's, i- is it a West Coast thing? Cuz I didn't grow up with, it's a Vancouver chain. So it's not a Canad- it's a more a Vanc- What? But not East Coast. Because I'd n- I'd n- I'd never heard of it till I saw it di- like driving, and then I saw another one, and said, ""It looks like a bar and grill.""",P06,S02 02:16:36.48,02:16:35.60,[noise],P05,S02 02:16:42.89,02:16:38.09,"And it's also in Alberta. It's in Alberta, too. No, it's Western Canada.",P08,S02 02:16:50.09,02:16:47.49,Yeah. They make delicious burgers.,P07,S02 02:16:52.53,02:16:47.89,"Yeah, it's not really a grill. It's mostly burgers, and then they'll have some, like, stir fry.",P08,S02 02:16:50.98,02:16:50.38,Yeah?,P06,S02 02:17:00.73,02:16:52.07,"No, it's not mostly burgers. It's, like, they're famous for their burgers, but they're, it's like a casual dining restaurant. You can go there for anything. The burgers are great, yeah.",P07,S02 02:16:53.04,02:16:52.58,Okay.,P06,S02 02:16:56.22,02:16:55.56,"Okay, it's a",P06,S02 02:17:01.22,02:16:57.56,"Okay. Burgers are good? Okay, I wanna try it out.",P06,S02 02:17:00.91,02:16:59.31,Yep. Yeah.,P08,S02 02:17:03.10,02:17:01.46,White Spot?,P05,S02 02:17:06.56,02:17:01.55,"I saw, there's one, there's, yeah, I s- there's one uh, on, uh, Pender, here.",P06,S02 02:17:18.17,02:17:06.53,"It, uh, it t- , it tends to appeal to old people, because, you know, you can go there and have, like, low priced soup. [laughs] Yeah, yeah, they definitely do, and so, like, they, they",P07,S02 02:17:07.98,02:17:06.76,[noise],P05,S02 02:17:16.48,02:17:12.74,[noise] I like soup.,P05,S02 02:17:16.49,02:17:12.81,[laughs] Yeah.,P08,S02 02:17:15.62,02:17:12.90,[laughs] They have an early bird special?,P06,S02 02:17:22.42,02:17:17.03,"Oh, I guess, so you would, then we'll go and have soup, and it's low priced, you like low priced. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:17:21.52,02:17:20.02,"Yeah, I like low priced.",P05,S02 02:17:28.43,02:17:20.37,"They have inadvertently, they have inadvertently attracted a s- , a loyal following of octogenarians that go there, depending on the market.",P07,S02 02:17:26.34,02:17:25.94,Huh.,P05,S02 02:17:32.66,02:17:28.32,Dinner at four? Happy hour dinner four to five? [laughs],P05,S02 02:17:32.85,02:17:29.55,Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.,P07,S02 02:17:34.05,02:17:29.77,Yes. Exactly. Exactly. Yeah.,P08,S02 02:17:34.74,02:17:34.40,[noise],P05,S02 02:17:41.73,02:17:34.93,"Pretty good. But, how are you guys enjoying Vancouver now that you've been here a little while?",P08,S02 02:17:37.70,02:17:37.10,[noise],P05,S02 02:17:43.20,02:17:42.44,Oh yeah.,P05,S02 02:17:44.90,02:17:43.78,"It's, um",P06,S02 02:17:46.48,02:17:45.18,I think it will be different.,P05,S02 02:17:47.13,02:17:45.33,"The smoke is crazy right now, huh?",P08,S02 02:17:49.85,02:17:46.99,"It's never like this. For me, it's not usually like this.",P07,S02 02:17:55.73,02:17:48.05,"It, well, on, on West Van, like, the, it looks like it's foggy out, and it's just all smoke from the forest fires. yeah.",P08,S02 02:17:50.74,02:17:50.02,What are you,P05,S02 02:17:56.66,02:17:53.14,"That's, really? Oh wow.",P05,S02 02:17:55.26,02:17:54.16,The fires?,P06,S02 02:17:57.92,02:17:55.98,"We haven't r- , we haven't felt it over here.",P06,S02 02:17:56.55,02:17:56.09,And,P08,S02 02:17:58.49,02:17:57.95,Mm.,P07,S02 02:18:00.45,02:17:57.99,It's super orange out. Weird.,P08,S02 02:18:00.90,02:17:59.46,Oh.,P05,S02 02:18:02.62,02:17:59.76,"Here it's been super clear. I'm sorry guys, if there's",P06,S02 02:18:08.25,02:18:02.53,"Mm. All right. Anybody having that last cookie. Did you have, did you have two pieces?",P07,S02 02:18:04.57,02:18:03.69,"No, go ahead.",P08,S02 02:18:06.76,02:18:05.64,Then you got it.,P05,S02 02:18:06.78,02:18:05.74,I wanna try yours.,P06,S02 02:18:07.66,02:18:06.80,Go for it.,P08,S02 02:18:15.16,02:18:08.06,"It goes in your belly. [laughs] I had one, so I think I gave you some. [laughs]",P05,S02 02:18:11.00,02:18:08.88,But then I'll have four. [noise],P06,S02 02:18:10.95,02:18:10.33,All right.,P07,S02 02:18:14.86,02:18:10.78,[laughs],P08,S02 02:18:15.45,02:18:14.97,Mmm.,P07,S02 02:18:16.16,02:18:15.38,Mmm.,P06,S02 02:18:23.18,02:18:15.86,Vanilla cookie was good. We like it. I think it'll just be different once we get more involved and have a schedule.,P05,S02 02:18:18.76,02:18:18.18,Mm.,P08,S02 02:18:19.08,02:18:18.58,Mmm.,P06,S02 02:18:23.74,02:18:23.02,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:18:27.76,02:18:23.40,Cuz I think a lot of it's just filling time and,P05,S02 02:18:32.58,02:18:27.08,"I- it's, yeah, it's in a, it's in a, it's in a stage where, I mean it's swinging, I mean now",P06,S02 02:18:29.30,02:18:27.22,"Yeah, figuring out what to do, and",P08,S02 02:18:44.34,02:18:33.88,"It's positive, I mean. It is positive, but exactly what she says, like, if there's more permanence, and if we can get our own place which is our, ours, and",P06,S02 02:18:35.98,02:18:35.12,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:18:58.24,02:18:44.34,"You know what I mean, be where we wanna be, and make the commitments, we can't make the commitments right now, so you know what I mean? We're kind of carless, we're kind of. We don't wanna make the commitments, either, so, at, at this moment, so we're in that, like, in that, in that awkward zone right now.",P06,S02 02:18:45.08,02:18:44.28,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:18:47.96,02:18:46.24,Bring my car up.,P05,S02 02:18:51.62,02:18:49.16,"Right. Yeah, you're in limbo a little bit.",P08,S02 02:18:52.20,02:18:51.52,Yeah.,P05,S02 02:18:54.58,02:18:54.00,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:18:56.68,02:18:55.34,It's that awkward limbo.,P05,S02 02:18:57.10,02:18:56.44,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:19:03.87,02:18:57.47,Yeah. You guys are kind of like on friends probation with us. [laughs],P07,S02 02:18:58.60,02:18:58.24,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:19:03.74,02:19:01.06,Exactly. Exactly. [inaudible 2:19:02.60] Yeah.,P06,S02 02:19:15.08,02:19:01.60,"Friends probation. Oh, I get it. [laughs] And then you're gonna break our hearts. [laughs]",P05,S02 02:19:16.37,02:19:04.09,"Like, like, we wanna be, like we wanna be your friends, but we don't wanna double down too far, because we know that you might leave, and, you know [laughs] You're gonna break our, you're gonna break our hearts, exactly. [noise]",P07,S02 02:19:22.12,02:19:08.26,"[laughs] Okay, so, I don't feel like that at all. [laughs]",P08,S02 02:19:09.42,02:19:08.62,[noise],P06,S02 02:19:16.00,02:19:14.44,Exactly. That's ex- ,P06,S02 02:19:21.32,02:19:16.58,[laughs] Opposition.,P05,S02 02:19:32.63,02:19:17.79,"You're like a, we're, like, like, being friends with you, Abhi, is like adopting a puppy with, like, a possibly fatal illness. [laughs] You know? And the puppy may die at any moment, but he may live, and you just don't know, and",P07,S02 02:19:20.34,02:19:19.90,[noise],P06,S02 02:19:28.86,02:19:22.70,[laughs],P08,S02 02:19:32.08,02:19:24.96,[laughs],P05,S02 02:19:28.36,02:19:26.00,I can see that. I can see that.,P06,S02 02:19:35.18,02:19:31.64,"And if he does live, he'll be the greatest puppy ever. [laughs]",P06,S02 02:19:36.88,02:19:32.63,"And, and you, right, right, exac- exactly, and you're",P07,S02 02:19:45.98,02:19:33.54,[laughs] Right. [laughs],P08,S02 02:19:45.38,02:19:33.70,"[laughs] Play with me, play with me! [laughs] Aw. Hey, dude, do you wanna go chase cars together? [noise]",P05,S02 02:19:39.00,02:19:35.98,"He'd be, He'd be like an Arm- be like an Armani.",P06,S02 02:19:43.26,02:19:38.41,"Right. Yeah. You're a little bit r- you're a little bit reluctant to let that puppy lick your face too much, cuz",P07,S02 02:19:43.86,02:19:43.36,[noise],P06,S02 02:20:01.38,02:19:45.06,"But, uh, yeah, I'm, uh, kind of, uh, so we're kind of there. So even when we went and we were looking at places, uh, we saw a place in Olympic, we saw a place in W- , the West End, we saw a place Downtown, we saw all these great places",P06,S02 02:19:47.92,02:19:46.56,That's funny.,P08,S02 02:19:48.28,02:19:47.22,[laughs] That is funny.,P05,S02 02:19:49.14,02:19:48.38,[laughs],P07,S02 02:19:51.50,02:19:50.84,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:19:59.40,02:19:58.64,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:20:17.72,02:20:02.00,"But which are, you know, places where, because now they're, like, you know, short term and furnished, the prices are higher than if we were to just get our own place in the same building, and you know, sign a year lease, and, and furnished, and f- and so",P06,S02 02:20:11.60,02:20:11.08,Sure.,P08,S02 02:20:14.60,02:20:12.44,Right. Sign a year lease. Mm.,P07,S02 02:20:34.26,02:20:17.72,"We made a conscious decision when we were doing that, all right, we're gonna move into the one downstairs, not do that till we're, you know what I mean? Because otherwise it would be stupid, you know, it'd, di- didn't, so this you know, the, that would be exciting, Haley could be in the West End where she wants to be, we could, all these things could, could happen, so, it's just a matter of time.",P06,S02 02:20:24.50,02:20:23.64,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:20:31.04,02:20:30.26,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:20:35.18,02:20:34.46,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:20:47.08,02:20:34.56,"Right, so, I- once, once, our, our, our, um, if it happens or if it doesn't happen, you know? S- and so, know what I mean? There's those, those things, she doesn't have her car, because we don't want to go through the, uh",P06,S02 02:20:41.96,02:20:38.02,"And I'm getting more used to this area, and it's not bad.",P05,S02 02:20:42.02,02:20:41.36,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:20:59.02,02:20:47.08,"Driving your car and bringing your car over here till, so we're in a little, there's a little bit of unstable ground. Uh, at least when we were in Texas, it was her home.",P06,S02 02:20:55.38,02:20:54.50,Limbo.,P05,S02 02:20:55.72,02:20:54.96,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:21:03.46,02:20:59.62,Yeah. Right. Yeah.,P08,S02 02:21:06.80,02:20:59.72,"This is neither of our home. [laughs] You know what I mean? She had her friends, she had her car, we had things to do.",P06,S02 02:21:16.28,02:21:06.80,"Uh, here, yeah, here it's, you know, it's brand new on both sides, and, uh, I mean, I keep busy, she keeps busy, I mean, we're, we're really good that way",P06,S02 02:21:08.86,02:21:06.80,Yeah. So it's all brand new.,P08,S02 02:21:11.70,02:21:10.98,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:21:32.58,02:21:16.28,"In keeping busy as in, uh, we're active minds, we cannot sit down and just, like, and veg. Like, you know what I mean? Even if we sit down, we'll be doing something. Like, we'll be, she'll be [inaudible 2:21:28.30] on her laptop, I'll be [inaudible 2:21:29.60] on my laptop, we'll go through, sign up for some volunteer stuff, we'll",P06,S02 02:21:23.60,02:21:22.96,Veg.,P08,S02 02:21:24.98,02:21:24.26,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:21:42.10,02:21:32.94,"Sign up for some activities to do, we'll decide that, all right, we're gonna work till X Y Z, and then go and do a hike or go for a walk, or, go out and do, like you know",P06,S02 02:21:41.40,02:21:40.52,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:21:57.26,02:21:40.68,"It's like the days that we spend the whole day in the apartment I get very antsy, and, like, I feel like I haven't burned any energy and I feel like I haven't s- breathed outside. Like, that was the day when I was like, ""I'm just gonna ride this bike in here."" Like, I just need some, something to do.",P05,S02 02:21:45.66,02:21:44.80,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:21:49.78,02:21:48.84,Right.,P07,S02 02:21:50.38,02:21:49.46,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:21:52.86,02:21:52.18,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:22:05.40,02:21:55.76,"She goes, she goes, she goes, she goes, she goes a little, she goes a little fucking cuckoo, so [laughs] you got, you gotta get her, you gotta get her out before the crazy comes out.",P06,S02 02:22:01.24,02:21:56.20,"And it's the summertime. You wanna be outside. You know, it's beautiful. [noise]",P07,S02 02:21:59.68,02:21:58.02,"Right, right.",P05,S02 02:21:59.40,02:21:58.08,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:22:01.20,02:22:00.16,[laughs],P05,S02 02:22:05.92,02:22:00.38,[laughs] Before the crazy.,P08,S02 02:22:10.86,02:22:01.86,"[laughs] And I, I don't allow TV or, like, shows until evening.",P05,S02 02:22:05.16,02:22:04.44,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:22:14.08,02:22:05.52,"Before the crazy comes out, and in Texas it's, you know, in Texas it's d- the car is right there, we'll just take it and go to one of the mountains, or not mountains, one of the hills, and hike",P06,S02 02:22:08.78,02:22:07.70,[noise],P08,S02 02:22:14.92,02:22:14.00,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:22:14.50,02:22:13.92,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:22:24.46,02:22:14.08,"Or we'll, you know, go X Y Z, or we'll go to aerial yoga, or we'll go to power yoga, or we'll go here, we haven't found those things yet, you know what I mean? And we're, we're, we're, we're, we're getting there.",P06,S02 02:22:23.30,02:22:21.36,Right. Yeah.,P08,S02 02:22:31.04,02:22:23.52,"And it's hard, too, when you're trying to like, crunch every penny and all that, but, yeah, or it's like you wanna get involved, but",P05,S02 02:22:30.10,02:22:26.98,"Right, yeah, you're saving at the same time, so it's harder to",P08,S02 02:22:34.84,02:22:28.38,"Yeah, I mean, and also, yeah, the fact that you know, now it's like rent there, rent here, expense, you know, like, there's v- ",P06,S02 02:22:35.00,02:22:34.04,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:22:37.90,02:22:34.42,"Now we pay for the rent downstair- like, three months rent was",P05,S02 02:22:37.34,02:22:35.56,[inaudible 2:22:35.52],P06,S02 02:22:39.32,02:22:37.22,"Wait, how, how much overlap is there?",P07,S02 02:22:41.90,02:22:39.74,"I mean, I still have my place till April.",P05,S02 02:22:43.10,02:22:39.78,"Until, t- un- til April next year.",P06,S02 02:22:48.38,02:22:41.80,"No, I mean, I mean bet- between this one and the one downstairs. Oh, okay. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.",P07,S02 02:22:47.48,02:22:43.36,"Oh. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, he's, she's talking about in Texas.",P08,S02 02:22:51.52,02:22:44.14,"No, I wo- , no overlap. No overlap, it's just that we committed, it's just that we just committed that one and we paid, two mon- we paid two months.",P06,S02 02:22:58.96,02:22:44.94,"Oh no. No, but also we paid deposit for that one, so we had to pay that one two days ago, we had to pay this one two days ago, and we had to pay Texas two days ago. So like all these charges, too, and yeah.",P05,S02 02:22:50.72,02:22:49.00,Oh.,P08,S02 02:22:52.58,02:22:49.80,"Right, right. I see. Okay.",P07,S02 02:22:55.06,02:22:53.32,I see. Wow.,P07,S02 02:22:54.78,02:22:53.68,We paid the Texas one.,P06,S02 02:22:56.58,02:22:55.16,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:22:59.60,02:22:55.80,"We paid five, five months in one, like, one, it just feels like money's going out.",P06,S02 02:22:58.10,02:22:57.22,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:23:00.88,02:22:58.88,Can you not sublet your place in Texas?,P08,S02 02:23:00.02,02:22:59.20,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:23:02.10,02:23:00.78,He's gonna remain in Texas.,P06,S02 02:23:13.58,02:23:01.58,"I have a roommate that, and all my, like, [noise] you know, and I haven't done, yeah, and it's clean, but, like, there would be no room in the closet. Like, I'd have to go back, pack everything up, like, post photos, sublet",P05,S02 02:23:03.34,02:23:02.32,"Oh, right.",P08,S02 02:23:06.68,02:23:04.82,All your stuff is there.,P08,S02 02:23:09.46,02:23:08.82,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:23:11.96,02:23:11.04,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:23:15.60,02:23:12.32,"Plus she's not mentally come to terms with this being her home, yet.",P06,S02 02:23:16.26,02:23:15.58,"Yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 02:23:17.66,02:23:15.98,"So, uh",P06,S02 02:23:21.06,02:23:17.16,See? Sick puppy syndrome. It's possible. [laughs],P07,S02 02:23:18.82,02:23:17.06,"Well, because it is technic- ",P08,S02 02:23:21.04,02:23:18.79,"Yeah, exactly. Exactly.",P06,S02 02:23:22.42,02:23:19.82,"[laughs] He said, ""Sick puppy syndrome.""",P08,S02 02:23:20.96,02:23:19.86,What?,P05,S02 02:23:24.34,02:23:21.46,"Sick puppy syndrome. She is not sure if she wants to let that puppy go, yet.",P06,S02 02:23:27.64,02:23:24.70,"So [laughs] that's be- that's been, that's been a",P06,S02 02:23:35.12,02:23:24.68,"Yeah, that's fair, though, because you are here, like, as a, it was unexpected. And it's, like, ""Hmm, is this?"" Like, I get it. That makes sense.",P08,S02 02:23:25.86,02:23:25.22,Right.,P07,S02 02:23:29.80,02:23:29.04,Right.,P05,S02 02:23:30.56,02:23:29.12,"Yeah, exactly.",P06,S02 02:23:29.96,02:23:29.34,Mhm.,P07,S02 02:23:33.24,02:23:31.84,Yep. Mhm.,P07,S02 02:23:41.38,02:23:32.52,"So, you know, there's that, so there's, I mean, it's in a bit of, [inaudible 2:23:35.24] we kind of, uh, we gotta see, we gotta see. Um",P06,S02 02:23:48.80,02:23:42.58,"I need to start, I need to start, I need to start doing something more mentally than anything else.",P06,S02 02:23:43.72,02:23:42.64,"Like, like",P07,S02 02:24:00.78,02:23:48.80,"Like, I need to start being active. Because my mind's very active, I wake up at five o'clock. By the time she wakes up at eight o'clock, I've cooked breakfast, I've cooked lunch, I've frozen two casseroles, every day, this is the story of every day.",P06,S02 02:23:49.62,02:23:48.92,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:24:09.72,02:24:00.62,"Yeah, so we always have, like, five meals in the fridge. Huh. And the whole apartment smells like food, and, he loves cook- ",P05,S02 02:24:04.02,02:24:00.70,[laughs],P08,S02 02:24:10.46,02:24:00.83,"By the time she wakes up at eight, by the time she wakes up at eight o'clock I've cooked, like, the whole meals for the day, a couple of frozen, I've been cutting and chopping, like, yeah, man.",P06,S02 02:24:08.30,02:24:07.06,Woah.,P08,S02 02:24:09.80,02:24:07.94,You get up early and make casserole?,P07,S02 02:24:24.96,02:24:10.42,And she's the white lady from the mid-west? [laughs] Oh okay. [laughs],P07,S02 02:24:24.88,02:24:12.64,"Yeah. [laughs] Yeah. I love, like, casseroles, or whatever, I'll cook something, like I'll make a salad for the evening, I'll make Indian food, I'll make, I, yeah.",P06,S02 02:24:16.90,02:24:12.62,"I know, right? He loves his casseroles.",P05,S02 02:24:23.48,02:24:12.76,[laughs],P08,S02 02:24:26.20,02:24:18.02,"[laughs] He made Indian food the other night, so there's a mix. [laughs] He surprised me with curry one night. It was really good.",P05,S02 02:24:37.52,02:24:24.88,"So, like, you know what I mean, like I need to, I need to get back into doing something, uh, mentally more than anything else. I've always been active mentally, so it's kind of hard to be, and now it's been long enough, it's ten months.",P06,S02 02:24:33.42,02:24:32.90,[noise],P07,S02 02:24:39.52,02:24:37.84,Mm. [noise],P07,S02 02:24:41.46,02:24:37.76,"We've thought of starting businesses or something, but",P05,S02 02:24:38.60,02:24:37.76,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:24:52.86,02:24:37.84,"Eleven months. You know. But, I dunno, we'll see. W- what's meant to be will happen, uh, even if it's an- even if it's a not for profit, even if it's a, you know what I mean, it's not the, it's not what and how much.",P06,S02 02:24:41.04,02:24:40.18,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:24:48.74,02:24:47.90,Yeah.,P08,S02 02:24:57.34,02:24:52.88,"Yeah. it's just that you wanna be mentally active and, yeah.",P08,S02 02:24:59.28,02:24:53.00,"Those, those days are over, you know, those days are over. It's more that, just wanna, you know",P06,S02 02:25:01.52,02:24:58.52,"It's hard to even, like, volunteer, though. Like you said",P05,S02 02:25:13.06,02:25:00.96,"Like, I'm saying I wanna volunteer, and they want, and they like, you know, send me a, a fourteen page, fourteen page essay on why I should let you clean the shit in the toilet. I mean, like, seriou- like, seriously.",P06,S02 02:25:04.94,02:25:02.62,"Nope, he can't volunteer, he might be a psychopath.",P07,S02 02:25:06.78,02:25:04.04,And it's like form- ,P05,S02 02:25:06.20,02:25:04.86,"They're like, ""Nope.""",P08,S02 02:25:13.70,02:25:08.46,"[laughs] Ah yeah. Ah yeah. Like, really?",P08,S02 02:25:24.10,02:25:10.48,"[laughs] Yeah. [noise] Or even, like, these startups that need like, volunteer, like, legal advice, and so they want, like, a lawyer to be their volunt- I don't know if you'd call it volunteer at that point. Pr- Pro bono, I guess.",P05,S02 02:25:15.90,02:25:13.62,Okay. You know.,P06,S02 02:25:24.26,02:25:23.60,Yeah.,P06,S02 02:25:35.42,02:25:24.20,"Or, like, you know, because Abhi's done a lot with business, like, I'm, we've been looking at different things he could do with that, and you have to apply for it, send your resume, and I'm like, ""They're volunteering"", like it",P05,S02 02:25:30.92,02:25:28.58,"We have, we have, we have uh, we have uh",P06,S02 02:25:43.18,02:25:33.06,"This is the, this is the, this is the e- this is the extent of how difficult it is, okay. There's a friend of ours, who, I will not say, uh, who we met and",P06,S02 02:25:35.16,02:25:34.48,Right.,P08,S02 02:25:52.28,02:25:43.18,"Who, who is the head and owns one of the very large business, uh, v- very large, uh, consultancy",P06,S02 02:25:54.78,02:25:52.28,"In, i- in my field.",P06,S02 02:26:05.42,02:25:54.78,"And I even take step to saying, ""I'm bored, you have an office in Vancouver. I don't want to get paid. Just let me go to the office and do, be contributory, don't pay me.""",P06,S02 02:25:55.30,02:25:54.72,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:26:02.82,02:26:02.08,Right.,P08,S02 02:26:05.54,02:26:04.90,Right.,P08,S02 02:26:20.84,02:26:06.78,"And nothing. Like, and this is someone we know. Like, to the, the extent of saying that, ""Hey, I uh, [laughs] we're in a hiring freeze."" I'm like, ""I don't care if you're in a hiring freeze. I h- I understood that they're in a hiring freeze, give me projects, I'll do it, you don't have to pay me!""",P06,S02 02:26:08.04,02:26:07.32,Nothing.,P05,S02 02:26:08.62,02:26:08.06,Nothing?,P08,S02 02:26:14.08,02:26:11.66,"They said we're on a hiring freeze, too.",P05,S02 02:26:17.72,02:26:16.72,Just gimme projects.,P05,S02 02:26:25.44,02:26:20.78,And they're like,P08,S02 02:26:21.60,02:26:20.86,Mhm.,P05,S02 02:26:28.52,02:26:21.08,"I'll come! They're like [noise] no response yet. [laughs] Like, no response yet. Like, to the point where I just want to go and do something.",P06,S02 02:26:26.68,02:26:23.56,That almost freaks me out more. Yeah.,P05,S02 02:26:38.16,02:26:27.48,"It could be, it could be the, the, the feeling of reciprocity where he goes, ""Well, maybe I've got a project, but I, I couldn't in good conscience give you a project to do without paying you, and we can't afford to pay you, so I don't want to set up the expectation.""",P07,S02 02:26:36.02,02:26:35.38,Right.,P05,S02 02:26:48.96,02:26:36.69,"I agree, I, I agree, but I'm just saying that that's the extent, that that's the extent that I've go- , my only point is that's the extent that I've gone to say that, ""Hey, I just wanna be, I only need something to do, I don't care about the"", you know?",P06,S02 02:26:38.18,02:26:37.56,Right.,P05,S02 02:26:41.86,02:26:39.28,"Or it's like, it's",P05,S02 02:26:41.88,02:26:41.00,"Yeah, yeah.",P07,S02 02:26:47.34,02:26:41.38,"Like you've gone, ""I need something."" [laughs]",P08,S02 02:26:46.98,02:26:46.38,Yeah.,P07,S02 02:26:46.98,02:26:46.46,[noise],P05,S02 02:26:52.98,02:26:48.82,"[noise] Maybe it's like the, if something's not selling, increase the price, like",P05,S02 02:26:55.48,02:26:48.96,"Like, it's like, it's not, it's not, and just to tell you, this is, it's not, it's not financially driven, you know what I mean? Like [laughs]",P06,S02 02:26:50.88,02:26:49.62,Wow.,P08,S02 02:26:55.48,02:26:54.00,"Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah.",P08,S02 02:27:08.48,02:26:55.48,"Like, yeah, I said, ""Let me come in and bounce ideas. I'll fax and photocopy. Let me do, [laughs] I wanna, I wanna wear a tie again. Just a small tie. It'll probably be L V.""",P06,S02 02:27:07.34,02:26:57.62,"[noise] ""I just wanna be around people talking."" [laughs]",P08,S02 02:27:02.80,02:27:01.68,Mhm.,P05,S02 02:27:08.50,02:27:04.12,"[laughs] I wanna, I wanna [noise]",P07,S02 02:27:07.00,02:27:04.06,[laughs],P05,S02 02:27:12.62,02:27:08.38,[laughs] Mhm.,P05,S02 02:27:12.04,02:27:08.48,But lemme wear it. Yeah.,P06,S02 02:27:11.24,02:27:08.44,[laughs],P08,S02 02:27:16.34,02:27:09.70,"I wanna shop at Brooks Brothers and buy some, some reasonable, uh, affordable office wear. [laughs]",P07,S02 02:27:19.78,02:27:14.74,"Yeah, so, yeah, so, kinda, kinda at that, yeah.",P06,S02 02:27:17.98,02:27:14.68,[laughs] That's hilarious.,P08,S02 02:27:20.24,02:27:19.60,Mhm.,P08,S02 02:27:22.22,02:27:21.42,So,P06,S02 02:27:25.76,02:27:24.12,It's ten to.,P05,S02 02:27:26.66,02:27:26.04,All right.,P07,S02 02:27:29.10,02:27:28.44,Are we good?,P07,S02 02:27:31.56,02:27:30.12,"Hmm, not yet.",P05,S02 02:27:32.72,02:27:32.12,No?,P07,S02 02:27:34.76,02:27:33.76,Thinking.,P05,S02 02:27:35.56,02:27:34.82,How are we doing with time?,P07,S02 02:27:39.30,02:27:36.00,[inaudible 2:27:36.00] [noise] I dunno.,P05,S02 02:27:38.36,02:27:37.22,"Oh, k.",P07,S02 02:27:39.78,02:27:38.64,"But, um",P06,S02 02:27:44.20,02:27:41.56,"Yeah, so, that's the, that's the",P06,S02 02:27:51.80,02:27:45.66,"I get out. I, I'll head out every, I mean, I'm, I'm out and about, um, we're out and about.",P06,S02 02:27:59.16,02:27:51.82,"Well, if you got any work to do, and you wanna work at a coffee shop, that's where I do all my work. I'll invite you next time, we can sit in a Starbucks together and not talk. [laughs]",P07,S02 02:27:59.24,02:27:56.56,[laughs],P06,S02 02:28:00.24,02:27:57.58,[laughs],P08,S02 02:28:01.98,02:27:59.48,Abhi's not very good at not talking. [laughs],P05,S02 02:28:01.96,02:28:01.04,[noise],P07,S02 02:28:05.22,02:28:02.80,Aw. Am I?,P06,S02 02:28:04.14,02:28:03.22,You're a talker.,P05,S02 02:28:11.80,02:28:04.22,"He's like, w- , he's like, ""I'm thinking about this. Hmm. Can I handle that? Can I handle not talking? Hmm. Well, maybe I'll take you up on it once a month.""",P07,S02 02:28:07.68,02:28:06.48,[laughs],P05,S02 02:28:10.80,02:28:10.18,Hmm.,P05,S02 02:28:13.16,02:28:11.64,He's not a talker at all.,P08,S02 02:28:17.96,02:28:17.48,Okay.,P07,S02 02:28:22.08,02:28:20.68,Did you end it?,P06,S02 00:01:11.41,00:01:05.58,Oh my gosh like whatever. [noise] Oh my god [inaudible 0:01:09.15] Um,P25,S09 00:01:10.34,00:01:09.16,Are you drinking water?,P27,S09 00:01:10.34,00:01:09.24,"K, what do you want",P26,S09 00:01:16.70,00:01:10.34,"No I've got um it's like a gin with a little bit of soda. Well no, it's mostly a little bit of gin with a lot of soda but yeah.",P26,S09 00:01:15.42,00:01:13.65,Wasn't judging. I wasn't meth.,P27,S09 00:01:20.65,00:01:16.15,I have a constant right ear microphone falling out all the time.,P28,S09 00:01:20.61,00:01:19.56,Ooh.,P26,S09 00:01:25.06,00:01:19.65,Dude my left one was falling out yeah just like shove 'er in uh [laughs],P25,S09 00:01:26.97,00:01:22.77,"Yeah, I feel bad for always having to like [noise]",P28,S09 00:01:23.50,00:01:22.88,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:01:27.64,00:01:25.97,To like adjust it? [noise],P26,S09 00:01:28.64,00:01:26.97,"Okay host, where's your cutting board?",P27,S09 00:01:27.65,00:01:27.02,[inaudible 0:01:27.02],P25,S09 00:01:30.34,00:01:28.86,Yeah. Tell us what to do. Put us to work.,P26,S09 00:01:29.49,00:01:28.88,Um,P25,S09 00:01:31.75,00:01:30.42,"Yeah, delegate.",P28,S09 00:01:31.58,00:01:30.48,Wash my hands.,P27,S09 00:01:31.10,00:01:30.52,Right there,P25,S09 00:01:31.57,00:01:31.26,Yeah,P26,S09 00:01:34.66,00:01:31.69,[laughs] Who took a chap and just put it right there? You?,P25,S09 00:01:43.47,00:01:33.50,"Me, me. Cuz, well, you guys were doing your Stanley park, well, thing, and I don't wanna be crunching in the background. Right?",P28,S09 00:01:35.85,00:01:35.05,You're weird.,P25,S09 00:01:38.84,00:01:37.85,[noise],P25,S09 00:01:41.48,00:01:38.78,Oh,P26,S09 00:01:43.92,00:01:41.85,"Okay, we'll just use one cutting board",P25,S09 00:01:44.41,00:01:44.00,uh-huh.,P26,S09 00:01:45.97,00:01:44.42,"Ooh, and there's the other one, there you go.",P25,S09 00:01:47.97,00:01:47.45,All right.,P25,S09 00:01:51.86,00:01:47.50,Yeah my work was good today. I got a lot done. Um,P26,S09 00:01:52.12,00:01:50.40,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:01:52.92,00:01:51.96,I dunno if you guys wanna just,P25,S09 00:01:54.06,00:01:52.01,What did we do that was like awesome?,P26,S09 00:02:02.85,00:02:02.02,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:02:05.21,00:02:02.38,And what else?,P26,S09 00:02:08.81,00:02:05.32,I had to take a buncha random shit I had to buy a lotta things,P26,S09 00:02:10.30,00:02:08.89,Um,P26,S09 00:02:12.20,00:02:09.60,For the dinner? [laughs],P28,S09 00:02:14.29,00:02:11.10,No just for like random supplies and stuff for work,P26,S09 00:02:11.68,00:02:11.12,[noise],P25,S09 00:02:14.87,00:02:14.10,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:02:19.56,00:02:15.84,Um trying to think other things that I did.,P26,S09 00:02:23.14,00:02:20.26,I dunno. I felt like but I still felt like I accomplished a lot.,P26,S09 00:02:22.67,00:02:20.57,What do you wanna do with the cucumber?,P28,S09 00:02:25.82,00:02:22.84,I was gonna make a salad actually. So here,P25,S09 00:02:24.86,00:02:24.14,So numb,P26,S09 00:02:24.92,00:02:24.15,"Oh, okay.",P28,S09 00:02:27.33,00:02:24.93,I had the opposite day. I didn't do a lot,P27,S09 00:02:26.61,00:02:26.22,Yeah,P26,S09 00:02:28.04,00:02:27.46,Mhm mhm,P26,S09 00:02:29.16,00:02:28.10,Too much exciting going on.,P27,S09 00:02:31.16,00:02:28.45,Um. Oh.,P25,S09 00:02:30.09,00:02:29.21,[noise],P26,S09 00:02:30.98,00:02:29.50,So have you applied for the visa yet?,P27,S09 00:02:34.78,00:02:31.61,We I just sent in a bunch of like my personal documents,P26,S09 00:02:37.36,00:02:34.78,And we have everything kind of ready,P26,S09 00:02:37.21,00:02:36.93,So,P25,S09 00:02:39.09,00:02:37.36,I think from the company standpoint.,P26,S09 00:02:39.94,00:02:38.14,This is for the fajitas,P25,S09 00:02:41.29,00:02:39.54,And then,P26,S09 00:02:40.77,00:02:39.67,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:02:41.65,00:02:40.93,Um,P25,S09 00:02:43.94,00:02:41.29,We're paying the lawyer really soon.,P26,S09 00:02:43.65,00:02:41.92,Now we need food.,P28,S09 00:02:43.92,00:02:42.86,And then,P25,S09 00:02:45.50,00:02:43.94,So,P26,S09 00:02:49.27,00:02:45.76,It's not like it- it's not like a hundred percent filed but we're pretty close to like,P26,S09 00:02:48.65,00:02:46.24,I've still got some old red pepper which'll be good.,P25,S09 00:02:50.77,00:02:47.35,[inaudible 0:02:47.35] dice 'em or dicing long [inaudible 0:02:49.97],P28,S09 00:02:52.74,00:02:49.25,Yeah so I do like s- I do like long slices and then I cut it in half.,P25,S09 00:02:51.27,00:02:49.49,I think submitting a bunch of stuff,P26,S09 00:02:53.49,00:02:51.27,And we'll send them a big payment on Monday.,P26,S09 00:02:54.74,00:02:52.98,So that's like bite size pieces.,P25,S09 00:02:55.80,00:02:53.22,"Oh, okay. Okay.",P28,S09 00:02:56.68,00:02:54.13,So yeah,P26,S09 00:02:57.32,00:02:55.73,"Oh my goodness, that's so exciting.",P27,S09 00:02:58.02,00:02:56.05,"You want red, orange and yellow?",P28,S09 00:02:57.24,00:02:56.09,So I've got that,P25,S09 00:02:59.19,00:02:57.01,No. [inaudible 0:02:58.14] earrings.,P26,S09 00:03:01.29,00:02:57.80,Yeah I figure and then if we have any extra maybe we could put it like in the salad or whatever.,P25,S09 00:02:59.09,00:02:58.08,[noise],P27,S09 00:03:01.72,00:02:59.09,Oh thanks. February twenty one,P27,S09 00:03:00.59,00:02:59.76,Those are really cute.,P26,S09 00:03:03.75,00:03:01.30,Can somebody use the [inaudible 0:03:02.32] that you pulled out?,P28,S09 00:03:05.99,00:03:02.36,So oh my gosh your sister,P26,S09 00:03:04.40,00:03:03.68,Yeah for sure,P25,S09 00:03:06.69,00:03:05.29,Take whatever knife you want.,P25,S09 00:03:07.57,00:03:06.51,That's crazy,P26,S09 00:03:10.33,00:03:06.92,My mom's sitting at home smoking [laughs],P27,S09 00:03:09.97,00:03:08.79,[laughs],P26,S09 00:03:09.26,00:03:08.81,Oops,P25,S09 00:03:14.05,00:03:10.68,Oh yeah you c- [noise] sittin' at home smoking,P25,S09 00:03:11.53,00:03:10.67,[noise],P26,S09 00:03:12.33,00:03:10.78,"Cigarette to cigarette, yeah",P27,S09 00:03:14.40,00:03:12.33,"I know, tea and a cigarette just waiting yeah.",P27,S09 00:03:12.60,00:03:12.37,Yeah,P26,S09 00:03:17.35,00:03:14.25,Everyone's gonna be on edge. New baby coming in.,P28,S09 00:03:15.26,00:03:14.48,That's hilarious,P25,S09 00:03:19.51,00:03:16.25,Is your. Do they know if it's a boy or girl?,P26,S09 00:03:18.26,00:03:17.38,Fresh baby.,P25,S09 00:03:18.94,00:03:18.37,Yeah,P27,S09 00:03:25.15,00:03:19.65,[laughs] fresh out of the bath [laughs],P25,S09 00:03:20.46,00:03:19.84,No,P27,S09 00:03:22.35,00:03:20.52,Surprise.,P26,S09 00:03:23.53,00:03:21.74,I just want it healthy yeah,P27,S09 00:03:24.03,00:03:23.63,Mhm,P26,S09 00:03:30.26,00:03:24.06,And then Sarah lands tonight at nine so it's just sort of a big day yeah it's great.,P27,S09 00:03:25.96,00:03:25.32,Fresh,P25,S09 00:03:27.09,00:03:26.60,Oops,P25,S09 00:03:28.88,00:03:27.65,Oh sorry. Well,P25,S09 00:03:30.32,00:03:28.09,[noise],P26,S09 00:03:31.72,00:03:29.49,Maybe I'll just [inaudible 0:03:30.00] with this. I don't wanna get dead chicken on it.,P25,S09 00:03:31.63,00:03:30.44,And she's been in Ireland?,P26,S09 00:03:34.54,00:03:31.94,"Yeah, for take the sixteen days yeah.",P27,S09 00:03:34.70,00:03:31.95,"No, here, take this one over here.",P28,S09 00:03:33.63,00:03:32.47,Wow,P26,S09 00:03:33.48,00:03:32.87,"Oh, there you go",P25,S09 00:03:35.76,00:03:33.84,Yeah I'll take that one too if it's what it's set up for.,P25,S09 00:03:37.28,00:03:34.25,It's a long time. Yeah yeah yeah okay.,P26,S09 00:03:38.24,00:03:35.32,Yeah for a new relationship yeah.,P27,S09 00:03:37.20,00:03:36.10,Thank you.,P28,S09 00:03:39.20,00:03:37.89,[noise],P26,S09 00:03:41.17,00:03:40.14,Mkay,P25,S09 00:03:43.00,00:03:40.62,"How long was she gone for, Sarah?",P28,S09 00:03:42.98,00:03:41.74,"Sixteen days, yeah.",P27,S09 00:03:44.20,00:03:43.25,Oh.,P28,S09 00:03:44.22,00:03:43.52,[noise],P25,S09 00:03:47.00,00:03:44.22,So it considering we've only been together two months it's sort of a long,P27,S09 00:03:48.60,00:03:46.82,"Yeah, it is a long [inaudible 0:03:47.77]",P28,S09 00:03:48.30,00:03:47.24,Like when [inaudible 0:03:47.65],P27,S09 00:03:51.70,00:03:47.56,"Sixteen days it was? Sh- damn, that's uber long.",P25,S09 00:03:51.06,00:03:49.25,Yeah and the time difference like,P27,S09 00:03:53.73,00:03:51.42,It that was really hard that part but,P27,S09 00:03:57.44,00:03:52.89,[noise] D'you guys have some like cute Skype moments?,P26,S09 00:03:58.29,00:03:56.82,[laughs],P25,S09 00:03:58.26,00:03:56.89,Well no because like,P27,S09 00:03:58.26,00:03:57.56,[inaudible 0:02:47.35],P28,S09 00:04:01.72,00:03:58.26,With the time difference I'm either sleeping or she's sleeping yeah,P27,S09 00:04:00.15,00:03:58.35,Some S- [laughs],P26,S09 00:04:01.74,00:03:58.70,"Oh Rach, I know what you're tryin' to say",P25,S09 00:04:04.88,00:04:01.93,Or it was like cuz I work the weekends as well so it was uh,P27,S09 00:04:04.88,00:04:02.65,Mhm. Right.,P26,S09 00:04:08.25,00:04:05.84,We didn't really connect that way,P27,S09 00:04:12.00,00:04:08.25,Like we had maybe four five minute conversations yeah,P27,S09 00:04:08.68,00:04:08.27,Yeah,P26,S09 00:04:10.52,00:04:08.97,Zach and I either,P28,S09 00:04:16.85,00:04:11.12,We only we only spoke like three four times the two weeks that I was away it's cuz the time difference.,P28,S09 00:04:15.60,00:04:15.09,Mhm,P25,S09 00:04:18.96,00:04:15.45,But newly engaged. Tell me more. Tell me everything.,P27,S09 00:04:20.50,00:04:18.10,Oh.,P28,S09 00:04:20.29,00:04:18.69,Oh,P26,S09 00:04:22.14,00:04:19.29,How did you get to Harrison by the way? Cuz I think it was just a,P27,S09 00:04:24.52,00:04:21.22,We drove. Evo. Car share.,P28,S09 00:04:24.71,00:04:24.33,[noise],P26,S09 00:04:25.97,00:04:24.61,Evo goes to Harrison?,P27,S09 00:04:35.85,00:04:25.97,"Well, if you rent it out, like, if you take it for the day, then they charge you a certain amount, right. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. No, it's super nice, super awesome.",P28,S09 00:04:31.74,00:04:30.10,Like ninety bucks or whatever yeah,P27,S09 00:04:32.19,00:04:30.97,You just go wherever you want?,P26,S09 00:05:10.07,00:05:04.70,"On the patio up there. They were talking about weddings, and where and",P28,S09 00:05:07.87,00:05:06.62,Julia please boss us,P27,S09 00:05:09.27,00:05:08.15,"Yeah, just [inaudible 0:05:08.47]",P26,S09 00:05:09.93,00:05:09.33,Cheese,P25,S09 00:05:18.45,00:05:10.30,"I said, ""Can we just please stop. Like, I don't even know what these venues are."" Cuz they are from Ontario, I don't know what you're talking about.",P28,S09 00:05:14.84,00:05:14.39,Right,P26,S09 00:05:15.38,00:05:14.46,Oh,P25,S09 00:05:17.10,00:05:16.38,Oh yeah,P25,S09 00:05:19.17,00:05:16.41,Dude when where is the wedding gonna be in Ontario?,P27,S09 00:05:28.17,00:05:19.07,"That's what they want. And no one was asking me what I want. Well, at first it made sense. It made sense cuz my dad's there.",P28,S09 00:05:23.25,00:05:21.72,What? Ontario?,P25,S09 00:05:27.88,00:05:25.65,Yeah. Oh yeah I guess.,P25,S09 00:05:28.13,00:05:26.51,[laughs] Yeah,P26,S09 00:05:31.47,00:05:28.30,"I have my friends in Montreal, and I have [inaudible 0:05:30.15]",P28,S09 00:05:30.29,00:05:29.79,Mhm,P26,S09 00:05:30.86,00:05:30.20,Oh yeah.,P25,S09 00:05:42.30,00:05:31.47,"They weren't talking to me about it. So one point I was like, ""Um, can we just please like stop. Cuz I haven't even had time to enjoy the engagement.""",P28,S09 00:05:36.53,00:05:36.08,Yeah,P26,S09 00:05:37.54,00:05:36.86,Right,P27,S09 00:05:40.21,00:05:39.08,Being engaged.,P27,S09 00:05:44.22,00:05:40.58,See I assumed you'd have a long engagement till you were done school or like partially,P27,S09 00:05:47.22,00:05:42.87,Cuz I'm not even wearing my ring right now. It's just like [laughs],P28,S09 00:05:45.94,00:05:45.45,Yeah,P27,S09 00:05:49.51,00:05:45.47,[laughs] What does it look like? I wanna know. Do you have pictures?,P26,S09 00:05:56.20,00:05:48.45,"It's just it's just it's a it's just it's a point five diamond, very simple band on six pounds",P28,S09 00:05:54.59,00:05:53.00,Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:06:00.11,00:05:56.59,Okay that sounds pretty. Just like simple and beautiful oh my god.,P26,S09 00:05:57.26,00:05:56.77,Oh.,P25,S09 00:05:59.52,00:05:57.47,"Yeah, I love it [inaudible 0:05:58.42]",P28,S09 00:06:01.25,00:05:59.52,Sarah helped me pick it out.,P28,S09 00:06:01.17,00:06:00.42,Really,P25,S09 00:06:02.17,00:06:00.53,Oh I love it it's gorgeous.,P27,S09 00:06:03.77,00:06:00.63,Oh. That's nice,P26,S09 00:06:05.35,00:06:02.65,Yeah. So,P28,S09 00:06:04.84,00:06:04.25,[noise],P25,S09 00:06:07.57,00:06:04.29,I love that he included you in that part that you could actually have a say.,P27,S09 00:06:08.57,00:06:07.60,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:06:13.44,00:06:07.80,Cuz like other people uh have not enjoyed their engagement rings and I think it's so far from who they are so I thought that was,P27,S09 00:06:10.31,00:06:07.80,Mhm mhm mhm mhm,P26,S09 00:06:12.29,00:06:10.74,Right,P26,S09 00:06:12.17,00:06:10.95,Get out.,P28,S09 00:06:14.35,00:06:13.96,[noise],P26,S09 00:06:20.37,00:06:18.85,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:06:20.17,00:06:19.07,Salmonella,P26,S09 00:06:24.60,00:06:19.09,[laughs],P25,S09 00:06:24.84,00:06:20.17,"[laughs] Get ready, Google Ireland [laughs]",P26,S09 00:06:21.29,00:06:20.70,Uh,P27,S09 00:06:36.48,00:06:33.40,"Sarah, all you need to do is just like clean up after us and like",P25,S09 00:06:39.13,00:06:36.24,No I'm leaving at that point [laughs],P27,S09 00:06:39.70,00:06:37.42,[laughs],P28,S09 00:06:40.53,00:06:38.13,Yeah right? Get out,P26,S09 00:06:43.34,00:06:38.70,"No I mean like whilst we cook. Yeah. As we go, yeah.",P25,S09 00:06:40.66,00:06:39.98,Oh yeah,P27,S09 00:06:41.97,00:06:40.87,As we go.,P28,S09 00:06:42.87,00:06:42.25,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:06:45.04,00:06:42.26,Make a salmonella off your glass and table yeah,P27,S09 00:06:46.70,00:06:43.85,Holding holding all of our hair back whatever [laughs],P25,S09 00:06:46.32,00:06:45.87,Mm.,P26,S09 00:06:49.28,00:06:46.98,"Yeah, cuz when his dad and him were talking about were",P28,S09 00:07:04.97,00:06:51.32,"We could have the reception at uncle Frank's or uncle uh so and so, and I'm like, ""I've never seen these people's houses, and I don't even really know who these people are, so what what do their houses look like? Like, I don't even know.""",P28,S09 00:06:54.97,00:06:54.40,[laughs],P26,S09 00:06:58.44,00:06:57.62,Oh gosh.,P25,S09 00:06:58.23,00:06:57.71,Yeah,P26,S09 00:07:04.12,00:07:03.51,Mhm,P26,S09 00:07:05.40,00:07:04.89,Yeah,P25,S09 00:07:25.10,00:07:16.12,"I had to sit down, like, a paper and a pen, and write a list of the people that I was inviting",P28,S09 00:07:18.62,00:07:18.33,Oops,P25,S09 00:07:25.64,00:07:22.72,[laughs] Just so intense.,P26,S09 00:07:27.93,00:07:22.78,"I should've done a better introduction though. I can't believe I ran past him I didn't even give my name. I was like, ""Hi""",P27,S09 00:07:29.72,00:07:28.68,Oh.,P27,S09 00:07:30.29,00:07:28.76,I was just,P28,S09 00:07:44.95,00:07:31.20,"In total shock. Cuz I I and then at one point cuz I just come back from two weeks visiting out East, and everyone was like, ""When is the wedding?"" And I was like, ""Look. I think I think it's enough that I ha- have this ring.",P28,S09 00:07:37.45,00:07:36.41,Oh yeah,P25,S09 00:07:37.49,00:07:36.94,Right,P27,S09 00:07:55.40,00:07:44.95,"I don't really want to start thinking beyond this right now. And they all accepted that as an answer, and I was like, ""This is enough for me right now. I need to come home.""",P28,S09 00:07:47.65,00:07:47.42,[laughs],P25,S09 00:07:49.75,00:07:48.64,Yeah. Right.,P26,S09 00:07:52.32,00:07:49.88,"Yo, do I have to get married? [laughs]",P25,S09 00:07:54.23,00:07:53.23,Mhm yeah,P26,S09 00:07:58.24,00:07:55.40,[laughs],P26,S09 00:08:01.87,00:07:55.50,"And four hours later father-in-law lands with sister, and then it was like, ""So, the wedding.""",P28,S09 00:07:57.01,00:07:55.94,Dude,P25,S09 00:08:00.08,00:07:58.74,Oh my god.,P25,S09 00:08:05.04,00:08:01.82,Right was that time before you got engaged? Like them coming?,P27,S09 00:08:03.57,00:08:01.89,[noise],P26,S09 00:08:03.66,00:08:02.34,Oh dude.,P25,S09 00:08:06.66,00:08:05.89,Cuz I didn't even know,P27,S09 00:08:13.50,00:08:06.57,No. They his father and his sister booked their flight while I was in Montreal.,P28,S09 00:08:08.66,00:08:07.16,You hadn't mentioned they were coming yeah,P27,S09 00:08:13.96,00:08:13.58,Uh,P25,S09 00:08:15.10,00:08:13.64,The celebrate the engagement?,P27,S09 00:08:17.98,00:08:14.66,Yeah cuz I was wonderi- to celebrate the en- yeah.,P25,S09 00:08:19.20,00:08:17.00,Just cuz they wanted to come visit.,P28,S09 00:08:21.30,00:08:18.69,Isn't that interesting? Cuz I was surprised by that yeah,P27,S09 00:08:20.06,00:08:19.30,What,P25,S09 00:08:24.80,00:08:19.67,Probably probably because yeah I I now had a ring on my finger.,P28,S09 00:08:22.16,00:08:21.72,Huh,P26,S09 00:08:25.89,00:08:24.16,[noise],P26,S09 00:08:55.87,00:08:52.67,Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 00:08:55.07,00:08:53.61,"That is awesome, actually.",P26,S09 00:09:06.80,00:09:04.57,Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 00:09:06.21,00:09:05.20,Yeah it's amazing.,P27,S09 00:09:05.84,00:09:05.29,Yeah,P25,S09 00:09:11.62,00:09:07.55,"Julia, I'm only gonna cut half the peppers, cuz I feel like there is a lot.",P28,S09 00:09:12.62,00:09:11.62,Is that cool?,P28,S09 00:09:15.33,00:09:12.62,Uh yeah but you might need more like,P25,S09 00:09:17.90,00:09:15.20,Really? Or do you just want me to cut them for you?,P28,S09 00:09:18.24,00:09:16.12,Or well we got the red one too,P25,S09 00:09:20.85,00:09:18.15,Do you want me to cut them for you so you have snacks?,P28,S09 00:09:23.77,00:09:19.48,[laughs] Sure yeah,P25,S09 00:09:21.99,00:09:20.91,[laughs],P26,S09 00:09:22.87,00:09:21.05,For the week? Come on!,P28,S09 00:09:23.22,00:09:22.27,I feel like it,P27,S09 00:09:26.87,00:09:23.22,I'm not gonna cut them like this. I'm just gonna leave them long. How about that?,P28,S09 00:09:31.08,00:09:25.86,"Oh yeah no that's no that's totally cool but I'm just like ""Well there's four of us."" Like, we make a big",P25,S09 00:09:34.70,00:09:31.57,Yeah. Whatever you think is best. That's totally cool. Yeah.,P25,S09 00:09:35.10,00:09:33.57,"Yeah, yeah.",P28,S09 00:09:35.80,00:09:33.99,"Yeah like we'll eat a bunch, I'm sure.",P26,S09 00:09:36.87,00:09:35.25,"Yeah. Yeah, yeah.",P28,S09 00:09:35.74,00:09:35.33,Hmm,P27,S09 00:09:36.70,00:09:35.38,"Well, yeah I'm not gon- ",P25,S09 00:09:40.16,00:09:37.13,Yeah it's kind of like leftover goodie bags so I'm really good,P25,S09 00:09:42.47,00:09:39.17,[laughs] send me home with peppers.,P28,S09 00:09:43.12,00:09:41.65,"Yeah, right? Yeah",P25,S09 00:09:42.61,00:09:41.67,[laughs],P26,S09 00:09:44.90,00:09:42.73,So do you want a long engagement though? Or do you,P27,S09 00:09:50.67,00:09:46.52,I don't care. All I know is after all the talk that happened,P28,S09 00:09:48.40,00:09:47.76,[laughs],P25,S09 00:09:50.88,00:09:50.24,Mhm,P26,S09 00:09:51.80,00:09:50.66,Yeah I'm all sweatin' the chicken.,P25,S09 00:09:52.72,00:09:51.62,Um.,P28,S09 00:09:58.13,00:09:52.42,[laughs] Your hair was like [noise] yeah right? [laughs],P25,S09 00:09:54.93,00:09:52.44,Hmm? Like [noise],P26,S09 00:10:05.65,00:09:54.90,"I don't want his father dropping massive and massive money because I like, he asked, ""Well, is your mom or your dad contributing?"" And I'm like, ""No!"" Well, one",P28,S09 00:09:59.96,00:09:59.17,Aw,P25,S09 00:10:05.18,00:10:02.13,Oh god. Oh dude.,P25,S09 00:10:04.05,00:10:02.45,Woah. yeah,P26,S09 00:10:07.89,00:10:03.61,Is that refreshing too? That you don't have to worry about s- saving for the wedding? That's sort of refreshing.,P27,S09 00:10:12.75,00:10:07.92,"Well, it's nice that he wants to help, cuz he is excited. I know, he is excited.",P28,S09 00:10:12.08,00:10:11.65,uh-huh,P26,S09 00:10:13.50,00:10:12.22,That's cute. That's nice.,P25,S09 00:10:16.32,00:10:14.17,"At the same time, I just",P28,S09 00:10:25.22,00:10:16.57,Ooh he can save that money and put it towards his retirement or if he if he really wants to like,P28,S09 00:10:20.42,00:10:19.45,Mhm.,P25,S09 00:10:20.19,00:10:19.92,Mhm,P26,S09 00:10:23.20,00:10:22.15,Oh.,P25,S09 00:10:34.51,00:10:25.65,"invest in us, then he can give it to us for a down payment for a house, put it online. I don't believe in spending that much money on a wedding.",P28,S09 00:10:29.93,00:10:29.67,Mhm,P26,S09 00:10:32.22,00:10:29.82,Ah. Yeah.,P25,S09 00:10:31.10,00:10:29.90,You know what they're planing,P27,S09 00:10:37.04,00:10:34.46,Portuguese family though. I feel like that's part of it.,P27,S09 00:10:38.63,00:10:37.03,[noise] Maybe,P26,S09 00:10:40.20,00:10:37.17,"Yeah, right?",P25,S09 00:10:43.67,00:10:38.32,"No, I know. He kept saying, he's like, cuz certain family members are gonna hand over big envelopes of",P28,S09 00:10:43.70,00:10:42.74,Yeah,P27,S09 00:10:49.30,00:10:44.15,"And I'm like, ""But that's just gonna pay off for the wedding."" Cuz whatever we get in cash, I'm gonna wanna pay him back.",P28,S09 00:10:44.59,00:10:44.20,[noise],P26,S09 00:10:53.85,00:10:46.75,"[inaudible 0:10:46.75] He won't let you pay him back, for sure, for sure.",P25,S09 00:10:47.51,00:10:46.93,Mhm,P26,S09 00:10:50.96,00:10:48.64,No put it up towards the honeymoon. Go to Portugal.,P27,S09 00:10:53.12,00:10:51.62,No.,P28,S09 00:10:57.34,00:10:52.00,No they won't. And this is like their his only son's big day. Like he's thinking of Zach right?,P27,S09 00:10:59.45,00:10:55.47,Aw. That's nice.,P25,S09 00:10:59.44,00:10:57.35,[noise],P26,S09 00:10:59.61,00:10:57.61,And Zach loves these big gestures right?,P27,S09 00:11:01.82,00:10:59.25,I know. I know.,P28,S09 00:11:35.70,00:11:30.32,"Oh, yeah. Yeah.",P25,S09 00:11:32.69,00:11:30.47,You know you really could walk into like,P26,S09 00:11:39.04,00:11:33.49,I dunno it could be like my big fat Greek wedding with like crazy like cupcake dresses,P26,S09 00:11:44.97,00:11:37.57,[inaudible 0:11:37.57] [laughs] Mel's adaptable and,P25,S09 00:11:41.77,00:11:38.08,I can deal with crazy as long as I have alcohol I'm fine. [inaudible 0:11:40.27],P28,S09 00:11:43.23,00:11:40.79,[laughs],P26,S09 00:11:43.58,00:11:41.77,And I feel like your friends would take,P27,S09 00:11:45.00,00:11:42.67,And my edibles. I'm fine.,P28,S09 00:11:48.91,00:11:44.97,"Just show up like drunk to your wedding be like ""Hi here we go. Sweet.""",P26,S09 00:11:51.15,00:11:46.40,Did you say animals or edibles? Edibles?,P25,S09 00:11:49.22,00:11:47.34,Right. Yeah.,P27,S09 00:11:51.05,00:11:48.67,"But yeah, my my edibles.",P28,S09 00:11:58.72,00:11:53.90,And I feel like we would uh your friends would pay to go there that's fine.,P27,S09 00:11:58.52,00:11:57.70,But,P28,S09 00:12:01.65,00:11:58.87,"N- no, not necessarily. But I",P28,S09 00:12:03.95,00:12:01.65,We got in to a hard huge argument,P28,S09 00:12:06.07,00:12:03.62,[noise],P25,S09 00:12:05.73,00:12:03.87,Mhm [laughs],P26,S09 00:12:04.85,00:12:03.95,Yesterday.,P28,S09 00:12:10.75,00:12:06.12,But the family left today. And then we went for brunch.,P28,S09 00:12:10.56,00:12:10.08,Okay,P26,S09 00:12:15.77,00:12:10.75,"And he was like, ""K. What, what""",P28,S09 00:12:13.35,00:12:13.03,Mhm,P26,S09 00:12:17.52,00:12:15.72,[laughs],P25,S09 00:12:18.73,00:12:15.92,[laughs] What what [laughs],P26,S09 00:12:22.35,00:12:17.52,And that's how the fight started. [laughs] What [inaudible 0:12:20.77],P25,S09 00:12:19.25,00:12:17.75,What is it?,P28,S09 00:12:35.80,00:12:20.07,"And I told him I was like, ""I don't really enjoy this sense of obligation of people who are coming to the wedding, or my sense of obligation to this wedding that is for."" And it's like everyone else say, ""Well, we wanna celebrate your love.""",P28,S09 00:12:25.52,00:12:24.96,Mhm,P26,S09 00:12:28.52,00:12:27.23,Right yeah,P26,S09 00:12:31.39,00:12:30.67,Mhm,P26,S09 00:12:36.16,00:12:35.80,Mhm,P26,S09 00:12:37.45,00:12:36.10,"Well, hurray.",P28,S09 00:12:40.20,00:12:37.32,[laughs],P25,S09 00:12:38.16,00:12:37.49,[noise],P26,S09 00:12:45.60,00:12:38.67,But for me it would just be really nice if Zach and I could just get married,P28,S09 00:12:48.23,00:12:45.72,Mhm yeah mhm,P26,S09 00:12:46.89,00:12:46.06,Mhm,P27,S09 00:12:56.57,00:12:46.10,"On our own, just me and him, somewhere really beautiful on the island, in Vancouver, and then invite everyone to join us down South.",P28,S09 00:12:53.25,00:12:50.67,"Ooh, that'd be nice.",P25,S09 00:12:51.60,00:12:50.80,Mhm yeah,P26,S09 00:12:55.67,00:12:55.31,Yeah,P26,S09 00:13:02.72,00:13:00.77,One week all inclusive.,P28,S09 00:13:02.47,00:13:01.97,Yeah,P26,S09 00:13:09.07,00:13:02.72,Booze is included. The resort is gonna regret it. But it's gonna be a fun vacation,P28,S09 00:13:04.47,00:13:03.77,Yeah,P26,S09 00:13:07.29,00:13:05.56,Oh my goodness yeah,P27,S09 00:13:09.05,00:13:06.11,Yeah yeah yeah,P26,S09 00:13:10.90,00:13:08.00,[laughs],P25,S09 00:13:14.37,00:13:09.07,"For everyone. I don't need your money, cuz Zach and I are gonna pay our way, pay for uh when we",P28,S09 00:13:18.07,00:13:13.12,Yeah totally yeah mhm mhm,P26,S09 00:13:17.87,00:13:14.37,You guys pay for your vacation. We just go have fun.,P28,S09 00:13:19.50,00:13:18.05,That's all I want. I don't,P28,S09 00:13:34.90,00:13:18.60,"Hones- all inclusives, cuz like after working with Chris. Like it's better, it's better. Even like going all the way to Ont- Like in [inaudible 0:13:27.32] it's like, ""Oh, well, it's in Canada. It's Ontario."" [inaudible 0:13:29.00] They set everything. They do it all for you. And it's yeah.",P25,S09 00:13:23.30,00:13:22.30,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:13:25.94,00:13:24.49,Way better. Oh way better.,P27,S09 00:13:25.80,00:13:25.20,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:13:28.94,00:13:25.45,Mhm mhm,P26,S09 00:13:32.13,00:13:29.08,That'll be no that'll be just as expensive. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:13:31.58,00:13:30.41,Would it kinda be cheaper?,P27,S09 00:13:33.46,00:13:32.40,Mhm mhm,P26,S09 00:13:36.90,00:13:33.62,"So, am I not right, ladies? [laughs]",P28,S09 00:13:37.96,00:13:35.35,Yeah [laughs],P26,S09 00:13:43.25,00:13:36.30,"Of course. So, but the thing is, but pitching in, what if [inaudible 0:13:40.20] what if you, yeah.",P25,S09 00:13:37.92,00:13:36.90,[inaudible 0:13:36.90],P28,S09 00:13:44.12,00:13:40.86,Wait what is your timing though? Backtrack. When would you wanna get married? Like,P27,S09 00:13:48.78,00:13:44.61,"Two years from now, five years from now, a year from now. Like what are we thinking?",P27,S09 00:13:52.30,00:13:47.72,I wanna at least be somewhere near the end of my degree.,P28,S09 00:13:52.72,00:13:52.17,Mhm,P26,S09 00:13:54.77,00:13:52.48,"Which is three years, is that right?",P27,S09 00:13:57.65,00:13:53.70,"Well, even if in three years it's not done, two years, cuz",P28,S09 00:13:58.37,00:13:57.30,Hmm.,P25,S09 00:14:01.32,00:13:58.10,"Zach said one to two, I said two to three, so",P28,S09 00:14:03.57,00:14:01.67,[laughs],P25,S09 00:14:02.63,00:14:01.95,Mhm,P26,S09 00:14:03.94,00:14:02.02,If we said right now to everyone,P28,S09 00:14:05.44,00:14:03.94,"Okay, two years time",P28,S09 00:14:07.09,00:14:05.43,[laughs] Yeah,P26,S09 00:14:07.34,00:14:05.56,Plan a vacation.,P28,S09 00:14:08.00,00:14:07.00,[laughs],P25,S09 00:14:10.37,00:14:07.90,"Meet us there, we're getting hitched.",P28,S09 00:14:10.94,00:14:08.96,Get everyone to save up now yeah.,P27,S09 00:14:09.27,00:14:09.00,Yeah,P26,S09 00:14:13.60,00:14:09.12,[inaudible 0:14:09.12] Yeah. Yeah.,P25,S09 00:14:12.91,00:14:11.15,"That's not a bad idea, actually",P26,S09 00:14:14.16,00:14:12.26,The dress doesn't have to be extravagant yeah.,P27,S09 00:14:13.69,00:14:12.29,[inaudible 0:14:12.29],P28,S09 00:14:18.88,00:14:13.69,"No, that's what I told him, I was like, everyone wants and needs a vacation.",P28,S09 00:14:15.48,00:14:15.01,Mhm,P26,S09 00:14:21.76,00:14:18.34,And that's you can get your stagette done here. All of it yeah,P27,S09 00:14:19.53,00:14:19.13,Yeah,P26,S09 00:14:26.15,00:14:19.35,"Oh yeah, right? Like, it's a kinda like a good excuse. Well, I have to go to Hawaii, like.",P25,S09 00:14:21.48,00:14:20.17,"You know, what I mean?",P28,S09 00:14:22.44,00:14:22.04,Mhm,P26,S09 00:14:27.97,00:14:23.34,"And you're saving money on cake, photographers all of that stuff. It's all included",P27,S09 00:14:26.39,00:14:24.43,"Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm",P26,S09 00:14:30.37,00:14:26.97,"Dude, they set you up. And if you like, yeah.",P25,S09 00:14:34.95,00:14:29.18,"No, but I wouldn't even necessarily get married at the all inclu- cuz then you have to pay them more for the wedding package.",P28,S09 00:14:35.71,00:14:34.25,Oh okay,P26,S09 00:14:36.20,00:14:34.80,Oh.,P25,S09 00:14:36.60,00:14:35.02,Oh you wouldn't even do that.,P27,S09 00:14:39.00,00:14:35.13,No. No. I don't want it. I don't want it.,P28,S09 00:14:38.92,00:14:37.99,Mhm,P26,S09 00:14:38.89,00:14:38.16,Just party.,P27,S09 00:14:43.82,00:14:39.00,"No, I told them. I was like, ""They're gonna try and cash in on us, because it's a wedding.""",P28,S09 00:14:43.47,00:14:42.00,I dunno.,P25,S09 00:14:44.32,00:14:43.73,Mhm,P26,S09 00:14:50.93,00:14:43.82,"How about we marry, me and you. No one can complain about ""I wasn't invited to this and that"".",P28,S09 00:14:47.59,00:14:46.92,Mm mhm,P26,S09 00:14:50.77,00:14:49.58,We need a couple witnesses.,P27,S09 00:14:50.37,00:14:49.59,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:14:51.80,00:14:51.00,Yes.,P28,S09 00:14:55.08,00:14:51.98,We need someone to officiate our wedding as well.,P28,S09 00:14:52.52,00:14:52.08,Yeah,P27,S09 00:14:55.53,00:14:54.29,"Right, mhm.",P26,S09 00:14:54.78,00:14:54.30,No,P27,S09 00:14:58.26,00:14:56.20,And then just go down South.,P28,S09 00:15:01.33,00:14:58.47,"Yeah, I mean",P26,S09 00:15:11.16,00:15:00.26,Easy. No uncle's houses get raided by a whole bunch of people and then port-a-potties need to be driven in for whatever reason and then I don't know.,P28,S09 00:15:02.09,00:15:01.48,Perfect.,P27,S09 00:15:05.91,00:15:04.09,[laughs] No uncles' houses in Toronto?,P26,S09 00:15:10.27,00:15:08.07,"Oh, my god, yeah.",P26,S09 00:15:11.64,00:15:10.22,Such a Canadian wedding.,P25,S09 00:15:14.13,00:15:11.64,"Porta a potties, right?",P25,S09 00:15:13.84,00:15:11.68,No. I don't,P28,S09 00:15:13.47,00:15:12.63,Porta potties,P26,S09 00:15:19.84,00:15:12.70,"Right, what about, uh, would your mom b- be down for that? Like, she's the only one I would re- oh, okay.",P27,S09 00:15:19.66,00:15:17.56,I don't really care.,P28,S09 00:15:20.92,00:15:19.66,"I do, but I don't.",P28,S09 00:15:24.07,00:15:20.92,"So, it's like, if she wants a vacation, she comes, you know?",P28,S09 00:15:25.29,00:15:21.03,"Yeah, it's your wedding, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it, yeah.",P26,S09 00:15:31.50,00:15:25.29,"You're, like, I want you to be there and be happy, but it- this is how it's gonna go down. I get it. Yeah. Mhm.",P26,S09 00:15:29.74,00:15:28.62,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:15:29.68,00:15:28.82,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:15:42.62,00:15:30.12,"Cuz I'm not that close with my family, so that's an advantage of mine. And the thing is is like I know Zach's family can afford to go down if they if they want to, so like",P28,S09 00:15:33.53,00:15:32.89,Mm?,P26,S09 00:15:39.53,00:15:39.15,Mhm,P26,S09 00:15:55.62,00:15:41.50,"I just hope everyone gets what they want. Like, you you don't wanna lack luster wedding. Zach would still get the attention of the, you know, like, you guys you guys being the center in terms of that kind of stuff, celebrating love and life and. Yeah, I think that's a good compromise.",P27,S09 00:15:51.88,00:15:48.17,[laughs],P25,S09 00:15:49.33,00:15:48.79,Mhm,P26,S09 00:15:51.94,00:15:50.74,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:15:54.30,00:15:53.42,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:16:06.34,00:15:55.72,"I want everyone. And I told them, like, when we were walking to to brunch this afternoon, I was like, look, for me the first thing on my list right now, I just want to find a dress.",P28,S09 00:16:01.84,00:16:01.40,Mhm,P26,S09 00:16:08.29,00:16:06.57,Yeah. That's fair,P26,S09 00:16:08.86,00:16:07.74,Do you need someone to go with?,P27,S09 00:16:10.12,00:16:09.08,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:16:12.11,00:16:10.11,[laughs],P25,S09 00:16:12.55,00:16:10.21,Dress shopping is so fun.,P26,S09 00:16:12.37,00:16:10.25,So you're good at that here yeah,P27,S09 00:16:15.37,00:16:12.51,"Oh, cuz, yeah, you went with your mom.",P25,S09 00:16:16.17,00:16:13.11,You should oh my god so I k- so I had never,P26,S09 00:16:18.89,00:16:16.17,Cuz all so far of my girlfriends have kind of just,P26,S09 00:16:21.76,00:16:18.89,Gone on their own or like with their mom or they bought stuff online,P26,S09 00:16:25.44,00:16:21.99,And so my mom and my sister and I went to an actual bridal store and like,P26,S09 00:16:34.27,00:16:25.65,"So much fun, even if you don't think you're gonna go that route in terms of a dress, oh my god, go. Bring some champagne and bring your friends.",P26,S09 00:16:27.82,00:16:26.46,It's so fun.,P27,S09 00:16:30.24,00:16:29.74,Yep.,P28,S09 00:16:33.96,00:16:33.36,Yeah,P27,S09 00:16:37.35,00:16:33.37,"I was gonna say, do they give you champagne or are you just allowed to bring your champagne?",P25,S09 00:16:36.61,00:16:34.93,There's one on Renfrew though.,P27,S09 00:16:38.40,00:16:36.62,It depends where you go.,P28,S09 00:16:46.16,00:16:37.44,"Mel, there's one in Renfrew. They do discontinued dresses, uh, recycled dresses, so you can get a beautiful dress for like two hundred dollars.",P27,S09 00:16:42.35,00:16:37.79,You probably should just call ahead and bring your own. Like just double check and then bring yours yeah.,P26,S09 00:16:43.71,00:16:41.66,"Yeah, that's clever.",P25,S09 00:16:48.22,00:16:45.72,"I know, that's why I'm like, my budget is five hundred.",P28,S09 00:16:47.80,00:16:46.28,Mm.,P25,S09 00:16:52.78,00:16:47.56,"Oh, my god, but they had, like, I tried a few on with my sister and they were, like, she already bought a dress.",P27,S09 00:16:48.49,00:16:48.07,Yeah,P26,S09 00:16:49.83,00:16:48.95,[inaudible 0:16:48.95],P28,S09 00:16:53.44,00:16:51.71,Two hundred. That's amazing.,P25,S09 00:16:55.74,00:16:52.78,"They're f- fantastic. Like, they're beautiful dresses.",P27,S09 00:16:56.93,00:16:54.49,Mmm.,P26,S09 00:16:55.44,00:16:54.73,Ew.,P25,S09 00:17:00.60,00:16:55.74,"And you think, a lot of girls wear their dress once and then or they get broken up with right before the wedding, whatever.",P27,S09 00:17:00.37,00:16:56.93,[noise],P26,S09 00:17:04.07,00:17:00.37,Whatever [laughs] things don't work out yep yep,P26,S09 00:17:03.00,00:17:00.46,[inaudible 0:17:00.46] What?,P28,S09 00:17:02.44,00:17:00.53,[laughs],P25,S09 00:17:02.70,00:17:00.60,"There's so many brand new weddings, like",P27,S09 00:17:06.37,00:17:02.44,"Which is not gonna happen to you Mel, uh, uh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:17:03.78,00:17:02.70,"Dresses, though.",P27,S09 00:17:05.88,00:17:03.00,[laughs],P28,S09 00:17:05.58,00:17:04.56,No.,P27,S09 00:17:10.46,00:17:05.58,"But it's a fantastic deal versus paying three to five thousand for it, you know?",P27,S09 00:17:09.28,00:17:07.00,[laughs],P25,S09 00:17:10.73,00:17:09.44,Yeah yeah,P26,S09 00:17:13.17,00:17:10.37,"Oh, my God. I I don't understand.",P25,S09 00:17:15.85,00:17:10.72,I don't want to. I don't wanna pay twenty thousand for a venue. I don't wanna pay three thousand for a dress.,P28,S09 00:17:14.38,00:17:13.56,Right.,P27,S09 00:17:19.84,00:17:15.26,"It's more than my car, more than, like, yeah.",P25,S09 00:17:16.23,00:17:15.29,Mhm yeah.,P26,S09 00:17:16.20,00:17:15.36,Right.,P27,S09 00:17:16.58,00:17:15.85,I just,P28,S09 00:17:19.29,00:17:16.95,Mhm yeah it's a lot of money.,P26,S09 00:17:18.34,00:17:17.84,[noise],P28,S09 00:17:20.60,00:17:19.80,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:17:22.02,00:17:19.84,"Uh, oh, exactly. Oh, my god.",P25,S09 00:17:41.58,00:17:21.98,"That's why I told Zach. I was like, his twenty grand or whatever it is that he wants to contribute, he keeps for his retirement or he keeps for his own financial or he gives it to you so you can put a down payment on a house or whatever car you want later, whatever, but not a wedding.",P28,S09 00:17:31.80,00:17:30.00,"Oh, you're so mindful.",P27,S09 00:17:32.27,00:17:30.29,"Mhm, yeah.",P26,S09 00:17:37.84,00:17:37.37,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:17:40.27,00:17:39.75,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:17:44.96,00:17:41.58,"Like, there is no money to be made.",P28,S09 00:17:44.02,00:17:42.13,"Oh, dear.",P25,S09 00:17:43.93,00:17:42.56,Right yeah,P26,S09 00:17:47.08,00:17:44.82,"Interesting. No, I commend you for it.",P27,S09 00:17:45.53,00:17:44.95,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:17:48.26,00:17:47.12,On a wedding.,P28,S09 00:17:50.33,00:17:47.40,You cut these peppers excellently. Look at this.,P25,S09 00:17:51.21,00:17:49.93,It's beautiful.,P26,S09 00:17:53.28,00:17:50.33,She doesn't waste a single bit.,P25,S09 00:17:54.78,00:17:52.46,She does the best move with vegetables.,P27,S09 00:17:56.31,00:17:53.28,"That is ama- I'm very impressed, honestly.",P25,S09 00:17:55.32,00:17:53.32,[laughs],P28,S09 00:17:57.92,00:17:55.32,"Sorry, but that's why it's taking so long, too.",P28,S09 00:17:58.04,00:17:56.93,"No, I like it.",P25,S09 00:17:59.92,00:17:57.92,[laughs],P28,S09 00:18:01.24,00:17:58.04,"Well, no, it tooks it takes me forever to cut those that chicken or whatever.",P25,S09 00:18:03.58,00:18:01.16,"It's also cuz I'm sitting down, so I feel like I'm short.",P28,S09 00:18:07.74,00:18:03.58,I don't know wh- I don't know what this feels like when cutting things.,P28,S09 00:18:06.09,00:18:03.61,"Yeah, that's kind of weird, right? Yeah.",P26,S09 00:18:06.55,00:18:06.08,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:18:09.18,00:18:08.08,Hands up.,P28,S09 00:18:10.41,00:18:09.27,Ah.,P26,S09 00:18:14.75,00:18:10.38,"But you guys are gonna have some veggies here, pre-cut. [inaudible 0:18:13.62]",P28,S09 00:18:13.75,00:18:12.43,Nice.,P26,S09 00:18:14.35,00:18:13.28,You got the wedgies.,P25,S09 00:18:15.92,00:18:13.34,"So we're done with your Tinder tales, that's what you're saying?",P27,S09 00:18:17.14,00:18:15.92,After all this?,P27,S09 00:18:16.93,00:18:16.20,What?,P25,S09 00:18:19.04,00:18:16.96,I've never had any Tinder tales.,P28,S09 00:18:21.76,00:18:17.96,"No, I know, but it's just it's done, like it's final, it's done, yeah.",P27,S09 00:18:21.50,00:18:19.04,"Okay, OkCupid tales.",P28,S09 00:18:22.51,00:18:21.21,[noise],P26,S09 00:18:22.77,00:18:21.42,"Oh, man.",P25,S09 00:18:23.11,00:18:22.51,Oh.,P26,S09 00:18:23.38,00:18:22.66,Oh.,P28,S09 00:18:24.42,00:18:22.76,"Out of the hut, if you think about it.",P27,S09 00:18:27.24,00:18:24.42,"Like, I'm the last man standing.",P27,S09 00:18:26.62,00:18:25.42,Oh.,P28,S09 00:18:28.82,00:18:27.22,[laughs],P28,S09 00:18:28.83,00:18:27.61,Ah ha.,P26,S09 00:18:29.14,00:18:27.86,No cr- cricket.,P27,S09 00:18:30.62,00:18:28.80,"Oh, nice.",P25,S09 00:18:35.74,00:18:29.40,"Oh, but I don't know if that counts. Does it. No. [laughs]",P28,S09 00:18:35.46,00:18:33.62,"No, I think",P27,S09 00:18:37.62,00:18:35.66,"Living in this house, it was like",P27,S09 00:18:37.91,00:18:36.55,Oh.,P25,S09 00:18:40.74,00:18:38.48,"How many people, at one point twelve?",P27,S09 00:18:44.45,00:18:40.44,"There was two, four, six, eight.",P28,S09 00:18:42.62,00:18:41.26,Woah.,P25,S09 00:18:47.90,00:18:44.48, Eight from main level up. I don't know what was in the basement.,P28,S09 00:18:49.74,00:18:49.24,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:19:03.35,00:19:00.88,"Oh, that's wonderful. That's nice.",P25,S09 00:19:04.78,00:19:01.72,Mel would always bring the salad. That's why her cutting skills are so great.,P27,S09 00:19:06.60,00:19:04.75,That's why her cutting skills are so excellent.,P25,S09 00:19:09.10,00:19:04.78,"But we, um, it was funny cuz everyone was going through a time of transition.",P27,S09 00:19:08.55,00:19:07.48,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:19:10.82,00:19:09.04,"Oh, my god, yeah.",P28,S09 00:19:10.44,00:19:09.10,Everybody in the house.,P27,S09 00:19:11.09,00:19:09.39,"Yeah, yeah.",P26,S09 00:19:11.13,00:19:10.40,Cool.,P25,S09 00:19:15.54,00:19:11.02,"And, uh, such a traumatic time and, uh, traumatic and good time.",P27,S09 00:19:14.40,00:19:13.51,Mm.,P25,S09 00:19:14.67,00:19:13.79,Mm.,P26,S09 00:19:16.40,00:19:15.82,Mhm.,P25,S09 00:19:16.39,00:19:15.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:19:22.16,00:19:16.84,"But we'd have these epic, uh, potlucks, but all, like, veered off.",P27,S09 00:19:20.32,00:19:19.03,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:19:24.14,00:19:22.16,"Like, people moved out to move out with people.",P27,S09 00:19:25.99,00:19:24.09,"Okay, yeah.",P26,S09 00:19:25.88,00:19:24.64,Um.,P27,S09 00:19:28.51,00:19:24.73,"Oh, so they all started, like coupling off and like dying?",P25,S09 00:19:29.48,00:19:26.52,"Yeah, or they're finding their own way, yeah.",P27,S09 00:19:28.92,00:19:27.30,"That's what I did, yeah.",P28,S09 00:19:29.86,00:19:28.97,Mm.,P25,S09 00:19:30.69,00:19:29.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:19:40.36,00:19:29.96,"And then Mel and I are sort of like one never found love here, had such a bad time, like, did so much Tinder and everything and then she set up a Tinder date to go back to Australia.",P27,S09 00:19:35.77,00:19:34.44,Mm.,P28,S09 00:19:37.11,00:19:36.46,Mhm.,P25,S09 00:19:47.32,00:19:40.36,"Her, she had a working visa and they finally were like, you can, we can hire someone locally, you need to go, go now.",P27,S09 00:19:47.21,00:19:46.21,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:19:47.86,00:19:46.93,"Oh, okay.",P25,S09 00:19:50.82,00:19:47.84,"So, I don't think she had permanent residency.",P27,S09 00:19:59.18,00:19:50.82,"Anyways, so that date with that man in Australia, as bummed as she was about leaving Vancouver and everything, that first date she fell madly in love, she has two kids now.",P27,S09 00:20:00.42,00:19:58.73,In Australia?,P25,S09 00:20:03.85,00:19:58.77,"K, but wait, wait. She's set it up before she went? What?",P26,S09 00:20:01.90,00:19:59.35,And she but she was from Australia.,P27,S09 00:20:02.62,00:20:01.90,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:20:04.24,00:20:03.13,Dude.,P25,S09 00:20:04.00,00:20:03.16,I know.,P27,S09 00:20:09.82,00:20:04.40,"And then another one had started dating someone before, like, right before that, and she's married.",P27,S09 00:20:06.04,00:20:04.91,Dude.,P25,S09 00:20:07.33,00:20:05.93,What?,P26,S09 00:20:14.44,00:20:08.08,"So, Rachel, are you seeing anyone before you go, like, so send up, set up a Tinder date before you go to Philadelphia.",P28,S09 00:20:11.41,00:20:10.01,I'm not.,P26,S09 00:20:14.84,00:20:12.20,"With, uh, someone in Phil- yeah.",P27,S09 00:20:14.82,00:20:12.55,"Yeah, set up one in Philadelphia.",P25,S09 00:20:16.27,00:20:13.27,In Philadelphia before you go.,P26,S09 00:20:16.30,00:20:15.76,Right.,P27,S09 00:20:18.00,00:20:16.22,Show me around the city.,P25,S09 00:20:17.38,00:20:16.22,"Oh, yes.",P28,S09 00:20:18.09,00:20:16.27,"Oh, my god.",P26,S09 00:20:20.35,00:20:18.00,I'm gonna be new and alone.,P25,S09 00:20:20.34,00:20:18.66,"It gives you hope, though.",P27,S09 00:20:20.33,00:20:18.81,Really?,P26,S09 00:20:21.16,00:20:20.34,And she told me once.,P27,S09 00:20:22.67,00:20:21.11,[laughs],P26,S09 00:20:28.24,00:20:21.16,"Like, she met my brother in law, my my twin's husband, and was like, Travis is amazing and stuff, I really want to meet a Travis.",P27,S09 00:20:24.46,00:20:23.86,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:20:27.01,00:20:25.72,Mm.,P26,S09 00:20:28.00,00:20:27.04,Wow.,P25,S09 00:20:29.75,00:20:28.07,"Ah, it's okay.",P26,S09 00:20:31.16,00:20:28.24,And this guy's name was Travis and now they're married with two kids.,P27,S09 00:20:29.86,00:20:28.40,Wow.,P25,S09 00:20:31.20,00:20:30.26,What?,P25,S09 00:20:32.45,00:20:30.97,[laughs],P26,S09 00:20:33.52,00:20:31.16,"Like, law of attraction, I tell ya. Yeah.",P27,S09 00:20:33.20,00:20:32.35,What the F?,P25,S09 00:20:34.91,00:20:33.75,"F, people.",P25,S09 00:20:35.86,00:20:34.72,I know.,P27,S09 00:20:37.43,00:20:34.75,"Oh, people, I mean, that's a real story.",P26,S09 00:20:38.42,00:20:35.92,How do you want your cucumbers cut for the salad?,P28,S09 00:20:38.32,00:20:37.42,[inaudible 0:20:37.42],P27,S09 00:20:39.35,00:20:37.43,"Dude, that's crazy. Huh.",P26,S09 00:20:42.88,00:20:39.24,I trust your expertise.,P25,S09 00:20:43.81,00:20:42.89,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:20:43.82,00:20:42.90,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:20:45.08,00:20:43.30,"Can I have a piece of that cucumber, though?",P27,S09 00:20:45.73,00:20:43.71,Look at this. This is cool.,P25,S09 00:20:47.03,00:20:45.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:20:47.08,00:20:45.98,[inaudible 0:20:45.98] it over,P27,S09 00:20:47.50,00:20:46.10,You want some of this?,P28,S09 00:20:48.58,00:20:47.08,"No, one piece of cucumber.",P27,S09 00:20:50.58,00:20:48.58,Just pass me.,P27,S09 00:20:50.98,00:20:48.60,Oh. [laughs],P28,S09 00:20:50.66,00:20:49.62,Oh.,P25,S09 00:20:51.40,00:20:50.58,Thank you.,P27,S09 00:20:52.46,00:20:51.22,"Well, here, let's",P25,S09 00:20:53.02,00:20:51.34,It's like the only piece.,P28,S09 00:20:53.65,00:20:52.15,Ah.,P26,S09 00:20:55.07,00:20:53.65,That's funny.,P26,S09 00:20:58.20,00:20:54.37,"Here, you want this for the other plate you don't think we're gonna use? Yeah.",P25,S09 00:20:58.93,00:20:57.93,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:21:00.36,00:20:58.90,"So, you guys can nibble.",P28,S09 00:21:01.35,00:21:00.33,Are you guys cool?,P25,S09 00:21:01.81,00:21:00.37,Yeah?,P26,S09 00:21:05.72,00:21:00.42,"So now I'm it. It's me and Ryan, the last two in cricket, there's three out of twelve.",P27,S09 00:21:03.35,00:21:01.88,Are you guys cool with coconut?,P25,S09 00:21:04.15,00:21:03.37,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:21:05.71,00:21:04.73,All right.,P25,S09 00:21:11.56,00:21:10.06,He's like married with a kid now.,P27,S09 00:21:11.56,00:21:10.28,Oh.,P28,S09 00:21:12.57,00:21:11.65,Hmm.,P26,S09 00:21:13.36,00:21:12.10,He was from Japan.,P28,S09 00:21:14.04,00:21:13.22,Mhm.,P27,S09 00:21:15.13,00:21:14.17,Toko.,P25,S09 00:21:28.27,00:21:27.27,Hmm.,P26,S09 00:21:28.86,00:21:28.18,No.,P28,S09 00:21:35.30,00:21:29.58,"I remember the hut. That was an amazing, yet very trying time in my life.",P28,S09 00:21:36.52,00:21:34.92,"That's probably enough, Mel, yeah.",P27,S09 00:21:36.19,00:21:35.01,Yeah?,P26,S09 00:21:38.37,00:21:36.19,Ah. Well.,P26,S09 00:21:38.68,00:21:37.70,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:21:40.08,00:21:38.04,That's cool. That's so awesome.,P25,S09 00:21:40.52,00:21:39.92,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:21:44.14,00:21:41.42,Heidi texted me the other day. She wants to have a wine night.,P28,S09 00:21:45.52,00:21:44.26,With just you?,P27,S09 00:21:49.44,00:21:45.46,"I think, no, if if I can invite you, I think that would be awesome.",P28,S09 00:21:49.82,00:21:48.64,I think it's okay.,P27,S09 00:21:57.08,00:21:49.82,"E- we're doing a a party for at work and, uh, Ian's just coming alone, so I don't know.",P27,S09 00:21:58.95,00:21:56.75,"Oh, Mel, could you cut these in half?",P25,S09 00:22:01.53,00:21:58.95,I'm just gonna make it juicy parts.,P25,S09 00:21:59.82,00:21:59.18,Yep.,P28,S09 00:22:02.72,00:22:00.64,Like half this way or half that way?,P28,S09 00:22:05.15,00:22:01.84,"Yeah, just half, uh, over cuz I gotta roll it.",P25,S09 00:22:03.88,00:22:02.56,I'm fine with that.,P27,S09 00:22:07.40,00:22:05.15,That helps it makes the juice go out.,P25,S09 00:22:08.31,00:22:06.17,Is this someone you had like a,P26,S09 00:22:12.68,00:22:08.26,"No, not even a rift. It was just, I had a falling out with a couple of the girls in the house.",P27,S09 00:22:11.20,00:22:10.04,Mm.,P28,S09 00:22:12.00,00:22:11.02,"Awesome, thanks.",P25,S09 00:22:16.70,00:22:12.68,"For no reason, one just didn't like me, and the other one thought I was a",P27,S09 00:22:13.59,00:22:12.72,Mm.,P26,S09 00:22:19.17,00:22:16.86,"Well, Sarah, you're kind of a bitch, right? Like",P25,S09 00:22:24.18,00:22:18.48,"That I ditched out on a few things by lying about it? I know, it was totally legit reasons.",P27,S09 00:22:20.68,00:22:19.64,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:22:21.48,00:22:19.82,[inaudible 0:22:19.82] right?,P25,S09 00:22:24.13,00:22:20.85,"Oh, yeah, okay. Yeah.",P26,S09 00:22:24.08,00:22:20.88,The biggest bitch ever. [laughs],P28,S09 00:22:24.75,00:22:21.64,"[inaudible 0:22:21.64] right, like, how many people, who doesn't like Sarah?",P25,S09 00:22:26.75,00:22:24.13,"That's funny, though. Yeah.",P26,S09 00:22:26.80,00:22:24.18,"But I couldn't even, like, defend it. Like, I was like",P27,S09 00:22:26.75,00:22:25.40,Who would be like [noise],P25,S09 00:22:28.96,00:22:27.53,[inaudible 0:22:27.53],P28,S09 00:22:37.01,00:22:27.67,"But it's almost like not even worth it when people get that upset about that. You're like, calm down, like, you're really not gonna be friends with me cuz I, like, cancelled our hanging out or [inaudible 0:22:34.95]",P26,S09 00:22:34.96,00:22:28.96,"I think it's, like, if at one moment in life she didn't bend over backwards that once, then they were just like, oh.",P28,S09 00:22:31.02,00:22:29.95,Jealous.,P25,S09 00:22:34.06,00:22:33.26,Right.,P27,S09 00:22:35.04,00:22:34.02,Ser- oh.,P25,S09 00:22:37.82,00:22:34.66,"Well, she was getting married, but she gave me a week notice.",P27,S09 00:22:36.91,00:22:35.04,"People like that, that sucks.",P25,S09 00:22:41.00,00:22:37.82,Mel didn't even make it and they're still friends. It's not even fair.,P27,S09 00:22:39.15,00:22:37.87,Oh.,P26,S09 00:22:42.08,00:22:40.42,[noise],P25,S09 00:22:42.47,00:22:40.51,"Weird, that is weird, yeah.",P26,S09 00:22:42.46,00:22:41.70,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:22:44.58,00:22:42.36,I think it's cuz we lived in the attic together.,P28,S09 00:22:45.37,00:22:44.84,[laughs],P25,S09 00:22:50.02,00:22:47.76,"I lived in the attic with her, too, though, Mel.",P27,S09 00:22:49.40,00:22:48.74,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:22:50.06,00:22:49.31,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:22:52.73,00:22:50.02,Before you did. Yeah. I think.,P27,S09 00:22:52.06,00:22:50.92,"Oh, really?",P28,S09 00:22:52.51,00:22:51.09,I lived in the attic.,P26,S09 00:22:52.55,00:22:51.91,Hmm.,P25,S09 00:22:56.48,00:22:53.00,"I need to shove my microphone, my ear bud back in.",P28,S09 00:22:57.27,00:22:55.61,Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:22:58.11,00:22:56.57,"I know, I had to put mine back in.",P25,S09 00:22:58.64,00:22:57.90,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:22:59.71,00:22:58.28,My wrist hurts.,P25,S09 00:23:01.41,00:23:00.01,Your wrist hurts?,P26,S09 00:23:01.38,00:23:00.06,I think our ears,P28,S09 00:23:01.31,00:23:00.08,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:23:02.94,00:23:01.68,"Oh, you put it too tight.",P28,S09 00:23:04.66,00:23:02.88,"No, no. No, no. No.",P25,S09 00:23:06.40,00:23:03.94,"No, she's like a lesbian. Yeah.",P27,S09 00:23:05.75,00:23:04.66,For other reasons.,P25,S09 00:23:07.75,00:23:05.75,[laughs],P25,S09 00:23:07.48,00:23:05.82,"Oh, my goodness.",P28,S09 00:23:09.56,00:23:08.10,"Naughty, naughty.",P28,S09 00:23:11.64,00:23:08.82,"Lesbian problems, I don't want to hear all this.",P27,S09 00:23:13.41,00:23:10.09,[laughs],P26,S09 00:23:13.42,00:23:10.10,[laughs],P28,S09 00:23:12.06,00:23:10.20,"I know, listening problems are the worst.",P25,S09 00:23:14.56,00:23:13.52,Carpal tunnel?,P28,S09 00:23:14.39,00:23:13.53,Mm.,P26,S09 00:23:15.71,00:23:14.68,I hope not.,P25,S09 00:23:16.22,00:23:15.60,[laughs],P28,S09 00:23:19.52,00:23:16.32,"So, I read this, like, life changing book. Life changing.",P27,S09 00:23:19.13,00:23:17.13,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:23:20.17,00:23:19.13,Okay.,P26,S09 00:23:23.66,00:23:19.52,"So, I'm reading every biography I can get my hands on so I can write my own book.",P27,S09 00:23:23.66,00:23:21.84,"Ooh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:23:25.49,00:23:22.17,"Ooh. Okay, I like this.",P26,S09 00:23:31.04,00:23:24.98,"Yeah, just to find out what angle to go into. Like, comedy versus, like, something so serious.",P27,S09 00:23:25.86,00:23:25.06,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:23:27.39,00:23:26.63,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:23:31.07,00:23:28.91,"Mhm, mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:23:36.20,00:23:31.40,"Anyways, uh, it's like I ca- I thought I was done reading and I was like, okay, one more book.",P27,S09 00:23:43.22,00:23:36.20,"And I can't remember the author, but she wrote this book on, uh, being a dominatrix.",P27,S09 00:23:45.31,00:23:43.45,"Ooh, okay.",P26,S09 00:23:45.16,00:23:43.72,"Yeah, as a lesbian.",P27,S09 00:23:45.88,00:23:44.40,Oh.,P25,S09 00:23:48.26,00:23:45.16,"Anyways, I hadn't read that one, but the second one came out.",P27,S09 00:23:47.31,00:23:46.65,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:23:50.89,00:23:47.45,"I'm sorry, did you just say vegan dominatrix?",P28,S09 00:23:51.53,00:23:49.84,[laughs],P25,S09 00:23:51.49,00:23:49.87,[laughs],P26,S09 00:23:51.32,00:23:50.00,No.,P27,S09 00:23:53.07,00:23:51.49,Being a dominatrix.,P26,S09 00:23:53.93,00:23:51.53,"Lesbian, yeah.",P25,S09 00:23:53.78,00:23:52.20,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:23:54.69,00:23:52.23,"Oh, okay. [laughs]",P28,S09 00:23:56.15,00:23:53.07,[laughs],P26,S09 00:24:07.02,00:23:53.78,"So I didn't read that one, but the second one was recommended, so anyways, I read it and it was about this, uh, girl, that was gay, finding her real father and, uh, learning to be abandoned [inaudible 0:23:05.06] That one was called ""Abandon Me"".",P27,S09 00:23:56.07,00:23:54.69,I was over there.,P28,S09 00:23:58.20,00:23:56.95,[laughs],P25,S09 00:23:59.05,00:23:57.90,[laughs],P26,S09 00:24:01.28,00:23:59.22,[laughs],P25,S09 00:24:06.64,00:24:05.91,Oh.,P25,S09 00:24:07.73,00:24:06.41,Mm.,P26,S09 00:24:08.64,00:24:06.95,Ooh.,P25,S09 00:24:09.18,00:24:07.22,"Anyways, so interesting.",P27,S09 00:24:11.76,00:24:09.18,So it's it's sparked my desire now to meet my real father.,P27,S09 00:24:14.19,00:24:09.73,Ooh.,P26,S09 00:24:13.66,00:24:11.76,"Like, I'm just like hungry for it now.",P27,S09 00:24:14.19,00:24:12.49,Oh.,P28,S09 00:24:14.84,00:24:12.97,Oh.,P25,S09 00:24:18.44,00:24:13.66,"Cuz my one thing was, like, I'm gay, he's not going to accept me or whatever.",P27,S09 00:24:17.03,00:24:16.39,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:24:19.21,00:24:17.91,Mm.,P26,S09 00:24:20.72,00:24:18.44,And she's gay and did it.,P27,S09 00:24:33.36,00:24:20.72,"No, in, uh, and so reading this book and how it went down and all that stuff and it wasn't all that fantasies were made of, you know, but I was expecting that part, too, so that's my like six month goal now, is to like make that happen.",P27,S09 00:24:24.83,00:24:24.25,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:24:29.73,00:24:27.93,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:24:28.81,00:24:28.05,Okay.,P26,S09 00:24:29.77,00:24:28.82,Mm.,P25,S09 00:24:33.33,00:24:29.77,[noise],P25,S09 00:24:33.15,00:24:31.19,Mm.,P26,S09 00:24:34.93,00:24:33.33,Woah.,P25,S09 00:24:34.80,00:24:33.36,Life changing.,P27,S09 00:24:36.65,00:24:33.65,"Ooh, okay.",P26,S09 00:24:36.64,00:24:34.80,"Not the dominatrix part, though.",P27,S09 00:24:36.68,00:24:34.93,Look at you with your goals.,P25,S09 00:24:40.26,00:24:36.66,"Now I'm reading that part, too, though. But, no, easy money, though.",P27,S09 00:24:38.73,00:24:36.68,Now you don't have your dominatrix? No?,P25,S09 00:24:53.93,00:24:38.45,"So, not working or doing anything, I I watch a lot of daytime TV, and on Dr. Oz there was this girl who did the it's it's twenty three and me. I think it's like you spit into a thing, you send it off and they they they sequence your DNA.",P28,S09 00:24:41.20,00:24:40.26,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:24:44.22,00:24:42.53,[laughs],P25,S09 00:24:44.95,00:24:42.69,[laughs],P26,S09 00:24:52.28,00:24:51.33,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:25:04.91,00:24:54.41,"But if you if you opt in for, like, the family thing, they can try and find your closest relative who's done it and then try and find your biological whatevers.",P28,S09 00:24:56.23,00:24:54.43,"Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.",P26,S09 00:24:58.60,00:24:57.86,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:24:59.53,00:24:58.73,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:25:03.53,00:25:01.53,Woah.,P25,S09 00:25:06.17,00:25:04.33,Woah.,P25,S09 00:25:06.51,00:25:05.05,Oh.,P26,S09 00:25:06.62,00:25:05.24,"I know, I know his address.",P27,S09 00:25:08.28,00:25:06.62,He's left it so open on Google.,P27,S09 00:25:10.62,00:25:08.28,"I know where he lives, I know what his house looks like.",P27,S09 00:25:10.71,00:25:08.42,Woah.,P25,S09 00:25:09.83,00:25:08.55,"Oh, really?",P28,S09 00:25:12.07,00:25:10.55,Ah.,P26,S09 00:25:12.62,00:25:10.62,I found my half siblings on Facebook.,P27,S09 00:25:12.85,00:25:10.67,I'll go with you if you need me.,P28,S09 00:25:13.91,00:25:12.71,Yeah?,P26,S09 00:25:25.86,00:25:24.44,It's not that far.,P25,S09 00:25:28.70,00:25:25.84,"My mom and I have done the dr- the drunk dials, like",P27,S09 00:25:26.88,00:25:25.86,And what if,P25,S09 00:25:28.61,00:25:26.81,I've always wanted to go to Nelson.,P28,S09 00:25:29.82,00:25:28.17,Nelson's great. Have you ever been?,P25,S09 00:25:30.85,00:25:28.67,Oh.,P26,S09 00:25:33.06,00:25:28.70,"And been like, if they picked up, being like Goldy's Pizza?",P27,S09 00:25:31.62,00:25:30.55,You should totally go.,P25,S09 00:25:32.17,00:25:31.45,Yes.,P26,S09 00:25:33.00,00:25:31.62,It's so cute.,P25,S09 00:25:35.68,00:25:33.00,"And, like, there's like a hot spring and you can just like- ",P25,S09 00:25:35.25,00:25:33.05,[laughs],P26,S09 00:25:35.38,00:25:33.18,"But, like, yeah.",P27,S09 00:25:36.35,00:25:35.25,No way.,P26,S09 00:25:36.82,00:25:35.68,There's like a free ferry.,P25,S09 00:25:36.86,00:25:36.10,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:25:42.09,00:25:41.23,Huh.,P26,S09 00:25:46.42,00:25:45.02,Where's that?,P27,S09 00:25:47.93,00:25:45.75,In Nelson. Yeah.,P25,S09 00:25:48.00,00:25:46.42,"Oh, yeah, yeah.",P27,S09 00:25:50.00,00:25:48.00,"Even, yeah, Fairmont.",P27,S09 00:25:52.47,00:25:48.49,We're willing to go with you. [laughs],P28,S09 00:25:52.28,00:25:49.91,"Well, she said she'd never been, yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 00:25:52.51,00:25:50.59,"Yeah, yeah, exactly.",P26,S09 00:25:54.88,00:25:51.76,"Yeah, well, Fairmont Hot Springs has secret ones, t- too.",P27,S09 00:25:53.13,00:25:52.44,It's,P25,S09 00:25:55.75,00:25:54.40,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:25:55.96,00:25:54.88,"Yeah, I've been there.",P27,S09 00:25:57.08,00:25:55.97,Family is so weird.,P25,S09 00:26:06.26,00:25:57.08,"I was talking to my mom, so cuz my mom doesn't know who her dad is, but then she was saying, like, he supposedly- no, no, she- he's a duke.",P25,S09 00:26:05.16,00:26:03.57,Was she adopted or?,P27,S09 00:26:12.46,00:26:06.75,"So, my grandma, like, was sleeping around and so suppo- that's where she keeps saying like we're royalty.",P25,S09 00:26:13.58,00:26:11.92,I've never heard that term.,P27,S09 00:26:14.00,00:26:12.46,"But that's the thing, it's like I don't know.",P25,S09 00:26:14.48,00:26:13.58,Duke.,P27,S09 00:26:17.60,00:26:14.00,"A duke, you know, like a duke of Earl, like, a duke of Edinburgh.",P25,S09 00:26:17.12,00:26:16.12,Shut the front door.,P27,S09 00:26:20.28,00:26:17.12,"See, I thought duke was like someone you just have a one night stand. Ah.",P27,S09 00:26:19.53,00:26:18.35,Like duke and duchess.,P26,S09 00:26:23.42,00:26:19.06,"Like, yeah, it's like, yeah, so duke, so we're, I'm like god knows, who knows.",P25,S09 00:26:24.46,00:26:22.66,Your mom's pulling your leg.,P27,S09 00:26:27.04,00:26:23.88,"But no, no, no, no, well, that's the thing, like, I don't know.",P25,S09 00:26:27.49,00:26:24.45,"I know, right? You're like [noise]",P26,S09 00:26:29.48,00:26:27.04,"Like, I don't know what's grea- like gaga or whatever call her.",P25,S09 00:26:30.80,00:26:29.48,I don't know if she's,P25,S09 00:26:39.77,00:26:29.47,"It sounds awesome, but if- my my auntie went back far enough in our in our family history that there is royalty in there, too.",P28,S09 00:26:33.33,00:26:32.55,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:26:37.44,00:26:36.46,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:26:37.75,00:26:36.87,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:26:40.17,00:26:39.44,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:26:40.75,00:26:39.57,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:26:42.22,00:26:40.17,"Like, I mean, you know, if you're",P25,S09 00:26:42.88,00:26:41.28,"You look like royalty, though, Julia.",P27,S09 00:26:44.19,00:26:42.65,Shh.,P26,S09 00:26:45.64,00:26:42.73,[noise],P25,S09 00:26:46.65,00:26:42.81,[laughs],P28,S09 00:26:45.74,00:26:42.88,You and y- your mother specifically looks like royalty.,P27,S09 00:26:47.33,00:26:45.59,[laughs],P26,S09 00:26:48.86,00:26:45.64,"But no, like, it's like, no, but it's like why are we so tall?",P25,S09 00:26:47.38,00:26:46.40,She does.,P27,S09 00:26:52.40,00:26:48.86,"So we're always like, ""Well, maybe we're Norwegian or Dutch,"" but like whatever.",P25,S09 00:27:00.33,00:26:51.95,I don't think you're tall because you're royalty. [laughs] Just putting that out there. [laughs],P26,S09 00:26:55.86,00:26:54.31,"No, I don't think I- exactly.",P25,S09 00:26:57.11,00:26:55.86,"Well, that's why I was thinking.",P25,S09 00:27:01.53,00:26:55.87,"No, that's exactly what it is, Rachel. [laughs]",P28,S09 00:26:59.11,00:26:57.57,"No, obviously.",P25,S09 00:27:01.68,00:26:58.52,[laughs],P27,S09 00:27:08.44,00:26:59.11,"No, I didn't even think of that before, but my mom recently was like, ""Oh, no, like, it's a duke,"" and I'm like, ""Well, why don't you find out,"" and mom's like, ""No, I don't care,"" and I'm like, ""Well, I'm kind of curious.""",P25,S09 00:27:06.09,00:27:05.29,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:27:10.32,00:27:07.44,She at this age never has found it?,P27,S09 00:27:12.13,00:27:10.26,"No because, like, well, that's the thing.",P25,S09 00:27:13.24,00:27:11.08,"Like, I'm this age and hungry for it.",P27,S09 00:27:14.20,00:27:12.13,"Like, my my family doesn't talk to each other.",P25,S09 00:27:14.05,00:27:12.75,Mm.,P26,S09 00:27:15.71,00:27:14.20,"Like, I don't talk to anybody.",P25,S09 00:27:15.41,00:27:14.41,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:27:17.64,00:27:15.71,"They're not talking, whatever, my mom.",P25,S09 00:27:22.06,00:27:17.64,"It's just like it's weird, it's super weird, like, secrets.",P25,S09 00:27:23.13,00:27:20.27,So what you should buy her for Christmas is Ancestry DNA.,P27,S09 00:27:27.41,00:27:23.13,"I'm gonna do that for my twin. I'm going to be like, Merry Christmas. Do it for us.",P27,S09 00:27:26.21,00:27:24.45,Ooh.,P26,S09 00:27:25.73,00:27:24.60,Really?,P25,S09 00:27:27.35,00:27:26.48,That's cool.,P25,S09 00:27:29.27,00:27:27.33,[laughs],P26,S09 00:27:30.28,00:27:27.35,"I don't know, I don't know, it's but yeah, it's weird.",P25,S09 00:27:29.03,00:27:27.43,Yeah. [laughs],P27,S09 00:27:30.59,00:27:29.03,"Such a good gift, though.",P27,S09 00:27:42.17,00:27:41.06,Oh.,P25,S09 00:27:48.35,00:27:47.46,"Oh, wow.",P25,S09 00:27:50.60,00:27:49.26,Oh.,P25,S09 00:27:51.85,00:27:49.85,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:28:03.77,00:27:50.89,"It's like, why would you pay the money when you you can go back five generations, whereas me who can't, why would you spen- like, it just seemed frivolous to me, but it sparked my mind. Like, I was like, why haven't I done it when I don't know and she knows.",P27,S09 00:27:56.15,00:27:55.21,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:27:56.13,00:27:55.33,Mm.,P25,S09 00:27:58.01,00:27:57.01,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:28:01.57,00:28:00.82,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:28:08.35,00:28:01.57,"Well, that's like the, that's the only missing part. Like, other than that, like, I'm supposedly, like fifth or sixth generation Canadian.",P25,S09 00:28:10.17,00:28:07.49,So I'll buy you that for Christmas with like four other people.,P27,S09 00:28:10.91,00:28:08.95,"No, I don't wanna know.",P25,S09 00:28:11.27,00:28:09.77,But I would I,P26,S09 00:28:12.91,00:28:10.91,"I don't really wanna know, no.",P25,S09 00:28:15.39,00:28:12.03,"I would find it interesting to actually find out your genetic makeup, though.",P26,S09 00:28:17.23,00:28:14.57,"Yeah, I think it's so interesting. Yeah.",P27,S09 00:28:23.57,00:28:15.39,"It's kinda cool. Like, I know like most of the things, probably, but even people have done it and they find out crazy things or, like, yeah.",P26,S09 00:28:17.86,00:28:16.26,"It might, yeah.",P25,S09 00:28:31.01,00:28:21.83,"Okay, FYI the reason why I'm not doing it cuz I think it's really cool, too, I actually wanna know what I'm predisposed to, kind of medical issues.",P28,S09 00:28:27.09,00:28:26.41,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:28:29.69,00:28:28.31,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:28:29.80,00:28:28.53,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:28:31.23,00:28:30.55,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:28:33.89,00:28:31.01,I just don't ever want the government to get ahold of my DNA,P28,S09 00:28:33.55,00:28:32.37,I know.,P25,S09 00:28:35.06,00:28:33.55,But even what we're doing right now.,P25,S09 00:28:36.21,00:28:34.93,"Well, that's interesting.",P27,S09 00:28:36.20,00:28:35.06,"I mean, seriously.",P25,S09 00:28:36.29,00:28:35.11,"Wait, what?",P26,S09 00:28:37.46,00:28:36.20,But I'm kind of the same way.,P25,S09 00:28:38.93,00:28:37.01,[noise],P27,S09 00:28:39.46,00:28:37.46,"That's the reason why I'm holding back, too.",P25,S09 00:28:41.09,00:28:38.93,Why would the government be involved in ancestry?,P27,S09 00:28:40.29,00:28:39.57,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:28:41.93,00:28:39.65,Are you totally serious?,P26,S09 00:28:43.15,00:28:41.26,"I don't know, there's just something where I'm like [noise]",P25,S09 00:28:45.35,00:28:43.17,We need your citizens' DNA.,P28,S09 00:28:45.41,00:28:43.49,Everything's on the internet.,P26,S09 00:28:48.22,00:28:45.15,"Yeah, but I don't, you know.",P25,S09 00:28:48.95,00:28:46.19,"No, I didn't know I guess.",P27,S09 00:28:52.13,00:28:47.41,"Okay, what, okay, what are the things, okay w- ",P26,S09 00:28:49.81,00:28:48.29,All all of a sudden,P28,S09 00:28:56.43,00:28:49.81,Hold on. All of a sudden you don't get approved for your insurance because you're predisposed.,P28,S09 00:28:52.26,00:28:50.84,It's bloodline.,P25,S09 00:28:57.93,00:28:54.47,"Yeah, okay, yeah, pre existing conditions, that makes sense.",P26,S09 00:28:59.37,00:28:56.60,Or it's bloodline. That's what people are obsessed with.,P25,S09 00:29:00.25,00:28:58.99,Mm? Still?,P26,S09 00:29:06.77,00:28:59.37,"That's what yeah, well, think about it, if the bible or whatevers, like Cane bore unto blah, blah, blah, this an- person born unto whatever.",P25,S09 00:29:06.87,00:29:05.29,But it in this day and age?,P26,S09 00:29:09.57,00:29:07.15,"I don't know, man, it's some weird stuff.",P25,S09 00:29:11.67,00:29:07.23,"I mean, the Christians exist, but I think the Bible's not even there.",P26,S09 00:29:13.27,00:29:09.95,The insurance companies definitely care.,P28,S09 00:29:12.33,00:29:10.02,Why did the Mormons hold on to everything?,P25,S09 00:29:15.43,00:29:12.31,"Okay, that's fair, I think that's a really good point, insurance.",P26,S09 00:29:14.31,00:29:13.48,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:29:15.62,00:29:14.31,That's a valid point.,P25,S09 00:29:41.24,00:29:39.86,What?,P25,S09 00:29:43.41,00:29:39.87,"Isn't that crazy? Three percent healthy, yeah.",P27,S09 00:29:42.21,00:29:39.91,[noise] Mhm.,P26,S09 00:29:43.40,00:29:41.24,That's that's weird.,P25,S09 00:29:44.03,00:29:42.95,Huh.,P26,S09 00:29:46.21,00:29:43.25,But how do you know? What determines that? That's crazy.,P28,S09 00:29:49.25,00:29:45.45,"Urine, blood, fecal matter, all- they do everything. Blood pressure.",P27,S09 00:29:49.08,00:29:48.40,[laughs],P25,S09 00:29:51.43,00:29:49.43,Fecal matter. [laughs],P26,S09 00:29:52.11,00:29:50.08,"I know, I laugh at that, too.",P25,S09 00:29:51.39,00:29:50.25,Like.,P28,S09 00:29:51.21,00:29:50.33,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:29:56.25,00:29:51.21,"Well, your ba- gut bacteria relates to your mental status.",P27,S09 00:29:54.95,00:29:52.11,[laughs],P25,S09 00:29:58.59,00:29:52.61,That is actually with i- I think your poo poo would be the best indicator of your health.,P28,S09 00:29:56.25,00:29:55.29,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:29:56.64,00:29:55.44,Weird.,P25,S09 00:30:00.44,00:29:58.46,"Oh, yeah, yeah, no, for sure.",P25,S09 00:29:59.69,00:29:58.47,I agree.,P27,S09 00:30:00.29,00:29:59.15,Yeah?,P26,S09 00:30:01.31,00:30:00.43,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:30:01.33,00:30:00.79,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:30:01.68,00:30:01.26,Yep.,P25,S09 00:30:29.09,00:30:28.71,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:30:30.93,00:30:29.89,That's funny.,P26,S09 00:30:44.48,00:30:43.64,"Of course I have, yeah.",P25,S09 00:30:46.64,00:30:44.48,Rachel or Christa would get so pissed.,P25,S09 00:30:45.45,00:30:44.65,Shut up.,P27,S09 00:30:46.71,00:30:45.45,Rach- ,P27,S09 00:30:51.41,00:30:45.77,[laughs],P26,S09 00:30:48.31,00:30:46.64,[laughs],P25,S09 00:30:50.17,00:30:48.31,Christie would get so pissed off at me.,P25,S09 00:30:51.31,00:30:50.11,[laughs],P27,S09 00:30:52.66,00:30:50.80,"Yeah, Christie would get so annoyed.",P25,S09 00:30:52.91,00:30:51.31,What about these three?,P27,S09 00:30:57.33,00:30:55.97,"It's too new, okay.",P26,S09 00:30:58.48,00:30:56.37,"And I wouldn't, no, and I wouldn't in front of",P25,S09 00:31:00.31,00:30:57.55,So you haven't laughed hard enough with any of them.,P27,S09 00:31:00.15,00:30:59.35,No.,P25,S09 00:31:01.82,00:31:00.15,"No, I laughed [inaudible 0:31:00.95]",P25,S09 00:31:01.81,00:31:00.17,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:31:11.03,00:31:09.45,Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 00:31:12.88,00:31:10.71,"No, no, well, no, I'm not",P25,S09 00:31:15.37,00:31:12.35,You need to be with someone who makes you laugh so hard you fart in front of them.,P27,S09 00:31:17.11,00:31:14.88,"Well, I'm trying to think now.",P25,S09 00:31:16.93,00:31:14.93,[laughs],P26,S09 00:31:18.88,00:31:17.11,"I'm trying to think of what Marina did, like.",P25,S09 00:31:20.19,00:31:18.97,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:31:20.03,00:31:19.21,[laughs],P27,S09 00:31:21.71,00:31:20.68,[laughs],P25,S09 00:31:23.95,00:31:22.22,"Uh, I don't know, I don't know.",P25,S09 00:31:27.20,00:31:23.95,"No, Liz and I, we were we were laughing pretty hard last night.",P25,S09 00:31:27.63,00:31:26.99,uh-huh.,P26,S09 00:31:30.68,00:31:27.20,"Cuz I started doing like a Russian accent, so that was pretty fun. [laughs]",P25,S09 00:31:31.97,00:31:31.17,I like her.,P27,S09 00:31:33.93,00:31:32.17,"Yeah, well, I don't know.",P25,S09 00:31:34.75,00:31:32.67,Tell me about the Monday night date.,P27,S09 00:31:36.35,00:31:34.81,You have one or two or three?,P28,S09 00:31:38.08,00:31:35.86,"Three, yeah.",P25,S09 00:31:38.15,00:31:36.75,"So, tell me about Monday night.",P27,S09 00:31:39.00,00:31:38.08,Monday night?,P25,S09 00:31:39.37,00:31:38.87,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:31:46.93,00:31:45.47,Where'd you go?,P27,S09 00:31:50.60,00:31:46.88,"Just went to her house and we- oh my gosh, my ear- yeah.",P25,S09 00:31:50.17,00:31:49.09,Was the husband home?,P27,S09 00:32:01.35,00:31:51.35,"Um, but he was like downstairs working on the motorcycle and so we were just chatting and like she just like made like the most epic dinner and it was, it was so oh my gosh.",P25,S09 00:32:00.05,00:31:58.83,"Oh, yeah, it sounded really good.",P26,S09 00:32:00.91,00:31:59.89,What was it?,P27,S09 00:32:03.35,00:32:01.35,"Like, she can cook like there's no tomorrow.",P25,S09 00:32:07.62,00:32:03.35,"So, first she, like, sous vide the eggs and like s- ",P25,S09 00:32:07.97,00:32:06.51,"Ooh, sous vide.",P26,S09 00:32:08.05,00:32:06.87,Eggs?,P27,S09 00:32:08.67,00:32:07.21,Sous vide?,P28,S09 00:32:09.15,00:32:07.75,"Yeah, sous vide.",P25,S09 00:32:11.97,00:32:09.15,"So it's [inaudible 0:32:10.02], well, no.",P25,S09 00:32:12.33,00:32:09.31,"Where you, like, put it in a bag and throw it in water.",P26,S09 00:32:23.02,00:32:11.97,"Well, with eggs you've already got the shell, so you don't even need to put it in a bell, but sous vide is like when you take meat and you put it in like plastic and you cook it in water which circulates, but it's at a certain temperature so it cooks it.",P25,S09 00:32:14.51,00:32:13.79,Oh.,P28,S09 00:32:19.27,00:32:18.29,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:32:23.05,00:32:21.67,Wow.,P28,S09 00:32:25.64,00:32:23.02,"She's a, she's a phenomenal cook.",P25,S09 00:32:25.93,00:32:25.47,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:32:27.64,00:32:25.64,"So, yeah, so she made",P25,S09 00:32:28.39,00:32:27.05,Let's just call her a chef.,P28,S09 00:32:29.64,00:32:28.24,"Chef, for sure.",P25,S09 00:32:29.73,00:32:28.53,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:32:29.63,00:32:29.03,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:32:48.70,00:32:29.64,"Um, so she, uh, yeah, so she made the eggs, but then she made like this kinda Japanesey rice where she, like, I was kinda, like, nervous when she was making it because I'm like, ""oh, my god, you're putting seaweed in there and you're putting, like, like, uh, Worces- or, uh, soy sauce and some other weird stuff,"" and I'm like, ""Okay whatever,"" I'm like, ""but I trust you.""",P25,S09 00:32:46.93,00:32:46.09,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:32:51.75,00:32:48.70,"I'm, like, I'm trying to not be a big baby or whatever.",P25,S09 00:32:50.75,00:32:49.83,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:32:52.93,00:32:51.53,[laughs],P26,S09 00:33:00.85,00:32:51.75,"Um, and and she cooked, like, these yams with like that she like put cinnamon in it and then she cooked salmon.",P25,S09 00:33:03.37,00:33:00.83,Mmm. Sounds good.,P26,S09 00:33:08.60,00:33:00.85,"And so she cooked it so like you didn't have to cook the top, but because I am a big baby, I'm like, ""Can you flip the salmon for me, like, just just just sear it a little.""",P25,S09 00:33:04.47,00:33:03.61,Hmm.,P28,S09 00:33:09.05,00:33:08.33,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:33:12.15,00:33:08.60,"And, uh, so she did that and it was so tasty.",P25,S09 00:33:12.41,00:33:10.07,Mhm. Mmm.,P26,S09 00:33:12.99,00:33:10.45,What did you put the eggs in? The rice?,P27,S09 00:33:20.30,00:33:12.15,"Oh, and then she just like sliced the egg in half so it's like, you know, like a ramen egg or whatever and then it was just like a perfect like egg.",P25,S09 00:33:18.61,00:33:16.45,Mmm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:33:20.39,00:33:19.15,Way too fancy for me.,P27,S09 00:33:19.87,00:33:19.17,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:33:22.30,00:33:20.30,"Oh, my god, no, she does insane things.",P25,S09 00:33:23.33,00:33:22.17,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:33:24.70,00:33:22.30,"Yeah, like, she'll make like desserts and stuff.",P25,S09 00:33:25.39,00:33:23.53,"No wonder she's married, yeah.",P27,S09 00:33:28.75,00:33:24.70,"So, oh god, no, like, I'm just like, she is a good wife.",P25,S09 00:33:27.35,00:33:25.39,"No, I'm kidding, I'm kidding.",P27,S09 00:33:30.75,00:33:28.75,"Yeah, like, she is wife material.",P25,S09 00:33:29.75,00:33:28.77,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:33:31.31,00:33:30.69,Hmm.,P26,S09 00:33:32.75,00:33:30.75,And so anyways.,P25,S09 00:33:33.05,00:33:31.47,Did he come out for dinner?,P27,S09 00:33:41.20,00:33:33.40,"Oh, yeah, so we all ate to din- we all ate together and and then we watched, um, Rupal's Drag Race.",P25,S09 00:33:35.49,00:33:33.97,[laughs],P27,S09 00:34:02.95,00:34:00.05,"And then we just well, then we just started liking each other.",P25,S09 00:34:02.79,00:34:00.45,You guys look alike. That's so crazy.,P27,S09 00:34:03.99,00:34:02.77,"Oh, okay.",P28,S09 00:34:08.40,00:34:03.60,"And we're like, oh, I like you as a person or whatever and I'm like, well, this is weird, like, I'm starting to develop feelings.",P25,S09 00:34:09.29,00:34:06.16,Cuz then you don't wanna hurt them. Yeah.,P28,S09 00:34:07.65,00:34:06.53,Mm.,P26,S09 00:34:17.50,00:34:08.40,"Yeah, and I, like, I really like her as a friend and, like, we just we're very similar. Like, turned out we both grew up in White Rock and, like, it's just so bizarre.",P25,S09 00:34:10.05,00:34:09.27,Hmm.,P26,S09 00:34:21.80,00:34:17.50,"Like, both our parents, one of our parents, like, both work for the airline, like, it was just weird.",P25,S09 00:34:22.21,00:34:21.45,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:34:22.49,00:34:21.59,Mm.,P26,S09 00:34:23.80,00:34:21.80,And we're super comfortable.,P25,S09 00:34:54.20,00:34:48.35,"Um, yeah, but like like she's so fun, but I'm like, but she smokes and like she drinks.",P25,S09 00:34:56.71,00:34:53.01,"In Australia, it's dual, like, gay marriage is recognized on both sides.",P27,S09 00:34:57.90,00:34:55.60,"No it's- yeah, no, well, not it's not.",P25,S09 00:35:02.70,00:34:57.90,"It's not legal, you it's- not over there, but she's over here, but I'm not feeling it.",P25,S09 00:35:02.19,00:34:59.17,"Oh, you aren't over there, but she is over here, yeah.",P27,S09 00:35:03.05,00:35:01.79,Mm.,P26,S09 00:35:04.15,00:35:02.70,"The thing is, you know when you know.",P25,S09 00:35:14.15,00:35:09.30,"Like, we laugh so much, but I think she parties a little too much and I just don't",P25,S09 00:35:15.81,00:35:13.61,Do you think drugs or just drinking?,P27,S09 00:35:17.15,00:35:14.15,"No, no, no, just alcohol, like",P25,S09 00:35:15.71,00:35:14.37,"Wait, wha- ",P28,S09 00:35:17.69,00:35:16.37,How old are they?,P28,S09 00:35:24.85,00:35:17.15,"They're all like thir- well, uh, the cook is like twenty seven, twenty eight and the other ones are thirty, thirty one.",P25,S09 00:35:23.83,00:35:22.83,Mhm.,P27,S09 00:35:23.81,00:35:22.81,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:35:23.77,00:35:22.91,Mm.,P26,S09 00:35:26.55,00:35:24.85,"Yeah, so",P25,S09 00:35:27.17,00:35:24.95,Shut the front door. And and they and they party too much?,P28,S09 00:35:32.50,00:35:27.25,"Yeah, so that's the thing. Once you're thirty and you still party, you're gonna probably be a partier for life.",P25,S09 00:36:16.27,00:36:15.35,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:36:17.11,00:36:16.13,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:36:17.85,00:36:16.50,She'll talk to anybody.,P25,S09 00:36:18.39,00:36:16.55,So D is the,P28,S09 00:36:24.49,00:36:17.47,But I don't think she's a social butterfly. I think she just made the effort to prove that she really liked you. I don't feel like deep down she's a social butterfly.,P27,S09 00:36:19.10,00:36:17.85,Australian.,P25,S09 00:36:20.03,00:36:18.79,Okay.,P28,S09 00:36:25.90,00:36:23.50,"Oh, no, she is. No, she is like",P25,S09 00:36:26.57,00:36:25.29,"Have you met her friends, though?",P27,S09 00:36:27.85,00:36:26.45,"Oh, no, her friends are funny.",P25,S09 00:37:26.67,00:37:24.35,"Okay, all right, I'm getting it together.",P26,S09 00:37:27.53,00:37:25.23,Why am I so confused right now?,P28,S09 00:37:28.99,00:37:27.21,"Oh, it's confusing for me, too.",P27,S09 00:37:29.35,00:37:28.20,"I know, I know.",P25,S09 00:37:29.53,00:37:28.95,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:37:31.15,00:37:29.35,I know there's a lot. I'm sorry. [laughs],P25,S09 00:37:31.35,00:37:30.59,uh-huh.,P26,S09 00:37:34.45,00:37:31.03,Do you need your peppers? [laughs],P28,S09 00:37:34.25,00:37:32.35,"Not yet, no. No, I gotta cook",P25,S09 00:37:34.37,00:37:33.07,Ha ha.,P26,S09 00:37:35.87,00:37:35.07,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:37:55.25,00:37:54.17,"Well, no.",P28,S09 00:38:01.07,00:37:57.01,"But is that something that you, like, what do you want? What do you want?",P28,S09 00:38:01.05,00:37:58.80,"No, I don't want polyamory.",P25,S09 00:38:05.30,00:38:01.05,"I want monogamous. I want one girl, I wanna get married and I wanna have a dog.",P25,S09 00:38:06.05,00:38:05.17,Oh.,P28,S09 00:38:07.30,00:38:05.30,"That, and I want travel.",P25,S09 00:38:08.09,00:38:05.89,[laughs],P26,S09 00:38:08.21,00:38:07.23,Mkay.,P28,S09 00:38:10.10,00:38:07.30,"That is my dr- Well, first I want to travel, then I wanna get a dog.",P25,S09 00:38:10.05,00:38:08.33,I just wasn't wowed by her.,P27,S09 00:39:22.05,00:39:17.77,"Yeah, like, I think it makes sense to me that you would continue it all.",P26,S09 00:39:23.80,00:39:21.15,As long as I'm having fun and not stressed out.,P25,S09 00:39:24.51,00:39:23.11,"Yeah, yeah, yeah.",P26,S09 00:39:26.87,00:39:25.57,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:40:34.39,00:40:28.14,"but she just like is unreasonable about it, right? Like, she'll be like I'm",P26,S09 00:40:33.55,00:40:31.59,But I also feel she didn't like,P27,S09 00:40:35.05,00:40:32.40,"Like, she kind of reminds me of my ex.",P25,S09 00:40:41.97,00:40:34.39,"She'll be like, I'm upset because you're seeing other people. Meanwhile, we haven't had sex in three weeks.",P26,S09 00:40:36.49,00:40:34.41,She doesn't extent herself.,P27,S09 00:40:37.61,00:40:35.63,Oh.,P28,S09 00:40:49.97,00:40:41.97,"Like, I don't, that to me is like not so, yeah.",P26,S09 00:40:46.00,00:40:43.30,Right? Right? And it's kinda weird.,P25,S09 00:40:47.47,00:40:45.79,Love your pizza warmers.,P27,S09 00:40:49.65,00:40:46.00,"And that's where I'm like, well, we're kinda friends. I'm like, can't we just be friends?",P25,S09 00:40:53.55,00:40:49.65,"I'm like, well, like, and so it is kind of annoying, like, I probably would",P25,S09 00:40:59.37,00:40:52.07,"But it's ext- okay, so the fact when I brought it up, like, hey, why haven't we met her? She should meet your friends. The opposite applies.",P27,S09 00:41:00.20,00:40:58.40,I forgot.,P25,S09 00:41:02.95,00:40:59.71,Why why hasn't she extended herself to meet your friends?,P27,S09 00:41:02.17,00:41:00.15,[laughs],P28,S09 00:41:07.40,00:41:02.35,"No, she wanted to, she wanted to, no, immediately, and she was wondering why I",P25,S09 00:41:04.29,00:41:03.57,When?,P27,S09 00:41:05.81,00:41:04.51,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:41:28.67,00:41:27.01,"What do you think, yeah?",P26,S09 00:41:28.80,00:41:27.35,"Oh, god.",P25,S09 00:41:30.09,00:41:28.67,"[inaudible 0:41:28.68] No, no.",P26,S09 00:41:31.70,00:41:28.80,"No, so, so, why, sorry, was literally because I was dumb.",P25,S09 00:41:34.21,00:41:30.87,"I was, like, best friends. I'm like, you have that in reverse.",P28,S09 00:41:34.85,00:41:32.77,[laughs],P26,S09 00:41:34.85,00:41:33.95,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:41:37.15,00:41:34.85,So she was always inviting me over to hers.,P25,S09 00:41:39.17,00:41:36.25,Yeah. Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:41:44.50,00:41:37.15,"I met all her friends, and because I'm stupid, I never thought, hey, why don't you meet my friends because I'm always having fun at hers.",P25,S09 00:41:43.51,00:41:42.57,Right.,P26,S09 00:42:05.45,00:41:56.53,"And she's like, I thought you were just like keeping me at arm's distance, I thought, like, maybe you didn't like me that much or something, and so it was seriously a hundred percent my fault.",P25,S09 00:42:01.41,00:41:59.09,Mm.,P26,S09 00:42:01.71,00:42:00.27,Oh.,P27,S09 00:42:01.69,00:42:00.25,Oh.,P28,S09 00:42:02.77,00:42:01.41,Mm.,P26,S09 00:42:07.25,00:42:05.45,"Like, I was like, oh, I'm dumb.",P25,S09 00:42:10.11,00:42:06.39,"No, and don't get me wrong, I do really like her. I just want you to",P27,S09 00:42:08.95,00:42:07.25,So dumb.,P25,S09 00:42:12.17,00:42:09.17,You were just having too much fun. That's a compliment.,P28,S09 00:42:13.70,00:42:10.30,"But also, she's married, like, like.",P25,S09 00:42:13.59,00:42:12.77,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:42:24.73,00:42:22.81,Cancer loves,P27,S09 00:42:26.20,00:42:23.65,"My cancer friends. I know, right?",P25,S09 00:42:28.31,00:42:25.09,"No, cancer loves home, commitment, structure.",P27,S09 00:42:29.25,00:42:28.00,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:42:29.93,00:42:28.29,"Right, yeah. Yes.",P26,S09 00:42:37.13,00:42:28.31,"They love to invest in love, and I just feel like none of these girls can give you the love that you're craving.",P27,S09 00:42:31.67,00:42:30.39,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:42:31.70,00:42:30.60,"Oh, yeah, no.",P25,S09 00:42:32.75,00:42:32.05,Like.,P25,S09 00:42:44.15,00:42:35.65,"Like, I would do anything, anything for that one person, but the average should probably have someone who would do anything for me.",P25,S09 00:42:38.23,00:42:36.56,Mm.,P26,S09 00:42:40.89,00:42:40.31,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:42:41.35,00:42:40.39,Yeah?,P26,S09 00:42:45.50,00:42:44.15,"That'd be nice, right?",P25,S09 00:42:46.03,00:42:44.25,Right. Yes.,P27,S09 00:42:46.89,00:42:44.81,Yep. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:42:47.85,00:42:44.95,"Yeah, so.",P28,S09 00:42:47.50,00:42:45.50,"Yeah, so.",P25,S09 00:43:00.74,00:42:55.96,[laughs],P28,S09 00:42:59.13,00:42:56.13,"Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I wanna know.",P26,S09 00:43:00.60,00:42:57.75,"I'm, uh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:43:03.09,00:42:59.13,Who do you think? Who do you think? Irish boy. Twenty nine.,P27,S09 00:43:03.75,00:43:02.05,Mmm.,P25,S09 00:43:04.35,00:43:02.19,Irish boy?,P26,S09 00:43:05.87,00:43:03.61,"Yeah, so I'm so glad for the Irish connection.",P27,S09 00:43:09.23,00:43:05.83,Oh.,P28,S09 00:43:08.33,00:43:05.87,"Cuz I'm yeah, yeah.",P27,S09 00:43:07.12,00:43:05.95,Okay.,P26,S09 00:43:15.51,00:43:08.33,"And even, like, he had to go home early from the festival and he left her with his friends to take care of her and stuff, like, this is a first.",P27,S09 00:43:18.01,00:43:14.09,"Oh, my gosh, she needs taking care of, still. Okay. Yeah, no [inaudible 0:43:16.86]",P28,S09 00:43:20.41,00:43:16.43,"Well, no, it sounds like, it sounds like this could be a good match.",P27,S09 00:43:19.56,00:43:18.62,Where,P26,S09 00:43:21.23,00:43:20.41,She was like,P27,S09 00:43:21.56,00:43:20.42,"Okay, where did they meet?",P26,S09 00:43:25.09,00:43:21.23,"Uh, they met at a wedding. Yeah.",P27,S09 00:43:25.72,00:43:23.78,Okay. Hmm.,P26,S09 00:43:30.07,00:43:25.63,"And, uh, yeah, hit it off, like",P27,S09 00:43:36.18,00:43:28.66,"I mean, that would be so nice, though. Like, if she really met someone that she really liked, like, that would be so fantastic, right?",P26,S09 00:43:34.35,00:43:32.07,"I think so, I think so.",P27,S09 00:43:34.30,00:43:32.85,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:43:34.45,00:43:33.15,Yes.,P28,S09 00:43:36.41,00:43:35.07,I know.,P28,S09 00:43:49.35,00:43:36.11,"But she's like not letting h- and it's funny, she won't let herself get involved because she thinks that he's gonna go back to Ireland, but I was like, I'm in the same situation, but like why not just enjoy this year or the next two years? Like, who cares.",P27,S09 00:43:37.02,00:43:36.18,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:43:38.83,00:43:37.19,"I'm skeptical, though.",P28,S09 00:43:40.33,00:43:39.45,Understood.,P28,S09 00:43:43.54,00:43:42.60,Oh.,P26,S09 00:43:47.88,00:43:47.10,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:43:51.91,00:43:49.35,"And if you really like them, go back with them, like",P27,S09 00:43:50.43,00:43:49.43,Yeah.,P28,S09 00:43:53.32,00:43:51.94,Mm.,P26,S09 00:43:55.19,00:43:52.07,"Or if you don't, then just let it go.",P28,S09 00:43:59.45,00:43:55.19,"It's just like, we try to project too far ahead.",P28,S09 00:43:58.60,00:43:56.45,"Yeah, I hear, let's get some light on.",P25,S09 00:43:57.28,00:43:56.44,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:44:00.00,00:43:58.54,"Oh, that's a good idea.",P26,S09 00:44:03.13,00:43:59.45,"I feel, as human beings, we try to predict the future.",P28,S09 00:44:06.77,00:44:01.33,"This is the first time for me that I'm like, I just wanna enjoy the now with this person.",P27,S09 00:44:06.13,00:44:04.75,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:44:08.02,00:44:04.94,"Mm. Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:44:07.85,00:44:06.71,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:44:12.47,00:44:07.19,And I don't care where it goes because I'm sick of chasing people and worrying about getting married and stuff.,P27,S09 00:44:09.10,00:44:08.34,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:44:11.55,00:44:10.55,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:44:14.97,00:44:12.47,"Like, are they my partner? Like I'm d- done with that.",P27,S09 00:44:15.12,00:44:13.38,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:44:16.65,00:44:14.10,[noise] only missing.,P25,S09 00:44:17.97,00:44:14.97,I feel like Julia is leading that.,P27,S09 00:44:16.78,00:44:15.12,Mm.,P26,S09 00:44:19.79,00:44:17.97,You're doing a better job than me.,P27,S09 00:44:23.40,00:44:19.10,I've just been like serial dating like there's no tomorrow.,P25,S09 00:44:23.75,00:44:22.24,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:44:24.07,00:44:22.59,[laughs],P28,S09 00:44:24.50,00:44:23.40,"Like, I don't think you",P25,S09 00:44:29.80,00:44:24.50,"I wonder, like, have I, like, dated the most people of anyone in the world? Like, seriously.",P25,S09 00:44:26.76,00:44:25.04,"No, you're doing well.",P26,S09 00:44:30.51,00:44:28.65,I doubt it. No.,P27,S09 00:44:35.98,00:44:30.34,"I don't know, we made lists. [laughs]",P26,S09 00:44:34.20,00:44:31.55,I've been on [laughs],P25,S09 00:44:36.37,00:44:33.41,"No, but I know people that are in, like, triple digits times three.",P27,S09 00:44:36.20,00:44:34.20,We did make lists.,P25,S09 00:44:37.58,00:44:35.98,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:44:37.25,00:44:36.20,Hmm.,P25,S09 00:44:37.91,00:44:36.37,"Like, Julia's not the",P27,S09 00:44:39.84,00:44:38.12,"Yeah, that's insane.",P26,S09 00:44:41.35,00:44:39.70,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:44:40.70,00:44:39.84,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:44:44.55,00:44:39.87,"Just in terms of lesbians who, like, uhaul so quickly, maybe you're behind, but yeah.",P27,S09 00:44:45.00,00:44:42.65,"Yeah, I just, I wanna be careful.",P25,S09 00:44:47.00,00:44:45.00,I don't wanna [inaudible 0:44:45.48],P25,S09 00:44:51.65,00:44:45.51,"My best friend going home, she asked me, she's like, remember, Mel, when we were, like, tallying up how many people we've been with?",P28,S09 00:44:47.36,00:44:46.56,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:44:51.70,00:44:51.02,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:44:57.21,00:44:52.23,"And she was like, so, where are you at now? And I was like, I stopped.",P28,S09 00:44:56.55,00:44:54.90,[laughs],P25,S09 00:44:56.16,00:44:55.08,You're like,P26,S09 00:44:58.12,00:44:57.12,Right?,P26,S09 00:44:59.21,00:44:57.77,I stopped counting.,P28,S09 00:45:14.60,00:44:58.72,"We made lists the other, like, a couple weeks back or like a month ago to try and it was so funny cuz you can't remember. Like, we walked away from the dishes and be like, oh my god, this person, you go back. And, like, my whole list is like, boy with this accent. It's like, boy from the park.",P26,S09 00:45:03.15,00:45:00.80,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:45:16.45,00:45:14.60,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:45:17.06,00:45:14.60,"Like just like, what are these?",P26,S09 00:45:17.53,00:45:15.93,Guy with hairy back.,P28,S09 00:45:19.06,00:45:17.06,"Yeah, right?",P26,S09 00:45:19.95,00:45:17.30,"Yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 00:45:21.71,00:45:17.53,[laughs],P28,S09 00:45:21.06,00:45:19.48,"No, it's really funny.",P26,S09 00:45:25.25,00:45:20.30,"I know, I'm like, hotel room, car, park.",P25,S09 00:45:25.52,00:45:23.98,"Oh, something is",P26,S09 00:45:26.15,00:45:24.97,That's me.,P27,S09 00:45:26.10,00:45:25.52,Okay.,P26,S09 00:45:26.75,00:45:26.05,Oh.,P25,S09 00:45:27.43,00:45:26.09,Oh.,P28,S09 00:45:27.38,00:45:26.10,Mm.,P26,S09 00:45:30.27,00:45:26.79,"Mine's still, like, below twenty.",P27,S09 00:45:29.82,00:45:28.93,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:45:34.95,00:45:30.49,I think I'm in my upper twenties.,P28,S09 00:45:33.05,00:45:31.75,I forget mine.,P25,S09 00:45:38.54,00:45:34.98,"I was like early forties, for sure. Yeah.",P26,S09 00:45:40.80,00:45:36.80,"I think I was, yeah, thirteen and twenty four.",P25,S09 00:45:38.77,00:45:37.41,In my thirties.,P28,S09 00:45:42.64,00:45:40.98,Men and women? Mhm.,P26,S09 00:45:42.60,00:45:41.35,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:47:39.60,00:47:37.55,"Oh, yeah. I'm [noise]",P25,S09 00:47:39.83,00:47:37.83,"Awful, awful, yeah.",P27,S09 00:47:40.90,00:47:39.62,I'm so like you.,P26,S09 00:47:40.68,00:47:39.70,Julia.,P28,S09 00:47:41.90,00:47:40.50,[laughs],P25,S09 00:47:43.13,00:47:40.69,[laughs],P27,S09 00:47:43.26,00:47:40.68,[laughs],P28,S09 00:47:45.25,00:47:41.90,"Well, when you're as good as me, Mel, I can make [inaudible 0:47:44.00]",P25,S09 00:47:44.84,00:47:42.88,"Like, boom. [laughs]",P26,S09 00:47:45.23,00:47:43.75,It's so damn true.,P27,S09 00:47:46.06,00:47:44.84,Easy.,P26,S09 00:47:47.20,00:47:45.55,Doctor Jay.,P25,S09 00:48:30.50,00:48:28.05,"Go for a cider. If you want some cider, help yourself.",P25,S09 00:48:31.04,00:48:29.32,What is that story?,P26,S09 00:48:33.00,00:48:29.66,"No, I'm offering wine, but I'm saying do you want cider?",P28,S09 00:48:31.99,00:48:31.01,I'll have wine.,P27,S09 00:48:34.20,00:48:31.15,"Oh, oh, I'll have a cider, yeah, thanks.",P25,S09 00:48:37.13,00:48:33.35,"I'll do half a glass, though, cuz that's gotta be it. I'm going to the hospital.",P27,S09 00:48:36.16,00:48:33.38,[laughs],P26,S09 00:48:37.90,00:48:35.50,I'm it gets hard with this ear things in my ear.,P25,S09 00:48:37.16,00:48:36.52,Mm.,P26,S09 00:48:39.59,00:48:37.93,Mine fit perfectly.,P27,S09 00:48:40.90,00:48:38.90,Yeah? Are they bugging you?,P26,S09 00:48:41.40,00:48:39.00,"Yeah, no, Mel and I, we're having some issues.",P25,S09 00:48:42.82,00:48:40.90,"Oh, mine's uh mine's okay.",P26,S09 00:48:43.40,00:48:41.40,"Like, I can't even hear her. I was like, what?",P25,S09 00:48:45.65,00:48:43.40,Doopy doo. Doopy doo.,P25,S09 00:48:45.53,00:48:43.38,[laughs],P26,S09 00:48:47.18,00:48:46.04,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:48:48.76,00:48:47.72,Mm.,P26,S09 00:48:48.85,00:48:48.05,Bloop.,P25,S09 00:49:01.77,00:48:57.43,"So imagine, like, [noise] calling the paramedics.",P27,S09 00:49:00.44,00:48:58.54,Can you even?,P26,S09 00:49:02.72,00:48:59.92,Call it the problems we have as we get older.,P28,S09 00:49:01.40,00:49:00.20,Right?,P25,S09 00:49:02.76,00:49:01.64,Like.,P26,S09 00:49:06.25,00:49:03.27,"Right, and he wasn't that much older, but like, you have to call his wife.",P27,S09 00:49:05.06,00:49:03.70,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:49:07.62,00:49:05.12,[laughs],P26,S09 00:49:07.61,00:49:06.25,Cheating.,P27,S09 00:49:08.90,00:49:07.50,Dude.,P25,S09 00:49:14.30,00:49:12.30,[laughs] Look at Mel's face.,P25,S09 00:49:13.94,00:49:12.66,That's so,P26,S09 00:49:24.34,00:49:20.80,"Right, but they also was my house, like I don't",P26,S09 00:49:26.13,00:49:23.47,"No. Epics, I don't know.",P27,S09 00:49:25.85,00:49:24.30,Dude.,P25,S09 00:49:33.07,00:49:30.67,"So, like, it's not the world is not fair.",P27,S09 00:49:35.85,00:49:31.15,"So you kill, so you kill people, people die when you chase your or- ",P25,S09 00:49:34.86,00:49:31.64,Everyone deserves to have an orgasm.,P28,S09 00:49:37.51,00:49:34.65,"So, who was she in her past life? That's what I wanna know.",P27,S09 00:49:39.50,00:49:37.25,"Wow, right?",P25,S09 00:49:41.31,00:49:37.51,I really bel- so I was at at this past life thing.,P27,S09 00:49:41.52,00:49:40.98,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:49:41.70,00:49:41.10,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:49:43.45,00:49:41.31,I was telling maybe Julia about this.,P27,S09 00:49:43.16,00:49:41.62,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:49:43.78,00:49:42.90,uh-huh.,P26,S09 00:49:44.85,00:49:43.10,"Long time a- was, yeah.",P25,S09 00:49:45.36,00:49:44.06,Finish your can.,P28,S09 00:49:52.29,00:49:44.77,"So, I'm doing these things at this, uh, workshop about discovering who you really are, your past life, stuff like that.",P27,S09 00:49:47.95,00:49:45.65,Fine now. So bossy.,P25,S09 00:49:47.92,00:49:45.83,[laughs] Fine.,P28,S09 00:49:48.62,00:49:47.94,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:49:51.48,00:49:50.80,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:49:56.43,00:49:52.29,"So, this one was about, like, finding your soul and what your life purpose is.",P27,S09 00:49:56.76,00:49:56.16,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:01.03,00:49:56.43,"And, like, I always take it with a grain of salt, but this one, this guy was really well spoken.",P27,S09 00:50:01.48,00:50:00.82,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:07.83,00:50:01.03,That he was like a professor or whatever and one day he heard a voice and he was like asking to like find his way.,P27,S09 00:50:05.00,00:50:04.46,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:50:07.65,00:50:06.45,Mm.,P25,S09 00:50:16.61,00:50:07.83,"And he can't hear a lot. He's not, like, a medium or anything, but he reaches out to other mediums to help him uncover like what there is.",P27,S09 00:50:08.98,00:50:08.06,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:15.54,00:50:08.98,[noise],P26,S09 00:50:17.54,00:50:15.54,Okay. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:50:26.49,00:50:16.61,"What he uncovered w- was his experience is that he asked to know what love is and he was walking down the street and he felt a true connection, like, he could see and be like, you're part of me, I love you.",P27,S09 00:50:22.62,00:50:21.92,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:28.33,00:50:26.49,"Like, it's such, so much love.",P27,S09 00:50:28.95,00:50:27.00,Ooh.,P25,S09 00:50:28.92,00:50:28.22,Huh.,P26,S09 00:50:32.69,00:50:28.33,"Like a sun with a sun ray and you're like, we're one, sort of thing. That's how he described it.",P27,S09 00:50:33.24,00:50:31.44,Oh. Mhm?,P26,S09 00:50:40.19,00:50:32.69,"Anyways, so he, uh, talks to mediums about past lives and stuff like that and he was, like, going into Hitler's life and stuff. So interesting.",P27,S09 00:50:38.45,00:50:37.45,Cool.,P25,S09 00:50:39.78,00:50:39.22,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:41.35,00:50:40.15,[noise] Sorry.,P25,S09 00:50:51.89,00:50:40.19,"Anyways, fifty minutes into the talk, this sort of disabled guy, he didn't look disabled, was with this older man and started sort of shakels.",P27,S09 00:50:43.90,00:50:42.00,[noise],P25,S09 00:50:43.62,00:50:43.12,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:49.08,00:50:47.42,Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:50:51.88,00:50:49.56,What does sorta disabled mean?,P28,S09 00:50:53.40,00:50:50.50,[laughs],P25,S09 00:50:59.15,00:50:51.89,"Well, he was fine, but he went up to go to the bathroom twice and, like, you couldn't tell if he was at that time, but he made like a noise.",P27,S09 00:51:01.42,00:50:57.62,[laughs] Okay.,P26,S09 00:51:02.00,00:50:57.75,[laughs],P25,S09 00:51:06.13,00:50:59.15,"Anyways, during the speech, so ten minutes into the speech, this guy starts, like, going like shaking.",P27,S09 00:51:00.44,00:50:59.78,Okay.,P28,S09 00:51:02.04,00:51:00.44,I don't need to know anymore.,P28,S09 00:51:07.80,00:51:05.76,Like a little seizurey? Like,P26,S09 00:51:13.55,00:51:07.01,"A little bit seizurey, and then the older guy's like, he's gonna have a seizure, it's okay, keep going with the talk.",P27,S09 00:51:12.28,00:51:11.76,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:51:14.12,00:51:13.34,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:51:15.47,00:51:13.55,Serena and I were in the front row.,P27,S09 00:51:22.35,00:51:15.47,"So, the guy just keeps on talking and, uh, about past lives, blah, blah, blah. Like, it was",P27,S09 00:51:18.76,00:51:18.24,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:51:22.00,00:51:20.94,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:51:30.19,00:51:22.35,"And then, like, two minutes later this guy's in a full fledged foam out of his mouth, seizuring.",P27,S09 00:51:30.26,00:51:26.86,[laughs],P26,S09 00:51:30.10,00:51:26.90,"Oh, yeah, you were saying.",P25,S09 00:51:32.55,00:51:30.19,"And Shay and I are in the front row, like",P27,S09 00:51:31.86,00:51:30.26,"Oh, my god.",P26,S09 00:51:34.35,00:51:30.95,Rachel's laughing at bad things [laughs],P25,S09 00:51:34.41,00:51:33.09,"No, and",P27,S09 00:51:37.70,00:51:33.62,"But, like, that is a weird, like, you're at this",P26,S09 00:51:36.85,00:51:34.35,"No, that's hilarious, that's bizarre.",P25,S09 00:51:41.95,00:51:35.29,"So, if this is the speaker, Shay and I were here and this guy's right here, so we can't move, we can't go.",P27,S09 00:51:39.70,00:51:38.52,[laughs],P26,S09 00:51:42.38,00:51:39.70,Yeah. Right.,P26,S09 00:51:46.13,00:51:41.95,"And, like, trauma is this line where you either laugh or you cry.",P27,S09 00:51:43.30,00:51:42.15,And help him.,P25,S09 00:51:48.28,00:51:46.00,Yeah. uh-huh.,P26,S09 00:51:50.41,00:51:46.13,"I laughed. Like, I learned that from years of trauma, that I can't.",P27,S09 00:51:51.08,00:51:49.86,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:51:55.81,00:51:50.59,"Anyways, so he starts seizuring and no one's doing anything and the speaker doesn't mis- miss a beat.",P27,S09 00:51:54.16,00:51:52.56,[laughs],P26,S09 00:51:55.35,00:51:52.65,[laughs],P25,S09 00:51:58.75,00:51:55.81,"He's like keeps talking, microphone.",P27,S09 00:51:58.80,00:51:55.96,Just is talking away. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:51:58.95,00:51:57.85,[laughs],P25,S09 00:52:04.26,00:51:58.20,"He's like, he comes every Tuesday. [laughs]",P28,S09 00:51:59.65,00:51:58.95,Right.,P25,S09 00:52:04.66,00:51:59.13,[laughs],P26,S09 00:52:05.55,00:51:59.65,"Just, just so ya all now, he's going to have a seizure, yeah, like, hmm.",P25,S09 00:52:00.89,00:52:00.01,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:52:02.89,00:52:00.89,[laughs],P27,S09 00:52:08.87,00:52:02.89,"So I burst out laughing and I was like, oh my god, I've never seen a seizure before.",P27,S09 00:52:05.56,00:52:04.66,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:52:08.42,00:52:06.08,[laughs],P26,S09 00:52:09.70,00:52:08.60,Oh.,P25,S09 00:52:11.49,00:52:08.87,I can't escape. I'm right in the front row.,P27,S09 00:52:10.84,00:52:09.92,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:52:13.90,00:52:11.25,"Well, who helped, who helped this dude?",P25,S09 00:52:12.35,00:52:11.49,[laughs],P27,S09 00:52:15.43,00:52:12.35,"So then I stop and I'm like, oh, my god. Nobody.",P27,S09 00:52:18.71,00:52:15.43,"One lady was like, can I? And he's like, no, the older guy.",P27,S09 00:52:22.85,00:52:18.45,"But you need to, but you need to turn them on their side.",P25,S09 00:52:21.89,00:52:18.71,This guy slips to the floor and starts going really crazy.,P27,S09 00:52:23.51,00:52:22.65,Not even.,P27,S09 00:52:29.24,00:52:23.72,You're I I think you're actually not meant to- you're just supposed to hold their head to make sure they don't hit anything.,P28,S09 00:52:29.29,00:52:27.81,That's what he was doing.,P27,S09 00:52:34.20,00:52:28.50,"Or that they don't bite, but make sure they don't, like, bite their tongue, that's the thing, cuz they can, they can swallow their tongue.",P25,S09 00:52:29.86,00:52:28.86,Mm.,P26,S09 00:52:33.65,00:52:31.43,"I don't know, I've never seen it before.",P27,S09 00:52:33.06,00:52:32.18,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:52:35.90,00:52:33.66,"Yeah, yeah, yeah. yeah.",P28,S09 00:52:37.03,00:52:34.41,"So, anyways, this guy is going.",P27,S09 00:52:35.20,00:52:34.50,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:52:35.58,00:52:34.48,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:52:43.31,00:52:37.03,"And Shay at one point, cuz I've stopped laughing, grabs her purse, looks and me and is like, I can't do this anymore.",P27,S09 00:52:41.00,00:52:39.95,Mhm.,P25,S09 00:52:40.92,00:52:39.94,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:52:45.58,00:52:42.94,"[laughs] He's like, get me out!",P26,S09 00:52:51.63,00:52:43.31,"Bursts out but she star- she bursts out laughing, turns and there's nowhere to go and she can't escape and the talker's still",P27,S09 00:52:46.30,00:52:45.20,Mhm.,P25,S09 00:52:51.28,00:52:47.49,"[laughs] Oh, my god.",P26,S09 00:52:53.13,00:52:51.63,He's looking at her like,P27,S09 00:52:53.00,00:52:51.85,Dude.,P25,S09 00:52:54.24,00:52:52.56,"Oh, my god.",P26,S09 00:52:56.59,00:52:53.13,"And she, like, looks at me and then sits back down.",P27,S09 00:52:55.35,00:52:54.10,Dude.,P25,S09 00:53:03.10,00:52:55.32,"That is so awkward, like [laughs]",P26,S09 00:52:59.45,00:52:56.59,So she sits there with her purse and then I lose it.,P27,S09 00:53:04.33,00:52:59.45,"I can't even then wa- watch this guy with a seizure, killing myself.",P27,S09 00:53:01.50,00:52:59.95,[laughs],P25,S09 00:53:14.10,00:53:04.15,"Dude, I wonder what other people were thinking of you guys, like, in that, like, if someone doesn't know that's how people react, they'd be like, oh my god, and these two people were just like laughing hysterically.",P25,S09 00:53:06.15,00:53:04.61,It's the worst.,P27,S09 00:53:09.96,00:53:07.06,[laughs],P28,S09 00:53:09.98,00:53:07.18,Right? Yeah. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:53:10.85,00:53:07.25,[laughs],P27,S09 00:53:13.07,00:53:12.29,Oh.,P27,S09 00:53:15.64,00:53:12.86,"Oh, everyone, yeah. Judgey, judgey.",P28,S09 00:53:14.26,00:53:13.38,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:53:19.81,00:53:13.93,"It was like a four minute seizure. So he finally, like, lays to the floor and just is like [noise] and then falls asleep.",P27,S09 00:53:18.35,00:53:17.20,Oh.,P25,S09 00:53:19.00,00:53:17.44,"Oh, man.",P26,S09 00:53:20.38,00:53:19.74,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:53:23.81,00:53:19.81,And the speaker still has not missed a beat and continues for another hour.,P27,S09 00:53:21.00,00:53:19.90,"Yeah, yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 00:53:24.80,00:53:23.64,Wow.,P26,S09 00:53:28.47,00:53:24.11,And I kept laughing for like every ten minutes for the next two hours.,P27,S09 00:53:27.10,00:53:25.95,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 00:53:31.67,00:53:28.47,"Like, I just I just never seen anything like it.",P27,S09 00:53:31.65,00:53:29.55,"Oh, my gosh.",P25,S09 00:53:33.26,00:53:29.58,[laughs],P26,S09 00:53:33.65,00:53:31.65,That is insane.,P25,S09 00:53:37.37,00:53:32.93,There's a lesson in this. But I don't know what it is. [laughs],P27,S09 00:53:34.66,00:53:33.26,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:53:38.46,00:53:35.96,Yet. Yet. You don't know.,P28,S09 00:53:37.14,00:53:35.98,"Oh, my god.",P26,S09 00:53:38.50,00:53:36.35,"I don't know, man, I don't know.",P25,S09 00:53:39.59,00:53:37.37,And I still don't know if I believe in past lives.,P27,S09 00:53:40.35,00:53:39.20,No?,P25,S09 00:53:42.17,00:53:39.59,This guy was like arguing after like,P27,S09 00:53:43.52,00:53:41.14,Interesting. Hmm.,P26,S09 00:53:52.50,00:53:41.55,"I kind of, I do think there's like, def- I, well, no, I'm pretty sure. I do feel like there were past lives, like, cuz",P25,S09 00:53:53.42,00:53:51.08,All energy is conserved.,P28,S09 00:54:00.35,00:53:53.55,"Exactly, you can't c- destroy it. You can't destroy energy, it just changes, so",P25,S09 00:53:55.10,00:53:54.22,Mm.,P26,S09 00:53:58.59,00:53:58.15,Right.,P27,S09 00:54:04.54,00:53:58.62,"But I don't know if it's, like, your past life necessariate as much as it is your energy.",P28,S09 00:54:10.55,00:54:04.20,"It's energy, but the thing is, like, but it kin- but it just makes sense, doesn't it? That there's past lives?",P25,S09 00:54:05.30,00:54:04.48,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:54:11.61,00:54:10.25,"It does because, like",P27,S09 00:54:17.35,00:54:10.55,"Like, when you, when you're, when you're, when you meet other people and you're just like, like when I say attracted, I just mean, like, if I get along with you.",P25,S09 00:54:15.74,00:54:14.64,Mhm?,P26,S09 00:54:18.65,00:54:17.35,"Like, I'm just like, well.",P25,S09 00:54:22.68,00:54:17.84,Why can't that be present energies and not based on past or,P28,S09 00:54:29.20,00:54:20.42,"I kind of tend to agree. Or, more it's when I think about it, the idea of me doing life again sounds exhausting to me.",P26,S09 00:54:29.50,00:54:28.40,It does.,P25,S09 00:54:29.28,00:54:28.46,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:54:32.15,00:54:29.01,"No, but they say it's necessary in terms of what",P27,S09 00:54:32.50,00:54:29.64,In no way do I want to be,P26,S09 00:54:34.14,00:54:32.50,I don't wanna do it all again.,P26,S09 00:54:35.80,00:54:34.05,"I would, I would.",P25,S09 00:54:38.80,00:54:34.14,"Like, there's no, no, there's like no part of me that's like, I wanna do it again.",P26,S09 00:54:35.10,00:54:34.14,Mm.,P28,S09 00:54:39.39,00:54:38.21,Then you're a new soul.,P27,S09 00:54:43.87,00:54:39.79,"The older souls will like be like, okay, I didn't learn this lesson, I need to keep going.",P27,S09 00:54:44.55,00:54:43.55,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:55:00.95,00:54:44.80,"Like, it just sounds, it just sounds so plausible. And that's the thing, it's like, I and that's like where even parallel universes, like, I totally see, like, drug addict Julia, I totally see, like, these other crazy parts of Julia or",P25,S09 00:54:46.32,00:54:44.78,I don't wanna do it again.,P26,S09 00:54:57.10,00:54:56.40,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:54:58.98,00:54:57.54,"Oh, my god.",P28,S09 00:55:00.90,00:54:59.84,Hmm.,P26,S09 00:55:02.10,00:54:59.88,Alcoholic Mel. [laughs],P28,S09 00:55:11.95,00:55:00.95,"Yeah, or you know, exac- I mean, I'll call no, or like or like famous Julia, like, Lady Gag Julia or, like, you know, just these minor little details, like, where maybe you have, like, a certain talent or something and something else.",P25,S09 00:55:04.02,00:55:03.42,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:55:06.70,00:55:05.90,Mm.,P26,S09 00:55:06.82,00:55:06.22,Right.,P27,S09 00:55:13.52,00:55:11.78,"Well, you gift yourself a talent",P27,S09 00:55:15.80,00:55:12.26,"Why can't that be your present self, though?",P28,S09 00:55:13.50,00:55:12.44,Mm.,P26,S09 00:55:13.95,00:55:12.95,Right?,P25,S09 00:55:17.35,00:55:14.80,"But scientifically, I can't sing.",P25,S09 00:55:18.65,00:55:17.65,Rachel can sing.,P25,S09 00:55:19.28,00:55:18.26,Mm.,P28,S09 00:55:30.74,00:55:18.46,"Or I like the idea more of, like, parallel universe you than I do of, like, past life you. Like, I like the idea of there's, like, a thousand versions of me doing a whole bunch of other weird shit. I like that.",P26,S09 00:55:22.95,00:55:22.40,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:55:26.08,00:55:24.75,[laughs] Oh.,P28,S09 00:55:27.34,00:55:24.96,"I think there's both, I think there's both.",P27,S09 00:55:28.60,00:55:25.25,"Okay, so that's, but that's kind of both.",P25,S09 00:55:30.00,00:55:28.60,But.,P25,S09 00:55:30.06,00:55:29.10,Yes.,P28,S09 00:55:38.30,00:55:30.00,"But that's th- kind of both thing cuz it's time, time is like, it's not linear, that's what they're trying to s- like it, so that's",P25,S09 00:55:32.34,00:55:31.50,Ss- ,P28,S09 00:55:34.10,00:55:31.93,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:55:38.55,00:55:36.00,Mm.,P28,S09 00:55:46.80,00:55:36.12,"Fair. I just think that I don't, I don't wanna come back, like, from a different country, I don't wanna come back as like an animal, I don't wanna like",P26,S09 00:55:42.32,00:55:37.46,"They say if you focus, if you meditate long enough, you can see the break.",P27,S09 00:55:44.20,00:55:42.95,The break.,P25,S09 00:55:49.30,00:55:45.70,"Well, someone asked, like, why would people choose to go to Ethiopia?",P27,S09 00:55:54.28,00:55:49.30,"And he answered. He was like, the first thing you need to know as a new soul is survival.",P27,S09 00:55:51.34,00:55:49.80,Right?,P26,S09 00:55:51.40,00:55:50.20,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:55:56.28,00:55:54.28,And that's where you learn survival.,P27,S09 00:55:56.35,00:55:54.30,Oh.,P25,S09 00:55:55.24,00:55:54.32,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:55:58.56,00:55:56.28,"And Sy- Syria, that's where you learn survival.",P27,S09 00:56:06.86,00:55:58.56,"And then you progress and, like, people that are really old souls are, like, really advanced, always end up in Europe or the parts of Canada and the US.",P27,S09 00:56:03.72,00:56:02.98,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:56:07.20,00:56:06.20,Interesting.,P25,S09 00:56:07.98,00:56:07.14,Yeah.,P27,S09 00:56:14.18,00:56:07.18,"Well, then I must- maybe I'm, maybe I don't wanna do it again because I'm such an old soul that I'm tired and I don't wanna do it again. [laughs]",P26,S09 00:56:12.06,00:56:11.40,You're right.,P27,S09 00:56:13.75,00:56:12.20,Sh.,P25,S09 00:56:14.06,00:56:13.40,Right.,P27,S09 00:56:18.44,00:56:13.90,You you are in Canada. You are in Canada after all.,P28,S09 00:56:16.14,00:56:14.18,"You're looking at me, you're like, okay, sure.",P26,S09 00:56:15.76,00:56:15.04,Right.,P27,S09 00:56:17.40,00:56:16.00,Canada.,P25,S09 00:56:18.18,00:56:16.06,"No, yeah, maybe",P27,S09 00:56:18.14,00:56:16.14,[laughs],P26,S09 00:56:19.52,00:56:18.14,Right?,P26,S09 00:56:19.40,00:56:18.20,Hmm.,P25,S09 00:56:22.46,00:56:18.44,[laughs],P28,S09 00:56:22.24,00:56:19.52,"Like, I am done. [laughs]",P26,S09 00:56:27.48,00:56:20.52,"Well, this one girl came back blind, and she was like, why am I blind? Like why would I choose that for myself if I actually choose my life plan?",P27,S09 00:56:24.20,00:56:23.08,What?,P26,S09 00:56:30.18,00:56:27.16,"Wow, that those are some real questions. Yeah.",P26,S09 00:56:45.39,00:56:28.72,"Right, and he was so when they went and talked to her guide or whatever, cuz she had spirit guides or whatever, they were like, because you saw your mother murdered in a last life and you're like, how can my eyes see that and as a even a higher evolved soul, how can I even commence",P27,S09 00:56:30.95,00:56:29.20,These are good questions.,P25,S09 00:56:33.58,00:56:32.92,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:56:37.00,00:56:35.20,Mm. Oop.,P25,S09 00:56:38.52,00:56:37.64,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:56:44.18,00:56:43.54,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:56:53.70,00:56:45.49,"to dissolve that into love, to see that as love, and so let's take your vision away in your next life so you can actually understand what love is.",P27,S09 00:56:48.18,00:56:47.70,Huh.,P26,S09 00:56:54.70,00:56:53.64,Oh.,P26,S09 00:56:55.16,00:56:53.70,People caring for you.,P27,S09 00:56:56.20,00:56:54.65,Mmm.,P25,S09 00:56:57.72,00:56:55.16,"So, every life you actually learn a lesson.",P27,S09 00:57:00.16,00:56:57.72,That's what this talk was. It was very interesting.,P27,S09 00:57:03.80,00:56:58.88,"I think that's everyone's way of dealing with tragedy, is that there is a higher purpose.",P28,S09 00:57:05.90,00:57:03.10,"Or they find a reason, right?",P25,S09 00:57:20.64,00:57:03.74,"Well, they say you choose people. Like, I chose Julia to be my friend, I chose you to be my friend, you. Like, we have our circle of souls. And like even my brother who passed away, like, maybe I he's like, I love you so much. I'm gonna pass away at this age so you can learn how to really love yourself and love your friends, you know?",P27,S09 00:57:06.26,00:57:05.34,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:57:10.00,00:57:08.38,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 00:57:21.62,00:57:19.62,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:57:21.10,00:57:19.70,Mm.,P25,S09 00:57:20.98,00:57:19.72,Mm.,P28,S09 00:57:31.90,00:57:20.64,"That's what they say, is like it's the highest form of love to lose someone cuz they were like I will t- even like lovers, I will hurt you to the highest degree because I love you so much and in the next life maybe we'll be together or whatever.",P27,S09 00:57:24.95,00:57:24.20,Mm.,P25,S09 00:57:27.06,00:57:26.36,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:57:27.55,00:57:26.75,Mm.,P25,S09 00:57:41.30,00:57:31.20,"See, there was my very first girlfriend, like, we would just look at each other and she would shake her head and I would just shake my head, like, we knew each other from past lives.",P25,S09 00:57:33.08,00:57:31.78,Interesting.,P26,S09 00:57:35.72,00:57:34.50,Ow.,P28,S09 00:57:36.76,00:57:35.88,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:57:42.68,00:57:40.76,Oh.,P26,S09 00:57:46.05,00:57:41.30,"But the thing is was, like, but the weird thing was is, I just remember thinking I was her and she was me.",P25,S09 00:57:43.00,00:57:41.98,So you know.,P27,S09 00:57:48.56,00:57:45.94,Yeah. Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:57:55.12,00:57:46.05,"Like I was in her body, like, I and it was just the weirdest thing, and weird shit would happen to us and it's something absolutely unexplainable.",P25,S09 00:57:48.42,00:57:47.62,Mhm.,P28,S09 00:58:08.08,00:57:55.12,"It sounds totally insane, but it was just like I felt crazy things, crazy things that I was like, oh my god, this is what lo- like real true love is.",P25,S09 00:57:58.48,00:57:56.84,"No, not crazy.",P27,S09 00:57:57.60,00:57:57.14,Yeah.,P26,S09 00:58:04.74,00:58:03.24,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:58:09.16,00:58:07.56,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 00:58:13.12,00:58:08.08,"And, yeah, and then we just like hurt each other to shit in the end, yeah.",P25,S09 00:58:13.43,00:58:10.95,That wasn't me.,P28,S09 00:58:13.52,00:58:11.38,[laughs],P26,S09 00:58:13.90,00:58:11.56,You needed that for your heart to break open.,P27,S09 00:58:14.93,00:58:13.75,[noise],P26,S09 00:58:15.90,00:58:13.90,Should I make the salad? Should I get going on that?,P27,S09 00:58:14.88,00:58:13.96,"Oh, it hurt.",P25,S09 00:58:17.24,00:58:15.24,"Ah, yeah, I guess so, yeah.",P25,S09 00:58:19.52,00:58:16.14,"I wanted, I was looking for a bowl before, but I didn't know which one.",P28,S09 00:58:19.98,00:58:17.86,"Oh, somewhere in here. Oh, it's right here.",P25,S09 00:58:20.10,00:58:18.28,"They're probably at thirty, yeah.",P27,S09 00:58:21.02,00:58:19.82,Mhm?,P26,S09 00:58:22.80,00:58:19.98,Maybe someone put the top [inaudible 0:58:22.02],P25,S09 00:58:22.84,00:58:20.10,"It's already, like, it's seven fifty already.",P27,S09 00:58:24.32,00:58:22.84,We should get going on,P27,S09 00:58:24.08,00:58:23.16,"I know, we should.",P25,S09 00:58:24.52,00:58:23.94,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:58:28.52,00:58:24.08,"It's almost ready. I just gotta, yeah, we just gotta do that.",P25,S09 00:58:27.46,00:58:26.84,Mhm?,P26,S09 00:58:30.66,00:58:27.54,[noise],P26,S09 00:58:30.52,00:58:28.66,"All right, let's get plates and stuff.",P25,S09 00:58:31.86,00:58:30.66,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:58:33.14,00:58:31.80,"Plates, plats.",P25,S09 00:58:35.88,00:58:34.98,Plates.,P26,S09 00:58:36.88,00:58:35.36,There you go. Salad.,P25,S09 00:58:39.92,00:58:37.90,I've been eating all the cucumbers.,P28,S09 00:58:41.80,00:58:39.82,"Oh, no, you're being bad, Mel.",P25,S09 00:58:42.74,00:58:41.64,[laughs],P28,S09 00:58:44.62,00:58:42.68,"There, look at that, salad. [noise]",P25,S09 00:58:45.54,00:58:45.22,Oops.,P25,S09 00:58:55.38,00:58:46.35,[noise],P26,S09 00:58:47.54,00:58:47.10,Oops.,P25,S09 00:58:49.79,00:58:48.74,Hmm.,P27,S09 00:58:50.18,00:58:49.64,Oops.,P25,S09 00:58:54.42,00:58:52.74,[laughs],P25,S09 00:58:57.02,00:58:54.18,"Do you think marriage is gonna change your relationship, Mel?",P27,S09 00:59:03.70,00:58:59.28,"I've brought it up and I said, I just hope it doesn't.",P28,S09 00:59:03.50,00:59:02.84,Oops.,P25,S09 00:59:17.12,00:59:04.52,"And these past this past week with his dad and his sister visiting with all the questions of marriage, I looked at him and I was like, see how hostile we've become just discussing wedding details?",P28,S09 00:59:09.50,00:59:08.46,"Oh, thanks.",P25,S09 00:59:12.46,00:59:09.62,"Mm, kind of freaked out a bit? Mhm.",P26,S09 00:59:10.90,00:59:10.18,Mhm.,P27,S09 00:59:16.06,00:59:15.12,[laughs],P25,S09 00:59:18.06,00:59:16.06,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:59:18.92,00:59:17.12,"And I was like, that's what I don't want.",P28,S09 00:59:19.88,00:59:18.90,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 00:59:22.88,00:59:18.92,I don't I don't wanna fight. I don't want people to fight.,P28,S09 00:59:22.26,00:59:21.22,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:59:32.66,00:59:22.88,"Like, if if other people outside our relationship wanna fight because they weren't invited or couldn't make it to Cancun or whatever reason, then that's their problem, not mine.",P28,S09 00:59:29.90,00:59:28.96,Yeah.,P25,S09 00:59:32.74,00:59:30.74,Right. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:59:33.10,00:59:32.56,Right?,P25,S09 00:59:36.28,00:59:32.66,"But I was like, I don't want to fight with you.",P28,S09 00:59:38.40,00:59:36.98,Mhm. Yeah.,P26,S09 00:59:37.96,00:59:37.12,I don't.,P28,S09 00:59:52.34,00:59:38.58,"And that was, like, my huge, like, red flag when we were sitting up on the view- viewpoint at the Sea to Sky, and everyone was losing their",P28,S09 00:59:43.62,00:59:43.10,Mm.,P26,S09 00:59:49.14,00:59:48.60,Mhm.,P26,S09 00:59:50.72,00:59:49.72,"Oh, shoot.",P25,S09 00:59:52.50,00:59:50.66,[laughs] It's all good.,P26,S09 00:59:53.38,00:59:50.88,"Oh, perfect, perfect.",P27,S09 00:59:54.06,00:59:52.80,I love cheese.,P25,S09 00:59:55.84,00:59:53.38,It it's great. Mhm.,P26,S09 00:59:55.14,00:59:54.14,[laughs],P27,S09 00:59:55.72,00:59:54.90,It's great.,P25,S09 00:59:58.92,00:59:56.04,[laughs],P27,S09 00:59:57.62,00:59:56.54,Losing their shit.,P28,S09 00:59:59.52,00:59:57.62,"It was like, well, here is",P28,S09 00:59:59.12,00:59:58.26,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:00:07.38,00:59:59.52,"I and I told him, I was like, I present to you fight number one about wedding details right here.",P28,S09 01:00:04.26,01:00:02.68,"Yeah. Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:00:04.82,01:00:03.44,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 01:00:08.16,01:00:04.26,"Mm, mhm, mhm, yeah.",P26,S09 01:00:08.92,01:00:07.34,That's so sad.,P27,S09 01:00:12.18,01:00:08.96,"And I was like, I don't want this.",P28,S09 01:00:12.42,01:00:11.84,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:00:20.04,01:00:12.80,"Number one, above and beyond everything and anything else, I don't wanna fight. I don't.",P28,S09 01:00:17.06,01:00:16.48,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:00:18.76,01:00:18.02,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:00:20.92,01:00:20.26,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:00:32.54,01:00:21.20,"But, yeah, no, cuz marriage can, will, it can and will change you. But you know what, Sarah, what's really interesting is Noel texted me when he saw the Facebook post.",P28,S09 01:00:22.36,01:00:21.46,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:00:22.62,01:00:21.48,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:00:29.82,01:00:28.72,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:00:33.16,01:00:32.46,Mm.,P25,S09 01:00:36.54,01:00:33.42,He what? Texted you? What did he say?,P27,S09 01:00:36.08,01:00:34.48,He texted me.,P28,S09 01:00:37.30,01:00:35.18,Was that your ex? Oh.,P25,S09 01:00:45.30,01:00:36.08,"No, Noel is a mutual friend of ours, and he said that he was so excited for us and that marriage is the best thing ever.",P28,S09 01:00:39.10,01:00:38.54,Oh.,P25,S09 01:00:39.66,01:00:38.90,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:00:43.94,01:00:42.78,Oh.,P26,S09 01:00:45.96,01:00:45.32,Aw.,P25,S09 01:00:48.18,01:00:45.34,But did he extend himself to you to meet up?,P27,S09 01:00:49.16,01:00:48.42,No.,P28,S09 01:00:51.50,01:00:49.42,"See, that is so surprising to me.",P27,S09 01:00:54.42,01:00:52.08,That kills me like,P27,S09 01:00:55.38,01:00:52.88,"Sarah, quit, sit your butt down.",P25,S09 01:00:56.84,01:00:54.34,"But then again, like, he's been married for, like",P28,S09 01:00:55.26,01:00:54.42,Oh.,P27,S09 01:00:57.80,01:00:55.18,Yeah. Yeah.,P26,S09 01:00:58.12,01:00:55.38,"Sit your ass down, girl.",P25,S09 01:01:01.40,01:00:57.80,[noise],P26,S09 01:01:00.96,01:00:57.90,Cuz how long at that point was was he married for?,P28,S09 01:01:05.68,01:01:00.54,"Well, I asked him, actually, a week ago and I was like, how is married life for him cuz he eloped.",P27,S09 01:01:06.24,01:01:05.48,"Oh, okay.",P26,S09 01:01:09.14,01:01:05.68,"And he was like, the best ever.",P27,S09 01:01:08.20,01:01:06.64,He thinks it's awesome.,P28,S09 01:01:08.11,01:01:06.80,[noise],P25,S09 01:01:09.16,01:01:07.00,I like that song. [laughs],P26,S09 01:01:09.58,01:01:09.06,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:01:09.86,01:01:09.16,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:01:10.08,01:01:09.22,Mm.,P25,S09 01:01:10.74,01:01:09.96,So.,P27,S09 01:01:20.93,01:01:10.64,"But how does it change? Like, I don't understand how he he was living in the house with them, her and her two kids. He took on the father role for when the kids are in the house",P28,S09 01:01:12.98,01:01:12.16,Sorry.,P25,S09 01:01:15.28,01:01:13.12,"Well, his has changed so much.",P27,S09 01:01:16.04,01:01:15.50,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:01:17.72,01:01:17.00,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:01:21.10,01:01:20.10,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:01:32.54,01:01:21.05,"and so they went away for a family vacation that they do every year that they've been doing for the past five years, but this time they come back married and he says it's the best thing ever?",P28,S09 01:01:24.78,01:01:23.98,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:01:27.60,01:01:25.72,Yeah. Thank you.,P26,S09 01:01:29.98,01:01:27.60,"Yeah, I'm all done. It was so good.",P26,S09 01:01:31.12,01:01:29.14,I know you love my pitch of this.,P25,S09 01:01:34.32,01:01:32.46,"Oh, my god, tattoos as well.",P27,S09 01:01:33.10,01:01:32.48,uh-huh.,P26,S09 01:01:37.54,01:01:33.04,"What has changed, like, really, really?",P28,S09 01:01:36.88,01:01:34.84,Yeah. Right.,P26,S09 01:01:42.38,01:01:35.76,"I think for for him, security. He knows he's part of the family now. For him cuz they're not his children, they're not",P27,S09 01:01:38.52,01:01:37.20,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:01:40.14,01:01:39.20,Mm.,P25,S09 01:01:42.14,01:01:40.14,That's nice.,P25,S09 01:01:42.10,01:01:41.04,Oh.,P28,S09 01:01:42.44,01:01:41.68,Mm.,P26,S09 01:01:44.74,01:01:42.38,"For him, I think, it is the best ever.",P27,S09 01:01:43.30,01:01:42.80,Oh.,P25,S09 01:01:46.66,01:01:44.74,"He's got a family, you know?",P27,S09 01:01:45.74,01:01:44.92,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:01:45.74,01:01:44.92,Hmm.,P28,S09 01:01:47.28,01:01:46.24,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:01:48.46,01:01:47.28,Okay.,P28,S09 01:01:48.48,01:01:47.46,Interesting.,P26,S09 01:01:50.76,01:01:49.06,"So, and I I I don't know.",P27,S09 01:01:56.86,01:01:50.76,"Marriage, too, is like you know that if you when you're married and there is a fight, you're not just gonna walk away.",P27,S09 01:01:52.36,01:01:51.38,There's a knife there.,P25,S09 01:01:55.18,01:01:52.36,[noise],P25,S09 01:01:55.95,01:01:52.78,[inaudible 1:01:52.80] [laughs],P26,S09 01:01:59.98,01:01:57.06,"Okay, that, okay, that's a good point, maybe.",P26,S09 01:02:01.58,01:01:57.28,"Oh, so, so maybe that's what would change for me. I can't just walk home.",P28,S09 01:02:15.94,01:02:00.28,"Cuz you got, well, the thing is, is you gotta, someone told me, they said you gotta, like, yeah, you gotta work on everything. It's like you gotta solve the problems. You can't just be like, oh, well, oh now we're okay now. It's like, no, you need to really talk about it, like, you gotta figure out solutions.",P25,S09 01:02:02.12,01:02:01.24,Right.,P27,S09 01:02:03.54,01:02:01.46,Yeah. [laughs],P26,S09 01:02:11.02,01:02:09.40,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:02:14.70,01:02:12.26,Mm. Okay.,P26,S09 01:02:17.26,01:02:15.76,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:02:17.36,01:02:15.96,"Okay, that's agreement.",P26,S09 01:02:18.94,01:02:16.50,"Yeah, permanent shit.",P25,S09 01:02:20.34,01:02:18.86,Permanent shit.,P28,S09 01:02:33.38,01:02:19.02,"My thesis advisor, my thesis advisor had a good argument, where she was like, a good reason cuz we were talking about, like, other academics and how they get so weird cuz they're on their own all the time and they get very extreme, and she was like",P26,S09 01:02:22.96,01:02:20.38,"That shit's for, like, beyond life, if you believe in that.",P25,S09 01:02:23.79,01:02:22.29,[noise],P27,S09 01:02:24.02,01:02:22.98,Oh.,P28,S09 01:02:26.20,01:02:25.48,Mm.,P25,S09 01:02:44.93,01:02:33.45,"""One of the things that's really good about having, like, a partner in your life or having somebody in your life all the time or having kids is, like, it allows you, it stops you from becoming too extreme in any direction.""",P26,S09 01:02:45.10,01:02:43.70,Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 01:02:44.60,01:02:43.82,Mm.,P25,S09 01:02:52.36,01:02:44.93,"So it's like you can't give into your weird extremities, like, the way you can when you're just on your own and become like, a total",P26,S09 01:02:49.40,01:02:48.36,Mm.,P25,S09 01:02:51.40,01:02:50.14,"Oh, totally.",P25,S09 01:02:51.88,01:02:50.98,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:02:52.42,01:02:51.20,"See, I love that.",P27,S09 01:02:59.94,01:02:52.36,"And so, I was like, you know, that was the first time an argument really kinda made sense to me, where I was like, you know, I get that, that makes sense to me. Like",P26,S09 01:02:56.00,01:02:55.32,Huh.,P25,S09 01:02:59.48,01:02:58.66,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:03:04.66,01:02:59.56,"Like sitting around in your underwear, eating Kraft Dinner and, and hot dogs every night, yeah.",P25,S09 01:03:01.04,01:02:59.68,Fascinating.,P27,S09 01:03:03.98,01:03:01.48,"Yeah, right?",P26,S09 01:03:11.86,01:03:03.98,"Or just getting in your own, your mindset, like, this is what I want and I deserve or, yeah, it's so weird, yeah.",P26,S09 01:03:06.66,01:03:06.08,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:03:09.86,01:03:07.54,But isn't that so enjoyable?,P27,S09 01:03:15.70,01:03:09.66,Studies have shown that that people who are married in long term whatevers tend to be healthier.,P28,S09 01:03:12.10,01:03:10.14,[laughs],P25,S09 01:03:14.55,01:03:13.60,[noise],P25,S09 01:03:14.60,01:03:13.88,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:03:16.72,01:03:15.92,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 01:03:18.52,01:03:15.94,"Right, or live longer or like",P26,S09 01:03:27.08,01:03:16.56,"No, I just I just shared a stor- a study with Sarah. I was like, I'm not gonna break up with you because, like, studies have shown that being single is more detrimental than being obese.",P27,S09 01:03:21.02,01:03:19.06,"Okay, your finger's in there. That's all right.",P25,S09 01:03:29.22,01:03:26.88,"Ah, really?",P28,S09 01:03:28.40,01:03:27.00,What?,P25,S09 01:03:28.16,01:03:27.04,What?,P26,S09 01:03:28.22,01:03:27.16,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:03:29.42,01:03:28.26,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:03:30.56,01:03:28.56,I love being single.,P26,S09 01:03:32.90,01:03:30.46,"Actually, I'm really enjoying being single.",P25,S09 01:03:34.12,01:03:32.32,"I don't like being obese, though.",P27,S09 01:03:33.88,01:03:32.42,I really,P28,S09 01:03:37.74,01:03:34.30,"I, well, I feel like a bit of a fatty, like",P25,S09 01:03:38.00,01:03:34.64,"I really like single, when I embrace single.",P28,S09 01:03:42.22,01:03:38.00,"Before I met Zach, I was single for two and a half years. I loved it. Yes, I do.",P28,S09 01:03:42.52,01:03:38.64,"Mm. Do you want cheese, Mel? There you go.",P25,S09 01:03:45.42,01:03:42.14,"You really embraced being single, though. You did so much to",P27,S09 01:03:47.86,01:03:45.42,"Your heart broke open to enjoy so much, though, Mel.",P27,S09 01:03:52.88,01:03:47.86,You gro- some people would go the other way. I feel like you did so much for you.,P27,S09 01:03:50.22,01:03:49.74,Whoops.,P25,S09 01:03:53.50,01:03:52.60,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:03:56.96,01:03:52.94,"Oh, because I became scared shitless of men. Like, I couldn't",P28,S09 01:03:59.24,01:03:54.78,"And even you, like, they're moving to Philadelphia. Same idea.",P27,S09 01:03:56.80,01:03:55.68,[laughs],P25,S09 01:03:58.00,01:03:57.26,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:04:01.50,01:03:58.08,"Oh, Rachel is like the coolest chick to be single.",P25,S09 01:04:02.10,01:03:59.88,[laughs],P26,S09 01:04:03.44,01:04:01.50,"Like, you're just, like, I fucking got this.",P25,S09 01:04:04.94,01:04:03.24,"Bravest, bravest.",P27,S09 01:04:10.12,01:04:03.44,"I was- you said, Rach, you were a bored housewife in your per- previous life, so you do believe, yeah, right?",P25,S09 01:04:17.22,01:04:07.66,"I wouldn't be surprised. Like, I wouldn't be surprised if I was somebody that was, like, fuck this and was just like, I'm gonna, like do a bunch of cool shit. Yeah. That's me.",P26,S09 01:04:13.73,01:04:12.20,[laughs],P28,S09 01:04:15.86,01:04:15.22,Right?,P25,S09 01:04:17.02,01:04:15.86,I do what I want.,P25,S09 01:04:18.34,01:04:16.08,Just like we're working for it.,P27,S09 01:04:19.02,01:04:17.02,"Sarah, help yourself. Mel, help yourself.",P25,S09 01:04:19.08,01:04:18.30,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:04:20.26,01:04:19.14,Thank you.,P28,S09 01:04:22.32,01:04:21.52,Woah.,P25,S09 01:04:31.12,01:04:22.36,"But I definitely had those, like, boy crazy, like, love crazy years, for sure, when I was younger, where I was like, I want this, I want this connection, blah, blah, blah. Yeah.",P26,S09 01:04:31.30,01:04:29.40,When you were chubby in Lethbridge.,P25,S09 01:04:32.86,01:04:31.44,Oh.,P27,S09 01:04:33.42,01:04:31.42,"Yeah. Yeah, right? I know.",P26,S09 01:04:33.80,01:04:31.92,[laughs],P25,S09 01:04:35.10,01:04:32.72,[laughs],P28,S09 01:04:35.24,01:04:33.62,Um.,P26,S09 01:04:36.26,01:04:35.10,Oh.,P28,S09 01:04:38.71,01:04:35.20,Rachel is leaving. [laughs],P25,S09 01:04:37.26,01:04:36.08,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:04:39.38,01:04:37.26,"And, like, yeah, so I don't know. ",P26,S09 01:04:39.34,01:04:37.86,Can you pass the salad?,P27,S09 01:04:41.02,01:04:39.34,I'm gonna [inaudible 1:04:39.72],P27,S09 01:04:42.72,01:04:39.38,Mhm. Mm.,P26,S09 01:04:41.10,01:04:39.92,"Yeah, for sure. Here.",P25,S09 01:04:43.78,01:04:41.78,"You have a fork? Yeah, you got a fork.",P25,S09 01:04:48.32,01:04:42.98,"I feel like even at that, that you're you just seemed so I don't know.",P27,S09 01:04:49.28,01:04:47.30,"These flowers are so cute, Sarah.",P25,S09 01:04:50.92,01:04:48.38,[laughs] Mm.,P26,S09 01:04:51.22,01:04:49.54,[laughs],P27,S09 01:04:51.94,01:04:50.14,Other Sarah will totally put out.,P25,S09 01:04:54.96,01:04:51.52,"Well, they may they might make it to Laura first. I can't decide.",P27,S09 01:04:53.94,01:04:51.94,[laughs],P25,S09 01:04:55.94,01:04:53.94,"[inaudible 1:04:53.94], there you go.",P25,S09 01:04:56.90,01:04:54.12,"Those are really, really pretty flowers, yeah.",P26,S09 01:04:56.26,01:04:55.82,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:05:01.18,01:04:56.14,"Well, then, you should take picture of me like, ""Sarah, I bought you flowers, but the my sister went and [inaudible 1:04:59.80] yeah."" [noise]",P25,S09 01:04:59.78,01:04:58.24,Then Laura had a baby.,P27,S09 01:05:01.32,01:04:58.72,[noise],P26,S09 01:05:00.92,01:05:00.28,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:05:01.96,01:05:01.32,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:05:03.98,01:05:01.96,"Mmm, these are good.",P26,S09 01:05:04.18,01:05:02.78,How is,P28,S09 01:05:05.82,01:05:04.64,How's the birth going?,P25,S09 01:05:06.80,01:05:05.20,"Yeah, how's it going?",P28,S09 01:05:07.20,01:05:06.32,Nothing.,P27,S09 01:05:07.26,01:05:06.38,Baby coming?,P25,S09 01:05:07.68,01:05:07.20,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:05:09.84,01:05:08.20,"That's the scary part, there's nothing.",P27,S09 01:05:11.44,01:05:08.66,Do you know if it's a boy or a girl? I think I think it's a boy.,P25,S09 01:05:11.04,01:05:09.84,No.,P27,S09 01:05:14.24,01:05:11.74,I think they know but no one else knows.,P28,S09 01:05:13.68,01:05:12.64,I think it's a boy.,P27,S09 01:05:14.22,01:05:13.40,"Oh, really?",P25,S09 01:05:16.38,01:05:14.22,"No, I don't think they do. I honestly don't think they do.",P27,S09 01:05:16.28,01:05:15.14,"Oh, really?",P28,S09 01:05:18.10,01:05:16.32,Yeah. Whoops. uh,P25,S09 01:05:19.46,01:05:17.20,"Mind you, the baby's room is painted blue.",P27,S09 01:05:22.90,01:05:17.62,That's that's kinda cool. I will take some.,P28,S09 01:05:20.10,01:05:18.10,"Do you want this, do you want this?",P25,S09 01:05:21.98,01:05:19.86,"I'll have some in a bit, I think I will.",P26,S09 01:05:25.96,01:05:21.98,[noise],P26,S09 01:05:24.62,01:05:22.90,"Oh, don't forget your, oh, you put it in there.",P25,S09 01:05:26.04,01:05:24.62,"Uh oh, maybe I shouldn't shake it.",P25,S09 01:05:27.28,01:05:25.92,[laughs],P28,S09 01:05:28.26,01:05:25.96,[laughs],P26,S09 01:05:28.84,01:05:27.28,Maybe it's open.,P28,S09 01:05:28.86,01:05:27.36,"No, wait, what you were saying, Rachel?",P27,S09 01:05:31.52,01:05:28.82,I can't remember. I don't know.,P26,S09 01:05:30.52,01:05:29.20,You were on a good tangent.,P27,S09 01:05:34.26,01:05:30.70,"No, that you were an old housewife before.",P28,S09 01:05:32.70,01:05:31.52,I just,P26,S09 01:05:39.54,01:05:33.44,"I just, I like being single so much that I'm almost, like, I don't understand how it can be bad for you. Like.",P26,S09 01:05:36.44,01:05:35.84,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:05:36.54,01:05:35.86,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:05:37.58,01:05:36.44,That's so hot.,P27,S09 01:05:46.24,01:05:39.80,"Yeah, I don't know, be- then being obese, I think that's bullshit. That's effing bullshit.",P25,S09 01:05:43.44,01:05:40.62,I actually don't think it's bad for you.,P28,S09 01:05:46.16,01:05:44.48,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:05:49.22,01:05:44.78,"No, think about it, though. When you're single, you drink a little bit more, you maybe eat a little bit worse.",P27,S09 01:05:48.16,01:05:47.08,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:05:50.12,01:05:47.30,I don't. I don't.,P25,S09 01:05:51.84,01:05:49.16,That's fair. I w- I I probably do.,P26,S09 01:05:53.86,01:05:50.28,"You don't think you drink more, sixteen whiskeys?",P27,S09 01:05:55.16,01:05:53.18,"Oh, wait, you're right. I'm like okay.",P25,S09 01:05:57.34,01:05:54.10,"[noise] like, cuz you have, like, weird dates playing the field, yeah.",P26,S09 01:05:58.14,01:05:57.24,Cuz I feel like,P27,S09 01:06:05.60,01:05:57.84,"Yeah, but this is weird. No, this is- well, no, I guess I haven't, really. Well, no, when when Christie and I were s- when I was single after Christie, I didn't drink at all.",P25,S09 01:06:00.48,01:05:59.96,Hmm?,P26,S09 01:06:01.86,01:06:01.46,Hmm?,P26,S09 01:06:03.56,01:06:02.94,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:06:07.00,01:06:05.44,"You didn't drink at all with Christie, though.",P27,S09 01:06:10.22,01:06:05.60,"Not at all. No, I didn't drink with Christie, but then after Christie, I didn't drink.",P25,S09 01:06:06.56,01:06:05.70,No?,P26,S09 01:06:09.12,01:06:08.76,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:06:10.80,01:06:10.18,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:06:12.68,01:06:10.22,"It's literally, like, just because of D M L.",P25,S09 01:06:14.78,01:06:11.20,"That was recovery, though. That doesn't count as being single, that was recovery.",P27,S09 01:06:16.54,01:06:14.24,"Yeah, I guess this is kinda like the first time I've been single.",P25,S09 01:06:16.28,01:06:14.28,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 01:06:38.64,01:06:37.62,Yes.,P25,S09 01:06:45.92,01:06:38.24,"And it's not, like, a judgmental thing. It's really out of a curiosity thing cuz I was never able to do it as a single person.",P28,S09 01:06:41.08,01:06:39.78,[laughs],P27,S09 01:06:41.70,01:06:40.78,Mm.,P25,S09 01:06:42.82,01:06:42.20,Yes.,P25,S09 01:06:46.88,01:06:45.74,Just casual sex?,P25,S09 01:06:48.16,01:06:46.90,Mm.,P28,S09 01:06:48.90,01:06:47.74,Mm.,P26,S09 01:06:51.60,01:06:49.10,"I could, but only with one person.",P28,S09 01:06:50.56,01:06:50.00,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:06:53.42,01:06:51.58,"Ah. This is random, Mel.",P25,S09 01:06:52.68,01:06:51.60,Mm.,P26,S09 01:06:56.78,01:06:53.42,"I have never done this, ever. And it's it took me by surprise.",P25,S09 01:06:56.64,01:06:55.70,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:06:57.94,01:06:57.42,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:07:51.14,01:07:38.30,"She'll buy us dinner sometimes, like, but I took her to the shooting range, like, and same with, um, M. Like, she always makes me dinner, or she'll take me on fancy ass dates and I'll take her on fancy ass dates, so it's fifty fifty.",P25,S09 01:07:41.12,01:07:39.96,Mm.,P28,S09 01:07:44.92,01:07:43.92,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:07:48.40,01:07:47.23,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:07:51.94,01:07:51.38,"Okay, [inaudible 1:07:51.62]",P27,S09 01:07:59.50,01:07:52.04,"But, no, it's f- yeah, it is weird. Like, I was like if someone told me this is what I'd be doing, I'm like, I'd be like, uh, I don't think so.",P25,S09 01:08:00.96,01:07:57.89,"See, I don't think I could afford to date more than one person.",P27,S09 01:08:04.10,01:08:00.38,"Yeah, but I just had that really good gig this weekend, so I made a lot of money.",P25,S09 01:08:02.42,01:08:01.24,Mm.,P26,S09 01:08:04.22,01:08:02.68,[laughs],P28,S09 01:08:05.00,01:08:03.56,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:08:05.20,01:08:04.12,Mm.,P27,S09 01:08:05.46,01:08:04.22,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:08:06.44,01:08:05.46,Mm.,P28,S09 01:08:10.18,01:08:05.78,"But it works itself out, it evens itself out.",P25,S09 01:08:10.98,01:08:09.88,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:08:10.84,01:08:10.32,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:08:11.76,01:08:11.10,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:08:12.60,01:08:11.10,"Mhm, makes sense.",P26,S09 01:08:13.76,01:08:12.84,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:08:14.40,01:08:13.66,It's you.,P26,S09 01:08:14.94,01:08:14.52,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:08:15.42,01:08:14.90,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:08:16.88,01:08:15.60,You're dating nice girls.,P27,S09 01:08:17.84,01:08:16.94,They're fun.,P25,S09 01:08:17.90,01:08:17.14,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:08:22.10,01:08:17.84,"They're all really fun and they all make me, yeah, exactly, as long as I'm not stressed.",P25,S09 01:08:18.70,01:08:17.90,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:08:24.10,01:08:22.34,They all make me happy.,P25,S09 01:08:23.44,01:08:22.38,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:08:23.78,01:08:22.50,How are men now?,P27,S09 01:08:25.78,01:08:23.78,Are you paying for yourself more often than not?,P27,S09 01:08:30.14,01:08:25.78,"I'm not really dating right now. Um, I've been so busy lately.",P26,S09 01:08:28.52,01:08:27.26,She's just sexing.,P25,S09 01:08:31.08,01:08:30.14,"So, cuz I've been travelling.",P26,S09 01:08:32.44,01:08:31.62,Mm.,P25,S09 01:08:33.20,01:08:32.36,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:08:39.28,01:08:37.90,I had no time.,P26,S09 01:08:40.54,01:08:38.58,Dallas was fascinating.,P27,S09 01:08:41.18,01:08:39.34,[laughs],P28,S09 01:09:00.54,01:08:59.04,"Um, and it's",P26,S09 01:09:00.68,01:08:59.42,"Way to go, Mel.",P25,S09 01:09:02.26,01:09:00.54,[laughs],P26,S09 01:09:03.48,01:09:01.86,"Oh, your ear thing.",P25,S09 01:09:05.48,01:09:03.48,"Uh oh. Oh, here, napkin, how about that?",P25,S09 01:09:04.66,01:09:03.78,Oh.,P26,S09 01:09:06.46,01:09:04.66,"Mhm, mhm, yeah.",P26,S09 01:09:16.64,01:09:07.36,"Um, but he's like a dude from my past. We hooked up last summer kinda when I had first moved here and",P26,S09 01:09:12.36,01:09:10.80,"Mhm, mhm.",P28,S09 01:09:13.60,01:09:12.30,Anyone else want a napkin?,P25,S09 01:09:14.36,01:09:13.38,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:09:17.82,01:09:15.10,I feel like this is the most unattractive food you've ever created.,P27,S09 01:09:19.78,01:09:16.64,[laughs],P26,S09 01:09:20.10,01:09:18.04,"What this, oh, whatever. Do you want a napkin?",P25,S09 01:09:19.08,01:09:18.12,Anyways.,P27,S09 01:09:21.18,01:09:19.78,"Uh, sure, thanks.",P26,S09 01:09:21.28,01:09:20.18,"Anyways, keep going, yeah.",P27,S09 01:09:21.18,01:09:20.66,No?,P25,S09 01:09:30.65,01:09:21.18,"Um, yeah, we hooked up for the first time last summer. I had already moved here, but I was back for, like, my dad's wedding, and it was a little bit sketchy cuz he's like good friends with, like, my ex kind of thing and, like",P26,S09 01:09:23.35,01:09:22.17,[inaudible 1:09:22.17],P25,S09 01:09:44.84,01:09:30.70,"I don't know. I kind of maybe hooked up with this guy in a little bit of a like shitty way, like where my ex was like calling me, being like, are you gonna to come to this party, and I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah. Meanwhile, just fully like fooling fooling around with this other dude. Like, kind of a shithead move.",P26,S09 01:09:35.54,01:09:34.48,[laughs],P25,S09 01:09:35.24,01:09:34.52,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:09:42.98,01:09:41.20,"Oh, no.",P27,S09 01:09:45.16,01:09:43.58,"Were you still with the ex, though?",P27,S09 01:09:46.74,01:09:45.10,"No, no, like, it's wasn't",P26,S09 01:09:54.80,01:09:46.74,"Anyway, he, like, on on the one hand I don't think he had a right to be mad about it, but on the other hand he still was, like, hurt and, you know, he like dealt with it.",P26,S09 01:10:09.46,01:09:54.80,"Um, but then this guy I was hooking up with, cuz sometimes I'd go back to Victoria and be like, yo, are you around, and he's like, yeah. And we'd like hook up. And then he started dating someone, um, and they broke up, I don't know, like a month ago and so he texted me, being like, what are you doing, I live in Vancouver now.",P26,S09 01:10:12.10,01:10:09.46,"So he's like a little bit, he seems a little sad.",P26,S09 01:10:48.78,01:10:45.86,I went to his place on,P26,S09 01:10:48.92,01:10:47.92,"No, I'll get there.",P27,S09 01:10:51.44,01:10:49.12,"And it's kind of, I don't know.",P26,S09 01:11:40.10,01:11:37.86,I feel like this is actually pretty good.,P26,S09 01:11:41.20,01:11:38.13,"Yeah, hmm, that is cool.",P25,S09 01:11:40.24,01:11:39.74,Hm.,P27,S09 01:11:52.50,01:11:40.20,"He's fun, he's game. He's like, I feel like we're pretty sexually compatible, but then when we hang out and spend time together, like, we even had a moment where he was like, he was like asking, he was like, well, what do you want from a dude or this or that?",P26,S09 01:11:45.46,01:11:44.66,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:11:56.52,01:11:52.50,"And I was, like, trying, like, explain it and he was like, yeah, like, we're okay for sex but not for dating.",P26,S09 01:11:54.54,01:11:53.84,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:12:01.50,01:11:56.52,"And I was like, yeah, I know, like, you and I like want very different things. Like, he was like, I wanna live in a small town and, like",P26,S09 01:11:58.62,01:11:57.62,Mm.,P25,S09 01:12:00.62,01:11:59.36,Mm.,P25,S09 01:12:01.52,01:12:00.42,What does he want?,P27,S09 01:12:10.82,01:12:01.50,"I think he just wants to meet someone who's super outdoorsy. He wants someone who's, like, loves to ski all winter and, like, do all these things, which is great. Like, all the power to you.",P26,S09 01:12:05.44,01:12:04.76,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:12:06.14,01:12:04.82,Oh.,P27,S09 01:12:13.06,01:12:09.72,"Although, you could totally find that in Vancouver.",P25,S09 01:12:11.53,01:12:10.71,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:12:12.20,01:12:11.36,You know?,P26,S09 01:12:15.00,01:12:12.20,"Um, and this is the perfect place to find that person.",P26,S09 01:12:15.46,01:12:14.92,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:12:32.30,01:12:15.00,"And I, I mean, I want to have, like, a small amount of outdoorsy in my life, but I want to go out for, like, cocktails and I want to get dressed up and, like, but I want it to be like, I want it to be well rounded, it's like, I want us to be, like, excited to do events together and, like, also be athletic but, like, go out on the town and, you know.",P26,S09 01:12:22.58,01:12:20.18,"You're, like, I just wanna drink. [laughs]",P25,S09 01:12:25.56,01:12:24.70,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:12:29.72,01:12:28.50,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:12:32.50,01:12:31.36,Is it sober sex?,P27,S09 01:12:34.82,01:12:32.64,"Uh, it's super sober, yeah.",P26,S09 01:12:34.86,01:12:34.08,Wow.,P27,S09 01:12:38.90,01:12:34.82,"No, cuz, like, we're not hang- like, we're not going for drinks or anything.",P26,S09 01:12:38.92,01:12:37.72,That's amazing.,P27,S09 01:12:39.04,01:12:37.80,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:12:43.22,01:12:38.90,"Yeah, it's like, maybe I'll pour him a beer if he comes over, like, maybe not.",P26,S09 01:12:42.86,01:12:42.02,Mm.,P25,S09 01:13:00.00,01:12:59.22,Mm.,P25,S09 01:13:00.89,01:13:00.25,Mmm.,P28,S09 01:13:05.17,01:13:01.99,Can't feel anything properly.,P28,S09 01:13:05.44,01:13:03.92,Mm.,P26,S09 01:13:05.98,01:13:04.88,Mm.,P25,S09 01:13:06.16,01:13:05.44,Interesting.,P26,S09 01:13:07.45,01:13:06.23,It's just not,P28,S09 01:13:09.64,01:13:07.36,Not as good? Hmm.,P25,S09 01:13:08.62,01:13:08.10,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:13:08.71,01:13:08.21,Mmm.,P28,S09 01:13:09.60,01:13:09.08,Hmm.,P27,S09 01:13:10.13,01:13:09.59,No.,P28,S09 01:13:14.40,01:13:10.24,"I just realized I'm probably, like, eating so loudly, I'm like [noise]",P25,S09 01:13:11.28,01:13:10.36,I prefer it.,P27,S09 01:13:13.69,01:13:12.45,[laughs],P28,S09 01:15:12.64,01:15:11.86,I know.,P25,S09 01:15:13.87,01:15:12.43,[laughs],P28,S09 01:15:14.12,01:15:13.08,Very impressive.,P25,S09 01:15:14.44,01:15:14.04,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:15:16.60,01:15:14.52,"It's cuz she's, she's eaten my fajitas before.",P25,S09 01:15:19.92,01:15:16.60,"Cuz she just shoves it all in her mouth, that's why.",P25,S09 01:15:17.94,01:15:16.64,[inaudible 1:15:16.66],P26,S09 01:15:20.91,01:15:18.19,[laughs],P28,S09 01:15:21.72,01:15:19.72,"I need a hair elastic, it is hot.",P26,S09 01:15:23.40,01:15:21.09,Hmm. She's got a bigger mouth too.,P27,S09 01:15:22.36,01:15:21.66,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:15:24.18,01:15:22.40,"I'm leaving the room, I'm leaving the room.",P26,S09 01:15:23.51,01:15:22.41,Mm.,P28,S09 01:15:27.42,01:15:23.02,"You need, you need, you need a hair elastic cuz you need to, like, deep [inaudible 1:15:26.15] that next fajita?",P25,S09 01:15:25.13,01:15:24.21,No.,P28,S09 01:15:27.45,01:15:25.39,Mmm.,P28,S09 01:15:28.08,01:15:27.28,Huh?,P26,S09 01:15:32.98,01:15:29.34,"Uh, yeah, right, cuz I just need to, like, get on that burrito.",P26,S09 01:15:31.22,01:15:30.22,[inaudible 1:15:30.20] yeah.,P27,S09 01:15:32.04,01:15:31.10,[laughs],P25,S09 01:15:36.16,01:15:32.74,If you could hear how Rachel and I talk to each other every day.,P25,S09 01:15:37.68,01:15:36.00,I feel like you're hearing it.,P26,S09 01:15:37.92,01:15:37.22,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:15:39.44,01:15:37.68,It's happening.,P26,S09 01:15:39.13,01:15:38.37,[laughs],P28,S09 01:15:42.21,01:15:39.13,Like you're doing it right now? [laughs],P28,S09 01:15:43.08,01:15:42.34,Mm.,P25,S09 01:15:43.84,01:15:42.42,"Oh, my goodness, I'm so full.",P27,S09 01:15:47.76,01:15:44.58,Are they for cereal gonna be mad at me cuz I left to get a hair elastic?,P26,S09 01:15:49.02,01:15:47.76,"No, it's fine.",P26,S09 01:15:50.26,01:15:49.14,Cuz you left what?,P27,S09 01:15:52.70,01:15:50.26,That I left the room for a hair elastic?,P26,S09 01:15:51.71,01:15:50.31,Not really.,P28,S09 01:15:53.14,01:15:52.52,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:15:54.08,01:15:52.70,Why can't I find one?,P26,S09 01:15:54.74,01:15:53.14,Mel offered.,P25,S09 01:15:57.55,01:15:54.75,I offered. I had one on my wrist. Yeah.,P28,S09 01:15:57.62,01:15:55.80,"Oh, you have one? Can I have it?",P26,S09 01:16:00.52,01:15:56.60,"Yeah, you just like walked away from Mel. You're like, whatever.",P25,S09 01:15:59.96,01:15:58.60,"Sorry, sorry, sorry.",P26,S09 01:16:02.64,01:15:59.96,"Okay, okay, sorry. I ruined the experiment.",P26,S09 01:16:01.40,01:16:00.52,So mean.,P25,S09 01:16:03.40,01:16:02.54,Well.,P25,S09 01:16:03.78,01:16:02.64,[noise],P26,S09 01:16:05.97,01:16:03.97,"An elastic for you, girl.",P28,S09 01:16:08.40,01:16:06.08,"Thanks, buddy.",P26,S09 01:16:07.67,01:16:06.77,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:16:07.48,01:16:06.90,[inaudible 1:16:06.90],P25,S09 01:16:09.66,01:16:08.40,OMG.,P26,S09 01:16:20.00,01:16:18.22,You guys should see the sunset.,P27,S09 01:16:22.92,01:16:19.76,"It's actually really pretty, I agree. Beautiful sunset out there.",P26,S09 01:16:21.56,01:16:20.86,Mm.,P25,S09 01:16:21.75,01:16:20.93,Mm.,P28,S09 01:16:24.42,01:16:22.92,"It was a nice one last night, too.",P26,S09 01:16:25.90,01:16:24.82,Stealing her,P25,S09 01:16:26.34,01:16:25.34,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:16:26.59,01:16:25.39,Oh.,P28,S09 01:16:27.68,01:16:25.90,It was so nice last night.,P25,S09 01:16:28.36,01:16:26.18,"It was beautiful last night, yeah.",P27,S09 01:16:30.37,01:16:26.59,We were driving back from Squamish yesterday. It was beautiful.,P28,S09 01:16:30.84,01:16:28.34,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 01:16:30.36,01:16:29.28,Mm.,P25,S09 01:16:32.74,01:16:30.36,Mhm. Mhm.,P25,S09 01:16:31.83,01:16:31.05,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:16:34.01,01:16:32.83,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:16:35.12,01:16:33.08,"Do I want more food? No, I'll be sick.",P26,S09 01:16:37.28,01:16:35.58,You didn't eat your salad.,P25,S09 01:16:41.76,01:16:37.26,"Yeah, Rachel, let me know when you know if you're moving cuz I gotta th- I gotta think about it.",P27,S09 01:16:38.52,01:16:37.30,I don't want salad.,P26,S09 01:16:42.02,01:16:38.52,"Yeah. Yeah, for sure.",P26,S09 01:16:44.02,01:16:42.58,"Well, I'll",P26,S09 01:16:47.52,01:16:43.30,"[inaudible 1:16:43.30] and honestly, Sarah, like, if you if you're just uncomfortable, that's totally okay.",P25,S09 01:16:48.18,01:16:47.28,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:16:48.40,01:16:47.36,Uncomfortable?,P27,S09 01:16:53.18,01:16:48.40,"I'm not uncomfortable. It's the laundry, that's the only thing, and that you leaving for some girl.",P27,S09 01:16:50.74,01:16:48.52,"[laughs] Oh, I'm comfortable.",P26,S09 01:16:51.80,01:16:51.12,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:16:52.60,01:16:51.42,That's nothing.,P25,S09 01:16:53.89,01:16:52.29,But you have laundry right there.,P28,S09 01:16:57.66,01:16:53.94,I won't be leaving for a girl for at least a year.,P25,S09 01:17:02.96,01:16:57.26,"But I might and that's what worries me more, if I leave for a job or, like, you know.",P27,S09 01:16:59.24,01:16:58.36,Oh.,P25,S09 01:17:00.38,01:16:58.84,Mm.,P26,S09 01:17:02.74,01:17:00.38,"You know what, you'll figure it out.",P26,S09 01:17:05.14,01:17:03.32,"Yeah, but if that's a year from now",P25,S09 01:17:07.55,01:17:04.49,But it's like not like Julia can't find someone else.,P28,S09 01:17:09.54,01:17:06.68,"It's a year from now, I'd rather have you for a year.",P25,S09 01:17:08.64,01:17:07.86,Right.,P27,S09 01:17:10.27,01:17:09.41,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:17:13.22,01:17:11.18,"Have you to myself, Sarah.",P25,S09 01:17:18.16,01:17:11.96,"Yeah, that place is cold in the winter, that's the only thing. God, that sunset's beautiful. Go look, you guys. It's just, like, beautiful right now.",P27,S09 01:17:19.98,01:17:14.68,"Exac- dude. Being, being that cold, I am, let's go in, let's go in there.",P25,S09 01:17:19.10,01:17:17.18,It is cold in here in the winter.,P26,S09 01:17:18.43,01:17:17.37,I am.,P28,S09 01:17:21.98,01:17:19.98,"Um, but that's the thing, like",P25,S09 01:17:26.45,01:17:21.23,"Oh, my god, it's fire red and purple and blue.",P28,S09 01:17:24.40,01:17:23.58,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:17:25.06,01:17:23.82,"Mhm, it's really pretty.",P26,S09 01:17:25.56,01:17:24.74,Sunny.,P27,S09 01:17:27.32,01:17:25.56,"Oh, holy crap.",P25,S09 01:17:28.00,01:17:27.24,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:17:29.20,01:17:27.22,"Yeah, it is a nice, uh, sunset.",P26,S09 01:17:30.08,01:17:28.28,Holy poo.,P25,S09 01:17:30.47,01:17:28.33,I'm raising the blinds!,P28,S09 01:17:31.92,01:17:30.36,"Yeah, raise the blinds.",P25,S09 01:17:32.72,01:17:32.14,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:17:34.12,01:17:32.44,"Oh, my god, that's really nice.",P25,S09 01:17:33.95,01:17:32.45,Wow.,P28,S09 01:17:35.56,01:17:33.84,I'm gonna like eat this.,P26,S09 01:17:36.84,01:17:34.84,"That's a good idea, I should just do that. I'm angry.",P25,S09 01:17:38.37,01:17:35.15,"I think I brought my phone out, too. Ooh! [laughs]",P28,S09 01:17:39.28,01:17:36.28,"Right? Cuz I don't wanna whole one, but I just want a little snack.",P26,S09 01:17:39.90,01:17:36.84,[inaudible 1:17:36.84] I know. That's just my idea.,P25,S09 01:17:38.40,01:17:37.30,I know.,P27,S09 01:17:41.90,01:17:39.90,"Ooh, there's taco to- Tostitos.",P25,S09 01:17:40.68,01:17:39.96,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:17:43.74,01:17:41.86,"Mhm, mhm. Yeah.",P26,S09 01:17:43.90,01:17:42.24,Put a sprinkle of that shit.,P25,S09 01:17:45.97,01:17:44.49,I wanna take a picture.,P28,S09 01:17:45.90,01:17:45.14,Mm.,P25,S09 01:17:47.02,01:17:46.50,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:17:47.66,01:17:46.84,[noise],P25,S09 01:17:48.34,01:17:47.66,Pardon me.,P25,S09 01:17:50.10,01:17:48.00,[laughs],P27,S09 01:17:50.81,01:17:48.53,My piece is falling out again.,P28,S09 01:17:52.96,01:17:48.76,"There you go. I get to belch for the, uh, techie dudes or whatever.",P25,S09 01:17:51.78,01:17:51.12,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:17:52.50,01:17:51.58,Hmm.,P27,S09 01:17:53.52,01:17:52.80,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:17:54.56,01:17:53.52,[laughs],P26,S09 01:17:57.54,01:17:55.08,[laughs],P25,S09 01:18:01.56,01:17:57.54,"I was thinking about all the inappropriate things I could say right now. It's just, it's hard.",P25,S09 01:17:58.42,01:17:57.80,Right?,P26,S09 01:18:00.22,01:17:59.36,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:18:01.38,01:18:00.26,I know.,P27,S09 01:18:01.76,01:18:00.96,Do you want a piece?,P26,S09 01:18:04.84,01:18:01.37,[noise],P28,S09 01:18:02.90,01:18:01.56,"Yes, please.",P25,S09 01:18:04.76,01:18:02.90,"Oh, my goodness.",P25,S09 01:18:04.56,01:18:03.46,"Oh, my gosh.",P26,S09 01:18:06.40,01:18:03.56,"So, when's your next date, both of you?",P27,S09 01:20:46.90,01:20:41.12,"But I'm not fal- the thing is, I'm not falling at all. Like, I like them, but I'm not in love or anything.",P25,S09 01:20:43.04,01:20:41.42,[laughs],P26,S09 01:20:45.54,01:20:44.78,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:20:51.62,01:20:46.28,"Right, but I'm jealous of that [inaudible 1:20:47.75] I'm like, two dates, let's be girlfriends.",P27,S09 01:20:54.24,01:20:48.92,"Like I said, I'm just rea- I'm really horny, that's why I'm just saying. Like",P25,S09 01:20:54.82,01:20:53.48,[laughs],P26,S09 01:20:55.30,01:20:54.74,Mm.,P25,S09 01:20:55.76,01:20:54.76,"Yeah, fair enough.",P27,S09 01:20:56.00,01:20:55.20,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:20:58.42,01:20:56.96,Let's go sit in the living room.,P26,S09 01:20:58.94,01:20:58.20,Let's do it.,P25,S09 01:21:00.96,01:20:58.42,I think it might be a little bit cooler in there. What do you think?,P26,S09 01:21:01.68,01:21:00.06,Mm. Mhm.,P25,S09 01:21:02.99,01:21:01.11,"Wait, did we get the text to move?",P28,S09 01:21:03.58,01:21:02.84,Oh.,P26,S09 01:21:08.86,01:21:02.94,"No, no, but we should. It's been, it's been an hour. It's like eight. Yeah, it's eight twelve. There you go.",P25,S09 01:21:07.52,01:21:05.66,"Oh, god, it's like eight.",P27,S09 01:21:06.72,01:21:06.08,Mm?,P26,S09 01:21:08.94,01:21:08.38,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:21:09.05,01:21:08.47,Oops.,P28,S09 01:21:10.90,01:21:09.06,"No, we're perfect. Thirty thirty.",P25,S09 01:21:11.46,01:21:10.76,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:21:13.42,01:21:11.10,Yeah. I'm so full. That was so good.,P27,S09 01:21:13.70,01:21:12.62,You're done?,P25,S09 01:21:14.87,01:21:12.99,[laughs],P28,S09 01:21:15.24,01:21:13.34,"Yeah, delish.",P26,S09 01:21:18.04,01:21:14.84,I feel like you need to make fajitas for Sarah to make her fall in with you more.,P27,S09 01:21:15.58,01:21:14.88,Mm.,P25,S09 01:21:19.53,01:21:17.05,So how is it that I go pee without them hearing?,P28,S09 01:21:20.74,01:21:18.36,"Oh, Sarah, sorry. Sorry?",P25,S09 01:21:20.16,01:21:18.94,Cuz they're so good.,P27,S09 01:21:21.89,01:21:19.53,How is it that I go pee without them hearing?,P28,S09 01:21:23.38,01:21:21.88,"Oh, you wanna take this out.",P25,S09 01:21:24.62,01:21:23.92,Here.,P25,S09 01:21:27.96,01:21:24.24,[noise],P26,S09 01:21:25.08,01:21:24.50,[noise],P27,S09 01:21:28.59,01:21:26.71,Because I've only had three glasses of wine.,P28,S09 01:21:29.65,01:21:28.62,There you go.,P25,S09 01:21:31.23,01:21:28.59,"Oh, I I've shimmied it in through.",P28,S09 01:21:33.48,01:21:29.10,[noise],P26,S09 01:21:34.60,01:21:30.70,"No, no, it's okay, no, no. So you leave that and then you just take this off.",P25,S09 01:21:37.90,01:21:33.90,That's funny what you were saying about how people do this and then they just start reading.,P26,S09 01:21:36.12,01:21:35.22,There you go.,P25,S09 01:21:38.16,01:21:36.56,Now you can go tinkle.,P25,S09 01:21:41.24,01:21:37.90,"Like, can you imagine?",P26,S09 01:21:43.48,01:21:40.46,[laughs],P25,S09 01:21:43.74,01:21:41.50,"Oh, my god, I couldn't imagine, no.",P27,S09 01:21:44.80,01:21:42.96,Right? That's so weird.,P26,S09 01:21:45.06,01:21:43.48,[inaudible 1:21:43.48],P25,S09 01:21:46.24,01:21:45.06,[laughs],P25,S09 01:21:47.80,01:21:46.74,Ah.,P25,S09 01:21:48.36,01:21:46.86,"Oh, man.",P26,S09 01:21:48.76,01:21:47.74,But you forget.,P27,S09 01:21:50.74,01:21:49.98,Say.,P26,S09 01:21:52.54,01:21:50.30,"I'm like, can we have dessert yet? [laughs]",P25,S09 01:21:53.88,01:21:52.18,"Oh, we totally can.",P27,S09 01:21:54.10,01:21:52.54,"No, no, no, let's wait, let's wait, let's wait.",P25,S09 01:21:56.28,01:21:54.10,"Oh, and the sunset's gone.",P25,S09 01:21:57.48,01:21:55.64,Is it gone? That's sad.,P26,S09 01:21:57.90,01:21:56.28,"You took a picture, right, Sarah?",P25,S09 01:21:59.14,01:21:57.68,I sure did.,P27,S09 01:22:00.68,01:21:57.90,"Oh, my god, that was beaut- that was insane.",P25,S09 01:22:02.78,01:22:00.80,You guys watching the fight on Saturday?,P27,S09 01:22:05.32,01:22:02.64,"Yeah, that's why D and I were hanging out.",P25,S09 01:22:06.12,01:22:04.70,Where you guys gonna watch it?,P27,S09 01:22:12.90,01:22:06.06,"Um, uh, she had a couple ideas for some bars, something forty or something.",P25,S09 01:22:11.93,01:22:07.83,[noise],P26,S09 01:22:15.06,01:22:12.40,Let me know cuz Sarah's going to be out with her friends but I might,P27,S09 01:22:15.64,01:22:14.68,Yeah?,P25,S09 01:22:17.48,01:22:15.06,"Cindy, I think, is gonna be in town to see this baby, but",P27,S09 01:22:18.62,01:22:17.64,Oh.,P25,S09 01:22:24.18,01:22:17.68,"There's gonna be a live taping of, uh, Savage Love, Dan Savage.",P26,S09 01:22:24.80,01:22:23.98,What?,P25,S09 01:22:26.52,01:22:24.18,"Yeah, in Vancouver.",P26,S09 01:22:25.38,01:22:24.44,Oh.,P27,S09 01:22:27.18,01:22:24.80,Where? When?,P25,S09 01:22:28.05,01:22:26.24,Shut the front door.,P27,S09 01:22:35.56,01:22:27.44,"Yeah, okay, it's at the Orpheum, it's October thirteenth and I think tickets are, like, thirty five bucks, so I wanna go, right?",P26,S09 01:22:34.99,01:22:33.63,Totally down.,P27,S09 01:22:36.14,01:22:34.96,I'd be down.,P25,S09 01:22:36.55,01:22:35.37,Where did you see this?,P27,S09 01:22:38.98,01:22:35.86,"Okay, um, fuck, I don't know, it came",P26,S09 01:22:38.52,01:22:37.30,[inaudible 1:22:37.30],P25,S09 01:22:46.34,01:22:38.98,"It might have kept her on an email, but I can, um, yeah, maybe I'll just buy a bunch.",P26,S09 01:22:43.86,01:22:42.72,Buy tickets.,P25,S09 01:22:47.35,01:22:44.01,Because that show you and I both saw was fantastic.,P27,S09 01:22:46.48,01:22:45.68,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:22:50.54,01:22:47.46,Yeah. Buy buy four. Yeah.,P25,S09 01:22:51.62,01:22:47.92,"Um, yeah, right? Like, that's super fun.",P26,S09 01:22:52.81,01:22:50.85,"Oh, yeah, are you guys doing Tinder Tales?",P27,S09 01:22:53.44,01:22:52.66,"Oh, yeah.",P25,S09 01:22:54.26,01:22:52.66,"Oh, we wanna do that, yeah.",P26,S09 01:22:59.58,01:22:53.44,"Rachel said she'll come with me. She'll bring, she'll bring Joey and then I'll bring one of my girls.",P25,S09 01:22:57.79,01:22:55.39,Dan Savage live in Vancouver. Here it is.,P27,S09 01:22:57.94,01:22:57.04,Mm.,P26,S09 01:22:59.72,01:22:59.26,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:23:07.84,01:23:00.16,"I'll probably bring Danny to dinner tales, um, cuz it's her half birthday the day before and she likes to celebrate her half birthday.",P25,S09 01:23:03.36,01:23:02.60,"Yeah, that'd be fine.",P26,S09 01:23:06.28,01:23:05.78,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:23:10.04,01:23:07.42,"Hmm, all right, fair enough, yeah, we can do it.",P26,S09 01:23:09.84,01:23:07.84,"So I was like, there you go.",P25,S09 01:23:11.09,01:23:09.07,"Oh, Humpfest, that's what it was.",P27,S09 01:23:12.30,01:23:10.84,"Yeah, the best is funny.",P26,S09 01:23:13.85,01:23:12.09,"No, it doesn't come up.",P27,S09 01:23:15.84,01:23:14.18,I gotta hook Mel back up.,P25,S09 01:23:14.86,01:23:14.20,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:23:17.53,01:23:14.99,There's a Danny Savage that lives in Vancouver.,P27,S09 01:23:22.32,01:23:16.86,"Oh, um, it's at the Orpheum. It's October thirteenth, I think.",P26,S09 01:23:25.14,01:23:22.90,Can we move this band?,P25,S09 01:23:24.28,01:23:22.96,"But, um",P26,S09 01:23:26.28,01:23:24.28,"You wanna, yes? No, for sure.",P26,S09 01:23:26.14,01:23:25.14,Sorry.,P25,S09 01:23:28.07,01:23:26.67,"Oh, we should all do that.",P27,S09 01:23:30.63,01:23:27.69,"Right? That would be kind of a fun night, just like",P26,S09 01:23:30.53,01:23:29.09,Are you s- yeah.,P27,S09 01:23:30.58,01:23:29.72,Whoops.,P25,S09 01:23:33.97,01:23:30.63,"And again, I think it's thirty five dollars. Like it's not expensive.",P26,S09 01:23:37.90,01:23:32.58,"Oh, dude, no, we need to do things. Like, that's why we make money, so we can spend it.",P25,S09 01:23:35.97,01:23:34.95,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:23:37.81,01:23:37.13,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:23:39.82,01:23:38.18,"Here, you want me to help you, Mel?",P25,S09 01:23:42.78,01:23:41.36,[laughs],P25,S09 01:23:43.43,01:23:41.87,[laughs],P26,S09 01:23:44.38,01:23:42.80,[noise],P25,S09 01:23:46.80,01:23:44.38,"All right, let's get you in [inaudible 1:23:46.32]",P25,S09 01:23:48.29,01:23:46.71,That is such a good idea.,P27,S09 01:23:48.81,01:23:48.21,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:23:50.62,01:23:48.68,"No, no, you don't, I don't need any help, it's all right.",P25,S09 01:23:52.67,01:23:50.52,These arm things are kinda weird.,P26,S09 01:23:53.46,01:23:51.66,"All right, nice and tight.",P25,S09 01:23:56.82,01:23:53.84,No? Too tight? Oh. Nice and loose. There you go.,P25,S09 01:23:58.50,01:23:57.94,Yeah?,P25,S09 01:24:00.50,01:23:58.90,I need that for hand jobs.,P25,S09 01:24:02.69,01:24:00.79,You need that for the handies?,P26,S09 01:24:03.50,01:24:01.62,[laughs],P25,S09 01:24:05.42,01:24:03.54,"Oh, oh, [inaudible 1:24:04.42]",P25,S09 01:24:07.68,01:24:05.42,There you go. Z- Zach will be happy.,P25,S09 01:24:06.57,01:24:05.44,[laughs],P28,S09 01:24:06.63,01:24:05.89,Oh.,P26,S09 01:24:07.85,01:24:06.57,Thank you.,P28,S09 01:24:10.77,01:24:07.75,"Mmm, delicious food. Oh, my god, that was great.",P26,S09 01:24:10.24,01:24:08.78,Now I gotta tinkle.,P25,S09 01:24:13.95,01:24:10.77,Ah.,P26,S09 01:24:13.97,01:24:12.61,Oh.,P28,S09 01:24:15.53,01:24:13.83,And dessert any time.,P27,S09 01:24:15.71,01:24:14.47,I'm creeping in.,P28,S09 01:24:16.57,01:24:15.55,Gag it in here.,P26,S09 01:24:18.23,01:24:17.13,Mm.,P26,S09 01:24:22.31,01:24:18.73,"It was beautiful. I was hanging out the window, so technically I left the room.",P28,S09 01:24:27.85,01:24:21.87,"Oh, we all broke the rules, or maybe just you and me, I don't know if anyone else did.",P26,S09 01:24:25.21,01:24:24.43,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:24:27.75,01:24:26.35,Maybe.,P28,S09 01:24:29.39,01:24:28.17,Are you peeing?,P26,S09 01:24:31.37,01:24:28.87,"Kay, bye. [laughs]",P28,S09 01:24:30.73,01:24:29.77,Gross.,P26,S09 01:24:32.77,01:24:31.49,"No, I don't see it here.",P27,S09 01:24:33.59,01:24:32.85,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:24:34.91,01:24:33.27,Kee- remind us on that.,P27,S09 01:24:36.47,01:24:35.29,"Okay, okay, yeah.",P26,S09 01:24:38.15,01:24:35.87,"Have you, have you gotten an update from Laura?",P28,S09 01:24:39.21,01:24:38.47,Nothing.,P27,S09 01:24:40.73,01:24:39.33,Oh.,P28,S09 01:24:40.61,01:24:39.41,[noise] Oh.,P26,S09 01:24:41.67,01:24:40.01,"Which scares me, yeah.",P27,S09 01:24:44.59,01:24:41.43,"No, it's just probably, like, they're doing their thing.",P28,S09 01:24:49.09,01:24:44.65,"Any, like, uh, baby names, like, if it's a boy or a girl?",P26,S09 01:24:49.97,01:24:48.61,They wouldn't tell us.,P27,S09 01:24:50.67,01:24:49.31,Nothing?,P26,S09 01:24:50.87,01:24:50.25,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:24:52.67,01:24:50.67,"Woah, that's funny.",P26,S09 01:24:54.13,01:24:52.97,I know.,P27,S09 01:24:55.77,01:24:54.13,They had three pages.,P27,S09 01:24:58.57,01:24:56.37,Of names? Woah.,P26,S09 01:24:59.71,01:24:56.93,"Yeah, one and a half for each, so",P27,S09 01:25:00.19,01:24:58.81,That's intense.,P28,S09 01:25:02.85,01:25:01.17,Do you guys have names that you like?,P26,S09 01:25:02.19,01:25:01.31,That's a lot.,P28,S09 01:25:03.89,01:25:03.35,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:25:04.67,01:25:03.97,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:25:07.41,01:25:04.39,"My friend took mine, yeah. Sam. I was- yeah.",P27,S09 01:25:08.03,01:25:06.13,Oh.,P26,S09 01:25:09.55,01:25:07.41,"So. It's okay, I'm not having kids, so",P27,S09 01:25:09.43,01:25:08.55,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:25:10.11,01:25:09.55,Do you?,P27,S09 01:25:13.97,01:25:10.63,"I feel like every now and then I hear something and I'm like, I like that or I like that.",P26,S09 01:25:21.51,01:25:13.97,"I uh I don't think I have, like, one or two that I'm, like, yes. But again, I don't think that I'm gonna have kids, so",P26,S09 01:25:28.81,01:25:20.53,"You either? Me neither. But I do have, like, two boy names and I have one, two girl names, so it's",P28,S09 01:25:22.29,01:25:20.73,"You're still young, though.",P27,S09 01:25:23.37,01:25:22.51,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:25:26.35,01:25:24.59,Mm.,P26,S09 01:25:36.19,01:25:28.13,"Mine generally tend to be girl names when I get excited about them, um, but I'm, now I'm totally drawing a blank. I can't even think of anything that I like.",P26,S09 01:25:37.29,01:25:36.13,So I'll go first.,P28,S09 01:25:37.55,01:25:37.11,K.,P26,S09 01:25:42.21,01:25:38.13,"If it were a boy, like, whenever I meet a Jacob or a Caleb",P28,S09 01:25:39.81,01:25:39.31,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:25:44.89,01:25:41.61,Mm. Those are good names. I like those.,P26,S09 01:25:45.55,01:25:42.21,Jacob or Caleb. For some reason.,P28,S09 01:25:46.39,01:25:44.89,Yeah. Yeah.,P26,S09 01:25:47.41,01:25:45.55,And for girls,P28,S09 01:25:48.37,01:25:45.85,Never met a Jacob or a Caleb I didn't like.,P27,S09 01:25:48.41,01:25:47.41,Really?,P28,S09 01:25:48.61,01:25:47.99,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:25:50.55,01:25:49.01,"Love, yeah.",P27,S09 01:25:51.95,01:25:48.97,"Uh, for girls, Emma or Ashley.",P28,S09 01:25:54.07,01:25:51.85,"Those are good. I like those names, yeah.",P26,S09 01:25:54.85,01:25:52.89,"Yeah, Emma especially.",P28,S09 01:25:55.33,01:25:54.31,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:25:58.59,01:25:55.31,"Ashley, I'm [noise] whatever, but yeah.",P28,S09 01:25:56.87,01:25:56.43,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:25:58.57,01:25:57.93,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:26:02.15,01:25:59.21,Trying to think now. I'm totally drawing a blank.,P26,S09 01:26:02.63,01:26:01.95,Hmm.,P28,S09 01:26:05.73,01:26:03.91,"Like, baby names.",P26,S09 01:26:06.17,01:26:04.49,"Like, baby names.",P28,S09 01:26:05.73,01:26:04.81,Baby names.,P27,S09 01:26:07.39,01:26:06.47,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:26:13.35,01:26:06.85,"Well, it's cuz we asked Sarah, does Laura have any, you know, baby names? She was like, yeah, a page and a half for for both.",P28,S09 01:26:10.09,01:26:09.23,Mm.,P26,S09 01:26:14.37,01:26:13.35,Can I help you?,P28,S09 01:26:15.97,01:26:14.99,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:26:19.15,01:26:15.23,"No, they she said pages of, like, written down, yeah. Yeah.",P26,S09 01:26:20.21,01:26:19.15,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:26:21.57,01:26:19.39,I didn't even see where you plugged it in.,P28,S09 01:26:24.13,01:26:22.01,Mhm. Oh.,P26,S09 01:26:24.39,01:26:23.21,Right there? Yeah.,P28,S09 01:26:26.85,01:26:24.50,Poop. There we go.,P25,S09 01:26:26.79,01:26:25.21,"Yeah, I am winding down.",P26,S09 01:26:29.53,01:26:26.79,All of a sudden I'm like [noise],P26,S09 01:26:29.29,01:26:28.05,I know.,P27,S09 01:26:29.28,01:26:28.26,Thank you.,P25,S09 01:26:31.53,01:26:29.53,"Yeah, Mhm.",P26,S09 01:26:34.16,01:26:30.40,"Oh, no, I already know my- well, I'm not gonna have a kid, so",P25,S09 01:26:33.47,01:26:32.43,Wednesday night.,P27,S09 01:26:33.97,01:26:33.43,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:26:36.16,01:26:34.16,I always wanted to be Charlie.,P25,S09 01:26:36.23,01:26:34.53,But we all know what baby,P28,S09 01:26:37.39,01:26:36.23,"Oh, really?",P28,S09 01:26:38.19,01:26:36.51,"Charlie's good, yeah.",P26,S09 01:26:37.86,01:26:36.58,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:26:38.83,01:26:37.71,Such a good name.,P27,S09 01:26:41.96,01:26:37.86,"Cuz it's a boy or a girl's name. I don't know, I've always just kind of been obsessed with that name.",P25,S09 01:26:40.45,01:26:39.13,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:26:40.49,01:26:39.23,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:26:40.75,01:26:40.19,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:26:42.95,01:26:41.21,Mm.,P28,S09 01:26:43.01,01:26:41.45,Mm.,P26,S09 01:26:44.09,01:26:43.01,That's a good one.,P26,S09 01:26:44.46,01:26:43.26,Falling off.,P25,S09 01:26:45.51,01:26:43.23,So if you were to meet a Charlie,P28,S09 01:26:47.66,01:26:46.14,If I was to meet a Charlie?,P25,S09 01:26:47.35,01:26:46.37,Woah.,P26,S09 01:26:47.91,01:26:47.17,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:26:50.70,01:26:48.02,"Well, then we'll just name our dog Moose instead.",P25,S09 01:26:52.33,01:26:50.39,[laughs],P28,S09 01:26:52.41,01:26:50.41,[laughs],P26,S09 01:26:52.70,01:26:52.20,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:26:53.83,01:26:53.01,Mm.,P26,S09 01:26:54.70,01:26:53.76,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:26:56.47,01:26:54.33,"So, Charlie, Charlie, that's it?",P28,S09 01:26:55.83,01:26:54.87,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:27:00.24,01:26:56.40,"Yeah, that's it. Good for a boy, good for a girl. Yeah.",P25,S09 01:26:57.97,01:26:57.15,Yeah?,P28,S09 01:26:59.57,01:26:58.83,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:27:00.07,01:26:58.91,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 01:27:03.89,01:27:00.35,Sarah? Sam?,P28,S09 01:27:01.29,01:27:00.89,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:27:02.47,01:27:01.49,"No, Sam.",P27,S09 01:27:04.94,01:27:02.72,"Ooh, I like Sam, that's cute.",P25,S09 01:27:03.95,01:27:02.79,[inaudible 1:27:02.76] Sam.,P27,S09 01:27:08.09,01:27:04.37,"Yeah, but my friend took it, so now I'm just like, yeah, boy or girl.",P27,S09 01:27:07.02,01:27:05.68,"Girl or a boy, too.",P25,S09 01:27:06.99,01:27:05.71,Mm.,P26,S09 01:27:08.14,01:27:07.02,"Oh, that would sucks.",P25,S09 01:27:10.05,01:27:08.79,Mm.,P28,S09 01:27:10.27,01:27:08.97,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:27:12.38,01:27:08.98,"Yeah, that's kind of like why you'd never tell your friends or whatever.",P25,S09 01:27:13.27,01:27:11.77,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:27:14.08,01:27:12.38,"But I'm like, whatever, I'm not gonna have a kid.",P25,S09 01:27:16.13,01:27:13.97,"No, I told my friends",P28,S09 01:27:18.08,01:27:14.08,And my aunt named their dog Charlie and the dog died.,P25,S09 01:27:20.05,01:27:17.99,All my dogs are named Charlie.,P27,S09 01:27:19.71,01:27:17.99,[laughs],P26,S09 01:27:24.02,01:27:18.68,"It got hit by a car. I was like, but that the dog, and I'm like, now I can't name my dog Charlie.",P25,S09 01:27:21.25,01:27:19.71,"Oh, no.",P26,S09 01:27:23.89,01:27:22.01,[laughs],P28,S09 01:27:25.57,01:27:23.89,Oh.,P28,S09 01:27:27.22,01:27:24.68,They taught it everything except stay.,P25,S09 01:27:25.45,01:27:24.95,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:27:28.99,01:27:26.85,[laughs] That's rough.,P26,S09 01:27:30.17,01:27:26.97,[laughs],P28,S09 01:27:29.76,01:27:28.62,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:27:31.07,01:27:29.99,Oh.,P26,S09 01:27:35.42,01:27:30.04,"He was so cute, too. He was, like, so effing cute. And he did all these tricks. So sad.",P25,S09 01:27:32.61,01:27:31.33,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:27:36.27,01:27:34.09,Mm. [noise],P26,S09 01:27:36.71,01:27:35.79,That is sad.,P27,S09 01:27:37.42,01:27:36.64,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:27:39.07,01:27:36.71,Montreal. We haven't even heard about your trip yet.,P27,S09 01:27:37.51,01:27:36.67,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:27:40.14,01:27:38.14,"Oh, yeah, tell us about Montreal.",P25,S09 01:27:43.65,01:27:41.25,I really love being in Montreal.,P28,S09 01:27:44.62,01:27:42.02,Oh. Oh.,P25,S09 01:27:46.19,01:27:43.13,"Did you miss, like, do you wanna move back one day? Miss it?",P27,S09 01:27:50.33,01:27:45.27,I thought I might until the sweltering humid heat came.,P28,S09 01:27:49.71,01:27:48.47,I had a feeling.,P27,S09 01:27:51.06,01:27:48.86,Ah.,P25,S09 01:27:50.77,01:27:48.85,Oh.,P26,S09 01:27:53.79,01:27:50.33,"And they just experienced, like, a minor tornado.",P28,S09 01:27:56.40,01:27:53.17,"Oh, I didn't hear that.",P25,S09 01:27:54.39,01:27:53.27,I saw that.,P27,S09 01:27:55.27,01:27:54.25,What?,P26,S09 01:28:00.87,01:27:54.55,It actually tore through m- m- I call it my neighborhood cuz that's where I was when while I was visiting.,P28,S09 01:27:55.81,01:27:54.83,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:27:58.20,01:27:56.86,Holy crap.,P25,S09 01:28:01.55,01:28:00.85,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:28:07.15,01:28:01.04,"It tore down all the trees, kind of like what happened in Stanley Park. Like, it just ruined the vegetation.",P28,S09 01:28:03.62,01:28:02.84,What?,P25,S09 01:28:07.16,01:28:05.32,Woah.,P25,S09 01:28:07.37,01:28:05.69,Woah.,P26,S09 01:28:08.46,01:28:07.16,Holy shit.,P25,S09 01:28:08.57,01:28:07.57,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:28:11.37,01:28:08.57,"So I'm glad I wasn't there for that, but I",P28,S09 01:28:12.18,01:28:11.08,[laughs],P25,S09 01:28:28.45,01:28:11.37,"The when I was there in Montreal, I missed it and then I went to the townships, which is like an hour and a half South towards the border and then I had my time there and then a week later I went back up to Montreal and then I didn't miss it so much anymore.",P28,S09 01:28:28.96,01:28:28.36,Hmm.,P25,S09 01:28:31.73,01:28:28.45,"I don't know. I love it, it's beautiful.",P28,S09 01:28:30.77,01:28:29.64,Mm.,P26,S09 01:28:39.11,01:28:32.13,"Next time I go back, I think I do wanna spend more time in Montreal than I will in the townships.",P28,S09 01:28:38.85,01:28:37.59,Mm.,P27,S09 01:28:40.21,01:28:39.11,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:28:42.13,01:28:40.21,My head bud's coming out.,P28,S09 01:28:43.77,01:28:40.41,What did you miss? The people or the food or the,P27,S09 01:28:44.46,01:28:43.06,[laughs],P25,S09 01:28:49.17,01:28:43.61,"Um, I miss my I miss my friends, I miss the architecture and I miss the food.",P28,S09 01:28:46.46,01:28:44.46,[inaudible 1:28:44.46],P25,S09 01:28:49.42,01:28:48.44,Mm.,P25,S09 01:28:53.91,01:28:49.17,There's something about Montreal that's just really amazing.,P28,S09 01:28:50.89,01:28:49.35,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:28:54.60,01:28:53.20,Montreal smoked meat.,P25,S09 01:28:55.89,01:28:54.83,Mm.,P26,S09 01:28:57.69,01:28:55.43,"Not so much, but everything else, yeah.",P28,S09 01:28:57.34,01:28:56.14,[laughs],P25,S09 01:29:03.89,01:28:57.69,"No, the food is delicious, and if you're into smoked meat, then I do recommend it. I just I'm not.",P28,S09 01:29:01.94,01:29:01.22,Mm.,P25,S09 01:29:05.58,01:29:02.78,"What kind of food, though, in Montreal? Like",P25,S09 01:29:07.87,01:29:06.05,Everything and anything.,P28,S09 01:29:08.94,01:29:06.58,C- but we have everything here.,P25,S09 01:29:07.94,01:29:06.92,Mm.,P26,S09 01:29:13.55,01:29:08.73,"No, it's it's better there here. [inaudible 1:29:11.40] you you say, yeah.",P27,S09 01:29:10.43,01:29:08.79,I know but it's not,P28,S09 01:29:11.48,01:29:10.54,Really?,P25,S09 01:29:15.36,01:29:12.58,"Yeah, like, tell me what. Like, I'm curious, I wanna know.",P25,S09 01:29:14.73,01:29:13.89,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:21.37,01:29:15.13,"I don't know, you're more likely to go out to eat at a restaurant and it be like good food, whereas here I find",P28,S09 01:29:27.62,01:29:21.26,"Well, there's a lot to choose from and there are some, a lot of, like, there's amazing places and there's a lot of eh places.",P25,S09 01:29:26.99,01:29:24.15,"Like, meh. Meh.",P28,S09 01:29:26.61,01:29:25.73,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:29:28.39,01:29:26.99,There's a lot of meh.,P28,S09 01:29:31.59,01:29:27.35,"Oh, okay, okay, yeah, mhm. Mhm.",P26,S09 01:29:31.19,01:29:29.73,There's a lot of meh.,P28,S09 01:29:32.76,01:29:30.76,Maybe just don't know the good places here.,P25,S09 01:29:34.29,01:29:32.22,[noise],P26,S09 01:29:41.05,01:29:32.97,"And I feel that way, too, cuz I'm I'm not in the foodie scene here, whereas I feel like I was maybe a little bit more in Montreal, but",P28,S09 01:29:37.10,01:29:36.42,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:29:38.03,01:29:37.27,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:40.07,01:29:39.59,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:43.78,01:29:40.08,"Cuz, like, I've had some amazing meals here.",P25,S09 01:29:43.99,01:29:43.11,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:44.03,01:29:43.15,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:29:46.14,01:29:43.78,"But, like, I've eaten at a lot of different places.",P25,S09 01:29:54.34,01:29:46.14,"Like, Christie and I, like, we used to just like every birthday for us and our anniversary, we would always go to a fancy ass restaurant. Yeah.",P25,S09 01:29:51.65,01:29:50.99,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:54.43,01:29:52.95,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:29:53.57,01:29:53.05,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:29:56.29,01:29:53.57,Have you been to Absinthe on the drive yet?,P28,S09 01:29:57.29,01:29:55.27,"Oh, my favorite.",P27,S09 01:29:57.70,01:29:56.82,Absinthe?,P25,S09 01:29:58.55,01:29:56.81,"It's my favorite, too.",P28,S09 01:29:59.66,01:29:58.40,Where? [noise],P25,S09 01:30:00.39,01:29:59.29,It's on the drive.,P28,S09 01:30:02.03,01:30:00.29,"By Vanis, by my place.",P27,S09 01:30:02.61,01:30:02.15,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:02.89,01:30:02.15,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:30:04.58,01:30:02.52,Absinthe? No.,P25,S09 01:30:06.31,01:30:03.99,Teeny tiny. You need to make reservations.,P28,S09 01:30:10.61,01:30:05.05,"It's like real French baguette. And they have set menus, but you can pick, like certain things, but yeah.",P27,S09 01:30:06.78,01:30:05.18,What's it about? What's?,P25,S09 01:30:06.55,01:30:05.27,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:08.36,01:30:06.78,Oh.,P25,S09 01:30:08.53,01:30:07.41,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:09.05,01:30:08.59,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:30:13.46,01:30:09.64,Is it like cheaper or like sit down or?,P25,S09 01:30:11.35,01:30:09.67,They have they have,P28,S09 01:30:15.75,01:30:11.81,"It's it's a sit down, it's a little more it's expensive.",P28,S09 01:30:16.74,01:30:15.72,Mm.,P25,S09 01:30:16.67,01:30:15.93,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:20.25,01:30:16.37,"It was definitely like a birthday dinner for, no",P28,S09 01:30:20.22,01:30:18.60,"Oh, okay, well",P25,S09 01:30:20.03,01:30:18.79,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:20.89,01:30:19.25,They're closed for a little while but,P27,S09 01:30:22.25,01:30:20.25,"Oh, it's one of my favorites.",P28,S09 01:30:25.22,01:30:20.92,"Oh, god, why is everything closed? Is it gonna open again?",P25,S09 01:30:22.77,01:30:21.35,Mm.,P26,S09 01:30:27.49,01:30:23.13,"You sit down, you have three options for dinner and that's it.",P28,S09 01:30:24.77,01:30:24.01,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:30:25.37,01:30:24.75,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:30:26.45,01:30:25.63,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:30:30.24,01:30:26.42,"Woah. Oh, that's uber fancy. Oh, okay.",P25,S09 01:30:29.07,01:30:27.45,Mm.,P26,S09 01:30:31.55,01:30:29.09,"Yeah, well, it's cuz it's so small, they can't",P28,S09 01:30:35.16,01:30:31.02,"Yeah, no, but that's cool. Hmm, okay, maybe I'll check that out.",P25,S09 01:30:33.13,01:30:32.67,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:30:36.07,01:30:33.77,Mhm. I like it.,P28,S09 01:30:37.71,01:30:35.47,"Oh, the best, so memorable, yeah.",P27,S09 01:30:38.23,01:30:37.41,Hmm.,P28,S09 01:30:38.04,01:30:37.48,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:30:39.09,01:30:38.47,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:30:40.42,01:30:38.64,Hmm. Neato.,P25,S09 01:30:41.93,01:30:39.59,And we weren't even there together.,P28,S09 01:30:44.31,01:30:41.43,"I know, it's so true [inaudible 1:30:43.00] people.",P27,S09 01:30:44.90,01:30:42.45,[noise] Mm.,P25,S09 01:30:43.53,01:30:42.87,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:30:44.97,01:30:43.11,[laughs],P26,S09 01:30:45.53,01:30:44.77,Mm.,P28,S09 01:30:47.16,01:30:45.68,"Mm, mm, mm.",P25,S09 01:30:47.03,01:30:46.05,Mm.,P26,S09 01:30:47.73,01:30:46.29,I recommend.,P28,S09 01:30:52.61,01:30:46.73,"You know, I was talking to Anna and Katrina about because they just got back from Scotland and Ireland, like, what their preference was.",P27,S09 01:30:51.16,01:30:50.30,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:30:53.73,01:30:51.59,"Oh, yeah.",P26,S09 01:30:56.01,01:30:52.61,"Yeah, they loved Scotland, everything Scotland, yeah.",P27,S09 01:30:56.34,01:30:52.98,Oh. Yeah? That was their favorite?,P25,S09 01:30:55.35,01:30:54.37,Oh.,P28,S09 01:31:05.91,01:30:56.01,"But I can't even, like, judge that because Katrina's family was from Scotland and, yeah, the architecture, yeah, it has to win, yeah, but it was like, no, yeah. Interesting.",P27,S09 01:30:56.79,01:30:55.97,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:31:03.80,01:30:59.36,"Oh, for sure. Like, uh yeah, for sure, yeah.",P25,S09 01:31:00.97,01:30:59.99,"Oh, okay.",P26,S09 01:31:04.65,01:31:03.89,Hmm.,P28,S09 01:31:04.87,01:31:03.93,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:31:05.64,01:31:04.82,Mm.,P25,S09 01:31:08.63,01:31:05.85,"I'm curious about Scotland, for sure.",P28,S09 01:31:09.79,01:31:07.81,"Me too now, yeah.",P27,S09 01:31:09.57,01:31:08.75,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:31:11.40,01:31:09.02,"Mm, that's neat. Hmm.",P25,S09 01:31:11.19,01:31:10.37,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:31:13.49,01:31:11.49,It's just so beautiful and old.,P28,S09 01:31:12.39,01:31:11.51,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:31:18.27,01:31:12.27,"But no news, but back to the party, like, I still want to throw a party, but I didn't want to, like, throw you an engagement party and not them.",P27,S09 01:31:15.84,01:31:15.04,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:31:19.87,01:31:18.85,But I don't know if they're,P27,S09 01:31:19.83,01:31:18.83,Who's them?,P28,S09 01:31:23.49,01:31:19.87,"Anna and Katrina, I don't know if they're friendly engaged.",P27,S09 01:31:20.89,01:31:19.83,Oh.,P28,S09 01:31:23.13,01:31:20.89,Mm.,P26,S09 01:31:23.14,01:31:21.44,Ah.,P25,S09 01:31:23.49,01:31:22.11,Then don't do it.,P28,S09 01:31:25.49,01:31:23.49,"If you feel torn, don't do it.",P28,S09 01:31:27.07,01:31:24.97,"No, I wanna do a girl's night, though.",P27,S09 01:31:28.05,01:31:27.17,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:31:30.41,01:31:27.41,"Can you do, like, joint engagement parties?",P26,S09 01:31:33.63,01:31:28.79,"But I'd love to do, like, an engagement party for you guys, but I Zach has so many friends, you know?",P27,S09 01:31:34.16,01:31:32.98,[laughs],P25,S09 01:31:39.38,01:31:34.16,"He's too, your husband's too, or, ooh. Your fiance's too popular.",P25,S09 01:31:37.51,01:31:35.87,[laughs],P26,S09 01:31:39.39,01:31:37.47,[laughs],P28,S09 01:31:40.71,01:31:37.61,"Too crappy with people I work with, yeah.",P27,S09 01:31:41.10,01:31:40.36,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:31:41.91,01:31:40.43,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:31:43.55,01:31:41.17,"Yeah, no, and that's totally",P28,S09 01:31:42.57,01:31:41.77,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:31:45.10,01:31:42.72,Hmm. [laughs],P25,S09 01:31:44.55,01:31:43.55,I don't care.,P28,S09 01:31:45.97,01:31:44.41,"What do you want, though?",P27,S09 01:31:58.33,01:31:44.55,"That's the thing, like, I just would like to revel in the fact that he bought me a ring and that's totally amazing, like, cuz I know it wasn't cheap, right?",P28,S09 01:31:46.70,01:31:45.48,Oh.,P25,S09 01:31:57.23,01:31:56.55,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:31:58.25,01:31:57.49,Right.,P26,S09 01:32:01.43,01:31:58.33,I chose it. We saw the price tag.,P28,S09 01:32:00.05,01:31:59.09,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:32:07.02,01:31:59.64,"You don't want us to, like, get, like, a male model and like you can sketch him nude? Like, you're not into that?",P25,S09 01:32:02.39,01:32:01.71,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:32:09.75,01:32:05.33,[laughs],P26,S09 01:32:09.84,01:32:07.02,"Like, even if he, like, helicopters?",P25,S09 01:32:09.17,01:32:07.15,"No, we saw that at Tabarecky.",P27,S09 01:32:12.58,01:32:09.84,"Oh, you've already seen it? Oh, oh, that's awesome.",P25,S09 01:32:12.75,01:32:10.85,"Yeah, she's seen it all.",P27,S09 01:32:12.45,01:32:10.91,[laughs],P28,S09 01:32:16.11,01:32:12.45,"I've seen stripper no, it's that I'm",P28,S09 01:32:13.93,01:32:12.71,[laughs],P26,S09 01:32:20.88,01:32:16.00,[laughs],P25,S09 01:32:18.67,01:32:16.29,[laughs],P26,S09 01:32:18.41,01:32:17.65,I just,P28,S09 01:32:25.35,01:32:19.37,"If if if if we're gonna have a get together and people wanna celebrate and stuff like that, then I'm totally fine with that.",P28,S09 01:32:27.29,01:32:25.35,I just don't want it to be like,P28,S09 01:32:35.65,01:32:28.13,"And I don't want anyone to financially bankrupt themselves, you know what I mean?",P28,S09 01:32:35.85,01:32:34.91,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:32:46.43,01:32:35.65,"Like, I feel like this wedding business can just get way too out of hand and I think because the expectations are way too high.",P28,S09 01:32:36.86,01:32:35.82,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:32:41.69,01:32:40.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:32:48.77,01:32:46.43,I don't have any expectations.,P28,S09 01:32:47.45,01:32:46.57,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:32:49.27,01:32:48.65,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:32:58.77,01:32:49.21,I have a ring that I never thought in a million years that I would ever get cuz I'm not into diamonds. [laughs] So.,P28,S09 01:32:55.43,01:32:54.53,Right.,P27,S09 01:33:02.20,01:32:56.56,"But like, but have you ever thought of, like, a wedding, though, like, what you might like?",P25,S09 01:32:59.29,01:32:56.55,Mhm. [laughs],P26,S09 01:33:04.77,01:33:03.69,No.,P28,S09 01:33:05.84,01:33:04.20,"No, nothing? Hmm.",P25,S09 01:33:19.34,01:33:05.55,"No cuz I always based it on, like, the stereotypical, like, the the the bride and the groom walk down the church aisle and so that's like what I have all my experiences to base it on, and the thing is is like",P28,S09 01:33:13.92,01:33:13.12,Mm.,P25,S09 01:33:14.49,01:33:13.65,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:33:15.61,01:33:14.63,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:33:16.52,01:33:15.06,You're just not into it.,P25,S09 01:33:19.60,01:33:18.80,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:33:30.61,01:33:19.39,"Like when he asked me, he's like, what kind of ring do you want? And we'd go online and I looked and I thought I knew until we went into a store and then I tried them on and and I was like, well, now it's totally different.",P28,S09 01:33:23.45,01:33:22.75,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:33:27.09,01:33:26.41,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:33:30.93,01:33:28.59,"Yeah, that makes sense, yeah.",P26,S09 01:33:34.63,01:33:31.21,So now I feel like it's totally different.,P28,S09 01:33:34.79,01:33:34.25,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:33:53.87,01:33:35.79,"Where I think maybe once upon a time I would have said, well, yeah, in a church with all the flowers and friends and family, but now that it comes down to it's actually happening, just like the ring was actually happening and I had to choose, it was totally different from what I originally thought.",P28,S09 01:33:37.16,01:33:35.84,[laughs],P25,S09 01:33:43.11,01:33:42.41,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:33:44.60,01:33:42.88,Mm.,P25,S09 01:33:48.84,01:33:48.08,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:33:48.95,01:33:48.11,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:33:54.09,01:33:52.99,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:33:54.18,01:33:53.34,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:33:59.99,01:33:54.02,"I think now that it comes down to it actually happening, I don't want to",P28,S09 01:34:08.45,01:33:59.99,"One, I know my father and my mother aren't contributing financially, so one, I absolutely do not want to fi- financially hinder anyone cuz",P28,S09 01:34:03.98,01:34:03.08,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:34:04.15,01:34:03.17,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:34:08.73,01:34:07.37,Do they know you're engaged?,P27,S09 01:34:10.03,01:34:09.15,Who?,P28,S09 01:34:11.09,01:34:09.75,Your mother and father.,P27,S09 01:34:12.45,01:34:11.29,"Yeah, they know.",P28,S09 01:34:12.65,01:34:12.23,Mm.,P27,S09 01:34:13.51,01:34:12.83,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:34:16.03,01:34:12.89,And no one's really congratulated me [laughs],P28,S09 01:34:16.83,01:34:15.49,Oh.,P26,S09 01:34:17.78,01:34:15.90,Oh.,P25,S09 01:34:25.39,01:34:16.03,"So and it doesn't break my heart cuz I I know my family. I know my family, so I think that maybe his family doesn't know my family.",P28,S09 01:34:18.45,01:34:16.83,I'm sorry.,P26,S09 01:34:21.91,01:34:19.27,"Yeah, mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:34:20.99,01:34:19.99,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:34:23.24,01:34:22.36,Hmm.,P25,S09 01:34:26.26,01:34:25.38,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:34:27.61,01:34:25.39,"Um, normal.",P28,S09 01:34:27.37,01:34:26.03,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:34:34.34,01:34:26.26,"It's coming from, like, two different worlds, like, you're going into Zach's world and you're, like, uh, yes, that's interesting. Hmm.",P25,S09 01:34:30.45,01:34:28.97,Absolutely.,P28,S09 01:34:30.83,01:34:30.07,Right.,P26,S09 01:34:33.75,01:34:33.05,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:34:33.69,01:34:33.11,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:34:42.07,01:34:34.01,"So now that it comes down to, well, we're actually gonna get married, I just don't want anyone to break the bank.",P28,S09 01:34:38.43,01:34:37.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:34:44.97,01:34:42.07,And I don't think anyone should have to break the bank.,P28,S09 01:34:54.11,01:34:44.97,"And I think that we can celebrate without doing that and without, like, this huge thing.",P28,S09 01:34:55.22,01:34:53.06,"So many people don't think like that, though.",P25,S09 01:35:21.96,01:35:07.42,"But cuz I'm like you. I'm just like, why don't we just elope, why don't we just go to a forest, why don't we just, like, elope and then tell everyone, hey, let's go down to Cancun, cool, meet us there, pretend to get married but we're already actually married. Done. Easy. Check.",P25,S09 01:35:12.35,01:35:11.59,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:35:16.83,01:35:15.99,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:35:18.35,01:35:17.35,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:35:18.19,01:35:17.47,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:35:21.01,01:35:20.21,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:35:22.09,01:35:20.97,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:35:38.97,01:35:22.01,"Yeah, that's that's what, like my new kind of girl dream of what a wedding should be because the last thing I want is fi- cuz even when I went home to Montreal and to the townships and everyone was like, oh my god, you're engaged and when's the wedding?",P28,S09 01:35:23.68,01:35:22.72,So.,P25,S09 01:35:26.08,01:35:25.18,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:35:26.79,01:35:26.15,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:35:30.18,01:35:29.50,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:35:35.11,01:35:34.35,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:35:36.84,01:35:36.06,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:35:43.68,01:35:38.97,"They wanted a date, and I didn't want a date, and I said, well, isn't this enough?",P28,S09 01:35:41.06,01:35:40.32,Gosh.,P25,S09 01:35:42.55,01:35:41.89,Mm.,P26,S09 01:35:43.72,01:35:42.10,People are funny.,P25,S09 01:35:53.86,01:35:43.68,"Like, is this not enough? And why is this not enough? I didn't understand it, and so I would cut the conversation short",P28,S09 01:35:44.61,01:35:43.81,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:35:46.79,01:35:45.95,Right.,P26,S09 01:35:48.84,01:35:46.94,"Yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 01:35:48.63,01:35:47.69,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:35:53.62,01:35:52.88,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:36:03.90,01:35:54.11,"Only to come home [laughs] and the conversation was just not allowed to be cut short, unfortunately, so, yeah.",P28,S09 01:35:57.43,01:35:56.55,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:35:59.02,01:35:56.90,"Oh, my god, to be bombarded.",P25,S09 01:36:01.33,01:36:00.49,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:36:09.20,01:36:03.42,"Like, honestly, I just want a ring to be, like, you can call me your wife and I'll be your wife.",P25,S09 01:36:11.43,01:36:08.97,"Just simply to know you're taken, yeah.",P27,S09 01:36:21.22,01:36:09.20,"I don't, yeah, just, like, just to be like, I don't care if it's like official or whatever. I'm like, I want a ring and I wanna be like, that's my wife, I'm her wife. Boom. Done. That's it. Yeah.",P25,S09 01:36:10.17,01:36:09.23,Mm.,P26,S09 01:36:18.11,01:36:17.35,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:36:26.58,01:36:18.66,"But what a lot of people have asked me, they're like, well, cuz women wear the engagement ring, even though I'm not wearing a ring now, but women wear the engagement ring.",P28,S09 01:36:24.93,01:36:24.23,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:36:26.58,01:36:24.78,Yeah. [laughs],P25,S09 01:36:28.64,01:36:27.58,Why don't men?,P25,S09 01:36:32.22,01:36:27.72,"Men, yeah, men don't have an engagement ring, so I was like, Zach",P28,S09 01:36:29.84,01:36:28.64,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:36:42.54,01:36:32.22,"S- that's the one thing that I'm s- a bit slighted about. I'm like, so I'm now marked as a taken woman.",P28,S09 01:36:37.24,01:36:35.90,"Yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 01:36:39.78,01:36:38.84,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:36:42.60,01:36:41.80,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:36:42.75,01:36:41.93,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:36:44.32,01:36:42.92,You're not.,P28,S09 01:36:47.16,01:36:44.26,"Mm, yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 01:36:59.57,01:36:44.49,"Mm, okay, got it. So, like, that's a tradition, so it's almost like, I mean, but people doing all kinds of interesting things. My two friends that are getting married early September, like, he's gonna take her last name, which I was like, it's pretty cool.",P26,S09 01:36:51.17,01:36:49.43,As a lesbian we're all d- ,P27,S09 01:36:53.17,01:36:52.17,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:36:55.02,01:36:52.70,[laughs],P25,S09 01:36:59.61,01:36:57.39,Woah.,P27,S09 01:37:00.10,01:36:57.60,Ooh.,P25,S09 01:37:03.06,01:36:58.04,"That's why I was asking Zach if he would take mine. Good, good, c- continue. I'm so excited.",P28,S09 01:37:00.59,01:36:59.83,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:37:03.05,01:37:01.15,"Yeah, yeah, people did.",P26,S09 01:37:03.60,01:37:01.86,[laughs],P25,S09 01:37:11.63,01:37:03.05,"Anyways, so but I was just throwing that out there as like you you can still make your own choices. Like, of course that's a traditional why did you like throw that out there? Like, maybe you should wear a ring, I don't know.",P26,S09 01:37:12.20,01:37:11.48,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:37:13.85,01:37:12.05,Did he was he like maybe into it?,P26,S09 01:37:14.02,01:37:12.34,Oh.,P25,S09 01:37:15.91,01:37:13.19,"But could you buy him a ring and he'd wear it, though, Mel.",P27,S09 01:37:16.86,01:37:14.00,"No, I said you should be wearing a ring.",P28,S09 01:37:15.87,01:37:15.27,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:37:17.54,01:37:16.38,"Yeah, like, if you",P25,S09 01:37:21.57,01:37:16.81,"But if you bought him a ring, he'd wear it. I know he would. He's so proud to be with you.",P27,S09 01:37:17.93,01:37:16.85,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:37:18.74,01:37:16.86,I'm I'm marked.,P28,S09 01:37:18.68,01:37:17.54,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:37:18.63,01:37:17.93,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:37:24.00,01:37:20.02,"No, but that's why I'm like I think I need to buy him his wedding band.",P28,S09 01:37:23.47,01:37:22.47,R- right.,P27,S09 01:37:23.93,01:37:22.81,Go for it.,P26,S09 01:37:26.86,01:37:23.88,"Do it, do it! That's cool.",P25,S09 01:37:27.93,01:37:23.93,"Fuck it, make it your own, do your own thing. Yeah. Mhm.",P26,S09 01:37:29.63,01:37:26.15,There's no way he would not wear that ring. He'd lo- yeah.,P27,S09 01:37:27.16,01:37:26.64,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:37:28.80,01:37:27.72,What?,P28,S09 01:37:31.18,01:37:27.80,"Yeah, he'd probably like it. Like, that's cute. I like it.",P25,S09 01:37:29.31,01:37:28.73,Mm.,P26,S09 01:37:31.05,01:37:30.13,Mm.,P26,S09 01:37:31.65,01:37:30.43,Lesbians do that.,P27,S09 01:37:35.83,01:37:31.65,"Once they get engaged, the other one's like, okay, let's go to the shop and show me what you want and they'll",P27,S09 01:37:35.11,01:37:34.51,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:37:40.77,01:37:35.83,"It's a lot of pressure, but, like, lesbians do that all the time, where they have rings within the first",P27,S09 01:37:58.68,01:37:39.78,"Like what D, like, okay, so when we were over at other Sarah's, uh D was with me from Australia and we had this big conversation because I was like, I already know, like, I would love to be proposed to, but I'm pretty sure that's not gonna to happen because I'm the dude in the relationship.",P25,S09 01:37:44.50,01:37:43.86,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:37:47.27,01:37:46.39,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:37:53.36,01:37:52.64,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:37:53.57,01:37:52.77,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:37:56.77,01:37:55.53,"Oh, okay.",P26,S09 01:37:59.26,01:37:58.22,You're the dude?,P28,S09 01:38:02.06,01:37:58.68,"Generally, yes. Generally, I kinda am.",P25,S09 01:38:01.53,01:38:00.01,[laughs],P26,S09 01:38:00.92,01:38:00.06,Really?,P28,S09 01:38:14.12,01:38:02.06,"But, so that's the thing, like, I would l- so, I already have kind of planned out exactly, like, I'm like, okay, hot air balloon ride, champagne glass, boom, there's a ring in the glass. That's what's gonna happen, but I'll be like, will you marry me.",P25,S09 01:38:03.09,01:38:02.07,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:38:05.55,01:38:04.83,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:38:22.62,01:38:14.15,"However, you need to do a big ass proposal for me, and it better be a surprise. And I want a ring, too, so that's",P25,S09 01:38:22.41,01:38:17.75,Mm. Mhm. Nice.,P26,S09 01:38:23.32,01:38:21.48,You're you're willing to go first.,P28,S09 01:38:24.82,01:38:23.24,I'll go- because,P25,S09 01:38:24.73,01:38:23.27,"Irina did that for me, though.",P27,S09 01:38:26.49,01:38:24.73,She I proposed.,P27,S09 01:38:27.38,01:38:26.38,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:38:32.83,01:38:27.11,"We ate larger than she did, but then she, like, surprised me, too, like, months later. Yeah.",P27,S09 01:38:29.38,01:38:28.60,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:38:47.14,01:38:30.30,"With like a d- and that's the thing, like, I want it, too. I want you to do your little, you know, idea. I'm gonna take you here, I'm gonna think about it, I'm gonna stress out and do a little speech or whatever, like, that's what I want, too, but that's the thing, like, I'm just assuming that I'll have to be the one to propose first.",P25,S09 01:38:31.15,01:38:30.35,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:38:39.25,01:38:38.51,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:38:43.21,01:38:42.53,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:38:49.56,01:38:46.46,"See, I would just do it totally sexually.",P28,S09 01:38:51.08,01:38:49.54,[noise] What?,P25,S09 01:38:51.91,01:38:50.57,"Wait, wait, wait.",P26,S09 01:38:53.44,01:38:50.66,"Like, tie him up, you know what I mean?",P28,S09 01:39:10.37,01:39:03.49,"I know a guy that did that to his wife, like, just wrote ""marry me"" on his stomach all naked and [inaudible 1:39:08.50] yeah.",P27,S09 01:39:14.17,01:39:08.25,[laughs],P26,S09 01:39:12.86,01:39:08.50,[laughs],P28,S09 01:39:13.05,01:39:10.37,"And she was, like, yeah. Yeah.",P27,S09 01:39:14.94,01:39:12.86,That's hilarious.,P25,S09 01:39:14.16,01:39:12.86,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:39:16.91,01:39:14.17,"Oh, my god, you think the funniest things.",P26,S09 01:39:15.14,01:39:14.40,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:39:18.14,01:39:14.94,"Okay, I like that. That's funny. That's cute.",P25,S09 01:39:18.59,01:39:17.35,Mhm. Mhm.,P26,S09 01:39:26.76,01:39:18.74,"Yeah, if she if she di- if she did that for me, I'd be like, I'm down. [laughs] Like pun intended, like",P25,S09 01:39:21.19,01:39:18.93,"You could just write that on your chest, yeah.",P27,S09 01:39:23.22,01:39:22.54,[laughs],P28,S09 01:39:24.37,01:39:23.23,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:39:26.66,01:39:24.24,But then everyone can ask.,P28,S09 01:39:26.81,01:39:25.81,Oh.,P26,S09 01:39:28.58,01:39:26.66,How did she propose?,P28,S09 01:39:30.14,01:39:28.36,How will she propose?,P25,S09 01:39:31.40,01:39:29.56,"No, how did she propose?",P28,S09 01:39:32.99,01:39:29.67,"No, but that's always a question, like, how did it go down.",P27,S09 01:39:36.08,01:39:31.40,She tied me up and [inaudible 1:39:33.16] [laughs],P28,S09 01:39:32.43,01:39:31.53,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:39:37.12,01:39:33.26,"Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.",P25,S09 01:39:37.11,01:39:34.31,"Yeah, that is funny, yeah. Good story.",P26,S09 01:39:41.77,01:39:37.11,"Yeah, you'd probably have to come up with like kind of a vanilla cover story, you know?",P26,S09 01:39:39.12,01:39:37.52,Ah.,P25,S09 01:39:43.56,01:39:40.62,"You'd just be like, we had dinner, yeah.",P25,S09 01:39:50.37,01:39:41.77,"Or, like, we were, like, waking up together in bed and, like, I don't know, like, something romantic, I don't know.",P26,S09 01:40:08.12,01:39:48.86,"Cuz when he proposed to me when we were in Harrison Hot Springs, and we were talking over dinner about, like, the whole plans, what didn't happen, what ended up happening, and then through all that, I don't know why, I came up with my own scenario and it was in bed, you're tied up and",P28,S09 01:39:50.26,01:39:49.38,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:39:53.44,01:39:52.80,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:39:59.69,01:39:58.53,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:40:05.39,01:40:04.77,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:40:07.09,01:40:06.17,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:40:08.27,01:40:07.61,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:40:21.04,01:40:08.20,"Well, Mel, I think you need to do what Sarah just suggested and, like, in lipstick write ""marry me"" and like just like have, yeah, have him come home or whatever and just be like, I'm proposing to you. [laughs]",P25,S09 01:40:15.37,01:40:13.59,[laughs],P26,S09 01:40:16.49,01:40:14.11,Or glow in the dark paint or something.,P27,S09 01:40:17.80,01:40:15.48,[laughs],P28,S09 01:40:21.17,01:40:18.49,"Mhm. Yeah. Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:40:22.59,01:40:19.95,"Yeah, and it doesn't have to be an expensive ring.",P27,S09 01:40:23.68,01:40:21.04,"Yeah, and then give him his, and then give him the ring.",P25,S09 01:40:26.26,01:40:23.36,[laughs],P28,S09 01:40:28.87,01:40:23.51,"Yeah, but you can get a cheap ring. You can get cheap guy's rings, you know, like, yeah.",P27,S09 01:40:24.82,01:40:23.68,There you go.,P25,S09 01:40:26.20,01:40:24.82,"Oh my god, that's so cool.",P25,S09 01:40:28.89,01:40:27.89,"Oh, yeah.",P26,S09 01:40:28.80,01:40:27.88,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:40:31.66,01:40:28.60,Twenty dollars. [laughs],P25,S09 01:40:30.23,01:40:29.31,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:40:34.07,01:40:30.23,"Just to show he's taken, and he'll wear that thing every day. He will.",P27,S09 01:40:31.14,01:40:30.40,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:40:32.84,01:40:31.66,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:40:35.25,01:40:32.47,"Oh, my gosh, I love it.",P26,S09 01:40:36.94,01:40:33.68,"Mm, that's funny. [laughs]",P25,S09 01:40:35.80,01:40:34.72,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:40:37.47,01:40:36.39,I love it.,P26,S09 01:40:38.42,01:40:36.94,"I love it, too.",P25,S09 01:40:39.88,01:40:37.06,"Oh, I thought you were unhooked. [laughs]",P28,S09 01:40:40.89,01:40:38.95,"No, I'm I was listening.",P27,S09 01:40:41.30,01:40:39.00,"Oh, your ear? Yeah.",P25,S09 01:40:41.61,01:40:39.75,"Mhm, mhm. Mhm.",P26,S09 01:40:41.34,01:40:39.88,You fell out.,P28,S09 01:40:43.01,01:40:41.61,[laughs],P26,S09 01:40:43.78,01:40:41.88,Oh no. Oh geez.,P25,S09 01:40:48.43,01:40:43.01,"But, yeah, I mean, this is, like, a day and age you can do, you can make your own rules and do your own things and, you know.",P26,S09 01:40:43.68,01:40:43.08,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:40:48.32,01:40:46.64,"Well, that's what weddings are.",P25,S09 01:40:50.96,01:40:48.32,You can do whatever you want. Yeah.,P25,S09 01:40:50.46,01:40:49.08,That's what I think.,P28,S09 01:40:50.97,01:40:50.25,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:40:50.85,01:40:50.21,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:40:51.86,01:40:50.46,I'm not so sure about,P28,S09 01:40:54.67,01:40:51.81,"Mm. Little more traditional, yeah.",P26,S09 01:40:54.44,01:40:51.86,He's more traditionalist.,P28,S09 01:40:58.11,01:40:52.97,"But I think he would love that, yeah, I do.",P27,S09 01:40:54.40,01:40:53.74,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:41:01.24,01:40:56.52,Mm. I have no idea. I don't know these things. I have no idea. I'm not gonna say a thing.,P25,S09 01:41:05.07,01:40:58.53,"I know, it's like, I don't know him well enough to comment, but hey, man, make up your own rules.",P26,S09 01:41:03.06,01:41:01.54,"Maybe he will, maybe he won't.",P25,S09 01:41:05.66,01:41:04.72,"Yeah, right?",P25,S09 01:41:12.49,01:41:05.07,"But, yeah, I didn't even know that he was taking her last name, these two friends of mine, until this past weekend. I was like, oh, that's adorable.",P26,S09 01:41:11.14,01:41:10.04,Oh.,P25,S09 01:41:13.18,01:41:11.32,I wonder how.,P28,S09 01:41:14.02,01:41:12.20,Why is that? Did you ask?,P25,S09 01:41:16.74,01:41:13.62,"Maybe they're like sounding it out, see what sounds better.",P28,S09 01:41:15.69,01:41:14.33,I didn't.,P26,S09 01:41:18.07,01:41:16.11,"So, his last name is awkward.",P26,S09 01:41:45.30,01:41:44.18,"Oh, we're not supposed to",P28,S09 01:41:46.69,01:41:45.55,"Right, okay.",P26,S09 01:41:50.85,01:41:46.69,"That's okay, we're gonna strike it from the record. Yeah.",P26,S09 01:41:50.38,01:41:49.64,"Yeah, yeah.",P28,S09 01:41:51.94,01:41:50.38,We'll we'll black it out.,P28,S09 01:41:52.11,01:41:51.49,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:41:52.56,01:41:51.90,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:41:53.36,01:41:52.52,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:41:53.81,01:41:53.13,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:41:55.50,01:41:54.08,And I was gonna say something there.,P25,S09 01:41:59.96,01:41:54.12,"Yeah, I don't, I actually prefer my last name, and that's one of the things that we've been discussing.",P28,S09 01:41:56.43,01:41:55.39,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:41:57.51,01:41:56.73,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:42:01.99,01:41:58.43,"Oh, good point, but you don't need to change your name for someone. Like, I wouldn't.",P27,S09 01:41:59.90,01:41:59.04,Oh.,P25,S09 01:42:01.90,01:42:00.74,No.,P25,S09 01:42:01.59,01:42:00.93,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:42:06.61,01:42:01.99,"As lesbians I wouldn't, especially with who I'm dating, too, Sarah's last name would be terrible.",P27,S09 01:42:08.44,01:42:05.06,Unless it's Roberts. I would totally change my name to that.,P25,S09 01:42:23.80,01:42:08.42,"No, what they, what a lot of people say is, like, if you're having kids, yes, then decide on the last name, but if you don't plan on having kids, like, we're not, then what's the point?",P28,S09 01:42:10.17,01:42:08.47,[laughs],P26,S09 01:42:11.59,01:42:09.13,Julia. Oh.,P27,S09 01:42:12.16,01:42:10.34,[noise],P25,S09 01:42:12.83,01:42:12.31,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:42:15.47,01:42:14.17,[noise],P25,S09 01:42:16.49,01:42:14.49,It's nice to have the same last name as your children.,P27,S09 01:42:17.46,01:42:16.00,"Yeah, yeah.",P25,S09 01:42:21.58,01:42:20.12,"What's the point, yeah.",P25,S09 01:42:23.11,01:42:22.27,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:42:24.77,01:42:22.83,"Mhm, mhm, yeah, that's totally fair.",P26,S09 01:42:23.92,01:42:23.02,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:42:31.75,01:42:24.77,I don't think I would change my last name unless it was like a super cool name. Yeah. I don't think I would then.,P26,S09 01:42:26.78,01:42:25.08,Whoops. Oh.,P25,S09 01:42:27.02,01:42:26.42,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:42:29.75,01:42:28.95,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:42:30.08,01:42:29.00,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:42:29.76,01:42:29.10,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:42:30.69,01:42:29.75,Totally.,P27,S09 01:42:32.32,01:42:30.78,Like Miller.,P28,S09 01:42:36.23,01:42:32.17,[laughs],P26,S09 01:42:36.82,01:42:35.48,Or Smith.,P28,S09 01:42:38.95,01:42:36.73,"Yeah, right? Johnson.",P26,S09 01:42:39.70,01:42:37.44,"Yeah, right? Boring, yeah.",P25,S09 01:42:40.20,01:42:38.96,"Yeah, no.",P28,S09 01:42:43.32,01:42:40.06,Yay! Dessert!,P25,S09 01:42:41.13,01:42:40.17,Ah.,P26,S09 01:42:42.97,01:42:40.97,Before it gets too cold.,P27,S09 01:42:43.03,01:42:41.13,"Ooh, what are these?",P26,S09 01:42:45.13,01:42:42.97,They're all organic.,P27,S09 01:42:46.20,01:42:45.10,Fancy.,P25,S09 01:42:48.81,01:42:45.12,"Oh, my, oh, very fancy.",P26,S09 01:42:47.61,01:42:45.97,Can you pass them to Mel?,P27,S09 01:42:49.05,01:42:47.61,It's a coconut strawberry.,P27,S09 01:42:51.37,01:42:48.81,"Oh, thank you. Wow.",P26,S09 01:42:51.18,01:42:49.26,I'm excited. Mm.,P25,S09 01:42:50.49,01:42:49.55,"Oh, yeah.",P27,S09 01:42:52.78,01:42:51.18,Yay!,P25,S09 01:42:54.32,01:42:52.36,Reco and Ledo.,P28,S09 01:42:55.85,01:42:54.07,"Yeah, something to cool us down.",P27,S09 01:42:57.84,01:42:55.50,"So, any news on the bebe?",P25,S09 01:42:58.41,01:42:57.63,Nothing.,P27,S09 01:43:00.12,01:42:58.64,Really?,P28,S09 01:43:01.54,01:42:58.92,Still all stuck up in her?,P25,S09 01:43:04.25,01:42:59.99,"The texts I'm getting are, like, I'll cut your hair if you paint, help me paint my studio.",P27,S09 01:43:06.75,01:43:04.25,"I was like, I'll just paint your studio, I don't need a haircut for it.",P27,S09 01:43:06.02,01:43:04.48,Oh.,P25,S09 01:43:05.39,01:43:04.51,Oh.,P26,S09 01:43:06.99,01:43:06.31,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:43:08.90,01:43:07.38,"Oh, question.",P25,S09 01:43:09.40,01:43:08.10,Whose studio?,P28,S09 01:43:10.13,01:43:09.13,"Oh, my friend Haley.",P27,S09 01:43:12.05,01:43:10.13,He's wonderful. Yeah.,P27,S09 01:43:11.70,01:43:10.64,Oh.,P25,S09 01:43:11.77,01:43:10.87,[laughs],P26,S09 01:43:11.82,01:43:10.96,Yeah?,P28,S09 01:43:40.05,01:43:39.57,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:43:43.83,01:43:43.03,Dumb.,P26,S09 01:43:46.77,01:43:45.53,People don't say that.,P26,S09 01:43:50.25,01:43:46.77,[laughs] All up in your guts.,P26,S09 01:43:48.48,01:43:47.34,I can't wait to tell her that.,P25,S09 01:43:51.58,01:43:48.40,But we're in our thirties. [laughs],P28,S09 01:43:52.86,01:43:50.10,"No, but she's she's thirty two. She's thirty as well.",P25,S09 01:43:52.11,01:43:50.25,[laughs],P26,S09 01:43:54.30,01:43:53.76,Oh.,P25,S09 01:43:55.44,01:43:54.20,That sounds gross.,P28,S09 01:43:57.00,01:43:55.08,"It does sound gross. Thank you, I know.",P25,S09 01:43:58.45,01:43:57.51,"Ooh, this is good.",P27,S09 01:43:59.60,01:43:58.40,"Mmm, this is good.",P25,S09 01:44:52.13,01:44:51.53,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:44:54.26,01:44:52.46,Especially when it's so warm out.,P28,S09 01:44:54.84,01:44:54.14,Mm.,P25,S09 01:44:56.11,01:44:54.19,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:45:09.68,01:44:54.84,"Purified water, not regular water. Organic coconut cream. Organic evaporated cane juice. Strawberry, cocoa flakes, vanilla extract, guar gum, that's about it.",P25,S09 01:44:56.08,01:44:54.96,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:44:57.79,01:44:56.39,Mmm.,P26,S09 01:44:58.68,01:44:57.02,"Coconut, coconut milk?",P28,S09 01:44:59.45,01:44:58.61,Well.,P26,S09 01:45:02.01,01:45:00.31,Mmm.,P26,S09 01:45:02.52,01:45:00.30,"Oh, that's why.",P28,S09 01:45:04.75,01:45:03.81,[laughs],P26,S09 01:45:05.80,01:45:04.32,Mm.,P28,S09 01:45:09.69,01:45:08.65,[laughs],P26,S09 01:45:09.66,01:45:08.98,Guar?,P28,S09 01:45:11.18,01:45:09.68,Guar. Guar.,P25,S09 01:45:11.66,01:45:10.24,No carageean?,P28,S09 01:45:13.68,01:45:11.42,"No kiragen, no. Guar gum.",P25,S09 01:45:13.58,01:45:12.76,No?,P28,S09 01:45:14.25,01:45:13.63,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:45:15.42,01:45:14.18,No seaweed.,P28,S09 01:45:16.62,01:45:14.82,[inaudible 1:45:14.82],P25,S09 01:45:19.09,01:45:17.19,"I do think the cameras are weird, though.",P26,S09 01:45:19.51,01:45:18.43,Whoops.,P27,S09 01:45:20.69,01:45:19.09,I keep looking at them.,P26,S09 01:45:23.95,01:45:20.07,"Sorry, it's my stepsister. She's like, who was at the hospital? I'm like, nobody.",P27,S09 01:45:22.06,01:45:20.10,They're so neat. I like them.,P25,S09 01:45:23.45,01:45:21.79,I'm like [noise],P26,S09 01:45:26.62,01:45:23.90,Your stepsister? You're talking to her?,P25,S09 01:45:25.43,01:45:23.95,"Nobody's there, yeah.",P27,S09 01:45:26.49,01:45:25.49,No?,P26,S09 01:45:27.57,01:45:26.51,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:45:28.86,01:45:27.60,"Who, Sarah?",P28,S09 01:45:30.23,01:45:29.11,"Oh, my stepsister.",P27,S09 01:45:30.86,01:45:30.16,Yeah?,P28,S09 01:45:33.85,01:45:30.55,"She's like, who's at the hospital? Any updates? I'm like, nobody that knows.",P27,S09 01:45:35.81,01:45:33.57,[laughs],P26,S09 01:45:35.79,01:45:33.85,[laughs],P27,S09 01:45:36.94,01:45:36.12,Oh.,P25,S09 01:45:37.27,01:45:36.33,I'm here.,P27,S09 01:45:39.13,01:45:37.73,My mom's out and smoking.,P27,S09 01:45:38.64,01:45:37.84,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:45:41.12,01:45:39.08,Just shitting at home shmoking.,P25,S09 01:45:41.84,01:45:40.96,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:45:44.48,01:45:42.66,Mm. Mm.,P25,S09 01:45:48.24,01:45:43.68,And Chris is just probably dealing with it all.,P28,S09 01:45:49.05,01:45:45.37,"In the delivery room, so that's why I have no updates. He's in the thick of it, yeah.",P27,S09 01:45:48.62,01:45:47.96,Mm.,P25,S09 01:45:49.89,01:45:48.72,Mm.,P26,S09 01:45:53.94,01:45:48.98,This is like the best dessert you could get. Seriously.,P25,S09 01:45:53.11,01:45:52.31,Thank you.,P27,S09 01:45:55.11,01:45:53.11,"I was gonna bring cake and she's like, ice cream, and I'm like",P27,S09 01:45:57.06,01:45:54.58,"I know, I was like, when you said cake, I'm like, it's too filling.",P25,S09 01:45:57.73,01:45:56.83,Compromise.,P27,S09 01:45:58.57,01:45:56.87,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:45:59.12,01:45:58.24,This is good.,P25,S09 01:46:01.00,01:45:58.36,"Oh, my god, we didn't eat these cabbage rolls.",P28,S09 01:46:01.48,01:46:00.84,"Oh, we forgot.",P25,S09 01:46:04.89,01:46:01.07,"Well, yeah. Yeah, yeah, that would be awesome.",P26,S09 01:46:03.24,01:46:01.48,"Well, no, we'll eat them later.",P25,S09 01:46:04.86,01:46:03.24,"Thank you, Mel. Thank you.",P25,S09 01:46:04.30,01:46:03.24,Eat them.,P28,S09 01:46:05.39,01:46:03.85,"Wait, what di- what what?",P27,S09 01:46:08.54,01:46:05.16,She brought cabbage rolls. Um Zach's dad made them.,P25,S09 01:46:07.57,01:46:06.27,Mmm.,P26,S09 01:46:09.46,01:46:07.22,Zach's dad made cabbage rolls.,P28,S09 01:46:10.43,01:46:08.83,Shut up. I wanna try that.,P27,S09 01:46:11.20,01:46:10.30,Oh.,P25,S09 01:46:14.96,01:46:10.34,"Oh cuz I had, like, the biggest freakin' cabbage out of my garden.",P28,S09 01:46:11.49,01:46:10.83,Mm.,P26,S09 01:46:13.46,01:46:12.54,Take one.,P25,S09 01:46:15.51,01:46:13.45,"uh-huh, uh-huh.",P26,S09 01:46:15.97,01:46:14.85,Mm.,P27,S09 01:46:16.00,01:46:14.88,Cool.,P25,S09 01:46:17.30,01:46:14.96,"And I was like, can we do something with this?",P28,S09 01:46:18.17,01:46:16.35,That beet saved my life.,P27,S09 01:46:19.71,01:46:18.17,I'm just gonna tell you a story.,P27,S09 01:46:19.50,01:46:18.46,What?,P25,S09 01:46:21.45,01:46:19.45,[laughs],P26,S09 01:46:24.67,01:46:20.09,"I was going through, like, a hormone change or early menopause. My time of the month is getting so terrible.",P27,S09 01:46:23.19,01:46:22.59,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:46:34.67,01:46:25.43,"And I was like, maybe I'm low on iron, so then one day I just like cut up a raw beet every day for lunch and, like, the next month I was, like, back on track.",P27,S09 01:46:28.10,01:46:27.20,[noise],P25,S09 01:46:31.27,01:46:30.57,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:46:34.95,01:46:33.41,Mmm.,P26,S09 01:46:38.19,01:46:34.67,It was just like I needed those minerals from that beet and I was like craving it.,P27,S09 01:46:36.61,01:46:35.75,Feeling good.,P26,S09 01:46:37.96,01:46:36.72,Weird.,P25,S09 01:46:38.95,01:46:38.11,Nice.,P26,S09 01:46:40.39,01:46:38.19,"So I've been craving beets ever since, yeah.",P27,S09 01:46:39.88,01:46:38.12,It was a massive beet.,P28,S09 01:46:41.11,01:46:39.39,[laughs],P26,S09 01:46:41.36,01:46:40.02,"Oh, that's interesting.",P25,S09 01:46:44.63,01:46:41.17,"So, I eat beets at all the time now because of your gorgeous",P27,S09 01:46:45.49,01:46:44.15,Cold beet.,P26,S09 01:46:48.13,01:46:44.65,"But nothing compares to the beet from your garden, so juicy.",P27,S09 01:46:45.80,01:46:44.62,Interesting.,P28,S09 01:46:48.45,01:46:46.67,Mmm.,P26,S09 01:46:50.32,01:46:47.90,"Oh, think about.",P25,S09 01:46:48.68,01:46:48.02,Mm.,P28,S09 01:46:51.67,01:46:48.73,"And your lettuce, it lasted for a whole week.",P27,S09 01:46:51.91,01:46:49.57,[laughs],P26,S09 01:46:53.46,01:46:50.36,My juicy beet. [laughs],P28,S09 01:46:52.68,01:46:51.90,[laughs],P25,S09 01:46:53.19,01:46:51.91,Big juicy beet?,P26,S09 01:46:55.68,01:46:52.68,"Your juicy beet, Mel. Oh, my god.",P25,S09 01:46:55.65,01:46:53.93,"Oh, it was so good.",P27,S09 01:46:57.58,01:46:56.24,"Yeah, there was too much in my garden.",P28,S09 01:46:57.60,01:46:56.66,Mm.,P25,S09 01:46:58.25,01:46:57.60,[noise],P25,S09 01:47:03.10,01:46:57.58,"I actually wanted to bring you cauliflower, but I was pressed for time.",P28,S09 01:47:00.14,01:46:59.24,Oh.,P25,S09 01:47:01.87,01:47:01.15,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:08.34,01:47:03.10,"I was two minutes late, so I, like, ran, ran, ran, so I forgot the cauliflower.",P28,S09 01:47:06.06,01:47:05.44,That's okay.,P25,S09 01:47:07.03,01:47:06.43,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:08.12,01:47:07.10,Sarah was late.,P25,S09 01:47:09.39,01:47:08.11,[laughs],P26,S09 01:47:09.80,01:47:08.84,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:47:11.33,01:47:09.67,"I know, for once.",P27,S09 01:47:11.56,01:47:10.32,"No, it doesn't matter.",P25,S09 01:47:12.56,01:47:11.86,Mm.,P28,S09 01:47:15.70,01:47:13.22,Mmm. [noise],P25,S09 01:47:23.04,01:47:13.84,"No, the garden just went bonkers wild and then I didn't want to deal with it anymore, so I just like stopped, I just stopped.",P28,S09 01:47:20.48,01:47:18.86,It has been a great summer.,P25,S09 01:47:23.07,01:47:22.31,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:23.70,01:47:23.04,I was like,P28,S09 01:47:26.54,01:47:23.74,[noise],P25,S09 01:47:24.55,01:47:24.01,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:29.29,01:47:24.11,"It's so on- like, oh, my god, that lettuce. Like, lettuce never lasts that long in my fridge.",P27,S09 01:47:29.46,01:47:28.56,Mmm.,P25,S09 01:47:30.74,01:47:29.64,"Me, too.",P28,S09 01:47:30.35,01:47:29.73,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:31.29,01:47:30.59,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:47:32.44,01:47:30.74,It just started going bad.,P28,S09 01:47:32.86,01:47:32.24,Cool.,P25,S09 01:47:36.75,01:47:32.97,"Yeah, mine lasted because I didn't eat the first week and I was like, oh, I left it in my fridge.",P27,S09 01:47:36.82,01:47:34.94,Yeah. No.,P28,S09 01:47:37.09,01:47:35.61,Mm. Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:40.09,01:47:36.75,"Then I ate it the whole second week and I was like, oh, fine.",P27,S09 01:47:41.70,01:47:38.90,"Fine. I know, same here.",P28,S09 01:47:40.89,01:47:39.97,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:47:41.62,01:47:40.70,Cool.,P25,S09 01:47:45.47,01:47:41.03,"That's special, then. But now I'm back on vegetables because of you, because of that garden stash.",P27,S09 01:47:45.26,01:47:43.72,[laughs],P25,S09 01:47:46.78,01:47:45.26,Oh. Ah.,P25,S09 01:47:51.94,01:47:45.74,"Well, now I have potatoes and cauliflower and beans, pole beans, so purple and yellow.",P28,S09 01:47:49.14,01:47:48.00,Mmm.,P25,S09 01:47:49.33,01:47:47.97,Ooh.,P26,S09 01:47:49.07,01:47:48.35,Soup.,P27,S09 01:47:57.79,01:47:50.85,"At the soup place, they do cauliflower with, like, peanut butter, peanuts, squash with vegetable stock.",P27,S09 01:47:51.70,01:47:50.84,Both.,P25,S09 01:47:52.67,01:47:51.69,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:47:58.48,01:47:56.22,"Oh my god, that is so good.",P25,S09 01:47:58.63,01:47:56.73,Oh.,P26,S09 01:48:00.53,01:47:57.79,It's like the most amazing soup. FYI,P27,S09 01:48:00.47,01:47:59.57,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:48:01.97,01:48:00.53,Make some peanut butter nuts.,P27,S09 01:48:01.58,01:48:00.60,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:48:03.12,01:48:01.02,"Didn't you say you grew corn, too, Mel?",P25,S09 01:48:05.06,01:48:03.28,It didn't do well.,P28,S09 01:48:05.84,01:48:03.88,"Oh, it didn't work? Oh, that's too bad.",P25,S09 01:48:05.63,01:48:04.87,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:48:07.08,01:48:05.96,The corn,P28,S09 01:48:07.31,01:48:06.15,"Oh, it didn't?",P27,S09 01:48:14.46,01:48:07.08,"No, it like the corn stalks looked beautiful, but when I took the corn husks off, it was like intermittent.",P28,S09 01:48:09.30,01:48:08.26,[noise],P25,S09 01:48:09.77,01:48:08.87,Sorry to be rude.,P27,S09 01:48:10.57,01:48:09.87,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:48:17.22,01:48:14.46,"It had corn, didn't have corn, had corn, didn't have corn.",P28,S09 01:48:18.15,01:48:15.81,"Oh, okay, yeah.",P26,S09 01:48:17.18,01:48:16.12,Oh.,P25,S09 01:48:24.32,01:48:17.22,So I don't know if I fed it properly or didn't water it properly or maybe I harvested it too late. I still don't know.,P28,S09 01:48:18.80,01:48:17.86,That's too bad.,P25,S09 01:48:20.34,01:48:19.46,Mm.,P25,S09 01:48:20.55,01:48:19.67,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:48:23.17,01:48:22.49,Mm.,P26,S09 01:48:25.47,01:48:23.27,You have to see this garden. It's ama- amazing.,P27,S09 01:48:25.52,01:48:24.34,Corn can be tricky.,P25,S09 01:48:27.05,01:48:25.23,Yeah? Id' love to see it.,P26,S09 01:48:26.92,01:48:26.24,Mm.,P28,S09 01:48:27.68,01:48:26.84,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:48:28.96,01:48:26.92,"It's really hard to grow, apparently.",P28,S09 01:48:30.82,01:48:28.94,"Well, when you have all those other things.",P25,S09 01:48:34.46,01:48:28.96,"And my celery, too, is still like, it's not really doing anything.",P28,S09 01:48:32.32,01:48:31.14,Really? Oh.,P25,S09 01:48:34.76,01:48:34.06,Hmm.,P25,S09 01:48:40.86,01:48:34.46,"I think it's in too mu- I think it's too much shade, but my garden has been a huge experiment.",P28,S09 01:48:37.98,01:48:37.50,Mm.,P25,S09 01:48:40.11,01:48:38.21,So amazing. I'm so proud of you.,P27,S09 01:48:40.03,01:48:39.23,Hmm.,P26,S09 01:48:44.23,01:48:40.79,"That's awesome, dude. Hmm, cool.",P26,S09 01:48:43.51,01:48:40.87,Tuesday is my corporate party. We moved it from Wednesday to Tuesday.,P27,S09 01:48:43.43,01:48:41.64,Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 01:48:45.31,01:48:43.51,Do you do you wanna be my guest?,P27,S09 01:48:45.93,01:48:44.95,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:48:46.96,01:48:45.68,Tuesday next week?,P25,S09 01:48:47.31,01:48:46.53,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:48:48.75,01:48:48.07,Take pictures.,P27,S09 01:48:53.89,01:48:49.71,"Um, it's at, sorry.",P27,S09 01:48:51.49,01:48:49.87,I'm getting sleepy.,P26,S09 01:48:53.49,01:48:51.83,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:48:54.52,01:48:52.06,Mm. I'm getting drunk.,P28,S09 01:48:56.42,01:48:53.68,"Bunch of food and stuff? Cool, I'll be your date.",P25,S09 01:48:55.27,01:48:54.77,Yep.,P27,S09 01:48:56.21,01:48:55.17,Good for you.,P26,S09 01:48:57.38,01:48:56.24,I'm being honest.,P28,S09 01:48:58.30,01:48:56.42,Why d- why doesn't Sarah?,P25,S09 01:48:57.49,01:48:56.69,Good.,P27,S09 01:48:58.55,01:48:57.11,That's awesome.,P26,S09 01:48:59.23,01:48:57.69,Desi can take pictures.,P27,S09 01:48:59.88,01:48:58.30,Sarah can't?,P25,S09 01:49:00.96,01:48:58.28,She's having me drink all the wine by myself.,P28,S09 01:49:01.85,01:48:59.83,"No, I think you can take pictures for your course.",P27,S09 01:49:01.03,01:48:59.83,Ah ha.,P26,S09 01:49:05.45,01:49:01.53,"What, um, are you studying in school? Like, what program are you taking?",P26,S09 01:49:03.32,01:49:02.20,Take pictures?,P25,S09 01:49:05.41,01:49:03.37,"Yeah, for school.",P27,S09 01:49:08.88,01:49:03.82,"Oh, me for work. Oh, yeah, actually, that's a good idea. That's clever.",P25,S09 01:49:06.23,01:49:05.41,Mhm.,P27,S09 01:49:12.78,01:49:06.04,"I wanna major in biology, minor in French so that I can teach biology.",P28,S09 01:49:08.81,01:49:08.05,Yeah.,P27,S09 01:49:09.03,01:49:08.29,Yeah?,P26,S09 01:49:10.67,01:49:09.43,Let's talk about that tomorrow.,P27,S09 01:49:10.89,01:49:10.11,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:49:12.04,01:49:10.58,"Hmm, okay.",P25,S09 01:49:14.61,01:49:12.61,"Nice, dude. I like that.",P26,S09 01:49:13.90,01:49:13.52,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:49:15.10,01:49:13.86,Mmm. Mmm.,P25,S09 01:49:15.93,01:49:14.61,Wow.,P26,S09 01:49:18.48,01:49:15.00,And I just found out that they cut French immersion programs.,P28,S09 01:49:19.06,01:49:18.50,What?,P25,S09 01:49:19.83,01:49:18.87,Where from?,P27,S09 01:49:19.59,01:49:18.99,Oh.,P26,S09 01:49:20.80,01:49:19.42,In Vancouver.,P28,S09 01:49:22.66,01:49:19.48,I just heard that they were hiring a butt load more teachers.,P25,S09 01:49:22.65,01:49:21.25,A lotta teachers.,P26,S09 01:49:24.66,01:49:22.98,My mom just texted me.,P25,S09 01:49:25.19,01:49:24.39,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:49:33.98,01:49:24.92,"But I heard, and I I don't I don't claim it to be true, I just heard that they're cutting French immersion programs, but I don't know if it's because they don't have enough French teachers.",P28,S09 01:49:35.32,01:49:33.86,"Oh, there you go.",P25,S09 01:49:35.23,01:49:34.21,Mm.,P26,S09 01:49:35.69,01:49:34.77,Mm.,P27,S09 01:49:35.76,01:49:35.12,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:49:37.43,01:49:35.69,Because they've cut class sizes.,P27,S09 01:49:40.28,01:49:36.32,"It's so hard to know that the hell true, like what true is anymore, yeah.",P25,S09 01:49:39.66,01:49:39.02,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:49:54.70,01:49:40.02,"But on the news last night or the night before, they were saying that BC's going through a major, uh, teacher shortage because they've reduced the class size.",P28,S09 01:49:44.54,01:49:43.94,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:49:51.79,01:49:51.27,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:49:52.74,01:49:51.62,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:49:53.57,01:49:52.33,They're hiring a lot.,P26,S09 01:49:58.47,01:49:53.57,"Yeah, there's like a certain year they're going back to, right? Like, yeah. Mhm.",P26,S09 01:49:55.96,01:49:54.70,They cut,P28,S09 01:49:57.54,01:49:55.60,"Good, well, you can't teach that many.",P25,S09 01:50:11.96,01:49:57.54,"I've got twenty fours, no, I've got twenty three students, but like two are on vacation right now, so it's like, but still, it's just so many. I went from seventeen to twenty two. It's way too many students right now. And they're so annoying.",P25,S09 01:50:02.97,01:50:01.39,"Yeah, mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:50:02.12,01:50:01.44,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:50:04.93,01:50:04.33,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:50:06.93,01:50:06.17,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:50:10.03,01:50:08.79,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:50:10.96,01:50:09.46,Yeah. Yeah.,P28,S09 01:50:13.25,01:50:11.91,[laughs],P26,S09 01:50:13.37,01:50:11.96,[laughs],P25,S09 01:50:17.62,01:50:12.00,"And and Zach's dad is like, it's a great time to be a t- I'm like, but I I'm not trained to be a teacher yet.",P28,S09 01:50:19.84,01:50:17.58,"Yeah, same. Yeah, same, same, yeah.",P25,S09 01:50:19.29,01:50:17.55,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 01:50:19.30,01:50:17.62,[laughs],P28,S09 01:50:21.30,01:50:19.30,"I need to get in, like, now.",P28,S09 01:50:23.44,01:50:21.22,"Exactly. I don't, I, but like I",P25,S09 01:50:25.14,01:50:22.26,Or just have faith that it's still gonna be,P28,S09 01:50:26.13,01:50:24.53,Mhm. Yeah.,P26,S09 01:50:28.38,01:50:24.94,"But you gotta do you P D P, too. Like, I don't have that, and I hated it.",P25,S09 01:50:29.13,01:50:28.13,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:50:30.44,01:50:28.34,"Yeah, just have to do it.",P28,S09 01:50:33.04,01:50:29.08,"I would like to do it in UVIC, though, cuz then I could move to the island for a little bit.",P25,S09 01:50:34.37,01:50:32.63,"Mm, yeah, that's true.",P26,S09 01:50:36.02,01:50:33.48,Everyone tells me to go to UBC.,P28,S09 01:50:37.16,01:50:36.00,"Oh, really?",P25,S09 01:50:37.67,01:50:36.99,Mhm?,P26,S09 01:50:38.66,01:50:37.00,"Yep, they say they just",P28,S09 01:50:43.78,01:50:37.70,It's just UBC is so expensive and UVIC's cheaper and SFU sucks balls.,P25,S09 01:50:40.44,01:50:39.22,I know.,P28,S09 01:50:42.12,01:50:41.30,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:50:45.19,01:50:43.11,"How, what's the price difference between the two?",P26,S09 01:50:49.12,01:50:45.78,"Between UBC and and and ah ha ha, you dropped.",P25,S09 01:50:48.47,01:50:47.23,"And UVIC, yeah.",P26,S09 01:50:49.82,01:50:48.72,It's the,P28,S09 01:50:51.26,01:50:49.12,"You pooped. You pooped, Mel.",P25,S09 01:50:51.56,01:50:50.70,Oh.,P28,S09 01:50:54.08,01:50:51.50,"Um, between UVIC and UBC?",P25,S09 01:50:54.13,01:50:53.43,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:51:01.96,01:50:54.58,"The entrance requirements are more stringent at UBC, but then the tuition is also allegedly more expensive.",P28,S09 01:50:55.86,01:50:55.38,Mm.,P25,S09 01:50:58.25,01:50:57.01,"Okay, yeah.",P26,S09 01:50:58.48,01:50:57.76,Mm.,P25,S09 01:51:02.98,01:51:01.96,I've never asked.,P28,S09 01:51:05.98,01:51:03.02,"Yeah, I don't really know. I've just heard it's more.",P25,S09 01:51:04.61,01:51:03.77,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:51:08.17,01:51:06.09,I feel like that's interesting.,P26,S09 01:51:07.84,01:51:06.20,You can finish this for me if you want.,P27,S09 01:51:06.74,01:51:06.12,I'm like,P28,S09 01:51:15.56,01:51:07.24,"I mean, maybe it could be, in the end, a couple grand. But then when you're doing the P D P, like, I wonder how much. I should research that.",P25,S09 01:51:09.96,01:51:09.42,Okay.,P28,S09 01:51:12.06,01:51:09.84,[laughs],P27,S09 01:51:14.69,01:51:10.55,"Okay, so not, okay, not a huge difference, yeah.",P26,S09 01:51:21.56,01:51:16.24,"I mean, my grades, my grades are high and I graduated with distinction, so I'd probably get in.",P25,S09 01:51:17.69,01:51:16.21,But that would be a surprise.,P26,S09 01:51:21.21,01:51:19.87,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:51:21.34,01:51:20.40,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:51:22.58,01:51:21.34,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:51:22.89,01:51:21.71,"Right, mhm.",P26,S09 01:51:24.34,01:51:22.96,"Yeah, you probably would.",P28,S09 01:51:24.50,01:51:23.84,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:51:28.64,01:51:25.38,"I think if I continue the way that I am at SFU, I could.",P28,S09 01:51:29.04,01:51:28.34,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:51:32.24,01:51:30.00,"What's your GPA, if you don't mind me asking?",P25,S09 01:51:35.02,01:51:30.50,But I just hit three.,P28,S09 01:51:35.90,01:51:34.94,"Oh, okay, cool.",P25,S09 01:51:36.48,01:51:35.96,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:51:39.64,01:51:36.48,"I was at two a couple semesters ago, yeah.",P28,S09 01:51:40.46,01:51:37.64,"Oh, wow. You know what, it's so much harder.",P25,S09 01:51:40.48,01:51:39.04,"So you've got degrees, though.",P27,S09 01:51:42.34,01:51:40.48,"No, what she's taking is so hard.",P27,S09 01:51:46.16,01:51:41.94,"But it's so much harder to move your GPA up by, like, a whole effing point.",P25,S09 01:51:50.76,01:51:46.56,I was taking three classes and working four part time jobs.,P28,S09 01:51:49.08,01:51:48.36,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:51:49.05,01:51:48.33,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:51:51.97,01:51:50.95,What?,P26,S09 01:51:54.54,01:51:51.00,"Uh, yeah, yeah. Vancouver life. Welcome.",P25,S09 01:51:56.18,01:51:52.80,So my GPA [laughs],P28,S09 01:51:56.48,01:51:55.00,[laughs],P27,S09 01:51:58.39,01:51:55.49,"Oh, my god. That's insane.",P26,S09 01:51:56.84,01:51:55.76,It's true.,P25,S09 01:51:58.94,01:51:56.88,And it was like math and calculus and stuff.,P27,S09 01:52:00.18,01:51:58.94,"Like, my god.",P27,S09 01:52:00.49,01:51:59.17,"Oh, that's hard.",P26,S09 01:52:03.44,01:51:59.52,"I was taking physics, calculus, yeah. Mhm.",P28,S09 01:52:00.90,01:51:59.58,"Yeah, they make you take it.",P25,S09 01:52:04.14,01:52:01.88,Where's your phone? Mm.,P27,S09 01:52:02.59,01:52:01.97,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:52:04.44,01:52:02.98,"It's right there, we're cool.",P25,S09 01:52:05.22,01:52:04.46,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:52:06.88,01:52:05.40,"Yeah, like, they make you take",P25,S09 01:52:08.88,01:52:06.88,"Oh, so have you taken teacher's math yet?",P25,S09 01:52:09.78,01:52:08.98,Mm- mm.,P28,S09 01:52:11.22,01:52:09.58,"If you need help, let me know.",P25,S09 01:52:11.28,01:52:10.04,I've heard.,P28,S09 01:52:12.50,01:52:11.22,It's fun. I like it.,P25,S09 01:52:14.00,01:52:12.54,I've heard it's fucked.,P28,S09 01:52:24.72,01:52:13.76,"It's fun, I think it's fun. I'll help you. I had so much fun with it. But I made, like, a nerdy math study group and then I took physics. I took astronomy for my physics. So amazing.",P25,S09 01:52:16.66,01:52:14.00,[laughs],P28,S09 01:52:18.57,01:52:16.69,[laughs],P26,S09 01:52:20.57,01:52:19.73,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:52:23.76,01:52:23.02,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:52:24.01,01:52:23.25,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:52:30.08,01:52:24.72,The sc- the professor there at SFU is the most amazing teacher you will have.,P25,S09 01:52:27.23,01:52:26.59,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:52:31.21,01:52:29.93,Ooh.,P26,S09 01:52:31.22,01:52:29.94,"Oh, cool.",P28,S09 01:52:37.60,01:52:30.08,"So much love for the subject, so energetic and it's so amazing. Like, I love space stuff so much.",P25,S09 01:52:36.48,01:52:35.36,Oh.,P28,S09 01:52:41.04,01:52:36.98,That makes me happy cuz I haven't I haven't studied space stuff.,P28,S09 01:52:39.38,01:52:37.60,"Oh, yeah, so do that.",P25,S09 01:52:41.76,01:52:40.52,"Oh, do it.",P25,S09 01:52:43.66,01:52:41.04,"It's not part of the biology requirement, unfortunately.",P28,S09 01:52:51.02,01:52:42.66,"So, the thing is, first you gotta do the teacher's math cuz then you'll have the equivalent for be able to do the math, and you don't even do math in astronomy. It's stupid.",P25,S09 01:52:46.08,01:52:45.22,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:53:05.08,01:52:51.02,"I don't remember doing a single formula because you just punch it into the computer, whatever, and like, literally, the dude will just like give you the answers if you show up and you're like, hey, what's up? Like, don't worry, I'm never gonna go for a real physics job, like, yeah.",P25,S09 01:52:52.04,01:52:51.14,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:52:52.17,01:52:51.37,Mm.,P26,S09 01:52:56.49,01:52:55.33,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:52:57.16,01:52:55.70,[laughs],P27,S09 01:53:03.16,01:52:59.94,[laughs],P28,S09 01:53:03.89,01:53:03.13,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:08.66,01:53:05.08,"But it was so fun. Yeah, I'll totally help you with math, if you want it.",P25,S09 01:53:06.18,01:53:05.08,I love it.,P28,S09 01:53:23.40,01:53:08.18,"Yeah, no, cuz I had a kid that I was working with, he was taking teacher's math at SFU and, uh, we were chatting about it and he told me, he's like, it's the hardest thing I've ever done because",P28,S09 01:53:12.90,01:53:10.78,[inaudible 1:53:10.74],P27,S09 01:53:14.11,01:53:13.23,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:14.54,01:53:13.98,Mm.,P25,S09 01:53:18.04,01:53:14.54,"Go on. Yeah, and then.",P25,S09 01:53:17.29,01:53:15.77,"Yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 01:53:21.70,01:53:18.12,[inaudible 1:53:18.12] Yeah. Bye.,P25,S09 01:53:21.41,01:53:20.31,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:23.43,01:53:22.71,Oh.,P26,S09 01:53:24.30,01:53:23.36,Really?,P25,S09 01:53:30.88,01:53:23.40,"Is it true, is it true you actually don't compute numbers, it's just really formulas and algorithms and stuff?",P28,S09 01:53:34.98,01:53:29.96,"No, well, the thing is, you learn different formulas, but the thing is, it's not memorizing formulas.",P25,S09 01:53:40.56,01:53:34.98,"You really need to understand how it works. It's a- it's really amazing. Like, I can totally show you.",P25,S09 01:53:42.26,01:53:40.78,"Like, I'm like, I",P25,S09 01:53:52.90,01:53:41.54,"And that's the thing, like, I've gotten by with math and especially calculus based on not really understanding how it works and just working it through.",P28,S09 01:53:43.33,01:53:42.43,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:43.52,01:53:42.64,uh-huh.,P25,S09 01:53:47.73,01:53:46.91,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:50.20,01:53:48.96,[noise],P25,S09 01:53:58.24,01:53:50.20,You will. It will t- it will teach how to understand. You will learn how to understand because that's the only way for you to pass.,P25,S09 01:53:55.03,01:53:54.21,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:53:55.56,01:53:54.46,"Oh, okay.",P28,S09 01:53:59.50,01:53:58.14,"Yeah, okay.",P28,S09 01:54:16.96,01:53:58.64,"And the thing is is like, literally, my math group, the four of us, we had this problem where, like, we need to solve it and so we all like worked on it for like five, five, ten minutes each and we're, like, okay, everyone's got the answer? Cool. How did you solve it? We all solved it using four different formulas just by chance. And we're, like, holy shit, we all got the same answer.",P25,S09 01:53:59.53,01:53:58.73,Mm.,P26,S09 01:54:34.58,01:54:16.96,"It was really amazing. And then we got to explain, well, how does this formula work? Okay, how does that formula work? Why did this method work? And then you really start to understand and it helps you with your problem solving skills in so many different ways, so like, it makes math not scary and it helps you teach math, which is great.",P25,S09 01:54:18.51,01:54:17.91,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:54:24.45,01:54:23.83,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:54:31.12,01:54:30.18,Wow.,P28,S09 01:54:35.30,01:54:34.40,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:54:36.17,01:54:35.02,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:54:44.60,01:54:35.70,"Yeah, cuz I know, like, a lotta the teachers that I've met, they say there's not enough female science math teachers.",P28,S09 01:54:42.12,01:54:41.16,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:54:46.46,01:54:42.42,"Mhm, mhm, mhm, mhm.",P25,S09 01:54:43.95,01:54:42.91,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:54:50.84,01:54:44.60,"There's not enough, um, oh my god, what's the word?",P28,S09 01:54:50.10,01:54:48.98,[noise],P25,S09 01:54:53.42,01:54:52.22,Female engineers?,P25,S09 01:54:59.32,01:54:54.26,"No, role models for fro kids in high school who who are female.",P28,S09 01:54:56.12,01:54:55.18,"Role models, yeah.",P25,S09 01:54:58.07,01:54:56.05,"Mm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:55:00.07,01:54:58.07,"That makes sense, yeah, mhm.",P26,S09 01:54:58.76,01:54:58.12,[noise],P25,S09 01:54:59.56,01:54:58.76,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:55:03.96,01:54:59.84,"Yeah, so that's kinda what's what's driving me right now.",P28,S09 01:55:01.61,01:55:00.81,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:04.74,01:55:03.70,Yeah.,P25,S09 01:55:05.53,01:55:03.97,"Hmm, I like that.",P26,S09 01:55:05.06,01:55:04.44,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:55:12.02,01:55:05.00,"No, honestly, if school was free, I probably would have taken the route of math and physics and stuff like that.",P25,S09 01:55:12.09,01:55:10.71,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:55:11.46,01:55:10.84,Mm.,P28,S09 01:55:15.92,01:55:12.02,"Like, in high school I loved math, loved it to death. Yeah.",P25,S09 01:55:14.63,01:55:13.53,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:15.66,01:55:14.58,I hated it.,P28,S09 01:55:17.19,01:55:16.43,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:20.16,01:55:16.46,"I hated it, and that's why it's terrifying cuz I'm like, I'm going to teach this?",P28,S09 01:55:18.84,01:55:18.18,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:55:22.40,01:55:19.20,And so many people are afraid of math and it breaks my heart.,P25,S09 01:55:23.48,01:55:22.56,Mhm.,P28,S09 01:55:26.96,01:55:23.60,"So, or people are just like, well, I'm just not good at it. I'm like, but you can be.",P25,S09 01:55:27.83,01:55:26.61,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:27.92,01:55:26.74,I'm not good at it.,P28,S09 01:55:30.44,01:55:27.74,"You will, you will be good at it, yeah.",P25,S09 01:55:42.38,01:55:27.92,"So my friend, my my best friend, cuz I went I went home for two weeks, uh, cuz her her mother passed away and we all know, like, our high school friends' parents are like our parents almost in a sense, right? So",P28,S09 01:55:34.18,01:55:33.36,Mm.,P25,S09 01:55:39.29,01:55:38.51,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:55:43.13,01:55:40.57,"Oh, yeah, right? No, I get that.",P26,S09 01:55:53.48,01:55:42.38,"Her mom passed away and I went back to spend a week with her and, um, it was like a simple math problem, like really simple math and it's",P28,S09 01:55:47.66,01:55:47.06,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:55:53.47,01:55:52.85,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:57.16,01:55:53.48,"I'm not even embarrassed by it, it's just like wh- who I am.",P28,S09 01:55:56.01,01:55:55.35,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:55:56.84,01:55:55.94,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:56:09.66,01:55:57.22,"It was, like, subtracting really simple numbers and I I did this and she slapped me on my arm cuz she's really good at math and I was always really bad at math.",P28,S09 01:56:03.65,01:56:02.49,"Mhm, mhm.",P26,S09 01:56:06.91,01:56:06.29,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:56:08.86,01:56:07.64,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:56:10.19,01:56:08.73,Yeah. Yeah.,P26,S09 01:56:19.30,01:56:10.30,"And she looked at me, she's like, I don't even let my kids count on their fingers anymore and I was like, just let me be.",P28,S09 01:56:21.11,01:56:17.99,Woah! That's weird.,P26,S09 01:56:21.60,01:56:18.56,"uh-huh and that's the thing, it's okay.",P25,S09 01:56:22.74,01:56:20.12,Just let me be.,P28,S09 01:56:23.03,01:56:21.49,What a dick.,P26,S09 01:56:25.86,01:56:23.18,"It's okay to count on your fingers, that's the thing.",P25,S09 01:56:25.61,01:56:24.95,Mhm.,P26,S09 01:56:26.62,01:56:25.86,Sarah.,P25,S09 01:56:30.30,01:56:26.76,"Eight minus three, that may have been that simple.",P28,S09 01:56:30.18,01:56:27.90,I'm like [laughs],P25,S09 01:56:30.11,01:56:28.99,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:56:34.41,01:56:30.11,But it's weird the things that people get judgy or weird about.,P26,S09 01:56:32.18,01:56:30.70,Stop doing dishes.,P25,S09 01:56:34.86,01:56:33.58,I know.,P28,S09 01:56:34.80,01:56:34.12,Here.,P25,S09 01:56:47.93,01:56:34.41,"There was like a weird moment and, I was just on this bachelorette. It's totally random but, like, uh this past weekend and one of my girlfriends was talking telling this story and she was telling it to my other friend who's been married for like a long time.",P26,S09 01:56:39.36,01:56:37.62,We're wind it down in five minutes.,P25,S09 01:57:06.93,01:57:05.01,"It sounds like you're, like, super bossy.",P26,S09 01:57:17.07,01:57:06.93,"And, like, well I wasn't there at the moment, like, and so, like, I don't even know what I would have done in that moment cuz I think I would have said something crazy, and I'm almost like happy I wasn't there.",P26,S09 01:57:11.04,01:57:10.24,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:57:17.26,01:57:16.56,Yeah.,P28,S09 01:57:25.53,01:57:17.07,"But then later I, like, we're all hanging out and she's like, this is what just happened, I don't know know, woah, I feel so judged, what just happened there? And I was like, yeah, that's crazy, right?",P26,S09 01:57:26.22,01:57:25.38,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:57:35.33,01:57:25.53,"Like, to just turn around, but I can't believe she slapped you and was like, I won't even let my kids do that. It's just, again, just like these random things where you're like, woah, woah, don't judge me.",P26,S09 01:57:30.84,01:57:29.44,[laughs],P28,S09 01:57:38.26,01:57:33.78,I like how you went to math to a guy going down on somebody.,P25,S09 01:57:35.50,01:57:33.74,"Yeah, reel it in.",P28,S09 01:57:36.25,01:57:35.33,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:57:44.25,01:57:37.13,"No, but it was more like the judgment factor, like, when people just, like, out of left field and you're like, oh, okay, woah, sorry.",P26,S09 01:57:39.76,01:57:38.26,[laughs],P25,S09 01:57:42.52,01:57:39.76,"No, I get it, I get it, it's so funny.",P25,S09 01:57:48.24,01:57:44.08,"Yeah, I thought it was abnormal, but I guess it's normal in your world.",P28,S09 01:57:46.89,01:57:46.07,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:57:51.04,01:57:48.24,Interesting.,P28,S09 01:57:51.35,01:57:48.31,"Yeah, I guess so. I don't know. Mhm. Mhm.",P26,S09 01:57:50.44,01:57:48.38,"Oh, oh.",P25,S09 01:59:04.02,01:58:52.80,"I'm going back fifteen years where I started to struggle to try and be able to accept it for myself cuz I was like, if I'm willing to, then, yeah.",P28,S09 01:58:53.59,01:58:52.89,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:58:56.42,01:58:54.04,Mhm. Mhm.,P25,S09 01:58:54.95,01:58:54.33,Huh.,P26,S09 01:58:59.32,01:58:58.30,Mm.,P25,S09 01:58:59.51,01:58:58.51,Right.,P27,S09 01:58:59.23,01:58:58.73,Huh.,P26,S09 01:59:02.72,01:59:01.32,Mm.,P25,S09 01:59:02.75,01:59:01.79,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:59:05.16,01:59:02.86,"Right. Anyways, I gotta go.",P27,S09 01:59:04.47,01:59:03.35,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:59:05.40,01:59:04.58,Mhm.,P25,S09 01:59:13.36,01:59:05.51,So. This is amazing. Thanks so much you guys. This is so great. Yes. Yeah.,P27,S09 01:59:08.15,01:59:05.57,Baby!,P26,S09 01:59:07.60,01:59:05.58,"Yes, cuz you have a",P28,S09 01:59:08.89,01:59:08.15,Yeah.,P26,S09 01:59:12.35,01:59:08.89,"Oh, my gosh, I we can't wait to hear the news.",P26,S09 01:59:11.30,01:59:10.60,Baby's coming.,P25,S09 01:59:14.52,01:59:11.30,"So, wha- are you going to the hospital now? Nice.",P25,S09 01:59:15.37,01:59:13.85,"Oh, my god.",P26,S09 01:59:16.49,01:59:14.39,"So, this was great. Yes.",P27,S09 01:59:16.12,01:59:14.52,Which hospital? VGH?,P25,S09 01:59:18.56,01:59:17.08,"Good, that's the nice ones.",P25,S09 01:59:19.35,01:59:17.41,Hmm. Good. Cool. Sweet.,P26,S09 01:59:19.51,01:59:17.84,"Yeah. Okay, thanks so much.",P27,S09