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What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because it has gotten to the point to where she is severely depressed and thinks about hurting herself and throwing up sometimes because she doesnt feel good enough, she just as of a few months ago got over a eating disorder. I want to get her the help she needs but i obviously cant pay for it by myself. I dont know what i can do. 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What can i do?
t3_44h9co	relationships	Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag?	I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values.	potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?	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POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values. TL;DR:	potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 2442, 305, 71, 434, 3331, 310, 2238, 273, 247, 660, 14661, 1436, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 281, 5963, 3095, 323, 616, 3331, 434, 5231, 32, 1359, 943, 309, 2312, 281, 31479, 670, 619, 24626, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values. TL;DR: potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? 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POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming into a tree (fortunately without injury). After that we all sat around smoking cigars while looking at a mountain across the valley, and we came to the dead set conclusion that some maniac mountain man was hiking the damn thing pretty close to sunset, and thought he was for sure in for a very cold night in sub zero temps. After that we moved our efforts into the cabin and made some delicious dinner consisting of cheese bratwursts, onions, green peppers, and whatever else we could find. Once bed time rolled around one of my buddies tried to stumble up the ladder to the loft of the cabin, and ended up slipping off and falling around 8 feet right onto my back. Didn't even care at this point and just started cracking up for the next few minutes. All in all just fun with a bunch of guys in the middle of fucking nowhere. TL;DR:	Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 322, 1070, 4861, 715, 7139, 13, 13762, 9361, 247, 5561, 369, 21266, 247, 11129, 13, 285, 1160, 690, 15229, 1175, 2739, 275, 247, 787, 40304, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming into a tree (fortunately without injury). After that we all sat around smoking cigars while looking at a mountain across the valley, and we came to the dead set conclusion that some maniac mountain man was hiking the damn thing pretty close to sunset, and thought he was for sure in for a very cold night in sub zero temps. After that we moved our efforts into the cabin and made some delicious dinner consisting of cheese bratwursts, onions, green peppers, and whatever else we could find. Once bed time rolled around one of my buddies tried to stumble up the ladder to the loft of the cabin, and ended up slipping off and falling around 8 feet right onto my back. Didn't even care at this point and just started cracking up for the next few minutes. All in all just fun with a bunch of guys in the middle of fucking nowhere. 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Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful.	Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???	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POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear me out fast because they get too painful. However, I am feeling increasingly more terrible about this. He has a very stressful job and trains for triathlons as well. He doesn't really have the time or energy to be dealing with me, but he's treated me with nothing but kindness and compassion to my every whim. He does SO MUCH for me!! Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful. TL;DR:	Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???<\|endoftext\|>	[ 3808, 5371, 3722, 83, 5394, 13, 619, 9386, 22273, 310, 3192, 1557, 273, 479, 285, 2509, 594, 1199, 323, 479, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2455, 29216, 779, 323, 824, 247, 22793, 33186, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear me out fast because they get too painful. However, I am feeling increasingly more terrible about this. He has a very stressful job and trains for triathlons as well. He doesn't really have the time or energy to be dealing with me, but he's treated me with nothing but kindness and compassion to my every whim. He does SO MUCH for me!! Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful. TL;DR: Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. 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How do I thank him for all of this?
t3_4epaj9	relationships	I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single?	I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me?	I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?	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How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me? TL;DR:	I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. 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I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me? TL;DR: I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. 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One of my friends told me I was a sort of sicko, because I'm in college now and I was into a girl who was still in high school. Is there a way that I can change my thinking process, or is there something I just might be doing wrong?	Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.	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POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know. I've never actually ever had a relationship. A bunch of small things have built up the mindset that I have today, and even though I like myself, it seems like nobody else does. I find it difficult to be happy, when I'm always worried about why I can't find "the one" or something. I guess my life is pretty swell if my worst worries are just troubles of the heart. No girl I've ever liked has ever reciprocated my feelings. From the first girl I liked to the most recent one [F, 17]. One of my friends told me I was a sort of sicko, because I'm in college now and I was into a girl who was still in high school. Is there a way that I can change my thinking process, or is there something I just might be doing wrong? TL;DR:	Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.<\|endoftext\|>	[ 443, 5860, 320, 275, 10912, 7875, 387, 1884, 15, 9018, 574, 247, 19609, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 2509, 1633, 3430, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know. I've never actually ever had a relationship. A bunch of small things have built up the mindset that I have today, and even though I like myself, it seems like nobody else does. I find it difficult to be happy, when I'm always worried about why I can't find "the one" or something. I guess my life is pretty swell if my worst worries are just troubles of the heart. No girl I've ever liked has ever reciprocated my feelings. From the first girl I liked to the most recent one [F, 17]. One of my friends told me I was a sort of sicko, because I'm in college now and I was into a girl who was still in high school. Is there a way that I can change my thinking process, or is there something I just might be doing wrong? TL;DR: Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. 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t3_h41pk	relationships	Need some advice on breaking up	So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions?	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A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions? TL;DR:	Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up<\|endoftext\|>	[ 308, 2200, 281, 2740, 484, 342, 253, 33952, 1390, 2129, 13, 846, 247, 1048, 2312, 359, 4425, 281, 1978, 2820, 13, 436, 369, 247, 10551, 285, 309, 1335, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions? 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t3_250ro9	relationships	I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder	As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend also really, really likes this guy. I think it would crush her if she knew. Should I tell her? It's also the week before finals and she's very stressed studying for her final exams and papers. In the meantime I have taken a screen shot of the evidence. I was planning on telling her after finals are all over... Thanks!	Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).	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one day ago. 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Should I tell her?
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I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her.	we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.	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POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the future, little did we know we both received different late offers from different universities. I decided I wanted to stay in my current course to experience it and confirm what I want to do in the future and expeience college life as I would be moving back with my parents. She decided to take it, and moved of out. She is enjoying her course, we talk daily via Skype to try keep the relationship going. We've made plans to travel to one another when it's convenient for both of us so we can meet. I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her. TL;DR:	we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. 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We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the future, little did we know we both received different late offers from different universities. I decided I wanted to stay in my current course to experience it and confirm what I want to do in the future and expeience college life as I would be moving back with my parents. She decided to take it, and moved of out. She is enjoying her course, we talk daily via Skype to try keep the relationship going. We've made plans to travel to one another when it's convenient for both of us so we can meet. I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her. TL;DR: we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. 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I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you.	I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?	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POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be with family and friends considering it is the holiday season. When I tell her I am hanging out with a friend she always jump the gun and thinks I am seeing someone special. In her round about way she has told me that if I am seeing someone that she won't text me anymore. Also, for some odd reason she chooses not to communicate via phone, Skype, or in person. We have met twice in person and both visits ended well with a warm hug and great conversations. I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you. TL;DR:	I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 971, 281, 320, 342, 617, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 359, 403, 1512, 2080, 7419, 285, 309, 5476, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 1158, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 2312, 281, 3780, 670, 352, 15, 9876, 703, 971, 281, 3523, 2505, 272, 390, 310, 436, 4720, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be with family and friends considering it is the holiday season. When I tell her I am hanging out with a friend she always jump the gun and thinks I am seeing someone special. In her round about way she has told me that if I am seeing someone that she won't text me anymore. Also, for some odd reason she chooses not to communicate via phone, Skype, or in person. We have met twice in person and both visits ended well with a warm hug and great conversations. I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you. TL;DR: I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. 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t3_36781z	legaladvice	Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment?	I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further.	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).	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POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further. TL;DR:	I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).<\|endoftext\|>	[ 309, 717, 2820, 281, 1089, 690, 3686, 273, 4320, 42498, 16, 3306, 14851, 326, 271, 11169, 1364, 2523, 247, 2451, 347, 7830, 313, 395, 326, 1480, 18831, 320, 816, 271, 4500, 481, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]	[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]	53	SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further. 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What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? "Life is too short for regrets" or just.. Remain good ones? (Friends)	guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.	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POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit of a flirty banter and we've spent a lot of time together (only at the establishment he volunteers and i visit as a "young person") Anyway. I recently found out he is only "questioning" his sexuality and has a sexual intrest in me. (He called me beautiful- d'aww.) The only way we'd be able to have a relationship is if i was to become a volunteer (something i WAS going to do anyway - but this is pushing me), but i have that nigle in my head of his questioning sexuality. What would i do/how would i feel if he wanted to be with a bloke?(man) but we were together? Should i even go there? What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? "Life is too short for regrets" or just.. Remain good ones? (Friends) TL;DR:	guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. 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We've always had a bit of a flirty banter and we've spent a lot of time together (only at the establishment he volunteers and i visit as a "young person") Anyway. I recently found out he is only "questioning" his sexuality and has a sexual intrest in me. (He called me beautiful- d'aww.) The only way we'd be able to have a relationship is if i was to become a volunteer (something i WAS going to do anyway - but this is pushing me), but i have that nigle in my head of his questioning sexuality. What would i do/how would i feel if he wanted to be with a bloke?(man) but we were together? Should i even go there? What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? 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Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do?

My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because it has gotten to the point to where she is severely depressed and thinks about hurting herself and throwing up sometimes because she doesnt feel good enough, she just as of a few months ago got over a eating disorder. I want to get her the help she needs but i obviously cant pay for it by myself. I dont know what i can do.

serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?

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serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Severely depressed girlfriend, needs help. What can i do? POST: My girlfriend is having a lot of emotional issues lately. She calls me nearly every night deeply upset, it usually takes me an hour or two to calm her down. She wants to seek medical help, meaning a therapist, or a counselor of some sort. Her parents have agreed sort of, but have taken no action. I am worried because it has gotten to the point to where she is severely depressed and thinks about hurting herself and throwing up sometimes because she doesnt feel good enough, she just as of a few months ago got over a eating disorder. I want to get her the help she needs but i obviously cant pay for it by myself. I dont know what i can do. TL;DR: serverely depressed gf, needs help from a therapist or doctor but her parents wont help, what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend is severely depressed and i want to get her the help she needs, but i cant afford it. What can i do?

t3_44h9co

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Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag?

I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values.

potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values. TL;DR:

potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [20/M] judging the girl I'm seeing [20/F] too harshly for the actions of her friend [~20/F], or is it legitimately a dealbreaker/red flag? POST: I met "Liz" about a month ago. We have been on a few dates since then and have really hit it off. Although we haven't labeled anything yet, we're probably on the way toward becoming an official item and have made plans to attend a formal event together at the end of this month. The only problem is Liz's friend, "Annie." I didn't know Annie that well until recently, but the more I learn about her the more negatively I feel toward her. When choosing who I associate with, I am very concerned with morality and ethics. Annie has done things I find highly unethical, including stealing (from both our university and someone at a party) and seriously considering lying about having a disease in order to circumvent our school's requirement for undergrads to live on campus. While I don't agree with the living on campus rule, I would never get a fake doctor's note and pretend to be sick to get out of it. I disapprove even more of the stealing, and I think it's important to note I wouldn't know about it unless Liz told me - she mentioned it kind of casually, and while she doesn't do it herself or think it's really okay, she definitely isn't as bothered by it as I am. I don't know exactly how close Liz and Annie are, but they seem to be pretty good friends and are in the same relatively small major at our school. I have a rare medical condition that would be a dealbreaker for many people, and I've seen plenty of stories of other people with this condition getting into/staying in bad relationships simply because they're afraid nobody else will want them. Although I wasn't explicitly looking for a relationship when I met Liz, and wasn't unhappy being single, I'm worried my judgment is being clouded by Liz's acceptance of me and my inexperience with relationships - I had never been on a real date before I met Liz, and have never been in a relationship either. I really like Liz and she really likes me, but her friendship with Annie is making me question her character and values. TL;DR: potential gf's friend is kind of a scummy person. Is it fair to judge someone for their friend's actions? How should I talk to Liz about my doubts?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not sure if I'm being too harshly judgmental of Liz's friend, or if I'm just being too judgmental of her.

t3_13ngyh

AskReddit

Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences?

For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming into a tree (fortunately without injury). After that we all sat around smoking cigars while looking at a mountain across the valley, and we came to the dead set conclusion that some maniac mountain man was hiking the damn thing pretty close to sunset, and thought he was for sure in for a very cold night in sub zero temps. After that we moved our efforts into the cabin and made some delicious dinner consisting of cheese bratwursts, onions, green peppers, and whatever else we could find. Once bed time rolled around one of my buddies tried to stumble up the ladder to the loft of the cabin, and ended up slipping off and falling around 8 feet right onto my back. Didn't even care at this point and just started cracking up for the next few minutes. All in all just fun with a bunch of guys in the middle of fucking nowhere.

Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming into a tree (fortunately without injury). After that we all sat around smoking cigars while looking at a mountain across the valley, and we came to the dead set conclusion that some maniac mountain man was hiking the damn thing pretty close to sunset, and thought he was for sure in for a very cold night in sub zero temps. After that we moved our efforts into the cabin and made some delicious dinner consisting of cheese bratwursts, onions, green peppers, and whatever else we could find. Once bed time rolled around one of my buddies tried to stumble up the ladder to the loft of the cabin, and ended up slipping off and falling around 8 feet right onto my back. Didn't even care at this point and just started cracking up for the next few minutes. All in all just fun with a bunch of guys in the middle of fucking nowhere. TL;DR:

Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your best, or possibly worst, camping experiences? POST: For me, about a year ago a few buddies and I went up to a cabin out in the middle of nowhere that very few people know about. Our hike most of the way was through a big old winter storm coming in. Upon arrival and a few beers we decided to take our liquid courage into sledding form. Eventually I ended up slamming into a tree (fortunately without injury). After that we all sat around smoking cigars while looking at a mountain across the valley, and we came to the dead set conclusion that some maniac mountain man was hiking the damn thing pretty close to sunset, and thought he was for sure in for a very cold night in sub zero temps. After that we moved our efforts into the cabin and made some delicious dinner consisting of cheese bratwursts, onions, green peppers, and whatever else we could find. Once bed time rolled around one of my buddies tried to stumble up the ladder to the loft of the cabin, and ended up slipping off and falling around 8 feet right onto my back. Didn't even care at this point and just started cracking up for the next few minutes. All in all just fun with a bunch of guys in the middle of fucking nowhere. TL;DR: Sledded into trees, convinced ourselves a rock was climbing a mountain, and made some damn good food in a blizzard.<|endoftext|>

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Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill?

About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear me out fast because they get too painful. However, I am feeling increasingly more terrible about this. He has a very stressful job and trains for triathlons as well. He doesn't really have the time or energy to be dealing with me, but he's treated me with nothing but kindness and compassion to my every whim. He does SO MUCH for me!! Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful.

Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear me out fast because they get too painful. However, I am feeling increasingly more terrible about this. He has a very stressful job and trains for triathlons as well. He doesn't really have the time or energy to be dealing with me, but he's treated me with nothing but kindness and compassion to my every whim. He does SO MUCH for me!! Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful. TL;DR:

Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F], Him [32 M] 2 1/2 years -- How do you thank someone who has been taking care of you when you're ill? POST: About two weeks I broke my leg. My boyfriend has been kind enough to let me inhabit his couch/apartment until I'm well enough to climb up the stairs to my own apartment (no elevator in the building). I can't even really go out and hop around on crutches because I sprained my wrist in the accident too and crutches wear me out fast because they get too painful. However, I am feeling increasingly more terrible about this. He has a very stressful job and trains for triathlons as well. He doesn't really have the time or energy to be dealing with me, but he's treated me with nothing but kindness and compassion to my every whim. He does SO MUCH for me!! Cooks me food, sacrifices his couch/privacy, lugs me to and from doctor's appointments, gets me water, gets me stuff from the store, checks my mail back at my apartment, keeps me company, comforts me when I'm depressed and upset about all this... today he is cooking me a favorite meal for my birthday... I try to keep up being courteous to him and everything, and try to be as thankful as possible to him. But sometimes I just get grouchy and stir crazy with being kept indoors and I am not as nice with him as I could be. After I snap at him or I'm cold to him, I feel absolutely terrible about it, like right now. Anyway, the point I'm trying to arrive at, is how on EARTH do you EVER even BEGIN to thank someone for all of this??? Like.... holy crap, we're not even married and he's doing all of this for me. How will I ever repay his kindness? how CAN I?? Does anyone else have experience with this type of situation or know someone that does? I feel so guilty and lucky and awful and thankful. TL;DR: Somewhat bedridden, my wonderful boyfriend is taking care of me and doing so much for me. How do I ever repay him for such a deed???<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend is taking care of me when I'm sick and I'm not even married. How do I thank him for all of this?

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I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single?

I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me?

I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me? TL;DR:

I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [20F] have gotten to know [21F] for a few months, I think we're into each other but I can't tell. How do I slyly find out if she's single? POST: I joined this organization at my college and this girl was in charge of a lot of events for it. I got to know her as an acquaintance and nearly (!) a friend over the past few months. She's really wonderful and I have a huge crush on her. I know she's bisexual, but I don't know if she has a girlfriend or not. The strangest part is, I feel like we have some kind of connection. I know it sounds weird but I know there is something between us. I feel like she's into me as well but I don't know if she's single or not. I can't tell from her Facebook whether or not she has a girlfriend, and I don't want to ask. Any advice for finding out if she's available and into me? TL;DR: I like a girl and she might like me, but she also might be taken. How do I figure this out?<|endoftext|>

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I have a crush on a girl I've known for a few months, but I can't tell if she's single or not.

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I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships.

So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know. I've never actually ever had a relationship. A bunch of small things have built up the mindset that I have today, and even though I like myself, it seems like nobody else does. I find it difficult to be happy, when I'm always worried about why I can't find "the one" or something. I guess my life is pretty swell if my worst worries are just troubles of the heart. No girl I've ever liked has ever reciprocated my feelings. From the first girl I liked to the most recent one [F, 17]. One of my friends told me I was a sort of sicko, because I'm in college now and I was into a girl who was still in high school. Is there a way that I can change my thinking process, or is there something I just might be doing wrong?

Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M, 20] am to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships. POST: So I'm 20 years old now, and my mother and I came to this agreement a while ago that if I am still single by the time I am 30, then she is to arrange a marriage for me, with a woman from my home country. I don't really know why I agreed to this, but it's not like I absolutely hate the idea. Or maybe I do, I don't really know. I've never actually ever had a relationship. A bunch of small things have built up the mindset that I have today, and even though I like myself, it seems like nobody else does. I find it difficult to be happy, when I'm always worried about why I can't find "the one" or something. I guess my life is pretty swell if my worst worries are just troubles of the heart. No girl I've ever liked has ever reciprocated my feelings. From the first girl I liked to the most recent one [F, 17]. One of my friends told me I was a sort of sicko, because I'm in college now and I was into a girl who was still in high school. Is there a way that I can change my thinking process, or is there something I just might be doing wrong? TL;DR: Gonna be in arranged marriage at 30. Never had a girlfriend. Don't know if I'm doing something wrong.<|endoftext|>

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I'm to go through an arranged marriage at age 30 if I am still single, but I am no success in relationships.

t3_h41pk

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Need some advice on breaking up

So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions?

Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions? TL;DR:

Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Need some advice on breaking up POST: So I think it's time for my GF and I to call it quits. A little back story first. I'm 26, she's 23. We've been together for about 9 months but we've been friends for about 2 years prior to dating. We've had our problems from the outset of dating, most of which we worked out. I've recently been thinking that she probably isn't "the one" and I actually tried to break it off last Friday. Instead of breaking up, we ended up talking about everything for a few hours and I thought I had made a mistake. I should have gone with my gut and stuck to my guns. Now I don't know what to do, I realize that no matter what I do, I'll be a bigger asshole in the end and I'm willing to accept this, but I just don't know how to break it to her again? I'm worried that if I do it face to face again, the same thing might happen, but not doing it in person seems very impersonal and cold. Does anyone have some suggestions? TL;DR: Tried to breakup with the GF last week, after a long talk we decided to keep trying, this was a mistake and I still want to break up<|endoftext|>

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I think I made a mistake and I want to break up with her, but I don't know how to do it in person.

t3_250ro9

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I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder

As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend also really, really likes this guy. I think it would crush her if she knew. Should I tell her? It's also the week before finals and she's very stressed studying for her final exams and papers. In the meantime I have taken a screen shot of the evidence. I was planning on telling her after finals are all over... Thanks!

Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend also really, really likes this guy. I think it would crush her if she knew. Should I tell her? It's also the week before finals and she's very stressed studying for her final exams and papers. In the meantime I have taken a screen shot of the evidence. I was planning on telling her after finals are all over... Thanks! TL;DR:

Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19 F] found the guy my friend is dating [22M, 19 F] on Tinder POST: As the title says, I found the guy my friend is dating on Tinder, and he was active one day ago. They've been dating for more than a month now (maybe 2 months?). Since they're not exclusive, normally I wouldn't tell my friend but I know that she wants to become exclusive with him, and he took her virginity. My friend also really, really likes this guy. I think it would crush her if she knew. Should I tell her? It's also the week before finals and she's very stressed studying for her final exams and papers. In the meantime I have taken a screen shot of the evidence. I was planning on telling her after finals are all over... Thanks! TL;DR: Guy dating friend (also took her virginity) is active on Tinder and I don't know if I should tell her or not (or when).<|endoftext|>

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Found a guy on Tinder, he's been dating my friend for a month, she's very stressed studying for her final exams and papers. Should I tell her?

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Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree.

Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the future, little did we know we both received different late offers from different universities. I decided I wanted to stay in my current course to experience it and confirm what I want to do in the future and expeience college life as I would be moving back with my parents. She decided to take it, and moved of out. She is enjoying her course, we talk daily via Skype to try keep the relationship going. We've made plans to travel to one another when it's convenient for both of us so we can meet. I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her.

we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the future, little did we know we both received different late offers from different universities. I decided I wanted to stay in my current course to experience it and confirm what I want to do in the future and expeience college life as I would be moving back with my parents. She decided to take it, and moved of out. She is enjoying her course, we talk daily via Skype to try keep the relationship going. We've made plans to travel to one another when it's convenient for both of us so we can meet. I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her. TL;DR:

we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me a [18m] first year university sudent fell for another [18f] 2 months everything has been going well except she moved away, to study a different degree. POST: Like the title says we went to uni together, we stayed at the same college. We got to know each other quite well. We became very good friends and the relationship started escalliting quite quickly. We had a few fights while we were together at college, nothing to big. We were both looking to study dentistry in the future, little did we know we both received different late offers from different universities. I decided I wanted to stay in my current course to experience it and confirm what I want to do in the future and expeience college life as I would be moving back with my parents. She decided to take it, and moved of out. She is enjoying her course, we talk daily via Skype to try keep the relationship going. We've made plans to travel to one another when it's convenient for both of us so we can meet. I want to try make it into the same uni she is in just so we can be together. I would say I am fairly good looking as I have been chased after quite often by the other gender. I have had quite a few flings through out my life and early days of uni. I have been out to the club's and tried picking up girls to get my mind off her. I have been successful but I don't feel satisfied so before we got anywhere serious I kicked her out. I'm not sure if this is because of how much I liked this pervious girl and I miss her, or its my regret of not doing what I truly want. I like to think it is the first, I told her about it. She has been the first and last thing on my mind since the first day I met her. Talking over Skype she keeps dropping hints that she wants a long distance relationship. I want this to work out for us, even if it means me moving half way across the country to be with her. TL;DR: we met at college, she moved away to study dentistry. She wants a long distance relationship, I want to move to be with her next year.<|endoftext|>

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I fell for a girl who moved away, I want to make it work, she is the first thing on my mind.

t3_2ptbbs

relationships

Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask.

We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be with family and friends considering it is the holiday season. When I tell her I am hanging out with a friend she always jump the gun and thinks I am seeing someone special. In her round about way she has told me that if I am seeing someone that she won't text me anymore. Also, for some odd reason she chooses not to communicate via phone, Skype, or in person. We have met twice in person and both visits ended well with a warm hug and great conversations. I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you.

I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be with family and friends considering it is the holiday season. When I tell her I am hanging out with a friend she always jump the gun and thinks I am seeing someone special. In her round about way she has told me that if I am seeing someone that she won't text me anymore. Also, for some odd reason she chooses not to communicate via phone, Skype, or in person. We have met twice in person and both visits ended well with a warm hug and great conversations. I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you. TL;DR:

I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28F] with my ex [27F] of 5 years, wants to know about my status but won't ask. POST: We broke up in June over text then made it official in Sept of this year. We broke up because of long distance after college opportunities separated us. Now that we are in a transitional phase of our lives we still text (only) about what we are doing and what is next in our lives. Well I have gone out of state to be with family and friends considering it is the holiday season. When I tell her I am hanging out with a friend she always jump the gun and thinks I am seeing someone special. In her round about way she has told me that if I am seeing someone that she won't text me anymore. Also, for some odd reason she chooses not to communicate via phone, Skype, or in person. We have met twice in person and both visits ended well with a warm hug and great conversations. I'm not sure what is going on considering we still share two dogs, share a few accounts, and we both have not deleted the thousands of pictures we have. I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Please be kind with your words/comments. Thank you. TL;DR: I want to be with her but I feel like we are too far apart and I guess I don't know what to think because I don't talk to anyone about it. Does she want to stop texting or is this finally it?<|endoftext|>

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Ex wants to know about my status but won't ask. I don't know what to do.

t3_36781z

legaladvice

Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment?

I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further.

I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further. TL;DR:

I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? POST: I am trying to find if there is any lawful documentation stating that an employer must offer a check. Right now my company only offers direct deposit as payment, and states simply "they can't" cut a check (and we have a full accounting department that has the ability to physically print checks, so that is not an issue.) Normally DD wouldn't be an issue, however, the way the DD works, the payment hits the account nearly 3-5 days after the pay stub is made available, dependent on the bank. Example: Pay period is 1st-15th, the 15th falls on a Saturday. The pay stub won't even be processed until the following Monday (17th), then it takes 2-3 business days (this is mostly dependent on the bank at this point) for the money to actually hit the account. This happens almost every pay period, and it is even worse when there is a holiday on a Monday, because everything is pushed back even further. TL;DR: I am trying to find some sort of legal webpage/document stating that an employer must issue a check as payment (and that direct deposit be just an option).<|endoftext|>

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Can an employer refuse to offer a check as payment? If so, how can I prove that they are legally obligated to do so?

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Should i even go there?

The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male , is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit of a flirty banter and we've spent a lot of time together (only at the establishment he volunteers and i visit as a "young person") Anyway. I recently found out he is only "questioning" his sexuality and has a sexual intrest in me. (He called me beautiful- d'aww.) The only way we'd be able to have a relationship is if i was to become a volunteer (something i WAS going to do anyway - but this is pushing me), but i have that nigle in my head of his questioning sexuality. What would i do/how would i feel if he wanted to be with a bloke?(man) but we were together? Should i even go there? What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? "Life is too short for regrets" or just.. Remain good ones? (Friends)

guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit of a flirty banter and we've spent a lot of time together (only at the establishment he volunteers and i visit as a "young person") Anyway. I recently found out he is only "questioning" his sexuality and has a sexual intrest in me. (He called me beautiful- d'aww.) The only way we'd be able to have a relationship is if i was to become a volunteer (something i WAS going to do anyway - but this is pushing me), but i have that nigle in my head of his questioning sexuality. What would i do/how would i feel if he wanted to be with a bloke?(man) but we were together? Should i even go there? What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? "Life is too short for regrets" or just.. Remain good ones? (Friends) TL;DR:

guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Should i even go there? POST: The First post The boy/man i like age 21 male, is someone who is a volunteer at my local establishment im age 23 female He is really funny, we get along like a house on fire pretty much from the get go. Ive always thought of him to be attractive but never anythig more - I thought he was gay. We've always had a bit of a flirty banter and we've spent a lot of time together (only at the establishment he volunteers and i visit as a "young person") Anyway. I recently found out he is only "questioning" his sexuality and has a sexual intrest in me. (He called me beautiful- d'aww.) The only way we'd be able to have a relationship is if i was to become a volunteer (something i WAS going to do anyway - but this is pushing me), but i have that nigle in my head of his questioning sexuality. What would i do/how would i feel if he wanted to be with a bloke?(man) but we were together? Should i even go there? What if we get along really well as friends, but a relationship wouldnt work? Ive also told him A LOT about my past.. (Which i thought i was comfortable doing because i thought he wasnt actually interested in me) which i may have not told him/held back a while if i had known (Though he called me beautiful after all this..) HELP!!! What do i do - do i try it? "Life is too short for regrets" or just.. Remain good ones? (Friends) TL;DR: guy who likes me might be gay but wants to persue a relation with me as long as I volunteer at the place I visit. Ive also told him too much about my life.<|endoftext|>

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Boy i like is questioning his sexuality, i dont know if i should go there, should i even go there?