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Like the title said, what was the best investment you ever made? Everyone has heard about a guy who bought Nvidia 10 years ago or bitcoin at 100$, what is your home run?It could be stocks, a car you bought, collectibles, etc. It can also be something not related to money. I’m curious to know! | r/investing | post | r/investing | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFydFlYVkF5WE5tWWJKT2FTZVMyajRISkFiYjBBNndxTmttT002bzUxcUpZTHFJdHJlUnFVb3ZtMzhOQmc0RmQ5eGE2UlQ4V016b2FpN1ZId0kxVXEycWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzazR2eFhTTWlJc0t1VHBfbEVFSzVGbkpPNXZTUjlvMXFpZWZ4RWJweGxzeUV1QzRQeXY5QUY2TXFtUDVSN05BV2ZPRWVDVjNHUGNQVGJQTDNEVTZ5Y3UzblVnYUJ1X0VjSzRJdmJnRG5FbVM4SlFFbkpBZU5CemlNb0FZa1hacUlpdkVHaWNYRXRCazlaQjBfZEdTenlhU1Frd05FMmhkalJpT1g3V0U5TDhfNW5HTENvelN1NlhPZnNOUTFPd1N3 |
We were in the act of being intimate and it started to get painful randomly so I asked him to hold on for a second and he kept going. I asked again and he said he’s almost done and wait. I got upset after because the situation made me feel weird. I told him I was annoyed and he said it wasn’t that big of a deal because it wasn’t a long time and if it really bothered me I should have made it more clear to him instead of complaining about it after. His reaction made me feel miserable to be honest. It felt like a slap in the face. I started crying because I just felt hurt. I think I shocked him because I don’t cry often and he tried to comfort me and said sorry. After a while he said he was starting to feel scared and I asked him why and he said because I was crying. He asked me to spend the night so I did and the next day he said he wanted me to stay again, he didn’t want me to leave or go home.
I told my best friend the whole situation and that he didn’t want me to leave and she said he might have been scared I’d report him for assault? I wouldn’t even do that, this sounds insane and kind of far fetched. But why else would he not want me to leave? I asked him and he just said he missed me. | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyTGMxNTZIV1l6QXVTellHT2ViaElndnd6TEZnR1ZyejBQX1huREwwRUhiRV92RnpJWFpyeFhNSGs2dTJrWW1wS0ticVVLcnI5ak5aQ1BMdHM3NEN6ajdRZ1VsWFc3eXA1b3lqOXlHRXBuSFk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdzF3dXB0NjdrWUduWHlienBnejZfNUlxUHJwVG9JdE1BRTBRaXQ1LW5iYUFiZ2p4Njk4X1FyWDVXQlh2SFZVbmJPdm9wXzRMY21QOGFWQWhabGY3M3ZzRUk1cnJZX3M1OWFWemNhX3FpVDVFX2ZsWlJYdjgxeUsyN1pxaTRITVBDYllDTUhaMUpyaExibkVTbG1uUzJMTWZ6Q2pUZF95SXhxMVpqVzNjOC05eWxKeEJVSGZoRmMwRDl3TUFCa2dPS3huQlBYTmZVaWwxN3pmdVd0N0NQZz09 |
As we all roll on into the gift-giving season, a reminder: open your toddler’s gifts before you wrap them.
A ten year old might appreciate their new Pokémon figurine being pristine in the box. Your two year old, on the other hand, will not want to wait for you to cut every Little People figurine out of its zip tie prison. Set your toddlers up for success! Get everything ready to play with as soon as it’s open.
This means:
- Open everything
- Assemble any bits that need assembled
- Add batteries (or take batteries out, if they are too young to know the difference)
- Test the volume. If the toy is ear-drum-busting loud, put a small amount of superglue in the speaker holes to muffle it, or cover the speaker with tape
I promise, this will make your gift opening experience much more pleasant. | r/toddlers | post | r/toddlers | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycUZFRFZMNVdIdFl4aGdTcHlNWFBZemtkV29rVVJjNDhQTXRrSVFTU1NIY0JlVl9lc19NZ01Mak1QMEVjcWFSZDBoczl1UlAtTXctMnowNnNLejdkblE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeTczWnVmX1ZwRzE1N2xqVTJIdzdoNmRNZ3VpWUY2LUZ6dXBzOFFKZXQwTDJxQlNMMFB6cHRKYW05V05uZm5ncXhTaEFIUF8wa25BQ0RTTVZtYlpnTWlrcjJPcWRYNl8zaG1RcFlvMFk2eVk2dlcyNm9WS2JYZXVPX09NQkJxYzhxTFo0X19yakFXNkdsZTFrVnR2LVMySXhJbWhyOG9lOW1VSFlabGVieHZmS1puR05adzdpQ2VSME16LU04UFVkSjcyTUxSdkFEdUtudm9iOGw3NGRPZz09 |
For context, I am a late Gen Z girl. I have a 14 year old nephew and a 12 year old niece.
The boy is obsessed with his appearance. He gets a broccoli cut perm every 2 weeks. He wears skincare prpducts, counts his macros, does "mewing" and chews jawline gum, and his christmas list is all brand name clothes.
The girl stares at herself constantly in the mirror, wears mascara and perfume, and insists on wearing the shortest shorts and skirts possible. Her christmas list is stuff from sephora.
I mean, I get that they're teenagers and focused on their looks, but as a kid I don't remember caring NEARLY this much about my appearance. When I was my nieces age I was collecting pokemon cards and MAYBE putting sparkly lip gloss on. When I was 15 the guys my age openly had acne without worrying and spent their time in baggy clothes playing video games or skateboarding.
Am I hallucinating? Is this an isolated case of 2 kids being unusually appearance focused, or is there a trend of kids being hyper aware of their appearance? Or was I just unusually un self-conscious as a kid? | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRDVUY2RxQV9UUmNpa1NFNjJyNzdBeXM4Q0NRdHpKVTRlUTc1SDFIZEZlV0QtQnowdkVSV2NUWGFYTUJyd3EtTXA0SUZ6Q1dlVXFLc3NXOVNXVzl6ODNwTUFBZ0I0S28wUmhtX3Q1YzdGckk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza1RqdVlnTkpiUDBZemJLS2paMHM5RzRXSW5iUm1aQ2lDN2p4Q0Ruc1U3UVh4NDVHNlppWkVSSEEtRXdqX0dQSzhGN05wTXdvdkZqenZrbmZNclRpbVlWZVRwUlJLUUJ0aHpBT3BXT3RRTmVIU2pLRFNISU9GTDB4VVU0V1FhRThiQW9PZjlreEhMSk9yekNNSWx6U2Nzb1labHpDMmlUeTZHaFd6Q3otYlFpZ3VoelNsd1hDcF9CYlpXcVpoSjhGZVVtVnJ2SDNlRmlFVTBNUE53aDRkQT09 |
In case you haven't checked it out already, here is RetoSwap's new website:
[https://retoswap.com/](https://retoswap.com/) | r/monero | post | r/Monero | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVmdBc1lOTExmZjFZTXdLMFBRQzhTaWhwdHg1bjI0V2VIbUNmblB2SWlpY0t3NVhRNTBNR0hScnNJYXktcXVuai1ORkhrVDdORHJJOXg5dGVna0xTRHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbGkwbkxkN0JjVlR4Q3luWjFNOUR4N2pnZVR0NUlDczdRaDlUek9Ob2dKU0JqbjgtV1luR2ctWkFub1VXZkhER3hJT3VSNnJWMDNIOGxVLVBvTlc1czR0aXdZTFRpNklCcmxEb19RTWJVZmtWbWxPTkZJNzQwZDlYSk8yOFhYcjhMVHRLQTQzLW9wU3BnUXkxVTF4WWJZOXltWmUtSUYxZnQ4N3dTTW1PX2NiMlQ1eGNIaDJZbzRXNjR1Y1V5SFVDWEtrQTN0dnZSTC1kaTFwZ2xxbGhQdz09 |
Reposting with movie title in the header. | r/movies | post | r/movies | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZ3E2ZUlrNjZtUlJvRFp1V2ZpbmlKQ1JxNGNhdzI0SWhEc1FOSUFyWUlUYjRBTDNyb3BHUDdjNXdpUE5aVlhKV2w2a1I0eWpJRUdDMnZrY24zcHhEU1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRVh5eWtva3NxY0lIZVF4RDA5VkFTT19qMWtHNjR3YkZFLWdqRXZZWnF6UkI1ZG8wQjlVWkg3SzZCYmYxb0loaXg2ZDk1cFhCQVV0X1UwMGs0RDhZcTBDUi1hR1BBMFhpM3VuRVdyVGpVNWZVUUNyNjBQRWZqM1hvTml5eDA1Wmp2UFgxanh4dzNjbXpXMWVhYUxRWDJjUVVnTHMwZV9VcFd3dUQtSkV3S1ZmaFBjSFpxTzBYQWQzRktzRmZpNXpY |
If consumerism destroys our planet, it won't be my fault. | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyUWJySndZellxX1RLNWItVy0wYnlQNkRfWDdObHJZSUJ0eTNNcWQtdzRhR1lfbTZUS3pVVFpBUWEyTGRaYUlfWURCbkdndjBDLWpqclMxOGhFbzhMcnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzV0xtemVmN21KaVlvWHcxWlBJZXJsc2FmZTRKdy03VmRhS194aGlHak1vYXJER2lmakh0VHczb0twT1JxeUNLWldhOTJOVWlXQjdMLThnR3p6RWNfUlNlTXpvLVQtd1BWcVl2TktDRUJIbG5Bc3RFZHplZFBLT0RXN3otLXJ5UnQ5bm5sSFBqLXhPU1ExLWt0U01UeF9rekZPMTBsWnFwZk1oZHFuRTdXNk1nPQ== |
The kiddos had a week-long break, i
I had a 4 day weekend. My 6yo has been a teenager for 5 years so monday is going to be a dramatic, emotional Rollercoaster of defiance and mood swings. On that note, does anyone else remember first grade being such a soap opera? I get my popcorn and listen with interest to learn about who sat with who, what kid got in trouble, and a 3rd grade boy my daughter likes because hes funny. | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFydkotempmYi1FS2F3NWRfOFJ0WTBwQ2ZnVmczZTV4c2k3RHAxMU5qUENXelZyR2Q1WS04SlM5T0c1bHJkbmVEQmg2cFNDZVQ5dTBTRlIzUVpGWTk1OXZKNHhYV1ZpVlQ5UTNZTVgtSlhhbVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTUxaQmRKUnRuWkVEamRoOW5TTGlEdU04YzN3VDhhMXE0ZWM1SFBuWDhOZzFJNnE0Y1ZXMFd5YUxPOVFnSWNtejZFamlzSVk0anJQdmlweUFsanNqOVFQZ2FSYjQxQnBSeEZpOVBjdC02WVhCNUNHUUdjVzdvdHI3cjAxUTY2aXV4VW54aUFuZ1RKcTFBQzkxTmstd0cyZkhFQld6UlpOVlpCRHgyQ3pWMjNrPQ== |
I got this text from my friend this morning. He’s 31 years old. Here’s what I’ve thought to take into account so far:
- years spent in a diaper
- average poops per day
- average wipes per poop
Outside of that, I haven’t come up with any more factors to consider. | r/theydidthemath | post | r/theydidthemath | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyeHVoY1VDMUJya0R0VnNzZWQ0dWhMN3RJOUZrbWRKQXJwcWRkc0I4ZXk3UVg1QTl3YW5mR0FvT3I3NU5VWWQxNjhPdjZYMWg3dXpoRkd5VUg4VkR3b2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTlc1QkRRb2V6VFU0SG5GVzZxOVpVRTBEbW42blJadGoyYXc1T1M0eDRjYzJZMDZWMmhZUlNPNVM4dzFRU1FpVkFOYTByZTFYOE83Uk8wVzVXZkN6eW91QWVUUmZfU2U2M3hQaU9kVEZvTGZNTkRPekxTVlpaUG5QMFVhYkZTb0pHQVo5TGJqRHEwc0VabXlFNFlXMENab0RrYi1IT0pTWENvdGJaeWtMZDVrcWtaaWs3NWstUlpoWFlIakZ5cW9HbW5qREVmazNJUXVoYVAySjdLZFB3Zz09 |
There must be some common viewpoint expressed constantly on r/AskMen, at which you roll your eyes at. | r/askmen | post | r/AskMen | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNUlvajB3VFlMQnhqQTZEZE1lR3ZDVXJpZVpxekd2dVFrM2tWVDctTjE0NnU0a2x3aGlkc2stTHljSmJjVlNONjhjX0tpR1pCNXUtUUJrVHk5VFVsMEFNRHNUSzVubVV4UWlWRW9La01MREU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZEFET1kzUG44bC1OcUxIb1J1M1h6LUVmU3JQLUtid2Zvb3pPNTJ2NHF4N05RN3F3b0lnaDlUSm14dmNtak1LVmdGWWpsdkNRbWpLTWtFUEQ2cDY3TElNeUNnVU1wcHJ1VUdmdW5rQXdzZ01ERVNvYzgzdXNJLVNWbUVRbTRmWlZJU2UzQ3loVTVIcmZ0Z0ZHc3htVTY0N2xXZHE1RVlKYnpQd25ZLWQ1VEI5NHhuUU1iVFdVY1g0YXpVYVpSbDNaWWoyN1NGRjFrOVRMRU1oc0RiM3VaQT09 |
I find it odd that is considered offensive to say Asians are model minorities because it is totally fine to assume all white men benefit from white male privilege.
The holidays bring out the worst. My family member shuts down when I say things such as bleaching is common in a particular culture BUT thinks IT IS OKAY to blame white people for all the world atrocities and to say white people are more evil than other cultures.
Why is she quick to correct me if I mention certain cultures prefer light skin so bleaching is common YET she has NO ISSUE stating white people are more evil? | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNE0zQ0ZNcEQtWnd6cUZWVjRFdTd1czhfbHNsUkRRSFZkUDBDZFJXN1pDcklVbFJJWWc5Q2VmVG51YTFaRWhiS05ZZEhBakxNQ0g3Q2VOOXljNmY2Nnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzekozOGM1dkl4VHo4ZjRTR0FiS0Iwc3JSWWxCUFNWM3pxckFmZjlqSk5OM2ROY0xLeVFoSHBnY0YybkNXSFdMWVBKa2pCeV90TVQyVVFCQnpobXktdnBzWHc1TGFOcEF4ZTZtQ2VfQ3RValI5WElHZC0zSmZ0TWVLTktRakJpWEE5NzNxRjI0NUNJZ3U2YzBuckJwNTh2b09EN0ctbldoYm9SWGE4eHFxTndkUURfMGUzVlc1YjN0S3BhUy1fYjZ1aGpzM0YyZGpKc09XenBxQ2RvLVQyZz09 |
What one can notice on old photos and videos is that almost every guy wears a suit. It does not just apply to family photos when we can expect people to dress smart. Almost every time I see photos or videos of everyday people in, say, 1900s, they all wear suits. Everyone: a child, a milkman, shipyard workers, you name it.
My questions are:
1) is this impression correct? Did people in the past would generally wear smart everytime they left home? Or maybe I let myself believe that since such sources were more likely to last and are more popular when you type "Paris in 1920" on YouTube?
2) If I am more or less right - why was that a case? And why did it change?
As a footnote, my impression refers to Europe and North America, simply because I am more familiar with sources from these areas and cultures. Context from different places is welcome! | r/askhistorians | post | r/AskHistorians | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFydFVVcFlMRmpCaEhpeVk1eFh6VkYtMlY2R2hKUWNmN000X0FIMi1XZmc3MnY2ZC1WdEFsUjg4SU5rakthb1plTHEwdVFhWjBoQVhyaW5lcUNvU0tzSHE2LUVwdzBQeng2ZkJlRXMzSkUxUW89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZkMtX1pFbDdRQWpzQkJsdGhxenlyT0p3MTNjMmJHcFRxSzYydUFGU3YzLUNWZlJibXdkdXlYMFN0cXFEamNSYllQNi1LRXU1SmgzSGkzRklNd3YyRzVWQlRSdjVCYkpDTWhUSERHQnc3RFB6cTJQTmJNaFVXd1p6SENSS3gyTW53VEJxQlREZGw3Rkx5S1JILWJnbjhycFhDcTRHWERIV2tyYzQtbUJFcEw2Y2c3QnMzbzR5UmZxRmZJYndYMF9qS1A1VGtyWnp3T09XRTZkLUVIOTNlUT09 |
I feel like I have a good grasp on the history leading up to the genocide, including the Tutsi / Hutu hierarchy that predated the pseudoscientific eugenics imposed by the Belgians.
What I have trouble grasping is the absolute; frenzied slaughter that led countrymen to kill fellow countrymen; including neighbours, in laws and friends. Not just killed, but hacked apart with machetes.
In reading “Shake Hands with the Devil” by Lieutenant Dallaire, and also watching his documentary, he described the killing as a frenzy, that the perpetrators were drunk on violence, showing 0 remorse for a level of violence that cannot be taken much further. Hacking with machetes, rapes while HIV positive, torture etc…
I know these acts are not unique to the Rwandan genocide, but something about the absolute blood lust that over took the nation and led to 1 million dead in such a short time really has me wondering.
Can it be answered by religion, psychology, history, human nature deeply imbedded in us?
I apologize if I broke any subreddit rules, I did look before posting this, please let me know if have to correct anything.
Thank you in advance to any historians that answer. Although the topic is grim, I feel we do the world a service speaking about it, as still so many don’t even know anything about the horrors that befell Rwanda in 1994 (the year of my birth).
| r/askhistorians | post | r/AskHistorians | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVlBTbkhuMzBudzhoSy1PelYzdkloZEVudHZkYUJ5Vk85Y3I1NFpLdVV3eVd5S0JLNHJMTGM1ZktSS0hjX0VKa0p0dWRreDU3bWZEUjlER3kzMFR2Y3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzalFHYVFxeXlyX196WlJ2T2VzSnBkU1cxekJjZjlzMjF4MTlTb0VhSlR1Vmhfb1F5N0ZUQjBYOExQZlpLTjhYY1NoR3liRlAwRlJsY1hSMk96SVh1OWY1SHhNRWNsSXpoSnNPSi1KcVczZGY1ZWt4OVlMZXYzcjBSTHM0cThxbFNDYjlDcFB5T0dORTA3WmthWkJ5M3kwMXJrd05UWVhNa1JmUnJYbDlUYVhfTEJIa005elVCTHJ0T3VoM0dnZTFlcDdJLUs3cS1OSGhVRHc3c1ZrYXJPQT09 |
So I have two questions:
1. Say a validator have 1m dot subscribed to it. And the validator charges 1%, does that means that the validator is getting 1% of the entire reqard for the 1m dot subscribed? So say the avg yearly reward is around 10% for nominators, so the validator would earn 1,000,000 * 10% * 1% = 1000 dot?
2. What would you say really is the technical requirement to become a validator? Im an experienced software engineer.. but would you say it’s a full time job or? | r/polkadot | post | r/Polkadot | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyS1hmblhSZ0NLUG9sMUJKQW1JcTZfdDJMTDVDc29MelV0b08zcWFjVHRzTkNlMW13cm5DUHZieFEyT1h0TDROZEQ0dlloTmVNb2tJdDkwLW9wLXZ1OG9YMEdLbWZjT3AwUWRrUVBTV1BEdUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZmlUdDlCdDkwX3htUElZSDcwTDRVczVCMy1PN1dxeUJaNGhaZTNKSDZtQURpTTRrQ25RUDhDTDNuSE1zTEpTWVlldjBmZHQ5bldKMldfbFhQdl8xQkpZSjlRdlc3cWxQdFhQaFdBS0VjYWVMSjE3T01RUElNSGM0VHBJTkVwUHNCT05lMGxJamZuM296Nm9tajN1c3RmLW0wdDBSZ0JrREVmMF9SUEcxR3FtM2M3aE1peEJlTXlyejRaT041WExW |
Hi there, long-time reader but a first time poster. The long and short is that my for about six years now my husband has been a Freemason and I've always supported him on this. My grandfather was a Freemason so it's not really 'new' to me or anything and I don't believe in any of the conspiracy crap you find online. But I'm starting to think it may not be the best for him. My grandpa always used to say it went Family, Work, Masonry but in my husband's case its more Masonry, Masonry, Masonry, then Family, then Work, then Masonry again. He attends Lodge nearly *every* night (For context my grandpa would go a couple times a month) and yet he's only a Fellow Craft so not a part of the add-on things like the Scottish Rite or Shriners or anything. I genuinely don't know how he has the stamina for it because I'm a part of an improv theatre club and frankly every other week is enough. Some times he's gone for hours, other times an hour or even less. When I ask him what he's doing he gets defensive and says he can't tell me because he has to maintain secrecy. I knew full well there'd be some 'lessons' and ceremonies I wouldn't exactly be getting a front row seat for but I don't think it's that unfair I ask what he could be possibly doing that occupies him practically daily. Hell some days when he comes back early, he goes to his man cave do to *more* work for them. Apparently he's volunteered to do admin work for his Grand Lodge but like...when does it end? He doesn't get paid for any of this and he *spends* so much on dues to actually do this!
I've even tried to get involved via the OES (something I've always wanted to be a part of) but he point blank shut it down and said that we can only look into that when he becomes a Master Mason which is apparently still "years away". And it's not even just our marriage it's affecting, some weeks he's out so late with his Lodge buddies, he doesn't take care of himself. There's been times he hasn't worn clean clothes or shaved and plenty of times he's gone into work without showering. Sometimes he doesn't even go into work and just calls in hours late to say he's been called for urgent lodge business. His boss is too good to him and let's it slide because he's genuinely blown away my husband's in the Masons and thinks these meetings must be dead important. Like I get a lot of these guys are going to be retired but Jesus Christ surely they have to know how it works? It's making a bad impression with people and I genuinely can't remember the last time we did a thing together as a couple. Plus our bedroom has been dead for at least a year which I've sort of put up with because I have a low libido but I guess it's just another symptom. Every time I ask him to do *anything* he just tells me he's too tired.
I guess how do I get it across to him his Masonic life needs to slow down. It's not even affecting just me, it's affecting our whole lives but I don't even know where to begin. I don't want him to leave the Masons just...maybe calm it down a little so we have our lives back. How can I get this across to him without seeming that I'm jealous of the secrets or I want to worsen the wedge between us. Btw I did actually email the WM his Lodge to just say I'm kind of worried for him but I've not heard back yet and if they're all this active not sure how much help he'll be. Thanks for any advice!
Edit: WM just emailed me. Apologized for taking his time and explained my husband has not been a member of that lodge for at least five years, having left just under a year after he joined. Apparently he had "difficulties with the leadership" and had been repeatedly cautioned for "soliciting" the other lodge members. He told me checked with other lodges in the area and none of them have any record of him switching so it seems he demitted entirely...
Edit 2: [Update post here](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1h6dfnn/update_my_35f_husbands_34m_dedication_to/) | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFya0JmUUsyUUhkaEtOMlQ1NjhuNi1JU3pMZm96alZ0Nm5KMG51eTBiV1pabE5SWmRrdkQ2VDJZaXp5SExnNWNFOHluQnNXRThaRFVFLU1hZVhxNVQxc3U4cjBrWHQ5RENzYmFjcXdXaE9MSDg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQmItcGQ2ankzcGpEZUZubTcxQ2Myb3Y1eHdGSDZXdUVidDYzMjRqWng4RkFZTHNha2tDdUNXT1dkOFNITll2dWpCT0dXTEJYMFRsWjV6SkgydHVyUzN6blFUaVpwTWdyb0NORUtOaDVFTDlrWGRaNXFDcFV5SnBkUmZKX0puc3RPdEE3aUdHdkJRaS1CSWZaUHAzMk04c0NhVzhBRk0yYk84NzhBbkFwbkNtaE9XSU5uQnhZZE9OSFVCcllYQ2tULVFVa1hPdWhvNkdPcjk5c3FhaklZUT09 |
Link to Netanyahu claiming this: https://youtu.be/f9HmkRYlVZw?si=PJkUBSMaBbX5mnLq | r/askhistorians | post | r/AskHistorians | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNnZnOHZHbkxkLXBwWjcySG9HaW1veDlWS3I0bE9uZ3doOFNnRTNmblNlcF9fVzlxNldpbjBwTnJ5SUJKX0FVeUNadUdqZlpXdVBzQ2NhOXRFbkZZb3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTTJNLU82M2htVzBnMGtlR3dHX3BxZFc4Q1lBWnVMTDhmQUVJNzdSRkN4U0tOLTdZdmtoYm9jY0VwVF80T3pLTDgxa1cwSTJETkJZUnFjUk5ERDdZLThzX29Hd2dYS3VTSHFjVTUtZEdoUzh3Qnc4VUlrQTRnbE1qV2tnWWU0NzRsclpTQjA4VFl1Y2NEWE1SQWdDc0NqcnNPMG9DU1hRLVR6NUFlS0dRblJ0Z1lZYnhIVUpYSVMtVzJvOGtGbnIxR0NURXJyeGRFaEl5cUlrQ1dQdU9HQT09 |
Alright, so I (20F) went to my boyfriend Jake’s (22M) family’s Thanksgiving dinner last week. We’d been dating a year, and this was my first time meeting the whole squad, so I was already kinda nervous. Before we left, Jake joked about how his family was super traditional and said I should “be ready” for some old-fashioned vibes. I just laughed it off.
Dinner starts and everything’s fine until Jake suddenly goes, “Hey everyone, we have big news!” I’m sitting there like, what big news? Then he grins at me and says, “Tell them, babe.”
I’m panicking, so I just sit there confused, and his mom is already emotional asking if we’re engaged or something. Then Jake drops, “She’s pregnant!”
Y’all, I am NOT pregnant. I immediately start denying it, but Jake’s cracking up, saying it’s “just a joke” and telling me to “play along.” His family isn’t laughing. His mom legit FAINTS, his dad starts yelling, and his grandma is praying under her breath.
I’m mortified. I stand up and go, “Actually, the real joke is Jake thinking I’d stay with someone who’d pull this,” and I walked out. Jake’s been blowing up my phone saying I embarrassed him and “ruined Thanksgiving.” His family is apparently mad at me for causing drama, but like… I didn’t announce a fake pregnancy and traumatize his mom??
AITA for walking out and leaving him to deal with the mess? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFySTluWWRCU1BYWWZNQ05wanFpSkdJMHdhR1RhTUJBSzJLc1FNMkhpWEZZczZJZDJwdlNaanY5VHBCM1VpY0hFdEIyZUEzVWRxWGh0OHp1VFhKOXdWM3JVZldJSUJKWk1TdnAwM1Z6bEo5NTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzS0xjdC1ISWtHdTV0Nno1eXV1TUlSVGNFNTRnSXZYUVlDRlg0ZTNGQkU5ZkJHV3ZuWDZKd3ZFX08yc1lKV2gzNHl5RkJ3eExBeVBYYkc4dEdUeUQ3RFh3X1BOeWxLNkNhOFJGakowQVk5OTR0Q2RXcFY2QmJvd0lfaU5XeGlrc2dQM19qdmlvS3FhT0lETDcxMjBPYnU0bzRMRG55TktjR3hJZGZTcjZkY1ctMjR0QzhUTUctb0dqVE5LRlRJMnYtdkhPNFBCTVU1dXVGeHBESktsNXkzdz09 |
Video by Ezz Gaber
I’ll link the live links in the comments | r/europe | post | r/europe | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOGttYVM4dzhYdVFhTGhWeTlGQlpXZ0V5ekxqb1dFQXpkd0hoano3eVB5U1dveWptUWlxUmRta1ZHb0ZCX0RkSXBPUW83MzQ4VTNUOHBWNWc0eEo2WWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZ0hpek5IQ25VZFZNTnBIWVZEa1J1b0N3Vml6NEFkWlVsVklQUmVjcjNkYkxVUERIVWw2eWhsSGs0cjBpNi1qQVViOVlLc0UwdFdIVzE4NDVTVlV2cFpxUXNpTm9MX05QQm0zcHduay0tMTlPSUMybXBwdU5nZDJ2TmZHcXZRb2d4UHFMTGtmMlJrbzlmQzJCdlpuaC1EU21NQnBXR0FfTXNpaXZaaWFHZ25yZlFiREh5TUhDZmFXeGU1X3llTl9p |
I (20F) am in a tough situation, and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting, so I need some outside perspectives.
I’ve been with my fiancé, Charles (35M), for about two years, and everything seemed fine until recently. A few weeks ago, my 14-year-old sister, Amy, came to stay with us for just a few days while our parents were out of town. During her stay, I started noticing some really unsettling things.
At first, I thought I was imagining it, but Charles started making comments that made me feel incredibly uncomfortable. He would call her "so hot" and would say things like, "You’re going to turn heads when you’re older," and "You’ve got such a body on you already." The worst part was when he said, "I’d be jealous if I were your boyfriend, every guy will be looking at you soon."
I tried to ignore it at first, but it kept happening, and I began to feel sick to my stomach. Then, one evening, I overheard him telling a friend on the phone, “Amy’s got that look now… it’s like she’s starting to bloom." It was honestly one of the creepiest things I’ve ever heard. I felt like I was losing my mind, and I just knew I couldn’t stay in that relationship anymore.
I confronted him about his behavior, and he immediately got defensive. He denied it and said I was being “paranoid” and that I should trust him. He insisted that he was just being “nice” and that I was overreacting.
I didn’t care. I packed my things, broke off the engagement, and moved back in with my parents. Now, my friends and some family members are telling me I overreacted. They say I should’ve “talked it out” with him first, but I don’t see how that would’ve changed anything.
So, AITA for breaking up with my fiancé because of his creepy comments toward my little sister? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQk50OWNrRDdDTjhJM3FIbzVkU25BNlZycC03b29UZTgxWnhISjZSXzhIZERnU3R5QWhyWFV2RnhmWEdqNWVXWDVSOG5RT0lmZDVMY0RoMkpjcVcwcXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzV04xSVhtTzRBLXdYTUQ3UmozSWgzanlIUE5WMXlBdjFXVzBIa2dlVVYzLXNITW1kZC1jMlhTeVdMd0pFeEQ0WkxkZFI1aEJLc0czbzlOUnFpd0hGeDRHU2U4c1FIUVNMOHRQNEYtazRqb0dxMkwwa1BnZ2Z2NXo4NW9yMl9HaS02UWpMaFlsNklXZ2pCYkFOU3dHTXhjRllidU9GQUNYLXgyRWFwVVphMGZjN3NjRnVjSHIyMF9LSFU5U2xsNTBM |
We are a cis lesbian couple and we have been together for a couple of years. We live together and we love each other very much. The sex is good but it's mostly the same, we use our hands and oral. Before our relationship I did have sex with cis men. This was 6+ years ago and she knows I now only want to be with her. She has only been with cis women.
I've have always had a curiosity for strapons and dildos but I have never tried them, so I don't even know how I feel about them. I just know I want to use them with her. The difficulty is that my girlfriend thinks I want to use a strapon because I used to have sex with cis men. I have tried suggesting to look into it a few times but she does´t seem enthusiastic about it. One time she did say she maybe wanted to try it, but I will have to "convince" her. I really want to try some new things in the relationship but convincing someone to do something sexual sounds wrong to me. The cost is also a big thing. It's alot of money to just try and maybe never use again.
Are there people that had doubts about things like this and that are now into it? How do I talk to her about this?
| r/sex | post | r/sex | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFySHpGWS1EdWdudmFwVElycGhqNUdTSlY4eUVUQmhGa2lodk1Sc1A0TW82WUozT0Jyd3lDTXBXR2FMOXF0enJDVVVxVnU5MTFTREVMbXBRM1ZYSkxIYm1mOGtoSS1fd1BwZVlNUHZMU1BSNlU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNkhMZVloYUJ2eXg5OHhERVRWS0V6a0k3ejIwWEpkNmJLWVJDTFFTWWgzSU5OZUJIeGVZOVFXd0pIWkxlb29lTk5jU1poLUhYa1Ytb2RWbHh0ZmtteXVKRzloSUhGSXIwekZXZjJVNjZnQ056UWpUWnJBa2gtSHNZa21JdU5BWWVZVEdqOFdvNVBzN1lybl9ta20zdm9MbTZsY2dYc3MxWXJGTHhhX1gySmpuODg5T1pfYlBQTVl1MDF6aGhyNFBD |
Two weeks ago I got invited to a baby shower from a friend who I haven’t seen in years. She moved to another state but had apparently moved back and now is having her baby shower here. I was so excited since I haven’t seen her in so long. She started a gc with all the mutuals she invited. She did disclose that this was gonna be a quick and small one since she had just found out she was pregnant when she was 35 weeks with an induction scheduled on her 37th week.
We all started volunteering to be responsible for different things for the baby shower. I said I’ll cook Filipino food and help pay for some of the decor. I sent money to the friend who was in charge of decorating. I asked mom-to-be how many people are invited besides the ladies in the gc. She told me 15. There’s 10 of us in gc including me so I thought I’ll cook for 50 people to be on the safe side just in case she invited a few more. I started shopping for ingredients for the lumpia, pancit, chicken adobo and rice and a grazing table. I started prepping and coordinating with the decor lady. We figured where we wanted the food and grazing table and told the MTB. She approved.
Now the day before her baby shower, I spent the WHOLE day cooking. I took off the day(I only work part time since I’m the primary caretaker for my baby while my man works). Mind you, I had to arrange for my MIL to watch my baby while I did all the cooking and for me to go to the baby shower. I didn’t want to bring my baby since I would be busy with the catering. It was by luck she was off those days.
Then the night before the baby shower, she dm’ed me on ig that she had to ‘make some hard decisions’ and had to uninvite me but still ‘want’ me to drop off the food. I told her I understand and respect her decision but I will NOT be dropping off the food. She asked me why and I told her it wouldn’t make any sense for me to drive 75 minutes to drop off food to an event I’m no longer invited to. That the ONLY reason I volunteered to do what I said was because I was invited. She asked me how she was gonna find someone to cater on such a short notice. That it was f’ed up and hateful.
A few friends sided with her while most sided with me. I want to know from a stranger’s perspective if I’m the a-hole?
EDIT :
1 - I don’t know the full story about her pregnancy. She told me that she went to an OB checkup because her period was unusually heavy and long. They found out she was 35 weeks pregnant and was having complications which is why they scheduled an induction.
2 - I’ve already sent the ss of the dms to the 10 mutuals. THREE out of the 10 sided with her which prompted me to post this because maybe I’m missing something. I was being told that I should’ve been ‘an actual friend’. That I should’ve been the bigger person. That she was going thru a rough time with her pregnancy.
3 - MTB never disclosed to me why she had to make a hard decision and why I was uninvited which. The whole point of us 10 volunteering was to take off the burden off her shoulders. Our mutual friend who was the decor lady was the first one to reach out to me about me not being there since she and I coordinated where the food was going to be at. She’s also the one that told me that MTB was telling her and other people that I got my feelings hurt which is why I didn’t want to come. She didn’t tell them what hurt my feelings. Or how or when. I was too worn out from prepping and cooking to fire back. I took the peaceful route. I didn’t ask for the money I spent on the decor - my gift I guess.
4 - I donated all the food to the women’s and children’s shelter. I figured they’re more deserving. I cook Filipino food all the time plus I got a freezer stash of lumpia. | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNk9fWWFwSmRISGUxZlc0cXJuN201Q29nZkRFaHBwbHp0M3BLcDdWdlpjNl9jeUx0WW9SMGJmekdoY1dhb0FBal9UWmRYUThiUVBVNExxSTNROFRSQXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzS1V4T3VIOUdwNHN6WnEzS0t6UW1KNDBjUzlQTVhaeUwycTBQT1h3U0FWaFZ0X2ZEM3VVS2ZWeW9BTzFEYWRZdmZOZ3VrdTNZSnpMU2lEYW9TdlNQU0c3dGhUWkNqX2c5RXpnX0M3Rldoc1NqR1dSNmREckFFdGhCVEU0WW03dVdwVmhPODV2MzVpS2Jla0tEa09fQVZlRUdIVnM3dzV2S0RtVE42bklsd0VLOTFKQ3NwR20yMXNuYzhsWWJ4Ti1v |
I’ve never noticed a smell but some people claim it does. If so what does it smell like? | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRXlQR2FnR2taZ2dmLXE1aThWV0xfcUNPSnBTbE50a3RTTFZYclNIZ0VYTXM1ZThLbnZTcEZadTJfU0t5RE0yZF8zamlJdlJaeWh0bHZBVWZGaDY2Q0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdWptZ04tOG5ibGw5X2VqU1ZycWI0bjJJekg3SkEyRkx5Y1hlWjJ6M1BaSzBOZEpfQ3B3dFlyZC10ZkE0SmdodHZuM1dWcExOLWxzY0Q1LWtzZGlLRWtOS3MwUVZ3V2g5SE93aWN2TDFTWF8zRkVpWVk4OGZhOW5OOEcxaW9vTjNOdEdxWVQ5akpZMF9ZeVZTZEVTT0taZDlycndvX2U5b2xDblZEVG5uMDIwPQ== |
Hi .
I often keep on seeing this kind of transaction on charts of different coins from same wallets.
They keep on trimming coins with small margins.
It looks obviously like a bot.
What kind of bot are we looking at ?
How do people deploy it?
Does it require bigger leverage or anything special about it?
Anyone has any idea? | r/solana | post | r/solana | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFySnZtZ1VmT2NXNks4Z2pCM0s3SlNXSDU5eUZydjZTbFpJS2VGRl8tMTFzUXNvYWdkS253YUgwdHA2SmtDeUVJQVc0TjF0YzNld2x5aGVhNFpKanZNaFp1SWw5bzRxRkV2RE91WDNkN3dFVVE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRDE2LTV5U3ZQbHRmUDczcHlqSGFCYUxJbkVCWldoVWk2UkU1MGRwM1R0TzJ6QXBoRVN6WGNGQXFabW9SeXR0d2NZRGF6UklTalU1Tm4wR0xMdHA2TDJjRDcxMktFZXZqc2VrdkZXM2pIUHh1ODVFanVqOVlDV1E2NkF1N1ZBbGIxeTUtc2ZhT0VQU1BSOW9Va1FKanVOaThhS1Axd3NXTEduN191NFJaNl9TVjFTTmdnX0oxaHVjMi1xbHQwb0Fr |
Just now, I was gonna be watching some videos on that site and let's just say, I'm really into the noises the people in the videos make..
Anyways though, I quickly connected to my Bluetooth headphones but it turns out I actually connected to my father's Surround System, in the living room, where he happened to be. I then put it on full volume and pressed play but to my shock I heard the intro blasting from downstairs (the floor was even shaking, the whole neighborhood heard that 😭) and then I quickly disconnected.
I hear my father shouting that we're gonna have a talk about that after dinner. You should know my father is a pretty religious guy and porn was always a big taboo in the house. He even blocked it so he will now know, i used VPN to access it.
I think I'm gonna get a beating now... Just wanted to share this, perhaps someone can at least get a laugh out of this.
TL;DR: Played intro, my father will punish me | r/tifu | post | r/tifu | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycEZxRzQtRzlBc3otWkx5TzZNVG9QY2JpTFpCa2QtbkhrcWFsU0l2LWwwZU5kanc3Z2twWmVacTV0ekxLOXhqZ1VEWkZaMVZoX21NUjdPaXRhOVlaZFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZExIaDZKRkNrUkxFckFKMk5adTF5dGdfcmhNYTVsOGRZdnpObkl3TEdCbUtWMm5hc0F4SkZCR3ZOWHh6NGNBTzA4cjNEM3dZemxlZXdwMEZTcERqSW4yNTh6dThjbFdQcDg0RmtCLXJGQzI1ZEpEVmJIa0J5c01HaUdNc1hUNlYwakJoWTdYelllaXFUa1BzQlRIVVlKUTVmM2RWekY0QnVEQm1OVFlmYTNxR2F2SWsyOTE2a1BkcjZSdFF0eWpk |
Any dollar you walk away with is some genius who thought they could play the shitcoin game as well.
You’re all pumping, rugging, dumping on each other.
The losers will rarely post losses, by the way. | r/solana | post | r/solana | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyTG1lSmtaOHh6anc5QjY4RW0ta2hLX1daRlJ6UExzdF9CTU55RkFMRGs3S2dmZFVUTm9JdnlFRkhvXzd6b2dmRjNMYjliUnZoRVcwVDYyekRGQ3QxdGlodWhCSEEwdUdMOWZaaG94STVVOFk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMDRpNXFQNGREdDFlUkxBNnNhVzdhOWRVOHdSVFN6NF9UZnNDRUUxZlA1dnVXb0lNMVF3TWVGTkd4c0tpdUxIVHBHbUlkQmpERkN1Y25HU1B3NG9nS3R4MnhjNkNCcU9ZUkhRNHlwRHhDdFZGS2RfOFpENWdKT1kyV0x6OHFXVXdEWlZMZEpWWnREU2RBSy1JWTJXUFEtOVpWbk90ZWtpVUhPa3ZyMno3cnktZVlFTF9SUTlDWlZ6aDRWY0E3eU5DeVczYjdNWE9MYldPcTRUZ0c2RDhOUT09 |
Why is Filecoin pumping today so hard? I barely follow it anymore because it felt old and stale but it's surging about 7 bucks today | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNTRWdk1jYjBuZXFIdWtmZXRPU0h6cUQtY0ptLTNUM0R5SmluQVU4Ri1yMGhrb0x1NTJOWDFBS3pKYUdjc2hhNS1pa3A2SUhRVFBGZ3p4ZkVtbHpreWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOWplYnZzOEo3QWYzb2RCWVMtZmJXbnlYNHU0ZlRvUHZaOERNQXk2TmhlbU1WRHdEU3A1bEpsX0F2ZU04ak9qbU5YMFh3dnVoeFhwNERXd1BSSUlWUDJxOUc0TVJ6NnZOOEFNZVhWaVQxWl9BcDJ2SDJXUWpnNVp3MV9aaFRiLU5LX2dSNEtxaGhoNHcyelF0SlRVZEVSS0paMmJBeXQ4X2F4MnNDRUVOREhjPQ== |
Bots are screwing every coin no matter if it’s a rug or not. Anyone using a bot probably thinks they are Einstein when in reality if you watch the amount of risk these bots use it’s insane. $1500 buy to sell for $1505. There’s even plenty of transactions you can find that they end up selling for losses. It doesn’t make sense to me that someone would put that much risk into a bot that may end up losing you money anyways. | r/solana | post | r/solana | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRXc4YjhJUGROQmpaYWI3YWZXOHdsR2JkdWI3cWZ4d1V0STA4eHg0TjZQOGhIandRUnhmamJqQ1gybjAybUJsNFpiZG1seXRFZDg5RFNCYkw1R2s2VXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza3lTakJpSzMzTjRORTJaa2lCVWFRczBTaHJzeTNENTJvYVA1VXVjUnN3dGJ6YVAzUHJmeHdFR0JtODkyQmxfc2hPQTRjMVl6Y2NveEF0U3JpTU5vdHlGa2sxUE9oMi13LXFiTHFXcHJMeWpMTGNSMXlGSERPWWJTeTBYZkIxdkJhRmFXMUdNMWpOTmlFN0NpMWwzZ0I0RHc1VFE0YVpxTmNaUEYxbldlak9sM2RCMndWT3poTmY3SmtGcUplUzBi |
I have 2 parking spots that belong to my unit. I often have family/friends come over a lot so it was easier to pay the extra for an additional spot than having them park blocks away and walk all the way to my condo. For clarification, I already have 1 spot by default, I pay for an additional one.
Long story short, my neighbours asked me if they could use the spot from Friday morning till Sunday evening because they had relatives coming over for a short stay. I said no, but they went ahead and let their relatives park in it anyway. I called management the moment I noticed it on Friday when I was on my way to work and management clamped the car immediately, so the neighbours had to fork out 100 bucks to have it unclamped.
They banged on my door the moment I got home from work in the evening and cussed me out for calling management and having their car clamped. They are now repeatedly demanding I pay them the 100 bucks they spent to unclamp the car.
The one and ONLY reason I said no to them was because a few months ago, when I was trying to submit something before a really close deadline, my wifi stopped working and when I asked them if I could just borrow theirs for a few minutes so I could submit my work, they said no and shut the door on me. By the time I got in my car and drove to a nearby cafe, I missed the deadline. They just knocked on my door again today to bring it up again and I told them to fuck off and get lost during our heated argument, which has made them even angrier.
My train of thought here is that they didn’t help me out, so why should I help them out? They’re even more upset because other neighbours have used my additional parking spot before (with my permission) so they don’t understand why they weren’t given the same treatment. My friends think I should apologise here and try to defuse the situation as to not escalate the issue any further and cause more tension.
AITA here for being petty in the first place, as well as telling them to fuck off? Should I apologise? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRkZpbUcyWGxKLWY0dy1BT1hSRVhHR1N4NTBuZlhMOHhIUkRFSVByUUtRNUVYdjZua05yakh0ZEw0OTh6Tl8zdTZmeFh6YkhiY1BLckhkSFhDSnV1WVVUbkRrS0JLemx6MHFRemhra0lTQTQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVHpPQ0I1UDFhSUhRNG1kbmVaQVVmU2ZTUkp2V0RuQnhxSHg2SGJjSElUYWJEVHNMWkVlVG9EOVpkYWlXU0plSFp3LS1WRkNNNW00MFQxOXhCRHJveWhOWnliWFl6UmZYQUNxbGF5WlcxQXZkZXdHWS1VUXVGQmlaeW9teFhvakN1SVdRcVdTQmFydktMak5xUzdhaFZ2aU9UcVAwM0lXdVJHRVBXOU9wSDZzTjZ1MUxZOHowMktOUFNDUjRwNEZvNEx0V3FxOEJFYlp3c1pkM1hkbS1NQT09 |
Photo from the March 2023 protests | r/europe | post | r/europe | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyUkdEQXN1QlFpb0NVR05obEo5TjBFOXVPTE5Pc3d6aTFtcnNIT3A1dVB5SFNINkZBQlZrUks0LU1ONjZSTkdwTzRIa3NpLTN1VUU3cjZwRHZ1V0ZwSmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzcWJobHdQUmlpcFhiYk8zTjlXTGFMYmpKRDYwU3FpZFRmMk5oY2lQelpFUF92UXNGR3BIZjBhME9pV3E1VEx2OG9lRkwzdHZYM3FrRnRlRThvWHVsVWp6X054QlBuak1sNjNuWHZSdWxBMThkdXoxTjZwNWpUQVhHRDFoc1lQalIwYWM4dVZYOWt0SFkyQXJHNUtYSEt2NW5wMkdxeUxHSXdkX2lmbXdrbFVySzQzWE1zWmJsY2hsQTZ0cFNQTmRjMjROc1EyMWRhal9reEJiRW14WHladz09 |
Hater gonna say RIP $FIL coin. Legend say Let's goooo!!!!! | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyWlhCZVB3LW93QUxjcmNfbjFDcVlqcElLUF93VUw1dVEtRnFqUnljSEYxZDRjVTdqcUlybkhBR1QtMTh1MHc5MHBOeURDeXI4T3ZLTFZrQXZOYk1iWXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzY2tuSjJ3b3BtRzdNeWdIWllXNldDdW1MWmZZaGtyb0lZRFdzbHJfNmY4RDFTOHUwQVl4N291Qy1NZnl1NkluM3pPbjlRbkJNLVJ5aTZ3ZU01WUpldmxRVmtGdkdBZFVTeDRSMVVYVXNNSTZoYWh6YWlpc3ZYWTZwX1RYbUg5ZVMxQkhveUN4MHQ1TEVDSm55Q3BQOTZ3PT0= |
My husband asked if we could host Thanksgiving this year. We usually don’t host because our apartment is small, and we don’t have guest parking, but he was really excited. We used to host events at our old place, and it was fun. Most of our guests are friends, and everyone agreed to bring a dish. One of his friends, let’s call her Chelsey, volunteered to make the turkey.
On Thanksgiving day, one of his other friends asked if she could bring her cat. I said no pets because, as mentioned, we live in a small apartment, and it’s a dinner gathering. I didn’t think it would be comfortable for anyone, including the pets. My husband suggested we also let Chelsey know about our no-pet rule, and I agreed. I was a bit hesitant, though, because Chelsey is one of those people who likes to bring her dog everywhere. If she can’t bring the dog, she arranges for a dog sitter. In the past, she has caused some tension when her dog wasn’t allowed at other events.
I told my husband to text her to check if she was planning on bringing her dog, as I didn’t think it would be a good idea. I also offered to talk to her myself because my husband isn’t as comfortable with confrontations. He texted her, and she called afterward. He put her on speaker, and I could tell she was upset from the tone of her voice.
Chelsey told me she always brings her dog everywhere, and I pointed out that wasn’t entirely true, since we’ve been to several events where she didn’t bring the dog (which is true). She then asked why we hadn’t mentioned this before the invitation, and I explained that I didn’t think it was necessary to mention it since I assumed it was understood that bringing pets to a dinner without asking isn’t typical, especially when we don’t even have pets ourselves.
At this point, she got upset and said, “Well, I guess you’ll have Thanksgiving without a turkey then.” I was surprised because it felt like she was trying to pressure me into letting her bring the dog, implying that she wouldn’t come without it. I don’t like being pressured, especially in my own home, so I calmly responded that I was sorry she felt that way. She then interrupted and said, “No, I feel sorry for you, since you won’t have a turkey,” and hung up.
So, AITA for saying no to her bringing her dog? I feel like I was just setting a reasonable boundary, but now I’m second-guessing myself. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyYm5nVEMtVm9uTW5SLU5WMHBhOS1BdDdYWmVGTm5aaWVKejJBSnJCM2laUXJBakNuaENIcHFpYWd1Ym1DS204eFJjZzVCZWQ4WW9ld0VZUWtpY0hhQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUzBPYXNpQmh6TVdYZ3dlX2txSVJCS0FuOXBBWTljSHRVUlViSk5VQ3piQjFxM3laZC16S2R4WkZZWnlVMkFBZkc4RnZXS01YM3h0bkloSHpDLUN2UEVjcmNfT2ZoOE04Q0pNemFpT1RpQ1M4LVlLZUlsZGZSY3hobVpoTUNvbVU2WWNJY1NOUlNZVWJVV1ZzNUFJa1ZpWWN4MEUzWkdjZWFNT2JYYTI0cnU0ZUNsZjB2THNYeXZoNUxYRUl3YjlQRFVZcHdhYnEyYVJkMDd3R2dZRlhLUT09 |
Last night I 22F had my first (and half an hour later, my second) squirting orgasm during sex. Low key thought it was a myth before that. But what exactly is it/how does it work?? Did I basically pee? It didn’t smell or look like pee but like what else would it be, lol. Was a crazy experience overall
Edit: please stop messaging me asking to see me squirt or make me squirt or drink my squirt. Become normal, find a nice person and get good enough in bed together to make it happen. Jesus. | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQXFTcTFSSUdvd1dBd3pDaldzS0VqMDNvT2pJb0JWa1pxc2VXcUZsLTZndXg2VURFV2tfbFNoMDRPeTNyVW9FUzgwRTZFSUVyX3dyWHpSaGgzeG0xYkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdWR6bHYxNTlZenM1WjVWRi1hT3F5NFVjdVBtNWdVSTlLQnlzVUxFNXJZRl81SHdNYi1ac25TbFpVVVhpQjZReU1XN1N6TG1obGxUUUhRajF0UU9LR3VCMF9mSFY2WUVZaDlWUUF5Y2hGTFpjclBZSzk1YVNBTm84S2UwN200YzlLYWNfcGRNTWpnQzQybS1jOUhmS2xrbjdJdXBEQ3h1SVhrRTlwNUdONWo1dHBGaDdIeDdOcXZRa0xOTUxPQm1WdmRVVTV1QVMxUEFicUkySm9BUW9NQT09 |
Just wondering which is better quality…Banana Republic Factory or regular Gap? | r/malefashionadvice | post | r/malefashionadvice | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZGNLRVJsWE13WVF1N1VySG5ENFAxdFpKazYwcW1uSFl0WU4tR2lCYjdkd25QYnJhVVVnMEhEVWlYdUFqRDFvWDl2UFpBb3BEeXdYc1pFVUpUdFY3OGplUUpxblZSNVlWTGxhRkw3S055UGs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzaktTRXNsV213aFdPay1WSXRLNDJ3YTZZeE55MzR3MDRJZVpVME1RWmhXTGFqNTdmbHVvTV9ZYUpqZzZvZDNJaF9lWmxybGlWdzlUY1ZHNmU1UXo1aUFvdnhPZDBhMXRJXzNHa1pyOGkxQU5LVWVwbUkwcVd6T3ZmcTFsekJBbl9FV3BicGZmRzRGSDVLajY1dGpDNzZuRi1XSDJWbU9LUHh1X2hBb2g3dWt4LVZkTjZESjFLMDk3TC1rWDdpem0xZDMtRmNYY1RoQzlCTnFrVENLY0p4dz09 |
I recently went in and bought a speaker that had a sale price of $294. When the salesman brought the product out for me he suddenly but simply stated it had been opened and at the time I had no problem with it.
Then a minute later at the counter he told me that we was able to offer me an additional 3 year warranty for free.
My reply was that I don’t really care about warranties (as I already knew products already come with warranty) and I instead asked if he could make the speaker cheaper, he said well no he couldn’t really as the warranty has value of $70 and so I just purchased the speaker for the $294 as I felt they were doing me a favour.
I haven’t opened the speaker yet and today I opened the digital receipt and I noticed that the price had actually in fact been reduced to $245 (even though he said he couldn’t), and on the receipt it says that the speaker is a display model (which he did not mention, simply stated it had been opened) and lastly it had a $49 extra care warranty replacement charge (even though that I was led to believe that it was complementary)
My question is by him verbalising the sale in a specific way and with the receipt telling a different story otherwise wouldn’t this be considered tremendously dodgy practice by reducing a price (that he could of all along) and simply slapping me with an additonal warranty for his own gain (commission) by lying to me during the negotiation/sale? | r/australia | post | r/australia | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFySnpfa3dCY21oVm1QSUtkZ016alhlTFpnWjZ5UFB5WlBBak1BRW93RzJsN1NSX0ItR2JJa19uYTV3Nl85NUp3ZXotd1NuZVhrZk9jT29GNW5tdWpkY2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOC1KQ1V3aHkzdkVpRE5LaTBoTDFXV1RsbG52NGZwOXVwdTV0Vzgxa3N1V05xdXEwb28xQXFHVG9OendhdU40VnBNMU9hSVR6XzBudEVnTzlOSVloYXEtX0lOZjRmbERveWlXOFBFdHRRRTB3ak5QcDVvTkx0ZnBjbXNnVjBPR29tWmlHOWhXWENzRG15U29DX2RCbHFHNDNXYjhYczZJSUl0WHB4OHBERDY4PQ== |
Let's get that $66 etc and beyond | r/ethereumclassic | post | r/EthereumClassic | 2024-11-30 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFybGIwQ2VPU2M3M2t1a0RCUzFpa2Nmcld5TnRJdS1UYWdUWDZjaC1uRWdBVHNoZVp3YnYtaUNFOFM3M2d2c1pEOW1nX3Rnamc3cUNmQzNiNnFnV3RUMGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbEdmSG1fdnV4cHZLSGx1Q0RFSGNFNVBWN1RLNnpvZGpBY2VJd0puTDc2R0FSOHd5Y1ZNV081WnZ6UkE4MHNxdjJobF9xa0dRQ0FDREhBSUJqTHNrbGNFRzF4RnViOU9QWmszZFV6VmR1dUlWQzE5YnVHLV9QMFJiTXJBSHZfUTFUTXBmZlhFc1gxWlR3QUhFaUcwMnA2ZFB2c2NBb0JOQUF0Rk9IWWdjMm5sQ18yVXI1NkdKUmxOMnVVSldMSlBp |
Correct me if I'm wrong, but folks who are saying this won't pump due to increased supply, please explain the following to me.
$FIL 605 million circulating supply
$FIL $4.3B market cap
$FIL current price $7
Whereas
$LINK has 626 million circulating supply
$LINK market cap is $12B.
$LINK current price is $19
In the nearest short term, just based on what the market is doing (which is pumping), forget about ATH for a second, there is no reason why we aren't a $20/coin in the short term. And I would absolutely keep an eye on what $LINK does as well. If $LINK can push up to yearly high and soon ATH at $50+, we won't be far behind.
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Please use this sticky thread to discuss any challenges you are currently facing, or that you have faced and made a breakthrough with, so that others may gain from your experience without having to go through similar experiences themselves. A new thread will start every month on the 1st.
The greatest use of the internet is that it can help us gain knowledge from everyone around the world, and fast. So use this thread as a way by which all of us spiritual-growth driven folks across the world can benefit greatly; while motivating/encouraging/inspiring everyone else who comes here just for fun/lurking/pastime/curiosity.
All in all, we can have great spiritual discussions, share our learnings, assist others and learn from others in a rapid and amazing way, by using the abilities of the internet for good rather than for the opposite. After all, isn't that what spirituality is all about?
Namaste | r/spirituality | post | r/spirituality | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyUHA4VjlzemdfaEdudzRmSlBMN1htNExoTWNGZy1LdTEtOW44OTRrY1lMZlJicUt3eVo4dVhTZTRPekppV3dSd3hjYXpjaFRwZVo1YzJCaXZnemduZHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVjNCOFh0eHo4UlJQZTRHanpwb0N6Q01wbmJyRnk1MG1idzVTMlVJWm8temFhVFdfWTJPWE11dVRKNzFPLXdJMHlJcmFCX09TMUNiX2R1RjRQV25yQlZIcC1XT0lIZTd5dnRlbEhFdTJ5ZFJTZ2Zxb1BYaWdDNUlYV3pQSE42MUhXUTZZX0ZaWEV1RTYxS2RuQXhxVDMybmczYXoxN3U3RS0xdGZvOFpJZU1NU0ZsSTlEbXU4Zm41Y3VEaWFBMjNT |
Looking for the full context or full story of what happened. | r/askwomen | post | r/AskWomen | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVXNaQlR0bXJTRjBuc3JGWVVoNW5WTXEzLTRVVVdCY1RCMENnUDNJOHNDR2VHNklkalBuR0liVmY4cE5EaHo2SjZOcFE5RXhzeFpXcjNVOC0xWEFoX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzT1NZY29qeTdoU2lXSnhoWVNVTU92Y0k0eGRGbEJDX0RjRHlDRG1zeXZNdWU4VnlRUUt3UUVOMGhvcE5EdjJVTHRPTlJFNGlwZUdxbzRMOEU5V1U5WHFmWXJtcWh3TTM0SW0wTnZRd1NGb2ZWZE5Sa1QwTGJmeTAyRnh0REI3NHFWRGFNdjk5V3VETldyalRzdkpfOUtvZ2hjOUkzemFkTi1lcFlDVzlMM01CR29DLUxBTC1KZFVPLVpiUzFCVVpuVGtGcjJPWXFZRUdPb2tvNndobkpXUT09 |
So last Friday my parents went on a cruise for the Thansgiving holiday. I live about 20 minutes away from them, and they asked if I could watch their dogs while they weren't home. I said sure no problem.
For context, my parents two dogs get ultra depression when my parents are away. I've watched them a dozen times, and every time, they go on basically a hunger strike and will go from eating twice a day, to only once every couple days. As such they also only ever go pee when I let out. I have ways to coax them into eating, but it's sporadic and I have to be careful to not leave them alone for too long because their bathroom tendencies get out of whack too.
So for the last week or so I've been staying mostly at my parents and just hanging out, enjoying their house and watching the dogs. But last night one of my buddies asked me to play some video games and catch up after not talking for a while. So I feed the dogs at about 5, they eat this time, and I then let them out several times over the next few hours and then leave at about 8 to head to my apt.
I normally gate then in their sleeping area (the dining room) for the night, but I decided I'd leave the living room open for the night so they could lay in their if they wanted. This was where I fucked up.
Some time in the middle of the night one of them crapped on the carpet in there. Then my parents roomba decided it was cleaning time and proceeded to grind and smear dog poop into the entire living room floor and nice 300 dollar throw rug my parents have in there.
To make matters even worse, the dogs then proceeded to roam the first floor of the house all night tracking poop everywhere. I kid you not, if someone had given me a bag of poop and said "hey I need you to cover this entire living room in poop" I couldn't have done as good a job as that little robot.
So now the last 7 hours of my Saturday has been me dissessembling the entire house cleaning every inch of flooring, steam cleaning all the couches, washing every blanket, etc. I can't be mad at the dogs because ultimately it's my fault. I should have tried to get back to the house sooner, and definitely shouldn't have left the gate to the house open. But God I was thinking of what barbecued dog would taste like all day, as I scrubbed the house down...
TL;DR: Left the gate open for the dogs, they pooped in the middle of the night, and the roomba then spread their poop all over the entire house. | r/tifu | post | r/tifu | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyU0tBSU5sc2xoYmJfdHh3X0lJSWxxZHpPd0tOR2laWXpiZ3RXekh6RjNjQkNEQTRWazk2MXdvYWd6cmtON2tzcGFHU2Z0OHpxWXZGbzQteHFBU044X2dhdzJfbndSZnJFV0c3ek1wY3Y4ZDQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTHAzNGZjekZ6NzBCdFhsSkliV2ZGV2JKcGZ3OWJyM2VNTUQ4M2RWS1IwZDBUaFhydDdMVjNYMmN0b0xqSDdGVU9mVjBfeHhYOGdrYjlLWUs4SHRxc2hTZEJfci1hRlRfN1VTZmx4eXpQS1AwNng5dnFBa0pPbVhTT0tSaEhTZzVLMS1LYi1qWVZQSTZhb3RZSzBlaDc3d0lsNkpFejljMGJ2LXdTYVlFNUk0d3NjemUxb0FlYU05RXhQb1duY1g0 |
Two weeks ago I saw on his ipad, texts with another woman—things like “Can’t wait to see you again, I want you so bad” When I asked him, he called me a fucking psycho and said it’s my bipolar disorder making me paranoid. He got defensive, refused to show me more, and started threatening me if I tried to leave.
I’ve been really working on managing my mental health, but now I’m doubting myself. He’s choked me before during fights, so I’m scared to push this further. Before him. I felt different. I miss who I used to be… I never expected I would end up here. I saw movies about it, heard about it but said… that’ll never be me. It feels ironic almost
I don’t know many people here, mostly his friends. I feel isolated and have taken to living in my car and spending the days in cafes. Without him I’m basically without financial means, since I wasn’t allowed to work but with him I’m so scared and I don’t know what to do… is this all my fault? AIO?
Texts included from the other day
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Too many attach or overidentify the source of happiness in their life experiences to externals outside themselves in the world. Likewise there are many who attribute the source of meaning to themselves detached only in their mind, that's the Cartesian tradition. Both people end up suffering with fear, and fear is rooted in the mind, not reality. Instead it is through our way of Being-in-the-world as one ecstatic unity; our life is not an isolated entity, it is a process; the good life is not a permanent state or condition, it is an activity. Happiness is unattainable because it is not a destination, it is a direction we choose.
The object of the search is the seeker; what we seek is always already with us coloring our human existence as meaningful. Nihilism is the transitionary period of overcoming toward growth and is necessary to confront properly for this self-transcendent activity. | r/absurdism | post | r/Absurdism | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyck5WZkM1ZHBvM0p4SG5pZTVESEN1T0J1M1hVZUFKNDN0QVh3Nmo5aFliNGo4Q3lVeml6OVdOX1lXMURZQlBrVUxCelBab1RGT0lFNXJ3Y3djVDRza0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzaUxubWYyakJoYmxsTzBiRHRxdUR4UmNhbGhRYXg2TVlkOXFMa3VjQk51WGlrNVpDdlBJVXg1R1RRVGlsdmQ1WEVwYTZXT2dPREFnVnRkVURRdE5kYl9wQTVXQVhQZ19SdkZiVTJyaDRhNmdfOWFldU1FRTBTdUNkTVUtakVXajFkZGpLOHhuS3kzMnV3VFJwMUhJbm5Da1l4a2h6NjBrS2FaRVhDZEliM1NWRWJGcUZrZEpaemR6c1lDYVRteFgtVktpdWhScy12cEtVNV9Fci1hNlNOUT09 |
I only ever hear of Rolexes but I'm sorry I can't afford that. Willing to spend $400-$600, what are some trendy and cool watch brands lately? | r/askmen | post | r/AskMen | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFydHYxeDhfV2tuYWZtTjVUM2JnQ1B5WkFqMFVYQTlkUklKdVlWUzdxTVFqcl9QYTV4NVFaYUVpcFFiNFFpTGFhWjR1Qk84ZlVTM1FYWDVKQ0lHOS1hNEZMNlQxWjM2WGJCbmRVWndBbEdfc0U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWDRkNEpEVmNveS1feGEyYmM1X0RjZVN3MnU2WDJIczBCTnViRnFPdVRMWENvYTBtSTQzWkl4NURCQWJ0LWltdFdSX2FfQ3o2TW9nVWh1OGZNeEFBcks4RHdYMWpfSnpLS0JMYkJPRDAwZzZSbmhZOWZnNTVfaVZFSlNFd0RQRHRsMHd2QjR4LUF2RnNNYmdMYXRkTEZuTV9ISmxndS02bmJuWlo2NDBSWGtua3RHZVc2QTVwRzd5dmhySFRBVWpkVUg4czM4cFNma0NSZ0tEemtGSnVfdz09 |
Hi Reddit, my husband (35M) and I (32F) were flying back to California from a week in Central America yesterday, where we ended up having an argument mid-flight and my husband thinks I was being racist towards him.
To give background, I am a first generation US American whose family is Mixtec from Oaxaca, and my family came to the USA for a better life and began working in the produce fields. We lived in poverty and I finally was able to break this cycle and had the chance to travel worldwide.
I’ve been traveling for most of my adult life (at 50 countries and counting), and it’s an important part of my life that I want to continue. My husband is French, born in southern France to an upper middle class family. He came to the US in his early 20s and stayed ever since. I love him dearly, but he can be very picky and likes to critique.
He was complaining for most of our 7hr flight from Central America to California, about the airline, how incompetent and rude the staff were, and how crappy the service was. I told him I understood, but I wasn’t going to complain because we could have paid premium and flown with another airline and that the staff was just trying to do their job (that they don’t make the rules).
He said he was going to tell the staff once we landed that, “Your airline sucks and I hope you guys go out of business”. I advised him not to and that I thought the staff would think of him as being an “entitled Frenchman” who is looking down on them. He immediately told me that was rude and hurtful of me, and RACIST. I didn’t mean it in a racist way, and now I am confused, was I being racist? I never want to bring anyone down for their background or for who they are, and this made me sad. Especially as an indigenous person whose family experienced racism in both the US and in Mexico.
Then the can of worms opened and we began arguing and ended up saying hurtful things to each other (mentioning divorce). I cried in the flight and apologized, but unsure how to acknowledge his feelings and what was said? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOU9QQVVnaF94NlhlWk5fV3lHb0NRR1JpVzlONlMxbGh2ZmJxZkFVVjdGX2tOTzNHVVlNeGpkWTYyWjZiN2lWb0NkcXRROWlHeU5YcS1uQmhFSGlNN0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMm03VWxfd1VvNjRwTkdyNTVnTkFzTU5jWGJxSUFUa1VlUEY4RFoyM1BYOE5xUERlRmZvMmNZM0VDZWRNRUhzWmhUOF9IemdKVkl3RlRfdk5DTXd3VFZ0WVZ5NFF6RDBRazFmeURkdXlTUk5kcTBTTW9fQjh3eDNNNzJWZ0o1SVhIR3ZMb0VNNndkUUZ5b0RhVWNZQWtCc3I4VGVRc2VPUGFYaHc0U0o3eWdvamFFLTNnNENkWC1UZ25WZm0wXzd0bmlxNGU5NWcxb1ZhRjBIZldjaVdCdz09 |
I’m just wondering what other people are shopping for now that it’s colder.
Cheers | r/malefashionadvice | post | r/malefashionadvice | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVUd6TG5VZ1NXVmRnQjF2SFU1d2JWRjF2c0ZoNVZLMDByY0N2RmdzZWVVUUFlbUZTeUZkM21ZSXp6S3BUOGZvWUNrWVdFYzB0NTY2TTFodUdjb0U3S3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzSjVoLXFiSnRMYUpaSWZJWUFvUEF1MUg2bGFybExLUkJKN2NETll6TFNPcUVIYjZ1QmJTM1hVUXNFb0VSdjNCWVVocDdKTkd0dU5XN0lXd1pkV253Rk5OY3U5cHhkWkRGRUxOZnIzSVp6TEFaZURMc0E5SDZGWlBHM2l5d3YtYXZWWVlZOFVTcV9wMFNFMHNLLTVJZFdtVkhUd25kaXBwRDI3WnZ0ODVxRVJUdjloYW1XZ0FlQUliNHRDUlBkRW93eXhCUWIwR1RNRjNaZzE3bUVNVTZlUT09 |
I, 24F, have always been sensitive to spices, not to the point that I'll think black pepper is too hot but close enough. This is especially bad because I'm Hungarian and it's the baseline to like hot food, and most of my family not only likes but adores it. So I've obviously been teased a lot growing up, and I've grown to accept that I just can't really handle spices, even though I've been slowly building up a tolerance, especially the last year.
One of the things I tought fell into this spicy category was ketchup. I always just thought it had a bunch of spices in it, most for flavour, and one or two to give it a bit of a kick, nothing I can't handle though. I have a full list of spiciness levels, and this fell on the very low end of it. I did notice over the last year that people never really mentioned it being spicy in the slightest nor were they concerned if I would be able to handle ketchup unless it specifies "Hot", and my tolerance level didn't seem to affect it.
Well, last week we ran out of the ketchup my family uses and we tried a different brand we had in the cupboard, which I definitely tasted as more spicy than our usual brand. I finally mentioned it to my family and asked if ketchup is supposed to taste spicy, and to the surprise of no one, no, it isn't. My family was shocked I never mentioned it, I just thought it was how it was supposed to be and that's why they never mentioned it.
So yeah, I'm probably allergic to one of the actual spices used in both brands, but I thought I was just being a weak ass bitch.
TLDR: I found out ketchup is not supposed to be spicy, I'm just allergic. Only took me 24 years. | r/tifu | post | r/tifu | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRWp4ek5XUWFFbDQ5dlFMMFVmeFBUQ3N2ZkZhQ2F0WGdPSkxqcWp2SXdXeUo4ZEJqNnFXcEUxM3RpMDUzRUZFWmhHT0lFUXg2WGlKNHVocTFfc1dVVmRfOEtZeXNOYWVPcWdvSVJiZzllTjA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUTd5QnRPOWxlLXZrZDZtZGdlSFBoZWwxRXBrTWFfR21sZW5HMWp3QUg5amE4eVZaSG9OT2FSMkNVNjJLNHBIcVpBRDR4V1BHbjF3SURSTUNTSjF6LU4xQ3BpdVk5Mm0zU251Ym5YTGpLTkY4STJKQXlOUHpzNTVWNk85aThQbmxyYnZsbkFqV0FtRnFIRlhTTG9JbVNSekFTTkdMQmFDcXJxcnJUanR5cWVaalFzNVJUMFZCZDJEYmlfdThKTS0z |
What's the most precocious thing your toddler has said to you lately?
By which I mean the thing that (most recently or most memorably) made you say to yourself "WTF, kid, I help you to clean the your ass, how old do you think you are?"
Ex: Today my almost 2.5 y/o said to me "I'm going upstairs. But hey, you do your own thing."
Excuse me, what? 🧐
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Not Colombia, *Columbia.* It feels like I keep seeing this word thrown around a lot, but I've never actually seen it used in a context that makes sense. Washington DC is District of *Columbia.* So does that make the United States, or North America, the elusive Columbia that everyone seems to agree is a thing that actually exists? I look up Columbia on google, and the closest I got to an answer is Miss Columbia, which is a personification of Americans and the new world.
...okay. Does that mean Columbia sportswear is also a personification of the new world? Seriously, what is this stupid noun, where did it come from, what does it mean, and why is it used so often? Thanks guys. | r/askhistorians | post | r/AskHistorians | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFySlFBd2RSLWVya0FXNzFCbEJpZ1JuWkFvMkxiSVNyZFFDQUxuemV6dnhQZXlmODJYUnprT29GYTZRY3d0LVBjZUhEZ0FlcFNRSHJkTENRWEZDcnZHS0Q0X25hdXhkWHRuc0t2ZVNDMS12V1U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza3BiSUliak9CMUF2cEFpTEJMU1BGZGNMUzM2OWctSm5fWUdZLVhjTW9hQUdGUkFFVEY4OUlwUHRLVFEtUEh3UEFyYlduWkdTOHk1c05QTUN2d1JFZWctM2lHTFBOZkxEZ0FnM1RSSjdRb09kLWZ1NEtlZjBDNDRLLUJ0ejlOcS1OMUktcGw3Wm9ibWU1ZUpHek44ZHo1OGlud214cFJtc2JMR2RQbENzN3BRPQ== |
Wife wanted to do Elf on the Shelf this year. And my 2 year old daughter fed it to our dog already. I’m both annoyed and proud of her. | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyMWxseEZYRDBqVE5jUDR1ZDRtcEtwU2NkenRQeFl3SlRNczhtaVpKNzN0SmUxMFZBTFB1V3hYNFdZUXVoRURlaDJTT1BWNmhPVUZ6NEs2UTl2OE1VX1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTFVuSkdCTTlWcGttcUZOVWtrVmpVUFpCa0x0ck9GbzYtaHk1bnZhTHZRUUQzR0U1WTB2ckRCcnJoOWNvU0VkZnV6cUdTTEFuM3U0M1Rwckl4X3YwazBpT094cFpzMEM3RHlCR0pkUlcyTkZkRHdRcmJhQ2dBOWNjRk5RODNmZ3RzYXJHUm91cTRrdHFmN3lla19fRE84YVVDQVVMd0FYejRzVGpleW5VSlRvSnozUlcxUi1ueTJLNGx0OE5JRjBhejk5QkdlYWxZT19MTGFvaXZGQ3NmQT09 |
Hi!
I'm looking for a good documentary about web3 and blockchain, which would not be "Crypto is a scam" or "tO tHe MooOOOoOn!!!!".
Especially, I'm looking for something that would approach tech innovation, smart contracts, dApps, etc.
The documentaries I've watched so far:
- [Money Electric: The Bitcoin Mystery](https://www.hbo.com/movies/money-electric-the-bitcoin-mystery)
- [Vitalik: An Ethereum Story](https://ethereumfilm.xyz/)
Thanks! | r/ethereum | post | r/ethereum | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyV3JEVGVuUnpFcVFxdEpsUC1KMG5uS0pnWFVHVEVwNWN4RDlMYUNRaTA3SGp0bllRRkdtbUp6cDhHRnl0eEtmUWoxQWQzbWp3RnllWTZVY050dkpxZDczOXVzWWxyRURUTjF4MGNJSzRGUkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNkJzT281VW11M0p1R3dqcWZZU2xpeUxhbDZEQ3loSVBWTVdtM2VQTkVxTkZOMTFfckdYSWRMSUVxZ1pqeGN6QXlsdGZSRmE5bFBxb3B5bkJfbTllNmVySHFCQ1FSZ0RhcnpzRUFaTnVuWmlicnZ0R1IxT3cyeGQxWEk0MVVQc0RCbnhRMFF6U0JScFdPWm9SaDhlUUtzM2dRTnd6UEFtaXNVSlMxUVpzU1JOeVVSLUk4OW9EX3RfQl91azhWUzB1 |
乾隆还是雍正 | r/asia | comment | r/asia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVG9BSzhHSkVONm9jQ016ZGJ0V3NveWpabHA1VzNQMG9jSlJvZ20zS2VYNFNHaTNlc2hGcWVfM01jejZGZ21ueU9IYmpkLTJ1Wk9rSU1OQzAxbWg0WFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzM0VFQkxMNFNWOXd6QXN5SHh2ZjZhd1pFUmtaVHA2SU9WUTc5ZmhhY1Fxa1dxa1k4ZUxtZzh3NkRqTTNfOHJtN1RSS2V4b1MwZnB5MTlDclM2V2FpcFdNY1Nzck9FcVlCT2I5eXVfSUtwVDI5RHBIYUFybU9Dc1M2Tm1ibWljVkNReXJSSlB4ZVdya0M5VHgwSURoV0pDa2VKRWRka0tFUWVzQjFCMUYwNTNlMDlXSEVSY1JfSlA0RTRPOE04SDhv |
I think a lot of guys grow up with the mentality, "I want to have a wife, maybe a few kids." And it seems that lately, there's been a shift in mentality: Men don't just want to have that; they want to be known as involved via being a husband and father. If this was you, no judgment since it was the status quo, but what made you realize the difference between the two and strive for the latter? | r/askmen | post | r/AskMen | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZF9HdE5NNzh6cUJ1UDJyeFFDb1VheTEyTTYxclRnWDNVMGpueUc4RmtkM1pPVDIzRWxwbFQ3RXhtUnRtN29WZFhpUE8tX3RnY2dEMktiSEZQZ2FlUTM3ODE2amJFRVI1al9GUzRteWJETDQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzN05FZlFsdUxEcWJ0Tkg3enZYYy1ydm1IaDJrcjZtQlhnTDNFb01oT0NYNVBOZjR1TThkQm5KdngwM1puOTZJOHhzaE1tRkxMbFJPcTdsOXdtYVJ4UW1RUUtJZXcwUE1VcnEwTVlEaFlTc2ROUWEzNlM4eUlFX0RjZUI4WXJKM29UQTRCT1hnd2UyQVdMajJ3RDByUXdkNGEzdXBUT0Jqd19nNzFjU2s5ZS02VHpJcGZ3MFpCeWl0TV9IQ0loOTJoYm9KcGw5V28wV0M3blRNUWZ3X3hNZz09 |
1-800-222-1222
i’m out of town and have a gnarly head cold and i accidentally took an extra nighttime dose of my morning medicine.
i waited for 20min with walgreens without a response and couldn’t get ahold of my doc. a friend suggested i call poison control. i’ve used it multiple times for my kid but never thought they could answer pharma questions (of course they can, duh). i was immediately connected with a pharmacist and she gave me the all clear!
keep poison control in your phone on speed dial! | r/mommit | post | r/Mommit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQW1ra2wyVHVIRmZrWFlIZVpYSXFvdmNXcHZOamR5SjBrUVVQeUJyWDFiY3p3cHlmdTFxSjNtcmZ5MXRXV0toMURUSGdnSi01UTRtVEpWdmtPaEdZZ05YVXlBcWRUYmo2UmhLYXd2bExQMkE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzS0MtdlpxUlZZR2ZXR21oUzJOaW5nZ3J1UFpQWjlJRlJzbkVUTWQ0ZU50M2NsUW9DakhaYlUxSUlxZW1rcXQ5WGE0SEhOX2pvWjJXRmNDbjhQY1pDSmRucWh0THVvM25PZDRLVXZkdGk1Qjl2a18wdGUyWVZ2dTcyMjhBNHJzM0NsMy14UkNCczBNWF9GWXBxbGpxWkR3a1dRVGZyOWtlbUthZWZPZDB0N1A4cnFJZ0VuX013dDAwaEVvNngyZnZy |
Where is ethereum classic status on the ETF? | r/ethereumclassic | post | r/EthereumClassic | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyLUdzdnJZbmxqM092bUVOMFpMTmEyNVYtaVVjNWxuekV6SDhqeXNqZzRZQk5CYlRISmdTQUl4ZW1nelpyYUJtOVNJNUVxZTNZaUZuZGhXOExaYk5BbWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMDlPVFhlZFRJb3hZYnZjbVBvSGF0U3lFaUtDWFdDM1g5ZF9jaHpNbGpSODBJLWppdWc5dGZRNC1WalA1YmItbUZpWXpSd1hWYm9jY09PcGxWbG1yOHc3UHRsU0ZXTWhwY2szUEVGM0k0ZkdKdHpPUUlTbHpkOVJsa1pwR2x0b0tWXzBVUDNQblQ0MmZnb0psbC1pWWFkYVVHR3NZZ21pcDhpejVuTEZzaS1BNlc3VGsyeS1ocUVleXlUUG50OHZX |
Every time I wear a button up that should be tucked in but I don’t wear a coat with it, it looks idk not great. I’ve got a bit of a beer belly, I’m losing it, slowly but surely, but I just wanna know if there’s anything I can do to make these outfits look a bit better in the meantime. | r/malefashionadvice | post | r/malefashionadvice | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyTVdybE9RWHJjM05pWW1EMWl0QU5DOVoxSDk2RHRmNi1xN0VkNDdOekZKVUZEbDR2ZEE3VG9mU3paSHlXTDBOX0hvazRtRkU1T0lEeWpIOXo3clZnR3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYVFTb1ZLdmJQSGVQaDZZSmtiaDNSOHdLNk1Bb2RFbmh5T1piRTNXaGJoUUw0WmEzS3NBNWxtSHF4S3VJZWszVnlKZ19kZy1rQlg1M1UwMUVkRlQ1NGVWZUtTakVfSnZmMXJOWTViZ3o1M3dCRmkzTzNULXVNSHVYUDQzaXFxWGQxUXl1ZWFfanZEcmxocXlBVE91bmNYYzIyQ2xUY2Y3Z2NsT1U3Qy1NczE0VjRtQVk0bzludTFnZW1uR0J2NEFCdjk4Sml2dXUxVUM4UGI3bWJSa2I4QT09 |
For those of you who have moved past simple backpacks, what bag do you carry daily? And what do you put in it?
I’m looking for something stylish to carry my daily stuff — laptop, gym clothes, water bottle, notebook, headphones & chargers etc. Any recs? Looking at the lower/mid tier price range around $300
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It’s below freezing outside and there’s construction going on (new siding) which makes nap time impossible. Your spouse can only take one child to the mall. Which one are you handling solo? | r/toddlers | post | r/toddlers | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOFkyaTlmbjZNYkxYZm9rZ2NIaFduV1BKZXhJX1dQV2poM244OTYzRzBJOVlaXzZYSV9uU2sxekFfWWVFVzNJMUFReldtX3huQXFpYzg4YU56Qm12S0R0cGthV19qQmQ4dnRLVm5xbkNrTms9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVWFpVWc2S0M2b3Y2OVB2Q2FfVEZlR1lLcWo3by1lNHNTM1NXSkFFcWhfazA1M1k2RnhOT0VSUk4tbl9zWEVMX1E3VFVKa09lS0YwbHVITjd3YVlqTm81eHl1a1pDM0R2Y2o0eDZHVVhycWtJMG5pWFRBT3NCU0tPQVZQQ3JwdWtoMi14eGxUdmg0cFNGcEtrUDJiQTJMV0w1M24xcGJPcGdaWThkdktHQzNBN2dKel9iMXJLSE9NMVhRTVhmV2twdVlNcVpaNG01SEVSUzJXTWlSOFdsdz09 |
My husband and I have been together for five years and are expecting our first child. A few months ago, I noticed he was exchanging messages with an ex. When we first started dating, I asked him to stop contacting her because there seemed to be unresolved feelings, and it made me uncomfortable. He assured me he would remove her from his social media, and I thought that was the end of it.
Fast forward to now: I recently saw him DMing her again. I don’t know what the messages were about, but I did notice he has her notifications silenced, which made me feel uneasy. I’ve expressed general feelings of insecurity in our relationship, but I haven’t brought her up specifically (this would be the third time). Every time I try to discuss boundaries or behaviors I think are inappropriate in a relationship, he insists he isn’t doing anything wrong.
To complicate things, he doesn’t believe emotional cheating is real, which is a significant difference in how we view trust and fidelity. I’ve told him before that I see emotional cheating as equally—if not more—harmful than physical cheating.
I believe my husband loves me—he frequently reassures me, compliments me, and seems open in other areas of communication. But my gut tells me he never truly cut off contact with his ex and has just been hiding it. I also feel conflicted about his explanation that my insecurities are just due to pregnancy hormones.
I’m stuck: Should I bring her up directly again, even though I’m afraid of the fallout? Or should I keep addressing this in general terms and hope he takes my feelings seriously? I’m worried that even if the messages are harmless, bringing her up could cause tension that damages our relationship further.
How can I navigate this situation in a way that prioritizes both honesty and the health of our relationship?
TL;DR: My husband is messaging his ex despite agreeing to cut contact years ago. I don’t know if the messages are innocent, but silenced notifications and our differing views on emotional cheating have left me feeling insecure. Should I address her specifically again or stick to general boundary conversations? | r/relationships | post | r/relationships | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNE5XYjBSMEFBV25ieGx2ZmFpU0txU1BEOUV5NjZ5eUc5UFZCUDA1WVZwN2xWblpMMjIxaTVMRXlRVk5nLVNNMHlMUFhPX2xudDhkeFNLbWJ0dHlHT3J0eC1ScmFnY3o4ZjhkbkROb05QOUE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbWQzM29veEV4LW5adzUtdnF2S3QzMzcwaFN1OEtSTUhiTmRETWtUR1ZUMmZtbktGanoyTTRmeXFnZ1ZZaWNEdWozSVVmVDNTVkVYRjJtdDNjeGVIZUZVbXFLYmFIYmpnR1hIUl9EM3hvNV9wVGhzVk9LRnB4dk5yYnB6aTNYWnl6WHFRa2VWRmZfazV0bmVOSS1CSHBuTVQ2U1lNMDdFU0tWa2VjRHdkamh2cHNld2pwZjROQ0lDcElLMU9Lam5PS1dCUlhZYk9URlNWYVRvX3djV1g3dz09 |
I'm not an avid reader and English is not my first language. So maybe I missed something. But this is the third book that I'm reading where there are no quotation marks for dialogues. What's going on?
The books that I read previously were prophet song, normal people and currently I'm reading intermezzo. All by Irish authors. But the Sally roony books are written in English, not translation. So is it an Irish thing? | r/books | post | r/books | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyd0dyaDBIXzJkQWRXV3NHeTlTeE5OS25DUGFzSDF3WDVCX0xnSXRBMjlGRXBJU1N5NE9YZTJaa1lNeFNzc2FfcUpKamxuNmZad3hXUnl4bHRrOTMyNm9oZ2RiN2ZVaEJ5Vy10Sl9oVG53SDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZDQ4LWhTZWpxeUpZVmVGQTNwM3ZTWmd3cGFxeUVLNHR2N2NrUTdoN3JGS1QyXzhlcnNWM3VOd3QtWTFFUEZNVHo3UHA2ZzJkN0JWLWNFUlpqVU0zUGFNbndHaXNTWE1VeXZMWGFfUzZSUGpUZ3haTnd6MGU3R1lmS2xSQ25sTnIxZEthUFhrdFZyUDRyZ0JhOHVSRU5kNERxazBUWmtNSmlmU0RXSXRYUEFkYzhCcERJMlJNLUVvUmV2MkJFZUQt |
Been at this job for a year. It's been extremely stressful and challenging, but I'm finally starting to find my groove. We were at our office Christmas party, and it was getting a little late. I was chatting with colleagues at a table while music was booming in the background.
Owner comes over and says a few things to me and I didn't hear a word. He had a smile on his face and he was clearly heading out so I figured it was some kind of trivial nothing, so I shook his hand, smiled and confidently said: Yes, have a good night!
As he walked away, I tell my colleague that was standing closer to him at the time: "Man, I have no clue what he just said". Colleague starts laughing at me and tells me: "He said you've been doing a great job, that you're a good addition to the team, and that he sees you going far with the company. And you just answered yes".
This got shared around the table, including to my director, who all laughed at my dumb ass.
Tldr, I didn't admit I didn't hear my boss and got embarrassed, no other consequences than feeling like an idiot. | r/tifu | post | r/tifu | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyRjVSMVA1OW5IMjlUSm5xc1VwaEtnalA1SEY0c09iMHFQcHQ4bU1tRkNaUmlxdG1rdG1VT1A0djQ2VHJENEVFNFVtT3NDNTkwSlRvdDNlMDZ3RDVzUEFTYzU1TEdNaFlVTnpDSnhqaEh1aTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTnhMSFZIVi1iR1hpaDRrR1RfWFFKOTRUNWR2Njh4LU9VbHBfVG9tMnVLSld3VGh6SFZJOGtCQVFtQ29RT2xfMF9OdWI4d2d5M2pVdlZrVDI4ZUpuTEtEeW9oR3NVT3NPYmJmRGVtemFRUUdTNzJHalMwckN5YVhCTjlCb2p4TVVTVEhxWUZtek1OWGRnQ3JMTm91d3Y4eUx5dVZGa1BHQkJtbnRvRHJHQzJwRTdPa1k0cUlIT2ZQMzFoOUhzbGlL |
I just came to know about filecoin recently and am intrigued by the potential. I saw the ATH was pretty high, however has kept low since. Is the current price around 7 good for its potential? Where do folks see it heading towards in a couple months and this bull run? | r/filecoin | post | r/filecoin | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOWVKcTM3TU1ObW5MYTd5UV9wZjI2WmRpQVh1Sll5eGZ1MVgzdkJhV28wajRwUUFoNURjYW8wRHJVclhqa194MUpiRzRoeEdQa2NYVWQtRFVNRXNYQlJ0LVpMLXlmR280RHNGdGMyZHpMUmM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzU0JRaFdyb3B1eXRvbUozMGFnR2RHaUZpLVZEOGE1T00xTVFJTExSNm84aXpsZDFVQ1A5a3NIRk52R0JXZHloeUNyX1F2Uzc4aFI2b3dRb21WMnB0Ty1XLVF6Y1ZMR0Q0c0NSVVA1bkd2cEl1RVZROU5QNGxNeFBlNGV6ZjloU2Y4RFp1WHNwNmZhZXRTb2tmTUhSUUV4R1cyMHA0WVJ3eFVwQlB4bE5penc1NUpRd2lUVnk0LTdEclU3dy1zU1U3 |
#Keep things civil. Rules still apply.
Last year, we took a little break during the holidays at the end of the year. While many of you were understanding and supportive, we heard your feedback! Admittedly, it was a bit clunky, shutting down for Christmas, then sort of opening back up for a week, with everything in POO MODE, only to shut back down again for New Year’s.
This year, we’re going to do it a little differently. Rather than the off/on/off, which was a little jarring, we’re going to go Restricted for the entire holiday period. I realize that may be disappointing to some, but honestly, mods have families too. And some of us would like to travel to be with those families during the same time that many of you enjoy family time. Except for the people that we’ve gone NC with. Or have kicked out of the house to be on their own at 18. Or wore white to our wedding. Or whatever else was popular in the sub this year.
You may be thinking “Yeah, yeah…yOu WaNt fAMiLy TiMe…so when will I not be able to call someone an asshole?” Good question! Here’s the timeline:
- Starting at 12:00 AM, EST on ~~December 24,2024~~ **December 25, 2024**, we will go Restricted. Users will be able to view content, but not create new posts or comments. **(We originally planned to start tonight at midnight - XMas Eve - but while trying to adjust some settings, it was too late to choose 12/24. So it will start one day later, on 12/25. My apologies for any confusion. Going Restricted this year is a little different than last, due to changes made for how subs can go Restricted or Private.)**
We will remain Restricted until 12:00 AM EST on January 2, 2025.
- Starting January 2, the sub will become public again, and general Assholery can resume. By January 2, most of us will have returned from family time/holiday trips/cleaning out the Cheeto crumbs from our neckbeards and will happily resume moderating duties.
Have a safe holiday period, everyone! We’ll see you in 2025!
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We'd like to highlight the regional spinoffs we have linked on the sidebar! If you have any suggestions or additions to this, please let us know in the comments. | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyX3d0d2FydXVuVGpjVjJFckFidmRsWm9Gd3hMUmVfQ01Yb3pxQVBnRDBWdkNENk1xcTAyc1BHWURVYm5ZbWdtYXU3ZVc0MF9jdlI0bDJjcGctSTYzcHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbjlLSlNSSzRlQjhVNm1GOGZCZGtGZW1kRUx6X2FLVkRnWm9ycklMT0ZYLTdJQ19jOFc1dEFubk12c2lrdnVBc0NWWEJNekhmNXB1d3M0eUlGWWNwci1ha0RPWmZBT2hKOTN3RVVtWUdOR3NsT2NLVlNMa3Y5eFZaVDNDcmM3VVZwamoxMjBpZnBWd2dHOEJlNmd3endFdmI1LW9kWnBuMXlVRkhvQ0pLeVY3TDkxS2RkLVNKSjVyUHJ5ak9sN0R6YkZyV3NoLVZHNUZBT1RzWkVsd3lZZz09 |
I (38F) am married to my husband (50M), who shares custody of his two kids (16F and 12M) with his ex-wife (48F). His ex is remarried to her wife (48F), who has become extremely involved in the co-parenting dynamic.
They have been divorced for eight years when my husband's ex-wife left him for her current wife. I met my husband almost six years ago, we married earlier this year.
From the beginning, I’ve tried to be polite and respectful when interacting with his ex-wife and her wife, but over time, I’ve grown to avoid any direct contact with them, especially his ex-wife's wife. Every time I do engage, she finds a way to talk down to me or make passive-aggressive comments—both to my face and indirectly through the kids.
For example, she’ll say things like, “I'm surprised you're here, with you it's always hit or miss,” or, “we're too old for what you do.” She’s also made snide remarks about how I am not good with the kids “you can always ask me questions as I know how to parent them.”
The kids have picked up on it, too. They’ve mentioned things like, “stepmom says you don’t really know how kids because you don't have any,” or, “stepmom and mom said you’re only involved because Dad needs help.” It’s incredibly frustrating, especially because I’ve made every effort to build a good relationship with the kids and respect their boundaries.
I finally decided that for my own sanity, I’m done trying to engage with her. I still talk to my husband’s ex-wife when necessary, but I won’t involve myself with her wife anymore. Of course, this hasn’t gone unnoticed. Now, the ex-wife and her wife are accusing me of being “inappropriate” and “difficult” because I won’t speak to her or coordinate directly with her. They insist that her involvement is “necessary” and that I’m not prioritizing what’s best for the kids.
But here’s the thing: I’m not refusing to co-parent. I’m refusing to subject myself to someone who consistently disrespects me and undermines my role in the kids’ lives. My husband agrees with me, but I’m still questioning whether I’m doing the right thing for the kids by drawing this line.
Additionally, I am pregnant and this is causing me great stress. The ex-wife is already creating conflict with my husband every chance she gets. She interferes with our custodial time every week and constantly berats him in the parenting app they use to communicate.
AITA for refusing to talk to his ex-wife’s wife? | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyYnJzWGJXaGhOR2drVjBKSUU0Wk9kS0FjeFJQQU9Eb3JYc2hKWnAwazZ4U0Z1bWJnNFZXZ2c5WF9kTmZJQnV2WFE5LVVrMXJaOE1PNXVCeVkyZ2xYWEJjZ2FvS1pzY05zNTJZNHVlMzNjRXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTmR3eXp5ZENoejc2ZGZ3SWxSQzRDRFNTbHBhUTFjODUyTklGXzg0VkZnOGdJM1VzMXMwNkRmMnNjaE5FY0VFWU41UmMtSGJ5eUNqUHFzbmtpclNSek9zRkRKNExXUkhDVFdkSkI3NHFZX0dEb25JWEdTV2VQRF9jNVNBWTUwdktiTU55b3ZsbW9rQTlzbDY0UEEwRHBkWHYzWnZ5aTJHT3QwSFFOTm5NR1NzOVhNQnNUdkFUa0YxaEpGdUQzQ2tZZ1l3RWNhSTJ3NlFTY3cteVM1dl9pdz09 |
I know there’s a lot of micro penis going round but when you can’t even park legally… | r/australia | post | r/australia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNXhpdVhvV2prS0JUUllQMzUxZjVfa2pHZUhsR3dnMm55Ym1fRWNQeFdUM1JMVkZTZS1PWU5WbXZ2MlR2amRBYmctUWIxdmc5blk3eGNvaUE0ZXdhQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdjNiWjREQ0hTb1RNVHN2WVp2SHI3ZWd6QzBIRkp4aDlGRWRTOE9lT0NlbWU1bzJJOGF4UDBhOGV3Z20yckh0X0w4OEREMS1mR0RtWFRXOTNFMXlRTlFEbGJWVjk0Mms3Q0gteUxIMXpOTEFqR21pTGVkSXlFaDFjcW05ZXg3M05YcXliN1ZhbVZUSVZ2bTRtd3VIazBsWXNnQU91S0VhSUdXaXNZUlI5YWFtUTc3SUM5YjJRVXM3aHNSQlhuaVRp |
My fiance (25 male) has an ex girlfriend that he has a 4 year old child with. His ex girlfriend is now a lesbian and engaged to a women, living in a city 7 hours away together with that child. They called us over FaceTime 2 weeks ago and asked us the ridiculous question if we would be comfortable if my fiance (her ex boyfriend) would be comfortable donating his sperm to them so his ex and her new female fiance could have a baby together and it would be related to the child. I’m obviously so uncomfortable with that an couldn’t believe they even asked that question an we respectfully declined. I told my fiance all the reasons I was uncomfortable with it and we agreed that it wasn’t going to happen. Fast forward to the past few days. My fiancé and I have been fighting a lot and have decided to take a break. While we were on the break. One day after I left he called his ex girlfriend and told her he was willing to donate his sperm so they could have a baby behind my back. He calls me the next day after their conversation (today) while we’re still on our break and tells me he said he told her he’s willing. I freaked out and told him we are officially over and he’s ruined everything. And he said it was a mistake and he’ll call her and tell her he’s changed his mind and he’s not going to do it cause he doesn’t want to lose me over this. I just feel like the damage is done and I don’t know how to feel anymore. How can I forgive him for something so insane? | r/relationship_advice | post | r/relationship_advice | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyLWV0SjBLajJTZ3Y0RG44NFFUSERrQkVaWUk5ME1VcWxRX0h5UlpYb0FJSlFsSVpvQlF2anBCMWx0bnF3WnA1aXEweGpBd3NZSHVITlZJLUVXVTZBQXd3amx2eHZuLXpHTWJ2U2RUZEdrM0U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWVdOYzhfWU82WW1uVG1oRlRjN196cDlSRnZOQnlCYlhJSEZBMEpSMm5YczFGcThhWHFkWDVnMm83V3d0ZW51MDlHQ3EtbUVpOWJVbnNoZC1DRG50c2NQRWhhZVBmTWtvQ3hNSmtYS3ZsaGhKRWhIUmZXTFZrdW5EcGFab1RWbzBlSUJGTDFDeWpNaVY1M1NYSUd1RVI4cHVRMHNFaExZRnI5MEJTX01Hc0VwSWJ4VmJxSlVlUnNqOVg0cnBwZkdZdEt4OGptVWR1dEhsMWdxb2VlelFHUT09 |
Two fold question:
What are the available stable coins on the Cardano blockchain?
Which of these stable coins can be used to off ramp into USD via an exchange?
If you cannot use any of the stable coins to off ramp into fiat, what is the primary use case for those who aren’t traders looking to leverage them for jumping in and out of positions?
I guess that’s threefold 😅😅
Thanks in advance for any and all responses. | r/cardano | post | r/cardano | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNDI4cXhTWndLQUQtbkZwMlI5dnZvbk9kS0prdVU5YXkzaWttaUVSdUh1SkdlZHdFWkFXdGpqNGNFQVhnZkdkdWhkSDU1M003ZHRSWElfY2ptUW01Y0V1c2lJcDhpcFdqU1dyZXVaOGlZbTA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRUxfN2hLWGFySG9hUmtSd1NkamZIa1l0SWlRbnlySXBMZ3p3SWRRcnV2bzAwbWtITERQRXVWVjhlUVVTNUJZWGRDWkViSkJpRUJMTFAxb2UzeGpPUXZJc2tuV3hCWUx3T3EwaF9fYW5hc3RqUFFhbmZkNmlHdndQdTFhanN3WTVuZXZoMzc2RmtBenVxRENGY1pLdVdYWnd3Tkp6Rmt3aG92LVpVVF93NkRzPQ== |
Welcome to today’s **Daily General Discussion!**
Please use this thread to discuss Ethereum topics, news, events, and even *price*!
Yes, we are trying something new and will allow price discussion, **but only in this thread!** Price discussion posted elsewhere in the subreddit will **continue to be removed.**
As always, keep it friendly and follow the sub’s rules.
The ticker is ETH. | r/ethereum | post | r/ethereum | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNFNUTmF6aTBGV1FSSktndTgySHZ3blE0dElrQ2FDNF93b2t3TlYxWUh6UVQ0MjlVMk9fdkJVNU5yV0Mwek9aOWRrbTBZa0xZaHE4RzhjVnBSNDVfS1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzSGpibnZfcUpBaW9OaGhVRXlIR0xWSVY4MnV2b2NkcENXYjl2Yl9tcVo3Qnk1aUxDWFoyZTc5OXpKUG53UmVXbnJ5TEZJZnBqbV9jdHZINUxvQjNXbzlxVlJWRnl6TEVla3BvdWJSanh0TnBUZHotWFM2ZEY3SEVlbVgxQ3JDWDl3VmxLcEZHd21QTTVKUFhHVDhHLU5nQnprWklTV0R1UHdUcWQ3YU9jSmg5bVl0VUFndF9oUE13cTgxQ1cwbGpI |
My brother has known that I am and have been an atheist for years, since I was a teenager (I’m now 40). But because our family is evangelical Christian on one side and hardcore Catholic on the other, to “fit in” better, I have never mentioned this to anyone. I’m already the black sheep of the family, (queer and vegan), having an additional target on my back just did not seem like the right move.
Welp, over Thanksgiving dinner it was blabbed, by my brother whom I thought I could trust, that I do not believe. Now I am getting all sorts of heated conversations about my lack of faith. It’s has changed my relationship with a lot of family members. And to be clear, prior to this outing, I just played along with their beliefs because I do not see my family that often, maybe once or twice a year.
I was asked how long I have been an atheist, and I said, “for quite some time,” with the follow up of, “were you ever going to tell us, or just keep on letting us believe in this fantasy that you’re one of us?” To which I replied that yeah, I was never going to tell them. (They’re used to fantasies, what’s one more?)
I am so angry to have been outed, by someone I thought I could trust, my own brother. I kind of think that this is just a taste of things to come, if shit ever hits the fan, my family will definitely turn on me, and knowing that really fucking sucks.
My apologies for the rant and formatting, just needed to get this off my chest to some people that might be able to relate.
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Post-answers edit:
Thank you for all the answers!
Summarizing what im reading that answers my question:
Technically not performing it:
1. They do it out of order and edit it to change the order.
2. They clean up between shots.
If they actually perform it:
3. Heavy anal hygiene. Heavy douching/full on enemas beyond what is necessary beforehand.
4. Doctor prescribing antibiotics.
5. It's unsafe but they do it anyways with disregard to the performers and any pain or bills they may (will) receive afterwards.
if i were to ask this question again, i would have asked "What precautions do they have in porn to make it safe?" without asking about doing it myself, as the answers were (very understandably) more "dont do it, i will explain UTIs" which didnt actually answer my question. As opposed to "this is how they do it in porn. This wont work in real life because xyz". I dont actually plan on doing it. It was more of a curiosity of the safety of the performers and what movie magic they use more than anything.
But i still appreciate taking the time even if you did answer this way! | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyS19aQ1VuTHIxUmNxc2Nacko3cDFRQlVDclFrZDBoZGtyb194aG41VFA0MWtORGlvdnpxYm1nejNqdE1weG9XVV90a3AwMEpqdWpkWGxjNDBOYXh3UVpjMEpwN2RZUV9fcVdhT1VMeTViSDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQVJYNTNsODR6aXM4UVpSWURmZDBZQWZXT1Z3TjRNQkloVkFqZTlEQ1JzenZjaF82WnBWUmVhSFBSMDlRNkpoWXowYkNCZGVocUxrUG0xTWRHTnE3YlMxSGtlSzZsOHNQM0dvVkRheEdLemVqbGxBWDJqQS1GY3E1Qnl0ZDRxb19EdThMN0EyNmxVWDE0ZkhzRXBfWjg4QS1PZ0tsTzZNb0d0c2ktcVcwMUlicmlidEUtX1VxbXdMVDc0SUZKT2FjSW04QWZZSEk3ZVZrU3ZaaVd2UTN1Zz09 |
They expect the customers to scan and bag their own groceries. They cut employee numbers drastically to make this happen. They put in individual surveillance systems to film customers, without their authority, because they don't trust their customers to scan and bag their own groceries. Idiots.
Then when all their staff at the warehouses start striking they just don't do anything and wait out their employees knowing that they can't hold out forever.
Woolworths is seriously the Devil. | r/australia | post | r/australia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyWUtvUDZyYTNhanYxZTNZckN2ejRIWFltU2hGeGhxRTZiWTBtTzRsck5yT1hFdVN6QUdFSFVFQmlTYVF1LUIycEpuSWUwU0haRnBLbzdsODQwVzhDblE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzT1VYemV2XzVaNG1hY2R6cjgtTExUb2FkU25nWGlvNmQzbnk1eVRfMEJrZFN4WnZfb2F2WW9qS3NQcEpDVGszU1pUVDRtbTd2MGozcGxTWDhLazh0dHctc1o1ZFhfZVVUTkQzUkg2bkVRcVBERmFmd09McmwxVVNob1NUU1F6ZVp3aVZCcnI1UHlMbzBvZ2l3a0lQMmg4YXdUWEZEN25pQ2EwNW5TRWNVT2pFNFdNZmJsQ1lJR204Nk50cmZhc3lKRXU2bG1Gall2MWlOclpYalhOb0d2QT09 |
Hello, after the delisting of XMR from trading platforms I have been looking for a way to trade XMR, for BTC for example. Everybody is recommending that app Havano so I gave it a try and it looks promising, I set up a BTC address and tried to initiate a trade.
Issue is I am prompted to fund XMR to start a trade, and well I'm actually trying to get XMR at this very moment so I don't have any. Strong chances most users are in a similar position as mine and I'm thinking there's no way they did not think this through and offer another way to fund a trade, because currently if you don't own XMR the app is 100% useless or am I missing something here ?
Thanks for anybody taking the time to help with this. | r/monero | post | r/Monero | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQ2NZSUlOZi1hYkk3NG0yMW1HeFJtUU9XU2hkRk9pcjRxMDl6VVRpVFVCVy1mN3pCUFlfMmFiRUV3c1M2S3ZHZmJLQ1lGRzZ1STc1YUFHN0pHVXFiZlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQzhqSnI2anlRLXl5UmFFa3czUUZhc0ZscUNyY0ZaRzhPNDNyX2FlSXFtdmZDR1lXeEtaeFFoOWp1VnIzZkEzTURxbHEtYmZTVzFyX2FXUTRmelF2NTJMUE93a1A4MzFzRWlESFp3N0t3T2JfWmZHZk5vVEZkYld1aDE0cW5VeE5PN29EV3pxTHh5WUtPVEJVcXAtZWZlbFJtQktoZUk0dkdmTTRJLWZ0T292YkpIM1pmelk0Yk40T2ZFVWp5NFdfWTVyS2RGZFRKTm9HTUhnWDRFVzFsQT09 |
My family has relatives living in Europe and they asked us if we wanted anything over there, but we can't really think of anything. Most items here are cheaper or are of the same price. | r/asia | post | r/asia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOGl4QTQ1NDlLdjhwNzZZemRUVHVoeGZWN3ZpRnQtcVNkRU83U1NnMHB1T01vTHAyeElIM1BhdUxQRkFHZ2IzeC1vMXlMNUgtR0M0bjQ1bTRmVDY4T1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNWxPbjZaYWdvdUFCdWljeW91eXNCZERqVF90dW1IVDJZSTB3VGd2VTAxR21oT01zUm8zRFRUT0x2X1BQUklMOWszX3hCWjNJN2dYY01xT0hfM3dNSFp4c2xlU09rT0VQZGtWenRkQ2VGTUFwSzdKUUVTYkVERE1iUHg4cnBCZUEydUQ4cDFnN1ZUMmVJbldrZ2xDTTR2OGxNc1hXT3YwRG5IOXhvTzVtc2lwWmZ6ZEpWMk85aHJiT2FwbVdIVXJD |
So, I (early 30s) decided to treat myself and got a PlayStation 5 this Black Friday in Jozi. I’ve been wanting one for a while, and with the rise in cost of living in South Africa its become not as affordable. after budgeting and making sure all the bills were covered, I went for it. It’s something I’ve been excited about, and I figured it was a harmless way to unwind after work.
My girlfriend (same age range) didn’t seem thrilled when she saw it. She said I should’ve discussed it with her first and accused me of being irresponsible with money. To clarify, I didn’t touch any shared finances or skip out on responsibilities. This was 100% my money, and everything else is in order.
She’s acting like this is a huge deal, saying I’ll spend too much time on it and that it’s "immature for a grown man." I’ve told her it’s not going to take over my life—I’ll still prioritize work, chores, and our time together.
I get that she might’ve been a bit annoyed because everyone's asking her if she allowed it, but is her reaction an overreach? Or am I missing something here? How do I handle this without turning it into a bigger issue? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQXJCRlk2dFJtOW9ZZl9Gc0o2b01UMWN0ZUtVUzlteDQxelFpV3otdDg1RURCQkNMZlB1TWh2TkppejBWWWQ2c1Qwbm5EbDkzOWpoX1dLRDlEZ0F6eWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRU9LNGhXMGdCWmxQR2U2UkhYb0NISWFfZ0FsM0JSTEZTRm5XN0w0dTZWWWJza1lKejVmNU5yQ2d2Nm1valZGek5TVjl4QW10eHZ6dTFhOTNVdFU4NDc5T1VUb1A1aVYwQmZBV1dEQXhQVkZrMEJCYTluOUpUSmJmRzhnamlBM3VqWGRGUGRjdllTZlZuTDFmQ3ZmS1k2WURjb2dmQ09laHBrSjRWbFlRanJTWjZWUG9LY0pUUE5fQTJYbmswRkUwMVNfeF9GUVBuaXQzbXl6NzNhNXl3Zz09 |
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I (m23) have been dating my girlfriend (now ex) (f23) for a year and a half. She has borderline disorder but doesn't take medication since she couldn't find any that she was okay with. She refuses therapy.
For the first 6 months, things were perfect. Then, we began fighting, which gradually increased in intensity. She threatens to break up with me (or does it), I'm desperate to get her back, she sets ridiculous conditions that make my life difficult (ignoring family, purposefully skipping exams, ditching friends, etc.) and I accept because I love her.
I've never cheated or been dishonest, yet she has my location on 24/7 and regularly calls me if I'm not where I'm supposed to be. I'm not allowed to make plans without her knowing 24h in advance because it triggers her anxiety.
Yesterday, she wanted me to ditch my female roommate and friend, "Laura". I live with my male best friend, "David". Laura is his girlfriend of 3 years. I've only ever known Laura as his girlfriend. The reason I should ditch Laura is because me being around other women causes my gf anxiety.
We got in a fight over it (I don't know how to tell my best friend "yeah I can't hang out with your girlfriend anymore" without sounding insane) and she kicked me out her place at 3am. There was no contact until these texts. I've blocked her after sending the last text.
I've never stood up for myself before or accepted her breakup. I always tried to find out what's wrong and mend it. This was a year of pent up anger from my side. I said things I didn't mean. She can't control herself, but I can, yet I chose to be hurtful. I feel like I overreacted and am considering apologizing. My best friend (David) thinks I'm crazy and they suggested I post it on reddit. So here I am. | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycnpRVDREQV9VSzdhakFMaWgydjJxbS1aTm1NQ244czNxN2FtZTFhZ0o2bVZrMUI3TTZ6Z3pKOHNfZmlpRTdMeDlpQ3lyUmQzSXFiVEl6d2UtUERteVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzM1ZnQTdXWml4My1oSEh5RkJEb1dMLWlFSnBiaDhqTUZoYW5na1dZYXE2SHBzcTZCcV9ZTncwY0dBd3FpbjJWTG5RRjZEeUg4M3kxNTdHdHBJTWZZOUlNX0tUQk1QV2hZWnRCNTRLMS1xQ3NUMl9SYVBCbVJFLWV2NFNYZTF6dFQxem1xZkFQY0JxTlIyd0RyVzE1bktNdjBBLW13LVNBblJPbTZvaDMwM1o0aXdUb2NEcGdZMjVaWjhIckxIYmMtcHNLTEZjQU5CZk9nUFJxUG5PTEJ6QT09 |
So for a little bit of context I have been working for a pizza chain in a little city called "Lismore" in Australia (It's called a city, but it functions and looks more like a large town) for around two years as a delivery driver. I have seen some things that you would generally expect, drunken idiots, generally sus people, Someone even robbed me for the pizzas once. But I have had two paranormal encounters while on the job.
The first one happened a few months after I started, I was delivering an order to a part of the town that was further out, a few houses dotted here and there. I was driving along this road, each side there was grass and reeds about as tall as the car, which was an old 2004 Toyota Corolla, which is around 1.5m tall (Just under 5ft). As I was driving down this road this thing sprinted across the road on all fours, titled its head at me while it ran and ran on through to the other side. The only way I can describe it was that it had a dog head which looked like a part of its jaw was missing and I could see its teeth, it did look like it had dog teeth, I couldn't really see the other half of it, but whatever it was, didn't have fur or anything like that. It also did not have a tail, it's skin was looked like it belonged to a human, it had what I presumed to to be cuts and dirt marks around its neck, but it did move too fast to see the rest of its body. When the headlights hit it, its eyes were this creamy white colour. It came to around just at the start of the windscreen when looking at it, which would've made it around 80 or so cm (around 2' 7''). The way it ran was strange as well, almost like it was galloping, I guess. It lifted its back feet up to its front and sprung itself forward with its upper body. I did some research (I'm very sceptical to when it comes to paranormal stuff) into the area I live in and there aren't too many paranormal encounters or alleged cryptids, and nothing matched its descriptions, I also asked of my friends who was Indigenous and they couldn't think of any legends that matched what I had described (granted indigenous populations are very sparce in Australia and it is hard to find someone who is traditionally from the area you live in, particularly in my region). If anyone has any possible ideas on this event I would love to know.
The encounter happened around two or so months after the previous one. I was delivering a pizza to the more suburban part of the city, this street the I was on pretty much if you looked up one direction you would be facing a soccer field if you looked the other you would be facing this graveyard. I finished delivering this order and I get this sudden intense feeling like I am being watched so I pretty much sprint back to the car and hop inside, locking the doors behind me. I look behind me (Which would've been facing the cemetery) and there is nothing. I start up the car and go to re-adjust the rear view mirror because I accidently bumped it with one of those insulated food cells, when I got into the car. I looked in the rear view mirror and standing behind me around 2m or so (6' 7'') was this tall dark figure. I sped off and did not look back.
I also had another experience while driving in the area but this one happened when I was off the job. I was driving back home from a town close by called Ballina. This road has some areas which are reasonably wooded, like you can still see what is out there, its just that there are still a few trees. I was at one of these areas when suddenly out of nowhere this woman in this really long white dress walked out onto the road and stopped in front of me. I slammed on my breaks, I knew I was going to miss her as she was still around 10m or so in front of me and I was already going fairly slow because it was a wet road. However before I fully stopped she just vanished, she was gone, nothing was left behind. It was like someone was editing a video and just cut her out.
If anyone has any ideas about these three encounters (Especially the first one) I would love to know. | r/thetruthishere | post | r/Thetruthishere | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyY2xDLVo4NURkcm12R053ZDRfTVNjOVZQOHZDV3B2Ml9CY2RWUW1EQnVzcDJIQ3FVUUhwQlpJOENGaXlTMzM0X2praVl3NXh2Z2Q1MDQzbXJiMGNseFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQnhiNzNSWkpWS196OG12TFoyaUpWcFRJeWZ3aW0wa1FlUjVMOU5yMlRMTUs2MWlrVDhvclhLMnd4Tkp2QzZUNFJ0MWVXYUlNbmVmTjFYOTZwWDMwVGdpV25rQm1RTjNzbDdxQzBvU0kwdk03REJLaFljaDlINGlJVGFwejJKWnRBUUVYMEFta2g2QVVKYTNjY1V4YjkySTg5dnJmTmtaNm5zLVhOQ3VDY1FEQzRSOGM1UnJQZnUtcXctYm42QXp0c3ZVanVQTzl4Q1otTGVTa2huMGcxQT09 |
世祖順治皇帝
Shunzhi Emperor | r/asia | comment | r/asia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyV2ZSVWozQ002aC1qcGw2WTZqM29MamUtNnhnMjBjRUxza2JpbGQySWRodmJodWl4MnhTUDJmaF9EYWxXeW94ODQzeXVSeTdUR2I5VUNZM3hheUU2Z3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzN0FQUkttQlNJQXdza2pSMV9DbVY4cTR6ZDA5WHR0UzA2NGFDaU9MSWVMTFRjRlBtWkVRajdod0xFRVc1YUY2MkRhY0lhV2xuejhMMW56WkoyLXpSVEtlaEk0NHZSVjYwUkplaU9LcmtybnBCbEItclpnMjNidDZKMU9BN3lSellhOXVqamR1NDNLNTlqMVNlaDc4QUpDQWxXQ0RuUVVBaHZ3UkIxd1dleGZNaFkzdnVWOG5ra014UFg1SzdwcXdN |
溥儀？
I don’t read this | r/asia | comment | r/asia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyOThLTFdDMGlaNHo1TzRGYlVpd01SY0JkN1B0bXhYbkxxMWgxR0U5ZHp3NmZDOVY4cUtacGtheGplQ0NkcE4xRkxUYW9rd0FOS2FONk1ZUXpYc3p5MEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza2xwdnBmRFllcGxkclNoNElvd2Zyd0FEUDdIbGkwTjRBeUNCd1hyNGJyYjJfRUlPLXZseWVCMXVtMmNaM09sSWVsMGtSLUJIemkzTnZEenFvQ1VYRk9oNENlWHVhdVF6TE9fTVh0RllacV9vQlc5MkV4Z1F4YnFSX0hvcnBYejVFY25CLVNqV0p0VmxleEZjSDJxRE5qMjZUZ0p2T3BCX0w3U1N1MDRGWmtOOG5pNUdjM1c5cEFMYU9sM3ZxLTgzdkxkMXotS21BVVl2NllXSTd3Y2NYdz09 |
It’s beautiful | r/asia | comment | r/asia | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNlE0dzdfR2pGNkM0Z3E3MjkwZVNuZkZNZ2dKeUdjaDhEbmVwNmo5ak5tQm0tak5aNDRBWmFVTU5oYXVtZk9KaDhmWVE4NGpwcnhVQVdTU201Q21xY3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUmFLVTFueXVoRWp2MnZvSUtBbGFYTUxKS0VyQkFXcFpnWi1iSVdWZlB3WVNVd1J0WGg2QmFlc2JWUS1vRmoxRDF2OTdpenVSM1dBQjRrVWZBRjlVb2VOQWJtX2ZDRlFHZlJHZWpzMHBObHpiN2ZXQlI3V2pRelE3OGI3VVZibkdyX0JsVWxXSkdzZk43RkYzb2FxWTJsZlM3aWVUWWJvS1MxNS01SjRPcGVRPQ== |
Just looking for solidarity. This time of year sucks. It’s dark too early for outdoor play (none of the playgrounds in our area have lighting) and indoor play spaces carry so many germs. The constant cycle of sickness followed by toddler bouncing off the walls inside is miserable. | r/mommit | post | r/Mommit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycWFfSk91dEtwQ0tqeVhJS25vb2hIc01JR0Jyd1FtMmxnU3FHOEhGNDd3OGE0czFjSERLNDduZ0lRXzN2aU8yQTRrWFBYbHdacUFhZjl1MlQxTzFURHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdHZaQjFPQUNoYS1FY1R3cUhtcXZnM28tUFN1Q3hqVjhUMGZ4OHdoY1RwWFd1OGJBWFJJT0NrMC02UWQ4eVVfMHEtTnM3cnpvM25oSFg0eGVfbUN0dl93TC1kSU1BNEE5MXJUb2FzNDdaTjhOdkllWWRtMGJDZXpnVTRXWjBDelRfU3F1RXBHOXNLLUtHUkVISlotaExmb0ZMb1kzMU1BUU9MdnZKaXVCdlNkX1BYUElraWRWRU1GcDJpTkJSck1Z |
Hey all, I know in other posts people have recommended alot of different coins to buy and I've been going through it all. I have 2k to invest and I'm either going to put 1k in ETH and 1k in ADA, OR I wanna know what coins you guys think could potentially outperform these two in 2025? | r/cryptomarkets | post | r/CryptoMarkets | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyb0l1S3BzclNSbkFnd04zbnhHSV9fc0VCNjEwVWlWYjVtczBHSWUyMEhoTEdwX0FfRG1wRzhiNjZNdFltSVFESGx5TUNIS3hiUjFUSG93NEl4cmtvNnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeHk1RmczZFc1ZDUyUHQtY2kwRlJ0MWNDZk1CemRoRGFHRkFyNmxjaENPSmlERXRUdXhmdk9tYWZzRnE2NHppTTh6S2ZibWQ4Ymh6SFJOcktISXpvZE5lT0p1VzBvUkRnalpfTWpMSFVOeEFJSlhIS0dMck82T1NkTncxRV9GektYdFVyakJ4LWRuQUhSclZlcWZldnotV1ZqeC1zSUR4cU9fYlNNYnVidXdULUVfYzU0SmxmYVo4NFVIWHNXUk9RZkZiV0ZJeXFrTVVyNk1LU2xBSy1CQT09 |
My wife made a huge deal when she bought the animal crackers that they were to only be eaten by the 2 year old.
Fuck. That. They're the best snack in the house, and it's not like we're hurting for animal cracker money.
So as always, right after dinner I'm pacing around the living room and kitchen having a completely normal conversation with my boy while holding a handful of animal crackers, when he suddenly says - "Hey mom, isn't dad not supposed to have any animal crackers?"
Not only do I feel betrayed, but I am a failure. I thought I'd passed down the wisdom that no one likes a tattle tale.
Little fucker narced on me. | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVHN0MlBnTUlUM2ZWdi1CSDFIbHI2R2hBSmNFX2ZEMVJubGpoYkJ5aVQwRXBLS04yRnV6R3J2Rk5ib2dKdDU3ZDViYmw5VkNUXzV2RGRIYU5naE9veXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWlFhWkhZZFZ4WmY1anJQXzF2eV81VGliNXE0bFBvZENWMy0xaDlfbjkzSjhQdFNycjFiMzhuYUd4U0FYQllPa1FVaWRWNXZTQUJiM1FWLXQtTmoyT2xHQXV6bWY4S1o3MExwM25Bb3NHNmJjSzJ2YjV3Y3hqejN0ck9DXzJNSGV3S1VfRVctcHNzdndEOVZnblNKbnBZZ1IzellDZ01yMGIxaWZYX01EaDNwMUp6dnNWT2QtaG1Rd0hsOFpaSTBfZ2V6d1E4YkMyUzB2YV9Pa3N5dDhydz09 |
How do I (24F) politely tell him (24M) to feed himself?
So I’ve been seeing this guy for about 4 months now. We’ve gone on 10+ dates and now we’ve progressed to hanging out at my place.
I feel the need to be a proper host whenever he comes over so I always make breakfast & lunch/dinner whenever he stays with me. Now I’m thinking that was a bad idea because its like he EXPECTS me to cook for him every time he comes over.
I do feel bad though because he literally drives an hour and a half to spend time with me (I don’t drive) and I feel like I should be okay with cooking for him but it’s just so exhausting. I don’t even really cook for myself. I make simple rice, bean, and protein dinners for myself but he always wants me to make something that is NOT that simple.
It’s gotten to the point where I dread him coming over because I don’t want to have to cook for him. I’m usually exhausted from work and just want to have sex, watch tv, and relax & whenever we’re hungry, make it a team effort to get/ make something to eat so it doesn’t all just fall on me. Is that wrong of me?
I feel like his mom or wife whenever he asks me “what’s for dinner?” & I’m not! I’m just a girl who’s been dating him for a few months so I definitely don’t think I should be feeling like his wife.
He’s also pretty picky whenever it comes to his food, there are a lot of things that he doesn’t like and certain temperatures he likes his foods to be cooked at. He won’t complain if it’s not right but it still makes me anxious that he won’t like it and it just adds on more stress about cooking for me.
Last week I asked him to come over and he was like “sure, what are you thinking of cooking?” and I wanted to say never mind right then and there but instead I just asked him what he wanted and no joke, he sent me a menu he made for what he wanted for breakfast and lunch and said we could figure out something else to eat for dinner.
This man wanted me to cook him THREE DIFFERENT MEALS! I literally told him I actually didn’t feel like cooking so I’d just order him something from doordash but he didn’t seem to want that.
We’re supposed to be hanging out again soon & I just know he’s gonna ask me to cook again. How do I politely tell this man that I am not his mother and that he needs to feed himself and stop depending on me to do it? (In a nice way please lol)
tl;dr been seeing this guy for 4 months, whenever we hang out at my place he expects me to cook for him, I hate cooking & am getting tired of it. How do I tell him to stop depending on me for food? | r/relationships | post | r/relationships | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZTlFc054S0YwX1VoamoyWnk3VGhXbXBkTEtIZDZiaXhadUFmaFVzaFBzbmh1azA4OWJnUWNKMzhpZTFGZGhuaXByTHRPRWVQQ25mdllzMV9xeFczaW5mR01lTHBLSEpFdFR1Y1NtNTRBYVU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzS3ZXUjFqR3N1cFl3YkJjQ0VKV2xyNE45bW5lbE9WUEpqbmFaY2JPblI1NlMxbnVwQVNORzJ5TU56aFUxUnlNNl9Pa0dGMlZma0VNeW9EaWNxN3ZLWm0wNzRQX2IzWGJrNnpDMFlNMFZFdzlXVF9Ddi0xMUJ1M2tGaXB3dWpBTnpNSXlCMVY2NEI1WmhvUExqUUFTOE1QUVR5aXItVzdlMHhCMFFxTlF5Y1JUS3Qwa2IxRl94T2NCUVd3XzhIdXljR0lSTDZOTE5ZVDBXM0Fkd0d3b1JuUT09 |
I’ve been seeing a therapist and she is lovely, but the other day she did something that really puzzled me. Usually she would have a cookie or tea during our session, but that day she ate a seafood boil. If you’re not familiar with a seafood boil it’s a type of dish where seafood (e.g., crab, shrimp, crawfish) are mixed within a thick highly spiced sauce in a plastic bag. I like seafood boils, but I found the smell and cracking of shellfish to be extremely distracting during therapy. I would like to continue therapy with her as she is really helpful, but I’m scared of confrontation. Would I be the asshole if I told her to stop eating messy food during our sessions?
Edit for clarification: thank you everybody for your input! I will be sure to ask her not to do this again in the future. I am seeing her for depression. This was an in person session. I was really distracted because of the strong smell and because her hands were really messy. I just felt extremely out of place and thought it was bizarre that she was cracking crab legs and eating corn on the cob (a common item in seafood boils) while discussing my progress and thoughts. | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyeGF6a0ZlME9jbzYyVGlsUWo0ZUlsbzBmLTV0ZkZfNUFmMTdGb1AyVWdCQ0NkUE9RVkoyTVNldHhrZ2s3UFZ2Y3pLYW1tMnRfdkR3RjZneUhfbDl1LXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOWtuOU9YaFNEbldCNTVVN2FJUjlOQUstLXZ4ZnFKNzNDSEdaUUxrU3l6X09XOWRuNU40bG5FdXE0dmYza0ZHMVVPTUNwS0t3a2RXTVk2czJxcGhiMHlPcEtoMHZPVXpFd2NDWlN6dXMySW9lLXcxdkVib3lrcU9nM2RtTkZtQUFMYjNhb2pNQXRZNWZRT3VVZjg0QmlobU9DUDhBdzBhWGxla3RrbXlPbTlISHQ4Y0hCeXBwNmZ6ejVDTUVKdHZQUXZnaG1XckJocWVsVmdlWXlncERIUT09 |
Took this photo near the top of mount Teide in Tenerife at about 2400m. Haven’t seen such a dark and clear night sky ever. Absolutely amazing! | r/space | post | r/space | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyWEJ1REZ5NE43NTNCWlljb05aMHlNdzlOSXpGU1E2aG9YRkN0RVd0MDB4bngwcUtORTlRMWNJbmFJZ1otdHJxQVVSTmVWWUQ5RlVsSl80andNdkJBZGpVLXluaUhVTFdCaVhjd2JBX1NnZ009 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUWdWTFF2dlAwS0lWUnpfM2dlemVPMDFDV0c4SHItM1gyRVBnY0N4bWVaekFaZGp3Q19jQ3dueE5UaHJVYzJDS3JQWjAtNUI4Z1pULTRQNHNCczJrbzhFVlpHUk5CeDRrTHJaSmJRR25DdFdkem52TlpoMFh1X1BleWJOc3ItOGRzU3ZlNGdsb3QzYnRNZ1NLX1VJZkc2NEJBbEJPMUZEWHZOTGJ6akxVQ2tVPQ== |
We met a family who moved to our neighborhood a few months ago and started hanging out because our kids were the same age (4 years old). Very early on, I realized I liked the mom and child but found the dad to be obnoxious almost immediately but nothing that would make us want to avoid being friends with the family. However, I recently found out that this man has been charged with a number of crimes within the past year or 2 that make him to be a very dangerous person. After discovering this, I do not want to be friends with this family anymore. My child has only known this child for a few months, but she won't stop asking to do another play date. She keeps asking me when we are going over their house again, when we are going to see them again, and mentions that she's so happy they moved to our neighborhood. For a couple weeeks, I've just been saying that we are busy, they're busy, etc but she keeps asking. How can I explain to my child that we aren't going to be friends with them anymore? | r/mommit | post | r/Mommit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFydndORzExTE9jZzNBd1NnX0FYUEZxQm43S013NmNQRC1PSk5leFU3UHhHbHRqMjJqaEZyakk4WkZKNjFfN0FwRHF0SElKZi03M2IxaUNnX0pDc1I5TlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzLTcyODRSRi1ZS0dDcVNaR1ZqQ2FTbThIWVdQNXBkQWlZOHN5eWFUM21BOXJvbDF5clJGM3JQSmgyQlhpbDZCdkROU2lhbk5sV05Oeml5enJaU2FIT1owRGNmcmhfSmsxMEpJV2pKeXlDbDA4T0RZMC11cU5Cdk96MnNrc3JsWnRwMzM2V3JEd05DdUNfLTlwTl9OU21iTnB5NUVna3ZKLUx0bmJnSkN3Xy1VUDBqM3NZMG1DaENsNlFneHA1a19JODBFTDJ4bllEM3MwYmt4Z0VuQWNqdz09 |
Throwaway because some friends know my acc.
Since its Christmas time my friend group has decided to get everyone presents. I'd (18F) gotten everyone a present except this one friend (M18). We've been friends for a while so he knows how i react to people mocking me and that kind of thing (important for later). Whenever I'd ask him for ideas on what to get i'd be told "i have no idea" or "i dont know what I want" so it was hard to find something that they would like since he wasn't communicating at all. After 2 weeks of searching the internet i found a poster of his favourite character from an anime and i decided to get it. Soon after i bought it, I was talking to him to get ideas for another friend to get him a present and brought up a keychain of this character that I had seen and thought about getting. He told me he wasn't a big fan of anime merch but as long as it wasn't ridiculous he'd like it. So I started getting worried about the poster and eventually showed him what I had gotten. He burst out laughing at me and said "thats the most tacky thing you could have gotten me." and continued laughing for about five minutes. It was a good quality canvas poster and wasn't the cheapest so it's not exactly junk. I got upset since I had taken a lot of time and effort trying to find something that he'd like without him being helpful at all, and he just laughed in my face. I ended up crying and had to leave the call because he couldnt compose himself and it was making me more upset. If he had just told me in the first place he found anime merch "tacky" I wouldn't have bought it for him and we could have avoided this situation but he offered no help or advice on what to get him at all so I had no idea of knowing which is so frustrating, despite the fact that i had asked at least 4-5 times in those 2 weeks. I have tried to talk about it since then and he has been ignoring me ever since so I don't know what to do. I'm trying to get a refund on the poster since it hasn't shipped yet but its from Etsy so I'm not too sure on the refunds. Is it worth trying to get him another present? How can I talk to him about this?
TLDR I got my friend a poster for christmas, when he found out what it was he called it tacky, laughed at me and is now ignoring me so I don't know what to do.
I hadn't posted this yet but I just found out he told a mutual friend who was also on the call that he was going to tell me his "honest reaction" anyway and didnt care knowing that it would upset me. (I dont know if that makes a difference) | r/relationships | post | r/relationships | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyN2Uzb3RjZjdlaFJmYktQT3JxMEdqdGM1MTVCR09GVmlGRFpmWjR1RkdqZndFdHVVS2kyZGYtb2k5VXgtOWpxTG50TnVMSUc4QWRKQXgyUW8yWFhpRmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzclF0VmZQVmFoLWFnZFZfd1ZZOXo0d0NlMWFDbVdCaVlUZzVxOHJZTzk0aWt6V2hYSk5NNWRQXy1JMF9xdGdkcWVDdVYtNU0zSlZwdUxGOGJFTXBxSmp4bzBpUm5ZZUZ5WmZFbmZ4bHpnanRHYXlwamNSamttQlF4d2xkTmxHb0FzSFI2OWFKeHZkMEdQUHZKaVF2TE00VzRFMUxPNkl1bktObkVEMGZTRy1XRFRBMFV0SmpoaVhIU1VUSXFjLUJsZzBWeUVQM081NXBYUVdUblFzQl9nQT09 |
Although I have been trading on-chain for a long time and have used some bots, I have no understanding of the theory behind Ethereum, especially what the Ethereum roadmap is really about.I hope there are recommended materials that I can read to understand the Ethereum roadmap (I think this should be an introduction). | r/ethereum | post | r/ethereum | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyQ3l6MGtPMTNtdmRhRE50RW5PUTJpOUVRYTI3Y2Y1bFNjdDc1Y2tCR081T0traG42YW9lV0NlLUluajNEaVRTNkVuSFdWX0xWUmg0emxuQ014bnhXOFhwZjRYTF9ZdjB1cWIyZkI5bmpkZEE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQTlxYlo1eXFJNWFYVmFvUHZjenR1Z2lnNzhKV0YzUXFkdWlybUVRLW9BZV8zYkFRbTJacG5HTllVTEptYng4ZDVVN1Q2MFo5ak9XZVFiaVRMbDcyVng2TTVrWjRuZmx2cjloc05qOS1LWFN0clp3RmNzYThBREh4TkpzV21XQUVHREVxU0tNdjFKOFR0UVcxZTZORGhWcHEzeGVGdlNLcll4ajZTbGdURE00anljdXBpeVFyWHNsaWVucWFfVjJ6dEkzcGQ4R1JVU2wweE5hQTJCLU5Ddz09 |
I'm talking about the kind of medieval carvings one finds on [All Saints Church at Hereford, England](https://imgur.com/a/800-year-old-medieval-sexual-carving-on-all-saints-church-hereford-england-aYE1d9P).
What is the likely origin of these carvings? Was the church OK with this? Why or why not? If there was church approval, how would medieval clergy have reconciled these carvings with their seemingly puritanical views on human sexuality? | r/askhistorians | post | r/AskHistorians | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycldBb3V1VHBpQmJCYkpOckpRTnJ3WWJzamY2b2huWHVlOWVPMGZCWllxWTVaeDUxUmNPcUNKUms1S0hzS2EwakoyR0Q3MUNIdmQtS0hUTFRFRHpXSTFYa3RISHZqbFVKODMydEoyVDZWUTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOGJDMlBvOWJJY09UTVFQdG9SS19Tbm9UOHNYanB5WUhFalJ5VFlHZEk2aXlyai1vbVI2dDBpdGkwc3ctNVRHT0ZxSVNHem1zY0YtcWRvU3NJWGVxd3FVcUxKa2R5TXk2MEFyV0VRbG9SZWtiMDVERDRxQ3BLR0wzcmtPdXVFQlZxRERzZlotQmJRLVFwUWdGTTlyUzRCdnRTT2hJYWszMW1GNWwyLUctbHV0TGwxTmxUOXJ0em1OZmU4Wm1pWU1neV94MnN2Qk5lUkx0aGFObzU4Qy1NZz09 |
Was an early buyer in sol, like $20 a share and had hella.. but once it would go up I'd sell, then the meme coins got introduced and lost a lot too 💀 now it's higher than ever... beating myself up , but we gon be ight.. just needed to vent | r/solana | post | r/solana | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNGd4MzZEdmZlckY2eFQ0TktySmVRUVFsenNsRzR1cjdaenQ5cV9iWElJRjE5dC0wNld4WUllNFR6Y01JbW9DN3JJMm85ampORTNmX2dlaGFkdFBUTVVtUkdqZy15WGIxa2poSFpfTXRZcTA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbDM3UXVoR2Y5dFhCdXM1Nzh6NVU3ckZtTlVzYmhPVXJuRTYxWWlFejVTamw5TXNobFEzczdxMHpLX213OWdKUXdYeWh4aTVadzhJWjhTZGd0djc2b2wxMk9iN2RTRzh3SDFCdTJxV3ViN0VBZHJyRTR3R19OcGhESkFSTnlOTGI5cXBGU3NkX1NvbnJrcnZiSno4OVRTY1BGWG0zd2I1X0lsY1p5aEpSSEVvPQ== |
This dude was a vendor on nearly every market that ever existed and sold more DMT than anyone on any of them. He was a legend and then got busted. Seems he kept his mouth shut until now. He has gone public and has a documentary being made about him. Apparently Wired Magazine is about to feature him in an upcoming issue.
Hail the GOAT!
[https://dustymindspark.com/2024/11/30/the-rise-fall-and-redemption-of-akasha-a-dark-net-vendors-journey/](https://dustymindspark.com/2024/11/30/the-rise-fall-and-redemption-of-akasha-a-dark-net-vendors-journey/)
| r/psychonaut | post | r/Psychonaut | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyNld1VEh6YVRjMDlyMTdPVDBFOHFtSlprOVM4azF1aUE4N3N5UjUxdUtCdndpZjExVVMxbUlNNENCSzdHellrVFJ4Sm9jVzFTV1VSM2g0UVhKSllBRVBsc3dZQ2NvLWJaakNVTE5LWDRDc0U9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWnpTUDBZVXFMTGV0ZmpmV0F3dGRTSzdYZVdBcWx0OEQzVjFWM19VeHMyLU1NUldGX2puX0dTREd3TXNDN25xZTZsNk84U3dHYVVNSjBnSzFsaFpsMWFPSGRia01PcWwwRi1tcTJySEZZaWtrdGFkcExFT1BHNXNoRjRmc3l6WlZZcUlGcXhzMWdpZWJCYm9DdGhMOTQ4aEd3cmRFeFBvMG5uTzQzSWRYaFQxMVpQdk92dGV2UG1mNmF4UHZxVmc3MkRaTG9mMzNsakZQSXRvLTY2Tm8wQT09 |
I 34f life with my 44m boyfriend, with my 12m kid. (Not his father) on occasion, my son likes to cook his own dinner, using whatever ingredients i was using. (Cooking chicken for dinner he wanted to season and cook it differently that what i was making) my 44m boyfriend has a huge problem with it (amongst other things) my boyfriend has a habit of telling me i let my son do whatever he wants and refuses to see anything any other way. Its constantly "why cant he just eat whats made for dinner" its not all the time my son does this,its maybe once or twice a month. hes a pretty good eater of my dinners even when they arent the best. On top of it, my son cooks himself breakfast every morning before school, usually 2 eggs a peice of toast and carmelized onions. (Idk hes on a onion kick) and my boyfriend hates it.
Please reassure me my boyfriends being rediculous. But aitah for letting my kid cook for himself sometimes? | r/aitah | post | r/AITAH | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyajZHenZGQlJ3RVRCTXgwMU0tejdYS21jUElnZ3ZOZi16UDhIYlNxZU8wZU9wZm5NUTFkWUNVZjI3MnNwNTNVYmJ3T0NfY2dnaVd1ZEZ5ZllLU3AxTlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZTBPQzJjTU80OWZ5SlljTzRxS3E3eUNnT3RZUXExQXp5TXlXcVB1MExfNjl3bVRGbFE5SWh2T0F0emRYYkg2bTQ2am1YVmVqRnU5WUNsbWZKdDU3Y2dManhOTXpxbjdkYXhiaV9XT0NrenNoalBESk14SHJGQnJ6dmgta0w3NXk0TWRfVVRjTktYODQ1WHVTQmhsbktucTZ5RHpJYXNxdUhuNnkyRmtlRmExTVdLTTR2SmlSbkFDS2VDVWtMNWRQ |
Planning my daughter’s second birthday and she is obsessed with Moana. I was told by a friend that even if done respectfully, it’s still cultural appropriation and shouldn’t be done.
What do you think?
I’m not talking adults dressing in grass skirts and coconut bras. My daughter would dress as Moana and we’d have decor. It would be very tasteful.
Edit: I always fully intended on letting her be Moana. Was just interested in other opinions. Thank you all for your support! | r/mommit | post | r/Mommit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyWVBYMGlyMHRlaE9obkltOUtTMmxubjhuOFBiMzZXbHdpVjd2ZC1mMlhqS216T0h5b3pxLUlacjdEWFdtR3NvZUVRanoxZmRLaGo1ZUp0Ukl4NGVFWTV5bm5WQjB6TTlBQUNIWDdqYVNvdDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzc2V5Zkt6SV92bXFZYzcwMnZUcnhOdzBNY0ZLclE5Q0lfdmJvNFJPTVJHcXRKVkk1MkRwc0d5MS1BZkhlZGprMDIzQzFIYmNJc2x0SVlyelB1ZnUyNW85UjY1dFp0TmJZVkNwajdqQ2VMeTFDS3VLejFsMVVEemFhYlN0M3NzbGd4VDlfcy1wb2szSlAtcTl6b3hPV0ZubEZleEE0YThMcWl2ci1fei1hNGdJR3kxaTNiX3g0OUlSQW5BT291ZnZWaVc2YXhvYXdTMExoT1NScHBsaXNEUT09 |
My girlfriend (25F) and I (26M) visited my parents for Thanksgiving, staying from Wednesday to Sunday. A couple of weeks ago, she told me she likes to get Chinese food on Black Friday because her family used to do that, and it’s a tradition she doesn’t get to do anymore. Initially, I dismissed it, saying we should eat leftovers since my mom likes us to stick around and eat with everyone. I also didn’t want to leave others out. But she convinced me it was important, so I told my mom on Wednesday night that we wanted to go out on Friday. My mom was visibly upset. I looked to my girlfriend and asked if we could move it to Sunday instead. She agreed.
Fast forward to Friday around 4:30 pm, and she told me she was upset that I didn’t care about her feelings. I was confused because I thought we had resolved it by moving it to Sunday. She said she still wanted to go out on Friday, so I said, “Let’s go.” But then she said she didn’t want to go anymore because she had eaten a big breakfast. I suggested we get takeout later, but she said it was fine, and we didn’t go.
Later in the car, she had a mature conversation with me about needing to learn how to let things go, and I thought that was the end of it. However, this morning (Sunday), she brought it up again and said she was still upset that I “dismissed her feelings.” She also revealed that this tradition is tied to her late grandfather, who passed away three years ago, and that’s why it’s so meaningful. She said she thought we were making fun of her for wanting Chinese food, which we weren’t. I told her I wished she’d said something earlier because we absolutely would have gone if I’d known how important it was to her.
She says she’s not mad at me now, but I still feel like she is. She also said I should’ve “read between the lines.” I feel like I tried to make it work on Friday and genuinely thought we had a plan for Sunday. Did I mess this up? AITA?
UPDATE: Thanks for the feedback I apologized to my gf and we’re okay! | r/amitheasshole | post | r/AmItheAsshole | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFybFNGLWtvTnk1c1Y1akJLWFhoZlJDODIzV2RsMHBJTnNvb1R1ZUJySTJILWR4SzVTaVdfWS1YZFlVZkstc1ROWmJwYWwtdEpjb2YyUEg4TVY5SFMwZmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWkZwYzJRUU5oTG9nQ3Z4eE01MmNVVUxYYkhwQ1dSbTVYT1NZOHd6VWFkX042ek1RWnVmU1h3cGxIRUF0SDFKSm1SejV0aHo3Sk5zUXE4ajRWZXg3eks3VEtaYUN0c2o4MXFKbGZjT3pyenIwUkhhckcwaEVNMGd1RGtDc0JaM1BTY3M2eXJxdzdXcE1qWkF6cDR1R1VmaWZEa1A2aUlSa1ozNnJiS1hrblBiZExrdDhpa2p3NlYzT3NFcUliM0hkVGM5YU1SR29wVVlxeEFzQ253MEJlQT09 |
ok so this is wild and still creeps me out. back in 2015, my friend lived in this old, super eerie house with her mom. she always told me how unsafe it felt, like something was off about the place.
one night, she went to bed early, and out of nowhere, she woke up terrified. she said it felt like someone was sitting on her chest, choking her, and she couldn’t move. she ran crying to her mom, totally freaked out.
a few days later, she was messing around with her mom’s phone, taking random pics (she was still little and thought it was fun), and she accidentally snapped a photo of their kitchen. when she looked at it, there was this weird shadowy silhouette in the corner. she showed me the picture, and it was honestly terrifying.
her mom was so scared she went to a psychic (idk what it’s actually called, but someone who deals with paranormal stuff). the psychic told her to leave some food on top of the wardrobe where the silhouette was seen. so they put a biscuit there before bed, and when they woke up, the biscuit was half-eaten. i’m not even kidding.
then the psychic said she could sense that some kids had been murdered near or in the house, and their bones were buried somewhere nearby. my friend’s mom didn’t want to dig or even look into it—they just packed their stuff and left as fast as they could.
but here’s the craziest part: after they moved out, the house literally caught on fire and half of it burned down. like, what even was that?? i still think about it and wonder if it was spirits, some kind of curse, or just bad energy. has anyone experienced something similar?? i’m so curious what you all think. | r/thetruthishere | post | r/Thetruthishere | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFycHE0RzVaZ01waF80VGlzTkFqektYdlBublhXb2otb0Z3cUtZLVhwaUszMlFlWFl4NFBEVUVPVHMtVVVoWmZ2dkUxelQzTVgwMDFpSFNuX0t0dkRKbEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzb251amwwQ0xCSTQ0MXk0Vnk3NG9HR1pSS0NGN1ZLVGJmYmNKNnBVWjdrUm9VMWpyUzdqSktrQlNTaDhjTl81dG4xVGVtSEpnclRDXzhvdWk0a1VVdUw5RjdHS2hXQnVTN2loTF9VSGtJeTFMdnJ4NHRXejRUdWJmcm5PTElNZXJ2aHY3RGg4Q0wxLThZTER3c2EwR2JpN0RnOE11NjdxLVNQVVRwOXllWWxSMGFWT203VFVjWWJyUWN2bmk5bm9O |
Christmas is coming, but you know who isn’t?
Company.
I’m not hosting. I’m not cooking. I’m not cleaning.
If someone does come over? The house is going to be what it is.
To drink, I can offer you tap water, homogenized milk, or coffee.
Snacks can be found in the cupboard or on the floor.
For Christmas, I’m giving myself a fucking break. | r/mommit | post | r/Mommit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyd3lIT19TNVN0UEFqQURiVDk2bWZ6cTZ0TExFMFllLXVZY2VuR3c1UWNaTUJKTVlIY2prSjdEQXF1cGhyWWpqZXY3R3lKZGI5anpPNmFjSVB4QXNGS3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbDZVM1RDaEZhdkZXRkdKbDc0bnVtUGk2RkN3bzUtVjNGTXVJZU1EUm5xS0RqazFwUlMtNEtBTE5YZFZHVTRTd0RVLVQ0RzRKcm53WjNrVUZ1dGpWZXJGZl9GV21ReVlNUDl3ZkJjeURxZ3BReXRIemFBNS1hT0tOcWJyVlFWX2sxTDVqTkFUTlJyZFU0dTVUdkIyOTE2OTJZdFcxb2lUZTBrRTFyRkZPS2dhRzV4cUVNNUhwZGc0SHNYR0VIbGw5 |
How do you do it? How do you find the energy to even get up? I’m struggling so much. I have zero energy to even move let alone be a fun mom and play with my 2 y/o. I’ve always had issues with depression but now it feels like I can’t even take a single moment to myself to process anything on an emotional level. I’m more exhausted than I have ever felt in my life. I feel like I’m just an accessory to my toddler not an actual human being. | r/toddlers | post | r/toddlers | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyVFdiLXBnRVBIMHNsbDdPdzJPTENxRHRlTThndVJ0dXhIdDQ2RkxKT01wMFBqckRwdmVCcVd2clJWTlNWaUtlRVBTbTdoSm9uOTJOcXlLTkU2ckRHT2hZRWhfaWwzbkdKNlhJMHYyVV9LWnM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRVRXdTRHN3gyeE9uZXJ6bzZhODZCa3lPV3Rud3hEakxvdkgxaWQ5TWwxUHF4bXdoVXBjODFXMHR6X0JpaHE3am5ybl9xRnZMbzI0Q1N5Rlk5a2lWNGZRT0E0VTg3NmhRenJUdDh2eEFsOEd6emZJYmxlTmRqdlAzR1daS3FxeGczNUNMXzVlRndEUkpKRy1WamQwX2hLcU9Od2NJVEdXOEd3OGZPa2pEYVY4PQ== |
My husband and I have been together for 25yrs. During those years we have had some rough times and I've thought he was cheating. I was even planning on leaving him up till about 6 months ago. That is when he seemed to do a 180 and started doing and saying all the things I needed him to for me to stay. So of course I've relaxed and gotten comfortable. Like many couples in long term relationships, we don't have as much sex as we did in the beginning. Yet I've noticed and said something about how he doesn't seem to want it at all. He doesn't make me feel sexy or wanted, just comfortable, like a best friend almost. Anyway, two weeks ago he started driving a work truck from his company. I've road in that truck several times and I know for sure I've checked my makeup in his visor mirror in that time frame. Well yesterday I went to check my makeup and saw a red stud earring shoved into the material on the outside of the visor. He said its been there and it must have been from the guy who had the truck before. He even said the guy he carpools with pointed it out a couple of days ago, so there is no way it wasn't there before, I just didn't see it. I'm sorry any woman would notice an earring in the first 20 minutes of being in any vehicle much less her husband's work vehicle. The way it was stuck in the fabric of the visor seems like a side chick thing to do too. Like it was meant to be found. Of course he goes off about me not trusting him and how he doesn't have time to cheat and how we have been getting along and I'm going to ruin that... well I can't shake the fact I know I would have noticed a red stud earring the first time I was in his truck. So am I overreacting, or is my husband cheating? | r/amioverreacting | post | r/AmIOverreacting | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZXI1VXVuaHVoMjVTZnVKdDN1SV9Ga25Vc2hxOUctbG9HaC1kM0o3WVh4blY3X0NIeWxzQXBJWGR6cjRpbk1rOW5ZLW5UNUZwakpxampiem1GLTU1bUNlSmlCSzZmaGJZVXNQZDIwQ1Z3dGM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQ08xVmYxYnVKdjNKQlN0enBJeHFWOHB0YkZGLUJmZ2J0dmRxVWpGV0ZiUHhRak5PSmwtTWh6c0xPenpCSGdQcWpJQkxaaU1fc0JzdkF2NV90T2UzdHJrdG1EYW9PSWIwdXhIck8yUXlwLUd5WS1uYmNqdVhHR2tVME5Bd0dCTFhvTjdSZThITFNBOGlQUmNnQU4zRHk1X2w5VGJYajVvMjFHd252U1NxM0VGcmJKT0xGZzBDei1OaFNYTEF2UVdJUV92NDFSS0VERnZuZDlNYl8tMlV6dz09 |
Every clothing bought for my boy must have like 300 of these these. Fuck. | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyemtFeU1PNVE0b3M5ZmhNZlpPVkpqNWluRk1UNTMzY3FXUlVUcUpBRm82REViS3dFTkQtQzkwa1JuYzluYllvOHZxZ3BqS2R0cUU2SVNObFZnUG80M3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWWhyNkpTbzN3NE1xX0VGUEZOeXlFa1FiN2U5TUdBd3J6RzF4N2FJYkpvcEhlb3R6S1pGS040MzZwbDY0emVPb3RkMWxORWUyTGRPaTFoVmRockdRWk1VbFF3QkE0dHZ6b1ZoZktjZ2p4bkRvUWx6ekljRUVmUzVGTWRSZjA0N0hzTUVVQlYwZk4xQjJJelpEZWVkVGhNNTl6NDFlTENGY3pIVVJybWVqY2FFPQ== |
I was promised great love and a heartbreaking ending, and that’s the only reason i was putting off reading this book. It sounded like just the book that would devastate me. Don’t get me wrong, the book is certainly sad, but in a somber, drab way, not in a heartbreaking, stay with you for a long time after you finished it kind of way.
Throughout the entire book bad things just pile on for our protagonist Patroclus. There really aren’t many moments of reprieve, the dread is ever present in the book. The main thing i felt for him is pity and then annoyance for being so passive. The only time he ever showed any agency is when he was following Achilles around, making sure he stayed by his side.
When they were in the mountains, with a god who could supposedly teach them anything, any skill, fighting or life, Patroclus apparently didn’t learn much of anything. They were in that cave in the mountains for years. Just the two of them and the teacher who could teach him anything…
The romantic relationship is not fleshed out. For the most part Achilles is an aloof character, we don’t really know the boy, and later the man, we see him through Patroclus’ eyes only. And from his perspective, everything is perfect, from his beauty, to his excellence, to his “mischief” and sense of humour. Also, apparently Achilles is somewhat of a pacifist in his early days. Now, I don’t know much about Greek mythology, but i know this just isn’t so lol.
The war sucked though. I would also hate if i had to go, so understood them there. Fuck Agamemnon and Menelaus, and fuck Paris and Helen of Troy too.
Like i said, this book is sad throughout, and even after both of them died, things somehow still managed to get worse.
If we didn’t get that resolution and small glimmer of hope in the last few minutes of the book, my rating would go from 3, to literally 1,5.
This book didn’t devastate me into a heartbreak, but it slowly drowned me into numbness. | r/books | post | r/books | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyZDlQeW1WUUpVQzBfWTNOTTFKZ0lCSDM5d1ZIdDZoa000MW8tOTRzUkR4QUo1cjJnajdRYmVCTTROaW42VU5kWnBMQlNyUnhmemJDZU1sRDNqWFd3T3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWkYybjF4bmlVWmFRSGlzVTJ5VUpGaEZGWVE5cmlYVDY4RUhLbW9BV1QwX0ZiSkltQTFfaTFuR0VPM1ZWVkNoTmd0Z2RMOEpkb3hKMUZRVHNGTGFtOGtaQ056b1k4WVBMbE96SWRRTl9tR1hjQnhTdUFMZy1uVC1nSE1IMVo5b3lTbHhMNkJhVWt5ZGNjQjA3TDlIbjdFY0dWVjlDeXM2LUxLV1VLRlpFS3A2djBEanl2NEFyT1RYSUtyNEVteUZi |
Based on the context I think it's probably is the former, but I feel like either works to an extent.
Also why does he neglect to include a verb in the sentence?
Aren't verbs an important part of the sentence? It conveys a completely different meaning whether the word is "do" or "are". | r/tooafraidtoask | post | r/TooAfraidToAsk | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyU2FheE0zM1hrQVlXS3F2cmJLSnkydXZST3AzR3VOQTRvZzRldzNkRG1lU21ldlVZZHllZVVMSEx1VWNBQXpUaDVWcnRKUU93R3dhSjdEblpkT3Ztclk5V1J0OV8tWDllc3FwT09BQVlmNzg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza21XT2xFaDlhdkRDTlZIWTd3OHVndjR2MGJGTVFIREQ2ZW93MzFVOGJNNWNOUXlHYWVyOVM4SDVxVnV6T2JhMGVOd0lnd2ZuWDBwSFZnT09Ma0w2QS03aGJVMUpvdkxNN3ppSGwwQjdTLXpKQTZUVDk3R04wWk5XXy1QaE9aTTJpZkh4Z0NrV0NfZ2hHZUlqUFpHbkFVTzJyOXJWQ2RLN0tPTUtUTWphZ3Q1SU5zMmN3ZE9Na1RLQ3pDaFBTNEExZ25Yd0wtYTV6cXJuR3l4Q0NZVmdoQT09 |
I'd like to present our Christmas tre.... bush. We have called him Danny Devito because he's as wide as he is tall and she bought him because he had character. Its pitiful isn't it? | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-01 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFyWXhWTU5xRzBBSFJOSl8zYmt6RTQ0TDRnX1FsdjNjRlN6VG1OVFN5bWlqclMtbC02bm1RbTZHWktGYzFZWWkwZ0dYQ0RyM1M2QWRKWGJXM21PcWJ6Mmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzLXRqbE1wSUowQVlzdUN4MkVjaDQtdnJoSEYzZmYwekxyc2JJSzhEcUhVQXMzQ0hCSXd0aXV1emVBX19RdGt4NHZjSW5JUmZMcEthQU10RUJMajM2dzU2RTN1NUJuTWRnMlh4TjJLbm5BMnpJUlE0bTNlM0dTMkRBWE5Fb2RpcG1hY0RZdGZHSGc5XzFickw1RFBRNlFJMjdXU0lfcE5XVXJmYUtCMmtaVFNtSC1sZEVKTmdaY3BFS2NkVUdfNVEydDJTTTRDa2MyclA3TWtwQlNrS0tLZz09 |
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